lol, it was for content, she really doesn't drink that much that's why her alcohol limit is not that high, but then again she is still cute in that drunk stream.
Honestly that’s a pretty respectable reason. Good for you for being honest and realistic in your interaction with another individuals time and feelings.
In a more recent video she says that if she’s actually very into someone she gets delusional about them. Clearly this means that she wasn’t as into him if she could cut things off like that. Not the end of the world. Also kinda weird that she gave an ick face about the kiss despite calling it cute afterward.
"I haven't met anyone because I don't go to bars" "and then I cut it off because I was too busy and I was wasting his time" the latter seems like the bigger problem to me lol
@d a r l i n g J o so if you kissed somebody on a date and then they never talked to you again, you wouldn't feel like they weren't interested or maybe it was your fault?
@d a r l i n g J o noo, she said the ghosted him bc she knew it wouldn't work out bc she was too busy. Ghosting and telling somebody that it won't work out is 2 different things
this is the common problem girls THINK they have even in reality guys genuinely understand that you're busy 😭 bro don't cut em off just communicate dawg edit; holy shit that's a lot of likes on something i posted randomly thanks everyone🙌🏽 keep arguing
Yeah and it took her a drink and a half to get wasted😂 I’m not quite sure, because it’s a really ancient word that hasn’t been studied much since the early 1600’s, but I THINK it’s called lightweight?
"I don't wanna waste his time" is something you say to a person you arnt sure your interested in. If you really like the guy, you'd talk to him about it or you'd make time. Rae gave this guy the shaft lol and was very sweet about it. Well done well done, pats on back.
I don’t think that’s how this happened. They already agreed to meet at the bar beforehand it’s not like she just went there looking to meet someone. But I do agree it’s not always the best way to meet someone new
You have never been to a bar then lots of people go to a bar and don’t drink alcohol there are games and other things to do besides drinking in large bars
lmaooo not these comments jumping to conclusions… she probably meant that she ended things with him. she did the guy a favor, she didn’t wanna waste his time by leading him on. either way it’s valid, people go ghost all the time. it’s not like they knew eachother their whole life 💀 y’all can’t srsly be villainizing her bc she said she “cut things off”
Technically it’s only a win if she agrees so it’s kinda hit or miss 😆 still super well played by the dude tho. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
@@cravensz dude you do realize that they were talking before the date? You probably don’t have any experience with dating but when you like someone, you want to kiss them. Rae liked him back so it wasn’t creepy.
@@fartman7470 Did u not watch the video?? She said shes never met him and doesnt know him. Your name is fart man, and you’re really showing your true simpness, coming to defend before you even watched it.
@@fartman7470 lmao even if they weren’t prior to the date it isn’t creepy even if they just met randomly at a bar it isn’t creepy, homeboy decided to shoot his shot and it worked
Yeah comments are right. Most guys won’t mind you being busy, you don’t gotta cut it off. I mean if he has a job (which he should) he’s gonna be busy too.
You can meet people in other places than bars. I met my current GF in a hospital. My former GF while driving karts and my first GF during a hockey match I was goalie in. Reason I'm sharing this is that you've just gotta be open. There's almost no wrong place to meet someone. It depends on your chemistry, not which boxes the scenario fit in.
so you would rather someone who is too busy to actually put in the work into something that may not work, and pretend to be into something they aren't? like it's obvious her heart wasn't in it, and he wasn't some insane connection for her to. prioritise him over her current life and obligations. I rather someone end it instead of wasting my time and pretending. what would you rather? you can still go on other dates, find other people. same as her. I don't get what's necessarily wrong with "cop outs".
@@ggundercover3681 ghosting someone ain't the way to do it tho. He probably thought it was his fault, and it really is an excuse. She shouldve told him it wouldn't work out
why is everyone salty about her cutting things off cuz she got too busy? her not needing to give anyone a reason for this aside, she went on the date, got busy and didnt feel like seeing him again so its really normal. yall sound mad about the last time a girl didnt go on the second date w you ngl
Love when people decide they are wasting the other persons time even though they are enjoying the relationship. The only time you’re wasting is your own.
This is the kinda reason why a lot of “red pill” folks say men don’t care about your career because what does her career mean in 10 years when she fell off is ugly and isn’t a popular streamer anymore? She’s gonna have to settle and probably won’t be able to have kids or they will be high risk…it’s basically called hitting the wall sadly most women don’t even see it coming till when they well…HIT THE WALL
There is no such thing as being “too busy” to be with someone you really like. It’s just an excuse for extra nice people to say “im not interested” if they both really really liked it each other they’d find a way
@@Ni.answers yep. That is where you've hit the jackpot. People will find time for you if they really like you regardless whether if it's romantic, platonic or anything. You will know if someone likes you if someone likes you by how they act. That's why I don't spend my time even wasting a thought on someone I like if they don't show enough evidence to warrant that it's reciprocal. It only waste my time and emotions.
Guys dont care if your “wasting their time” We like to take things one step at a time. Protip, if you want to keep a casual dating relationship, simply talk to the guy about your situation after one or two dates. Protip#2 dont ask him to wait for you until your ready. That shit is dumb.
Imagine even taking the time to go meet up with a girl and them then just saying I’m too busy so we just wasted each others time. Usually how it goes now a days.
oh ok, so then they girl should just continue dating you even if she's not interested? like do you understand what a date is? that's the whole point. to know early on before dedicating actual time. you being online and making a pointless comment is wasting time but you don't think of that. so confused on the logic here. the good thing is her telling him that so he knows and can move on.
you seem like the kinda guy that gets annoyed you actually have to be a likeable person to have any girls date you. just because no one wants you doesnt mean you have to complain about things that dont even really happen bruh
It’s because it’s bs, he probably was a nice guy and did everything right, but she just wasn’t feeling it so she made the excuse she was busy either that or it was something she didn’t like about him and just didn’t tell him, because I can guarantee you if he was that right guy there wouldn’t be a “such” thing as too “busy”. Any man who’ve delt with a interested woman knows this.
I really appreciate this video as someone who is fairly sure they have adhd but has never gotten tested (I don’t like the idea of taking medication and don’t really feel like knowing for sure changes anything about my life), but I really like hearing you talk about this kind of stuff
Very unlikely the dude felt like he was being dragged along. She's an adult, everyone's busy at times. I think there was a fuck up in the communication.
She is going to regret this for the rest of her life unless she gets someone now. Once she pases her mid 30’s, she won’t find anyone unless she wants to settle.
@@MAC_ABC people think they are dating. Note this short is from June, I started seeing comments about it in late Fall. Mind you, there's no proof, just vibes.
Honestly though I respect her for breaking it off knowing that she wasn't gonna be able to give him attention that he would deserve. Why can't all women have that mindset
