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Use These Tips to Lovingly Confront Someone Who is Violating Your Boundaries 

Dr. Henry Cloud
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In this highlight from The Dr. Cloud Show, Melissa, a personal trainer is working with some loyal clients that she has trained for a very long time. She has worked with them for so long that the relationship has moved from trainer to trainee into one of a mutual friendship. Although Melissa is thankful for the steady business, her clients now think that because they have become friends they do not have to work as hard, thus violating a boundary for Melissa. How can she speak the truth with love and address some of these issues without causing conflict in these close relationships? Dr. Cloud reminds us that we lose freedom when someone is in control of us and our emotions, and if we're going to be the most helpful to somebody, we have to be ok with them walking away if they don't do, or like what we've said.

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Комментарии : 28   
@Brian-rs4ug
@Brian-rs4ug 2 года назад
People pleasing is a trap. We must learn to know what our own boundaries are and learn to live by them.
@bevsofroniuk1193
@bevsofroniuk1193 2 года назад
... to the degree that you need somebody, you'll be less helpful.... I need to learn to be ok with them walking away
@watchinglistening101
@watchinglistening101 2 года назад
These are clients. Keep your private life private. (to the degree you feel you need to.). 🗝️☑️
@dionnem.pringle9796
@dionnem.pringle9796 Год назад
I was praying to God to help me confront someone with love and a respectful way and God is so good that I came across this video. It helped me... gave me courage. I listened yesterday Saturday and went to church to confront a fellow believer today Sunday and I felt a bit nervous but I pushed through it. It felt good to set my boundary and let them know that they crossed mine and did not respect how I felt. They apologized and said they will not do it again.
@margafrantz4406
@margafrantz4406 2 года назад
Yes people pleasing is an entrapment.
@rhondamiller9356
@rhondamiller9356 Год назад
I suggest that the trainer set up guidelines, in writing, with her clients before the first meeting or during the first meeting about how they will work together. Include why the guidelients are in place. When a boundary is crossed, remind the client about guidelines.
@saraliehitesman4547
@saraliehitesman4547 2 года назад
See my problem is I overthink about pleasing the other person. Plus I think that my tone of voice needs work, as many people seem to take what I’m saying the wrong way, as many times the other person takes what I say completely not how I intended it to be.
@sarahhenson8572
@sarahhenson8572 2 года назад
Gentle is my prayer these days
@KT-sv6jx
@KT-sv6jx 2 года назад
Awesome Advice Dr. Cloud 👍 I Also Think She Is Being Too 'Open' About Herself And Her Life. That Is Causing Them To Lose Respect For Her As A Professional And Not Taking Her Seriously. They See Her As A Lonely Person Who They Need To Help Not Realizing She Is There To Help Them In A Professional Manner. And I Agree She Needs To Grow Her Cliental And Then She Won't Feel Like She Has To Rely On Them For A Paycheck
@nancykwan4288
@nancykwan4288 Год назад
There was a lot of wisdom in this exchange that I needed to hear. Thank you, Dr. Cloud!
@debragibbs9347
@debragibbs9347 4 месяца назад
"You're paying me for my professional expertise...I wouldn't be being fair to you to let you slide."
@marilynschmidt6400
@marilynschmidt6400 2 года назад
Let's face it. You just can't get along with everyone 😁
@excellentchoices
@excellentchoices 2 года назад
Thank you Dr Cloud …. Thank you so much….
@Mary-hs3gu
@Mary-hs3gu 2 года назад
What's best for them? It's what you do with kids, also. I think most would appreciate that you really want what's best for them. If they don't continue, I'm sorry.
@tomolyn8108
@tomolyn8108 2 года назад
#BusinessBoundaries #Don'tGetTOOfamiliar #WithGRACEseparateBusinessFromPleasure 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 #STAYFocusedOnTHEPLANforTheirBestRESULTS
@PatriceDEvans
@PatriceDEvans 2 года назад
Oh wow! I can’t believe you have a RU-vid channel. I’m such a big fan and I recommend, share and gift your book for years. I’d love to work with you. I’m a relationship coach now. 🙏🏽. Thanks for your help.
@reardelt
@reardelt Год назад
Well - it depends what's her priority. Does she want her client's money or does she want to improve their client's health?
@debragibbs9347
@debragibbs9347 4 месяца назад
Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst!
@himankaghosh7307
@himankaghosh7307 Год назад
Very practical.
@hazellmarte609
@hazellmarte609 2 года назад
Always helpful
@MB-tk3xd
@MB-tk3xd 3 месяца назад
So helpful. Thank you.
@excellentchoices
@excellentchoices 2 года назад
Your the best !!! So many great ideas !!! We need to focus on something that’s going to help … so good … This will be a good place to grow …
@glennavelilla156
@glennavelilla156 2 года назад
This was very helpful! Thank you kindly
@viktoriavak4117
@viktoriavak4117 Год назад
Thank you! I’m the same way 😊
@graciegg24
@graciegg24 Год назад
A good rule, don't mix business with pleasure.
@littlepixel1650
@littlepixel1650 2 года назад
What if someone is like a train? They steam roll right along no?
@debragibbs9347
@debragibbs9347 4 месяца назад
Clients aren't family... Find your family in your spiritual community...
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