Hey Sissel dear, wearing bra or not wearing bra... another factor that can cause boobs to sag is during sexual intimacy.... the touching and pulling and etc. So unless it's a big concern of yours that part may have to be regulated. Otherwise, boobs sag and its usually a matter of time so enjoy it gracefully. Much love.
just a tip before you fall into a Jordan Peterson rabbit hole, he uses the method 'two truths and a lie' to make absolutely dehumanzing and misogynist statements. Basically you make two banal statements, which are irrefutably true, followed by something which is an opinion, to make all statements seem to naturally flow from one another. Say 1. Life can get difficult 2. We might feel lost at times 3. We must not be trying hard enough. That's a yes, yes, and a 'not necessarily' but it is affective because you cannot disagree with the first two. The same goes for 1. More women have entered the workforce 2. Men experience insecurities 3. The role of the woman is at home, this is where she should remain to diminish men's insecurities. The problem is these first two things are posed as being related, or causal even, in order to lead to the third statement. With the other example, feeling lost is also not a direct effect of life's difficulties, you can experience difficulty and not feel lost; you can feel lost without experiencing difficulties. Anyway i'm taking this effort to comment because I like your videos, and want to give you constructive feedback. For a more in depth analysis of Peterson's troublesome style of reasoning, I'd recommend this video by philosophy tube a lot! ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-m81q-ZkfBm0.html
This comment section makes me loose hope that critical thinking still exists in this world. "Dehumanizing", "misogynist"..have you ever read anything by JP? Or even listened to anything by him?
Jordan Peterson like any philosopher or self help guru shouldn't be taken as if he's an infallible God or unshakable words wisdom, etc... but with that said, many of the things he said in response to Left Wing ideologue on gender identity or woke culture offer far more rational counter points. And it is "they" in fact and its triggered and often violent supporters who made him the star he is today. Things have gotten so ridiculously far left that he became the voice that defended the traditional values, gender roles, and simply being straight which are under attack because in today's society and media landscape is so ridiculously tilted against it. So much so that very act of speaking out an opinion that's different than this you're automatically "Labelled" and "Cancelled". In short, you have every right to criticise and break apart Jordon Peterson's logic or holes in his rationale. But to do so objectively and fairly, you also need to examine the logic and rationale of far left gender and woke ideology that made Jordan Peterson a prominent figure he is.
@Heike. Where did Peterson ever say: "The role of the woman is at home, this is where she should remain to diminish men's insecurities..."? This is even a worse way of reasoning, or at least you implied it and you used it to talk bad about someone. Just a tip.
Hello Sissel! I am 43 and still feeling lost sometimes. I think this happens many times in life when we close a cycle to open a new one, we all feel lost because we need to rethink our way, adjust something that is no longer working for us, or maybe adapt to a new or a shocking event. All these moments move our boundaries, it is good to acknowledge and set new priorities. I am in the way of better balancing my personal and professional time, and to allow myself to enjoy each day in the small things outside of work, this video helped me. Thank you for sharing 💚
Omg i needed to read this… I am up at 3am currently drained from work and still have to wake up at 6am for it…asking myself is work currently consuming my life?
Thank you so much Sissel! I have many deadlines this week and I’m feeling pretty lost and uncertain lately. Your videos help me get in a better mindset to get things done in a nice way
Omg I have doll phobia too! I hate dolls so much!!!! On a more serious note though, I (and many other viewers) always appreciate this kind of content from you Sissel. It makes me feel more human, it’s a such a nice reminder that I’m not alone, that there are people who feels lost at times too and that there are plenty of ways to get out of that dark mindset. Your personality and transparency just makes the whole vibe so much lighter and comforting. Thank you Sissel for being you 💜
You are such an encouraging person! I have a dear friend like you in real life :) who lives in Canada now (I am in the US) and she just came for a visit and it was so wonderful. I miss her so much already. This is what you do for us here on your channel. You give us a moment in time with a life giving, encouraging soul who is funny to boot and that is 20 minutes in a day well spent! Thank you! One thing I love about your vlogs is how honest you are. Even though it is silly and you don't have to, you mention the tea that didn't end up looking like a flower. There is just something so lovely about that because you are being real and truthful. Appreciate you!
