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Was EVERYONE Wrong About Oprah?! Body Language Analyst Reacts to Taraji P. Henson Viral clip. 

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The internet turned on Oprah Winfrey after footage of a photoshoot with the cast of "The Color Purple" seemed to show some awkward body language between her and Taraji P. Henson. This was around the same time Henson had an emotional breakdown during an interview on SIriusXM. However, shortly after the social media reactions, Taraji came to Oprah's rescue in a post where she cleared the air. But what do their body language, facial expressions and word choice ACTUALLY reveal? Find out now!
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00:30 What Happened Between Oprah and Taraji?
03:00 Taraji P. Henson Body Language
11:18 Taraji P. Henson Emotional Breakdown
20:00 Oprah Winfrey Body Language
30:00 What Does This Post Really Show?
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@BeeKaye
@BeeKaye 9 месяцев назад
Gayle is low key bullying Teraji. What an awkward thing to be interviewed by Oprah’s bestie. Teraji seems like a woman with high integrity and emotional intelligence. To see her at the breaking point, is heartbreaking. Sh s an incredible actress. I wish her the best.
@whatoncewas8480
@whatoncewas8480 8 месяцев назад
That’s what I thought initially 🤔
@pastephinetaylor5615
@pastephinetaylor5615 8 месяцев назад
💯 culturally Yes! He was off on this because he couldn't hear all of Danielle's conversation with the situation. Taraji was liikung THROUGH Gail. She was debating in whether or not she could be Authentic. Taraji has done a lot of emotional work. I see her.
@dickersonr6172
@dickersonr6172 8 месяцев назад
I guess Steven Spielberg is a saint
@cathybutcher4826
@cathybutcher4826 8 месяцев назад
That's not low-key. Gayle knew exactly what she was doing. It was rotten to the core.
@rkdavis234
@rkdavis234 8 месяцев назад
Guarantee the question was from BIG O.
@pip0072009
@pip0072009 8 месяцев назад
Taraji welcomed Oprah and even leaned in for a picture. Oprah leaned out and then walked away! Taraji's eyes are fluttering to avoid tears falling...same reason for looking up at the beginning AND facing the wind to dry her eyes. Taraji is a GOAT and deserves better!
@BlackIvy
@BlackIvy 7 месяцев назад
I wish I saw your comment before I said the exact same thing 😅
@SanctifiedLady
@SanctifiedLady 7 месяцев назад
O just told T to shut up! She tried to gather herself and here comes O again… she tried to soften and forgive but that evil witch ran to cause her more deliberate pain
@JohnHaroldjr
@JohnHaroldjr 7 месяцев назад
Girl, my gaydar caught that! 20:14 SNAP.
@ThatsJustPeechy
@ThatsJustPeechy 8 месяцев назад
I think every woman watching that interaction between Taraji and Oprah personally felt it and has experienced that uncomfortable awkwardness when having to pretend you “like” someone or that everything is okay. I know I sure did😬
@Renee11.11
@Renee11.11 8 месяцев назад
Yes…one always has to look professional in public regardless of what’s going on behind the scenes.
@ladyc3205
@ladyc3205 8 месяцев назад
Yea, you got that right, something is off and intense. Oprah made an intentional move away from Taraji.
@AlyssaSoup
@AlyssaSoup 8 месяцев назад
Oprah addressed all of this and also said it was terribly cold and Taraji backed her up but idk. She’s also a producer and may have wanted the cast together for the media opp so she noticed & moved. A little devils advocate but this is Hollywood so we won’t get the truth regardless. That’s why we’re watching professionals analyzing body language 😂
@jenniealston6402
@jenniealston6402 8 месяцев назад
You can definitely tell it's has a touch of Pr to it.
@legacycitybuilders-alphamo7208
@legacycitybuilders-alphamo7208 8 месяцев назад
Does everyone miss the fact that Fantasia squeeze in between Ms Brooks to get next to Oprah, and that's when Oprah removes herself. I think if there is a behavior that needs to be looked at, look at Fantastia, and Oprah.
@df363
@df363 8 месяцев назад
I’m so proud of Taraji! I’m on her side! Shame on “those” who can’t see Taraji’s worth! Keep fighting Taraji! You deserve much more than what was given to you! ❤️
@jones2277
@jones2277 8 месяцев назад
Why did she accept the role?
@mare6318
@mare6318 8 месяцев назад
@@jones2277 EXACTLY! If she was not okay with the pay, she shouldn’t have accepted the role. Otherwise, don’t have the gall to bitch and complain and play the victim. Nobody likes a fake victim - and Hollywood is filled with them.
@wonzjones6599
@wonzjones6599 8 месяцев назад
Did you watch the movie? If you don't support her movies, then you're part of the problem.
@IslandPersona
@IslandPersona 8 месяцев назад
She agreed to do the film. Out of respect for the cast that has to get paid too she could have waited until after they promoted and got paid to speak. Glad she spoke but the timing was not appropriate
@JoniWagner
@JoniWagner 8 месяцев назад
People support movies that they WANT to see, you can't FORCE people to support movies or actors they're not interested in,@@wonzjones6599
@angelan7283
@angelan7283 9 месяцев назад
I really feel both of these actresses. My read was that Danielle’s surprise was directed at Gail for bringing this up in a public setting. She already knew how Taraji felt & that she was being put in a vulnerable position. She adjusted her position to ease some discomfort, knowing what was coming, and reached out to physically comfort Taraji in support. They are true friends.
@chosenone9074
@chosenone9074 9 месяцев назад
You are spot on. I think Gail had a malicious motive. Perhaps Taraji didn't want to share that part with the whole world or even with other producers who might be thinking about her for a future project.
@ancienthistoryhunters3361
@ancienthistoryhunters3361 8 месяцев назад
I agree it was foul for Gail to bring up while they were promoting the movie. It’s very suspect that Oprah”s bestie would pull such a stunt.
@gismb71121
@gismb71121 8 месяцев назад
Let's not forget Gail and Oprah are "Best Friends" from wat back. Gail is a horrible interviewer. Think about it... how she got that job. She fits in well.
@IAmKimPratt
@IAmKimPratt 8 месяцев назад
That’s what I thought as well. It was towards Gayle
@jacquie0620
@jacquie0620 8 месяцев назад
@@ancienthistoryhunters3361Gail is just as sarcastic and evil-spirited as Oprah. They’re different, yet the same.
@MrArtVein
@MrArtVein 8 месяцев назад
I took this completely different in the beginning. Firstly, Gail was actually throwing shade to Henson using the words audacity to minimize her autonomy. The reactions to this question including the eyebrow raises and the lone paws in addition to the emotional response indicated to me that the comment was made in confidence to someone else. Her talking about quitting was to someone she trusted so back to Gail she was basically gaslighting her saying she doesn't have the power to control her own career. It's also the tone of her voice it's not playful it's sarcastic. This tone is popular amongst workplace bullies. The long pause was Henson realizing she was betrayed and deciding if she was going to double down on the truth, which she did.
@Deebnoff
@Deebnoff 8 месяцев назад
That was what I felt about it too. So messed up.
@alwaysm.i.a10
@alwaysm.i.a10 8 месяцев назад
And to add on the fact that Oprah and Gail are best friends. Have been for decades.
@sisterstaciess2614
@sisterstaciess2614 8 месяцев назад
I agree with your interpretation of that moment. I thought and felt the exact same thing. I would only add that, the lady in yellow was probably who Taraji confided in originally, but felt betrayed by her evidenced by Gale's candid confrontation and confessional right to Taraji's face, regardless of how Ms.Yellow dress felt about it. Gale went for the raw reaction from Taraji and got it. Yellow dress was initially shocked that Gale betrayed her confidence but then recovered herself by trying to comfort Taraji with a rub to suggest that she still cared about her emotional well being although she had obviously betrayed her trust. Taraji did not even acknowledge her gesture because at that point it was very obviously fake
@taishamikell1438
@taishamikell1438 8 месяцев назад
@@sisterstaciess2614 I had a similar thought. Danielle’s surprise was not that Taraji had considered quitting, but that Gayle asked the question.
@dabeezkneez8716
@dabeezkneez8716 8 месяцев назад
Yes, this is what I surmised too.
@shayleemariano3791
@shayleemariano3791 9 месяцев назад
What about Taraji almost falling apart when Oprah walked in and moved away from her. She actually had to look up and gather herself and hold back tears
@JasS-hu6cf
@JasS-hu6cf 8 месяцев назад
Love Oprah!
@two2tango222
@two2tango222 8 месяцев назад
I’m so sorry Taraji 😢 you don’t deserve to be treated this way.
@jalex3645
@jalex3645 8 месяцев назад
Thats why she is fighting back. Pure class. Painfull to T as it may be, why do people think Oprah is special, I cant see it.
@giovannagiovanna3349
@giovannagiovanna3349 8 месяцев назад
❤️‍🩹🙏🏼
@loveszappa
@loveszappa 8 месяцев назад
definitely a PR move. And anybody who decides to publish a magazine, named after themselves, and put themselves on the cover every single month for over a decade - I’m gonna find it really hard to believe there isn’t a pretty serious level of narcissism.
@atiaaustin4180
@atiaaustin4180 8 месяцев назад
FACTS ‼️
@gal2727
@gal2727 8 месяцев назад
I would go so far as to say psychopath. She seems to get off on hurting people.
@SheisFreeTV
@SheisFreeTV 7 месяцев назад
I'm old enough to remember most of her TV career originating in Baltimore to her move to Chicago, going national and then global. Her magazine, her on the cover... why? Because back then you RARELY EVER saw a black woman on the cover of a non-black magazine and especially one who is considered full-figured. We celebrated her success and changing the narrative by seeing ourselves on the shelves every month. This was no small thing. Context
@annapetras7379
@annapetras7379 9 месяцев назад
If Taraji ever comes across this message, I want her to know that her talents are remarkable and widely appreciated. The courage and respect with which she spoke up were truly admirable, reflecting a tremendous amount of class and self-respect. You deserve the best, and I sincerely hope positive changes come your way. 💗
@psackbrown1
@psackbrown1 8 месяцев назад
❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
@pattieprophet7987
@pattieprophet7987 8 месяцев назад
AMEN ❤❤❤❤😊
@Lenastar23
@Lenastar23 9 месяцев назад
She was immediately trying not to cry when Oprah came up..... her eyes fluttering, head back, exasperated 'okay' getting her head in the game and trying to step outside of her emotion- that is hard not to see
@BrownEyedGirl1367
@BrownEyedGirl1367 9 месяцев назад
Agree. There’s something about the set of her mouth as well; it’s something I do when trying to hold back tears and keep composure. 😢
@emilygriffioen7172
@emilygriffioen7172 9 месяцев назад
100%
@cheriebrittin7627
@cheriebrittin7627 9 месяцев назад
I agree, first thing I said to myself, she’s trying not to cry.
@Jenniforest
@Jenniforest 9 месяцев назад
How much did Spidey get to give a positive spin on this situation 🤔
@MrsLympha
@MrsLympha 9 месяцев назад
Bingo. 💞
@brookefaber942
@brookefaber942 8 месяцев назад
I also noticed watching the whole video, Fantasia touches Taraji on the shoulder as to say it’s gonna be okay and Taraji looks up to her right like she’s fighting back tears. I think they all knew the energy was off and were just trying to keep up the appearance of everything’s great..
@opalworrell6895
@opalworrell6895 8 месяцев назад
Yes!
@everleighlexington5949
@everleighlexington5949 8 месяцев назад
Taraji has been a top tier actress for many many years! I feel SO badly for her, falling apart like that.. she deserves everything!❤
@kevaredmond3569
@kevaredmond3569 8 месяцев назад
Viola Davis has said the same think. She should be at Meryl Streep type money but she's not
@IlaE.Williams-LaBelleZ
@IlaE.Williams-LaBelleZ 8 месяцев назад
​@@kevaredmond3569....DONT bring Viola up...she f^^ked up the role of Michelle Obama, and was too low-down to tell the producer to make changes😮
@lifewithlaniDUH
@lifewithlaniDUH 8 месяцев назад
@@IlaE.Williams-LaBelleZshe did the mouth movements herself!
