@@Glm867 you are incorrect. There isn’t one type of autism. That’s why it’s called a spectrum. Some don’t make eye contact or have minimal verbal exchanges with others. When they get frustrated, many children will kick other children or even the teacher
My oldest has Asperger's & I taught nonverbal 6th graders on the spectrum.. The kids were very sweet And my son has a heart of gold & is gifted trying to finish his PhD. Tamra needs to be tested by a real psychiatrist & neurologist. She might be very relieved once she finds out if anything is wrong.
Vicki is so right , Tamara is looking for any reason to get people feel bad for her because everyone is commenting that she needs to go , she said shannon is a victim, but the one playing the victim
As a single mom raising to beautiful children on the Spectrum it’s disgusting. She would use that for bad behavior because my sons are such beautiful, kind and caring young men.
I have a grandson on the spectrum. This is the most unbelievable thing I've ever heard. They r so sweet and so misunderstood. This person is so nasty. Leave the Spectrum fly alone. Shame, shame on you.
As a parent of a son who has autism, I’m absolutely APPALLED by Tamera saying this! You don’t get to use autism as an excuse for being an asshole! THAT’S NOT FAIR AND THAT’S NOT RIGHT!! Shame on her! Now I completely understand why her one daughter wants nothing to do with her; I’d be embarrassed to have a mother like Tamera‼️
Several licensed therapists on tick tock made ticktocks on Tamras announcement, she literally threatened to sue one of them for making a video on it! 😡she has lost her mind!plus all credibility 😡😡😡😡😡😡
If Tamra had done an iota of research she would know lack of empathy is a hallmark sign of a sociopath and narcissist… but instead she was “diagnosed” as autistic… SO OBVIOUS that she’s trying to garner sympathy after the terrible reception this season. And it sickens me.
52 year old late diagnosed autistic. After 5 years with my psychiatrist/therapist. Then preliminary testing to see if it made sense to go get an official diagnosis. Then about 6 months for appt which lasted all day with 4 different professionals and a full report. So almost 6 years. As a child I had a lot of outbursts and meltdowns due to sensory overload and exhaustion from trying to be normal. As an adult even before a diagnoses I learned coping skills and what I needed to avoid major meltdowns. But I'm not cruel and hateful . If anything I turn that onto myself. Neurodiversity is not a reason to be an absolute jerk who lies and mistreats people who are suppose to be your friend.
my EX has autism - he had over months different Doctors & health professionals who all had to observe him, it takes ages to get a diagnosis. I assume her Doctor said 'it could be ......'' and she just said ''I have autism''. She knew exactly what she was doing
@@palavergirl7450 yep she came on the pod with Teddi to do a show and apparently had just gotten home from her first session. Then you find out it was on zoom!
Vicki is spot on. Tamara needs to be off the show. I am so tired of her! There are a million other women in the OC that can take her place. Come on Bravo get somebody else and get rid of Tamara
@@donnalee2983 there is only ONE test to diagnose autism, for children and adults. It’s a shame people that have no idea what they’re talking about are yelling at another person. They hate who also has no idea what she’s talking about.
Love AND Miss you on the show, my conservative BUD! I CALL BS ON TAMRAT'S diagnosis as well. She's always been full of SH** wanting everyone to feel sorry for her.
From the beginning of Tamra saying she’s on the spectrum, The Brooks situation popped up in my mind. If they bring her back, they need to call her out on it, the same way she would do to anyone else.
As a neurodivergent adult, I spent years fumbling thru life. It took a very long time, and many professionals to diagnose me. Saying this journey can just pop up on a zoom call?! Heck no.
Vicky talking about mean girls, while she was the meanest never accepting anyone new in the group, and narcissist when she is also that. She was trying for people to feel sorry for Brooks. Vicky is one to talk.
Jag gillade Tamara förut, men hon har blivit så elak med tiden. Hon blir mer och mer elak. Varför? Hon har ju fina vänner omkring sig och en bra familj! Såg avsnittet igår och jag skäms hur hon beter sig mot dom. Sluta va elak. Det är en dålig egenskap.
My brother is autistic, he would cause harm to himself not anyone else. He is sweet, kind, helpful, brilliant. I am so sick of people using neurodivergence as a joke or an excuse to be mean. Being neurodivergent doesn't give you permission to excuse nasty behaviors or short comings and mistakes. For Tamara, she knows exactly what she is doing, her executions are premeditated as well as liquid up with courage during her 5 drinks of choice to later use as an excuse to cover up being mean. It's called choices, and Tamara chooses to do what she does holding a pre-made excuse card in her back pocket in attempts to worm her way out of repercussions when realizing her brilliant idea for 15 seconds turns out to be the wrong one.