You and your husband are very good speakers. One of the smartest blog I have watch on YT . Continue doing a great job on your blogs and make us viewers really happy ! Really worth listening and watching you guys talk that a lot of the younger generation should be able to comprehend on what they want to do in life .👍👍👍😘
Idk who Jordan peters is lol but I LOVE that you made a point about agreeing with some things and not all. It aggravates me that so many people refuse to even listen to someone they disagree with. Living under a rock and only listening to things you agree with will not help you grow. Listening to the other side of things may change your mind, OR will make you even more strongly convicted in the beliefs you hold. Neither one is bad.
Hi Sissel🌻 Watching your videos truly give me a whole NEW and MORE OPTIMISTIC perspective towards life... seems your little 'podcast briefings' are helping your RU-vid friends as well, at least they do for me. No sugar coating here, I really cherish every single video of yours I've seen. And Jake's absolutely right, you've got such a 'RU-vid Voice'... I mean I love your voice too😄 You are a complete vibe girl🤩😎 THANKS FOR ALL THE LOVE YOU GIVE💚 LOTS OF LOVE💜💜
Thank you Sissel for introducing me to the school of greatness podcast. I just listened to one episode and was bawling my eyes out but in a healing kind of way. Much love to you and as always, I really enjoyed your video. ❤
Hi Sissel! i really appreciate when you do this kind of videos, i’ve been feeling so lost and lonely recently but hearing you talk about it feels like im having a chat with a close friend who feels the same way, and with your words you kinda heal me a little, thank you. i’ve been a follower of your channel for a couple years now and it’s really nice watching your journey and kind of growing up with you 🤍 i wish you the best, always!
I had a hard week, then this video of yours came up. Even in my free time I have lost my interest in watching videos here. When I watched yours, it seems to always make me feel relaxed. Thank you again Sissel! 😭
Loved this vlog so much 💚 laughed the knife part and Sille's bad cheese slice 😂 I also resonate with JP and what he has to say about journeying through life. Thank you for another heartwarming and real vlog 💕✨
I never leave comments, but I just wanted to say I used to watch you years back, when I was in high school, and when I got locked out of my RU-vid account and made a new one I lost your channel😢😂😂. I literally cried of happiness when I found you again a few weeks ago. It was so nostalgic, and such a full circle moment❤️. I can still relate to you in the same ways that I used to, which is so crazy given the time that has passed. Im so proud of you, and I’m excited to keep up with your content going forward! Hugs 🫶🫶🫶
Been feeling lost and not me rn and even my friends had been telling me so that I had not been present with them lately so this is just exactly what I need. ❤️
That’s literally how I felt, I’m in the midst of making tough decisions and it’s creating a lot of confusion and unsafety, so it brought me a lot of comfort to know I’m not alone ♥️ Thank you for always sharing how you genuinely feel!
I'd be curious to see a video of how you shop clothes : what's your inspiration, where you look for stuff. Usually people show only what they buy but I wonder what is your process, cause you got great style and I hate shopping and I'd like a few tips ;)
A perfect video theme at the right time in my life as well. D: Each video you get out makes me think more and live in the present and change for the better. Love how much you developed! Seeing you glow, makes me happy and wanting to work harder on my life too.
I think we need to lose the our bearings before we find the right path. Feeling lost is scary if you we give a negative perspective but if we give a positive perspective we can understand that it's good that we feel lost sometimes because we want to move forward to find better things and without having a proper destination it's amazing to think that we are free to choose our destination if we want to. We are on our own path so we are not really behind. Thank you for a beautiful video
I feel like workin out makes me feel happier somehow also I don’t do regular workout I do dance /Zumba workout and it just makes me look forward to workin out the next day ! Let’s grow healthier and happier together! Also I can see the effort you put in your videos it’s so aesthetically pleasing love it ✨ Also this video spoke to me so much thank you !
