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@Derafog
@Derafog 10 месяцев назад
What a handsome ketchup bottle
@imranplayza4506
@imranplayza4506 10 месяцев назад
at 00:00 imma call you
@JosephJoestar69420
@JosephJoestar69420 10 месяцев назад
wut
@FUREXE
@FUREXE 10 месяцев назад
Thanks.
@Terra_virus
@Terra_virus 9 месяцев назад
pov quest users
@darkvader542
@darkvader542 10 месяцев назад
soo u telling me because of a nuke i am now a catgirl on the internet
@Snitchie
@Snitchie 10 месяцев назад
hahaha, the universe works in mysteries ways xD
@CyroXero
@CyroXero 10 месяцев назад
Japan: If you nuke us, you will become more degenerate than you can possibly imagine.
@Wolfy1012
@Wolfy1012 10 месяцев назад
Yes. Welcome to the butterfly effect
@waffler-yz3gw
@waffler-yz3gw 10 месяцев назад
@@Wolfy1012thats the opposite of the butterfly effect. something catastrophically large culminating into something very trivial
@ventral3961
@ventral3961 10 месяцев назад
Ur goddamn right
@infiniteblink
@infiniteblink 10 месяцев назад
its rediculous how difficult it is to find a decent male avatar in VRChat....
@noodle714
@noodle714 10 месяцев назад
just go to the avatar search world man, there's like millions of em
@Esceecee
@Esceecee 10 месяцев назад
@@noodle714 Ive done that like 6 times, nothing on there but buff playboy models trying to throw their nuts in my face, male crasher avatars that a bright as fuck, awfully made avatars that look like it was thrown into a microwave for 5 minutes, skinny and lanky mfers with weird looking heads and off proportion bodys. you get my point
@waffler-yz3gw
@waffler-yz3gw 10 месяцев назад
just get a femboy, they're still males
@ShinjuNLG
@ShinjuNLG 10 месяцев назад
Yea. That's why I use either a female or furry avatars. I just do not like the male avatars that are available right now.
@SnakeTheHat
@SnakeTheHat 10 месяцев назад
TRUEEEEE. Even on Booth all the high quality male avatars look aggressively like bottoms.
@Druew
@Druew 10 месяцев назад
This was an absolutely amazing and well-put-together video, and I can't wait to see more from you!
@untamablewolf
@untamablewolf 10 месяцев назад
Drueww edit bc idk if I'd ever get to tell you othereise: Your content is what finally inspired me to get vr and go and socialize. I've seen other people's funny moment type videos but it never really sold me on buying a headset or playing vrc. Idk if its a comfort thing with my own gender and seeing you not getting like immediately slandered when you drop to your natural speaking voice but your videos gave me the push
@MayW15663
@MayW15663 10 месяцев назад
⁠​⁠@@untamablewolfI feel the same way. His content helped me find my own voice and pushed me to voice train. I sometimes “voice troll” too but it’s something I’ve had fun with and made me care less about negative reactions to my transness since I just treat my “guy voice” as a fun party trick I can do.
@weikeinennamenxd597
@weikeinennamenxd597 10 месяцев назад
When new video
@sxstation
@sxstation 9 месяцев назад
Please upload more vids 🙏
@OpaXas
@OpaXas 8 месяцев назад
bro we need you back
@BeyondTheSide
@BeyondTheSide 10 месяцев назад
dont really think i am trans but i am just a lot more comfortable being comfortable if i am using a female avatar it's basically a break from having to "be a man" and all that shite. it's nice
@MayW15663
@MayW15663 10 месяцев назад
That’s completely understandable and valid.
@baqly
@baqly 9 месяцев назад
People often get confused and bothered but, identity and presentation dont have to correlate, and some people might like feminine presentation while still being confident in their gender. Taking a break from like all the ideas of self and just letting lose is always fun, no matter what kind of person you are
@fartmaster28
@fartmaster28 9 месяцев назад
I feel the same dressed as a boy
@estropocky
@estropocky 7 месяцев назад
Right, I get ya. Having to play the role of "masculinity" when you didn't ask for it in the first place can really be awfully stifling. I didn't want to be relied on to be a strong, powerful leader, or a big tough guy. It was like being shoved into clothes that didn't fit me very comfortably. I could wear them and not complain, but It wasn't very fun, and I felt awkward being percieved as what I was seen as.
@Cazra-VaporwaveWitch
@Cazra-VaporwaveWitch 10 месяцев назад
Although VRChat is well-known in the trans community for making omelets, sometimes cis guys just want to look like cute anime girls, and that's valid. 🥚
@unknownsofa
@unknownsofa 10 месяцев назад
Can confirm, I everyone wants to look cute! :3
@waffler-yz3gw
@waffler-yz3gw 10 месяцев назад
i just wanna look like a dog person and recieve head pets from my lovely boyfriend
@haydenuwu
@haydenuwu 10 месяцев назад
'xactly. I'm completely confident being a dude, but I've spent about 10 minutes in male avatars over my nearly 1000 hours in VRC lol
@sa1he1a2
@sa1he1a2 10 месяцев назад
You can be a cute anime boy too. :(
@enderarchery2153
@enderarchery2153 10 месяцев назад
As a transgirl... yea. Yea that's fine. It doesn't make you trans. Your very own personal reasons for choosing a girl is the thing, that might indicate that you're trans. Because in that case you might notice that it means more to you and go into thought spirals about why it might mean more to you. THAT is the indicator. Not that you find the avatar pretty and... why would you choose the (to you) uglier one
@VarooVT
@VarooVT 10 месяцев назад
VRChat one month in: using gorou from Genshin impact as my avatar Two months in: found the mint base , used it and saw myself in a mirror *OH* moment Three months in: I’m a vtuber now Honestly I don’t regret anything it changed my whole life path and lead me to meet amazing people and make incredible friendships
@warsin8641
@warsin8641 10 месяцев назад
We like girls not men that's probably why being in a girl body is so intresting and attractive to us 🤣
@CptJistuce
@CptJistuce Месяц назад
It's interesting you say that. In flatscreen games, I play as the ladies whenever there's an option. And to my recollection, I rolled that way pre-puberty too. Not just because Toadstool was the easiest character to play in Super Mario 2, I just liked playing as girls. In VR, I play as dudes. Girl avatars are kinda weird and just feel wrong. My shoulders aren't supposed to be that narrow, my chest isn't supposed to be that honkable, my ass ain't supposed to be that round. It gives me the heebie-jeebies when I look down and see some chick where I belong. If this is how transgender folks feel in meatspace, then... ummm... yeah. Having to live like that all the time sounds horrifying.
