@@ChimezirimOnwumere-tj8ggexactly, zizi is like 1-2 thats what they say if they like siblings. Its also what you say to future siblings when your still pregnant so they start having positive associations with their future sibling. You know itll be true as well cause i can already imagine the talks of mom saying that your sister will be by your side for ever etc.
@@mildredlockhart9085 Naturally if a mom is mindful enough to do these things, she will repeat them. Even if you feel it’s an act, it still has a positive impact on Zizi and the relationship with her sister. It’s also likely to be repeated if just for “show” or even Zizi will start to automatically start to or ask to help in other situations. Still a win/win situation. And of course she will not be able to help at every single moment or situation. Sometimes there’s places to be and things have to get done in a timely manner, but there will always be other days and opportunities where time can be taken to do things slower.
I'm happy our mom loved like that. My sis and I are together today. After her separation, and the passing of my husband, we're getting to know each other again. A Bond Never Broken. Love 🫵🏾 sis 🥰😘🫶🏾🌹
My 14yr old son would say "we're gonna be best friends l" to my pregnant belly. 9yrs later him and his little sister are truly the best of friends. This is so precious!.
The way you handled Zizi feeling left out was so incredible! Then to hear her say "you're my best friend" to her sister, that just made me smile so big!!
Yes mom understands that it's a mother who must ensure that her children must have a strong bond with each other forever. These two sweeties will protect each other's backs. I love how she told her baby sister your my best friend, so sweet.
Absolutely! I always remember when I am admiring and complimenting a baby I meet to say something sweet to any older siblings. “Wow! Cuties pies run in your family! You 2 are beautiful,’ or ‘Oh your baby is beautiful. And _you_ (gasp) what a lovely dress. Don’t you look pretty today.’ I remember the look of longing on my step daughter’s face when people would admire her baby brother, even though she was super proud.’ They will get it when they are older, but it’s crushing to their little hearts to be ignored.
That's how a good mommy does it. No reason for jealousy when siblings are brought all in it for one another. My siblings were raised like that - very involved with and protective of each other.
It made me cry, too! It's so loving and pure that it squeezed my heart with joy! God bless you and your family. And God bless all children. I could keep going on and on, lol. This video just made me happy. 😊
Such an amazing mother to keep Zizi included. The older children often feel left out when new babies arrive 💕🙏🏼 it's the little things that bring the sweet joys of life!
That's exactly what I was about to say Yep it's so important to include and make time for all your kids it can be a bit challenging juggling 🤹🏾♀️ it all but it's so important ❤
Exactly. My ex said that he felt that way when he was two and his sister was born. His mom said that she felt that she and his dad made a mistake by not preparing him for the fact that his sister was coming. She admits that she messed up and they're fine now. Of course they're adults and they're not as close as I wish they would be like me and my brother are but they get along well.
@@artchick07 Yes!! I love that because it‘s the same with my nephews I once started crying when I saw how loving and caring my sister was to my older nephew during times my parents would‘ve been verbally and physically abusive and I told her that on one side I love seeing that he gets better treatment but on the other it hurts to know we could‘ve had that too… I hope your healing goes great though and I know you‘re strong and got this! ❤️
This literally made me realize where so many of my childhood wounds come from in the simplest of ways thank you so much for being you and sharing these things you are so wise and such a good mother, I pray blessings over you and your family and may you be protected from all and any hate from those that hate on your beautiful family, thank you lord for bringing me to these peoples channel for the healing they bring is exactly what I’ve needed thank you lord Amen and blessed be
Haven't seen anything this sweet in a long time! I love the love between mom and the babies, and how the toddler has learned to be loving to her baby sister.❤😊❤
No wonder I’m not bonded with my other sis she said she was never involved with caring for me, I’m 5yrs younger. She just saw herself as a baby till now 😅
Absolutely. My 2 yo is obsessed with her baby brother. She even gets sad when I tell her she can’t breastfeed him 🤦🏿♀️😂🥰 it’s the thought that counts ig lol
I love this ! Sometimes kids hold resentment towards siblings because of all the attention which is completely understandable coming from only child to a big sister . Involving her is making her understand sissy’s a baby & needs lots of attention to be okay . ❤️
It's funny that I would stumble across this comment after thinking the same thing. I was thinking that due to watching another vlog of a child acting that very same way after the mother gave birth to a younger sibling. I was so disappointed that the mother did not talk to the older child. Not teaching one's children manners and respect sets children up for disaster, emotional issues, mental issues, and depression when they enter this cruel world, starting with school. I do support commenters who point it out that the older child is rude, disrespectful, and has no manners. However, I do not agree with blaming the child. Children are products of their environment and those who influence them. I carefully chose my words so that I did not expose the vlogger as I love his/her videos, and I do not like setting people up to be attacked and bullied. Instead, I pray for them. I did not have social media when I was pregnant and raising my child, but I did get good advice from my mother, grandparents, my elders, friends who had children, my daughter's doctors, and my Psychology professors whose children were adults. I thank GOD for those who gave me advice, too. By the time my daughter was in middle school, I had no problems with her all the way through high school and college.
