WATCH WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE GIVING UP! - Best of Jordan Peterson Greatest Advice 

Mate I’ve become an alcoholic since losing my job 4 years ago, due to some stupid shit, but we gotta fight back. We only got one life

Zxyw 0987 Congratulations!😊

Congrats on the success. As someone early in recovery, hearing successes like that give me hope and keep motivation up

Omg i am soo happy for you please can you share your story

JESUS!!! Well done. Can you tell me how long it took you to go from nothing to college. Because im 43 and alcoholic, Ice addict and struggle with basic mathematics and just want to go to university. How do i do that if i am unemployable too.

@gherrrie Thanks, i do crucify myself when i don't keep up with everyone else.

I am sorry you had that happen and glad you found a teacher.😁

@@MorroQuitYourJob why sorry?

You father wasn't your choice, the father you are or will be is your choice. Choose well and over time be healed.

Choice doesn't just happen but rather it's a deliberative action resulting in...what? Aim well, my friend.

@@Gnnesh Because it's sad not to have a father.

Do you need someone to speak to? I have time for you

God bless bro, sending prayers 🙏❤️

Allways I just keep fighting.

Was just feeling this same way, gotta get up and keep it moving though, you gotta think, you owe it to yourself just to do the right thing, when we think something is bringing us down is when we gotta get up and do something about it, always be on the move the tired will turn into strength.

Your not the only one.

Unfortunately because he speaks the truth and people don’t like being confronted :)

For today's media the golden rule is this... If they say it's good for you it bad and if they say it's bad it's actually good.

He cares. That's why

Because he is a threat to their power and control. Because he shows people how to think for THEMSELVES

The media is out to control and deceive us, because the rich owners want slaves and subjects. They want to rule over us.

Stew F He has many enemies. That is very sad.

That’s how you know he’s good.. he’s asks and answers the hard questions and most people prefer denial and therefore they can deny responsibility and stay biter

I know its really sad :(

I've not heard anything about banning him or his material. That's not going to happen and that's what people do when they have no rebuttal. These same people who want to ban him are the ones who blame everyone for everything wrong in their life and can't stand to hear TRUTH. Those people are emotionally immature and need to GROW the hell UP!!

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Amen brother, I had people in my life to give my life advice, but we never ever talked about feelings. We were struggling enough that the last damn thing anyone wanted to hear about was feelings lol. Never too late though, is it!

Il give you some advice always look for more always better yourself. The more you have the more you can share. It’s worked for me. Life is hard but if it was easy it wouldn’t be worth doing.

Fuck yeah

Me too. My mom and dad were so self-involved that they never care to give us any kind of guidance. If we stepped out of line, my mom just slapped us around and told us to get back in line. She never explained to us that our Behavior might be detrimental to our own well-being. That would have taken time away from her being so self-involved. That's why I listen to these videos, for guidance!

Growing up in poverty, just surviving was the motive. We are the generational change 🤟🏾

I’ve hit a new low, one I thought I was clear of. I changed my life ten years ago, every day was better than the prior. Then an old behavior manifested and turned its ugly head, then the next day became worse than the prior. In the process I bring others down into my misery, effecting those I love most. Struggling with unforgiveness towards myself. It’s a vicious circle. Trying to return to my former state. These intrusive thoughts won’t leave me at bay. One stressor re-fired my old neuropathways shutting down the current improved ones. I’ve become the old me, the person I dislike. I have good days but the bad outweighs the good. I’ve been gripped by fear and anxiety, living in my Limbic brain is hell. I feel no safety or security, in the abyss and chaos of my own mind. Found a therapist that actually thought I no longer needed her, and told me to contact when I felt I needed. Strange how I can be perceived as fine to an outsider.

My prayers go out to you and your family.

That is heartbreaking to hear. It will take time and lots of courage to accept such a terrible thing. You will never heal from that but you might find a way to contain that sadness in a a virtual small box in your heart and just take it out sometimes.