@CerealBowlSystem
@CerealBowlSystem 10 месяцев назад
I approach this question with a tangential angle: the desire for cuteness. As you've said in the video, a lot of male avatars are geared more towards the "swole" side, and a lot of men just don't want to conform to that. A lot of men just want to be cute, but representations of cute men in avatars are rarer, and thus it's easier to default to the next best thing, that being cute female avatars. I think the argument of the disparity in avatar support makes sense, tho it doesn't explain the large amount of VRChat users who just pick avatars from an avatar world and are more inclined towards choosing the cuter option. Still a valid point nonetheless. There's a parallel to be made between female anime avis and furry avis. Furries also tend to often go towards seeking cuteness in how they represent themselves, and in a lot of cases it's even how they become furries in the first place. When you're not satisfied by the cuteness of human avatars as a whole, then the next best thing is a fluffy animal. Great video, and as a trans person I must thank you for approaching the transphobia aspect with care ❤
@sleeve9097
@sleeve9097 9 месяцев назад
furries are creepy to me. i never found them cute. the mixture of human and animal is uncanny. if it’s a pure animal avatar that’s fine. not if it’s on two legs
@DRAGON_K1NG_8925
@DRAGON_K1NG_8925 10 месяцев назад
I play as them because they're hot lol.
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
chad
@blueberry1c2
@blueberry1c2 9 месяцев назад
This is why I learned how to use blender. I straight up could not find an avatar that felt like it was me. I'm not a pile of muscle, I'm not a tiny eboy, I'm not a tiny Knuckles, I'm not an amogus or master chief. But I'm also not an anime girl, and seeing as I was pretty much out of options for premade avatars, I chose to make my own. And if I'm doing a custom job, might as well make it unique. Thankfully there are at least a few generic male bases on DeviantArt so I had somewhere to start. Wishing I could post a picture of my avi in my comment. Even though the final product is rough around the edges, I am very happy with it. I can't see myself using another avatar, and one of my vr friends said they couldn't imagine me as anything else either. But about getting started with the avatar creation pipeline... It's easy for me to say it was worth it, but I recognize how big the barrier to entry can be. Even for someone who had used CAD before (SolidWorks) and was familiar with working in 3D, it was hard to get started. I am extremely grateful for the tutorials out there. If you don't like that idea and have some paper to spend, commisioning a custom avatar is always an option. If you do want to go the creation route, my advice is to absorb tutorials like a sponge and make sure theyre specific to making avatars. "Vrchat avatar" is a popular search term so you'll get a lot of search results. It's important to have an idea about what you want to make before you start. But most importantly, take it easy. Don't rush through the steps, especially in blender, or else you'll find yourself going back to redo things several times (Tbh this might happen regardless of how careful you are). And you don't need to have it done in a week, take your time. If you see it to completion, you'll have a kickass avi and gain some kickass artistic and technical skills. I'll close off by saying everyone deserves an avatar that resonates with them. It represents you, after all. To anyone who's still looking for one, I'm rooting for your search!
@marioluigi27
@marioluigi27 10 месяцев назад
Meanwhile I'm already trans but have to represent myself with femboy avatars because nothing else really fits the way I wanna represent myself
@coltynstone-lamontagne
@coltynstone-lamontagne 10 месяцев назад
This is why some people make their own avatar to hit exactly what they want (or pay someone to if they have money)
@marioluigi27
@marioluigi27 10 месяцев назад
@@coltynstone-lamontagne im far too lazy to learn how to make my own avatar but also im far too broke to commission so I'm stuck lol
@Keanine
@Keanine 10 месяцев назад
​@@marioluigi27They're pretty generic but have you tried VRoid?
@Akab
@Akab 10 месяцев назад
​@@Keaninevroid is a godsend: sure, pure vroids might look generic in most cases but they can look way better, nothing like the typical "vroid look" if you put enough time and effort into it (and it's still easier than making avatars from scratch) ^^
@mclama1139
@mclama1139 10 месяцев назад
@@Akab 100% it allows you to make a pretty basic but unique avatar as a begginer and if you really get into it you can make some pretty crazy stuff
@rinvovrc
@rinvovrc 10 месяцев назад
From the creator side i want to add that its way easier to hit uncanny valley making male avatar than female, it varies quite a lot
@SkyYukiGuy
@SkyYukiGuy 10 месяцев назад
It's hard to find male avatar that's normal. You'll have easier time going for tomboy female model instead. And if anime aesthetic aren't a must then there male video game characters models rip since that seem to be the only source of normal male avatar. That is Half life models are pretty nice.
