@@clarke4400it’s took a easier choice to just not go to jail…… It shouldn’t be a easy story to tell it’s jail jail rules and politics no other options so if you not with the shit stay yo ass on the outs!!
@@THEREALQYUI can’t believe I just read this. 😂😂 Are you aware that the percentage of people in prison wrongfully convicted is between 4-6 percent? Not saying he was innocent but are we really justifying Sexual assault as a grown man? Roles reversed you would have not made this comment. Which lead me to believe you must be the dude who did it or have done it to someone.
@@clarke4400naw he pretty much set himself up talking bout he was chilling in dude cell why lol it's prison drinking an shit then he laughed bout it in the beginning if you watch the beginning he liked that shit lol
@@DarkAngel-cj6sx I think he/she means the square never has to deal with being graped in prison. The ones acting tough are the ones who have to deal with the animals in prison.
Many years ago, I was placed in jail and 4 dudes yelled out to me from down the hall licking their tongues and one said aloud 'Our King Pin going to looovve you!' I cried out to God as I laid down and that next morning God removed over 70 people from that side to another part of the jail. The inmates were freaking out, what are they doing? they don't do this, they don't do this but every 6 months? why are they doing this? It's not time! When I realize what God was doing, I knew he was going to remove all of them and as I saw them pass by as their names were called out, dozens of inmates walked by me then finally the very last one called was the 'King Pin' who I never saw but he knew who I was as he passed by and turned his head toward me licking his tongue at me. All Praises To The Most High God. Power belongs to God alone.
This is one of the WORST interviewers I’ve ever seen. You continually overtalk, interrupt, blurt out, and ask incoherent and compound questions. Let the interviewee tell their story. You are only there to direct it. Learn to listen and really take this job seriously. You seem unprepared for this interview and it came off incredibly insensitive.
I know he doesn’t know how to ask questions. He just says a bunch of words and it’s so hard to understand. What part of he didn’t tell no one doesnt he understand? That was a traumatizing experience and he’s just sitting there stuttering and asking the most out of pocket questions.
Facts! Felt the same way the questions were so stupid insensitive and ignorant they made it hard for him to tell his story ffsake it was frustrating listening to there dumb questions
@@agmcroom2374 I was telling my girl, if they gave a better interview they wouldn’t have to interrupt him. Ask how he Felt as a young boy in prison. Who he first met, let’s see how he was groomed, who introduced you to the guy who aped you. Nah, it seem like they was more interested in the ape and. It the story. They got the dude g street news who tell them Louisiana prison stories and I wanna know if his story anime of g street stories
We men, we speak like that lol 💪🏾😭✅ its always something you probably could have done better, hence the guilt you feel 🤌🏾 that new world sassy shit is for gays and girls bruv ...
This is the reason why so many men out here in the streets are now homeless and messed up on drugs with severe mental health issues. It breaks my heart!
I did 10 years in the Feds. I cannot speak for this man, but just watching this interview I can see what mistakes he made- Seems like he wanted to be down. He doesn’t seem to have very strong boundaries. He’s not serious enough (jokingly saying “my ssA was hurting”), hanging around dudes who don’t respect him. Basically, he didn’t have the mental capacity to deal with predators. His size or age weren’t his problem, his mentality was.
Agreed! I do feel horrible for him, I spent time in prison also, mentality, how you move and body language is everything and even the smallest guy can be savage.
I served over 21 years in California prison for second degree murder and attempt on the police who killed my associate. I feel that someone should have handled this for him. Some people did not grow up like animals and are not part of that life. Even while I was in prison I had a problem with predators. If criminals are not safe from these individuals why would you want them back out around your family. It hurts just to imagine what this man went through mentally. Also, it takes a lot of courage to speak on something like this. Hopefully his story helps some young person to change their ways. May God help and bless him.
@@JohnDoe-gc1kt Because those of us who have done time know that people go through BS and are afraid to say anything, so we take care of that shyt for them
A lot of "MEN" have been violated as children, this doesn't just happen in jail!! I pray for my black men. I love you and pray for your healing babes ❤
@@vperez2598 I say that alllllll the time! ‘They’ knew what they doin’ to our community by mass incarceratin’ Blk boys & Men for non-violent crimes that they wld give Wyte boys & Men “Warnings” & slaps on the wrist for.