I am truly gutted for you.. I am profoundly sorry for your loss.. :( I hope you'll find another purpose..

Losing someone is never easy and I too have lost someone close to me, but think about this, would our loved ones want us not living life for them! You need to live life for your son! Remember in ways that would make him smile! This is not easy. I have epilepsy, and I have to make myself enjoy everyday! You must also, bless you and give you strength

I'm so sorry for your loss.

YES! Very well said!!

I'm sure you are a good person but so were so many supporters of Hitler. Please, don't be a groupie. Think for yourself. This is not a bad man at all; but he's not Jesus and he's not the Dalai Llama. Get over it.

Hi Sharad :)

evelyn baron Apparently, SHARAD BUGWANDEEN's life and lot improved after she paid attention to Professor Peterson's lectures. What's wrong with that? Sharad is apparently not an ingrate and has publicly expressed her appreciation for life saving ideas she heard through Peterson. Does that make her akin to a Hitler supporter? What are you so resentful of? Why are you so mad at Jordan Peterson and to those who express their thanks? Remember, this isn't about Jordan B. Peterson. It's about the message that we are responsible for our lives, that we must live it with purpose and truth, and that doing so gives us meaning and integrity which leads to goodness, and to the improvement of our lot in life mentally, spiritually, and, yes, materially in this corporal world. This is really about a life saving way of thinking and dealing with life and others, and not so much about Jordan P. Seeing the many lives that have been improved because of paradigms, ideas and thoughts he's shared speaks volumes. One may or may not believe in Peterson but believe in those ideas, for in the end, it's about you, it's about me, it's about us and everybody making ourselves better from the inside out, and improving our relationships with those around us as best we can, and in the end making this world a little better to live in. That's what those ideas are about. I thank Sharad and others like her who strive to better themselves continually. It redounds to the good of all. //

@@evelynbaron2004 ...Donald Trump isn't Jesus or the Dalai Lama either but his followers are blind to his faults. So don't tell anyone to "get over it."

I feel exactly like you do. Thank you for sharing.

@@donovanwilliams5424 Thank you bro. I found talking to people and having people to keep you accountable helps

I feel that hope you get better🙏

@@matyousimsaiah825 Thank you sir

We are here for a reason, or reasons, and good ones at that. Every one of us. God bless you, fellow traveler. One day at a time. Daily bread.

I'm scared because this days life just seems to filled with hurdles and to top it all this pain is self inflicted I need help 🙏

Horse shit! I'm alone. All alone

Whoever you are, I hope you're still here and fighting. ❤

I understand my self I'm a USMC vet and it's so hard to keep going sometimes.

Remember to ride the wave out it will get better. We are strong and valuable to the world. Each of us brings a unique perspective

🙏🤍🙏

The realization of how you were tricked into being used, abused and tossed away?

me too

me to

Look for his talk about how to make peace with the past. It's golden

I wish my 33 year old partner knew this six weeks ago. RIP princess ❤️

Me 3. Damn!......

Thank you

Thank you very much

This is a helpful index.

Thanks

Not all heroes wear capes

That's how I think of some of my friends who, sadly, have passed away. They were a light for me but I feel as though I'm nothing to anyone, especially at my age. I'm not enough.

Beautiful

Beautifully said! We all matter!

Thank you ❤

But what if you're not

You are not alone.. I wish I could say it gets better but I can't even tell myself that.

I have a job, and am going to school. No relationship. I feel burnt out, can't really seem to find any reason to be motivated in the least. I used to be a 16 year meth weed and cigarette addict but have been sober from all for almost a year, I can't afford a therapist.... really kinda lost as to what move to make next

@@shawnamarshall3268​​⁠​⁠​​⁠you’re already doing it, keep pushing forward, find a hobby or passion to fill that void your feeling.. recently went through a pretty rough breakup, she was my only friend in all honesty. I found myself lost for weeks, couldn’t find motivation in anything, lost interests in everything I enjoyed. You just gotta keep looking for something that’s gonna make you wanna stay/keep fighting. Set goals to achieve, write them down, even if it’s just in your notes on your phone. Congratulations on overcoming addiction, it’s not an easy thing to do! I’ll leave a quote for you, “it’s okay to get lost every once in a while, sometimes getting lost is how we find ourselves.” keep searching brother you’ll find it.

