Jessica mentioned she slept with him one last time when his Behind the Music special aired. I'm fairly certain he was already with Vanessa at that point.
@@emilyd.6371Romans 10:9-11 says, "If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved".
All she does is constantly preach about her wonderful marriage… that’s all she does. Is she trying to convince herself?? Like he hasn’t cheated on her.
I'm guessing that's not all she does .....but it seems like you should know. 🤔 At least she's willing to work on her marriage unlike 50% of Americans. It's great to have an example of someone actually Doing the tough things In a marriage and not just calling it quits.
It’s her pushing the “fake we are the perfect couple who know it all” but reality is she is well aware of being the rebound who forced their marriage even after a decade of marriage- LOVE cannot be FORCED on someone who doesn’t feel it organically and you can see it all over him
Nick spoke about how he believes the marriage ended because if reality tv. He had no issues doing it with Vanessa and airing their wedding. Trying to make Jessica jealous even though she clearly had the bigger career and STILL makes a lot more money than them.
@SJ-ni6iy 100 percent. I don't think people understand what it takes to have long lasting love past the honeymoon phase. Just like it takes effort to grow as a person it take effort to grow in a marriage together, you have to be intentional. People genuinely don't understand that. It's ONE of the many reasons a lot of people don't last in marriages these days.
That is completely false. The total opposite actually. However, their relationship does seem forced. And she continually points out that it was so difficult for her and I think she refers to the Jessica Simpson aspect of things. Seems she has never gotten over Jessica. She became obsessed with JS and that’s probably why the relationship has always appeared to be so forced. Like she wants to desperately convince people that she and Nick have a much better marriage than him and Jessica did.
First date at hooters would put that guy in friend zone. I'd see myself as one of the guys if I ever spoke to him again. No respect for a female by doing that. First dates are supposed to be for good impressions, getting to know someone, sparking some kind of romance. Maybe I'm old fashioned?
@@kitkat0768Romans 10:9-11 says, "If you confess with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved".
Testing her to see if she's the jealous type and would put up with disrespect maybe? That's nuts to me. I love you probably was cause the answer was that she loved him more than herself.
That's actually exactly what happened--and they finally admitted it in a recent interview 😂 They broke up before getting engaged because they had been together for about 4 years and she had done all these wifely things and Nick was still refusing to marry her. She said she gave him an ultimatum and he left lol Then he realized after trying to date another woman that she was the best he was going to get if he wanted kids by the time he was 40 (because he couldn't get the actual love of his life back so what else was he to do, ya know?). So ultimately, he's only with her because he couldn't get Jessica back and wanted to fulfill his dream of having a family. It's pretty sad when you look at it objectively, but that's Vanessa's karma for being all over Nick when he would come on TRL to promote his stuff while still being married Jessica. She clearly was willing to take him in any form she could get him. Even if it was him doing it begrudgingly.
Can u imagine living life married to someone you had to STRONG ARM AND say marry me or else? Always knowing inside your spouse didn’t want you and it was FORCED like a life sentence? Well here is the result: look at Nicks expression and silence… 😮
Nick and Vanessa never should've gotten married bc in order to be with her Nick HAD to give up pursuing his career the way he wanted to support hers, which u can tell he doesn't like. And Vanessa lost her identity bc all of her value resides in being Nick's wife, that's why she's so controlling with him. She knows they're a bad fit and she's insecure about it so that makes her tighten the reigns on him to make sure he stays.
REBOUNDS are always fraught with a LIFETIME of “what ifs” & heavy doubts especially when one strong arms the one recovering from a broken relationship - they will always question if I waited maybe the real RIGHT one would have come along but crap I settled…😢
I just wonder how many of the people commenting on this fall under the happily married. Marriage is not easy. I married my soul mate and we still have had to through garbage together.
Why does Nick always look at her like she’s lying? She knows his first love will always be Jessica. The truth will always come to light. She’s always been trying to convince us they are passionately in love. 🙄
Yeah I get that vibe from her too…if you’re having to try that hard, it will ultimately come across as disingenuous. You just look like you’re hiding sh*t… 🤷🏼♀️
@@JustMeDG Anything worthwhile does require a certain amount of effort but love shouldn't be difficult the majority of the time. It should be pleasant for the most part and not be forced. It should come naturally if you are with the right person. Of course there will tough times here and there but if you are compatible it shouldn't be THAT much of a struggle. Otherwise what's the point? I would ask myself: "Does this relationship ADD to my life or diminish it and bring me down?" Is it TOO much of a struggle? So many people hang onto relationships that should have ended long ago because they are terrified to be alone. When the bad outweighs the good, move on!
