Watching the kids by myself for the first time in 49 days 

Derik, when your foot is purple you're having trouble with your circulation. If you don't have good circulation, you won't heal as fast. You need to stay off your feet. Stop doing as much as you're trying to do. Don't take care of the kids by yourself until you are alot better.This is your healing time. Dont screw it up by being on your feet too much. A caring fan.

You did a great job, Derik! You have a confident presence when you simply sit and talk to the camera…💪

You did it Derrick! Three days without Sarah, on crutches, and you’re staring physical therapy! Congratulations! Praying for a lasting recovery

This is ridiculous. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, would leave their spouse who is recovering from knee surgery and can’t get around very well with a baby and a preschooler. As a mother I would be afraid something could happen to the kids and their father couldn’t get to them fast enough. I can’t believe Derick went along with this. I think he does whatever Sarah says and doesn’t stand up to her. She is constantly on vacation. Why bother getting married and having kids if you don’t want to take care of anyone other than yourself? She acts like she is the only one to ever have given birth or raise children. They are really not that much of a chore to be around. It’s actually kind of fun spending time with them at home, just doing normal things.

When Jack carried sunny to bed … cutest thing ever.

Stop feeling guilty Derik. Your knee injuries were an accident. It's not like you intentionally intended to hurt yourself. I hope your physical therapy will help you regain the strength and mobility you need in your knee. Through all of this remember marriage is for better or for worse and if one spouse has to give 100% more than the other spouse is able to do at the time then that is what you do without complaining and trying to make the injured spouse feel guilty. Sending you well wishes for a full and complete heeling with your knee Derik. 🙏❤🙏

Part of being an adult is PRIORITIES.

Great job Daddy! I'm just going to say one thing. I have had the same operations as you and when the Dr. Tells you to stay off your leg, he means it! You should not be doing stairs while you are trying to heal your knee... And the possibilities of you falling are much greater and what would the kids do if you hit your head and passed out? I understand that Sarah needs her me time but maybe she could make plans after you heal. You needed to be off your leg while it heals, period.Thank God for your mom coming to help you, and you did a great job DERIK I just hope your knee heal the way it wasn't supposed to.. Blessings to you and your family 🙏❤️🙏

Derik your Mom is beautiful. Delighted that you had some help from your parents. You did a great job with the kiddies. Not easy trying to recover and doing everything. Look after yourself❤

Derrik you did an amazing job taking care of the cuties! Awesome that your Mom came over to help. You needed someone to stay with you for four days. I believe that you aren't resting enough and staying off of your foot to heal. It's probably why it is taking so long. It would be nice to hire a nanny for the children. You are an amazing Dad!

The only thing that worried me was Sunny sleeping downstairs, all by herself, while Sarah was away. (Or even when she’s there, really). What happens if there’s an emergency? Fire, break-in, bad weather, etc. There would have been NO WAY you could get to both kids in time and carry them both to safety. Maybe, next time have Sunny sleep with you or set up a temporary crib/playpen in your room. And, possibly, think about putting her in a room upstairs, all the time. It’s hard enough for two functioning people to act quickly, think rationally, and safely in an emergency situation. 🫶🏼

Jack and Sunny are the CUTEST. This video took me 20 minutes to watch because I kept going back to watch them. Jack is growing up to be such a kind human. Love you guys so much!!

Hawaii now with Jack and leaving Derik alone with Sonny for 10 days. What a gal!

I have to say the best part was watching Jack carry Sunny to her room that was the best that is something to savor. I loved it!!!

You're an awesome dad and very SELFLESS HOPE they appreciate you

Totally agree. When the doctor says stay off your knee and don't stress them! That is exactly what they mean. I cringe when I see video of you walking down stairs with child in hand. That is putting immense stress and pressure on your knee joints. You are not doing yourself any favors by trying to take on extra parenting duties...especially while your lovely wife takes off for 4 days and leaves a man recov🎉🎉ering from a second knee surgery in charge of two small children😂😂 I have had six knee surgeries and an ankle reconstruction. So, I do well understand the predictament you're in. I even awoke from one knee surgery to find out I was now non weight bearing for over three months. I had no prior knowledge because the surgeon discovered something mid surgery and took an extra step. I lived alone, and it was difficult, but I made it through the process. Knees really need time to heal...following doctor's orders to the tee. Also every time you have surgery you have more arthritis and scar tissue that builds up. Sometimes, you have to just firmly say NO to other people's requests who seemingly dont understand the healing process. Your future progress is at stake. Be well in Jesus healing name! 😊

Sweet vid - Big shout out to Derik's parents - great job Derik. Jack is such a smart littel sweetheart - Sunny - loving life, beyond full of energy - get her signed up for tennis lessons as soon as she is old enough. Little ray of sunshine ☀

This is actually sad and didn't expect this from Sarah he leaves his husband with crutches and 2 kids. Atleast she can take sunny with herself. As a doctor i can say that with this knee surgery if doesn't got enough rest and if he put much pressure on his knees then he can't recover in future too. He need rest and a nice little walk. She is being selfish she can attend this in next season but as it look derik is more into her she isn't

It will always be 50/50 no matter what is going on. As a Mom I think it is awesome that you supported Sarah by taking care of your kiddos. You keep healing and being the awesome Dad that you are.