@YasaiDayo
@YasaiDayo 10 месяцев назад
You’re a genuine hidden gem in RU-vid for VR related videos. I’m really glad I found you a few months ago and I’m still really dumbfounded how your channel isn’t bigger than it is! You deserve so many more subscribers 😭 The effort you put into every video is phenomenal 🥰❤️
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
we gettin there
@itsmcmann
@itsmcmann 10 месяцев назад
I went into VRChat in 2020 to shitpost, and was incredibly uncomfortable initially with the idea of everyone being an anime girl. Now it feels weird to see male avatars in my own circles, tbh. One of my friends made a male version of his avatar, and whenever he switches to it we pull a Spongebob movie moment, like when King Neptune takes the paper bag off. Everyone's pointing and changing BALD! BALD! BALD! --we do that, except "MAN! MAN! MAN!" mostly because it's funny but also because it just stands out. We're all confidently men, I think I heard it best in someone else's documentary on this subject. "I just want to be cute." Like you said, we're kinda socially conditioned as men to act a certain way, like certain things; the idea of masculinity has really devolved into something much more toxic than what it should be. VRChat won't make you a woman, or turn you gay or trans or what have you; but what it will do is open your mind.
@delboy6301
@delboy6301 10 месяцев назад
when i first started playing vrchat i thought "the male avatars look gross compaired to everyone else " thats mainly because of the contrast it highlights between the female anime avi's and the memes and other stuff and im not used to a group of buff shirtless people telling me the most dumb stuff when vrchat is known for the memes and anime girls. when i started playing I made a vroid model and worked on custom textures like hair,ears,hoodie and shoes and im really proud of it and would use it as my main avatar but then the eyes got super wonky when following a youtube video for blender and testing it in vrchat desktop. Then my laptop screen broke and i couldn't finish the model and any tweaks in blender. still got it in a sd card somwhere might get to it someday. i feel like ive been rambling well hoped you liked the comment. Yay cool bye
@awesomesillyman
@awesomesillyman 10 месяцев назад
yeah, vroid seems to the the only option if you want a custom avi that's male and isn't really weird. I wish there was another option, but it's a pretty good only option
@Wolfy1012
@Wolfy1012 10 месяцев назад
While we’re talking avatars, let me give a further shout out to my furry and trans furry homies. I am neither, but I appreciate that y’all are some of the nicest, most pleasant, chillest people I’ve hung out with in VRC and some good new friends.
@DarlingKermity
@DarlingKermity 10 месяцев назад
Ew?
@RTMonitor
@RTMonitor 9 месяцев назад
Lmao, the ew response. Never thought that one word with emotion really gives us the whole message of different ways of how the comment is interpreted.
@Ozzy622
@Ozzy622 9 месяцев назад
​@@RTMonitorOne of the millions of people who mix being a furry and a zoophile, not very rare to see.
@crying3332
@crying3332 Месяц назад
@@DarlingKermity its ok, my mom said the same thing when i was born!
@Kibikita
@Kibikita 10 месяцев назад
Mad respect for the comments towards the end of this video. Good shit boneless. Glad i found you.
@my_bear_collection3958
@my_bear_collection3958 10 месяцев назад
This is why we need more femboys
@waffler-yz3gw
@waffler-yz3gw 10 месяцев назад
going from talking about dudes who look like girls in video games from *spoilers* world war fucking two was certainly the rollercoaster
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
Never let them know your next move
@ObviousNoob11
@ObviousNoob11 10 месяцев назад
Finding a masculine avatar is super hard. They all have guns, camofage or no shirt. Most of the male avatars look like women dressed like guys, or just boys. If someone talented made good men (not boys) avatars they could corner the market. I'm stuck running around as a robot....
@LifeofBrad1
@LifeofBrad1 9 месяцев назад
I haven't used VRChat since 2018, but my go to avatars were the Genie from Aladdin and Captain Ginyu from Dragon Ball 😄
@foxriver9156
@foxriver9156 10 месяцев назад
Also, I've observed a very simple, and it seems, obvious phenomenon: the female form in VRC is more approachable, and is immediately treated with more kindness. As a relative newbie, a guy who only has about 500 hours in VRC, I've been quietly asking myself this question since the beginning. I've seen a number of my male friends switch to maining a female avi, and I've been curious as to what the psychology is to that. I think you covered a good chunk of it. But I think the simplest fact is most people who spend a lot of time in there enjoy being treated well, and sad to say.. we currently live in a society that is hostile to the male form. It's a nice change to be immediately, and constantly, treated with kindness.
@AluRooftop
@AluRooftop 9 месяцев назад
Masculinity and the male form is often seen as inherently dangerous and violent, and no one wants to look intimidating and dangerous in vrchat, we wanna look cozy and friendly! Really hard to make your personal aesthetics click when there's a bunch of "angry grr smash stuff" energy emanating from your shoulder to hip ratio and your facial hair
@ronnochopper
@ronnochopper 9 месяцев назад
@@AluRooftop Haha, this is now my favorite comment of all time!
@CptJistuce
@CptJistuce Месяц назад
Also, let's be honest. The "gamer community" is mostly dudes that like seeing girls.
@HoshPak
@HoshPak 10 месяцев назад
Carl Jung already described humans as beings of duality in his anima and animus theory. VRChat tends to nurtures that part in us that is often repressed by societal norms and allows us to express ourselves in a (mostly) safe environment. And by doing so, I noticed that I'm now feeling much more confident taking on my more traditional roles IRL. It helped me self-improve and foster some of the most beautiful friendships I've ever had.
@Dark_SQRL
@Dark_SQRL 9 месяцев назад
Using mamehinata (and the like) brings out the loving, long lost inner child from us I found. It helps me slowly overcome being hateful and negative, just because you wouldn't say those things when using such a bright and friendly avatar.
@vladioanalexandru4222
@vladioanalexandru4222 10 месяцев назад
Gotta be honest, I played vrchat only a few times and I picked a female avatar because it looked better. Though I have to use my voice or creeps start trying to get under me and look up my dress. That's the one time I think I understood why women fear walking alone. I myself don't really care about the aesthetic of my avatar when I can't see it. I care more about functionality in VR and how I can interact with things. That's why I play simulators and shooters more so than social games. Either way, you are doing good videos even if having a female avatar is slightly weird.
