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We’re Judged For Having 18 Kids | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY 

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HAVING 18 children is a lot to deal with. Christopher and Desiree can’t remember a time when they’ve had a house to themselves. They spend between $10K and $15K on birthday and Christmas presents for the children each year. On a weekly basis, they spend between $250 to $500 every time they buy groceries. They usually buy four to five gallons of milk at a time. “It doesn’t take much for us to fill up the fridge", Desiree says. They’ve received plenty of judgement for having so many children. People complain about them bringing more people into the world but Desiree says: “We’re raising people who are going to put into society and put into the world and be more of an asset than a liability." As is often the case with siblings their children often get on each other's nerves but there’s never a dull moment. Today they're giving us a house tour and an insight into their lives.
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@shelly78able
@shelly78able Год назад
If you can afford to bring up your kids, not just financially but emotionally, all power to you.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you!!
@hellobot67
@hellobot67 11 месяцев назад
They put multiple kids into one room. A teen shares a bed. That isn't right
@britneyduranko420
@britneyduranko420 10 месяцев назад
You can't judge others if they want that many kids that is their business. Stop judge them don't like the way they raise their kids don't watch
@8luvbug
@8luvbug 10 месяцев назад
With that many kids you can't. I don't care what anyone says
@amyrivers4093
@amyrivers4093 10 месяцев назад
​@hellobot67 it might not be right for your family but that doesn't mean it's not right for another family. There are so many different lifestyles but you obviously can't see past your own.
@Annine_Pretorius
@Annine_Pretorius Год назад
These parents seem like the perfect parents for this. They seem happy and in control and it looks like they're raising lovely non-judgemental children
@Skatejock21
@Skatejock21 9 месяцев назад
you cant raise non-judgemental children. Its biologically impossible. Doesn't matter how many kids you have. We are biologically built to make judgements. People associate judgement with bad judgements but there are plenty of good judgements too. The brain judges within 1/10 of a second of seeing something. That's faster then it becomes a thought. Any parent can raise loving children, if the example is set.
@jolinsundgren
@jolinsundgren 3 месяца назад
They are also on their best behaviour during filming and they ceratinly do not have time for everyone it nearly impossible.
@lesleyrosasunstoppable2381
@lesleyrosasunstoppable2381 Год назад
Hi!! Great video! My husband and I have 17 kids. My 12 and his 5. We are now in the stage of only the youngest 2 home. The blessings never end! We have 19 grandchildren so far! It is incredible! Keep training your kids to work together! It pays off. My grown kids have amazing jobs and are super affective in society! I'm here cheering you on!
@yrthebest_.
@yrthebest_. Год назад
woah that sounds like hard work! hope you and your family are doing well:)
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Oh my gosh!!! Amazing 🎉🎉🎉
@Switzerland_rules379
@Switzerland_rules379 10 месяцев назад
My great grandfather had 10 children, 57 grandchildren, and 41 great grandchildren, and I haven’t met all of them yet!
@alishashay17
@alishashay17 6 месяцев назад
@@Switzerland_rules379whoa that’s a lot.
@latonyanewsome0
@latonyanewsome0 5 месяцев назад
Good for you and don't let anyone tell you that you're wrong. They're wrong.
@reese4171
@reese4171 Год назад
Holy crap! I wonder what they do for a living??? That's a ton of financial responsibility on top of what seems like a full time job just raising them! 😲
@carrieanncancino5118
@carrieanncancino5118 Год назад
1 is a roofing business and they probably have other business's too. Definitely not on welfare. So Good for them. They have a large beautiful family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@LipstickOCD
@LipstickOCD Год назад
@@carrieanncancino5118 How do you know they aren't on welfare or get some sort of government help. With that large of a family, they should qualify for something
@jenniferromero571
@jenniferromero571 Год назад
Perhaps they retired and work from home.
@daniellem555
@daniellem555 Год назад
@@LipstickOCD it’s not hard to find them online since he’s wearing a company shirt. Looks like they both have jobs outside the house
@makailamontgomery4362
@makailamontgomery4362 Год назад
I sell lemonade on the corner and we randomly come up with rent money growing off the lemon trees🌝
@suzannah1057
@suzannah1057 7 месяцев назад
I LOVE how the daughter has absolutely no idea how old her siblings are 😅😂😅😂
@abbeyburgdorf4454
@abbeyburgdorf4454 Год назад
I’m all for having a big family. But the teenager sharing a bed with the 2 and 1 year old is a little concerning.