Hey Derrick maybe you guys can sleep downstairs just for 4 days. Give your self a break. Tell Jack your gonna camp downstairs. Take it easy on yourself dear. Hang in there 💪

Who wants to bet Mom in law has some opinions? 😏

Jack was such big help to you. You must realize that you are doing too much when your foot is turning purple. Even jack was concerned about you going down the stairs.

YES……Derik…YOU have to take this VERY seriously ,YOU will be in a world of hurt when you are just a little older …YOU CANNOT EVER re injure your knees….THIS is NOT a JOKE!!!!!!!!!

Jack is one of the most amazing kids ever! I’ve six of my own so I’ve a lot of kids experience! He is smart and so incredibly funny! Not to mention super cute ❤

I LOVED this video!!! All your work on this video was worth it!!! I haven’t super been into your videos lately but this one was you connecting with the audience a lot more! Loved it!

I don't understand how she goes on trips every time you have surgery. I remember her leaving the kids with you last time. I wouldn't say anything but you didn't rest long enough last time and needed another surgery. I just don't want you to mess it up so bad it will never be the same .

Basement?? She’s a little baby.

My husband is in a brace, I am not leaving him to watch the kids. If I had to leave for an emergency I would arrange help. I can not fathom running from my responsibilities and complaining about life all because of a surgery recovery. Brace yourself dude. Old age hits you are on your own. Start raising compassionate and empathetic children so they will help, because I don't think wifey will be too helpful. I am just amazed at her behavior. I dont remember the last time I had a break. I think it was in the hospital having a baby!😂

Great job dad, thanks mom and dad. Love you guys.❤❤❤❤

Sarah shouldn’t have left you. You are still healing.there is plenty of time to go on vacations.

My sister looked after her husband for over two years with 3 young kids without a break 👀

It’s always all about Sarah boo-hoo poor Sarah has to work with her kids and take care of them she has more help than anyone on the planet she still will take her trips and live her life she is a very selfish woman…

Wow, I hate the negativity. Sarah and Derik seem to have a great life full of love 💕 and laughter. Jack and Sunny are beautiful children. They definitely have a home full of love.

They can share a room for a couple of years I can't even stand seeing her downstairs 😢😢😢 I'm so happy you're going to move her upstairs yay❤ I'm still praying for you Derek you do a great job❤ y'all are wonderful parents I enjoy your videos❤❤

Oh the Derik Diaries are such a cool format! Great job on the editing

Why she has to go on trip when husband is not able to walk without braces

YOU are the ones making your videos so controversial!!!! PLEASE reconsider what you put out for us to see. UNLESS THIS IS THE GOAL???

It was not safe to leave him alone with 2 toddlers. How would he pick up both kids and get them outside if there was a fire, especially with Sunny downstairs? 😢

This is painful to watch .. I have had near surgery as well..that purple is your body telling you your pushing it too hard und need to get it up . You are risking permanent damage ...lymphs vascular nerve.. I love you guys but this is just not on .. Sarah is a loving women ..however Derek's leg is in need of serious healing. My goodness bringing up 4 kids myself while hubby worked away its a task but hey organisation is key .. To be honest tennis is not a priority .

They don’t seem to care lol. Sarah gone again. To a ball game. While Derek is still in a brace. Hire someone to come in to help. My daughter had 3 boys her husband served 20 yrs in Air Force They were stationed in Alaska the twins were 1 brother 5 the 1st time to Iraq. She was the reason and moms like her are the reason their husbands can go off for months. Yet you guys run and go . Sarah you should not have left Derek without someone to stay and help him with the kis. No sacrafices

This video was really good! Loved this vlog style 🙌🫶

Sunny’s “yah” is the greatest part of every video

I dont think she should be going away!! How can she. I feel another surgery coming on. I hold the fort down for the entirw up bringing of my beautiful children while my hubby was working to support us!! Imagine single parents? Oh this is to much. Id be 2 worries about my kiddos n hubby to leave them like this!! Sorry, i guess i sound mean.