@DisasterVae
@DisasterVae 10 месяцев назад
I should really set aside some time to try VRChat again. It seems like so much fun if you really get into it and videos like this getting in my recommended consistently is just a constant reminder
@snapper26
@snapper26 10 месяцев назад
Tbh your avatar is one of the reasons I've stick to your channel, the surprise of seeing a female character with a male voice was something super interesting at first and made me stay lol but I'm in the group that feels more comfortable with female avatars, it adds a bit of the "escape-from-reality" scenario and not having to follow stereotypes.
@DecimatedVR
@DecimatedVR 10 месяцев назад
There is an outsider view of VRChat that has a huge stigma about males using female avatars, mostly popularized by the years-old and stale joke of a male sounding a lot like a female by disguising their voice and trolling someone. Often it is one of these videos that most people see when they are introduced to VRChat, and even though people have been making them for six long years at this point, they're still one of the most common videos found when searching for VRChat videos. Because of that, there is a huge misconception of what it means to wear a female avatar in VRChat, most of which comes from people who never play or play VRChat very little. I just want to give a heartfelt thank you for this video, which goes beyond this surface-level understanding of the phenomena and attempts to explain the nuanced atmosphere present on the platform. I wish it could be as popular as the other videos, and I really wish we could have calm and intelligent videos like it instead of the endless stream of voice trolling and knee-jerk reaction vids that I feel lead to such phobias. Good job.
@onikoi
@onikoi 10 месяцев назад
I can't even begin to thank you for the incredible content you make man, small or not; in my eyes this is one of, if not the best VR(C) channels on YT. you deserve two extra zeros on that 5.28K! I've seen your videos pop-up multiple times over the past year, but I never watched any of them until last month while I was recovering from surgery, and man did you put a smile on my face. I literally had to pause one of your videos just to stop the pain from laughing. this video was lovely besides the random microphone changes, the perfect mixture of education, comedy, conversational topics, relatability, information, and etc. yada yada yada, I'm in love with this channel and ever since your videos helped me recover, I look forward to every video you post in the future and wish nothing but the best for you and the channel! this video does not only succeed at making me smile, laugh, think, and relate; but it also makes me feel like I'm having a conversation though it's only one person talking! I'd love to actually have a conversation with you some day, but until then I'll just keep watching these crazy good videos when you keep posting! if you do read all of this, thank you for what you do, and seriously don't stop! much love
@ScheelAngel
@ScheelAngel 10 месяцев назад
Maybe conversation is closer than you think. I won’t reveal how, but you can find it. I’ve been able to talk to Boneless plenty coming as just a RU-vid fan!
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
Thank you
@islimpycat
@islimpycat 10 месяцев назад
@cupthulhu904 what on earth do you mean "won't reveal how"? Mans literally got a discord in the description!
@ScheelAngel
@ScheelAngel 10 месяцев назад
@@islimpycat :3
@onikoi
@onikoi 10 месяцев назад
@@islimpycat I already found it as soon as he commented, no worries🤣
@Daydam
@Daydam 10 месяцев назад
The title brought me, and the video kept me here. Great job on it! I will admit as a child I always picked male avatars to match myself, but as I grew older I started liking female characters more and more because first, they tend to have really cool customization options, and second, I feel like just seeing ourselves as the opposite gender helps us explore parts of ourselves that we may normally ignore or hide, even from ourselves. It's like looking so different from our usual self helps us BE different.
@BobOrKlaus
@BobOrKlaus 10 месяцев назад
Also, especially if it's a 3rd person game, I'd much rather look at something I'm attracted to for multiple hours instead of something I'm not
@CptJistuce
@CptJistuce Месяц назад
​@@BobOrKlausThat's actually why Lara Croft isn't Larry Croft. One of the original devs said in an interview at the time "if you're going to be staring at a bum for the next twenty hours, it may as well be a nice one." It stuck with me, partially because of how casually transparent he was about it, which I was not used to.
@Fordthrower4000
@Fordthrower4000 10 месяцев назад
him: talking about nuclear weapons me: WTF DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH FEMBOYS this is a joke
@noyukikun
@noyukikun 10 месяцев назад
i put this as the main reason GIRL FASHION IS 1000000000x lightyears ahead of male fashion it was this way in many mmo's looooong before vrchat was een a thing and guess what all the cool shit was usually always female
@pladselsker8340
@pladselsker8340 10 месяцев назад
Putting money in the xbox was so funny!! I love your avatar, you look so cute! If I had to chose, I would 100% of the time chose a girl, and I am not transgender. I ALWAYS chose the woman character over the man. Some people overthink this a lot because it's really important to them. It's a preference thing, and the reasons behind this choice can vary wildly. Keep being yourself, you're funny!
@tw751
@tw751 6 месяцев назад
"You may not be trans, you may have Autogynophilia" Just throwing this into the ether.
@roninotaku164
@roninotaku164 10 месяцев назад
Wow, another nice video Boneless. I can fully relate to a lot of what you have said, and trust you for what I still don't fully understand. In Mass Effect, I tried to play as Male Shepherd, but found I could not relate to the voice (although Mark Meer is an awesome voice talent...just not what I could relate to). But I could relate to the voice of FemShep, Jennifer Hale, and felt she was able to hold a stronger "total paragon" position (the way I play), so she became my main character throughout the trilogy. In VRChat, I have a male avatar, identify as a cis-male LGBTQ+ ally, have a number of Trans friends at the Trans Academy, and feel more accepted as an individual than I have in years (and I am 62 yo, which is saying something). I admit I did not like the way that some viewers were criticizing you for your choice of avatar from your last video, but was very pleased to see how much support you got (sorry I didn't say anything, but I saw that tons of people had you covered). Keep up the great work, Boneless...always looking forward to your videos!
