Watch this video if you're shy and introverted… 

It’s should be illegal to be this relatable

1 like = 1 push-up. I don't care how many I have to do

It's so nice that he sits outside when recording these. It gives it a whole feeling of authenticy that you can't find elseware, and the fact that he doesn't use a script makes it 10x better. Keep it up brother, you are currently helping me rid myself of my social anxiety and depression, so you will always have my thanks!

Im not an introvert but i clicked because i wanted to say for all the people who are shy and introverted and scared to talk to other this is some word of advice. If u want friends or a gf/bf just be urself people will be more open if ur urself because be honest would u want to be friends with someone who constantly wasn't being their selves no? didnt think so, so jst be urself for everything

I just got my first girlfriend days ago. You have no idea how perfectly timed this video is

I've had a crush on her for 8 months now which is insane and have never talked to her. I convinced myself that at school on Monday i'm going to go and talk to her because I'll only regret not doing so in the future. This whole weekend ive just been thinking how im going to start a conversation with her and I've been anxious. At the perfect time this video came out. thanks man, you're amazing Edit June 1 - I just wanna tell all you homies to go out of your comfort zone, and go talk to her. Trust me, it's not that bad, I can say from experience 🙏

This may be one of you're best videos yet, there are so many people that struggle with anxiety today. I remember when i moved to a German speaking country, i could hardly speak the language, and during one of my presentations i got laughed at for mispronouncing certain phrases and words. I remember that i would always sweat a lot and start to stutter. It took a while to overcome my anxiety even after i learnt the language fluently. I'm sure this video is gonna help so many other brother. Always gonna support you. Much love ❤❤

Jak, I wanna say thank you. Thank you for giving me the courage to ask my crush out in the first 5 days even though I’m very shy. Thank you for that self belief you instilled in me. I couldn’t haven’t done it without you or God. Unfortunately she said no, but I’m still relieved. At least now I don’t have the anxiety of thinking when’s the best time I should ask her out anymore. I’m so grateful for this. I couldn’t feel any better even though I got rejected somehow. The relief felt amazing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Jak. 🙏 God bless you

My turning point actually happen not to long ago, every since i switched from a regular class to communication class my social anxiety gotten worse over time until like last month where i woke up and i said to myself in the mirror "i have a problem and I'm going to fix it" Ever since that day i started focusing on myself and eventually i felt more confident and happy, I'm less anxious now because i don't give a shit as much, hell i even managed to approach my crush. Basically what I'm trying to say is thank you for motivating me, i still have a long way to go and i ain't stoping

Damn you story really resonated. Specially the lock down stuff and discovering self improvement stuff and how your weren't that relatable. Respect for the grind man, your videos are literally like future me guiding younger me.

1 like = 1 km for running Seriously people stop, I ran the 36 km thinking I had finished, I go back to the comment and the likes went up 💀 I'm going to try for the 80, I hope I make it.

“ It’s simply a reflection of their own perspective “. Omgg, I never thinked about this

Bro, after he said "a fucking good life" made me cry for 10 seconds, Thanks to this man thata i am working on my goals, my dreams and other good stuff, thank you jak.

Jak, you’re really helping me to find my old self again. I used to be so socially confident and would to talk to people with no problem before I started high school. But some things happened in year 8 that really screwed my mental health and confidence. My entire year group knows who I am because of what happened back then and now whenever I see someone looking at me or hear them laugh behind me then I think they’re mocking me for it. But ever since I found your content I’ve become better, I started talking to my crush, started working out and focusing on my self confidence using my RU-vid channel to help. I’m still not there yet but I feel like the old me is starting to come back and when he does I feel like I’ll finally have control of my life again. Thank you.