Prison nurse here-For all the people who claiming this doesn’t happen to real gangsters and so forth…Lies. Rap3 can happen to anyone in prison. I work at a high level prison in Georgia. Idc how big/small, short/tall you are…you can be got. I’ve cared for men who were rap3d. The shame and embarrassment of men who come to the nurse station and deny rap3 when you can clearly see the evidence all on their clothing is the most saddest thing to ever witness. Anyway, keep having this belief that it couldn’t happen to you… FYI-In prison there’s no real rules to the game. Everyone is free-game…especially when you have life in prison.
this comment isn’t being honest… been locked up and about some of the things mentioned is true it’s a bit misleading. You always keep your head on swivel and stay militant you would survive. Trust and believe true soldiers of the Most high know how devils operate.
If you ever asked a women if she felt responsible for a sa committed against them, you would probably be shut down and demonetized. This line of questioning is disgusting and unprofessional.
Like you said he's not a woman 😴🤷🏾♂️💯 also, stop acting like nobody never felt guilt after being raped 🥴🤷🏾♂️💯 " why the girls can wear make up but when we do it it's bad " type shit ... That's not masculine energy p 🤧 I bet you he won't skip chest day, commit crime, drink hooch wit significantly larger jail dudes, hang out in dudes cells when you have your own, etc 🥱 bro square ASF tho, it's almost depressing to me 🙆🏾♂️
As a woman who has been a victim of this harsh reality, for some reason it breaks me hearing men go through this. Salute to this young man because it's so many other men who are victims and are taking it to the grave with them.
I second that! This is so heart breaking! The media loves to promote young men to throw their lives away and they don’t show that the young men are the targets! Generally in every category!
@@rashadzellner1298well think abt it like this, both situations is f’d up for women and men but a woman’s anatomy is literally made for penetration and will cater to that penetration even if they don’t want it… (yes women getting taken advantage of still get wet and pleasured when it’s unwanted from what I’ve heard from a lot of women) a man however isn’t made to get a 🍆stuck in him and no matter how much they work they way in them yams it’s unnatural so in a way a man being assaulted the same way as a woman is physically much worse… but like I said both are equally degrading and messed up..
@@robbycole7047 still doesn't change the fact the interviewer could have a better job and it's obviously that others in the comments feel the exact same as myself
Y’all niggas soft as hell. You bet here mad about an interviewer. You would’ve never heard this man’s story if it wasn’t for the interviewer. Stfu and enjoy the content
It looks more like he got taken advantage of by a punk. Because i hear from ex cons that you should never let your guard down for nobody in prison. That man brought him to his cell enticed him with the liquor and waited for a moment. I feel for dude because you can tell he doesnt have a evil bone in his body. It takes a lot A LOT of courage as a man to admit this, so prayers out to him to heal.
This. Unfortunately he was probably too square to realize prison culture/politics. 100% got befriended and groomed by a punk. It's crazy you always have to view everyone with a side eye behind them walls, but it's the reality of an institution lined with nothing but criminals.
@@No_Hookshot They become experts at identifying people who are green. They sit there ALL day trying to read people. They are ALWAYS looking for a victim.
Actually That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
Weird how people wanna call the victim of a rape a bitch but wont call the RAPIST a bitch. 😮 He coulda shoulda woulda but didnt i get it, however, the fact that a grown man has to worry about another grown man sexually approaching him is the most fucked up part. and everyone co-signing rape here probably would take part in the act. Respect to the victims.
Devante The Rxpist DARVO Jordan Castle over in the Houma/New Orleans area with his darkly scarred and well worn out entrance to his built-in kangaroo pouch/to-go box from riding all the trains in jail for violating us women and females IS a bitch. It looked like someone put both of their Fists in their without lube.