You know…I’m in the camp that’s been saying they’re trying wayyyy too hard to prove they’re happy, but what you said is 100% valid as well. At the end of the day, who cares what we think? They’re the ones who have to live with each other.
You can't tell me that this woman didn't read about nick in the magazines while him and Jessica were together. She most definitely knew how badly he treated her so, i can't feel too sorry for her.
Oh it's worse. She and Jessica became friends after Jess' appearances on TRL in '04 (while Jessica was married to Nick and doing some of those appearances with him). I remember not liking Vanessa immediately while watching those appearances because she was all over Nick flirting with him without shame. She soon "befriended" Jessica and would be the little scheming bug in her ear, getting her to spill her marriage troubles with Nick while they were out for drinks in NYC. Giving Jessica "advice" the whole time. It was a hugely-reported detail back in '06 because Jessica was divorcing Nick and suddenly out pops Vanessa by his side in his new music video about Jess and is papped on dates with him. The media remembered the whole timeline and outed Vanessa. 😂 She is a conniving snake and their own dismal marriage is her karma for actions.
yeah, when she said every issue they had as a couple she brought up - i thought about nick making jessica into the problem when she wasn't. jessica was just being herself, nick shamed her unnecessarily and terribly. i hope thats not what he does to vanessa. it sounds like the same thing all over again, except vanessa believes him and tries to fix it. ew.
Omg I cannot stand Nick when Vanessa said that he should have spoke up and said that he is also working to be the best man for her. Ugh he is so full of himself I cant stand it.
Nick and Jessica will always be my favorite couple even though they’re not together. Vanessa minillo is his wife but to me Jessica is way prettier and nicer.
I have always really liked them both and when they got together I thought they make a beautiful couple. He always seemed so down to earth and unproblematic
@@soozjoo I don't think that but she was really young, sheltered and immature when they got together/married. I remember hearing that he told her she needed to learn to cook and there was a couple of other things but I can't remember. But I do remember from the show that she was a horrible house keeper, didn't cook and just spent without a budget.
I love this couple they're working on things and NOT just giving up. Marriage is work, give and take, communication, being there through the good and bad times. When you love each other, you definitely need communication to get through things, if you don't communicate with your husband or wife its going to turn ugly and someone will shut down their emotions and not want to talk. You have to be present and patient with each other. You also have to have date night at least once a week and not talk about the kids, its all about the both of you, have fun, laughter, get romantic so your marriage doesn't end. Love and marriage is hard work, but if you love each other so much and can't imagine anyone else other than the person who you are with, its worth fighting for. Again communication is the big key. You both are a lovely couple, please work on things, people give up way too easily. Love you both ❤❤❤
LISTEN WOMAN, relationship 💪 is Wwwwooorrkkk in general, with your girlfriend's with your kids with your neighbour. With your friends, with your grandmother - with humans.... DON T YOU KNOW THAT ? What a cheap comment. Everyone know this. Those 45 people....mmmhhh, strange
@@keepcreationprocess LISTEN UP HERE! I was just focusing on marriage because that's what the video was about. ! It's NOT a CHEAP comment ! Everything in life is hard work, relationships, with couples, jobs, friends, family, working hard on yourself. Life is hard, it's just how we deal with things that matter to us. Please don't say Listen Women ! That's degrading plus my comment was NOT Cheap! Geez, the way you write and come after me....... you are low class !
My husband and I married when I was 18 he was 19 we have been married 41 years. It’s ups and downs. You just have to work them out. I think it’s easy for people just to say, I’m done and get a divorce.
Love isn’t supposed to be this hard. This is a little sad :( the work is communication, compromise, seeing different perspectives and so on with your partner. But really the most important work is on yourself. Being the best version of yourself and the rest is easy. That’s what worked for me anyway.
Her Love is hard because she Forced herself on a vulnerable man at the onset of his divorce while the papers weren’t even signed....Even though she hooked and sinked him , I can’t imagine the insecurity that follows her for the duration of the relationship - It’s like enjoying life with stolen goods and never feeling that you obtained someone or something rightfully And always looking over your back to see when the victim will realize what happened
@soozjoo "victim" You obviously don't know Jessica's story. She considered herself lucky to finally get out of that controlling tortuous relationship. I wasn't surprised at all this relationship is as bad as his first one. Who is the common denominator? Hmmm..lemme see..who can that be...🤔
She had to give Nick an ultimatum for him to propose! 🤣🤣 that’s embarrassing. Meanwhile, he proposed to Jessica even after she dumped him. Jessica will always be the real love of his life and Vanessa knows that, that’s why she’s so jealous of Jess
12years of marriage is still quite short but it must be classed as a long lasting marriage in Hollywood. My parents in Japan have been together for 48years, my parents in law in the UK been together for 50years and me and my husband have been happily together coming up for 20years.
