Vim Tus Qub Txiv Lub Neej Thiaj Zoo. 9/25/2023 

Some of these of you need to get a life yourself. Why bash this lady? The moral of the story is that it's not the end of the road. There is still a chance for you to get out of a toxic relationship n start over. And it's perfectly OK. Smh

Thanks for sharing your story. You learned to respect and love yourself regardless of the narcissists in your life, whom continue to shame you publicly. Love how you ignored his actions and did not react. Self love, Self Worth and Hard Work! Great story.

Damnn these comments are not it. 😂 Let a lady have her moment. Let’s empower women and encourage them for their accomplishments instead of being so misogynistic. Be a part of the change-not the regression. Looking forward to hearing more about Hmong aunties who model how to set healthy boundaries and high standards for their partners. Cause we shouldn’t settle for any less. 💅☺️💁🏻‍♀️

So proud of you for loving yourself & knowing your self worth!!! Live a good life...whocares about that lazy Ex!!!

Viv ncaus tus txiv zoo li ntawv ces kav tsij muab nrauj mus zoo dua

Kuv ces tab tomrau iab liam li koj tiag me viv ncaus

My sister left her no good husband like this story too, his whole family tried to guilt her back to his sorry @ss. It is never too late to start over. Better 15 years than a lifetime of headache.

Pab koj zoo siab tus mi niam tais

Nej cov poj niam mas yom siab tsis zoo npaum txiv neej tiag2 li os tag es ntuj tsim nej yog poj niam os tsua muaj peb cov txiv neej lam khwv tau nej noj xwb yog nej khwv peb noj ces peb nej npav nrauj I’ve been working for the family for 15 years and now we are still together

Honey how are you going to say don't care about what he says and so on, and then talk about doing all of that to compete with his life. The best revenge is moving on and forgetting about that loser. Just forget him. I am a divorced Hmong woman. I live my life and don't give two shts about him and his life or what he says. I am in no competition with him. Don't care what he does with his life. It doesn't bother or matter to me.

Thank you for the greatest knowledge!! We’re not alone.

Thanks for share ur story

My first husband was like your ex... lazy and didn't want to work.. only want to play game. After 5 yrs, I left him too. I cannot deal with lazy men too. We are their wife, not their dNg mom or slave. My husband now is totally different and opposite of my ex.

Some good advice, but one thing I recommend to you is that you shouldn't overwork just to compete with others. Competing against others will just put pressure and stress on your health. Work to better yourself and your life but never compete or compare yourself with anyone or their material things.

Cas yv z kiag li kuv lub neej

Lol😂😂😂😂😂 we're back to Bachelors and master degree stories

vuag zaj dab neeg no txawv g deb kv lub niag neej yav tag dhau lo tiag cov niag txv dev liam ces yeej liam li no

Lady, just ignore him! He's a loser so let him be. Just be happy & live ur life. No need to "ua neej xeem nws".

Cov neeg txawj xa li koj muaj tsawg nawb ,tsuas muaj cov ncauj pauv ncauj xwb laiv !

nej cov pojniam uas xav xav tau txiv zoo nraug txiv tub nom txiv tsab muaj txiv tub ntxawg ces xooj laim yog txiv tub nkeeg xwb tiag, hos pojniam los ib yam nkaus thiab od.

More power to you sister. I wish every women is as strong as you and/or have self love.

Yog lawm ua neej nyob dawm 2nkawm niam txiv ces yuav tsum yog 2leeg khwv ib lug paab lub neej xwb txhaj yuav moog ib leeg khwv xwb ces tsuas coj lug txhaws nuj txhaws nqe xwb yeej 1hlis tsi cuag 1hlis le dawv los tsi txhob sib2 tshov ces nyiaj plig txhaj le nyob tsev.

Don't be too passionate regarding the ex. Just compete with yourself and focus your goals. The ex is trash and a lost cause. Regardless of who did you wrong, keep your focus on the prize.

