(WARNING) DON'T MAKE YOUR WIFE CRY 

Mashallah brother

Lucky sister shez

Ma shaa Allah

May allah reward you

Masha Allah tabarakaallah

امين

Ameen

Ameen

Inshallah Ameen

Aameen ☺️

That's so cute omg May Allah bless your love 😭💕💕

Love has to be from both sides. it cannot be on one side only. I used to be like you, until I felt rejected by my wife over and over and over again.

😢😢😢💔💔💔 MashaAllah

Exectly

I don't have time to wait for my husband to understand,I will just move on .

Not just indians but south asians as a whole.

I agree with this . I'm married to one and it's been difficult I'm not going to lie .

Pakistani as well

so it's somali men

@@fatumaahmed4304 haha anagana ma nagu dartay haye

Inalilah wa inalilahi rajiun. May Allah SWT grant him higher place in Jannah.

@@queenm6171 Ameen

May allah forgive all and grant jannathul firdaws for your grandfather

Amin

ameen

Ameen

May Allah grant you a righteous spouse at His most perfect timing, and may He grant you the ablility to implement everything you've learned for a successful and patient marriage, Ameen ya Rabb

May Allah give you the spouse you want

I invite all beautiful people here to come and listen to beautiful recited Quran 🕋 *When the Quran is read, listen attentively, and fall silent, so that you may be blessed with mercy.” (7:204)*

Iam too 26 , Alhamdulillah I am getting married this July inshallah

SubhanAllah! Same here, exactly same feelings.... Allah Bless You With Ease In Your Heart.....

@@connectamna4585 May Allah Ease your pain and bring peace and happiness in your life.... Aameen....

@@nosheenkhan2457 Ameen

Same here...

Hi sis I want say something,I want to say that I love you you are special ,stay strong your pretty your strong

Planner* but indeed he is

@@haruyanto8085 typing mistake bruh.. Thanks for correction 😹

But in reality we don't get respect. Atleast as a wife i don't get respect or love. Infact my husband curses me compares me with other girls.

Yes

@@nafuuuu7 it’s alright. Typo can happen.

Thanks for the reminder my Allah bless you 😺😺😺😺

May ALLAH swt make it easy for you. Aameen.

I pray for Allah to grant you a righteous husband sister

I will make dua for you this Ramadan , Love you sister

@K C If you make dua for your brother or your sister ALLAH swt send one Angle and he’ll say Aameen on it..ALLAH swt likes the person who make dua for others if you wish for something make dua for others as well you’ll get it sooner in sha ALLAH...May ALLAH swt forgive us Aameen.

Islam also teaches to treat ur wife well as well. The prophet SAW was the best husband to his wives so look for a husband who is good in his deen. Look for someone who truly follows the deen and follows the example of the prophet SAW

😂😂😂 Man will be man stop talking with him and giving him food then see his reaction 😬

😔

@@AMAANOP loll

may Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families

@@UnstableAtom2218 😁

Inshallah u will keep on getting ajar ( good deeds ) when ever someone reads this. I will copy and paste this as well.

May ALLAH save us from such people

Women think the same too expect everything from men and say its not my responsibility to do anything for you

I m sufferring the same

Never get married my life is hell..and I donot know where to go..becoz of my problems my mother also passed away looking at my condition..still becoz of kids we hav to liv struggle suffer adjust and continue to move on..I don't understand why can't Allah help me ..plz forgive me Allah and bestow me happy life for d sake of my kids

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that's really great but i don't see why you should ask for permission in your house to do what you want

@@xsenteur4189 because thats how it works in islam only because she has to obey her husband doesn’t mean they dont have to compromise. If she is not fine with it because she sees a bad in it they should talk it out. You think any marriage would hold especially in islam if the man would just go do whatever he wants because his wife has to obey? Astaghfirullah this will not end well.

​@@xsenteur4189 he asked permission and that's the way to go, he cares about his wife,why are you trying to give bad advice?.that's not what Islam teaches ,learn your religion

Ameen

Aameen 💖💕 May your dreams come true It is blessing for u and ur better half 🥰

@@zarnabzahid987 Ameen my sister

Ameen

May Allah give you

I’m holding back my tears cause I made her cry and other things

Me too

May Allah help you

Me too

Me too

Same here !

Yes me too

Inshallah

May Allah grant us a spouse who have a soft spot for us

Their is a word compromise for both partners too .but if someone don't give you value in your life for such long time so things should be discussed with your spouse and make things settle for yourself ..

Don't worry sister ❤️ Allah SWT will fix it beautifully inshallah ❤️ just make duas ❤️

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He will regret it soon trust me

I will pray a lot for you sister ! May ALLAH Subhanahu Wa Ta'alaa make things better for you !!!!! May ALLAH get you out of that horrible situation and that you will find happiness soon !!!!!!