@@shawnamarshall3268you can’t afford a therapist? You can press in to RU-vid podcasts. Work on you. Read about whatever you’re feeling. Workout. Eat better. Work on your sleep. Set small goals. Reach them and set more goals. Be intentional with your daily habits. Take some vitamins. Meditate. Do yoga. You can walk out of the other side of this stronger. Find utility in the suffering and walk into it.

Free & effective Boost vitamin.D3 levels with sunshine exposure. Walk or do rumning or biking or any outside activity Just get yourself outdoors into nature & relax try noticing the details like the breeze the shapes the colors the aromas the feel- go barefoot in grass or sand at a park or go walk on a hiking trail. Eat a great majority of organic vegetable greens & whole fruits & hydrate well between 2 meals per day (finish eating by 4pm) Don't snack (unless fresh juicing) If you have problems going to sleep at nigjt add 3 mg (never more than 5mg - can do by drops) of Melatonin 30min brfore bedtime until your body cycle resets. Think on & note onto paper 1-3+ things you are thankful about each mornng. Do 3D hands-on art or for example preparing vegetables for eating, washing dishes, folding clothes, painting a picture, forming clay, etc. Listen only to classical music every day. Help another person or animal in some small way. Cuddle a pet at a shelter for example. Read the book of Psalms KJV. Make yourself smile or lsugh - it changes the brain. Get off the blue screens unless for homework. Sleep in a dark room with fresh air by 8pm or 9pm nightly, window open for fresh air. Work or volunteer work in a garden & get your hands into the soil digging & planting & just playing in the mud. You are valued, loved & uniquely designed even though your feelings may be running away on a tangent from you regarding that. Know it. Feed your frontal lobes between your temples making right decisions & actions over feeding the brain's animalistic lusts for ways of self. Look up & read "Depression the Way Out" by Dr. Neal Nedley. Read the other reccommended books to help change your thinking like "S.O.S. for.." & bk "Telling yourself the Truth" try reading or listening to "The Desire of Ages" about the life of Christ..best one ever written beside the biblical books John wrote.etc.. Know you have a purpose, a hope & a mission. Take each day one at a time. Write for 5 or 10 minutes anything without letting the ink pen off the paper..an experience perhaps, then move on forward & upward & kbow you are wonderfully made, a miracle in itself! Repeat doing this list daily. Add reading 1 Corinthians chapter 13 aloud. Sing a positive happy simple song no matter your ability. Choose to take this time for yourself to rebuild & reroute your thoughts. You can overcome..

@SkillzSquar3D: Same here

Same

I guess we dont get to hear the ones it couldn't save. Im not sure I can be saved.

@@someonesomeone25 hey keep your head up don’t let anyone or anything keep you from being saved. Stay strong and you are deserving of the best things life has to offer and your life is valued.

@@skillzsquar3dgaming thank you. But at what point is it more rational to admit defeat than to keep enduring pain in pursuit of the futile? And I ask honestly: how long should someone in a bad place try everything to make it better before realising they have lost?

Timing has a lot to do with it.

@@HellcatMad tru

Oh dear, totally agree with you, I'm 65 and l just lern lots of life good changing habits from this AMAZING MAN.‼️ SOMEHOW WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING TO HELP HIM, HE MUST CONTINUE HERE IN RU-vid AND WRITEING HIS BOOKS.🌹

Keep listening is the key. Keep putting little things into action.

It’s been over a year (feels like much longer) and I can still say applying the principles in this video along with A LOT of work and patience has made my life a lot better overall. I honestly forgot I even commented on this video. Lot of ups and downs but it’s all about the work put in and also focusing on the good things in the moment. Still grateful for this man

I would write everything on paper good and bad except I don't actually know what to say right now...

shit, you are right...

