So true! If I look back on any of the women I've broken up with, it wasn't a problem with attraction. It was either a behavior, bad timing or a fit issue, as you say. If it were an issue of attraction, I never would have dated them in the first place. I guess that would hold true for the women who have broken up with me as well. Thanks, I needed this. Too much red pill toxicity out there, this is a much better and correct understanding of relationships.