@Carsadiann
@Carsadiann 9 месяцев назад
7:09 Heyyy, that’s me! I appreciate the feature! I like using that avatar inside and outside of open mic events because I like to show people who I am inside and outside of VRChat. Some people tell me it gives them a sense of happiness to see someone being themselves. Feel free to ask me more questions! Great video by the way, really touches base on what it is like for the transgender community on VRChat! Edit: Fun fact: I actually have that same shirt, glasses, and earrings IRL
@space_goat_v1337
@space_goat_v1337 10 месяцев назад
This was a really well thought out video, and I loved the editing. I've always valued a e s t h e t h i c s over 'errythang so I never thought it was weird choosing female for stuff like WoW or whatever else. It's so crazy to me because I feel like this used to be the norm? Like GIRL used to be guy in real life and no one gave a shit. But now gender is such a hot topic that those types of people bring it up and make it into something it's not anyways spectacular video
@LingieVR
@LingieVR 10 месяцев назад
6:19 -- Hey, I know that world! :D Hope you guys enjoyed your time in Sunset, by the by. Edit: 8:05 -- I know that floor!
@RineyCat
@RineyCat 10 месяцев назад
Hey it's our world >:3
@BuildLancer
@BuildLancer 10 месяцев назад
The female avatar is how it starts then you wear thigh high socks, then you cossplay as your avatar at twitchcon, then when you get home you wear short shorts with the thigh high socks to relax because pants dont feel comfy anymore!! 😶
@infiniteblink
@infiniteblink 10 месяцев назад
VRCHAT has some toxic ppl...but if you can navigate past or around the trolls and raZists...its a pretty chill enviroment.
@nara4420
@nara4420 10 месяцев назад
At first you would not even try, but after a while for some reason you do it anyway ... it is really hard to see yourself in the mirror .. can't do it for more than 2 minutes. But it was kind of cute ! .. so you try it again, and maybe dare to go to public lobbies ... nobody complains and it is an interesting experience. You change between avatars - male female male female ... but in the end it looks so much better. a new catgirl is here ... And it doesn't end here. you start to identify with your female body and start to move more female, act more like a girl. But do you feel gay ? not at all ! it is just normal. you became way more genderfluid than you ever expected. So why not ?
@Heyant
@Heyant 10 месяцев назад
You forgot about the group that just doesn't care and uses any / whatever avi they like or can get
@nightlink4469
@nightlink4469 10 месяцев назад
8:32 vrc did the same for me, i was oppressed most of my life by the people around me and the virtual space was the first time i felt i was somewhere far away not needing to decide right from wrong or should and shouldnts i could just be myself and see if i really was the problem and i made alot of friends doing so and the more i opened up my shell the happier people were to see it but it sadly didnt apply well to the world outside of the vr space. i was told i was a stranger and ridiculed so i was forced to find a middle point. the bright side is i mostly listen to myself now with the peace of knowing im not crazy or weird as people tried to manipulate me to believe
@quench9132
@quench9132 10 месяцев назад
I always pick a funny weird avatar, I don’t really get the whole anime thing it’s looks decent but people are obsessed with it
@tenshik3769
@tenshik3769 10 месяцев назад
If those allegations are that you make based and awesome content then absolutely!
@Koellenburg
@Koellenburg 9 месяцев назад
"most man pick females due to better support?" ... eh ... back in World of Warcraft days there was a similar pattern ... maybe dudes just like seeing nice things :)
@emptiness.951
@emptiness.951 7 месяцев назад
In my opinion, I always was a woman, but I was just put into a body that isn’t me. Either way, I feel like VrChat can allow people to try out certain aesthetics, while others like me use it to make their avatar as the body they want. It’s amazing, honestly.
@Darkdeadperson
@Darkdeadperson 9 месяцев назад
In my experience, you either become a woman or a furry. For me it was the latter since there was a lot more support and customization than ye old stereotypically eboy avatar.
@spoooji
@spoooji 10 месяцев назад
honestly this should be "vrchat will make you a woman or a furry"
@RageKnows
@RageKnows 10 месяцев назад
True
@CptJistuce
@CptJistuce Месяц назад
Or both!
@RickYRageRiss
@RickYRageRiss 9 месяцев назад
honestly i cant be asked to dig throught the weirdos to get that vrchat experience that everybody had in its og 3 years of release.
@fanrosefabrose9457
@fanrosefabrose9457 10 месяцев назад
that whole section about www2 could have been removed and this video would be unchanged jesus essay youtubers get the point
@TheWelder624
@TheWelder624 10 месяцев назад
Well let me tell you my reason. im straight allright ill be honest i like the look of the female body and all the feminin features. so why would i play Video Games or VRChat for thousands of hours and stare into a mirror looking at something that is not visually appealing to me or in a 3rd person game stare at a dude's arse the entire time when i could be looking at something real nice XD this is what i tell those "Transphobic?" ppl in VRC anyway it just makes sense.
@yhenmohra8587
@yhenmohra8587 10 месяцев назад
Exactly. When deciding to look and play as something for hours, i want to look at something nice. Precisely why I play 3rd person games like Monster Hunter as a female.
@Y__umeko
@Y__umeko 10 месяцев назад
Womans make me vrchat.