Alex Lomac yeah, phew 🥺 he’s spent decades doing this for his family, his students, his clients, and us.

Nailed it

... wow... I watched this the 4th time. And came across this comment. Thx for the comment 😔

Mr MockingMing °°°°. . You’re welcome, I’ve started talking his advice to speak my mind. It’s reaffirming to know you appreciated it. -/-/-/- Watching him gave me a new perspective. The world became this interaction between generations.

If you knew how many people you’re hurting and these are people who love you, maybe you might find your courage in your heart to clean up for them?

Go to a meeting bro

I'm curious how you're doing now. Have you found a solution? Ignore the other commenters as they clearly lack intelligence, empathy, understanding, and experience with this issue. If logic, shame, and guilt were solutions, no one would be an addict lol. It's easy to give judgment and useless advice, but doing something that actually makes a difference is a different story that requires empathy and patience. It takes courage to post a private, shameful matter publicly. Most keep their struggles private to keep their reputation in tact. I've learned you can't have a clean public image and overcome struggle. There's honor is speaking your truth. You have my respect and compassion, dude.

​@triciacooper9317 did you think before writing that or is your arrogance that blinding? Im unsure of the intentions of your comment, so ill restrain myself but people really need to pull their heads out of their asses. Shame and pain are what keeps people trapped in addiction. If this person is desperate enough to post their problem for the world to see, don't you think if they had "loved ones" in their life they would've gone to them first?

I’ve fought addiction for over a decade. What Peterson recommends works….. find what you are most resisting that you would attempt to do and attempt to do that. As you begin to feel progress towards a worthy goal you begin to start experiencing the good emotions that will help fuel you towards sobriety. Hang in there brother… don’t be afraid to ask for help.

I know I might be much younger than you and might not know enough about life . But if you want anyone to talk to or vent out to , I'll be more than glad to help you . Just remember , you are not alone and you are really strong .

You gotta be cidding ME. A young ATTRACTIVE WOMAN. Try being BLACK and unattractive😮

I feel the exact same.

I really hope you find your peace Casey I really do! have hope! You'll get there you will.

Casey, I definitely can relate to your feelings! I think a lot of people feel like you do in this VERY dark, difficult world we live in. Money, lonliness, exhaustion, and living WITH all of that IS a killer. It is SO tough. I have to remind myself to DO more things that bring me happiness, like nature. I find myself attracted to nature, and the beautiful calm peaceful feelings that nature, and bodies of water, and the sun brings to me. Animals too. Babies, anything and anyone that has purity IS the best. SO I love being around children. I hope you can find more of what you love and do THAT more! Prayer IS a lifesaver for me. God is there and HE will answer you, in some way, I promise. He will show you He's there and you wont be able to explain it, but you will see HIm and HIs hands in your life if you SEEK HIM. All my love, my dear. Thank you for sharing. It is helpful to hear I'm not alone in the depravity of my situation! hugs Annette

That's awesome! I'm 41 and had been stagnant in life for a couple of years and then finally hit rock-bottom a few months ago. Thanks to content like this, I have a newfound motivation to rebuild myself into the successful man I was meant to be. Keep up the progress, bud. 💪

Agreed, im 44 almost and feel like i robbed myself and so many others of a far superior me. But better late than never. Now is good, and since the past nor the future can exist in the present. This is the moment to become the best we can be right now.

@@JackBQuick79 Agreed. If we don't act now and change our lives for the better, the regret we'll feel in 10-15 years will be unbearable. 💪 Keep kicking butt, bud.

@@JackBQuick79 I am with you 100%. I am still having those days when I struggle with my demons but I am getting my mind and body back from my dark side. I am learning so much about addiction and I am also learning about people like you who have never met me and know nothing about me, however you are willing to send strength, kindness and respect for the situation I am in. To Jack B, and Luis R, I am so grateful to you both. You both didn't have to do anything to help me but you selflessly shared with me and I felt like I wasn't alone anymore. That means the world to me! THANK YOU BOTH SO MUCH!!