@lildooky1277
@lildooky1277 Год назад
How
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
This is exactly why the parents keep having children. The care of them is interspersed among the older kids.
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
@@lildooky1277 Because the teenager did not give birth to the 2 and 1 year old children. They are not the teenager's responsibility and should be cared for by their parents, not their siblings!
@mrscrocodile
@mrscrocodile Год назад
Especially since the boys get their own beds...
@ayuanabradford3206
@ayuanabradford3206 Год назад
@@sjrpfr parents are selfish and only care about what they can get out of there kids lol
@scott8919
@scott8919 Год назад
As an interovert and an only child, this sounds like hell.
@wildfiregirl1556
@wildfiregirl1556 Год назад
Lmao.
@dollsNcats
@dollsNcats Год назад
Only child with an only child . I rather eat rocks 🤣🤣 I rather break my leg for 10 years . Like I CANT
@mariadelpilarperezflorez9850
Ad an extrovert with 1 sibling, that still sounds like hell!
@kanatapaw
@kanatapaw Год назад
having 5 sister's is enough. just think how much money there gonna need for all those 18 kids.
@ryokohonda4619
@ryokohonda4619 Год назад
If you love you're siblings it's great. You have many supports
@hannah8377
@hannah8377 Год назад
I don't see anything wrong is having a big family . Once the parents can provide for them that's all that matters.😊
@RainWalking
@RainWalking Год назад
Makes you wonder how they earn their money to support them all.
@lifewitkassie
@lifewitkassie Год назад
Frr I could not
@palladone8963
@palladone8963 Год назад
Check Husband’s shirt. Roofing business. Could be his own.
@tieiatalks
@tieiatalks Год назад
Hard work.
@nyorkiacupid4988
@nyorkiacupid4988 Год назад
It doesn't.
@jenniferromero571
@jenniferromero571 Год назад
They could save and only buy by necessity. Buy clothing and things from thrift stores and buy smart.
@Dontyellatm3
@Dontyellatm3 Год назад
Making the teen girl sleep with 5 other siblings is beyond me
@GenaF
@GenaF Год назад
She's happy though
@luisacholas8153
@luisacholas8153 Год назад
She's happy but she should get her own space, it doesn't need to be big, literally just put a beanbag chair in a closet with some cool lights and don't let the little ones bother her.
@b1k2q34
@b1k2q34 Год назад
@@GenaF she has no choice
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@luisacholas8153 for the most part, she’s the one who just hangs in her room in her own space… the little girls are always out playing in the other living rooms until bedtime ;)
@hellobot67
@hellobot67 Год назад
@@GenaF she's on camera. She's not gonna say she's unhappy.
@nomuudesign
@nomuudesign Год назад
Teenagers sleeping with the little kids, that’s a “no”.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
That’s why they’re with big sis! Next year they’ll split up in the room when the boys graduate and move out!! Someday soon we’ll build our dream house!!!
@MsNoPixel
@MsNoPixel Год назад
I think you missed the point, they were specifically saying big sis with the toddlers is pretty unfair to her.
@abbysibiya2023
@abbysibiya2023 Год назад
I still don't get y it's unfair🤷is it for privacy??🤭the younger ones sleep fast then she can have her privacy😉😂
@FullHouseFan1313
@FullHouseFan1313 Год назад
I sleep with my younger sisters and I enjoy it
@alisonbiscope2795
@alisonbiscope2795 Год назад
I slept in the same room with my little sister since I was about 14-15 n she was about 4-5 now im 21 I still live at home n I still share a room with my sister lol
@lalamakeuprehab
@lalamakeuprehab Год назад
Only criticism I have is that the older kids need their own space !
@TribeOfTen
@TribeOfTen 2 месяца назад
Hey, if the older kids can't get their own room make it work with what you have. My own family judges me because I have 10 kids and I went homeless for the first time. I'm going to start uploading very soon.
