Brave of him to do the interview. The extra cruel aspect of this is that he cheated on her, KNOWING how extremely traumatised she was when her husband cheated on her and then left her some twenty years ago. It's a miracle if Vanessa does'nt have trust issues after this. I hope both can move on and be happy, I'm sure they will be.
😂 he’s only got remorse because he’s been caught out. Same as all cheats. The only remorse abd regret he has is for himself and what he’s going through. Not once did he mention what Vanessa and her kids are going through. You do not treat someone you love with so much disrespect and obvious lack of thought for her heart and mind. For what it’ll do to get for the rest of her life. The first time you’re tempted, you go get help, you do your soul searching then! Not after! Hiding his face, he’s only concerned about what everyone thinks of him.
He knew, like we all did that she was cheated on by her first husband but despite knowing this, he continued to do what he did. he loved the lifestyle Vanessa gave him but still wanted his bit of fluff on the side 🙄
I will always love Vanessa as the queen of my pocket. This was not just a one off he actually thought she will never leave. He is just scared of the amount of abuse he is getting not sorry for what he did. If he was not found out he was going to carry on with his double life if not triple life.
Vanessa should never ever take him back or marry him he's after the money he should of stay loyal to the woman that look after you for 16 years instead you abused her trust now you're begging her to take you back after you betrayed her you think the grass is greener so don't do it Vanessa he's just using you be glad to see the back of him.
Honestly, you have nothing to say. First and foremost you have hurt Vanessa, you have caused her so mush pain and it’s time to get yourself together and apologize to Vanessa and her family and move on with your life. No one pushed you to do what you did. Come on.
Absolutely love his grift!! Vanessa, Queen of my heart!!! Loving this scam. Big Ben!! You are the KING of old ladies hearts 💕 No fool Veezy like an old fool
Come in now. She's wonderful. She's not an "old lady". He really messed up and it's not because of anything to do with Vanessa. It's to do with his demon.
He said he's thrown his' life away, that's only because he has nothing and she had it all, the Big house Money and career and he was a guy who sang on one old 90s house track years ago and made a couple grand and that was it, over, and never did anything else, so vanessa was his meal ticket.. of course he's gutted.
I thought he was a christian,I thought he had some spiritual conversion"and was a new man". I have no symptahy for him saying things like "I think I need therapy...its the why..I need to understand what I did and why ..." NO doubt the man does need therapy but to find out why he thinks its acceptable to live a double life and cheat and lie. He sounds like Weinstein when caught assaulting various women saying "I need help guys...I need therapy,.." trying to make it sound like he couldn't help himself or knew what he was doing was wrong and now he's all sad because he realises what a scumbag liar he is and how he hasn't a clue who is really is. Its not just about lying to Vanessa but selling a whole version of himself for public consumption as a christian and as a person who had worked on themselves and was a self aware human being. This just shows his capacity to lead a completely double life and be one thing to cameras and another completely behind closed doors.Yes that is a sickness when one hand hardly knows what the other is doing. Get help becase no matter who you are with,you will never be happy living like that,running from yourself but don't expect sympathy until you own up to your own lies and cheating
He better start planning to go abroad and start a life, crossing a high profile woman who's well known in the media circles means all doors he turns to will be slammed on his face. Even the local cafe might turn him away. He ain't seen nothing yet!!
Why are ppl mad. Cheater's gonna cheat. He had the milk without buying the cow, and moved into her home for 16 years. He had absolutely nothing to lose
I rhink that he actually really dud and does live her. But, its her deal breaker and he crossed a big line. He's got issues, insecurities.whstever....only hw knows. She's awesome. He really loves her.
Another one who betrayed his wife, an attempt to show himself that he is male. If he were a street sweeper, I doubt he'd have such choices. Nothing I understand about men and I don't even want to understand. But I find him very ugly, exceeds
Chin up pal .... it's feels a lost worse than it really is. Various family might say they are hurt or feel hurt because of your actions but these people are not your friends and don't love you. Give it time , be a gentleman , stay true to yourself .... and one day you will look back and scratch your head and wonder why you felt the whole World had just fallen apart and you will be grateful you had this experience. People are very manipulative , don't trust anyone.
She never married him. That’s why he says he cheated. He says he felt insecure by Vanessa’s reluctance to get married. What man weeps around like a woman over a wedding/marriage? Sis just wanted to secure the bag legally so he can leave and get with someone younger after fleecing Vanessa but her instinct must have picked up something off.