@getpulled
@getpulled 9 месяцев назад
7:40 *860hp Volvo wagon vs McLaren 570S Spider *
@AlwaysOnline2001
@AlwaysOnline2001 10 месяцев назад
you know, ive been one here about a year now and went from a small, literal, duck to owning like 20 ducc avatars (all chicks) i try not to think about it too too much. its kinda been a thing since like IMVU, runescape, second life. I mean it def helped me realize i ton of things about myself but aye at the end of the day live and let live. oh and wonderful takes as usual, pretty good to talk about these things, but lets be real; its nothing too new
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
Always happy to see you here! I wanted to talk about IMVU specifically in this video but it wasn't something that I had personal experience with so I scrapped that part in favor of Halo
@SadlyItsBradley
@SadlyItsBradley 8 месяцев назад
good video uwu
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 8 месяцев назад
Aye! You just completed my collection of comments from my favorite RU-vidrs. Hope to see your around in VRC more! Long homer gang
@Professor-Badger
@Professor-Badger 10 месяцев назад
I've wanted to get into vr chat but I'm so introverted it'd hard to reach out to people. Plus I would like to have a dude avatar personally, but being a crab also is pretty okay. Maybe if I can find a frog avatar that'll work
@ChitterKat666
@ChitterKat666 9 месяцев назад
Hey! I hang out with Hakky and Tugsten! How crazy! :D
@Because_Reasons
@Because_Reasons 10 месяцев назад
I was wondering why so many men in VR chat look like honry chicks... it really seems to attract a certain 'type' of person.
@Kitsuzo
@Kitsuzo 10 месяцев назад
great video, also great tail. what asset is that?
@aryliax725
@aryliax725 10 месяцев назад
I absolutly love your videos and this Video is the perfect example why. You make such high quality videos as if you would have doing it for years. I hope that you grow a big and nice community such as in this comment section! Love u guys. The contrast between your tracker video and this comment section is positivly insane. Wish u the best of luck!
@MoonTheGoon7
@MoonTheGoon7 10 месяцев назад
Helll yeah good work bonelesss (:
@RobertA-hq3vz
@RobertA-hq3vz 10 месяцев назад
We use female avatars because when we look into the mirrors we want to see something pretty looking back.
@l_kurama_l
@l_kurama_l 9 месяцев назад
as a 1.87cm man i love becoming baby goro or a tiny cat in vrchat
@kiraocelot
@kiraocelot 10 месяцев назад
and thats how i knew i was trans :3
@shadyyyyVR
@shadyyyyVR 10 месяцев назад
I really enjoy your videos, keep doing what you're doing!
@osuology
@osuology 9 месяцев назад
I've seen so many videos on this exact topic but this is by far the best, with the most information and in a shorter engaging time as well. One of the better youtube videos I've found in a while, I hope your channel blows up!!!
@RasmodeusQ
@RasmodeusQ 10 месяцев назад
as an eight year blender artist, and a 2 year VRchat avatar creator the very complex answer short is : men with muscles are hard to make move right, men without muscles are just women unless you're making a nsfw model. (not calling them women because they are weak but because they are physically identical in a mesh standpoint, rounded edges easy weight painting etc I see no difference from a cup and a doughnut. I started off trying to make a short film, but the first requirement of a dude caused eight years of study and practice and the only part I "finished" was his mask. (my pfp, coincidentally a screenshot of my female character in Hogwarts Legacy with my custom plague mask I modded in myself. I had picked a in game mask to replace that didn't mesh well with both genders, male characters didn't get the mask applied correctly haha) Genuinely it takes near zero knowledge of female anatomy to make a model, a simple still image is enough, two if you're a professional (front, side) the issue with males is you need dozens of references basically of every single keyframe a user could make of HOW their muscle and body bends, I've spent years studying male and female anatomy and muscle structure is so different that for VRchat it just doesn't feel fun enough to make a dude. with a woman I can easily make it via vertex modeling, vertex by vertex, with a male you're basically required to sculpt then retopo then sculpt the retopo etc I did it once never finished the face and haven't tried again, rest of my males have been Vroid with custom meshes added on top, only difference from a female is no boobs, which coincidentally means they are very comfortable to wear in VRchat like female models are psychologically, my least favorite is my newest most muscular one guess I just don't like pecs? At the end of the day for me at least I'm indifferent but spitefully so, I don't see my brain as either male or female, I see it as me, that's it, regardless if I have a shaft or boinkers. My world would be perfect if I just had another body, so hard to explain it but I want two of em to fit my ego, the one I'm in now and another completely opposite female one, not exactly trans as trans implies to remove my current body but I love this body it is great but man, having another to use when this one gets tired from working all day would be great but I digress- The only time that becomes an issue is if someone tells me I can't - I am not your human, I am not your garden, I am not your responsibility. rant over commissions below! Putting this at the end as a separate thing my commissions are wide open atm if you want a custom avatar hit me up Rasmodeus on discord join boneless' discord. I'm down to make some gorls and dudes if they aren't this muscular, -I can do Vroid faces +body($30+ PC $200+ Quest) -Custom abstract hard surface heads like No Mans Sky or my plague mask($50+PC $100 Quest Vroid body no transparency transparency removal adds $100, transparency avoidal is free) -Vroid to FBX fixes ($10) (small weight paint fixes included, not full rig it shouldn't be needed) -Custom body (range $100-$500) -rigging/weight painting (included in my models/models not by me cost $50 to paint, or more if it's complicated) -Texture painting $1-$100 (not too good at this, I did do my plague mask from scratch and I'm great at kitbashing if you bring the textures I can apply them, but don't expect makeup, skin blushing etc I mostly use cc0 textures or vroid ones though this is a per case thing send the idea before dismissing my ability I may just be able to pull it off! always looking for more experience as they say.) -Hair and makeup I"m looking for someone to teach me both, I have clip studio and substance painter and krita and a tablet butt I'm in desperate need to learn how to do digital make up and hair styling. -I do help for free as long as you listen and are respectful to my time, though donations once helped are greatly needed atm, I've helped over a thousand people make their avatars, indirectly like 2000 people via my tutorial and general direct assistance on discord without getting anything back for it. feel free to dm me on discord for help, to chat, pricing, or to setup a commission! Sorry for the long winded rant and the plug but this seems like a comfortable community and I stand by public forms being the best place to plug yourself as apposed to dms and such I hope you don't mind if you do dm me on discord or reply and I'll remove the commission plug.
