Awe sweetie you don’t have to be qualified to tell people your story and help people. People want to just feel like they aren’t alone in their grief and suffering. It’s so wonderful to hear how others coped with their losses in life. Bless you hun. You’re are so amazing and kind. Love ya 💜 I hope you know that I am here for you if you ever need ❤️
Thank you, Laura! Some people, me included, don't look to professionals or councilors but instead look to caring friends to help through their grief. Sometimes the love of friends and family is the greatest therapy. Thank you for caring enough to do this very important video!
Aww Minxy! As a child I lost my grandparents, and also my father.. I've lost other loved ones since.. Please never doubt yourself, you do help a lot.. I used to have a lot of depression and anxiety, though these days I feel so much more hopefull and positive.. I'm so thankful for people like you, for ASMR.. your grandparents would be so incredibly proud of you.. and so are every one else 💖🤗💖
Wonderful Vlog. You don’t need to be qualified to talk about your thoughts, advice, and experiences. That comes from the heart, and a lot of people are more comfortable talking to a friend or hear from someone they know than a therapist. The most important thing I find in grief is to talk about it and the person you lost. Don’t let there memory die. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
I've been through grief a couple of times. My nan died in July 1982, my father died in 1991, my grandfather died in 2014, we learn to live with it and put it in the back of our minds, but today being fathers day was a special day, thought of my father Douglas Dexter, but spent quality time with my son Adam Dexter. You did this video well Laura x
I just want to say thank you so much for making this video, Laura. For anyone that has lost a loved one just know my heart goes out to you. I lost my dad in 2017 from lung cancer and my mom this past January from Luekemia and complications with surgery. It has messed me up on so many levels, and I know there are people younger than me that no longer have their parents, and to them I'm very sorry, but I honestly feel cheated. My mom and I were very close and she fought so hard for four years and I was her caretaker through it all. Laura you are 100% correct, you are never prepared. Even though I knew the outcome I was not prepared at all. It is extremely difficult losing a loved one, not to mention someone who I was very close to, I honestly feel like a part of me is missing. I try my best to remember all the good times we had together and to keep their memory alive. I know my parents would want me to go on and live the best life I can and I most definitely believe they are in a better place now and have peace, so that makes me feel a little better even though I miss them both so much, and wish I could hug them and tell them how much I love them. I'm sorry for the long comment, just wanted to share my story, and again thank you so much for putting this out there. And to whoever else that's reading this or have gone through this, much love to you. Please know that you are not alone ❤️
Grieving is an individual thing and everyone deals with it differently! I think that’s important for people to know and this topic is important! My family and I have lost 5 people in our family in the last 2 years it’s been a horrible roller coaster. The last one just this past January. But of all my grandmothers death in 2010 was by far the hardest and I’m in the same boat in as I will never get over it! Time helps but you never forget. Thanks for bringing up this topic my friend xoxo love and hugs 💜💕✨
Hi Laura you did really great in this video you said to everything right . I lost my dad 21 years ago yesterday. Grief is so hard I was a right daddy's girl and found it so hard to move in . I became a bit of a zombie just trying to get through day to day until I got a real depression my Dr put me through to a councilling . I had this lady cone out to my home for a hour every week for period of 12 weeks . Dad was terminally ill and although we knew what was coming it's still so hard to accept . I don't think I really knew what heart break was until dad passed . I didn't feel peopke wanted to hear the way dad died it was traumatic we had to decide to turn his life surport machine off. Afterwards you start to think what if I kept him on the machine would he get better even though deep down I knew the end would come nothing would bring him back again . I also had dreams seeing my dad in his coffin . I went to go see dad in his coffin and every time I closed my eyes that's all I saw dad laying in his coffin . I starting writhing my feelings down that's what the councils advised me to do . I didn't think it would work but I wrote a long long letter 9to dad and it really helps afterwards I burnt it and it was so helpful now every anniversary birthday Christmas I still go to his grace but I do believe that my dad is around me all the time I felt him sitting on my bed the other night it was not scary as I done how know out was dad . I hope this might help people . Laura you spike so much sence you really did xxx