It’s not always bad to be laughed at🤷‍♂️

I was just thinking about this, I had went on the usual 'self improvement' journey and gained lots of confidence, yet I had a big fight with my friends, which left me alone and hesitant to talk to others, I thought I would be fine if I just focused on myself, but I realised, ı developed fear. Fear to speak, getting that lump at my throat whenever I wanted to, even if it was to say 'hi' or 'good morning', all the 'tricks' and 'tips' other influencers gave might have been useful, but my hesitancy to talk did not even let me do that. I was looking for a solution for my problem, thats when I looked at youtube and found your videos recommended to me. I believe it was meant to find me. Thank you for making the video and helping me find the actual solution and not just telling me to talk like other self-help influencers. 🖤

Your story is relatable to me when I was in school ngl. I’m 22 and still introverted, I gained confidence but I still haven’t had the balls to just be social. I think imma try something new this summer, it’s time. Thank you for this video bro

12:01 has to be the truest words ever spoken brother 👊❤

I’m new to your stuff and you’re absolutely right on! I met this one guy yesterday who was a very accomplished doctor. He had very huge ears, and the only reason I bring it up is it would be something a lot of people would be very anxious about if they had them but when I talked to him I didn’t even think about his ears. It didn’t matter that they weren’t perfect. I was more worried that my face was dirty from working on his property. We typically judge ourselves more than we judge others.

1 like= 1 mile of running

This is the first time I realize you are only like 4 years older than me and this content is more relatable that I originally thought.

Thank you so much Jak. I’ve been watching your videos for a couple months now and my entire outlook on life has been changed for the better. I’m more confident, I’m more disciplined, and I’m able to combat my addictions now. I just feel so much better and my family has even noticed me change and have said that they’re proud of me. I credit this success to you, so once again thank you.

F*ck it, 100 likes and I talk to my crush Edit 1: talk to my crush, about my feelings (she's not a random person). Also I'm kind of scared that we gonna get there and of course thanks for any advice u give me Edit 2 : So basically i have known her for 2 years. I havent really showed any short of emotion that I want her but we are talking every morning in school or in the adternoon using intagram. The only problem is that she may consider me as a friend and nothing else. Edit 3 : After 1,5 days we actually did it. So whats gonna happen now is that i will keep my promise (get to know her and create a friendship between us as you advised me) and when it wont be too akward i will talk to her bout my feelings.

just saw this video today. But bro, how does helping so many people make you feel? I really think that being that relatable is 100x better than anything else and with this style of video you're doing your best. Thank you Jak.

Thanks man I’ve struggled a lot with social anxiety. sweating around people I don’t really know or barely able to look them in the eye this helps a lot

Dude thank you so much, u don’t know how much I relate to this. This gave me motivation to go out there and want to talk to people.

Bro... I have no words for how you are changing our generation. I am proud of you. You know why? Because you never post those toxic shorts with alpha male advice, but just video's with real-life advice. By the way, could you please make a video about what you think of God? Take care brother 👊

Man, i've been struggling with anxiety for a while you know its an obligation that comes from puberty and i had some ups and downs trying to improve myself. I thought i got over it and then some events happened and i hit rock bottom. Watching your video helped, it really did. And your vids are better than those processed repeating gibberish videos that talk about "top 10 ways to be charismatic" or something because your videos actually have a meaning, a message you can say. It's because i can sympathize with your vids knowing your experiences and how you get over things. Even if it's a strategy for youtube or something i can still feel the sincerety in your videos. Watching it reminds me the things i've forgotten like how things can be really simple sometimes if you have the right mind. Seeing you become a better person helps me becoming a better person even if its not major improvement or if its temporary. Sincerely, thank you.

Jake, you just told me my highschool life (without corn) but i just bottle it inside and i just cant stop, i try and try to improve i look away from them but they just haunt me daily and i cant handle, but with you, your different, youve helped me through year 7-9 and ive been feeling better, thank you for being this calm and collected person that can help people, thank you!

listening to this while hitting the gym just hits different

Hey one like I'll do 2 pull ups

I have been following your video content for several months, and I wanted to extend my congratulations on reaching 1 million followers.

1 like = 1 random talk with random girl on the street

This was such a nice story and video coming from someone who does have an anxiety disorder - keep it up!

I sometimes watch your vids, even if I can’t relate to. It might me helpful, even if it isn’t for me, cuz I can help others with an advice.