@stupidjaosn
@stupidjaosn 7 месяцев назад
i know this is wrong, and i'm a terrible person... but i started dying laughing when you were talking about "why do guys use female avatars?" and jumped to "Nineteen-fourty-five. World War Two."
@rotten_milky
@rotten_milky 10 месяцев назад
"Around 3 out of 4 people with shafts use female avatars, let's find out why! ... in 1945, the world superpowers were engulfed-" WOAH WOAH WOAH
@Nonyanomo
@Nonyanomo 4 месяца назад
Can i have a uh comment, I get everything you said but, i don't see much people talking about transmen. Or females that want to be buff tattoo glowing dudes haha. Though i make my own avatars and normally yeet the glowing shit and make em more casual and buff. I honestly see a downside of all these dudes getting mainly support on female avatars, I want some equality. i struggled finding men because there was SOOOO many girl avatars, it was aggravating. I had to be a female when i didn't want to be. Now i have options but in the beginning i wanted to be a pretty boy so i ran around as Link all the time LOL. I also didn't like the millions of E girl avatars. Along with the woman all looking the same and etc. It was a box, and it was honestly hellish. It seemed like even in the VR space you got misogyny in vr avatar form LMAO. One day I want to be fully a jacked dude. I hope people continue supporting and making male avatars. If i have to support that harder i will.
@L0rdBat
@L0rdBat 10 месяцев назад
HOW did this go from vrchat to world war to hiroshima to japan to anime and back to vrchat💀💀💀💀
@Itsallgoodtogo
@Itsallgoodtogo 10 месяцев назад
Honestly its so hard to find an expresive male avi, that I'm simply stuck with NIKKIEs Kaimera for over half a year now. No other avi comes close to the quality of this one or other females ones. If anyone knows any other male avis that aren't all about showing those sixpacks and absurd ammounts gangsta shit hanging from them tell me about the creator.
@lanata64
@lanata64 9 месяцев назад
I wish women were real..
@Terraaa
@Terraaa 7 месяцев назад
Luckily there's a few bases like Rindo or Grus (alongside the ones you mentioned) that with the right clothes/blendshape adjusts/hairstyles you can make them look pretty gender neutral, but it's true that I wish there were more good looking anime male bases, and the ones that exist had more customization options
@Justacheese
@Justacheese 8 месяцев назад
1:23 OH GOD! As an Xbox owner, part of me just died a little seeing that bill being inserted into the console. Even if that thing was broken and can't read disks no more, I still feel bad for it.
@Potatotrap4
@Potatotrap4 10 месяцев назад
FAT MIKU FAT MIKU FAT MIKU FAT MIKU FAT MIKU FAT MIKU
@Changa_Husky
@Changa_Husky 10 месяцев назад
This isn't as much of the case on the case on the furry side of VRChat more of the avatars are male over there but the community does lean in those directions. Though the furry community has a very high percentage of trans people.
@bestmimic
@bestmimic 9 месяцев назад
One way to find good male avatars is by looking up game characters. While you won't be the most unique, it's at least another option
@hashstudiosllc
@hashstudiosllc 10 месяцев назад
Really impressed with the effort put into this video to explore the world of female avatars. It's fascinating and inspiring to see how these avatars allow for such unique forms of self-expression and can even change people for the better. We love this kind of content 💙 Keep it up!
@jarvanbb9376
@jarvanbb9376 5 месяцев назад
This is a great representation of everything I've witnessed in my time on VRC. I started a long time ago, but dropped it because it was the era of Ugandan Knuckles, plus school. Over that time in VRC I watched myself grow from the person I was to the person I am now. I went through all of the phases, Deskie to Questie, Questie to Questie PCVR to Index + FBT. Now I'm onto my next step which is Quest Pro + FBT. It's crazy to see the change that this game has on people, and most of my friends say similar things, they like to wear female avatars because of the customization, the fact it's more optimized for VR and they look and just work better than a male base. All of that said, with the Halo Reach reference. A lot and I mean a lot of my friends wear Spartan Avatars, all for the look and customization. VR changes people, and I like to think for the better, but you always get those few cases. Anyway, love your work Boneless Tally ho
@evo7126
@evo7126 8 месяцев назад
As a dude ive always felt more comfortable playing as a woman in video games, im not trans or anything like that and i dont have identity issues idk why but i just feel better that way
@paulblart5358
@paulblart5358 7 месяцев назад
I'm typically a Rusk, Rindo, or a Bambi's Glacier Avatar. There was never any good male avatars I liked. I did use a Miyuki a long time ago which felt great because it was actually a soft-guy looking avatar with good asthetics, but the creator took them down due to the fear of rippers. Even now, there is a lack of good male avatars. The eboys are always over-the-top, robotic arms, weird body textures, or too edgy clothes. I tried making my own, but getting it to upload was incredibly difficult because you have to find up-to-date Unity and Blender tutorials. There's always things breaking and things not working correctly. I've never found a thorough video tutorial that explains how to make an avatar from fundamentals to Blender to Unity to VRC all in one long video. I've always had to piece tutorials together which never was consistent. I'd eventually give up and go back to being a pre-made Rindo, Rusk, or Glacier avatar. Male avatars are simple difficult to find that fit and meet the male-feel-connection. Personally I need an avatar that fits my voice, has an athletic body but is still soft-looking, has a good face with a hairstyle that resembles something I would have in real-life. The clothes I want is just something casual. Not something f-boys or over-the-top eboys would wear. A simple polo shirt with cacky pants works. Same goes for the shoes. Just normal sneakers is fine. A deal breaker for me is all the toggles need to come off because where's the fun if there's no DPS or TPS. An avatar feels incomplete without it. Not that I'd use it for raunchy purposes like all the degens out there. Its fun to have in case I want to pull funny jokes when around CG water or making size comparison jokes with friends. Overall, it's easier to be a lady avatar. There are many options and options that fit the right feels, asthetics, perceived-social-image, and social-reaction (where it's easier for people to talk to you and trust you). I can only wish there were male avatars that could do the same.