@DuckyQSimmons
@DuckyQSimmons 8 месяцев назад
@@kevaredmond3569TOTALLY AGREE! Viola and Meryl were in the movie DOUBT together. VIOLA stole the show!!!! She outdid Meryl by a long shot. I love Viola. She should be one of the highest paid actresses black or white. Viola is a national TREASURE for sure! 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆
@jaeboogie2786
@jaeboogie2786 8 месяцев назад
God I just wanted to hug her and let her cry. She deserves all she's owed.❤
@idontknowyouthatsmypurse
@idontknowyouthatsmypurse 8 месяцев назад
People who perpetrate narcissistic abuse do this (Oprah’s) behavior a LOT. They will make a point to establish they are in a good, fun mood and will extend that to everyone in the group but INTENTIONALLY “ice out” their victim. Its always done in a way that would fly under everyone else’s radar, but the victim and the abuser both KNOW the victim is being punished. Take a good look, because this is the version of the silent treatment that abusers do in public Where the actual silent treatment would be too obvious and end up making the abuser look bad. My abuser would do this to send me the message “See? I don’t have a problem and *everything’s fine except for you (the victim), YOU’RE the problem.”*
@jenniferdavies7683
@jenniferdavies7683 8 месяцев назад
That's exactly how I saw it. I saw Oprah being a bully. Walking out of the middle of the photo was about as cold as you can get. SHAME on u Oprah!!
@HippyChixx
@HippyChixx 8 месяцев назад
Spot on observation!
@starrbowie8649
@starrbowie8649 8 месяцев назад
I think this channel host should have analyzed the expressions and behavior of Fantasia and Danielle when Oprah moved to Danielle's side. To me it was crystal clear that they saw Oprah's slighting of Tiraji and wanted to distance themselves subtlely from it without raising tensions. Oprah moves to Danielle's side, and puts a very possessive grip on her left arm, Danielle doesn't pull away and even follows Oprah's handhold for a moment but then quickly moves her left hand up and to her right😢 in order to hold Fantasia's left arm with both her hands, subtlely leaving Oprah to her own devices. Fantasia's and Danielle's expressions say it all....not a matter of moving around arbitarily in efforts to keep warm....
@idontknowyouthatsmypurse
@idontknowyouthatsmypurse 8 месяцев назад
@@starrbowie8649 nice insight! I just kept on watching Teraji’s body language after Oprah moved, so I’ll have to watch again.
@brigidlaffey7343
@brigidlaffey7343 8 месяцев назад
⁠@@starrbowie8649Yes, my observations as well. Fantasia’s expression was caught again by the side camera that no one was focussed on - just as O’s was as she moved in initially towards T. There were some very interesting chess moves going on. // O literally appeared to use D as a shield and use her again for her camera poses.
@berettaghost777
@berettaghost777 8 месяцев назад
I think she was shocked that Gayle said “you have the audacity” as if Taraji quitting would personally offend her. It was harsh, her tone was triggering. Then she softened up to deflect “are you thinking about it?” That was subtle manipulation.
@julies7819
@julies7819 7 месяцев назад
Yeah, audacity was a weird word. Like she shouldn’t have the right to quit and she’s somehow obligated?
@berettaghost777
@berettaghost777 7 месяцев назад
@@julies7819 💡 you said it better!
@michy3075
@michy3075 7 месяцев назад
I believe both Gayle & Oprah might have forgotten where they started. Everyone knows Gayle is Oprah best friend so we know whose side Gayle is on.
@berettaghost777
@berettaghost777 7 месяцев назад
@@michy3075 🤌🏽💯
@ashllykaleo
@ashllykaleo 8 месяцев назад
You are dead right. Taraji is trying to be agreeable with Oprah to salvage the film, protect her career and her mental health from those "producers". Her post is a strategic retreat . The enemy is too powerful. No shame in that. Withdraw, gain strength and live to fight another day. 😢
@sxm76
@sxm76 8 месяцев назад
Especially when she was blind sided in the interview by Gayle. Taraji probably would have kept it in until the movie premiered but it was brought to light in public.
@SaveTheBees
@SaveTheBees 8 месяцев назад
Her blinking wasn't the wind bc no one else was blinking. She is fighting back emotion, tears. She is extremely uncomfortable, and when Oprah walks away, she KNOWS its bad blood and stress flairs.
@SueP-D
@SueP-D 8 месяцев назад
Yeah she’s trying not to cry. Oprah sucks. She’s been duping us for decades. She’s fake, she’s mean, she’s outright hostile to poor Taraji. It’s subtle but it’s hostility. She considers herself “above” Taraji and probably pretty much everyone. Her day will come.😡
@justmeee4775
@justmeee4775 8 месяцев назад
If you pay attention to her ponytail around her face you can see where parts of her ponytail wrap around her chin and lower lip and that’s when she really gets finicky with grooming away her hair from the wind blowing. You girls know how it is when your wearing makeup and sticky lip gloss, it just takes a little bit of wind make your hair, etc stick. Plus they are standing on top of building where it is most windy.
@Mischa808
@Mischa808 8 месяцев назад
She looked up like she was gathering herself. The lady pointing out something afforded that. Then Danielle's looks uncomfortable and as she grips Fantasia to put her in middle may have even whispered in her ear. Fantasia turns around deadpan...and they get through. Eventhough Taraj didn't call Oprah out personally about money, it her baby and she could possibly have been wary of where Taraji's head was. All in all this is some shady stuff in this video.
@Mischa808
@Mischa808 8 месяцев назад
Since the interview with Gail, the other managers may have told them to give Taraji some space as to not get in the midst of anything.
@nevamontford4914
@nevamontford4914 8 месяцев назад
Taraji may appreciate what Oprah did in the call but she knows damn well she hurt her feelings on that rooftop. Oprah was mad at her but I bet she will save face and say that she switched positions so all the actors could stand together...or some mess like that. She is a Virgo like my mom... They love to play the get back game especially if they can't control you. Taraji didn't say anything to her out of respect, Oprah fixed the issue so we didn't have another Monique saga. We heard her but nobody listened.
@Butterfly8593
@Butterfly8593 8 месяцев назад
I agree with mostly what you said, accept Taraji’s body language towards Oprah at the photo shoot was “leaning in, and Oprah side stepped away from the “lean in.” That was noticeable to Taraji. Also if you look at Fantasia’s expression, when Oprah moved from Taraji and Fantasia moved toward Taraji, it was a quick “that was awkward” look on Fantasia’s face, almost reading how Taraji felt. Just my observation and opinion.
@willaturk-domio3965
@willaturk-domio3965 8 месяцев назад
Fantasia is definitely aware and seems to be removing herself all together...
@_Ms.L_
@_Ms.L_ 8 месяцев назад
​@@willaturk-domio3965 Agree. The quick split-second look on Fantasia's face, and the fact that she was focusing on the surroundings/the view instead of interacting with the others says a lot.
@LaceyLyons-ru8ib
@LaceyLyons-ru8ib 8 месяцев назад
Fantasia definitely peeped the shade and the look she gave taraji concluded that she did..
@deedee2231
@deedee2231 8 месяцев назад
It was clear that Taraji moved in closer to Oprah and Oprah made that get away from me move.
@ladyc3205
@ladyc3205 8 месяцев назад
Yes, I observed the same. Oprah was all wrong from moving away in that situation. Oprah definitely showed her real self there.
@jamicritchfield3727
@jamicritchfield3727 9 месяцев назад
Taraji looks to be on the edge of tears during the entire photo shoot clip🥺
@Blackmail1
@Blackmail1 9 месяцев назад
Yes!! I have the same feeling, specially when Oprah moves away and the hair grooming starts, there's something in her eyes and mouth, I can't putting into words but I can feel it.
@franreed4188
@franreed4188 9 месяцев назад
I thought the same thing. Taraji looks like she is trying so hard to put up a front. Oprah doesn’t need to worry about it, because she is Oprah and a master at being phony anyway.
@tammygray
@tammygray 9 месяцев назад
I had the same impression. I'm still not sure if the tension was solely between the two of them, or Taraji was feeling other things as well. There was definitely frostiness there that didn't show up in their interactions with other people.
@pamelac.3241
@pamelac.3241 9 месяцев назад
I thought so too
@Rose_budd
@Rose_budd 9 месяцев назад
Yeah i agree 😢
@jessalfan24
@jessalfan24 9 месяцев назад
I just have to say how much I respect and admire Taraji. She’s such a remarkable talent and I believe that her strength and truth have led her to realize her absolute worth! I wish her the very best! ♥️
@patjohnson6393
@patjohnson6393 9 месяцев назад
Her timing was either bad or chosen well to have a bad affect on the project..maybe taraji did it now to ruin the project on purpose.
@pamelam7696
@pamelam7696 8 месяцев назад
​@@patjohnson6393more likely, Gayle King asked an inappropriate loaded question that she knew was not the kind of question to ask.
@whatoncewas8480
@whatoncewas8480 8 месяцев назад
Agreed! She seems SO genuine and real.
@caw7007
@caw7007 8 месяцев назад
Love Taraji
@tonyajones5212
@tonyajones5212 8 месяцев назад
The post was her trying not to be blacklisted, Oprah has power. Sending Taraji nothing but positive vibes, love her.
@patrichards9
@patrichards9 9 месяцев назад
Oprah is not a nice person. Can’t stand her. You go Taraji! You are a great actress and should be compensated for that
@leomarilyn4232
@leomarilyn4232 9 месяцев назад
She got paid and she knew up front, she wanted to be associated to this film and Oprah for her career accomplments it may not have been a positive experience as she may have hoped to expect the original film was a master piece this remake I don't care to watch so there may not be the money to the actors if they compare themselves to any other current film recently produced today so the math is there she just didn't care to do the math for herself she speaks for herself but she decides to name other cast members that's not her place her career choices are hers alone and she knows that speaking negative about her most recent employer publicly can and will harm her as a consequence of her timing the film is currently out in theaters worst timing ever she is harming the work that everyone in the production, and cast had worked towards this is all a distraction and that is a mess she has created for herself now
@lanagraham4587
@lanagraham4587 9 месяцев назад
DISAGREE!! She took this moment where there was a large audience to make us aware of the issues that plague women of color in the industry!! IMO she was subtly letting us know that she also doesn't feel supported by one of the biggest names in the business.