Omg. My life is just sounds like the first 5 minutes into the story. So sad.

Tam tseeb laub!!!! Tus niam tsev aws!! Txhob quav ntsej koj niag txiv qub lawm, kav tsij nco txog nyiaj thiab kub, txhob quav ntsej leej twg hais yus lub qa, kav tsij hlub koj tus txiv tam sim nov xwb thiaj muaj koob nrov npe!!!!!

Nyob lub teb chaw no yog yus ib leeg khwv xwbbces yeej poob qab xwb os

Peb uas neej nyob ib leeg tsi txhob tsim ib leeg tsam ho npam nawb hmoob aws.

ทำไมเหมือนชีวิตเราจัง😂😂

Glad you walked away from this loser. He made you stronger and you appreciated the mishaps u had with him to make u stronger. “One door closes, another opens for you”.

Zoo kawg lawm. Tsuas yog pheej ntuas2 neeg nrog zaj neej neeg xwb.

Koj tau tus txiv tub nkeeg, siab phem thiab tsis muaj hom phiaj. Tus neeg zoo li no ces yeej caum tsis cuag luag.

Hi Niam ntsuab kuv tus poj niam xav nrog koj tham Ua cas thiaj tham tau.

I love the words of encouragement and empowerment. However, it’s stories like these that I want to come and hear a beginning, middle and end. I want stories that gives me imagination to relate with the characters and invest my emotions with it. Instead these stories are just personal venting, opinion and lectures. I don’t like these kind of story telling, because it’s not even full stories for me to kill time. Some of them just hurts my ears as if it’s my parents are lecturing me. If I need the lecture, I would’ve just gone to my parents 😂

Yog tshal plaws li...tus niag txiv tub nkeeg Mas dhuav Siab tshaj plaws li o lawv aw....nws yim cem yus ces nws yim phem xwb txhob nyuaj txog ....tus niag neeg siab phem ....tseev yus kgwv tuag nthi...Los nws yeej tsis ris yus li txiaj ntsig o lawv....txawm sib nrauj lawm Los txhob khuv xim txog tus niag neeg tub nkeeg li ntawd o...kuv niag txiv lem ces tib tug cwj pwm li koj niag thiab o..dhuav siab tshaj plaws li...

Zoo kawg ua koj muab nrauj lawm neeg tub nkeeg ces yeej mus tsis txog qhov twg

Of course they’ll always make you the bad one in the relationship and gossip about you. We don’t need to stoop to their level to get even. Just live your life to the fullest and be happy! That makes them itch. No need for revenge.

True story of when life gives you lemon, make lemonade. I too wished I divorced sooner rather than later!!

Thank you for this, I'm now happy divorced for 10 years, going strong with all my kids. I'm not looking for a husband or another lover. I'm just trying to get my kids financially secured for college. I'm thankful that he left with his mistress who was someone Else's wife.. lol.. joke on him player gonna play. Can't turn a hoe into a house wife

Why wait for 10 years to divorce him? Shouldn't wait that long to divorce.,....u waste your time too long to divorce your ex. 3 years is the maximum to divorce. Happy that u got financial stable life. Remember font wait too long to divorce when marriage font work out.

Why does this story sound like so many Hmong men

Thov muab se lawm nawb

Yawg kawg txhob mob siab rau siab khwv nyiaj mus vacation noj qab hnav zoo ua kom yus zoo nkauj haib tshaj plaws xwb! Thaum yus zoo zoo lawm nws tej lus thuam tsis muaj laij abtsi neeg yeej tsis cuab pob ntseg rau nws li os!😅

Ladies, I agreed with all your comments. But, keep in mind that not all Hmong men are lazy. The story tells me this man was uneducated, showed no respect to woman, etc.

Im so proud of you lady!!!

Sister, feel like you still care about him. If you don't care. stop talking about him just live your life.