@@LuisRamirez-ln3cjI am with you 100%. I am still having those days when I struggle with my demons but I am getting my mind and body back from my dark side. I am learning so much about addiction and I am also learning about people like you who have never met me and know nothing about me, however you are willing to send strength, kindness and respect for the situation I am in. To Jack B, and Luis R, I am so grateful to you both. You both didn't have to do anything to help me but you selflessly shared with me and I felt like I wasn't alone anymore. That means the world to me! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

I agree , he is lifting me to find the solutions to actually change

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The people who are trying to demonize him are the representative bottoms of every hierarchy and they just want to silence Peterson for pointing out such truth that they can’t handle.

I actually pity them, because i know most of them don't possess the intellectual capability to process exactly what he's saying. They'll never evolve from their rainbow hair, gauged-ear, basement life. It must be devastatingly sad to live such a menial existence, hating on one's behalf. 😔 But to each their own. The road to hell is Paved with "good intentions." They'll learn that shit soon enough if life doesn't just boot them right in the ass the day the stars align and the universe is tired of their crap.

I agree. It’s written in my dating profile. 😂

I hope things have gotten better for u

I am sincerely sorry about your girlfriend 💗 Many people are suffering because of this plandemic. Praying for you 🙏

Sorry to hear that Ian. RIP your gf. How are you doing now? I am also in kind of a similar situation..don't have a gf but i did lose my phd due to the pandemic..5 years of phd work gone down the drain. But i have decided to do another phd now. Feel better now. You will too one day. Be and spend some time with people who care about you

Thinking of you, Ian. Saying a prayer for you this morning 🙏

❤️ I’m sorry for your loss of your girlfriend, I hear you’ve really gone through much suffering. I wish you all the very best ❤️

Don’t be so hard on yourself chief! Your not alone. God bless

Don’t be so hard on yourself chief! Your not alone. God bless

It could have been me that wrote this. I know what you mean by no one being there to help you. I thought that too. After years of watching me die inside and people trying to help me, tell me to leave him, blah, blah, blah, they couldn't take seeing it happen any more and that's why they turned their back. Also, I didn't ask them for help. If I had they would have but I was to hurt inside to ask. It could be those people are there for you and you just don't see it. Get back to being the person you used to be or be the person you can be. Do it for you. Push yourself. Make yourself. Talk to yourself, out loud. Tell yourself you are better than the hell you are putting yourself through. You need to believe you are a shining light and you need to shine it bright. This world is a better place with you in it. Believe that. It's true!

You are a valuable person that people are taking for granted! Please find someone to listen and help (even if you have to hire them). It’s an exhausting path alone. I’m glad to hear this video was helpful though but seriously there is no shame in getting a helping hand in a professional if people arent coming through for you. Love & prayers from TN...

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Beautiful. Thank you =)

Does that "everything" include my life? Cause I would be more grateful if it was the case

That's awesome....thank you.

Sharp S Thankyou

I have two parts of my personality that are rotten to the core, rage, and ungratefulness, This exercise is especially hard for me, I’m always looking for more, my head is always toward future, because I’m terrified of present, the worst thing that can happen is that I have a stroke as I write this, and that’s it... I die like a damn nobody, that feeling of lost, losing something you never had, something you might have had, blinds you, and you don’t want to look what’s around you as of right now, and it aches, it aches a lot, So... one thing I can say, Be grateful that you’re not ungrateful like me, it messes your life up man, especially with family

I love this man!! He is the family member I wish I would ve been able to have picked to be family!!!

Why he is just shouting off his mouth as far as I can see, a man with autism and key words and getting attention cause he is human and enjoys that.