@themainer1267
@themainer1267 9 месяцев назад
I wholly agree. And add to it that that biggest name in the business never misses an opportunity to speak on black challenges and being true to addressing them in a strong way. Yet, Oprah doesn't appear to be addressing the bigger issue of China and other countries with their colorism in any and every very public way she can.@@lanagraham4587
@cc-vq8bm
@cc-vq8bm 9 месяцев назад
in part I agree-in part. Yes Taraji signed the contract and Oprah prob is concerned about the bottom line-it's her job as a producer. In the interview with Gayle King, Taraji, says,"... I'm tired..." I'll bet she is! Promo tours are notoriously tough. And compared to Oprah she doesn't have as much experience with this stuff. Are her grievances valid? Hell, ya'! Shared during a promo interviews, ahhh... may the not the best idea...but the woman is tired and it just spilled out-tears and all. @@leomarilyn4232
@daizyduke12
@daizyduke12 9 месяцев назад
It’s giving me ‘they don’t like each other vibes’
@kaymarham5486
@kaymarham5486 9 месяцев назад
*EDIT:* The more I think about it, the scarier this is. I think it has echoes of the power dynamic between an abuser and their victim. There is a 100% lack of mutual acknowledgement between the two when Oprah approached and stood by Taraji. They each saw the other, but there was no eye contact, no connection in their faces (no smiles, no eyebrow raises.) Taraji both (subtly) threat-tracked Oprah and sought approval from her. She also seemed ready to respond to any friendly gesture from Oprah, but received none. It was as though she first needed Oprah's permission to engage with her. Taraji's reaction to being snubbed reminds me of a child who has just been savagely chided by a parent and displays that mix of shame, upset, discomfort and contrition, when they feel the parent is furious with them. Or an abu$er. Oprah dictated the mood like a draconian authoritarian and left Taraji stressed. She even did the 'hand on shoulder' power move to the woman to her left. I don't have any strong feelings about Oprah, but I found this footage scarily passive aggressive, bordering on bullyish. And Spidey... Thanks for all the learning opportunities this year - wishing you a happy, healthy, successful 2024. 🌷🥂
@pamelac.3241
@pamelac.3241 9 месяцев назад
Agree with you 100%
@ceg496
@ceg496 9 месяцев назад
Let's not forget how Oprah treat Monique...she abuse her power over Monique confidence and vulnerability for her own show and personnal gain. I would not be surprise IF she did something to taraj behind the scene....
@daCubanaqt
@daCubanaqt 9 месяцев назад
Totally agree! Oprah was putting out some serious mean girl vibes in that photo shoot.
@babyshsrk6977
@babyshsrk6977 9 месяцев назад
​@@daCubanaqt The over done bulley dance as she walked up. Oprah doesn't feel good about herself, bulley's never do. Oprah's behavior was so unnecessary.
@diana_prince_1
@diana_prince_1 9 месяцев назад
Wow! 💯 Great analysis!
@alhasithere1180
@alhasithere1180 7 месяцев назад
Something that I noticed is that when Fantasia approaches she doesn't acknowledge Oprah at all. She doesn't even look at her, her gaze continues outward at the City scape. But, look at Oprah, and how she realizes that none acknowledgment. So, she is between 2 women that there is obvious tension...she moves away quickly. Once Oprah leaves, Fantasia connects with Taraji through body language and then touch. They all had a conversation prior to that Empire State building gathering.
@debneg23
@debneg23 5 месяцев назад
Yes, i saw that also. It was cold!
@InspiredByEase
@InspiredByEase 5 месяцев назад
Yes! Seemed like Oprah was okay being near Taraji (even awkwardly) but when Fantasia came on the scene, she knew she was the odd woman out and moved away. Almost as if Fantasia is Taraji’s body guard and protector and guardian angel. With Fantasia’s body language it seems she was conveying she wanted to be near Taraji and comfort her and communicating with her body language to Oprah to move aside.
@mizzrita01
@mizzrita01 9 месяцев назад
You see the hurt and pain in Taraji's face. She's crying on the inside, trying to hold it together. 😢 It's hard looking at her and not feel her pain. It's written all over her face.
@jr38499
@jr38499 9 месяцев назад
Taraji is looking at Oprah as if she is saying, if only people really knew how this black woman with power and money really was, it would be a shock for the ages.
@cathybutcher4826
@cathybutcher4826 8 месяцев назад
​@@jr38499You are right!!!
@lovelocked5385
@lovelocked5385 8 месяцев назад
​@@jr38499nope. She knows Oprah is powerful. Nothing she can do
@ic7804
@ic7804 9 месяцев назад
Oprah's 'help' to Maui solidified my opinion of her.
@Person-jn8pf
@Person-jn8pf 9 месяцев назад
Same!!!! I genuinely still had hope that she was decent but she has adapted right in with the elite. She does NOT care about anyone but her circle of friends rich friends.
@nicolejasso8836
@nicolejasso8836 9 месяцев назад
Same!
@crashingbandicott8003
@crashingbandicott8003 9 месяцев назад
I had that moment when Cruise jumped on her couch. So I call her Orca....they are the same types.
@merrywalsh2809
@merrywalsh2809 9 месяцев назад
I live on Maui. I appreciated that she showed up at the shelter next day and brought supplies. Then she showed up at a food hub next day and brought supplies. Then she gave $5 million dollars of her own money and said there was more to come. Then she worked the phones to her rich friends to give money and supplies. I am not one to slap the helping hand away, but others are, so she is done with helping us now.
@JudithRansom-t5c
@JudithRansom-t5c 9 месяцев назад
Oprah helped Maui because she owns many, many of acres of land there. Not a good look.
@mgichndz
@mgichndz 8 месяцев назад
Danielle’s eyebrows: “REALLLY? That’s a crappy question to ask her, Gayle!!!! WTH?”
@michelesimms-burton208
@michelesimms-burton208 9 месяцев назад
Of course, Taraji had to appease Oprah publicly, or her acting career would have definitely suffered. I think your analysis is spot on.
@Person-jn8pf
@Person-jn8pf 9 месяцев назад
Is it crazy to wonder if Gail’s comment was almost more of a discreet threat. Maybe SHE didn’t talk about wanting to end her career…
@tiffanymichaels2429
@tiffanymichaels2429 9 месяцев назад
Yeah I didn't think about that, but you're right. Oprah could end her career in a heartbeat. How sad
@stardustboy94
@stardustboy94 9 месяцев назад
That picture was one of the many snaps taken by the photographers seconds before Danielle joined them.If you watch the video Taraji & Oprah just grinned then Danielle joined them.Shortly after Fantasia joined them & Oprah moved quickly to Danielle & you can even see Fantasia is a bit surprised while staring shortly at Taraji.
@ChumLee-wo7hs
@ChumLee-wo7hs 9 месяцев назад
As I said in a previous post,taraji should of could of walked away before the shooting of this movie started,if she wasn't happy about what they offered her she should of walked away..why wait until the movies done to have a winge,sadly I reckon her career now is over,she will get blacklisted.
@mlynettepinky595
@mlynettepinky595 9 месяцев назад
Exactly she would be black balled like Janet Herbert aunt Viv on Fresh Prince and Monique Minorities always get blackballed while White male actors like Bill Murry and etc have a history of act up on set, showing up late and nothing happens to them.
@JustDawn
@JustDawn 9 месяцев назад
I used to LOVE Oprah. I cannot stand her now. She's been accused of this MANY times and other horrible things but her fan base keeps excusing her behavior or says everything's a lie. I hate when fans do that when they really like someone. Come on, stop the bs of praising assholes once you know. Can't stand her anymore
@lilygarden89
@lilygarden89 9 месяцев назад
Same!
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 9 месяцев назад
I tried giving her the benefit of the doubt but I'm not so sure now..
@petera618
@petera618 9 месяцев назад
Same can be said about certain women on the "View", their fans will support them no matter what despite so much ignorant garbage they spew out of their mouths.
@annamariam1077
@annamariam1077 9 месяцев назад
The way she backstabbed Michael Jackson and his family. Evil witch.
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 8 месяцев назад
I never liked Oprzh she's phony!
@VA_MamaBear
@VA_MamaBear 8 месяцев назад
It honestly hurt my heart when Taraji’s voice cracked mentioning that they don’t do well overseas. It’s like the realism that the entire global north sees her as less worthy. I have no clue how that feels, but I can imagine the pain. Honestly, if these countries didn’t keep pillaging resources and labor from the global south, installing leaders who do the same, the global south would be a massive market. We need to demand more of our societies.
@rayn8740
@rayn8740 9 месяцев назад
How nice for Oprah that she has such a perfectly placed bestie in Gail King. Gail is obviously acting as her surrogate in the interview, interviewing the cast of her best friend's movie. She holds all the cards. Since the topic had already been made public, she doesn't have to justify bringing it up in the interview. I believe that Gail expected her to walk he previous comments back, knowing that Taraji's future in Hollywood is at stake. Instead, Taraji did the brave and honorable thing. I dare say that she's already living to regret it. Now she knows how Mo'Nique felt. Oprah seems to have no problem underpaying Black talent. I guess that's how you become a billionaire.
@empressoftheuniverse1312
@empressoftheuniverse1312 9 месяцев назад
EXACTLY, my earlier comment. I misspelled Gail's name. Taraji...you keep your head up!!!🧡
@jlobryan6566
@jlobryan6566 9 месяцев назад
Mon’que didn’t get much support from the public even though her explanation was valid. Taraji is receiving A LOT of public support and Oprah is getting the backlash. Oprah does not like getting backlash due to someone else’s actions. Think about the man that wrote the book A Million Little Pieces. She interviewed the man and I think had the book on her book club. Later she found out the book took a lot of liberties and was more a nonfiction than an autobiography. She brought the man back on her show for what seemed like the sole purpose of berating him publicly. I felt her actions were totally unnecessary.
@annamariam1077
@annamariam1077 9 месяцев назад
And how she backstabbed the Jackson family and Michael in death. Disgusting supporting and promoting those lying grifters and extortionists. After the backlash she started turning off her SM comments. SMH.
@Shazzadut1
@Shazzadut1 8 месяцев назад
Gayle King would be nothing without Oprah. She wasn’t a journalist. She wasn’t a TV Presenter, she was nothing. Just Oprah’s ‘best friend’… read lover…. Allegedly.
@MegaNique10
@MegaNique10 8 месяцев назад
The difference in Taraji and Monique was the heart and spirit during the delivery.
@nicolaclarke7369
@nicolaclarke7369 9 месяцев назад
When Taraji says ‘we don’t translate overseas’ was heartbreaking…💔
@harshreality2672
@harshreality2672 9 месяцев назад
Yeah, being TOLD that (very innacurate statement), was an eye opener for her-you could tell that she knew that was BS. So who told her that, just to cut her down. ? Who benefits?
@ashleyw.6702
@ashleyw.6702 9 месяцев назад
​@@harshreality2672 EXACTLY.💯💯 Black Panther made $1.3 BILLION worldwide. The idea that black characters do not "sell" is just another lie.🙄 By adjusting the movie posters to remove black characters, it is the media and film studios that are simply reinforcing and perpetuating these lies.
@valoriegordon7362
@valoriegordon7362 9 месяцев назад
Great summary of body language. You are spot on. Especially about the part in the letter where Taraji says " with that being said". I believe Taraji is exhausted with the racism, classism and politics of it all. I also believe she is of the generation where she'll stand my her truth and her mission for equal pay for African American women. Even if that means " throwing in the towel". But the bottom line is she has bills to pay like the rest of us.. but I don't think she will remain silent any longer. Yes, she'll acknowledge what the " powers that be" have done for her but she will not bend to kiss butt. Shell stand stronger. Well just have to support her through this. Thank you
@belindasharp764
@belindasharp764 8 месяцев назад
Absolutely. So sad. I was thinking that this does not happen in Aus but when I was mentally ticking off our favorite black actors I realised that they were all male which is the next hurdle that all female actors have to jump through regardless of race or colour and that truly sucks too.
@belindasharp764
@belindasharp764 8 месяцев назад
I love watching your videos. You clearly know your stuff so it’s incredibly interesting and feels honest as against the true crime interrogation videos where they make blanket statements which could easily lead you up the garden path.
@lynndiehl8126
@lynndiehl8126 8 месяцев назад
I love Taraji as an actress. She can literally do anything.
@CrownEducationalServicesIntl
@CrownEducationalServicesIntl 9 месяцев назад
I want to thank you for this video! The way you broke down, colorism and translated these emotions, whether or not, you agreed with them was so polished and professional. This is why your videos stand the test of time. On behalf of black women, we value how you validate her emotions and give the deeper context. You did not take the tone of highlighting her as being emotional. 🎉❤
@allyson4801
@allyson4801 9 месяцев назад
💯
@annapetras7379
@annapetras7379 9 месяцев назад
I agree!
