Life is already hard enough when 2 people are deeply in love. Hmong Culture of kidnapping brides are inhumane. My heart breaks for those women trapped in loveless marriages. So many lives ruined…. Especially the children.
It's not her fault, it's your fault, you're lucky you was able to steal her youth and life with you instead of spending your life in jail for forcing her to be with you.
Koj yeej paub zoo hais tias koj tsis yog tus nyob hauv nws lub siab koj yuam nws los yuav koj xwb. Cia nws mus nws ywj siab. Don't ever force love, find your true love is the most amazing thing on earth.
This is not right. You did this upon yourself from the beginning bc you knew she didn't love you, but you forced her/kidnapped. Yog peb cov poj niam ua li no rau nej cov txiv neej xyov puas kav 3 hnub as
That poor girl. That was wrong to trick her into thinking it’s her cousin. You can’t honestly blame her for what she did at the end. Of course she should had divorced you before she start seeing other men. Turns out you both were wrong. You were 100% wrong at the beginning and she was 100% wrong at the end.
Nej os nyob America teb lawm los tseem ua txawv li txawv xwb os. Tos neej tsis kawg os. Khib lav khib kaus. Khib xuab. Khib dwb. Life is not a game that you can play like that.
Twb tuaj niyob lub tebchaws vam meej lawm cas nej lub siab tseem tsis tau vam meej li naj? Nej tseem coj lub neej qub2 li thaum tseem nyob nplog teb thiab lau... nej lub cev lam tuaj nyob mekas, tiamsis lub hlwb tseem nyob nplog tebchaws. Zoo kawg uas Paj Taub kuj txawj foom kawg lawm lau...
Tuaj nyob rooj teb no lawm tseem ua lub maib ko thiab ces tsis work 😭😭😭😭 txhob tu siab neb 2 niag poj niam mus yuav America xwb ces yeej tsis kav laus, 1 hnub twg ces yeej yuav los kua muag ib yam li neb thiab😭😭😭😭
Yep karma is a b*tch! You can't expect to live happily ever after by forcing someone to be with you. Love cannot be forced. You should be thankful she didn't press charges and put all your @$$es in jail. Try to pull that off now, you'll never see daylight again.
To the owner of this story. If this was my story I would be so ashamed to even let people know that I’ve robbed a young girl’s whole life. EMOTIONALLY…. How sad is that!.
Your friend siab phem thiaj tsis tau zoo pojniam. I am glad your wife is strong enough to find her happiness and not be tied down with a man who forced her into a life she never wants.
You are not even human to violate someone else’s rights to choose their life and future. Nothing to be proud of for choosing such savage cultural practice in order to have a spouse.
Kuv kuj nrog koj tu siab tias vim yog koj nyiam nws heev es koj thiaj tau ua li no los vim yog peb hmoob yeej coj tej niag kev cai zoo li no los lawm es koj twb ua zoo kawg los nws tseem ua siab phem rau koj thiab tabsis Kuv ntseeg tau tias txoj kev ua txij nkawm yog tau Tus uas yeej tsis muaj kev nkauj nraug sib paub siab ces los nyob ua ke lub neej yeej tsis sov siab os mog. Es zoo siab uas koj nrhiav tau tus neb sib hlub lawm os.
Once you man did something wrong in 1st place n now thing turn around let them go go as far as they want. Always remember jungle fowl always jungle fowl can’t turn into chicken in the farm no matter how you good husband or good wife never change that person mind. Karma is real once catch you later will catch the other on right time right place n right person just sit back n watch…..
You probably have a good heart but put yourself in her shoes. Imagine being forced to marry someone you don’t like, you would left a long time ago. Just because you want and like someone doesn’t mean they will reciprocate the feelings.
Koj tsis mus yuav tus phim koj, mus yuam tus neeg tsis nyiam yus los yuav ces tsis thas hais lo lus tu siab li os. Zaum ob tseem mus ntsib qhov loj lawm thiab ces haj yam tsis rov los lawm os.