That is because order means compartments, and when you compartmentalize your life you only worry about one thing at a time

Sort of I guess. I personally find myself helping others to a point to where their problems become mine. I cant get away from that for some reason. I help and help and help, and now my life isn’t worth shitt anymore. I love helping others and seeing how that help affects their lives. It’s almost like a transference of their problems. It’s weird. Now my life is so overwhelming and hard to even function anymore. I’m not complaining of helping people at all. Idk, I’m rambling. I personally have had bad luck, no luck, no optimism, more depressed, and nothing seems to change except to get more depressed. I do love helping and I will continue to do so I guess. Even tho my personal life sucks and really not worth living tbth. Idk, I seem stuck

@@dblr8959 The whole miracle has already taken place. Meaning is relative.

@@dblr8959 Why not try to apply the act of helping others to yourself first? You're worth just as much effort as other people are. Maybe you'll realise you can get meaning from helping yourself just as you've been helping others.

@@samelbamel3500 N .rn .

"Someone will remember that" "The cycle of hatred is perpetuated" "Dark side/Renegade points gained" And many other references apply to this

so deep, yet so true

Reminds me of the game Catherine

@Shitstorm Seems you relish in it.

There should be a club for people who have been betrayed, we could protect each other, its easier to protect others than yourself because we need the distance to oersieve do in this for others - hey let's all save the world, its time ....

Make them proud, mate

Be a big brother or big sister to a child that is in need. There are many and I guarantee you will have a purpose.

What if, then, your purpose now is to honor their memory and honor your SELF by being the best possible version of you? I know it's exhausting but I promise hou are worth the effort. ❤

I hope you are doing ok. I lost my brother & my Dad to suicide and it still crushed my will to go on. For some reason I'm still alive and perhaps it's to tell you PLEASE don't give up. If you have people that love you it makes all the difference in the world.

Mine are dead too but they sucked

Hey just wanted to say I had a few 50+ yr old people graduate with me for my bachelors and masters of nursing classes. We’re going to be “x” age no matter what, might as well do something with your time that works towards a goal. You can 😊

I pray you are what we all are Good Enough We have similar story. It’s not easy to crawl out of ourselves. You not alone!

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I feel the same way. I was abused my whole childhood. I do t know how to be ok. I don’t know how to trust myself or love myself.

Shari D. Lamas thank you, I'm 54, I lost my daddi last year, his nickname was rocky, so your comment resonated with me very much, I needed to hear your comment. Alcohol is wiping me out. Life is wiping me out. I feel God has put Jordan in my life right now to stop me wiping myself out. Thank you.❤

You're not alone. You can do anything and I only know this because I am also a fallible human. Just take it a day at a time. One inch, one action. You'll get there Samantha.

You said you aren't sacred of dying, that's great❣️ Are you more sacred of never trying or sacred of trying and failing? Even if the result is failure, you put effort, time in one instance & nothing in the other?

I’m sorry you lost your sister. I ask the universe to comfort you

Samantha. I'm the same. I lost my mom to cancer late 2020 and have never been the same person. It is extremely hard when you give up everything for someone and they still leave you. It's undescribable. It hurts. But that doesn't mean we should hurt ourselves. We didn't fail. God has a different plan than We do. It's that simple. Pick yourself up and don't blame yourself. You did all you could. They would want us to be happy and do the best we can

@The Whitest Male what boggles me is how does a close minded person like yourself even end up watching a video like this.

@The Whitest Male based

I have no why

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@@someonesomeone25 look for one. Find one. It's not just important, it's essential. Don't look for the perfect why, find a why you care about, go after it, you'll find more about yourself and correct your path and goal along the way. But start moving.

I suffered from severe depression due to family bereavement for 5yrs which had the same similar effect on me as you described above. Which was well described. I used to describe as being stuck inside a pitch dark room with no light, windows or doors inside my head. I struggled to string thoughts together or hold down a conversation when before i was very confident and knowledgeable. I struggled to remember everything. Always felt anxious and nervous. When the depression broke i went through another 5yrs of literally relearning everything and rebuilding myself identity and character. God Bless you.