@thetrufolk
@thetrufolk 8 месяцев назад
100% agree. You can feel the tension among all of them. On top of that, it felt like Fantasia was also upset. I'm sure something could've been keeping her attention over the side of the building, but I doubt it. She seemed a bit standoffish or cold as well when it came to Oprah. Furthered even more by her almost seeming not to acknowledge Oprah at all ( no eye contact, no smiles, face almost expressionless, body turned explicitly away - almost as far away as conceivably possible as one can be without being obvious) when she moved to the end. Then finally facing forward after she moves. I feel like these were things that could've been analyzed - because for me they were almost more explicitly obvious than any behavior Taraji had even if the behaviour could've in some alternate universe been indicative something else going on. Even Danielle her facial reaction when Oprah grabbed her. @@slieafrica
@paulamclellan6732
@paulamclellan6732 8 месяцев назад
@IndependentThinker-eh4hl
@IndependentThinker-eh4hl 8 месяцев назад
Nailed it!❤
@chiquitaowens2140
@chiquitaowens2140 8 месяцев назад
You failed to mention how Taraji's eyes rolled back in her head in frustration once Oprah turned her back to her.🙄👀 Danielle whispers something to Fantasia and she moves towards Taraji with a seriously concerned look. It was almost as if she wanted to say something to Taraji.
@liletskyr2998
@liletskyr2998 8 месяцев назад
Taraji seems to be getting emotional when Oprah started to walk away. My interpretation when she was blinking too fast is that she was holding back tears and emotions. Her finger on her forehead is a gesture of soothing herself, like she's telling herself "it's ok, don't cry." It's a form of self-soothing just like when somebody was about to cry and you see that person using her hands to "fan herself". Oprah made her feel non-existent when she didn't even acknowledge her presence like a tap on her shoulder or a touch on her elbow. She thinks she's above her and she could care less if her actions will hurt somebody and she thinks people/her fans will always side with her. That's what powerful people think. They have god-complex.
@sharii8775
@sharii8775 8 месяцев назад
i was thinking the exact thing
@valerismith8220
@valerismith8220 8 месяцев назад
I agree..Oprah was hella phony here and deliberately ignoring Taraji.
@sophianicholson8965
@sophianicholson8965 8 месяцев назад
There may have been tension but I see two other things, 1. The place was very cold 🥶 I would be posing exactly as they did. 2. Oprah was correct in moving to the end for the photo (as the other producer) putting the stars in the middle, that is called staging. Great analysis of a fair body language read, by the presenter though. Thx.
@ladybimshire6808
@ladybimshire6808 8 месяцев назад
I’m sorry, you are reaching when you begin to know what Oprah is thinking. “She thinks she is above her”?
@deeborrah06
@deeborrah06 8 месяцев назад
Oprah could feel the negative vibes!
@mariahsdixon
@mariahsdixon 8 месяцев назад
The post from Taraji definitely felt like it was for PR purposes. I’m a little surprised you didn’t speak about during the photo shoot on the roof top how Taraji tilted her head back and tried to, what seemed like from my interpretation, to hold back tears as Oprah walked up. Taraji is naturally an animated person so it’s really hard for her to hide her emotions. I believe it was because she was trying to hold back emotions and focus on presenting herself in the best way (like we saw similarly in the other interview) that there was no shift in energy with the other cast members as they arrived, her focus was on herself and keeping it together.
@pamelap7841
@pamelap7841 9 месяцев назад
The biggest stand out for me is the interaction between Fantasia and Oprah. Fantasia walks into the frame, avoids eye contact with Oprah. She doesn't even look in Oprah's direction even though she is walking up next to her. Oprah sees this and gets the feeling Fantasia doesn't want to be next to her. Oprah senses this, her smile disappears and she puts herself on the other side of Danielle. There was no verbal communication between Fantasia and Oprah. No "Oh, why don't you stand here next to Taraji." To me it looked like Fantasia didn't want to be next to Oprah evident by Fantasia walking up to Danielle but Danielle stepped aside and guided her toward Oprah. Once Oprah moved away Fantasia turned to Taraji. She was starting to do this just before the camera fixated on Oprah putting her glasses in her pocket. You can briefly see Fantasia and Taraji make eye contact, Fantasia puts her hand on Taraji's back and then Taraji look away to avoid crying.
@chocolate_goddess2295
@chocolate_goddess2295 9 месяцев назад
Fantasia stood in the gap for Taraji. She knows Taraji is weak right now, from emotions. That was a “ I got you sis” move from Fantasia. She “moved” Oprah with her silence & not acknowledging her.
@chosenone9074
@chosenone9074 9 месяцев назад
It seems that a lot has happened behind the scenes during that movie production and afterward.
@kascension
@kascension 8 месяцев назад
I caught this too.
@cfoster6804
@cfoster6804 8 месяцев назад
Fantasia a real one.
@rashidashabazz7319
@rashidashabazz7319 8 месяцев назад
I taught ESL in Chinatown , NYC for 11 years, and YOU ARE spot on with regards to the BLATANT colorism (which is ABSOLUTELY the child of racism). I am in the category of a light complexed African-american . My students ( mainly young adults) LOVED me. When my CHOCOLATE sister substituted for me on occasion, they actually verbalized their discontent. I do feel that TARAJI's statement was Damage control aka Public relations. We LOVE, APPRECIATE and BLESS YOU, TARAJI......Remember...YOU ARE THE POWERFUL CREATOR OF YOUR PRECIOUS JOURNEY 🙏🏽💚😇💯‼️‼️‼️
@WildBison74
@WildBison74 8 месяцев назад
What kind of discontent did your students verbalize?
@rashidashabazz7319
@rashidashabazz7319 8 месяцев назад
@queenjazz1 They would say things like.."Teacher, you are more beautiful than your sister. " We like you better." The blessing is that it opened the door for me to teach them the true history of this country with regards to African and Indigenous people. I could explain the brutality of rape which would have me and my sister on opposite ends of the color spectrum. They receive some very twisted views of African people BEFORE they even get off the "boat"
@applechanel8983
@applechanel8983 8 месяцев назад
​@@rashidashabazz7319This !! Thank you for being there for our future kids to teach them nd guide them on the history of why things are the way they are. Thank you 🙏🏽
@mommamia9948
@mommamia9948 8 месяцев назад
Thank you for teaching them this 💜 did any of them realize they were doing this?
@rashidashabazz7319
@rashidashabazz7319 8 месяцев назад
@@applechanel8983 Thank YOUUUUUU, BELOVED.🙏🏽💚😇 Remember that WE ALL are teaching all the time. It doesn't have to be verbal with a chalk and backboard. The manner in which we LOVE and ACCEPT ourselves is a SUPREME LESSON for planet EARTH 🙏🏽💚😇💯‼️‼️‼️
@nt3833
@nt3833 8 месяцев назад
That part that stood out to me the most in the Empire State clip was at the beginning when she looked straight up at sky, fluttered her eyes and took a deep breath. It seemed like she was trying to fight back some emotion/tears and compose herself. This was as Oprah was about to walk up. I thought for sure you would bring that up.
@skyerainart
@skyerainart 8 месяцев назад
A woman was pointing and saying to look up at something and she was like "oh" and smiled. It didn't seem suspicious at all.
@nt3833
@nt3833 8 месяцев назад
@@skyerainart no, watch the very beginning again. Taraji looks straight up for no apparent reason other than to hold back tears by my interpretation.
@__kiki
@__kiki 9 месяцев назад
I feel really bad for Taraji. She is an incredibly talented actress. I’m sure she worked plenty of service industry gigs on her come up in Hollywood. You can be grateful for the success you have, and at the same time know that you are underpaid and worth more, and that is what she is giving.
@honeybadger3570
@honeybadger3570 9 месяцев назад
😒 she sounds like privileged complaining about being too privileged to me... makes 10 million dollars on a movie and complains the government takes half and then she has to pay her Entourage so she's only left with a few million 😭😭😭 oooohhh booohooo Guess what - the government takes half of all of our money but I'm not left with a few million I'm lucky to be left with 1,300... boohoo whining and crying over earning only a few million give me a f'ing break Idiocy giving sympathy to the elite that have everything while we struggle to put food on our tables 🤦🏼‍♀️ I bet she's got no problem putting Thanksgiving dinner in front of her family
@redfo3009
@redfo3009 9 месяцев назад
Just because a tiny fraction of actors get paid millions they all think they should get paid millions. Acting used to be looked down upon and rightly so. Now they are elevated to god level. They are literally just on a stage pretending and memorizing a few lines someone else wrote.
@pagemastrogiovanni9195
@pagemastrogiovanni9195 9 месяцев назад
😢
@CribNotes
@CribNotes 9 месяцев назад
As an actor, you are only worth what people will pay you. You are OWED nothing. If you don't like the money offered. Don't take it. And if the movie gets made without you, there is your answer.
@davidalan528
@davidalan528 9 месяцев назад
@@CribNotes "As an actor, you are only worth what people will pay you" is an incredibly capitalist construction of self. Human beings are more, are *worth* more, than their work product, howEVER it is priced. FIrst of all. As an actor myself, as someone raised what I lovingly call "Hollywood-adjacent," let me also promise you that among creators, people are valued twice over: yes, there's their price, but we all know and discuss their skills and talents. And those two discussions take place separately from, but intricately interwoven with, one another. There's "how skilled and talented am I", there's "how recognized is that among my peers in the industry," and there's "how are these skills and talents commoditized and priced in this industry". That last question is affected by more than the skills and talents in question, obviously. There's market forces and there's societal forces. So the question of "How much is being offered" immediately suggests the question "Why is this the amount being offered? What forces affect your offer to this person, Taraji P. Henson?" And let's not pretend that the answer is anything other than "Lots of things other than the talent and skills of Taraji P. Henson." You're damn right, nobody is owed anything - *except* what is promised. And I don't live in a world, and neither does anyone worth less than "never have to work again" money, where "If you don't like the money offered then don't take it" is a practical stance to take. She said it clear as day. She's got people to pay. She's got kids to feed. She's got a life to live. And let's not diminish the importance of this, her worth as a human being is to a certain extent pinned to this dollar amount, so even if the above things weren't true, she has self-worth and mental health to preserve. For those reasons and others, she has the right to self-advocate *well* beyond "if she don't like the money she can walk". That's not how negotiation works, but that's also just not how the business of being a paid artist works.
@johannawebley4101
@johannawebley4101 9 месяцев назад
What hurts the most is when I see comments under videos saying they will boycott the movie in support of Taraji. If anything, that would HURT Taraji more because it would prove right the people who don't want to pay her more because people don't want to pay to see black actresses in movies.
@TheBehavioralArts
@TheBehavioralArts 9 месяцев назад
Great point.
@landebanks5886
@landebanks5886 9 месяцев назад
Ophra should have thought about that
@Erica-en2qz
@Erica-en2qz 9 месяцев назад
I went to see the movie BECAUSE of Taraji (and Fantasia and Danielle) 💜
@asia.turner
@asia.turner 8 месяцев назад
The way fantasia looks at Taraji once Oprah left and she steped in closer looked like she was in the know of the tension, checking to see ‘are you okay taraji’
@shoshanahuguenin2125
@shoshanahuguenin2125 7 месяцев назад
He didn’t seem to notice that interaction. Speaks volumes.
@jackiemcclendon4725
@jackiemcclendon4725 9 месяцев назад
I saw the 1st interview, my heart went out to Taraji. I would hate to think that Oprah is yielding her power over others. These stories coming out surrounding Hollywood are extremely disturbing.
@carlakenyon6073
@carlakenyon6073 8 месяцев назад
How dare she! Oprah is a bully.
@jrs2024
@jrs2024 8 месяцев назад
And Oprah herself might be controlled by a higher Hollywood power. 😮 Not to excuse her behavior though.