omg Sissel for quite some time now it feels like you're changing, but your recent videos are a full reflection on that. From your videos one gets honest acceptance and understanding of things and not the trendy, performative one where judgment is dressed as tolerance. I always loved your channel, but I feel like I am re-connecting with it again, its so fresh :D
Loved every minute of this, Sissel!! ❤️ I kinda zoned out and thought about where am I now in my life (what season), my WHY, my reason. Gotta journal later after work. Haha. 😅 Thank you for this, really. Also, I so loooooove it when you and Sille are together. Can't stop smiling.
the intro instantly reminds me of the podcast episode "feeling behind in life". and let me tell you, it's one of my favorite go-to episodes! so excited about this video 💗
this vlog was exactly what i needed,,, feeling lost can be scary but at the same time it's an opportunity to switch directions and choose something different/ something better,, which is still scary but gives you your control back i feel like :) thank you so much for making this video (and for all your other videos too lol)
My whys are not clear but one thing for sure is my purpose aka giving love. On this note I hope you have a great week and I send you and your loved ones lots of love and warm energies! 💜
I looove that!! What a beautiful purpose. Now it’s time to find out all of the different ways that is manifested in different seasons of your life. Lots of warm hugs 💚
i seriously love these kind of videos. i really learned a lot from you! i always have so many thoughts and felt so motivated after your videos. thank you for making these types of content. you are what i'm looking forward to every week ily ♥︎
Thank you so much for this timely vlog and topic Sissel! I rarely comment (because I'm shy hehe) but I felt like doing so now, I'm currently going through a difficult time with my undergraduate thesis, the stakes are high, it's like life and death, I'm in a low place but this video helped me get back up and also comforted me that everything will be okay, and I'm closer to my goal even with every failure. Thank you for sharing and for being a friend to all of us
What an excitingly nervewracking time ! I’m sure you’ll do great and thank you for commenting! Always so happy to get an inspiring message like this 💚💚
Always coming back to your videos. Everything about this account is just so beautiful. You make me feel so much better about where I stand in life. Please keep going. It is more appreciated than you might think. 💚
Hi, thank you for sharing your thoughts about feeling lost Sissel. Actually I'm kinda feeling that way too, and for some reasons, I think I know how to get out of this, but this will not be possible right now, I have to wait a few month before moving on, so I also have to be patient aha. But you still helped me in a way, it feels good to hear that it's ok to not figure out things completely ! I'm all motivated to start following your advices and take actions now, thanks again ! and your aesthetics are always on point, a real pleasure to follow you 💚
Life can be so much more interesting and dare i say "fun" if we allow ourselves to evolve (this includes failure!) Thank you for sharing - your vlogs always make me feel relaxed.
I changed my specialisation last semester, so a lot has changed and i feel like i can't find the right way. But watching your videos motivate me to continue. Tak !
Finding the wrong way is also a step in the right direction! Although frustrating, the real gold will come when we are able to view this from a place of “what has this taught me?”, even in the present moment 💚 best of luck love!
Gurll, thank you for this video. I needed this soo much. My mind in so clutter now and your words really help. And about the boob, woman boob naturally need support or else it will go downward. If you don’t like wearing bra go for those naturally supported bra like Neiwai or Uniqlo which doesn’t have the wire.
Your video came right on time when I needed a little pep talk. Can relate to many things you said. As always love your energy, thank you for the reminder! 💚
I was laughing so hard at you impersonating Jake that I could barely understand what you were talking about in AD segment of the video 🤣 Thank you for creating a good mood for me!