Bro you are the realist guy I’ve ever seen. Everything you’ve said I can relate to and you are such an inspiring person. Thank you

People who know that Jak puts 200% effort in his videos to help people 👇

Ngl bro am gonna be honest I was crying watching this video but youtube recommend me this channel man thanks for the message

Wow, I honestly never thought of how bad my anxiety rly was until today. I remember i had to record a speech for my english GCSEs, and i can still clearly picture how red my face was and how much my leg was shaking bc of my fear of being judged. But now i can finally put it past me, and ik that i wont wake up and look in the mirror thinking all these negative things that ppl might judge me for So thanks for the inspiration and the light that ive needed

Thanks bro for making this video i got a lot of anxiety on my life. After watching i realize we also have a chance to get up and live a happy life appreciate it bro 💪🏼🙏🏼

1 Like = 1 day 50 push-ups

Starting college tomorrow, your videos are astronomically helpfull. Each time I finish a video I feel my confidence and self esteem slowly reconstruct itself. Now I feel like I'm going to do whatever I fear to overcome it, I'm going to speak to new people instead of living in fear and caging myself in doubt and insecurities. Thank you so much ❤

Thank you so much for the advice jak,It’s been a difficult time for me and watching your vids make me motivated.I really look forward to keep on going for myself.

I have never been able to relate this much to someone's perspective on anxiety issues. This video is truly a gem to me. Thank you so much for your advice. I'll definitely implement this in my upcoming days starting from today itself. Once again, thanks a lot!

Thank you brah I really needed this, you have changed my perspective on my situation a lot and you’re advice is very appreciated, keep doing what you’re doing bro god bless🙏

Jak I found your channel and thought it would be some sigma male podcast kind of video, But it was actually very helpful and hit me deep man and helped me realise things I missed in the pass and loom back at my mistakes. Thank you

Build social skills Get good at something that massess desire' Then put yourself in a social pressure situation first awkward eventually you get good its take time and courage focus and persistence very hard anything to build if its not naturally gifted

this honestly changes my perspective on life and why im scared to do certain things, you are honestly changing not only mine but thousands of peoples lives and you should be so proud of yourself :)

I had this civics class a decade ago where I completely screwed up one of those presentations where you have to have like 20 slides but the asshole teacher doesnt allow you to put alot of info on them you gotta memorize everything and speak on each slide for like 3 minutes and lil ol me failed to memorize the essay of maranda vs arizona and the whole class laughed at me

Great messages in this video Jak, having love for yourself & believing in yourself is so important for everyone. No one else can make one happy, your happiness comes from within oneseself. If one relies on others for happiness, one will always be vulnerable. Others can enhance your happiness but not make you happy. Bullies & keyboard warriors rely on the vulnerability of others to make themselves feel good & in control. Do not let the cowards win.

4:08 made me laugh way harder than it shouldve

i am going to do things that i am afraid to do without wondering what others might think about me , i will come back later and will what have changed (thank you for the great content bro i felt it and what to improve myself even though how i am going to do it but i will do it any way possible)

We need more people like him....

This video is super relatable. I have social anxiety disorder and I used to always be anxious about what other people thought of me, and I remember starting school after the pandemic where everyone was on tik tok and Snapchat, and I felt left out because I wasn’t keeping up with the latest “trends”. But I recently started to have a new mindset of just telling myself “who cares what other people think. If they don’t know you than their opinion doesn’t matter.” Which has been helping me a lot, and I started going to the gym. (Sorry for the long comment) Thanks for the video! Have a good day guys👍🏻

Bro is super relatable asf

Its so inspiring the fact that when you watch his videos you realise you either were or still are in the same situation he was, even in basketball i dont have enough confidence but man basketball is the only thing that has helped me feel good about myself for some reason