@continuallycountingchicken7338
@continuallycountingchicken7338 9 месяцев назад
I haven’t been a fan of Oprah since the late 90s. I sent a letter to her that ended up on a “Letters to Oprah” episode. I was asked to take photos for the part of the episode and a courier was sent to pick them up because of the short time frame before the show. When the show aired, Oprah was UGLY to me even though she’d mentioned my request in her commercials for the episode. It was just beyond not nice. She was also ugly to people who made and sent things to her in that episode. Someone had embroidered Oprah’s face on a pillow. Oprah’s response to it was that she didn’t want to (or wouldn’t be) sitting on her own face. Why couldn’t she just say thank you? I can’t support her. I believe Taraji’s “low energy” with everyone is because she’s in a bad place in general with this project because of Oprah. I’ve been in a spot like this where I just can’t fake my mood for anyone. I feel for Taraji. 😢 ETA: My mom just reminded me that my aunt who lives near Chicago was leaving her doctor where she’d just found out she had cancer and went to get on the elevator. Well, Oprah was on the elevator, so her people didn’t let her on the elevator. Can’t share the space with a peasant it seems.
@SimbaOne1
@SimbaOne1 9 месяцев назад
What did she say to you?
@daCubanaqt
@daCubanaqt 9 месяцев назад
Oprah is the worst. I never liked her. My mom used to watch her talk show in the 80s and even then I could tell she was fake. She has her own magazine and is the only model ever that is on the cover? I know it’s her magazine, but come on. The only time I was a fan of Oprah was when she was in the original The Color Purple movie.
@davidalan528
@davidalan528 9 месяцев назад
Real talk, this sort of fatigue hits Black people harder - or, at least, hits differently - than others. We're so used to having to "smile" to take the edge off the "angry Black [insert gender for differing versions]" stereotypes. We don't have to be in the room with an antagonist for that fatigue to have us being *completely over* exerting the energy it takes to remove that edge. And that can translate as SERIOUS "f*ck you" energy. And then there's the power dynamic of it all. Oprah won. *Decades* ago. She never has to play politics with anyone she doesn't choose to. *And* if she chooses to, she can make literally anyone from an audience member to literal Royalty dance to the tune *she* calls. And hey - more power to her! *Imagine* what it took to get to that spot, for an overweight woman working as a Chicago on-air reporter in the 80's. (My godmother had a similar career, from being on-air talent to being a shot-caller in her industry. I live for her stories.) But, having said that, I'm not gonna cheer when Oprah uses that power to *actually* make the little people dance. And when those human beings are already disenfranchised or oppressed in some way, I get mad. Nobody gets to tell her what's what, she's earned that, but I won't apologize for my disappointment in her when I hear the behind the camera stories I've heard. Anyway, whatever this body language is telling you, I promise you Taraji P. knows she's not Oprah. And if the wage gap is living in her head right now, that might cause some pain. Whether or not there's anything personal between her and Oprah - and I seriously doubt there is, based on the little i know of both women it wouldn't be subtle if there was - there is certainly, professionally, that power dynamic. Remember, contract negotiation would hardly have been an actual conversation between the two women. They'd have had a high-level talk or three about the project, depending on whether Taraji had to audition or whether she was requested, then handed off the conversation to their agents and lawyers for the details. So if there is negative energy, it may well be a combination of any or all of the above factors, plus what can happen when playing telephone about matters involving money. So much potential for miscommunication.
@diwi5823
@diwi5823 9 месяцев назад
​@continuallycountingchicken7338 The only reason you wanted Oprah's toothbrush was to put it in a case of accolades that would've meant that you had "arrived" to impress your patients. You were treating her like some sort of deity, so you just got a quick lesson about why you shouldn't. Celebrities are not deities. And yes, that is indeed gross. If it was just about you being a dentist and wanting categorical items of the industry to put in there, you could've just put in your own special oral memento, but you asked for a celebrity's toothbrush or floss to show off, probably thinking it would come autographed and stamped. Take it as a lesson learned about glorifying celebs and let that hurt go. I'm not the biggest Oprah fan, but in all honesty, she didn't do anything wrong to you, it just hurt your feelings that you didn't get the shiny, (gross) souvenir from her that you wanted.
@therealnnairda
@therealnnairda 9 месяцев назад
I feel like Oprah felt that she owned Taraji because she paid her $500,000 and wanted her to do all types of extra stuff like the photo shoot at the Empire State Building. What does that have to do with The Color Purple? She looked stunning though! 😍😍😍 I pray that Taraji finds a benefactor more powerful than Oprah to vindicate her. She is an intelligent and versatile actress that deserves box office tickets and at least $1,000,000. 🙏🏾 Hollywood is shameful in the way it pays it's black actresses.
@rnme2tc
@rnme2tc 8 месяцев назад
What I appreciate most about Taraji speaking up was she chose her words carefully and clearly thought before she spoke. She wanted her comment to mean something. She could have chosen to joke back with Gayle and let that moment pass, but she didn't. She took that opportunity to educate and advocate for her fellow actors. I had never heard about colorism until her comment and Spidey's explanation. As for her interaction with Oprah, it is clear that Taraji is hurt and disappointed but also holds tremendous respect for her. How many of us have worked really hard on something and succeeded only to be left unacknowledged and unsupported by those we hold in highest esteem? It's painful. The question the interaction left me wondering was...did Gayle call Oprah right afterward and tell her that Taraji complained about her pay? That is something a best friend would do to forewarn about potential bad PR. On the other hand, it could also be that Oprah is intuitive and she felt the pain that Taraji was in and did not know what to do with that. Being uncomfortable, she may have moved simply to find a better energy.
@kimberlynhughes3658
@kimberlynhughes3658 7 месяцев назад
That is a valid observation. I’m unsure if I agree, but I have seen and noticed this same type of (as a matter of fact, this exact) scenario being played out in the past. However in this particular case, I don’t really believe this is what is going on.
@Aristocrats1234
@Aristocrats1234 9 месяцев назад
Thanks for breaking down the term 'Colorism' in the film industry. You came with receipts with that movie poster. Wow you did that ! I appreciate you Sir.☮️💜
@animula6908
@animula6908 9 месяцев назад
It’s racism that they think of as justified because they’re greedy. He did a good job explaining it.
@I2AmUS
@I2AmUS 9 месяцев назад
It is not about "colorism", it is about racism and is purest form.
@RayanEiden-js9ob
@RayanEiden-js9ob 9 месяцев назад
I mean if some Chinese people prefer to see lighter actors that's their kink. I'm sure tons of people don't see a movie just because the main character is white. Which is fine too. Can't force anyone to see anything. Anyway spidey is doing too much politics these days and too little bodylanguage it's getting annoying. It's like ordering a pizza and getting a coffee instead
@Hoe_Biden
@Hoe_Biden 9 месяцев назад
@@RayanEiden-js9ob The difference between a majority of a population preferring to see lighter skinned actors in movies vs the other is because white people are a majority and for the most part the white actor will not be eliminated from the movie. People with dark skin being erased from promos, scenes, etc are less lightly to get paid. This affects their marketing, their brand, and their business because they are not getting as much exposure as their lighter skinned co-workers. That's the problem with the film industry. It's more than just a "kink" or "preference". It's racism.
@florinelenaradamilea
@florinelenaradamilea 9 месяцев назад
​@@RayanEiden-js9obIt's a sign of times, wokeness, when customers choices have to be misinterpreted as racist & even invent new words like colorism to support a stupid narrative.
@ilovemelodyjane
@ilovemelodyjane 8 месяцев назад
Some questions: Did anyone notice Taraji biting her cheek? She also looks like she is holding back tears, and no one else is affected by the wind. Did anyone notice how O hangs on Danielle after previously seemingly not to take personal interest. Additionally, O is not only using Danielle as a shield, but she literally grabs at her until she gets he bearings and then stands on her own. Did anyone see what I saw? It also seems Danielle is trying to be diplomatic. She leans in to O, but the second she can attach back to the group -- she does. What about Blitz? He turns into Taraji while speaking and almost seems to be checking the climate of Taraji while also giving nonverbal support. Anyone see this?
@donnafletcher4246
@donnafletcher4246 8 месяцев назад
Maybe Oprah’s was onto the criticism of unfair pay of Black Artists.
@judithortiz-velazquez4992
@judithortiz-velazquez4992 8 месяцев назад
I saw Fantasia checking T as Fantasia moved next to T. It was as if Fantasia was not sure if she would be welcomed by Taraji. It also could have been that displaying support to Taraji would release a flood of her emotions.
@Lulu-kt6gr
@Lulu-kt6gr 8 месяцев назад
Yes - very obvious. O got wind of her interview about being under-paid through her bestie Gayle King and she’s sending Taraji a message.
@naichai7163
@naichai7163 7 месяцев назад
I think the most interesting part was when Oprah initially stood next to Taraji. Did you see Taraji lean in and Oprah react by slightly moving away? That, to me, was the most open sign of discord between the two.
@themainer1267
@themainer1267 9 месяцев назад
How brave of Taraji to put the truth out publicly knowing full well what it may cost her. The idea that Oprah and others like her who are very public about the black challenges do not step up as Taragi has and put it all on the line to address those challenges is hypocritical at best. She has the position, power, and funds to bring this colorism issue to the forefront in a very public way, yet if it hadn't been for Taragi speaking up, it would have been swept aside yet again. Taraji had a Martin L. King moment, and Oprah failed miserably. I hope Taraji stays the course and continues to be a role model for all those coming up and doesn't quit in her career nor in her fight.
@fionamcfadden5772
@fionamcfadden5772 9 месяцев назад
You're probably 100% right & THAT'S why Ms flippin' Winfrey doesn't like Taraji!..She's jealous of her..& probably in more ways than one!!.🤨...
@khismet
@khismet 9 месяцев назад
Well Said👏
@cherrydeleon9646
@cherrydeleon9646 9 месяцев назад
OPRAH, isn't feeling any pain.
@kelgreen99
@kelgreen99 9 месяцев назад
Uhm, Monique said this years ago.
@skbosdgame8435
@skbosdgame8435 9 месяцев назад
Tiffany Hardish was saying the same thing and they didn’t take her seriously they said she’s drunk you could be drug and can tell truth while looking crazy bc it’s CRAZY!
@ForGoodnesSake
@ForGoodnesSake 8 месяцев назад
Taraji is a talented, great actress. I'm really a fan of her work and would watch her in any movie. I hope she gets the recognition and pay she deserves. It seems so unfair.
@luisanaNYC
@luisanaNYC 9 месяцев назад
It must be heartbreaking for Taraji, Danielle, & Fantasia, having faced these pay gaps and possibly feeling like things would be different when they are casted in a movie where Oprah is a Producer and being treated the same. It’s especially heartbreaking because of how Oprah has presented herself in the Black Creative community and how people generally think that she’s this beacon of hope. Taraji has complained about this before working with Oprah, so I think that working with a billionaire and this person is Oprah and this very person who your community uplifts all the time lowballs you and insults your craft-it must be deeply heartbreaking.
@dickersonr6172
@dickersonr6172 8 месяцев назад
Oprah is one of the producer. Steven Spielberg owns the rights to the movie and was the lead producer. But the blk woman gets the blame
@kpeal9530
@kpeal9530 8 месяцев назад
Boom! I was waiting on this comment. Taraji working with someone like Oprah and realizing that doesn't change anything in the world of acting . #colorism
@carlakenyon6073
@carlakenyon6073 8 месяцев назад
Ya,Oprah lost me when she built schools for girls but not boys????? Education of both will be far more beneficial
@motuperez-nofonofo2513
@motuperez-nofonofo2513 8 месяцев назад
Oprah is sooo sad to put black people in the same treatment she once received but money does make you selfish..sad sad..I lost my respect for her
@mariegraves6102
@mariegraves6102 8 месяцев назад
We forget other Oprah projects like "The Wedding," "Beloved," "Queen Sugar," "David Makes Man," etc. Team Taraji! Team Oprah 4 life! Promote unity, love, & understanding & LOYALTY. They call shine; we don't have to drag anyone. And remember: each one of them ACTS for a living--TPH seized her moment even if it caused a backlash and caused some to boycott the very movie she was promoting.