Playing on the floor will build your bond greater than anything. This time seems the hardest, but it’s actually the easiest. Time will pass by quicker than you can ever imagine. The kids will be planning their proms and you’ll look at each other and say, Where has time gone 😢😊 many mixed feelings and emotions. Derik your Mom looks young.

It’s in sickness and in health. It’s rough but it’s a commitment before the Lord. Stop apologizing. Sara needs to stop playing martyr. Who knows what might happen to her for an extended period of time. You will be the one holding everyone and everything together. You never know what will happen. Be grateful you have each other. You’re a team. You’re role models for your family and children. Take the time you need to heal properly. Her wellbeing depends on it.

Once you put yourself on RU-vid, you’re open to any and all comments. That’s why there’s a comment section folks…

WOW SARAh!!! I have just never known anyone like you!!!

The whole attitude needs to be as long as it takes. I’m here to support you 💓 f the fake timeline

Jack is absolutely adorable!!! Sunny is so precious as well. I will say I do happen to agree with some of the comments. I wouldn’t leave my two toddlers with a husband on crutches. I’m sure it’s been hard on Sarah for 8 weeks but this is immature and selfish on her part.

Wow! How selfish is Sarah. Acting like a martyr. I'm kinda disgusted by her . Derek you deserve so much better. Damn she left you😢 with 2 toddlers for a ball game

Great video!! You did it! 4 days with kids on a bum knee! And Sarah got a well deserved break! Congrats to all! Cheers to more sunshine and happy days! P.s. you do such a great job telling your story! Fun!! PS you have the best parents, there to help and have fun!

Yay I love his mom came to help him !!!❤

So glad to see you taking care of yourself by doing something you love Sarah 🩵 your husband and babies are just fine. You have to be a solid you in order to take care of other people because when you’re not it doesn’t last long. you’re not a bad mom/wife for doing something independently that makes you happy

You did great Derrick ! I would have brought everything upstairs for the kids to play with whatever toys they need for the few days while Sarah was gone and have the kids sleep where you dont have togo up and down the stairs its only for a few days just in case anything happens, otherwise you did great and Sarah seems to be a wonderful woman ❤ God Bless You All!!

As some people have said, we only see a tiny bit of their life. They are the ones that show Sarah’s resentment, blame, and negativity. We see Derik being a father but we do not see Sarah being a mother. They are the only ones that can show us the REAL Sarah. Please show us the positive. Our remarks only come from what we see and hear.

You would do the same for her......not a good time for your wife to leave!!! 8!weeks is not that long for her to do everything when u look at the big picture. She has a big nice house and lots of friends Family. It's not as bad as u think for her. Take care of ur knee now or pay later

Derick I know you are doing the best you can, but you need to be off your foot if you want it to heal. Otherwise you will need those crutches a lot longer and it won't heal.

Jack is hilarious!! What cute kiddos!

This project of looking after 2 very young kids is crazy risky!

Derrick seems really down. Hang in there. This too shall pass. ❤

Derik ! Friendly advice coming from a girl that had to be on crutches for 3 months because of knee injury and surgery(but not those but more like the “European ones ?” If that makes sense ahahah, I don’t understand how your shoulders are ok with those crutches ahahha) but that’s not my point ^^ I want to advice you to wear a support stockings ? Sorry if my English is bad but that’s what Google trad said to me ahhaah. It’s a big sock that is gonna compress your leg and make you have a good circulation. Because without putting weight on your leg, you are not putting enough pressure on veins to make your blood come up again, and your leg is getting blue ^^ It’s also gonna help with recovery! The doctors made me wear this all the time until I could put weight on my leg again (so yeah it was loooong) Also : when I was strictly forbidden to put weight on my leg, I was getting down the stairs on my butt and my leg straight up (I was happy because I could “train” my muscles a bit with that technique ahahhaha). I would place my crutches under one arm and then proceed to go on the good leg, two arms and the butt 😂 Keep going, you got this ! I had 2 knee surgeries and know that is hard!

Derik that is one purple foot! You don’t *have to* carry Sunny, while on a crutch and trying to make breakfast. Sunny can keep herself busy, with Jack. I know it’s just easier, but not so much when you have to heal.

Good job to both tou and sarah for handling your recovery so well, it is not easy. And it is so heart warming to see jack so grown up and smart 😍 Sunny starting to talk a little and walking ✨ Love your family

You are a great dad! I never would have left my kids with dad for four days at that age! He was clueless!😂 They had to be school age before I felt comfortable leaving for a few hours! I'm sooooo impressed!