I had the same, i felt like if i was living in a dream. I felt disconnected of my body and the world and had alot of obsessive compulsive thinking, panic attacks and Anxiety, always the worry of going “crazy/mental” But i got Out of it and i live now as if nothing happend. How? I went out of my way and got my self up by working out, setting goals and achieve them No matter how i felt and tought. The panic attacks stopped when i didnt care anymore if i had one or not, i said to myself “even if i die or go crazy so be it”. Our body can manipulate us big time, our toughts can deceive us alot as Soon as you realise it you are not doomed and you can easily get out just like you got in this situation you will heal brother. I hope i gave you a bit of hope because i know as no other what you are going trough. There is not only hope but there is also a way out, the way out is you. Take care you will overcome this

@@a-gappelmint9755 I’ve been going through the same thing lately and your comment almost brought me to tears. Knowing that there are people like me out there and people have overcome the obstacles I’m facing is a game changer. I felt alone for so long like I was drowning and feeling like there was nobody who would understand me absolutely crushed me. So thank you for sharing this I really needed it

@@gagecook7506 it gives me goosebumps that i could help even just a little with sharing my experience. Hang In there brother you will overcome it. If i just could help anywhere just let me know man i mean it

@@a-gappelmint9755 thanks so much man my mindset even over these past 2 days have improved drastically

For me it's when I'm doing something that makes me feel alive. Like riding my motorcycle.

great insight! stay strong

You know what he would say to you Bucko! Don't let him down.

I can relate big time, the things I worried about before seem so trivial now. Stay strong you can get through this!!!

Gratitude is a good place to get to in order not to be obsessed by your conditions. Your bills are looming, other people's bills are already overdue and swamping them. Be grateful. Self-pity is so destructive.

DR Dan Thank you for the perspective and I am deeply sorry for your father and your current health. I hope what you wrote reaches others as well. As for father/son relationships, mine has deteriorated but its always been bad way before any of this. I hope others can reinitiate and use these times to become closer with their family while you still can.

Congratulations on your sobriety! 🎉

Really appreciate your transparency and the sense of hope that comes from your having actually applied his wisdom.. I'm on that same journey and maybe we should make a Facebook page for people who are actually growing up with all those same diagnosis as adults finally growing up and out of it

Wish I could get that mind set .

Iv adhd bipolar2. Autoamune panic attacks mist of it brought on buy my ex malignasnt narcissist husband still in therapy years on . I got to get my mine sorted wasted so many years of my life abuse that does no leave affects mind body soal stay strong never ever people please is good advice It's a killer .

Looks like your prayers were answered a year later :)

Overstated*

Exactly the same thing was said by both men and women about Oprah Winfrey and before that the guy who wrote the book how to win friends and influence people. I get really nervous around groupies -- think for yourself.

Truer words have never been spoken!

I found him the exact same way...by accident..on a very important day and time..

You have a purpose.. whoever you are I love you. Find it in you to love yourself.

@@greggshopes4090don’t know ya brotha. But bright days always come & the darkness never last. Love you my man. ❤️

The universe wants you here. These hard times serve as a reminder that you need to be strong to handle the greatest things life will give you. Life isnt over till you say it is, in whatever time you have left, its your duty to make the absolute most of it 💙🌊🙏

@@greggshopes4090 not by accident, my friend. Not, by, accident. 💙🙏

Reach down deep inside yourself and find your Fire. Everyone has it, it’s determination, get up and DO something NOW. Then think of the next thing and DO it. Your brain will release dopamine because you achieved something, and it’s addictive over time. Procrastination is a killer.

Same. And I struggle with the past as well. Sometimes it gets so bad. This weight. This sadness. This loneliness. I’m just glad I found this video too. Wanted to say I agree and I’m also grateful this video is accessible to us all for free.

There is no one as wise as a man who listens to a wise person.

Hope really something positive ignites to all of us

Old sick misogynist Nazi bastard Peterson kissing the Orbanus for 50 million HUF: "my message to Hungarians: Do not rebel against your great Führer! What your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of the Hungarian race"

You guys are great, so good to not be alone!