This particular video is old, I know from watching the new season of love is blind, if you don't know they are the hosts of that show, they've now been together 18 years and married 13 years, which I mean compared to your parents is nothing, but generally I think is a long time, but like you said for sure in Hollywood years is an extremely long time.
Don't ever go to the internet to learn about a happy relationship. You don't go to a McDonald's drive-thru to learn about fine dining cuisine, same thing. The internet is the scum of relationships and relationship advice.
Let’s not pretend these dating shows are focused on healthy relationships. This is entertainment. If being faced with another love interest is the only way to know you want the relationship then something is wrong
Nick has ALWAYS been very private, Ya'll remember back in the day when Kim Kardashian was trying to make a name for herself? Well she used her flirty and baby sexy vibe like Paris Hilton to get him to go on a date with her to the movies. Little did he know, Kim was just trying to make a name for herself in that Hollywood D celebrity type culture, Just like Paris. Kim also wanted to be on the hills and you can see her in a couple scenes for a hot second. Anyway, Nick Lachey and Kim went to a movie. Kim called the paparazzi quietly before hand to let them know what they were doing and when they would be leaving the theatre. Well Nick didnt like that and he was pissed the Eff off at her. He ditched her after that. Part of me understands his reservations, but at the same time, when I see his wifes emotional pain . I feel there is something deeper going on in with there relationship , and especially with Nick!! HE has a hidden side he doesnt want anyone to see, and i am an empath. Its not a good side i feel. REmember how he was with his ex Simpson on there reality show? Train wreck waiting to happen. Just sAYIN.!!!
@@jeanniefeaster4325Both Nick and Jessica have admitted she played Jessica in that video (and that the entire What's Left of Me album is about/to Jessica). He even went to Jessica's place to play her the entire album and let her know what was about to be released to the public. They even had sex after listening to the album. The only reason Vanessa is there (and whining here about having to bend over backwards to become Nick's sloppy seconds) is because Jessica wouldn't take him back after he begged her to stay.
@@courtney_paige89 Good details and yes unfortunately her desperation to be the sloppy rebound is still apparent today… Sadly “forced” relationships will never be balanced and the person strong armed to marry will never feel like they truly had real love by choice and clearly here Nick just settled
Yes unfortunately he’s seems so miserable, “stuck” and SHUTDOWN … Almost like she has extinguished “what was left “ of him for her own selfish goal to build her own fame
They drink the pain away. only to see that it makes a person more emotional and those feelings that they felt before the drink is now at the forefront.
Nick was brought up on old fashioned work ethics and Integrity. He was grounded ... Jessica's Dad priority was to nurture Jessica's Career and optics, and ignore her Marriage. @@ButterflyPink1121
The issue here is not Nick. I’m sure he can be a jerk but Vanessa was so thirsty for him way back when he was a married man. I remember her flirting with him on MTV spring break right in front of Jessica and acting a fool on set of his video for “What’s Left of Me”. She was determined she was going to be with him no matter what and she’s always been insecure because she’s never measured up to Jessica. Nick never has and never will love her like he did Jessica and she knows that. She’s nowhere near as beautiful as 2003 Jessica Simpson and never will be.
I don't feel bad for Vanessa. Because Vanessa did met Nick when he was married to Jessica. When Vanessa used to work for MTV. The TRL days. When she was a VJ. Interviewing them both as a couple. Gotta remember you're not the 1st wife. Nothing compares to the 1st spouse. Whether you're a man or woman. You're getting the leftovers. It is always disgusting & problematic. As you can tell. Vanessa continues being petty AF & jealous of Jessica. And it has been years. And still hurting deep down inside. That's why you can't take baggage from previous relationships/marriage not even children. Because it was never your responsibility or duty to fulfill the next person's happiness. Vanessa made her bed. Gotta deal with it. Until the day she decides to continue with the marriage or divorce Nick.
Yup! It's like we're all in trouble all the time because Vanessa has to work so hard at her marriage. It's also hard to tell who her anger is directed at because Nick is sitting right next to her while she's yelling at the wind about how much she hates her life. Perplexing.
I noticed this about her also. I am sorry but if I had to give a man a ‘Ultimatum’ to marry me but still work hard at the marriage…maybe it is not meant to be.
She's trying to convince herself that shes better than Jessica but she knows deep in her heart that Jessica will always have Nicks heart and thats why it still triggers her every time someone brings up Jessica. Its sad but its the truth, Nick loves Jessica and always will.
