Why can't you live like our ancestors there's a reason the man had his own house he didn't live with his wives he you would not even ever know your wives moods are if you live in.your own house
I was getting to know a guy who coparents with his ex wife and lemmi maina tell you HE WAS DEFINITELY THE PROBLEM ....though in his head he thinks the wife was....iko shida men don't know how to communicate and express themselves and once the woman leaves he says it was her....nliona huyu kwanza ajifanyie self discovery ... requested him to go for therapy ju siwezi anza safari na mtu hajajielewa 💯.. kwaheri kwake💯🖐🏽.
Kawaiteress katapata mtu mwingine. We shall revisit this issue baadaye. Anyway, I have some young girls I have worked with and they really taught me a lot about themselves and their generation which they told me that they feel they also want to be polygamous, polyandry that is, and therefore, the man might be sharing. Wait and see.
😂😂😂niliona beshte yangu D...ati alidanganya son of man amereform akarentiwa nyumba Na biz wines $spirit....Na Bibi akachukuliwa Na caretaker😢mwisho son of man alileta mapolisi Kwa caretaker ati Ni mwizi all because ametoka job akapata waitress ameoa bwana....😂😂😂😂guys PLEASE grow up....if you feel it's not working for you ....just go....I will figure things out.
The worst mistake the guy has made is to run into the arms of another woman. If something has failed, take time to find out what went wrong and fix what needs to be fixed. Find out how you contributed to the failure. Then make your moves after sorting things out. Jumping into the arms of someone blindly will complicate your life.
@mpendamuziki you are not wrong, u r too theoretical. Women today NEVER listen. Then at best they will drawn at you to make their points heard. She won't talk to u for days n in the process u should 'understand'. Is that more clear now?
@mpendamuziki you why I said you r so theoretical. Ask us who have been married sometimes you look at your person n shake your head. But they r still ours we love them regardless coz ata ukimuacha you'll find same same same wahala in a different personality.
Unawezaje angaliwa kama mawe for no reason?? Unashinda umechokoza bibi yako alafu akireact yeye ndio mwenye makosa. Men want to misbehave but still be treated like a king.
Yes Maina mbona haendi kwa waitress permanently that means that man is the problem how can you suffer and still stay there how now?Your wife was right ulikuwa umalaya now you making excuses instead of leaving your wife peacefully.
Went straight to another woman hands without sorting his home, now a woman is left at home lonely and miserable,the moment she finds out her man moved on already she will be healing emotional torture forever 💔😭💔😭i feel pity for her
You want a man to tell you when he is leaving? You should be prepared for anything they can ran and move even to another country even stop expecting too much that's the reason our ancestors had arranged marriages with close people some one they had a history on family history not strangers
@@janendegwa5462 Arranged marriages should actually be embraced again. Currently marriages are failing left, right & centre because people don't have a meeting of the minds & values. This is the only way we can save the family unit.
@@Collins29arranged marriages are for convenience not love .Yes they might raise children ,but a marriage without passion is a business deal. Consider,if as a man you always come home late and your wife doesn't bother to tell you ,she would love for you to come home early so that you can bond with the children.That would imply that the lady loves u for what you can do for her .They even say," watcha hata alale nje bora analeta pesa,".
Why can't you men make a solution without blaming anyone ... Stop that narrative of blaming you should ask yourself ...what role did you play that lead to the breakage of your marriage
The world is one bog strange place with strange human beings, enjo the life experience but rememberto love yourself unapologetically, that job, marriage or partnership life will come to an end one day, make sure you are ready for it. Dont be Dumb!
The problem is adopting a European lifestyle ,I believe our ancestors had the ideal lifethe man had his thingira by himself to train his boys the wives had their own house with the young kids and girls no room for conflict, so people should leave this European lifestyle at least have a double room minimum the man should have his space he would not have known his wife anafura if he had his space
Those days women had no say In their marriages, they were for birthing children,nothing else. The lady does everything such that the children don't even know the purpose of a man apart from provision.
@@DadaSophia-rk2kj better that life than this one of today where women are deleted stalked it was about the community and your brothers cousins knew their responsibility to protect you from deadly husbands and a husband also knew the importance of his wife basically it was for the good of the family community sasa wanawake wanauliwa they are under threat when you hear a man complaining about his wife and there are no community solutions its a matter of time he delets them
@@DadaSophia-rk2kj there were divided roles the man taught his boys and he also had rules he was home early checking making sure all his children were secure and he was also the spiritual leader of the home not the pastor so he was very impiortant like the pastor
Maina you are not married so you can’t understand what marriage is. You can’t walk away as a man. The only thing you can do is to find a peaceful solution. And I am not giving a definition for “peaceful solution”.
Ai those waitresses have been through a lot on life when they find someone they at least true to make the man feel good feel like a man anyway those things our mothers were supposed to teach us
I feared that and I thank God for wife I have who trusts me and gives me peace. It happens and I know of friends and relatives who are always having the same problems. Anyway, to be honest, there is something the wife saw about this man and that is why she doesn't trust him. This guy sounds like a cheater