@Ladyjane95
@Ladyjane95 8 месяцев назад
For me, it’s Oprah’s deliberate choice to leave the center of the group (which seems more appropriate for a photoshoot of superstar Oprah with the cast) and walk to the edge of the group for absolutely no reason other than to obviously tell T “hey, I don’t want to stand by you.” Oprah’s behavior throughout this whole clip reminds me of the bully middle school girl who is the leader of the pack. No one wants to be on her bad side because she will ghost you and get everyone else to ghost you. This is especially the case when Oprah ignores T and walks over to D and suddenly becomes the fun girl is laughing and touching D and even leaving her hand on D for extended periods of time making D feel special. Yes Oprah, we all know how fun and cool you are and T knows she must grovel now. T looks like she is about to cry in my opinion. Just like you would in middle school! So lame Oprah.
@kcd5797
@kcd5797 8 месяцев назад
Or Oprah was moving to the outer edge so that the three main actresses would be centered in the photo
@cfoster6804
@cfoster6804 8 месяцев назад
​@kcd5797 Ummmmm...no.
@lisaedwards9960
@lisaedwards9960 8 месяцев назад
Yes, for the photo shoot. The three main characters should be together .
@lurker5577
@lurker5577 8 месяцев назад
Plus Oprah seemed to be the shortest so it makes sense to be at the end. But there still could be beef.
@cmkfatt1
@cmkfatt1 8 месяцев назад
@@kcd5797 I agree, you can argue for both reasons, and maybe both are true!
@nicolelacey5950
@nicolelacey5950 8 месяцев назад
Taraji is a smart woman. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's very much aware of how Oprah is and her record of blackballing black actors. She's aware of her fake ness, but playing her cards right by not saying too much that'll get her where Oprah got Monique. She knows how much power Oprah holds in that industry and knows her game of throwing people under the bus. She's saying just enough without saying it all because she's been in the game of that industry long enough to know how they are if you go "too far" and she's not about to have Oprah do to her what she did to Monique. Taraji knows just what she's doing, she's intelligent woman.
@earthraindove2870
@earthraindove2870 9 месяцев назад
And dont forget her panhandling with rock for Maui. Shame on her . The fakeness is oozing
@themacocko6311
@themacocko6311 9 месяцев назад
What are you referring to? I'm not familiar.
@seedsoflove7684
@seedsoflove7684 9 месяцев назад
Totally disgusting how she took their $ and land. 😮
@carlenacranfield5575
@carlenacranfield5575 9 месяцев назад
​@@themacocko6311they are talking about when the fires happened then they 2 went on TV and asked people to give money when so many people in America don't have money to feed or get their meds or gas to get to work. When they have billions of dollars to help people plus friends with billions of dollars to help. The Rock made a sorry video and then told how much he gave and I think it was less than he did but the other one was trying to buy the people land for less than what it was worth only because they needed money to live. Now some of the people that lost everything with some family in the fires have moved many times with so many movie stars and billionaires have mansions just on the other side of the island that's empty that they could let them stay in or get them the campers that they fix for family need and put on the land to live in till they can rebuild. But what is sick is that the government only gave each family 700 or 750 when they have sent billions and billions overseas to help the family and them to fight a war we have no business in. They did it with our tax dollars. We the people should have a say in what our tax dollars go to. Plus they use our social security dollars to send also so when the 30 year olds or 40s will not have any money to get paid back to them when they turn 65 or by then it will be 80 to retire. It's all so sad... God help us all. Prayers going up for all.
@bubbleslee8724
@bubbleslee8724 9 месяцев назад
The Maui incident is what has opened my eyes to Oprah & the layers of her personality, the outside layer for the public to see, the darker under layers of self centeredness due to the expense of others. Like the homeless Maui residents who could absolutely use her help, as she sits on thousands of acres of land & builds roads to the beach for her own satisfaction alone. To me that speaks volumes of who she really is.
@SheisEileenLang
@SheisEileenLang 9 месяцев назад
Big time! Before Oprah was able to hide it but now it’s very blatant. What goes up must come down
@lanaladenhauser
@lanaladenhauser 9 месяцев назад
You have put so much information in this video, it's impossible not to learn something new. You really make an effort to explain the whole story and give a full context every time you approach a subject. I appreciate that so much!
@audreymarie1191
@audreymarie1191 9 месяцев назад
Yes! Agree❤
@TheBehavioralArts
@TheBehavioralArts 9 месяцев назад
Thanks so much for your constant encouragement, I really appreciate it 😊. This subject was very fascinating to me for many many reasons. I’m glad you enjoyed it 😊
@lanaladenhauser
@lanaladenhauser 9 месяцев назад
@@TheBehavioralArts Are you kidding me?? Thank YOU for being you and always having a moral compass, you are a gem and a true role model of a human being!
@Aristocrats1234
@Aristocrats1234 9 месяцев назад
@@TheBehavioralArts Thank you for your hard work on this topic. What stood out for me is the head movement when Ms. Taraji laid her head on Ms. Winfrey right shoulder. Oprah wouldn't allow herself to comfort Taraji with a small hug in return. That brought tears to my eyes. I felt that! It's like when you need a hug then you get rejected. No natural human response back. 😭😥
@mlynettepinky595
@mlynettepinky595 9 месяцев назад
​@@TheBehavioralArts Would you PLEASE do a review about Dr. Jackie and her apology she made. Was it sincere, real or fake. I saw no tears, but crocodile. If you don't know her. She is on Bravo reality show, called Married to Medicine. She is an OB/ GYN She made a statement 3 yrs ago, that Black pregnant women cry wolf tears. That Black pregnant women fake their pain Someone posted this after she did a interview with Vice President Harris 2 weeks ago. Dr.Jackie was talking to the Vice president about Black women dying more during and after pregnancy than other races in America She made it seem like she was a advocate to try to help women. Someone brought a old interview were she was putting down Black pregnant women. Mind you, she has no kids, never experienced given birth. So she doesn't know from personal experience what it feels like to carry a baby or babies for 9 months and give birth. People who went to medical school were taught lies, myths about Blacks and other people of color. People in the medical school were taught that Blacks can endure more pain than whites. Dr. Thomas Hamilton started that lie. He believed Blacks didn't feel pain compared to Whites because we had thicker skin, that we had fewer nerve endings and etc Dr. Jackie is 65 yrs old, they still teach myths about Blacks in schools. This is why Blacks were not given pain medication compared to Whites during opioid epidemic in America Anyway The interview she did with Vice President Harris. She said Black females dying more than other races during or after pregnancy. Her comments make her look like a hyprocrite Three years ago, she said women are crying wolf. If women were faking their pain, they wouldn't be dying so much. After the video went viral, she still didn't apologize. She said it was taken out of context. Her old patients, viewers, men, Black and white dragged her on social media This past week, she just put out a video apologizing I would appreciate if you looked at the video and see if she is really sincere or what I think she only apologized because her patients probably threatened to leave. Most of her patients are Black middle class and rich women. Both videos below her comments about crying wolf and her apology ru-vid.commpeCdZWsII0?si=8fG0hNtKpBGqTAv3 Video below were Dr. Jackie apologize ru-vid.comPAp0T4yvUjA?si=67JVK45aSmxtnhLN
@cri1625
@cri1625 8 месяцев назад
I'm not sure how you missed the fact that Gayle made a statement to Taraji that she had the Audacity to say she was quitting acting. I think by Gayle saying the word " acidity" was what activated Taraji's emotions
@aggieaguilera4real
@aggieaguilera4real 9 месяцев назад
In the second clip, there weren't just several subtle behavioral clues but some pretty big ones as well. When Fantasia arrives, she is seemingly looking for some distraction herself. Danielle gestures for her to stand next to Oprah, and then pulls her in and whispers something into her "upstage" ear. Oprah quickly moves from between Taraji and Fantasia to stand next to Danielle, tightly grabbing Danielle's wrist. (Remember the Markle Claw?) In the meantime, Fantasia, looking a bit upset, givesTaraji a concerned glance and then rests her hand on Taraji's shoulder. Danielle has taken Fantasia's elbow with both hands. Oprah shouts, "COM'ON FAN-TAY-SIA" without ever looking at her, and then rests her hand on Danielle's shoulder, highlighting the fact that, Taraji, despite being the first cast member there when Oprah arrived, was the only one she didn't acknowledge. (In the meantime, Blitz is standing there just looking like a man who wants to stay as far away from flames as possible!)
@SheisEileenLang
@SheisEileenLang 9 месяцев назад
The clip with them in NYC, Danielle energy knew something as well. Oprah conscience is bothering her. Oprah also opened up more when she moved to the other side n took off her glasses. Fantasia was very uncomfortable. It definitely is a power struggle. Oprah is older and knows exactly what she is doing. The picture shows how uncomfortable Taraji is and the rest of the ladies were towards Oprah. Everyone tried to keep their head straight instead of welcoming vibe. The post was to mellow out things between them to “fool” the public.
@Stellasbaby724
@Stellasbaby724 8 месяцев назад
I’m glad you brought all of this up. I remember being on the top of the Empire State building and it was cold and windy and my eyes were watering and I couldn’t stop blinking. During the movement of Oprah I thought I heard someone say it’s time to shuffle and she moved to the other end. We will never know what happened and people are demonizing others. This was spot on.
@StephanieLee85
@StephanieLee85 8 месяцев назад
For me it wasn’t so much about the fact THAT she moved because the placement is definitely important, it was more so HOW she moved.
@natalielee5165
@natalielee5165 9 месяцев назад
I agree with Taraji in her fight for appropriate pay. As a medical Doctor specialist I feel that our pay system is also not fair and at times I too as a black female physician am fighting for my appropriate pay rate/salary. It astounds me that here in America we worship athletes, musical artists and actors more than we do the people who help keep you healthy and overcome major medical setbacks. This world priorities are totally OFF TARGET to what is important and just. Those that have the power to right this disgrace only care about their bottom line and what goes into their accounts.
@TheBehavioralArts
@TheBehavioralArts 9 месяцев назад
I’m sorry to hear about your frustrations. I’m so thankful that people like you exist and keep doing important things even in an unfair world. If I may ask why in earth do black female physicians make less? I mean with the Asian box office excuse I guess there’s at least some sort of justification but in your case how in earth would anyone justify that?!
@haineko1989
@haineko1989 8 месяцев назад
​@@TheBehavioralArtsracism and sexism combined - gender pay gap in US was most recently around 77%. Adjusting to equal positions it is over 90% per total women, but for PoC the numbers are much lower on average - reported as low as 65% unadjusted and 80% adjusted. As a white woman (in EU though) I am aware that I am paid less than my male counterparts, but also that I am still offered higher pay than PoC in general. TL;DR, personal story: I did recruitment for 3 years and the worst one was a big EU company (not gonna name then, but shame on them) that was offering up to 16k per a specialist - they had a choice between a mostly qualified white man who asked for 18k and an even slightly overqualified immigrant woman (South Asian) who said between 14-16k is acceptable. She was an ideal match, still, the (all white men) board first asked me to try negotiate the man to their 16k budget, and when it failed they didn't just offer 14k to the woman (as I expected them to, since they always put the lowest possible offer) but asked me to try negotiate her even lower, to 12 or even 11k. No reason, "just please try". I told her straightforwardly that I need to ask her about it, but as a woman in the same field I am advising to not yield as they don't have any other matches - only after I reported she's upkeeping her requirements as 14 to 16k did she get that 14k offer. I was astonished, but there was no actual proof it had anything to do with her gender or color/nationality, other than my assessment of the candidates and recruitments there. #WhatTheHell
@haineko1989
@haineko1989 8 месяцев назад
Yes, gender and racism pay gap is one thing, but the crazy world of US medical system is also astounding... On one hand some doctors are earning wild amounts of money and drugs, hospital stays etc are overcharged as hell, on the other some places underpay their dedicated staff at vital emergency and specialist wards. Looking from the EU it's really crazy there.