Ua ib lub neej es yog koj mus tau ib tug txiv dev Liam li koj tus txiv dev yuav es zoo ua dab tsi

Xav tias yuav muab kv zaj tuaj rau kj haig no tab sis zaj no tưb zoo li kv lub tam sim no ntag tos ri tas xa lawm os

I'm happy for you sister. Thank you for setting a good example for us women.

The wife should just stay under the husband. That’s the better way to go…. Give me a HELL YEAH….

Ntxim qab kawg

I just have one question. Why are you still entertaining your ex? Why do you still allow him to get to you? Do you understand that the more time you give to his lies and bullshit you are giving him the power to destroy your happiness. You are still allowing his crap to get to you. Let it go. Let him talk all he wants. Sued him if it bothers you so much. Get a court order against him for slandering your character. Otherwise you are going to lose what you have work so hard to built with your new life. Closed that door and wash your hands.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us, sister.

Lady, you are not as strong as you claimed. You claimed that you don't pay attention to his constant bad words against you, but throughout this story you are very angry. Your Buddhist monk advised you not to respond and here you are responding. Here you advised all the nkauj nrab kom txhob quav ntsej, tiam sis koj twb tseem quav ntsej heev. It seems that you still miss him a lot

Omg, this preaching story is all over the place. I had to stop listening 10 minutes into it.

100% yog

The only who diaagree with this lady is stupid sexist 1975 hmong men..😅😅😅😅😅...i support her story and for giving her side....stay strong and learn from these stories for all women, kick out the loser and love yourself..

Draining story move quick with this one.

Passing on these stories that sound too much like life lessons/lectures instead of telling a story

OMG! What's the point of this story? I understand your a good woman who work hard. Why care so much of what people are saying as long as you're happy and took all the credits ces just move on. Xav ua neeg zoo ces behave and do all the good deeds xwb mam, ntuj awv!

You should of have left a long time ago...

Ib tug poj raug not 100%. Only 50/50.

You have too much time on your hands to be engaging him and listening to his rumors that is spread about you.

Koj thiaj yog tus khib koj niag qub txiv ntag hos cas nws tsis tuaj hais khav nws hos koj ho yog tus tuaj khav maj koj haj yam khib nws os

Another Ted Talk. Summary: after you leave a useless husband, go make something of yourself. Focus on your life and make your ex jealous of your success. You are welcome.

Es yuav tau txij nkawm toob nkeeg txij nkawm tsis tees koos loos ua cas nej ho uv xyoo tag xyoo tuaj, yug plab mi nyuag tag plab mi nyuam tuaj, es ho mus noog lwm tus ua tsis nrog nej yuav nej niag txij nkawm ntawd hais tias nej yuav ua li cas yuav nrauj los yuav yuav no na? Es nej nim tsis txawj txiav txiam siab xyoo 1 los xyoo 2 hais tias niag txij nkawm ntawd tsis txog twg, es yog ho o ib plab lawm los txhob cia o plab 2 es yuav nkim 1 xyoos 2 xyoos lawm los yuav tawm tsis thas tos leej twg tso cai no los? 🤔🙃 Yog nej tawm thaum xyoo 1 xyoo 2 ces kuj tsis tsim drama ntau npaum li tej nej tau txais ntawd. Yog thaum nej twb ho thev taus tau 10 tawm xyoo, kam yug tsheej tse mi nyuam es mam ho khiav ces kuj yog nej ntxeev siab xwb 😂 Es nim ho yuav mus saib saub ntseeg hmoov. Erhh.. Just speechless 😶

Poj niam ntshaw2 cov txawj2 sib tsuav ntsuag xwb

Cas tus poj nrauj twg los puav leej tag bachelor los yog masters xwb os ntshe nyias khav nyias xwb os

Hummmmm.....tus neeg nquag thiab nkees thaum yus thiab nws sib tham ua nkauj ua nraug yus yeej paub sab.....I'm not sure what to think about this woman's mindset. One side story don't make a whole true story.

Niam jouateng has the best lecture stories.

Tuaj qhuas yus ua luaj os laj mloog tag finally hang it.