Feel sorry for Nick… She dominates, talks incessantly and FAILS to listen to anyone… Acts like she’s in therapy instead of a host that should be asking relevant questions and listening for deeper insights… Keeps badgering on and dominating entire conversation and making sure its all about her. Poor man…
Nick would be really difficult to be married to. He’s not the kindest most thoughtful person. For this guy to actually think that he was the prize to be won or that SHE needed to prove herself worthy of him instead of the other way around, makes the problems she’s dealing with, abundantly clear. She is truly an immeasurable gift. I hope she knows that.
Its looks, money, and occupation. There is no real love because it all comes down to what's on paper and if the friends/family approve. No one chooses real love.
I don't think she truly wanted to marry Nick. I don't think she thought she could do better, and felt pressured to give him an ultimatum. Nick wanted a wife and kids more than he wanted Vanessa. Either way they have a beautiful family. Glad they could work through it.
Wow to make a statement like that when you don’t actually know. That’s completely the opposite of the truth. She was hungry for him before and during their dating life. It was a lot especially shortly after the breakup and when Nick was starting his solo tour. She made all her intentions very, very obvious… explicitly. Also, Vanessa was the one who didn’t have a family if you know her personal life. Her Mom abandoned her. She wanted that family life with Nick and made it happen with 3 kids.
@@LV-vj7pw 😂 and you know her personally?? Calm down, none of us do, it's just an opinion. They both had major baggage but they seemed to make it work.
@@cristinarodriguez3157 Yes actually a lot of people were there too bc she went on mic at his concert and addressed the whole situation bc they were addressing the rumors of them dating and how she felt about him etc. It was in NYC. Also there are a lot of places of the info I gave. I certainly wouldn’t just make up stuff.
Rebound chick. Jumps into a relationship after being in a music video with a man who is singing a song about another woman who broke his heart. He took whatever was available.
You have to love yourself, before you love anyone else!!!!! She is very insecure...... He is a control freak... He always has been... She interruptes everything he has to say!!! This is not going to work, he is to bullheaded......
I always thought Vanessa Lachey has a great sense of humor. To me, you’re blessed to be able to laugh w someone. Whatever, challenges come up in their marriage. I pray they continue fighting for their marriage. They really make a beautiful couple and family
I love them together I really hope they last I adore nick Lachey and I remember how heartbroken he was after his divorce w Jessica Simpson im so happy he found such an amazing beautiful woman and I always loved Vanessa I remember when she won that vj competition on MTV im so happy they are happpy
Vanessa always had a crush on Nick even when she interviewed Nick and Jessica. I don't think theyll last, shes too clingy and he's definitely not over Jessica. Vanessa/Banessa/Rebound girl, i feel sorry for you.
This why I don’t believe in marriage did what to be the best women for him forget him you need to be the best women for yourself if he loves you he loves for who you are or it ain’t love
@@jgator6694 right why would this person say they were the perfect couple lol..I bet if they ask them they would say hell no 🤦♀️ what show were they watching because what I was seeing was a toxic couple.🤷♀️
No they were not no couple is perfect. We don't know everything that went wrong in the marriage or behind closed doors. I'm Glad Nick found his happiness with vanessa and Jessica found hers.
As much as I dislike Vanessa, I imagine it is frustrating constantly being compared to your husband's ex and said ex constantly being brought up in interviews.
Ppl think he had already started dating vanessa when he went back and slept with jessica for "closure" but thats never been anything more than gossip and I doubt it. I think that was before he got serious with vanessa
I never knew they werw married when I saw clips of them hosting because there didn't seem to be any sort of chemistry lol it's giving very much BUSINESS and staying together for the "power couple" title
If you watched the ultimatum season 1, at the beginning of the season I'm pretty sure it is where she talked about her journey to getteing married to her now husband! But I must say that it is true they do not seem to have chemistry but I think it is because they're hosting and not trying to be all lovey dovey since this is their job. Just my thoughts.
I disagree. I don't watch the show but they seem very much in love. Why would they have kid after kid after kid. They are in a happy healthy loving marriage/relationship. ❤️
@@qutielove2208I am not saying they are not in love. They don't seem to have chemistry on camera and it is true lol. If you watch them host their shows they don't really interact with each other in a lovey dovey way. They do seem more like business partners which they are. They are a couples who seem more into each other than they seem on camera but it's just me. And personnaly I do not agree that since they have children they are in love. A lot of people get and stay married just because they want the title or for children.
A submissive wife. and she doesnt want to be one. They're both Scorpios with the same birthdays. I'm not surprised at all their making their marriage "work" She wants more leeway and freedom as a woman and he prohibits her that freedom without him getting all jealous. Jealousy in a relationship will always be the downfall in any relationship 💯💯