Yeah. I'm the oldest too, I remember being so jealous and resentful of my younger sister after she was born. I think you're absolutely right and the creator is an amazing mom.
@@GailBecker-MSED-CM-AuthorThank goodness you had elders, community, and educated people to help you. If I did not have the internet or social media, I would not have learned as much as I do now. I wish even with the internet and online community, I wish I had a community offline like you did. In the US everything is hyper individualistic and hyper independent. Interdependence and a solid community is frowned upon and even taken away. I just wish I had even older adults to look up to too. I'm the oldest and I have to be an even older adult to the youngers, pass wisdom and skills I picked up alone from online. But I don't have someone like that for me and I hope I make it better for them. If you ask about parents, well...they were either not present or did not know how to raise children, let alone four. I just hope your children still feel safe and secure with you, enough to come back to you like when they were younger, and I hope you all have happy and fulfilling relationships that last your entire lives.
@@ShadowTheRippleI'm the oldest and only girl 😭 I have so much resentment built up inside of me still towards my parents not doing a better job. But at the same time, they were very young. 23-24 I think when they first had me. I just turned 35 and I can't begin to think about bringing children into the world yet. I can't imagine how ill prepared they probably felt. I'm working on it though, it's definitely a tough lesson to learn though that's for sure
@@ashly-no-EPray about it & have a calm conversation with them about it , if possible. That’s what I did. My parents married young(18/20). Also I don’t completely agree with because they were “young parents” there are parenting classes and tons of information on the Internet that is actually useful.
Awwwwww such cuties... "You are my best friend." That got me. Imagine 3 arrows just got my hearts. The mom and babies interactions, sisters bonding and cuteness.
Great job, Mama! U saw her peaking & invited her to join, u let her know Mama loves her too & she's just as valuable to u as the little one is. With a Mama like u, those babies will end up being confident adults who will know they're worth.
It’s beautiful seeing a mother encouraging her children to love each other and loving the equally not ignoring the older one for the younger which often leads to sibling rivalry
Now I can go to bed peacefully thinking abt my little sister ❤ when I was a kid my parents told me my sister is going to be my birthday present as she was born just a few days after my birthday. So I always treated her as the most precious gift ever telling her year by year that she’s the best gift I could ever imagine. Currently we live more than 8000km apart so I miss her a lot but this video gave me the happiness I feel around her
I always wished I had a sister. Please call her soon and tell her how you feel? I bet she’d love to hear it over and over again. Everyone wants to feel loved. Im pretty sure if you miss her she misses you back. ❤ Sending you well wishes
Those little angels look just alike!! They’re simply beautiful and when Big Sissy says “you’re my best friend “, my heart melted. What a precious family. God bless you all!!
You and your daughters are all so beautiful!!! I LOVE how you include your oldest daughter in helping with her baby sister!!! And I love the two of them bonding!!! That is absolutely the most precious thing ever!!! Thank you for this very sweet video!!! 🩷🩷🩷
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The best thing my mom did when my brothers were born was to involve me in the caretaking. Us eldest girls often complain how we were kind of another parent, but honestly, if it's done right, it's the best thing you can do. I love my little brothers dearly and didn't feel "dethroned".
Thanks for sharing this! I was raised as an only child in a toxic household, but I truly strive to be the mother and wife Nika portrays herself to be❤ so sweet and pure, great to know that you experienced such kindness and I’m happy for you that you were so fortunate to experience it☺️❤️ ***Btw my childhood was not the worst…but also toxic enough for me to have dealt with major relationship issues myself due to childhood trauma that I’ve worked through at this point with my fiancée and his family’s patience thank God❤
I grew up involved in caring for my little cousins and was never treated as a parent. But my aunt and uncle taught me how to care for babies/kids as they got older whenever I asked if I could help rather than shoving me away because it would have been faster. Now I’m a teacher and totally a nerd about childhood development.