I still just can't with Sunny's hair. 😂😂😂😂 shes so cuuuute hahaha

Come on she went to watch a freakin tennis show 😢 .this was very bad, selfish and irresponsible of sarah.

There's no pills for stupidity

You do a great job being parents. You are always doing family things. ❤❤

You guys built this house and from the very beginning Sunny’s room has been designated downstairs. A room not being suitable for her to sleep in wasn’t in the building design that you all approved!!! Look at how wonderful jacks room is…. Sunny’s room looks like a closet room for all the unwanted shit. The fact you had her walking/hobbling up a large flight of stairs in that sleep sack shows me what’s going on in that noggin of yours!!!!

Sunny lookin like SweetPea from Popeye!! I feel ya dude! I am 7 wks out of full knee replacement. Getting the other done next week. PT is SOOOO important! I hope your body starts cooperating!

Derik please please don’t over do, give yourself the time to heal. Sarah, don’t listen when Derik says “I can do it” You’re going to need to ride herd on him along with the kids

Wow Derik you got this buddy. Are you kidding me you’re truly amazing managing your leg and 2 small kids

Your Mom looks so young! Glad they helped you out. 😊 You did really well. It really looks like Reynaud’s Syndrome in your leg. I’ve had it in one arm after a nerve injury. Wonderful Easter egg hunt!! So much fun for the children. 🐣 🐰 Sara’s Mom looks young, too! God Bless you All, Stay well!! 💙💙

I love Sunny's little yah, and Jack is so good with her.

Grandma is so young! Pretty!

Derek and Sarah, you are great, awesome parents. Keep it up. Don't let negative comments get to you. ❤

I love that Sunny almost always replys with a happy yah when many that age like the word no more lol 😂

Does she have to go back out of state to get her roots done??

GREAT JOB DERIK🎉YOU ARE A AWESOME DAD!! I LOVE WATCHING YOUR FAMILY❤

I am upset right now and just have to text this. I love Derik and Sarah, but right now is not a good time for Sarah to be traveling and leaving the kids (2 toddlers) alone with Derik. My God, Derik, you need to take care of your knee. You are not 100% completely healed. Your foot/leg is purple. Do you want to get an infection/bad circulation? Do you want to lose your leg? Why has Sarah left you alone with your two toddler children. She should have taken them with her and let you have 4 days to completely heal/rest. Was it urgent or a necessity for Sarah to leave you alone with the kids? Derik, you are only 28 years old! Thank God your Mom went over to help. I am very concerned for you Derik. A wife or husband should care for the other one that is ill. No matter how many weeks it takes. Once you are completely healed Sarah can take all the vacation time she wants.

What fun! Derick I’d say you rocked it!

Oh, I am sorry you still had your brace when this was recorded! But you did a beautiful job taking care of your precious Jack and Sunny alone! It's very good that Sarah was able to get away for a few days! You are wonderful parents! Always remember that! Love to you all!💞💞💞💞

The way Sunny says "Yaaa 😄" each time u ask ber something is so stinkin cute

Derek you are one fantastic dad may God bless you and heal your knee for you absolutely love this family

Great video! You have an amazing support system and your healing is coming along. Sometimes being forced to slow down is actually a blessing. Enjoy those babies❤ you won't believe how quick it goes.

Such a fun dad

Anyone on crutches doesn't need to be caring for two small children. This makes me concerned for the children. Just sayin. Although I know this is a loving family 💯 Thanks Derick's mom. I also have a problem with Sunny sleeping a basment with no windows. Omg

Derik and Sarah! I don’t know what it is, but this video has SUCH good editing! GOOD JOB GUYS LOVE U ❤

Great job, Derik! So glad you have your family close by to help when you need a hand. Being on crutches is no joke!! Glad Sarah could go with her family too!

Dont miss Hawaii too much, im really looking forward to Jacks snowboarding. Sunny is such a cutie pie.

What great parents you two are. You rock!!!!

Derik got 2 extra weeks on the braces only because Sarah keeps guilt tripping him and he troes to help a lot. And then ends up putting pressure on his kneww. Your knee will not heal like this, you need complete rest.

“What the heck I don’t want your cheese” ……. “Well I’m all done with it” is so kid coded

Hire a short term nanny. You can afford it.

They actually advise against sleeping on separate floors from young kids. If there's a fire you can't get to her.

Derik - love the voiceovers in today’s video!!!!

There's a knee crutch that you can strap on your leg that enables you to walk with your arms free, if it's applicable to your condition.

Sunny would be so cute with some bangs 😊 you're doing great as a team ❤

Tennis vs sick hubby.. I don't understand. I'm from Africa.

How can anyone slepp knowing their baby is sleeping in the basement alone?