YOG KAWG nawb law tsis hu police rau koj ces twb zoo dhau lawm nawb nej yeej paub zoo tias nyob lub tebchaws miskas no luag txoj cai loj thiab nruj heev koj tus pojniam twb zoo dhau tsis muab txim rau koj es koj thiaj li tsis tau mus nyob nkuaj los laus li ko nawb vim luag tsis pom koj txoj kev zoo nraug hauv koj lub plawv tuaj na nawb
Tos npam los... nej thaj no tsis yog ua cuav vauv nas thaub. Mus ua cuav vauv mas yog thaum tus vauv mus ua tshoob tsis tau es muab ib tus kwv tij mus ua tuv vauv. Ib yam li thaum ub cov nom hmoob yuav niam yau es lawv ua nom loj dhau tsis xav mus pe niam pe txiv ces lawv nrhiav ib tus kwv tij mus ua cuav vauv. Thiab thaum ub nyob Vinai ces nrhiav neeg mus ua cuav vauv ua tshoob tas mam xa tus poj niam lawv qab vim tus txiv/tus vauv xub ua ntej mus Meskas/Fab Kis lawm...
Cov niag txiv neeg hmoob mas tej tus niag dab dab tuag los khav yuav tus poj niam zoo zoo nkauj xwb los muaj coob tus txiv mas twb tsis hlub nws tus poj niam uas nws twb tsis phim ntawd thiab nawj…
Y'all saying this and that this is the old ways when our people first came to the country. Was what he did was wrong, yes, but this is what our people did. We, as the first generation of hmong Americans, don't think this way, but our parents did. Yes, his marriage failed because it was partly his fault, but why didn't she just leave him? When you don't love someone, you can just leave. It's both their fault why cheat of you don't want to be with someone
She was 14!!!! And she tried leaving but they wouldn’t let her. What was a 14 yo to do??? She was trapped after he knocked her up. That’s the Hmong way…get her pregnant, threaten to keep the kids, and she’s trapped to stay. She had to wait til she was old enough to not care what others say/do and to finally be able to support herself.
Oyo! Why trick someone to marry you? Have some self respect that you are enough for someone to love not trick them into marriage. It's your fault for your failed marriage. I feel sorry for this girl that you ruined her life and taken away her youth.
doesn't matter how much you love someone, if they don't love you, learn to let it go. I told my kids that. it's better to shade a tears now then live in a love hate relationship like a prison cell forever. because you might have her or him sexually but you will never have her or his heart and usually 99.9% goes to us men for back then kidnap bride or force marriage. let's live and learn and abandon the ugly pass.
First, understand that women like a man who has guts and obviously you didnt have that, secondly, never forced someone to love you, and lastly, if you know the girl likes your friend and he even hold her hands and was able to say sweet words to her--thats a big sign its gonna come back and bite u in your butt. You did it to yourself, sorry not sorry. Period.
Brother you should not kidnapped her. That is wrong. You very don't know if she love you or not. If she don't love you that let her go. Then find someone else. This is all your fault because of you. Shame to yourself.
Ua cuav vauv ces mag roob taus li koj tiag thaub....nej cov txiv neej mas phem nraug lo pheej xaiv tu zoo nkauj....twb yog koj tu qub poj niam ruam os yog nws ntse es nej pab phooj ywg nkag nkuaj tas nrho....
Phoojyawg, yog tiam 80 thiab 90 xwb yog tim no ces mag jail for sure. Ua cuav cauv yog ib qhov phem kawg kiag rau tus pojniam, yuav tau lub cev xwb twb tsis tau lub siab. 😊
Nej cov hmoob ruam ntawm nej es twb nyob lub teb chaws mekas lawm los tseem npav lub ua cuav vauv thiab, koj lub ntsej muag qias neeg npaum li cas es koj ho tsis nuaj peev xwm mus tham hluas nkauj es koj tseem kom lwm tus ua cuav vauv rau koj thiab na. Koj txawm nyiam nws los nws twb tsis nyiam koj na, cas tsis paub tu siab thiab txaj muag li os, kuv yog tus ntxhais ces koj thiab koj cov neeg wb pom tsev kaw neeg lawm lau.
muaj ib zaug ces kaus zaum kiag tim ib sab sofa ces ntsia ntsoov pajtaub lub mis lojliloj lub pim o wv kua nrog zig xwb ces thaum ntawm kaus nrho loo ntiv tes mus lij kiag mas zoo nyob tiag2 thaum ntawm ces pajtaub ces tsa ceg siab li siab ces thaum ntawm kaus confused tag li lawm...thaum ntawm pajtaub ua pobtw nyav2 tag ces kaus hajyam confuse ntxim zaum 2 lawm thiab...lmfao...