Ok Jak, If I can give you 1 piece of criticism, it’s with your thumbnails… Please make your thumbnails a bit different from each other and make them more unique. Cuz like, you made 3 videos with a thumbnail thats you sitting in your car, with like the same camera angle. And you made like 20+ thumbnails of you standing in the same room, with the same purple light, with the same white text above your head, with the same microphone, with the SAME WHITE SHIRT, AND WITH THE SAME FACIAL EXPRESSION! The thumbnails from like 5 months ago and even a Year ago where a lot better, so can you like update your resent ones and start making more unique thumbnails please, thank you. Nothing wrong with the content, just the thumbnails getting a bit repetitive thats all, lots of hugs❤

thanks a lot man i think this is the final push for me thanks a lot

Jakpiggot, I’m 12 years old but fairly mature for my age and started some bad habits around 11 years old, but I recently found your videos and I just want to thank you so much even though I still do some of the bad habits I now realise the things I’m doing and your videos are just so relatable to me and my school and I just really hope you see this and want to say a big thanks to you keep doing what your doing bro ❤

You are doing a great job. This is the first time I have watched your video. You have already inspired me a lot. I pray I will be like you one day🙏🏼

1 Like = 1 push up

I truly relate to you so much, bro. But because of this video, I actually found out that I was too arrogant and thinking that I was at the top of the world. But you helped me out since the beginning. I love you so so much for changing and influencing great for my life.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you for this video I am 14 years old from Germany and my life changed since I started watching your videos, I stopped watching porn, I started with gym and run 3 times a week. You really changed my life. Can you please make a video about how to talk to your crush, I love your content. ❤

I’m not shy at all, but I have minimal self respect and worth to the point where I have become quite introverted. I’m in groups that go out all the time and I just don’t want to. I’m kind of an introverted extrovert, especially at school. It also didn’t help that my dad worked there so I was consistently left out from fear of snitching and built up a reputation full of rumours. I for some reason always go red when speaking and so I always thought people thought I was weird. I’m bigger than most others not by that much but by enough to the point where it’s laughable for them. So I sort of just sit at home all the time. Have you ever heard anything about how the class clown is a lot of the time kinda depressed under their mask of confidence. That sometimes feels like me. I don’t consider myself depressed but I do consider myself sad and kinda lonely. I have a lot of friends but I overthink things to the point where I don’t trust any of them. It’s hard. That’s the only way to describe it. I feel like a lonely exteovert. I’m popularish; I mean everyone knows me. But do they really know me. Of course not. I’m trying to fix it but little things that set my brain into a motion of mistrust hold me back. Someone once said that him and a couple people went to the park recently. I went home and cried imagining that they hated me even though I’m in their friend group and have been for a while. I don’t know what to do. Il try and hope to succeed but will I; I don’t know.

bro u actually the goat. Everyone in self improvement (or almost most of them) talk so superficially about this things in their videos, and just tell you the most obvious sht and then tells you that they are doing Gods job, but this is actually what a good person trying to make the others better persons is. The end of the video had me literally smiling at my phone screen

Bro mad respect to you for your work and mindset. Continue bro, your a real one 👌

Perfect love casts out all fear and that’s found in Jesus.✝️

this was so helpful 🤍great job doing these, thank you!!

I don't have anxiety but I just enjoyed this video so much❤ (I go to a only boy school, it is so fucking fun) any boys here that go to a boys only school?

It's really nice to see this dude grow and find himself internally

I’ll do a push up for each like

thanks just thanks. for the impact you've made on my and many others lives.

Ive never been shy around girls...had no problem talking to them. Dont be shy guys.

Wish I had a friend like you, I relate to everything you talked about here and what you said really helps and inspires me so keep it up dude!

Bro would actually be the best big brother ever

1 like = 1 day in a row I go the gym

I thought I was the only one who picked at my thumbs as well, so relatable.

I have a crazy amount of social anxiety when around others and these videos are helping me to stop caring so much. I still have to tell myself nobody is going to remember anything embarrassing a week from now and get a bit worried so I still have more to work on but it’s gotten so much better from watching these videos

As someone who has struggled with anxiety for a while now, I really appreciate you making this video. Thank you

Thanks Brother you changed my mind, your words are so motivating, I was suffering from more suicidal thoughts But one day i clicked one of your videos by accident And that video saved my life ! (By the way, I love your videos bro !! ) And again Thanks Brother !!!