@@user-cw7ly8nu5jThat’s still no excuse, Show some compassion, That’s the problem an that’s why Men never get the sympathy we deserve when things like this happen.
That sounds like his lover, not abuser..... Sounds like his have his Booty up then regretted it later when people started finding out.....He even admitted he just left things alone after they had sex, if that's even true, they could have still been having sex.....it wasn't until others found out, then he had a problem with their sexual acts.....MANY MANY MANY MANY BISEXUAL MALES DO THIS ....have homosexual self-hate towards themselves and when people find out did same sex sexual acts they deny deny deny and pretend they are a victim of assault, WHEN IN FACT THEY WERE WILLINGLY BUSTING THEY BUTTS WIDE OPEN.....it's Sick and Disgusting the lies these males tell to appear "straight" and are lying the entire time💯💯💯
Vernon you are a bold soldier to tell your story on a platform like this for all to hear, thank you so much for having the courage and the strength to tell your truth
Interviewer, please fix your questioning regarding this matter. Rape/SA is no joke be it a man or woman. Clearly this man was outmatched and intoxicated. Whether he fought or not, he was victimized and it’s not his fault. He was taken advantage of and the questions are insensitive to the matter. Please do better.
It’s not about being sensitive I had no issues with this interview he did good answering the questions and they commended him for being able to tell his story.
He braver than a lot of “tough guys” that go in to prison and come home. A lot of dudes wouldn’t dare talk about this or tell everything that go on in there.
It's extremely rare these days outside of maybe Alabama. It happens but rarely unless you put yourself in that situation and maybe we're already doing some weird things to begin with
Some of the main ones laughing wouldn't last a day in prison. This doesn't just happen in prison either. A lot of you wouldn't even put up much of a fight.
This is heartbreaking 💔 when he said he didn’t have the heart to retaliate that made me cry. I pray he heal to the fullest and God restores his mind and he never have to tell and relive this awful story again😢
Its crazy yall in the comments saying take this down and we dont need to hear this, but if it was a woman yall would have all the sympathy in the world. Thats whats wrong with our culture now.
A Vernon don’t feel bad, when my son’s mother told people how to rape me in my sleep, they had gay people rape in me in prison too, I never got stabbed in prison, but I was rape in prison to, just like you! They did me, while I was sleeping, so I feel your pain, and I understand what you are going through, this rape stuff will be with you the rest of your life, those rapes will never go away, god bless you! And I hope you pull through with it, I know when a man gets rape he feels very disrespected, and feels very violated, and when I got rape Vernon, I feel like killing my self, but if I kill my self, I will go to hell, that’s why I never took my life Vernon
People that make fun of this type of stuff is the reason why communities never improve. I swear on my dead brother I had no undesired contact with a male during my time in jail, but there should still be protections in there to slim the chances up from that happening. Whether incarceration or free there’s always people out there plotting like that.
This happened to most men who go to prison. But they ain’t gone say nothing, they just gone act weird. That’s why they say soon as somebody goes to prison you can’t kick it wit em no mo. Because they not the same person you knew them from before they went to the penitentiary.
@baileybutterfly320 No it's a literal question.. Especially for a street person .. Also puts perspective for ppl that are unaware that this can happen.
@@dionc3680facts like my nigga how you ain’t see that coming you? You blind and don’t have no street smarts and trusting anybody was the first sign you a goofy in that life be a civilian if you this slow y’all please!!!
I respect the heck out of him for not only being able to tell his story, but also being able to acknowledge that he doesn't have the heart to put work so to speak. I'll never understand why so many people today always want to try and act all hard and tough, as if nothing can or would happen to them. Anyone can get got. And besides, why would you even want to be in unnecessary situations anyway? That's ridiculous.
Listen brother what happened, happened I know for sure u didn't want that to happen but it happened but keep this in mined an always remember this what happened to u can happen to most but u coming out and talking about what happened to u in front of the world shows u still a man!! A lot 9f people talked like it would or couldn't happen to them when it most definitely could an has happen but u was man enough to speak to the world about it which most so called men would take that shut to the grave!!! People talk but like ur situation if some big buff dude dude that can really fight run down on them they wouldn't be able to do anything in that moment or I. Some cases would have let that shit just happen!!! So on a greater note peace to u an I respect u 1,000 straight like that....