@wamacapanj6755
@wamacapanj6755 Месяц назад
Why do the older kids need their own space? The concepts of moody teenagers and personal space didn’t even exist until the middle of the last century. Alone time, yes, but an entire space, no. It’s not reality for most adults either.
@noorbohamad5796
@noorbohamad5796 Месяц назад
⁠@@wamacapanj6755didn’t stop me from getting my very own room/bedroom aka personal space not just alone time
@smiljapregel8315
@smiljapregel8315 Месяц назад
All around the world kids share rooms. American kids shouldn't be "special " - because they are NOT.
@kellykellie85
@kellykellie85 Год назад
I just hope these kiddos get one on one time with the parents.
@tianna4411
@tianna4411 Год назад
We already know they don't, it's impossible with this many kids.
@lifewitkassie
@lifewitkassie Год назад
@@tianna4411 tbh lol I would be mad
@bryannab7566
@bryannab7566 Год назад
They definitely don't.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@tianna4411 how do teachers do it in their classrooms? Believe me there’s plenty of time they get! Do we miss moments? Oh you bet! But we do take the time and we do pour into them!!!
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@lifewitkassie it’s definitely not for everyone 😂😂😂
@deadaccount6385
@deadaccount6385 Год назад
I’m mostly impressed with their financial ability. That’s more than most people can manage
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Why thank you!! It definitely takes hard work and commitment and dedication!!!
@Burger-dq9nf
@Burger-dq9nf Год назад
I'm fine with what theyre doing tbh, as long as they can afford it, but i just feel bad for the teenagers, who get little to no privacy
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
The teenagers get little to no privacy and on top of that, it's the older ones who end up doing most of the caring for the younger ones.
@jenniferromero571
@jenniferromero571 Год назад
So. Why do teens need so much privacy? They are still kids and don't need privacy. They probably get their own thinking spot. At least that is how I would do it if I had that many kids.
@jenniferromero571
@jenniferromero571 Год назад
​@@sjrpfr there is nothing wrong with older kids helping. That's how family works. How do you know they do all the parents work caring for the young ones?
@Selene666
@Selene666 Год назад
@@jenniferromero571 you really don't understand why they need privacy? ...
@Selene666
@Selene666 Год назад
@@jenniferromero571 older kids should still be kids. they shouldn't take the role of the parents... not saying this is what's happening here though. I don't know how their family works.
@grace-carolinealumbassa7142
2 beds, 5 girls and 3 beds, 3 boys … living in this family sounds like hell to me, I have a big family but at least we had our own beds and own rooms for teenagers
@Selene666
@Selene666 Год назад
I'm sincerely wondering, at which point is this considered an addiction? The husband said he wants more kids. He already has 18.
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
They also said that they are not PLANNING on having more children, but it is pretty obvious that birth control is not something that they have ever considered. They are not planning to avoid it either. They seem to consider every child another accomplishment!
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Lol… this kind of makes me laugh because I made a reel on Instagram the other day of “I’m addicted to this”… and it was our baby!!! But I’m also 34… probably not much longer… PLUS… once grandkids start coming… no way will I continue!!! Lol
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@sjrpfr I don’t push my convictions on anyone… but I have a personal one with the birth control… I feel like cancer stems from them with all those extra and added hormones… PLUS I don’t want to “control” my life… I do trust God with my womb and all over the Bible it says He closes and opens them… and if mine is open, you never know who you give birth to 🤷‍♀️ could be the one who comes out with cures for some plague or disease… could be a phenomenal president who literally changes the world!!! You never know! And I don’t want to live with that kind of regret of “not knowing”…
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
​ @Perfectly Blended Family It is obvious that you do not use birth control of any kind, just don't say with a smirk "we are not planning on more" knowing that you are not doing anything to prevent it. When you do not use birth control, you ARE planning on more children. You also say in the comment above that "once the grandkids start coming", you will stop having your own. What are you going to do then, cross your legs?
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@sjrpfr no hubby will get a vasectomy ;)
@MsNoPixel
@MsNoPixel Год назад
A teen girl sharing a bed with toddlers is frustrating
@smiljapregel8315
@smiljapregel8315 Месяц назад
Why?