Hagen Gilbert keep going buddy

Hope you the best of luck, from one struggling lobster to another

Completely agree

Think about your self. Your brilliant too sir. Your smart too.

@@rogerfournier3284 bro I eat beans on toast every damn morning

Its never too late!

No sense in lamenting. You know the message now; you have heard the lessons. At what ever age you are currently, it's as valuable as ever. You can help to give to others the very thing that you wish you had. Imagine the improvement we can help achieve by simply passing this onto the younger generations. Perhaps we were failed in some ways as a generation but we can do better. We can give better.

I am without electricity and hitting that point of life has taught me even if you lose a job, lose access to utilities, and struggle to pay your bills, taking action to make your situation better one step at a time, and meaningful time, may change your course in life. Turn that struggle into fuel for a better goal to make a change in your life. It's your story, make it something worth your time.

i wish i had your mindset brother

👍

wouldn't go as far as to call scared people rats but thank you

Don't try to be someone, you're wasting the person you are.

The only person you should ever compare yourself to is who you were yesterday. Never try to be someone else, because you aren't and couldn't be, So never compare yourself to someone else. Everyone is a unique individual.

@@JohnFisher-tg2sg I'm 63 now, but I still remember a poster my 8th grade teacher had up in our English class.. it said, "Be something No One else in the world can be ~ Yourself"! It always struck me as so profound, even then.☺️

indian stereotype Good luck ... believe JBP ... you have it in you to find meaning and happiness. YOU MATTER! Take the first baby steps...

sucks to be you

JBP is an amazing man, a valuable tool indeed. But all you need is Jesus, listen to him talk about him, the Lord will change your life - if it wasn't for him, I would probably be dead. Not preaching at you, just telling you what happened with me.

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Congratulations you have heard never to inner voice and decided to listen and follow others, time to wake up. I had similar situation with 25 . One good thing for you friend. As a male your sex value can go till 45 while for female it ends with 30 so you got plenty of time to fix everything up than to live like a zombie like your suroundings. It could be worse.

Bring your family to God . Jesus into your Life. You will Heal . ❤️🙏

I have been there too, it took me 2-3 years to slowly get me up & going. Try to get a part time even if all the money goes to pay childcare. It will help you think with more clarity. Look for every form of help you can get. One baby step at a time. One day your babies will call you the hero they look up to

I apologies for it going down for so long. Glad you like it.

I've listened to this probly a hundred times, just about every day. Changed my life. Thank you. (I was looking for it too, lol)

Keep going bro. We're gonna make it. 👍

What you are going thru is unique to you. It could be no one has ever gone thru exactly what you have gone through. Hurts hurt. It hoe you deal with the what's thrown at you that's going to determine your thriving or failing at life. That's totally my problem. I didn't deal with my pain. Years later I'm trying to put me back together. I wish I had these videos to help me. It would have saved me years of pain that could have been happiness. It's my fault for letting it get that bad but it happens to lots of people. Stay strong!

@@leannmeddings4068 The hurt and healing got easier and progressed faster as time moved on. I feel great now. It's been 4 years since it all began. The first year was a living hell of pain. The second year was still painful, but I managed to keep myself busy and take care of myself. The third year I came out of my shell and I began to laugh and smile again. The fourth year, I thoroughly enjoyed myself and my freedom. I had a renewed energy for work, and I had rebuilt my accounts. I had fully began following my daytrading training, and am quite successful at trading the market. It is now my 5th year. With a lot of extra hours at work, trading the market, and finding new interest in love, I am pushing toward a great future. I am mentally, financially, and physically in great shape. I have dreams and goals. Take care of yourself

And there it is, "it sucks I wasted 29 years of my life, but probably wouldn't have taken it seriously when I was younger" this is the key to things understand what can you do with it now than to dwell over in and why it now is the best time to do it regardless of "what ifs", congrats man, best of luck, and success for that matter

mysteryman2024 being a business owner is not as glamorous as you think. Sure you have stable finances but the stress is very hard to handle and not taking that stress home to your loved ones is easier said than done.