I would choose my children over any man any day...I told my ex-husband, please don't ask me to choose because you would loose every time. I never regretted that decision. Best decision I ever made in my life.
You're a good woman, a good mother. Pray you'll continue to support your children and succeed in whatever you do. To your greedy 1st and 2nd husband, may they never find happiness, love or wealth! To all the women, please choose your children over any man! To every men, it is your responsibility to raise your children, so pay your child support!
Kuv txhawb Koj 100% os tus me viv ncaus, koj ua thiab hais yog kawg, cov txiv selfishness li koj 2 tus no tso mus zoo dua. Thiab txhob tu2 siab heev rau tus ib nta vim tus muab roj ntsha twb tsi hlub nws cov ces tus tsi yog nws cov roj ntsha ces tsi tha hais li. Cov txiv li tus 2 ntawm nws tsis hlub koj tab sis ntshaw koj txoj kev hlub tau nws xwb. Cov no muaj coob, tab sis koj cov me nyuam koj yuav ntshiav tsi tau li. Es txhawb koj lub zog nawb. God bless you and your family.
Pab tu niam tsev noj zoo siab nws xaiv nws cov menyuam os. Kuv los Kuv xaiv Kuv tu mi ntxhais and nrauj Kuv tu txiv thib ob vim tu txiv yeej tsis hlub ib yam. You made the right choice! Good luck rau Koj.
Lawv e... sim neej no ces txiv neej lub siab mas thiaj nqaim os, tus siab yuav loj taus ces tsuas yog cov me tub uas tau ua nstuag ciaj li koj cov es ntshe thiaj txawj xav xwb os
tus niam tsev koj txoj kev xaiv koj cov me nyuam yog lawm nawb,peb yog txiv neej peb tsis phem npaum li koj ob tug txiv hais ncaj rau koj paub,peb tus poj niam yog deev hluas nraug mas peb kawg nrauj ,hos lwm yam peb mam sib kho kom hloov kom nyob taus ua ke ua lub neej,hos me tub me nyuam peb hlub tshaj plaws,nyiaj thiab kub pauv tsis tau,koj ob tug txiv siab nqaim dhau nrauj mus txhob nkuv xim nawb mog
Tsis tau txiv los yeej tsis tuag os me vivncaus aw hlub koj cov me nyuam ib hnub lawv yeej yuav hlub koj pauj xwb os kuv tus niam txawm twb ua li koj ko niam no nws cov tub nyab coob2 lawv s d hlub nws nws twb tsis tuag txiv neej os koj ua yog lawm txiv neej ces lawv yeej hais tías kom xaiv tus txijnkawm vim lawv qho quav nyhav2 lawv yuav tau tso kua tawm lawv thiaj nyob taus es lawv thiaj pheej kom muaj pojniam es thiaj nyob taus xwb os dhuav2 cov niag txiv limhiam no li os
WOW!!! THIS IS THE MAN KUV NTXUB TSHAJ PLAWS THIAB UA RAU KUV MUAJ NTSHAV KUB NPAU THIAB NWS LIM HIAM HEEV RAU LUAG LWM TUS LAWM CES YUAV TAU TXAIS TXOJ KEV TXOMNYEM THIAB KEV POOB TSIM MUS LI OS.
Good thinking! 👍👍 I agreed with you, but I wish you didn’t waste your time loving and helping the that 2nd loser!! He will get his karma soon, don’t waste your breath on him anymore. Best wishes to you and your kids. 🙏🙏
Tus niam tsev yam koj ua no yog lawm.yeej tsis yuam kev kiag yog yus tej me nyuam tsim txiaj lawm yuav tau tuav rawv yus tej me nyuam kom tuaj thiaj tau chaw tuag mog yog me nyuam 22 thiab ua laib tag lawm Pov tseg los tau. Hos yog niam txiv ho Liam es nyob tsis ntxiv yus ces Pov tseg txhob yuav khaum kev xwb.
You did the right thing and went with your kids. he is your 2nd husband and if he want you leave you he will. Look at your first husband he is their father and want nothing to do with them.
Hauv ntiaj teb no poj niam Hmoob siab zoo tshaj plaws ho txiv neej Hmoob siab phem tshaj plaws os. Lam yuav txiv Hmoob vim yus yog Hmoob xwb os. Txiv neej Hmoob mas kwv los me li me soab phem los phem xwb os
Koj ua yog lawm tus niam tsev. Tsis hais koj tus txiv tshiab ntawv ko xwb. Pawg txiv neej twg ua siab phem siab me li ko ces muab ntsaw thoob khib nyiab kom ta nrho yuav los tsis tsav, tsis zoo dab tsi Xiam sib hawm, Xiam caij nyoog xwb.
Oh my god Koj tus txiv thiab koj tus txiv yawg nruaj phem tiag li os ... Txhob tu siab os koj twb ua tau kawg rau koj rov me nyuam lawm os... Tsis muaj tus txiv yus yeej tsis tuag yog yus tsis muaj yus tij me nyuam es yus twb tsis xav ua neej nyob li lawm os
Great job to the mother. That’s a mother’s true love right there. No second thought. I praise string women like her. Men use women a lot for their selfishness. Bring them up and they all the sudden don’t like the kids no more, that is just plain stupid for that person. You lost a great women there!