@newgardner
@newgardner 8 месяцев назад
Yeah, you’re almost better being a Doctor on a medical show
@zisnzat-uw7gg
@zisnzat-uw7gg 9 месяцев назад
What did Gayle say? She wasn't being playful. She was baiting Taraji on Oprah's behalf in front of the cameras. That she heard "in the street" that Taraji had the AUDACITY to considering quitting acting/(stop talking). A lot of Taraji's feelings was sadness combined with anger and frustration. And, one reason her eyelashes were fluttering to not cry was to avoid her mascara running. Gayle was not being playful; she was attempting to be manipulative. Gayle tried to catch her off guard. And, Gayle had an inkling of how Taraji felt but went there and opened that can of worms. Gayle should not have done that as it put a pall on the occasion. But, Gayle is not very bright. Oprah is a selfish, greedy, sexist fraud. That's just a fact. But, Oprah will not be happy with this and will put the word out to avoid working with Taraji.
@michellemonet4358
@michellemonet4358 9 месяцев назад
I agree Gayle was probably baiting her for Oprah
@Boogiefizzie
@Boogiefizzie 9 месяцев назад
Gayle did nothing different than what we would expect a wife to do with her co-dependent toxic spouse... That's her woman; of course she will be loyal to Oprah.
@jr38499
@jr38499 9 месяцев назад
Gayle is always going to be Team Oprah no matter what the situation is.
@shannonstradford6518
@shannonstradford6518 8 месяцев назад
Yeah I agree. The interview was for a movie promotion which is usually upbeat. I think Gayle ask that as a subtle jab from Oprah. She was surprised at the honest raw response she received.
@kimciszek-kane397
@kimciszek-kane397 8 месяцев назад
Agree
@valkyrie7508
@valkyrie7508 8 месяцев назад
Very interesting breakdown. I didn't realise that colourism in films overseas was such an issue until I saw the posters. I was really shocked. As for Oprah She appeared to me over confident in the beginning and then had a mix of insecurity and anger. There was no connection with her and the others and what there was, was instigated by her not by them. The whole cast had a problem.
@StephanieLee85
@StephanieLee85 8 месяцев назад
We also don’t know what transpired prior to the shoot. That could very well be another reason for all the awkwardness between Taraji and the rest of the cast. Almost as if no one was trying to outwardly take sides and that they were just trying to focus on the reason why they were there.
@vpergaminos5978
@vpergaminos5978 9 месяцев назад
My take on the instagram post from Taraji is to appease Oprah after Oprah’s frosty behaviour towards her at the tower. Taraji took a chance to be vulnerable to Gale about something that tants Oprah too. Given Gale is bffs with Oprah, behind the scenes tea surely have been discussed between them, hence Oprah’s frostiness. I support Taraji - what she said to Gale was raw and real. I hope it doesn’t hurt her working on the film because while Taraji was moved to tears about the up and coming African American actresses, Oprah has always appeared to be more concerned about being in the elite for her own gain.
@mlynettepinky595
@mlynettepinky595 9 месяцев назад
She would have been black balled like they did Monique and Janet Hebrt a.k.a Aunt Viv. A lot of actors take care of other family members Their kids, parents, grandparents, and other family rely on them
@DawnCousins
@DawnCousins 9 месяцев назад
😢
@Riva2025
@Riva2025 8 месяцев назад
After all her great work, I sure hope Oprah and her henchman Tyler Perry don't blackball Taraji, I will support her movies wherever production company she ends up going to.
@DawnCousins
@DawnCousins 8 месяцев назад
Not me
@elena_a-2023
@elena_a-2023 9 месяцев назад
Great analysis! Oprah is worth 2.7 Billion and she “walks” and presents herself as such, even when she tries to be funny. People around her are usually laughing and agreeing with her boosts her power. In the meantime, Taraji is an amazing actress who deserves to be compensated accordingly. From what I understand in Hollywood, most actors need to work even when the pay is low. The saddest part of all is that because of all of this, Taraji might not even be nominated (the politics of Hollywood)
@LoriLynnSpiritWithinUs
@LoriLynnSpiritWithinUs 8 месяцев назад
I stand with Tarji also. I recall some of Oprah past choices and they have not been consistent with what she tells the world. I pray that she works through this. Having said that, this IS bullying. Straight up. She feels dissed and then writes an apology or clarifying letter. Those of us who have continued to hold our heads up believing in who we know that we are or all that we can be, see this. Sending Tarji love and compassion and healing. YOU and your co-stars WERE the STARS 🌟 SHIINING BRIGHTLY IN THIS MOVIE. I left feeling forever blessing with each song that was experienced by the heart. ❤ (Ha! And in the real world i DO speak like this. Eiy) 😊
@jonasalden29201
@jonasalden29201 9 месяцев назад
This isn't the first time I've heard negative things about Oprah, even though "everybody" loves her. I remember years ago some back and forth between her and Fifty-Cent, and now I hear THIS plus something from years ago about Monique (which I hadn't heard about because I've been living abroad, to explain how I never heard about that situation). I get the feeling the public tide is turning against Oprah. We're living in a time of revelation about the doings of a lot of celebrities (P-Diddy, Tyler Perry, etc). Much that's been hidden seems to be coming to light.
@SarahGreen523
@SarahGreen523 9 месяцев назад
Taraji was told to walk back her comments to Gail King (Oprah's bestie). Either that, or she remembered who butters the bread she eats and that the internet could tell what was up, so she needed to pay homage to Queen Oprah publicly. We all have to pay our bills. I think eventually she's going to find something else to do to buy that butter for her bread.
@babyshsrk6977
@babyshsrk6977 9 месяцев назад
I hope 50 cent helps Taraji as he has reached out. Oprah has enemies and silent ones to boot. She's getting exposed more & more.
@robinbliss6513
@robinbliss6513 8 месяцев назад
There’s also something to be said about the power dynamic and both women’s awareness of it. As famous and accomplished as Taraji is, Oprah is, well, Oprah Winfrey. And especially after being made aware of feelings of being under appreciated, Oprah had no business being center stage in the PR shots, upstaging the actual stars of the movie. Yes, her involvement helped to get it made, but her time to shine was when she starred in the previous version. She was right to step aside, even physically taking up less space by standing more sideways in the photo and appearing to be “behind” her stars. It made for a better overall impression.
@ddot9566
@ddot9566 8 месяцев назад
And the director was on the other side so that was the right move whether she was beefing with Taraji or not.
@kimberlynhughes3658
@kimberlynhughes3658 7 месяцев назад
Uh, I don’t think most black women would have taken it that way. It’s more like the person with the most power and clout chose to move away from you. That’s a slight. Especially when it was so obvious.
@laurieburdine8436
@laurieburdine8436 9 месяцев назад
Omg, Taraji is fighting herself to keep from bawling. The eyeblinks are to keep her tears from falling. Look at her mouth also, she wants to cry!!
@sooome9294
@sooome9294 9 месяцев назад
Taraji's statement was very professionally written. The eye fluttered, she was fighting emotions. Once you pointed it out, I paid attention to the others and they did not do the same. I always appreciate your comments, they make me pay attention to myself in challenging situations and my body language. Happy New Year.
@Britt
@Britt 8 месяцев назад
if you were a fan on Taraji, you would know that her eyes are ALWAYS watery. she travels with tissue constantly because she said she has a leaky eye problem. SO for the past 6/7 years this has been her issue. People read more into this small clip. They were all laughing on the way to the top but of course the person didn't post that clip because it doesn't fit the narrative.
@s.d.m.1840
@s.d.m.1840 8 месяцев назад
Wow... What an eye opener! Thank you for posting discussion of meaning of colorism / translation and doing a side by side analysis of the movie poster! First time listening to you. I will do again
@CraftyComeLately
@CraftyComeLately 9 месяцев назад
Oprah doesn't even look at Taraji! And Taraji looks up after. But Taraji trues to smile.
@akabutu7565
@akabutu7565 9 месяцев назад
Sadly I think Oprah has forgotten how hard it was for her and still all these years later for other women. Her actions over the last few years have been quite selfish compared to how she was in the past, it hurts my heart.
@yougotthis7723
@yougotthis7723 9 месяцев назад
So well said. I think I watched every Oprah episode. I was even sad when the show ended. But I've been slowly beginning to see her differently. I've been asking myself why. Overall I think she doesn't have to play to the cameras anymore and her narcissism is being more evident.
@rhondamaddox6636
@rhondamaddox6636 8 месяцев назад
Oprah disappoints deeply. And Gail, shame on you.
@WookieWoman
@WookieWoman 8 месяцев назад
She hasn't forgotten; she doesn't care.
@diamondb.6115
@diamondb.6115 8 месяцев назад
When it comes to Hollywood, addressing rumors directly can often do more harm than good. You can't please everyone so it's better to write in generalized open statements. I think TPH stated everything and summed it up without having to divulge details. Being classy and not petty.
@trinaneal9954
@trinaneal9954 9 месяцев назад
I took the eyebrow flash/surprise as surprise that Gail asked the question, not surprise of the actual question. The expressions that followed seemed to me to convey wondering how the question was going to be answered.
@sparkycalico1698
@sparkycalico1698 9 месяцев назад
Me, too. I wondered if she wasn't guilty of leaking the info to Gail in confidence and gave her that look for asking the question.
@mismag822
@mismag822 9 месяцев назад
Happy New Year 🎉 and an early congratulations on 1 million subscribers!!’ 😀 👍
@TheBehavioralArts
@TheBehavioralArts 9 месяцев назад
Don’t jinx it!!!!! 😂 😂 jk. Thanks so much man! Always appreciate your constant encouragement ❤️
@la_baby_khalil7703
@la_baby_khalil7703 9 месяцев назад
@@TheBehavioralArts👍👏🙏😘🙏
@empressoftheuniverse1312
@empressoftheuniverse1312 9 месяцев назад
🎉Congratulations 🎉 Well deserved @TheBehavioralArts!!!! Happy to say I found you soon after "The Slap".😁May you have continued Blessings in the New Year.
@Rose_budd
@Rose_budd 9 месяцев назад
Commenting for the algorithm! Lol
@angelraburn4401
@angelraburn4401 9 месяцев назад
@@TheBehavioralArtsamazing. I can’t wait for the celebration. Very well deserved and hard earned. No jinxing at all !! It’s on the way 🎉❤
@rareonyxcourtney3287
@rareonyxcourtney3287 8 месяцев назад
If she hadn’t touched her arm I would think the eyebrow raise was shock to not knowing anything about it but I think it was surprise that she would ask her that question knowing there’s things going on. Then she shifted her seating and later reached out to her as a show of support while she give the answer she already knows and the answer that she knows GAIL already knows but wanted a tear jerker interview.
@melancholycat3978
@melancholycat3978 8 месяцев назад
I got that impression as well.
@steffie6510
@steffie6510 9 месяцев назад
Something about looking up and flickering your eyes is when you're feeling vulnerable to cry. That's a great way to help stop the tears from coming. and maybe when she saw Oprah she got triggered and just was trying to ward off tears. congratulations on your almost one million. Exclamation point job well done❤
@brothermarlon
@brothermarlon 8 месяцев назад
She was triggered because Oprah played her, and moved away from her
@dogfostermom2018
@dogfostermom2018 9 месяцев назад
I honestly could never figure out how she became so big in the industry. I never trusted her but now, I realize where her money and power really came from. Beyond that, I totally believe in equal pay for equal work. Sadly, you cannot change the culture of another country. What can be changed is how the production handles it. My ex bf, who has passed, was a screenwriter (very white) he was treated horribly in Hollywood, so it’s not always a race issue, it is a Hollywood issue. I feel for Taraji, I do. She is very talented and deserves better, but Oprah had a major say in her pay, so….ya.