@@rushdaalam024 insha Allah** please correct spelling

I'm a men and honestly O don't get why poeple should have another partner. It's just so wrong

So why did Allah allow it in the Quran itself. Lot of things are in Hadith but marrying 4 wives 3, 2 or 1 is the the Quran. In that order. 4 then 3 then 2 then 1!! Ok I get females won’t like it but Allah legislated it as halal if a man wants. The best if creation had multiple wives and so did most of the famous Sahaba we hear famous stories about. Education is key

@@DiaryofaNomad Would you accept if your wife wanted a second husband?

@@DiaryofaNomad you are very mistaken and misquoting the quraan for your own personal desires. The very next verse after the one you have quoted warns against the punishments of unfair treatment among wives. The quraan also mentions immediately after the verse you have mentioned, how ONE wife is better advised as mankind by nature is not just and there is a terrible punishment if youre unable to fulfil the happiness of all 4 wives. The hadeeth also mentions how this is among the lesser important of sunnahs. It is better for you to get all your fardh in order first - e.g treating that one wife properly and appreciating her, fulfilling her needs, keep her happy (something most men can barely do with just one wife) doing right by your family, praying on time, etc, before rushing to pick the lesser important parts of the deen that suit you. Besides, the esteemed men you refer to are NOT AT ALL comparable to the men of today hence they were able to maintain 4 wives fairly, and even they, pious as they were, had to deal with jealousy among wives, so do not compare men of today with the sahaba (R.A)

​@@DiaryofaNomadThere is a reason why allah allows many wives. There will be a time when females will be a lot more in number then men. Then what the extra females will do. There's another reason, in time of Muhammad pbuh there were multiple wars in which many man had died. Then what will happen to the women they left behind. That's why he encouraged the sahabas to marry some of them so that they will not be lost and have someone to rely on. Many men complain why the women don’t accept second wife, It's a sunnah they should accept it. But do you know "You will never be able to maintain ˹emotional˺ justice between your wives-no matter how keen you are. So do not totally incline towards one leaving the other in suspense. And if you do what is right and are mindful ˹of Allah˺, surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful." Surah An Nisa,Ayat 129.

True, but many people from some countries (of course I don’t know about all the countries) refuse to give them the right and respect Islam has given to ladies. I’m proud of being Muslim, grateful to my partner, but sad for other ladies. Unfortunately non Muslims don’t blame our society for that but blame our religion 🥲

@@yeasha1697 Don't pay attention to Non-Muslim societies. They're all full of fitna

Fake

But only 1% follows it ?

What is it called when the husband abuse his wife only when she is sleeping?

Speak for yourself i get all the attention

@@TheCarmen07 what u mean ?

@@TheCarmen07 then why are you here 😂 to victim blame? What a miserable person you are.

Even if they did, they wouldn’t change. I’ve sent my husband tons of articles and videos like this. The fact of the matter is abusers will never ever change, if you don’t like it, they will discard you and find another victim who will allow the abuse.

Ameen sis

He was trying to make a point, and was in no uncertain terms was he saying that she’s not worthy of respect if she’s simply herself. Allah has honored the children of Adam.

@@kabirrubaiyat Your claim has zero basis, especially when he hasn't even hinted towards it. Our society in general tens to lean more towards relationships of woman rather than woman herself. "She's the daughter/sister/wife/mother of x" instead of "she's x" while the man gets "he's x" instead of "he's the son/brother/husband/father of x" even worth nothing is the fact that the relationship a woman is bound with is almost always with a man while the relationship a man is bound with is never with a woman. A famous example would be Fatima Jinnah "sister of Muhammad Jinnah", while it is Muhammad Jinnah simply.

@@pakizajinnah9716 I don’t think this is religion thing, it’s more a culture thing. In most middle eastern countries, they will rarely refer to a woman by her name because they are protective of her. My brothers don’t tell their friends my name or my sister’s name and similarly I don’t bring up Women’s names when I’m talking to my dad, I’ll say ‘this person’s wife’ or ‘the daughter of’ to identify while keeping it vague. It’s not meant to make the woman feel less.

