Oh I have a friend and all the siblings completely opposite of their fighting parents. They were turned out the most beautiful people emotionally and mentally. That was a surprise for everyone around them that how kids are like so full of love and so positive in each and every aspect of life. That was a real live example I have seen.
Our experience is determined by us, by our brains, but it is a mistaken belief that you can control all of your emotional reactions with pure intelligence. No matter how smart you are, you are going to have automatic reactions. Of course, if you know your mind, if you are aware of your own history and why you react in this way, it can help you identify what is going on, but first the emotions are there. Better accept them, look deeply into them, understand them and try to let them go. If you go around saying: I'm intelligent, I should not, may not, feel angry, sad, whatever, it's not going to work and you are only adding to your pain, because your emotions are not the ones you feel you "should" be feeling.
Some times these sayings are quite in applicable..for a common man...as human patience is skin deep.. sadguru namaste I bow down to ur lotus feet... my question is how can we handle situation when opposite people who always misbehave with u deliberately where ever u go. Movie ...hotel, shop, they send some one to misbehave with u. It's like mob lynching....its a scenario which generates continuous constant nagging pain.... how do u handle this.
For " LOVE" how many love now I mean genuine love, as in for one to be loved thee must be the signs of the person in question being comfortable to narrow it down for some people to receive love or give one there must be signs of prosperity as regards to materials possessions, even if the person is wealthly endowed mentally cause to me there are different forms of wealth, in order words without that material possession cause that is what specify the person's worth you won't get love or be recognized in the society today
Did He killed his own wife ?? Let's see some facts. . 1.he didnt even waited for his father in laws arrival for his wife funeral ..he burned her body before their arrival .. 2.Her parents missed the last chance to see their daughters face . 3.He burned her body .. but one who attains mahasamadhi their body is burried .. not burned.. but he burned her body .. why? to escape post mortem .. to destroy evidence
