As a long time fan of Leslie I'm so DISAPPOINTED in her too. No biased but both Leslie and NoahJ are at fault here. The only victim here is his wife Martina give her all your support. As for Wendy and Leslie as Rae said it's different situations. Whether Abe or Wendy talked about it in the future. I'm pretty sure Wendy f*cked up more BTS. That's why she got excommunicated by all her friends except Lily.
reality is the difference is that they know the victim. they chose a side in knowing the victim and victimized. they sided with the victim. in the case of fuslie x Noah J, they didn't know the victim. also while fuslie fucked up, she isn't a cheater, she's a participant in cheating. it's a distinction and not faultless but a difference nonetheless.
lets also not forget the only reason this even came to light was cuz of some white knight that decided to say "you know what imma open my mouth and yap."
@Jaeguso not even a white knight but he just weaponized it to shit on NoahJ. like he didn't have to namedrop Fuslie but did so to get the clout from it. he could have easily criticized NoahJ by expressing he cheated. Fuslie wasn't even the target of criticism. he used her name intentionally.
@@aweshumandy bro exactly this but ppl are so quick to jump on sides and just pointing fingers. Dont get me wrong the situation sucks but no one who wasnt involved would have known if he didnt open his mouth. Like it wasnt his place to speak about it but he brought upon himself to do "the right" thing in a sense.
Wendy had to have done a lot more than just a cheating scandal on somebody they knew. Just listen to how Rae said “there’s so much behind the scenes that you don’t know” it wouldn’t make sense if that translates to “we just know and like Abe”. If it was just cheating a lot more people would have turned a blind eye, especially when the details never actually came out. But literally NOBODY talks to Wendy, except lily who has not only forgiven her ex Albert, but also the serial ab*ser and overall creep Fedmyster
Yeah it's not the same but their both bad idk why she's trying to deflect from fuslie like if fuslie was a victim/innocent in all this shes damn 30 YEARS OLD she knows exactly what she's doing too
For starters. People make mistakes. Age in this context doesn’t matter. Any one of any age can cheat. And I’m sure every age probably has. Not saying they should. But it’s not like fuslie is targeting married men lol. This whole situation was 3 years ago. Shit happens people make mistakes. Many celebs have cheated but yall don’t seem to remember any of them. AND they have done it more than ONCE OR TWICE.
@@KoduhhhWodayeah but now that this whole thing is out and she is facing criticism fuslie apologized to the wife who was innocent didn't even know what happened so that is a good thing and what Fuslie did was disgusting and it's a good thing people are holding Noah and her accountable for their actions like you said it happens to every celeb it must be not normalised
Lmfao yall slow. It happened once. They probably shouldn’t even be married period if Noah clearly is cheating. The audacity of you just blaming Leslie is wild. Noah clearly wasn’t happy in the relationship or he wouldn’t have done it anyway. And people make mistakes. I’ve been cheated on twice. Shit happens you grow and you learn. Don’t blame just one person hun because it takes 2 to break a heart. And if you can’t see that then don’t date simple.
He was telling Fuslie his house was already wrecked. How do you wreck an already wrecked house exactly? Fuslie didn't seduce him as some exotic temptress my guy, she was in a low, vulnerable state in the immediate aftermath of her collapsed engagement and the end of a 6 year relationship and a MARRIED MAN WITH A WIFE largely took advantage of her poor state of mind by assuring her his marriage was ending while comforting her. Just look at the guy, he's not even mid...imagine how depressed and vulnerable you would have to be to settle on that. She isn't blameless, but calling her a home wrecker is chuckle worthy. Dude wrecked his own house and then finished the job BY CHEATING ON HIS WIFE. In the pie chart of blame, Fuslie has a tiny slice.
Since they cut off contact that early rather than actually date, and everyone can attest to it including her friends and people exposing the scandal, is she a home wrecker tho?? I highly doubt anyone would thirst after that balding guy, he was just good at being emotional crutches, which Leslie needed at the time. She was still wrong to hope to get with a married man tho, she should definitely have just talked to a therapist
I love rae and yes the situations are different, but if they were good friends with noah’s wife i promise you leslie would be treated just like wendy was. Everyone is kinda just giving leslie a pass because they’re friends with her, and idk seems kinda iffy since a homewrecker is a homewrecker no matter the situation ngl. Lesile should know better, shes not a child:////
I don’t watch or follow her but I would giver her a pass under her circumstances at the time, it wasn’t like she was hooking up with random hot men, she just got out of her engagement and relationship and opened up to the wrong person. Seeing as they broke it off super early just shows that she woke up in the middle of it and wasn’t hopelessly in love or attracted and just need an emotional crutch
@@shutupnvibe fuslie confirmed it in her vod by saying she called her mom and told her she had sex with a man who is married. They opened up to it after noah told fuslie he's getting a divorce.
of course its not the same abe was the one geting hurt leslie was the one doing the hurting completely diff abe is val frined noa wife isnt ' completely different
@@KoduhhhWoda my point was that because its friends involved their feelings towards it are going to be stronger than if they didnt know the person aka noas wife they are going to care more when its someone they know appose to someone they dont in my opinion leslie is more at fault than noa since the way she made it seem on her response is that she knew she was doing something wrong yet didnt want it to stop and she did eveything she could do to continue what ever was going on and then tried to convince herself that it wasnt bad she could have stoped after the get together thing but she wanted to keep going and kept reaching out noa seemed to be emotionally done with the marriage it wasnt like he made a mistake so if a girl throws herself to a guy 100% of the time he wont push her away unless hes gay to me leslie turned it into a your here for me im here for you type of thing over a trip to an i dont want it to end i want more kind of thing ...
@@yuma-mah u just basically said that Leslie admitted to her own faults and was open about what she did wrong, which was to start hoping to see a married man after he was divorced (she claimed) And that Noah just doesn’t want to admit his mistakes just because he was “done” with his marriage. Bro, do u not see the hypocrisy? If u were long done with a marriage, u would have already divorced long ago, just like how Leslie and Edison broke up because they were done. You don’t just stay married when u are done, u take accountability and responsibility while u are married and honor your vows or just be honest and divorce. How is the one that was not married the one at fault? She just feels guilty that she may have caused a divorce, but sure u don’t blame the guy who doesn’t even think that he was in the wrong, even though he was the party IN THE MARRIAGE??? U have some screws loose
@@yuma-mah “it wasn’t like he made a mistake” bro he is going through criticism BECAUSE u are not supposed to emotionally or physically cheat IN A MARRIAGE, if u are done, u break up or divorce, do u not know what marriage entails??