Bro I think I have had enough of this world. No one really cares for me, not even my parents. I have no one bro, absolutely no one. I wish I had a better life. Will ending it help me bro? I can't decide.

I rarely comment on youtube but gotta be honest the way this video hits the nail on my head makes me speechless, especially when you explain the activity you did on the beginning of pandemic that one is a bullseye.

Jak i feel like Im watching an older version of me coming out from the problems im facing , thank u for this, everyone can give advice but to give advice with the experience of going through it as well where people feeling the same way can relate, its idk how to explain it but i feel like u are a mentor to me that ive been looking for

Ur amazing dude, this is the type of content i wanna do on yt too, im glad to see that there are other likeminded people

Thx man I appreciate ur content jak thx and appreciations from Perth, I’ve now been working out for a month!!!!

People in Australia are lucky. In America the standard second language you have to learn is Spanish which unlike Indonesian isn’t designed to be a simple language to allow for communication become the numerous languages in Indonesia.

You’re not alone. You’re amazing the way you are. Don’t let things define who you are.

I would like to say as a 13 year old who has been without social skills due to being online schooled, this make me really happy to see even very popular people can relate to me. I used to be depressed from always being just so scared thinking i'm alone in this, and your videos, especially this one has helped me a lot. Thank you, Jesus loves you. ❤

You’re becoming my favorite RU-vidr. You have the best advice for people like me. That advice is shit I could never think of. I’m going to school right now, and I’m going to fucking do exactly what you say. I’m going to challenge myself today. You are an amazing person, you will get what you want. You are helping so many people out. I’m grateful you exist. Thank you so much.

I like these videos simply because they come out of your heart. Being a man puts so much pressure on me and makes it hard to talk about my insecurities, I constantly feel like I need someone to talk with but I don’t want to look weak or vulnerable. You basically talk with me about my insecurities and opening my eyes to ideas and some pieces of wisdom that I can’t see by my self. It’s like I have a really good friend 😂 Thanks bro, God bless you!

I always struggle with anxiety, every single day… I hate it so much, even when Im riding to school in the morning my palms get sweaty because im so scared of getting embarrassed and of people laughing at me😔. Im usually really good around my friends but recently I had a chemistry presentation and my voice was shaking and quivering and here I am, a junior in highschool still struggling with this so much. I hope this gets better, great vid🙏‼️

man i love your videos not only because of your message but i love hearing you talk love you bro

12:00 true. I’ve always hated how some of my friends are quick to label things as cringe or embarrassing when it’s a reflection that they never push themselves out of their comfort zone

Wow for your age to be able to be so self aware , its rare for someone your age these days to have such maturity

God bless you brother, we all can relate with you as we all have faced bullying and that common issue of being laughed at. Thanks for making these videos ❤

As a high schooler, This is the most relatable and motivational video I have ever seen. This video is my turning point

Bro I cannot stress how much I needed this video, this video made me reflect on my class, here's the thing, I try too hard to fit in the class, that I think of myself so lowly. The thing I'm scared of doing in my class is trying to join in a conversation. Because if I do try that, I feel myself getting hit with weird stares, like I'm some weirdo. And my mind will always try and make me do anything to fit in, since I feel so left out. I just wish I can talk to someone every day, or at least get an everyday conversation with a variety of people. I just wish I can be as good as they are with socializing, and coping with not being talked to. I swear man, when you said that "if they think it's cringe, it's a reflection of what they think will make them cringe if they do that" was good for me, because you basically told me in other words, "You're doing something they can't, because they know they'll get hated for doing it, other than you". Thank you my man, and please upload more to keep helping me in life.

So everytime when i'm overthinking myself that why am i so bad at doing social things and hide behind something that i don't even what it is, i just open youtube and watch this video. Cause i know if I take your advices in my head forever, I will get better, because you were just like me and you've experienced everything that I've experienced. Thanks for everything man. You made me change my life

12:00. Wow. This perspective is mind blowing.

The fact that most people relate to this video, shows that most people have a similar mindset