I haven’t play the tuba since high school 2012-2015. I recently went to MEPS for my physical exam. I’m highly interested in joining the Army Band but nervous because of my experience. This video really motivated me to do the audition.
Last I heard, once you get your civilian clothing and can leave base, that's when you can see visitors. I bieve you get your civilian clothes around week 5 or 6
The school has plenty of gear for everyone to use. I've never owned my own tuba and have always played on the Army's instruments. You could probably use your own if you could find a way to get it to Virginia Beach.
The curriculum has changed several times over the years. I believe the navy/marines is still a 6 month school. Some of my older coworkers also went to AIT when it was much longer.
Army transportation is real weird, so there's no telling. If you do drive, they should pay for your mileage instead of a plane ticket. I think after graduation day they probably don't care a whole bunch what you do to get home.
I believe the Army-wide policy caps new recruits at age 35, but there are certain waivers that you can get depending on the circumstances. A lot of new musicians are older than the average recruit because we often join after doing college, music ed, or transfer from another army job.
During AIT I had my phone and my roommate bought a whole Playstation and TV at the PX to play in the evenings. Whereas basic training is 24/7, AIT schedule is much more like college where after the duty day, you have much more discretionary time and freedom. I remember going over to the library to play video games and watch movies, too.
When I was there, we had several spouses and families visit on the weekends. The installation is open to civilians just like any other post (with visitor's pass etc.). All the students will be living in barracks during training, so families won't be able to stay on site (unless they want to pay for the hotel). But of course wherever you get your permanent assignment after graduation, your family will be moved out there with you.