@SheisEileenLang
@SheisEileenLang 9 месяцев назад
Esp as a black woman, this hurts me. Everywhere you see this story, you see Taraji in or on the brink of tears. Years ago, the comedian Monique tried to talk about it but was dismissed n silenced.
@Jacy320
@Jacy320 9 месяцев назад
In your opening sentence you refer to "she" and "her". Which person are you referring to? Taraji? Oprah? Someone else?
@SheisEileenLang
@SheisEileenLang 9 месяцев назад
@@Jacy320 she’s talking about Oprah. Taraji isn’t no where near Oprah.
@carlam-pl5vv
@carlam-pl5vv 9 месяцев назад
Exactly! Well said ❤
@lue4724
@lue4724 9 месяцев назад
What did you think of Ellen-----when she fell from grace???
@tarkheenameyer5499
@tarkheenameyer5499 9 месяцев назад
When Taraji did the rapid eye blink as Oprah walked away from her, did you see Taraji do a look down/swallow almost like an incredulous reaction while doing the eye blink? My immediate impression was almost like she was thinking "really?!...walking away from me?". I never saw the other interview and was just seeing this photoshoot for the first time. It really struck me the chin dip along with the rapid eye blink. Love your videos and reactions, Spidey! Such amazing insights.
@Deborah-lj8kl
@Deborah-lj8kl 8 месяцев назад
This should have been an exciting time Om sure O is pretty ticked off and will put the word out this movie was her baby
@Just_Jen111
@Just_Jen111 8 месяцев назад
Just found your channel. Binge watching. The way you speak and present the information in a balanced manner really works. Thanks for the videos, they are very entertaining and informative
@TarajiYaDawla
@TarajiYaDawla 9 месяцев назад
A side fact: Taraji is the Arabic word for Hope and the name of the best sports team in Africa which I am a greaaat supporter and fan 😊😉
@whyrochellepeejay7185
@whyrochellepeejay7185 9 месяцев назад
Oprah was obviously going out of her way to ignore Taraji . Her playfulness is the way ( Oprah) is the way a person who is not apologetic or sorry behaves when they are clearly wrong. I think the other actors are feeling Tarajis pain. Her hair actually blowing in her face, very fine hairs ….. look closer. Taraji is a REAL person….. the Faker a person is , the easier it is to put on a show…..some stuff is characteristic in Girl world..,.
@SchussinBoots
@SchussinBoots 8 месяцев назад
Another cracking analysis Spidey, Thank you ❤️ I love that, no matter what you are covering (and to be fair, most of the time I’m discovering some of these issues/subject matters for the first time when you cover them), I learn something new. Every. Single. Time. 😁 In the year or so that I’ve followed this channel, I feel that I’ve learned so much from you and watching regularly has really enhanced my understanding of people and body language. So as ‘23 closes and ‘24 begins can I take the opportunity to wish you a very Happy New Year and extend my grateful thanks for all the effort you put into these videos that have enriched the life of so many. You have achieved more than you know with this channel Spidey! Here’s to that million…! 🙌
@jesssayin5986
@jesssayin5986 9 месяцев назад
I'm sad that Oprah seems to not be the person we wanted her to be. I suppose not alot of billionaires are though. Too bad talent like Taraji has to bow down to her for their own success. A good leader carves an easier path for those behind them, they don't pass on their grievances.
@GirlWhat74
@GirlWhat74 9 месяцев назад
There is no such thing as a moral billionaire.
@barbaradonlin3675
@barbaradonlin3675 9 месяцев назад
Many people put Oprah on this oedestal. And I often wondered WHY.. when J watched her interview with the Harkles I felt she was more interested in the dirt and the possibility of taking down the RF . Opie is like Ellen. They try to portrray they are good giving celebrities But in Actuality they are Not For ne to see a woman like this break down is heart breaking. She's hurting and she's letting out that hurt because she can't keep in anymore and it's overflowing
@bonbon-gl8qo
@bonbon-gl8qo 9 месяцев назад
Oprah isn’t negotiating the actors deal directly, plus Taraji was paid over $10 million. Yes she’s worth more, but what is the over all budget? Her agents could have negotiated points in the film as well, etc. We don’t know the entire story. What ever the case Taraji wasn’t snapping at Oprah personally, she’s talking about overall she needs to be given more because she’s put in the time.
@yougotthis7723
@yougotthis7723 9 месяцев назад
So well said.
@HEXMACHiNE374
@HEXMACHiNE374 9 месяцев назад
Taraji looks like she's holding back tears and a really low mood, just getting through it to cry when she's alone. I feel for her. I hope she's ok. Another great one, thanks, Spidey. Have a happy new year, cant wait to see what 2024 brings in the Spidey-verse 🎉❤🎉
@Mr.Oct___
@Mr.Oct___ 8 месяцев назад
Spidey...I love ur channel & the value you bring as an objective observer. The one thing that can't be accounted for in interactions like this is...well 2 things. 1) is cultural subtleties thst people of certain groups inherently understand sorta like Denzel explained in the one interview...& 2) The fact that we've been looking at and studying these individuals for decades. We can almost subconsciously pick up on cues & micro-cues that don't seem to jive w/ what we perceive as normal or baseline....Sort of like a spous might do for a husband or wife...or a parent-child might or siblings. There's so much familiarity that noticing the diffs is almost innate.
@DrPatriceBerry
@DrPatriceBerry 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for bringing up colorism and racism! It is such an important part of this story. 🙌🏾❤️
@sevenalwaystrill7197
@sevenalwaystrill7197 8 месяцев назад
Many people still believe it doesn't exist...?
@dreacranford
@dreacranford 9 месяцев назад
I don't think those comments were specifically about Oprah. Taraji has been speaking out about the gender/racial pay gap for years. During her 2020 (?) speech as the alumni keynote speaker at Howard University's commencement she talked in detail about how much less she's been paid as an actress and how Tyler Perry was the first person to pay her fairly. And she's also been talking about quitting acting for quite a while due to mental health issues she's experienced. She even founded a mental health nonprofit and called it her true life's work in one podcast I remember listening to a few months ago. That being said, it doesn't sound like Oprah alleviated the pay disparities this time around, either. I remember Oprah once said that she didn't get paid much for being in the original Color Purple movie, but that she would have done it for free because of how important she felt the story was. Some people can have that 'if I had it bad, then the next generation has to have it bad, too," mentality. It's nice to hear that Taraji wants to make it better for those coming up. As for colorism in China, the best way for executives to combat prejudice in any market is to promote actors of every color and help them tell great stories. They (especially people like Oprah) should not pander to -isms or underpay anyone. This strategy is best in the long run for everyone. A great story can defy prejudices and can open people's eyes. Look at Black Panther. That film did great in mainland China because it was fresh and original while still hitting the story beats fans love. Making lackluster movies because you're afraid to do anything differently is going to be much more of a "translation problem" than color. Just look at the worldwide box office of most DC/Marvel films released this year. It doesn't matter that most of them had light-skinned leads, they didn't resonate with watchers anywhere.
@CarolDavis-t6c
@CarolDavis-t6c 7 месяцев назад
A picture speaks a thousand words.
@QGBFH
@QGBFH 9 месяцев назад
I think it’s important not to forget that there may be more to this than just the interview and the photoshoot. Taraji definitely looks like she feels betrayed. Oprah may be feeling guilty for whatever her part in it is, and just trying to cover it up. Like others have pointed out, Gail is the one who asked the question. My suspicion is that Gail should not have known that information in order to have been able to ask the question.
@rebeccakuhn7949
@rebeccakuhn7949 8 месяцев назад
Seems like none of them really wanted to be standing next to Oprah..the entire thing felt so awkward. I also feel the post Taraji made was definitely a move to protect herself without completely undermining her original position. Stay strong Taraji!
@Deebnoff
@Deebnoff 8 месяцев назад
Absolutely a PR stunt. She is not looking like someone who has been supported much less given any solutions. She is so great at what she does, it is very upsetting to see her treated this way. I hope she does what's best for her, but it would be sad to not see her on screen when she chooses to go.
@michelletd6112
@michelletd6112 8 месяцев назад
I REALLY appreciate you playing the audio and not talking over it. For me, it confirms the situation as I thought it to be. The photo op audio confirms they’ve been doing this already so this is yet another time in this cold space. If you look at all of them, it looks like none of them want to be here doing these pics (again). And Fantasia may even be afraid of heights or dealing with motion sickness. There’s a rockiness to this structure that I can tell isn’t sitting well with Fantasia and Taraji for sure. AND they’re freezing up there. I’m not discounting whatever energy they all may have with each other, BUT…I don’t think we can ignore the environment for what it is. There are people directing them for the photos. Taraji and Oprah are told to look up at something at the same time. I don’t think there’s a frustration there. At the time of Taraji posing for the pic with the team, there’s someone telling Taraji about her hair and makeup before she starts fussing with her strays from her ponytail. There’s a lot going on in this video and not that there are no undertones of tension, but there’s a lot of logic in what’s I’m seeing here too. Great job in your breakdown as always 👍🏽
@Evilene121162
@Evilene121162 9 месяцев назад
I know that the video is about Taraji/Oprah, but one thing that struck me about the photoshoot clip is Fantasia. I think Taraji and moreso Danielle are putting their best poker faces on. What it looked like to me is that when Fantasia came in and looked out over the balcony, Danielle said something to her. As they were gathering for the pose, however, Fantasia, as she stood next to Taraji seemed to have said something to her. It was quick, but that's what it seemed like to me.
@Bibibabies260
@Bibibabies260 9 месяцев назад
I noticed that as well. Fantasia looks like she is saying “I got you”.
@janetastra6041
@janetastra6041 9 месяцев назад
Did you notice how quickly Oprah changed position when Fantasia came into the line up? Fantasia held her composure, but it appeared as if her concern was also about being high up, as she approached the barrier, still the energy didn't look comfortable between them‼️ 💚Pax Amore et Lux. 💚
@risingsun1604
@risingsun1604 9 месяцев назад
Fantasia is the one that let me know that this is ON!
@JohnSmith-qj6bj
@JohnSmith-qj6bj 9 месяцев назад
Yes,I said the same thing ,Danielle was warning Fantasia about those funky vibes
@carolynmcdonald2746
@carolynmcdonald2746 9 месяцев назад
It’s a very disheartening transaction. I have respect for all these women but Taraji was clearly the “big name” with the most experience on this movie. It’s disappointing to think she’s still fighting for fair pay.
@wadiyahabdur-rahim1558
@wadiyahabdur-rahim1558 7 месяцев назад
Wow!!! This is really deep & Heartfelt because like I really love me some Taraji & when I seen her crying, I was like who & what made my Taraji upset!😂. I want to say more but I'm be cool because I did hear some not so Nice things about Opera & her side kick, Ms. Gayal King but, but I'm save my comments and check out a few more clippes.
@thatsweetcharmedlife8295
@thatsweetcharmedlife8295 9 месяцев назад
I definitely think with respect to the statement Taraji posted definitely gave me PR vibes. It's quite unfortunate that a person isn't able to be honest regarding concerns they have without the threat of their career being placed on the line no matter how stellar their career. What a twisted and sad world we live in.
@margoblay4915
@margoblay4915 9 месяцев назад
Oprah and Tyler Perry are the Harvey Weinstein, they need to break your credibility to try and weaken your spirit. I think that Taraji showed herself and the rest of us just how courageous she is. Oprah is getting old and wants to stay in the limelight for herself to remain relevant. She will pass away one day like the rest of us and somehow be forgotten. But we’ll remember Taraji for her courage.
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