@@hadilayyad6147 I clarified first and foremost that it was "our society in general", I am not targeting any religion. Secondly, if I was any of your brothers, I would not be talking about my sisters in the first place. What you say to your dad is in a different context from my original comment. You don't say a woman's name out of respect and protectiveness for the woman, but what I said originally was that every woman deserves respect not because she's someone's relative, but because she is herself. It's been long so I don't remember correctly but I'll clarify why I made this original comment, I'm guessing the video said that "you should respect a woman because she is someone's daughter" which to me sounded very offensive. It seems only the parents and siblings would be hurt if their daughter and sister was disrespected in her husband's house? What about the woman herself? Wouldn't she feel hurt? What if the parents don't care at all either? Why can't we say "you should respect a woman because she is a human like us". This is a sad truth. Since ancient times the woman has had to take the husband's family name. I am not personally against it. But even a successful woman like Fatima Jinnah was always introduced as "Muhammad Jinnah's sister", but when it comes to Muhammad Jinnah he has never been introduced as "Fatima Jinnah's brother". So now Fatima Jinnah should only be respected because she is someone's sister? We don't even know unless we bother to learn about her achievements ourselves outside of "sister".

@@pakizajinnah9716 I understand where you’re coming from. This aspect also kind of annoys me but we grew up with it and unfortunately I don’t see it ever changing. My brothers don’t talk about me in details, sometimes they’ll say that I made them a favorite dish of theirs and I spoil them with desserts. Nothing serious or haram. I think the whole ‘daughter of’ and ‘sister of’ is meant to serve as a reminder for men to be more emphatic and to treat her with honor so he will realize if he doesn’t take care of her, her family will. I know not every girl is fortunate to have a family who loves and respects her, but in Islam we teach compassion and empathy. It’s just how most men’s brains are wired, I believe. I argue with my husband all the time with this, he’ll come and complain to me about something that bothered him in his family, like maybe his sister’s car broke down or that her kids are crazy. I then reply that her husband spoils her and actively raises their children together while my husband never fixes anything that needs to be fixed, i have to do it and he doesn’t lift a finger to help me with the kids and treats me like a discarded shoe. I always ask him ‘why is it not okay for your mother or sister but it’s fine for me to be treated this way? ‘ he never has an answer, bc obviously it’s a crappy reason. Men always think ‘oh she’s my wife, she has to settle for me, Islam says so’. And consequently they get away with too much bc even when we are wronged, no one genuinely sides with us bc they don’t want us to put the idea of divorce in our heads. Only genuinely good men with character and deen will respect a woman as her own self, not as his ‘wife’ or as a ‘daughter’. Sorry for the long paragraph 😬 I totally understand your frustration, I’m going through it now.

AMEN!

Wallikum Assalam Aameen ☺️

Allah (SWT)

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😔May Allah grant you ease.Ameen.

Leaveeeeeeeeee

Same here

Same here.....

Its as we do to our kids...when kids cry we shout at them...without thinking they too feel bad...

Leave him

In Sha Allah you’ll find hasanat for it in the balance of deeds

that's horrible to hear and i wish you'll be amoungs people of djannah and you'll find happiness with in allah

@@xsenteur4189 thank you so much for your kind words !

@@hanamimi5300 you're welcome it breaks my heart when i hear that a good sister have been treated badly when now a days it's so rare to find a good women , may god help you and don't forget that allah love you

I hope you're better now, dear sister.🥺 I'm sorry for what you went through. Inshaallah, he will reward you with a better man as a husband.

May Allah see you through

why are you still with him?

Easy Alhamdullilah

Alhamdulillah going good 😍

Alhamdulillah

Good alhamdulillah ❤❤ love from Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰

Easy elhmdl

May Allah make it easy for you sis

Divorce

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@@ferretjazz7601 His parents didn't oppress me. But they did raise him wrong about this matter.

@@MimiDec1996 I wanted you to learn more about the forgiveness, but I do think that he should watch this too because woman should be treated right.

@@ferretjazz7601 What do you mean?

@@MimiDec1996 my parents miseducated me about Islam and the Quran, maybe he was too. My husband helped me learn how to read the book myself and I'm so thankful for him

U should talk to him about it

Oh so sorry dear may Allah help all woman in this situation n only u dear

Don't worry, in jannah you don't have to deal with him. You can have whatever you want, that's Allahs promise. I know it's hard but focus on your imaan and doing good deeds because we can die any day.

@@Mike-mt5yb @Mike what is problem man??? You almost wrote more than 10 comments against women and telling men to get second marriage. You are so rude and you can't understand what people suffering from. May almighty Allah give you mildness and forgive you.

Same here it’s been 16 years but believe me I cry daily I have no one except Allah please keep me in your prayers sister

2/14/2023 I wish everyone a Happy Valentine's day!! 🌬🎉🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎈🎉🎈🎈🎊🎈🎈🎈🎊🎊🎈🎈🎉🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊 We must have courage to Speak out and defend our Own dignity because as a Woman we are worthy. God bless us all with Justice.

Go and read this incident hadeez carefully, it's not true