Man I just did my first week in county jail back in March at 31 years old.A homeless man jumped in front of my truck,I l panicked and fled the scene for 10 minutes but went back.That was 2022 the DA didn’t pick up the case til March of 2024 That one week gave me what I needed to change and that’s just county jail it was rough.I wasn’t raped but I did have to fight My paperwork was good so I thought I’d be left alone but dudes in there take everything so literal it’s crazy. Im not a tough guy but I didn’t lose the fight and after that they left me alone. Idk how dudes go back or are able to do years at a time. The system is built for people to fail yes but being a square is your best bet.Going to work a 9-5 or working for yourself is gangsta.Taking care of yourself and family is gangsta. Jail is for losers man the streets are cool to people who want to be something they aren’t it isn’t until it’s time to be that then it’s too late. Stay safe be smart man
@@Nick19328 Excellent news that you seen your worth! Jail is not meant for dogs or cats… Especially Humans! May God continues to Bless and Protect you in Jesus’ name Amen and Amen.
I was a dentist at Allenwood , PA at the medium and the USP. All potential parents that do not have the intellectual technology to do all possible to shape their son’s minds to be studious and avoid prison should refrain from having kids. We have lost too many young men to this system. This is where they would like to see each and everyone of us end up!
You are right. I would honestly say about 70% of parents new and old aren’t mentally, emotionally and financially equipped to have and maintain successful parenting
Facts! This is why my son walk on the side walk because his father and I made sure he never had a chance to walk in the streets. He played every sport available and he would be so tired by time we got home there were no time to hang out. I love my baby for being a provider for his family the legal way!!
“They” who is they? I guess white people right? When black folks stop all the racism is when peace will happen from within. It’s too bad it’s 2024 and you are still oppressed by self. It’s always a good excuse though.
This is why drunkenness is one of the most irresponsible sins. Believe it or not, any man can get taken advantage of when he's drunk out of his mind. No matter how big, tough, or strong you think you are.
I'm sorry this occurred to you. I think it's very brave of you to openly talk about this. There are so many men out here who were victimized as a child in the juvenile facilities. They don't talk or tell anyone about the incident(s). They keep it to themselves & never talk to anyone about it. Thats the issue right there. Folks think that if you get violated, you just come out with an attitude ready to kill the person who violated you. That's tv. This man is not a killer. Even after his violation. I hate that many men go thru this.
Nigga this ain’t commendable. He can laugh bc he wasn’t graped. He was in a relationship wit dude and his car found out and made him put in work or get violated
This was deep... I commend this man for speaking his truth. Its very difficult for men to come out and express this type of brutality. Sending him blessings and love 💜 Ty real life 🥰
@@theredd7365he *WAS* a criminal..prison is supposed to be about reformation and release decent humans back to the public. *YOU* are apart of the problem! Dog eat dog mentality is the reason why he was assaulted at a young, fragile age! Many people are falsely accused as well and tried as adults or given unfair amount of time and quickly become a victim of the prison system! Also, many men become gay for the stay to avoid being assaulted and come out with diseases and life changing secrets! Hope none of those outcomes happen to you or your loved ones.
Man I physically cannot ever watch that movie again because of that trauma.... it needs to be shown to the wanna be tough ones out here. There's always someone tougher.
These guys cut off the guy being interviewed wayyy too much. Didn’t just let the man simply talk. Anddd there was way too many people interviewing him. There was like 3-4 guys asking him questions. An interview should only be 1 on 1. And let the person being interviewed TALK.. smh
😢As a survivor of Grape , I understand how difficult it is to talk about it😮❤May God continue to help you in this season of life. ❤One Love, All Lives 😊Ms Tee
Bet it had a lot to do with the fact he didn't have that dawg in him when he needed to be at folks throat. Yeah you risk getting more time but what's worse the trauma of being victimized or 10yrs added to your sentence?