My husband is level one autism- on the spectrum. It took 4 months and multiple medical interviews and intakes from both of us since we have been married 40 years. I never could stomach Tamra and she only gets more rabid with time.
That would be so hilarious if Alexis fast tracked a wedding in a desperate attempt to get back on the show full-time, and it backfires. 😂 Tamrat is only loyal to the Bravo check. She will do ANYTHING to keep her spot. This is supposed to be a reality show, so I dont want to hear Eddie's horshit about that's not the Tamrat he knows. Meaning she being mean for the show which nobody asked for.
Its funny because trailer trash tammy just accused Shannon of doing things to make people feel sorry for her she said it to Katie last episode and her she is guilty of everything she blames on Shannon 😮
I believe people can do just about any job they set their mind to. However, sales is generally not a career field where folks on ASD find a lot of success or even pursue. Tamra depends on sales, whether it's real estate, her cbd products or the other junk she sells on her social media, or even selling herself as a marketable housewife. And now of course, with this diagnosis, she's in a protected class so it's unlikely Bravo will dump her. Incredibly manipulative.
I just don’t get it, no one likes Tamra yet she stays. I hardly watch any more because of her but did catch this weeks the next day, I recorded it. She was so nasty and vile, laughing in peoples faces when they were visibly upset. It’s just not entertaining.
I wonder how is it her husband goes along with her crazy? Is it because he’s the house husband and he needs her to take care of him? This demon is out of control. She knows exactly what she is doing.
I completely agree with Vicki its disgusting that tamra would lie about having autism she is making a mockery of people that actually are autistic n she can try whatever she wants nothing will take the heat off her behavior this season i see exactly why her daughter wants nothing to do with her smh.
I worked with children and adults on the spectrum for six years, they are NOT vindictive and mean! This "diagnosis" is absolutely disgusting. Let's call it what it most likely is, narcissism or antisocial personality disorder.
Even if it is the case and I agree, you shouldn’t ask people to show their medical record. It’s just convenient that she just all of a sudden had this diagnosis now.
Had to come here quick 😮💨🤧 Tamra is gross and it’s offensive to those of us on the spectrum or have family who also are. Tamra is just a narcissist and sociopath as Gretchen said and she’s just a nasty person what a hypocrite swearing on her kids lives (which she has said many times on her podcast she hates housewives that do this) only for her or do the same and lie on camera about it 😬🙄
For want of a better word, tamRAT, the human mullet, ...never mind, human mullet says it all. The oc party needs Kelly! The human mullet will cut her down. However, Jenn did an admirable job.
100 percent Tamara Juge is a Narcissist we all diagnoses a Tamara along we already heard about this trauma season's ago she did a speech said she was seeing a therapist then Tamara u are played out
If that is the case, to use an illness like this 😪 is despicable. How in the world did that doctor diagnose Tamara so quickly? Plus can't people with autism be mean too, and it have nothing to do with their sickness?
Actually people with Asperger's can't control embassy. Autistic certainly can. However one thing I know for absolutely sure you do not get diagnosed in one 2 hour doctor's appointment. It took my grandson 3 years to get his diagnosis. They just thought he was a brat . I worked with children with special needs and have taken more courses on behavioral health than I care to remember for 35 years. This is not a one-day diagnosis it's multi-tiered and lengthy. So she definitely was not diagnosed with anything. Perhaps the counselor mentioned she could be this or that. However if it wasn't followed up with there's several tests you need to go through to diagnosis then bull crap. Just like Brooks with his cancer BS and his coffee enemas and is this and that it was offensive. So Vicky should be the last person saying anything. Because she likes to tell us how smart she is and yet she played so stupid when it came to brooks. My husband goes in for something I know everything I read everything. Nothing gets by me. Because usually the patients already overwhelmed. So I didn't buy Vicky and I'm not buying Tamara
The therapist did not diagnose Tamera with autism in a Zoom session. They may have explained that she has traits of autism and should explore it further. Narcissism is a form of personality disorder. There are other PDs, such as antisocial, that share similar characteristics, such as a lack of empathy for others.
Tamara's diagnosis still doesn't give her an excuse to be mean. Nor should she be excused for her actions because of it. Maybe if she was a child I would understand. All in my opinion
Tamra is defaming an entire group of people all to excuse her toxic behavior. There should be a class action defamation suit against Tamra and Bravo for continuing to platform such a reckless and disgusting person.