@@Wonderer888 they’ve been engaged for that long so wouldn’t she marry him? She enjoying all the goodies that comes with the engagement but don’t want to marry him. I wouldn’t have done worse! Vanessa didn’t have any good intentions for him. He did the right thing.
You've been honest and that's what matters .. you made a mistake , I think it's a shame Vanessa couldn't see a future possibly, say after therapy . I firmly believe some things can be worked out if the reason why is found . Wishing you and Vanessa all the best , it's a shame your differences couldn't be sorted out as it's clear to me that you both love each other so very much . ❤️
People have affairs all the time and no one cares so why is this situation any different? People make mistakes it's part of life, it's between them to sort out not for the public to scrutinise
Really? All the time? You should choose your friends better...if they are willing to be dishonest to their partner what kind of friend of work mate employee etc . Oh and this wasn't a one night thing and he wasn't a teenager when he chose to behave like this 🙂👍
@@MrSlugny omg I mean in general... Why do people have to hang on every word. The point I'm trying to make it goes in alot in relationships and it's up to the people involved to decide how they want to deal with what happened. It's nobody else's business!!! People need to just get on with their own lives as no one is perfect. Oh and I choose to be single and very happy on my own thank you so my friends are irrelevant.
If you don’t want people to scrutinise your business you keep it private. Sharing it with the public and expecting people to not say anything is impossible. Men say people have affairs all the time because they expect to be forgiven, if it was the woman who cheated I bet you wouldn’t care for much privacy then would you?
@@Wonderer888 I totally agree you should keep it private, it's your buisness not the world's. Also I'm a female and whether it be a woman or a man that's cheated it's not OK but again it's down to the people involved how they want to deal with it and move forward it not 👍
We all make mistakes ...sometimes u have to forgive cos the loss u will never get over I hope she forgives him men are doing this all the time he's messed up clearly give it time...she may forgive but never forget so don't do it again .....I see this man is broken ...and maybe learnt a lesson we don't know if he's done this before she's finally had enuff she won't find this again ...both Need to think very clearly before they throw a great relationship away.. they are truelly hard to come by ....💯💯💯❤️👊🙏
Dude did himself a Favour. 'He' deserves the sympathy for Dippin' that for 16years🤮 She was punching and she knows it! Go make up for lost time Son. Plenty of stunners buzzin out there at the news. 👊🏿
So rude! Such a dumb & backwards comment.. Vanessa is such an intelligent women... You're dumb n numb brain wouldn't understand.. Still there's plenty of people getting plastic surgery to meet the needs of people like you.. plastic n spastic.
How will he get buzzing with the stunners with no Vanessa’s funds to flex nor driving licence to get anywhere 🙄? Is he going to be buzzing with the stunners on the bus? cos Vanessa told him to get his licence she’s tired of driving him everywhere. Yes he deserves sympathy cos he won’t have a bag 💰 to dip into anymore and his one hit 🎵 is a thing of the past and I doubt it ever brought in any pennies anyway. 16yrs he had it good being taken care of as kept man. Vanessa will be alright, she was smart not to get married cos she would’ve lost a lot more for nothing. He on the other hand…without the lifestyle he was provided for, it might be a bumpy ride. Stunners come and go but stability is king. If some men used their big heads to plan ahead instead of their small heads for fleeting pleasure a lot of problems would be avoided.
@@Wonderer888 Someone's in their feelings judging by this Essay. I ain't reading that Shit🤣 Bottom line is if certain Women would stop the fantasy of what's in these dudes pants, they'd save them selves a lot of Heartache. With that said, he's still gonna get by out here. Some other dick will fund his lifestyle.
Vanessa… take him back, men are men and inherently made this way, stand by your man, he is sorry. Show the world you are better off together and this won’t break you
"unlikeable and gobby" . Dont agree ,it's Her JOB ,as a professional, to facilitate, even initiate, debate. Both as chat show & as publishing/newspaper journalist. She has alway's been smart, often amusing when interviewed about Herself. Not agreeing with Her opinion's is another matter. She also takes huge pride in Her appearance, Has a gorgeous voluptuous figure & alway's looks as Glamouras as a blonde Liz Taylor. More Women like Vanessa needed IMO!
Vanessa was the best thing that ever happened to him. Now he's back on the streets trying to con white women out of a free lunch. Who even knew who he was before he started dating Vanessa.