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Good job Mama! Your future self thanks you and loves ypu with all her heart for the beautiful people you've raised and for the healthful family you have cultivated with the love and help of your family. God bless you.
Awwwwww! So sweet! I’m so happy that this mother had the intuition to know that her other daughter was feeling left out! That is important to pick up on. When she said she was her best friend it made my heart melt! 💜Her doing stuff like that could make the difference between those girls being best friends versus arch enemies! Good job mom! Keep up the great work! 💜💞🥰🌹😘💋
A beautiful moment and you have it on video to watch again. They have it too watch too, especially when they have their moments and you can show them the love was always there 🙏❤ 😊.
This is how we heal the world - diversity inclusivity lovingly .... Beautiful beautiful all 5he reasons I'll keep working for world peace for these generations❤😊. Parenting loving 101 !! Blessings to all biggest bow n cheeks ever!!!!❤❤❤❤
I just love it, always include the other child or children. They don’t like being left out. They want to be a part of everything . So if you’ve got four kids , get them all in there!!❤❤❤❤
Aww bubba ❤ you are an amazing mother thank you for sharing and helping to unknowingly educate mothers like myself with many of your videos ❤ many blessings to you and your husband i hope yous have a wonderful day 🤍
Oh my gosh. That is so sweet of Zizi tender moments like that will make your day.❤ Beautiful gorgeous Mom. Your so amazing with your special little ones. Precious little angels.❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤This was so beautiful to watch. I love how Mom included Zizi but the icing on the cake was Zizi tell her baby Sister…your my best friend! Both such beautiful children😊
I remember when my pediatrician told me that my daughter shouldn't help me with her younger brother.. I was shocked... Today my youngest is 16 and all my kids still help each other when they need it, even though they don't live together. They share the same friends and all get along. They have different hobbies, likes, and personalities and are building their own relationships. But they have each other's backs and help each other work through EVERYTHING that causes them pain. I'm glad I didn't listen
I ALWAYS told my kids that it's the most important thing for me that they love each other care for each other. So one day, when my time comes, I don't need to worry to go ...
So beautiful to watch!!! Zizi is such a sweet and humorous little girl that is making the best sister!!!! Love and communication make a strong, fierce family bond 💕😘 Great work mama and you all look amazing 😍 your little lemon drop is cute to boot!!! Your whole family is precious!!!
And thats how you take a situation that could lead to the oldest resenting her sister for getting mommy time and turning it into an opportunity for them to both have mommy time together and bond. Way to go momma!
That was awesome Mommy ❤ I always included my children in every thing I bought, things we did, etc. No one was left out or felt more special than the other. All were equal. You did a very positive and wonderful thing for her mental health towards you and her sister ❤️ God bless you and your family
Kudos to this young mom! When my 2nd son was born I told the 1st one that it was his baby & I was just going to help take care of him. He loved the gift & always took care of HIS baby. When I had my 3rd son I told my 2nd son that he was HIS baby & the same with the 4th. The 4th got a nephew when she was 10 because her eldest brother was 10 years older than her When he had his 1st son!
This is is so so so so sooooo incredibly precious and beautiful to watch. You as a beautiful mother to your kids and nurturing them and loving them, seeing how calm and truly happy your babies are and seeing the bond form with your kids and how caring they are to each other and that they truly love one another is just gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your experiences and your life with us.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
🎉Aww Zizi is so sweet. You and your husband raised her well. I usually prayed that my sister and I are best Friends, I miss that a lot.God bless your family
There is no room for the Holy Spirit because these people are greedy and hungry for views and money from RU-vid. If they were serious about the Holy Spirit, their lives wouldn't be a shit show for everyone to watch.
It’s fake. She’s exploiting her kids. Watch the video again and tell me you don’t feel like you’re watching a movie with all the camera cuts and shift. If this was a real moment then how would she do that while not having any cuts in their conversation. No she told her daughter to go look sad in the corner for her video. Please stop supporting these kinds of channels, it is CHILD ABUSE.