Katt Williams said it best, “Rape is not funny no matter who it happens to.” He may have laughed at his own pain-or it could’ve been a trauma response. I appreciate him sharing his story and experience. I have no judgements. ❤
I appreciate the fact that you were able to conduct this interview but I wish the questions were more trauma informed. I think he wanted to share his story but you can clearly tell he was very triggered by some of these questions. The questions sound accusatory towards him at times… he is a survivor and it would have been nice to highlight that aspect…so many can identify with his story but don’t have the words or the comfort to share what he did.
@@amuntz7101 I hate to say it but I feel like his story would’ve been more emotionally appropriate on a woman’s platform. Too many males are still in denial or might fux around find out because they believe all the gangsters in prison are sleeping with female guards 🙄
My people are like the Roman during the Gladiator Times. We love to see our fellow people struggling and in pain. I hope 🤞🏾 one day we all can overcome our childish ways and trauma built responses. ❤
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="254">4:14</a> RealLyfe: After this happen like what was going threw your mind, was you hurt, where you like, did you think like, could you just walk us threw like what goes threw a man's mind Vernon: My A**hole was hurting 😵💫😰😢 - Much healing prayers & blessings to this Man no matter who you are from Man to Woman nobody deserves r*** - its easy to get rid of physical pain but its never easy to heal mental 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It take a real man to come out and speak about this. Nothing to be ashamed of some people can't help the fact that they just don't have much fight or aggression in them.
The people asking him questions have absolutely no compassion. Just throwing questions like they scared he would end the interview. It’s very rare you have someone admit what happened in prison so we wanted to hear it all. I know pray for his full recovery and healing from that horrible experience. God bless you sir. Thank you for sharing your story. I have family members who have been in prison and this is very informative. Again thank you!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
No disrespect to this dude at all. He isn't built for war. It's a different 🌎 behind those walls. A man is a man, no matter the size. If ur unable to be a man then ur food (prey).
My heart goes out to this man he was still a baby at 22. Confident in his manhood for sure. Some of you in these comments not so much. Write your book sir!
@1judauhn grown in age not experience. You gotta actually raise your kids that thrown out at 21 usually don't end well.. Your comment slone tells me yoy prob was brought up on surviv not love. Thsts unfortunate. Leave your opinion as I did no need to argue mine thoygh fr. 😭
I’m glad I’m not the only one that sees it but then on other channels they beat their chest talking about their 🍑 warriors..so everyone pitching and no catching 🧐 either way, they gey af!
So sad. They are probably triggered men who are also victims of the same thing. So I understand the overly offended and defensive people, it's a tough exterior to appear less vulnerable
There's NO WAY in hell I'd let someone take my MANHOOD and not want any type of retaliation when given a chance. Dude definitely wasn't built for prison...
Prison rape does not happen as often as people think, it's actually a rare occurrence. This situation was a set-up, by this guy being too trusting & gullible, especially getting drunk in jail..🤦
@@baileybutterfly320nobody’s blaming him. We’re just talking bout the things you can control. You should always have your antennas up for this exact reason
I'm happy I don't see comments making fun of this man. This happens to men and young boys more than people want to admit, but due to fear of being embarrassed and FURTHER humiliated, it goes unreported. Being taken advantage is not your fault, doesn't make you weak or less of a person. It's the weirdo that's harboring weird desires to force themselves on you that's a whole weirdo!
Alot of people are dealing with this exact same trauma, most don't speak on it for whatever reason. I understand 1st hand being violated, the victim loses much more than the perpetrator gained. I hope he is able to move forward with his life as he is "free" from the system now.
We have to speaking with our young black men about this. Because this is what the system wants, to keep us from loving each other and multiplying with your women.
This brother seemed like a good dude despite what he went to jail first. Mentally what he went through is going to messed with him. God Bless this brother. And may he healed from everything from him. 👑💪🏾🙏🏾
😢😢😢😭😭😭 thi hurts my soul...i cant stand bullies or people that prey on others! As a former C/O u can see the ones they will try , the prison/jail politics...never saw this happen but heard stories...