@NekuroMC
@NekuroMC 9 месяцев назад
im not trans or anyone in the lgbt community but i do also use female characters in game because "small hitbox" but when it comes to action games i do play as a man because i imagine myself as my character but for casual games such as vrchat i play as an anime girl
@appenanicola4382
@appenanicola4382 10 месяцев назад
Coming from someone who's fairly conservative It's weird to wear a female avatar if you're a guy, but so is playing as a carrot. Come to think of it playing VRChat in general is weird, and so is using a VR headset, and so is the internet, computers, electricity...many things human beings probably weren't meant to use but here we are I guess. It's sad, but I can't be bothered to get angry about it. Too many things to be thankful for. Ben Shapiro acknowledging the Barbie movie is not good for several reasons is not surprising to me. Remember Ben isn't just a grown man he's a father so he would be the target demographic since he'd be bringing his kids to see it. A 40 minute review is on par with Angry Joe or Red letter Media and I've seen longer reviews/rants, but Ben's shtick can be rather stale sometimes ngl but it's what he's good at. Either way you do you my dude, stay classy.
@SanyaBane
@SanyaBane 3 месяца назад
What changed between this and pre-this video? Is it a new avatar or you use new face-tracking device?
@salty4life
@salty4life 10 месяцев назад
4:30 FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT, I hate those goddamn avatars, there's almost no good male avis around :( Feel sorry for my girlfriend sometimes
@GreyTide
@GreyTide 6 месяцев назад
VRC Boxing is much better than Udon Boxing. Consider checking it out.
@Logoslab2
@Logoslab2 9 месяцев назад
The uncanny valley concept isn't great because the "Human Likeliness" value of the chart is entirely subjective. One could easily state that anything in the "uncanny valley" is creepy because it is NOT human-like, while the things before the valley are. To put it bluntly, anime avatars may simply seem more human to us than imperfect human-like robots. It doesn't really impact the message of this video, but it is still something that I want to point out.
@SolunaStarlight
@SolunaStarlight Месяц назад
As a trans woman who has been watching a lot of your videos, genuinely thank you so much for calling out the transphobia. It is something I have had to deal with both in and out of VR, thankfully not as much recently because I am at the point where I pass pretty well but I have many trans friends who do not have that privilege, and VR is kind of a safe space for that expression.
@Exorion1er
@Exorion1er 9 месяцев назад
I'd like the trend to move towards less anime aesthetic stuff. I play a lot of FF14, which is very anime but in aesthetic more western. I'd love characters like my FF14 one to come up in VRC.
@ShadowOfMachines
@ShadowOfMachines 9 месяцев назад
I've hunted for a good male avatar, but I didn't find any male bases that I found interesting. So I went with robots. I could find some decent male or neutral robots, so I've started collecting those. Besides, all avatars are just digital puppets shambling across digital stages, why not have something to remind you of that? So, robot.
@bbnb3.
@bbnb3. 10 месяцев назад
whats the just dance world called i wanna play rasputin
@BonelessVR
@BonelessVR 10 месяцев назад
Exact name: Just Dance VRChat (172 NEW SONGS!) Super fun world :) Supports full body and half body
@bbnb3.
@bbnb3. 10 месяцев назад
@@BonelessVR thank you so much, and your video was really well put together, you can get big one day
@glenfoxh
@glenfoxh 9 месяцев назад
This is why for me, being a furry is good. I don't relate to those buff anime boys you can find everywhere, or any of the military type avatars. For I am not so buff. But I also don't want to walk around looking like an anime girl either. I do enjoy seeing them, so long as they are on someone else. Whoever want's to use one. I do like using something that some think is cute, wile not looking girly. And to me, a furry avatar fits. There is plenty of furry avatars, that can look cute, or basically non buff, wile also easy to not confuse with being female. If a guy want's to look female, that is fine by me. But I rather not, unless I am just being silly for fun. A thing I have done on a few rare occasions.
@Murillable
@Murillable 3 месяца назад
thanks buddy now my recommendations are flooded with "how to become trans" gg
@Nightbanekaizer
@Nightbanekaizer 6 месяцев назад
Two of the best things to come out of Japan was Dark Souls and Soulcalibur. Shame that while we can get avatars from those games, we however cannot make much unique Knight avatars. And no I refuse to use the basic knight they have set up for default avatars.
@Skye_ranran
@Skye_ranran 10 месяцев назад
people try on female avatars and realized that they're more comfortable in a woman's body is awesome sauce
@TaidaDave
@TaidaDave 9 месяцев назад
well the fckboy avis make my skin crawl but not cause of the uncanny valey, they are cringe
@oddity6176
@oddity6176 9 месяцев назад
I don't think my "profile picture"/ avatar in video games represents who i am. They represent what i like. Like in pop1 my avatar is the black chick with a fro that wears green pants. That's definitely not me. lol That's just the one i'd f##k in a heart beat if i had the chance.
@MystikGaming20
@MystikGaming20 8 месяцев назад
I think it's an escape from "being a man" in the real world... I identify as a male in real world but in VR as a female at this point, I feel comfortable with it, there's a lot of cool things with woman avatars and I love it, I even have my own avatar that's now part of my identity, my friends know me by it, it's... Mystik.
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