Thank you Sissel! Your video came just the right time and helped me a little! 🥰I am struggle with getting lost and spring depression. I am so tired of the long winter season, the snow will stay on the ground for the next two months where I live. :( But I believe I will find the next direction eventually. ☺
Hi, Sissel and Happy Wednesday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚🎇👍. The "Protect Yourself Online" is so funny when your twin appears at the door with glasses and a hat! 2:14, AHHH!😨😀. Then, you just....froze like a mannequin and say, "Wait. What?"😨. Now that's a blooper video right there! So...yeah. Good luck on your incredible day and Happy Spring in Seoul!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚😊😎☀🎇👍
would love to know which episode of the podcast it was that you mentioned! love today's video, it really resonates with me. and i can't believe it was around the same time that i had my burnout and i'm now moving on to the next chapter of my life. thanks always for the positive energy 🤍
Dakgalbi is also my favorite thing to eat! Really appreciated this video Sissel. These days I don't struggle with the 'why', but rather the 'how'. I know the destination I want to go to, but don't know how to get there yet. Or perhaps, it's a matter of focusing more on the here and now instead of the future (but the future looks like so much fun!). Hope you're doing well, thank you for everything as always c:
I love that, that’s the fun part!!! And, because it’s based in action it can be a simple process (not easy, simple). I recommend literally writing a step by step to-do list. I’ve done that with so many new work adventures, etc. and it’s done wonders for keeping the head cool and not stressed 💚
@@sisselab Thank you so much! I'll try writing down the steps and hopefully that'll help me🥰. The most difficult part is that some things are out of my control and that can be frustrating some times haha, but I really appreciate your advise and use it for the steps I have control over!
Hey Sissel, I've never been this early 😁 do you think you could talk about how you have learned Korean and maybe include a small lesson in a video for us! Xox
Thank you for this vlog Sissel! As always it really calmed me down and gave me good vibes for the rest of the day❤ Hope you're having a good day too! 😊
Thank you for opening up the conversation about "mature" boobs. I'm only 20 yo but I've come to the same realization that "not wearing a bra" does NOT maintain perky breasts unfortunately. We I was younger that's what I heard and ever since I have not worn bras, which is more comfy imo. However, now I'm considering changing my habit to slow down the sagging. If anyone has personal experience or tips please let me know
There are moments when I do feel behind as well. Thank you for this beautiful message in this video Sissel 🌿❤️ my mom always tells me to wear a bra otherwise gravity will do its thing but I still don't wear a bra everyday 😅 or I'll wear a sports bra. But I believe wearing a bra during the day does reduce sagging, but saggy or not all bodies are beautiful ❤
Omg the jake part got me truly laughing so hard, the swearing hahaha 😂 loved this vlog, and I love when you call me/us your loves 💚💚 so, my love, tell me please where is your leather jacket from? 😂 I’m desperately searching a jacket for spring! I send so much love your way. Thanks for your amazing words and your view on life. Very inspiring! Xx
We all feel lost every now and then, but then we find comfort in realizing we're not alone in this 😊 thankfully it's only a temporary state of being (or at least it should be). Wait...what do you meannnn Sille isn't staying? 🥴 Always happy to see her every now and then. She truly oozes positivity! About saggy boobs - unfortunately that's what happens when you get older 🤷🏼 But that's okay 💚 It's all about the way we view ourselves right? So the good news is that with a steady work out routine & paying a bit more attention to your chest area while following your daily beauty routine, you can keep them in great shape! Our boobs need a little bit of extra loooove down the line, ya know 🫶 That's all. Don't worry - you look fab!
Yeah, sille lives in Copenhagen now unfortunately. But something tells me she’ll move back to Korea sometime in the future 💚 I guess I’ll need a beauty routine for my boobs! 💚
With the boobs I think that genetics play a role too. There are so many different shapes and sizes and I seem to remember seeing a tv program once saying it is in our genes. I have enormous boobs like an F and I wear bras and crop tops all the time. My sister has very big boobs as well. Mine are perky and hers sag but we do the same thing and I’m 45 and she’s 43. My mums boobs are smaller like a C and hers have always been like two flat pancakes even when she was young!
I don’t think you’ll see this Sissel, but I think it would be cool for you to do book recommendations or even a book club with subscribers. Sending love your way ❤
19:38 yes doll phobia is normal. My friend totally freaks out when she sees someone in a costume like a giant teddybear or anything. I think even santa. She must have a trigger from something.
🙌 thats what I needed. Thats exactly how I am feeling 😆 lost and left behind... loool. But its ok. We will get through this... somehow... I crohet pullovers and hope that my stress melts away 🤣
Hello Sissel 💗 love your role play addition for VPN ad😂!! I saw you get oat milk or soy latte In Seoul. Could you plz recommend which cafes have these milk options available? My friend went to Seoul last time and struggled to find them