Hi tu me niam tsev koj los xaiv koj cov me nyuam ces yog ib qho zoo heev lawm os vim neb twb yug tau lawv lawm ne yog koj g hlub koj cov me nyuam ces koj g txhob xav qho yuav mu yuav txiv niam koj cov me nyuam tseem ceeb tsaj koj niag txiv
Tus viv ncaus koj txiav txim yog lawm mog...ib tus txij nkawm siab phem li koj tus txiv thib ob no tsua yog nyob siv koj xwb mog nws yeej tsi hlub koj tiag
As a mother myself I can totally understand and SUPPORT your decision. Smart lady. I'm very proud of you ❤️ 💯 wishing you the best of luck in life and happiness you deserve
Yus xaiv qhov zoo tshaj uas ua rau yus kaj siab xwb os niam tais aw. Tsis muaj txiv los koj yeej muaj koj ib lub neej las mas. Single los yeej yog neej single. Married los yeej yog neej married. Es ua cas pheej yuav hais qhov nrhiav neej es ho tsis rau rau siab ua yus lub neej ntawm yus tes es tsuav yog npe txiv neej xwb ces khaws tag nrho li ma? Rau siab koj lub neej single es thaum koj lub siab tsis ntsoog tsis kub nyhiab tsis mob lawm Vajtswv mam xa tus txiv yog los rau koj pob. Yog yuav yuav txiv tshiab/poj niam tshiab, txhob vam qhov tus tshiab ntawd yuav hlub yus cob tub ki. Nws cov nws twb tsis hlub es nws tsis hlub yus cov li os. Yus los yeej hlub tsis taus nws cov thiab. Yus cov tub ki txiv or niam twb tsis hlub lawv, twb tso taus lawv tseg na. Es yus yuav vam ib niag stranger hlub lawv. Tsis vam li os.
Cov niag txiv neej Hmoob mas niag kwv me li me xwb los khav theeb tshaj. Poj niam Hmoob siab zoo zoo siab tsis phem es tsis mus sim lwm haiv neeg xwb yog sim tau lawm haiv neeg ces txiv neej Hmoob niag kwv ces tsis muab dab tsi zoo qhov twg li os cov niag txiv neej Hmoob ruam, hlwb ua kua aw
koj tus txiv tshiab no mas thaum nws tshaib plab ces nws ua neeg zoo thaum nws plab tsaus ces nws ua neeg phem thaum nws tau noj rog ces nws tsis nco qab thaum nws txom nyem ais nws los thawj koj lawm tus neeg zoo li no txawm nyob los tsis txog li
Koj tus dablaug phim lub npe dab tiag tiag tos nws lub npe pib lo lus dab.....There's no competition between a step father and the children. The step guy has to go.
Sorry to hear about your hardship os sister, but a man(your ex-husband/new husband) who don’t pay child support for his children shouldn’t be a person you’re afraid to lose. These type of man won’t love anyone but themselves.
Lady you should’ve left your 2nd husband a long time ago. You shouldn’t give up on love. Pick someone who has a lot to lose; not someone who has nothing to lose but everything to gain from you.
I know your brothers and relatives worry about your funeral cost sister. If I were you I would choose my kids. Your husband only need you for temporary service. Also you should just bring all your kids go to church.
Tus niam tais awsss kj mam ntse tshaj li os kj tus txiv tshiaj ko siab phem xwb yeej yog li ko hais os yus paub yus cov twwbmeem zoo tshaj yus ua zoo xwb yus xav tias txiav txim siab yog ces yog xwb mloog lwm tus ntau tsam mag ntxias xwb
Thank you for choosing your kids over that loser of a husband & brothers! You did the right thing. Your kids are your heart, your life!! All these selfish dumb@$$ men don't understand the concept of FAMILY!! As for your brothers & relatives, F@#% them! If the tables were turned they would be saying the same thing you are as well! Stay strong. Love yourself & your kids!!
I’m glad she made the right decision and ditched the bastard! No men ain’t worth choosing over your kids!!!! Your kids will love you unconditionally. Every men’s are replaceable. Your kids aren’t replaceable!!!
Tus me niam tsev hauv zaj neej neeg no- kj ua yog lawm os. You can always replace the man in your life but you can never replace the love of your blood line so remember your children can never cut you off but that man can always destroy you when he is out of love for you. Infact he is a stranger to you while your children are your strength!
Sister, you always choose your children over any man. Your first husband is a selfish bastard. Your second husband is using you for his benefit. He does not love you. You can’t train an old dog new tricks. Just have a companion to go on vacation, eat out, talk with no strings attached. I’m so happy for you. You are a strong woman. God bless your and your children.
Thov qhuas koj kawg li os tus me Niam tsev aw👏👏👏👏. Koj ua yog lawm Kuv tus kheej los kuv yeej xaiv menyuam ib yam li koj thiab os mog! Tus txiv dev thawj thiab kob huam ko siab phem npaum li ntawv nws dag koj xwb nws twb tsis xav hlub koj thiab koj cov menyuam ces cia ntxov muab nws tso li ko ntxov dim txoj kev nyuaj siab os mog!
This is my personal opinion from experience. I am a divorced person myself and will say NO one in this lifetime can tell me not love my children and support them. 1. When will Hmong women use their independent to empower themselves and their children. It is time to stop waiting for Hmong men hand and foot. 2. Your family members does not love you and could careless about you. 3. This is a teaching moment for you to show your children that your relationship with your husband is not the kind of love and relationship that you would want your children to see it as love for examples. 4. Make sure to stand your ground when your children become successful do not let your 1st husband claim any success involving their life.
Xaiv yus cov menyuam zoo dua vim yog yus yug niag txiv ntawm nws yog neeg sab nraum Tsi muaj txiv los yeej nyob tau yog tsi xaiv menyuam tshe yuav tu siab tag ib sim neej