@northernsoutherngirl
@northernsoutherngirl Год назад
I hollered when the eldest daughter said: "you WANT to be alone in this house." 😂🤣 I don't have children, but my concern is for the parents. Because they are giving so much attention to the kids, when do they have time to themselves & individually? How are the re-energizing themselves?🤔 And wanting to be alone to decompress/recuperate to prepare to deal with life on a daily basis is not a selfish act. Just my 2 cents. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@makailamontgomery4362
@makailamontgomery4362 Год назад
Lollll that’s why I like the bathroom I’m the girl in the vid
@emilyheyokaevans
@emilyheyokaevans Год назад
Seriously? Seems like the parents have more one on one time than they need.
@makailamontgomery4362
@makailamontgomery4362 Год назад
@@emilyheyokaevans 😂😂😂
@AfricanGirl
@AfricanGirl Год назад
when they alone they make babies upon babies.....Hahaha
@northernsoutherngirl
@northernsoutherngirl Год назад
@@makailamontgomery4362 😆😁
@naughtyskyline
@naughtyskyline Год назад
they are sending out a tribe of kindhearted loving people that will always have their siblings support in their life
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Yes they have so much support for LIFE!!!
@dtintl3411
@dtintl3411 Год назад
Congratulations! My parents had 9 children. Dad worked 3 jobs to support the family, and Mom and some of us, grew veggies and fruit trees on our property to support the family. Since we are a family of color, everyone expected us to be on Welfare. However, my father believed in supporting his own family. He taught all of us to do the same, and we do. Children are a blessing from The LORD. Most of us did not have big families. However, I welcomed 6 other children into our home, whose parents abandoned them. There are so many children around the world, who need to be adopted, and/or fostered, in loving and safe homes.
@miss_bhello7925
@miss_bhello7925 Год назад
@ayuanabradford3206
@ayuanabradford3206 Год назад
Hispanics or Africans is probably your family lol 😂
@doloresalvarez7084
@doloresalvarez7084 Год назад
God bless you 🙏❤️
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
You are beautiful yourself! God bless you for taking in littles that needed a loving and safe home that will raise them up in the way they should go! You understand the treasure that they are! The blessing that is on each one of them and taking care of them!
@zekethewise7042
@zekethewise7042 Год назад
Two things about this family 1. It’s a battle for the bathroom and 2. It must be hard to get any privacy or alone time
@user-vh7ks8px3s
@user-vh7ks8px3s Год назад
What would a house be without a bathroom
@miss_bhello7925
@miss_bhello7925 Год назад
The kids seem pretty content, though.
@user-vh7ks8px3s
@user-vh7ks8px3s Год назад
@@miss_bhello7925 EEEYYHH
@Kayraine
@Kayraine 10 месяцев назад
This is life. Where else do you see two parents taking care of and being responsible for this many children? What is their salary? For everyone saying this is silly, remember, they are taking care of their children. They are not overpopulating the world. God blessed them with this many. There are so many women who choose not to have children. It will balance. I love this family.
@fairywingsonroses
@fairywingsonroses Месяц назад
Great, I hope they are also responsible for helping all of those children find affordable housing, get an education, etc. in the future. It's irritating that my ONE child will face such fierce competition from everyone else's children for housing and other resources. People who have large families don't always think about the long-term impacts of exponential population growth that will rob ALL children (including theirs) of opportunities. So many people already can't afford things like housing. They didn't ask for more people on the planet to compete with, and the world was already overpopulated when they were born. Maybe all of the women who choose not to have children, or those who only have one like myself will balance things out eventually, but in the meantime, I personally feel like I'm drowning just to stay afloat financially on the bare minimum, and I really don't want to have to continually compete for resources with all of these people on the planet. I wish that people like this would consider that before they add one more human to the world. You're not doing those children any favors if they grow up and realize that they can't actually go anywhere because it's too expensive to do so.
@nishusingh1523
@nishusingh1523 Месяц назад
​@@fairywingsonroses most sensible and practical comments from all the comments you have said right because more population need more consumption bit our earth is not made to fullfill this much of population consumption by giving more birth child we are destroying earth 🌎 😢😢we all are goona vanish from this world quickly
@K-sd5so
@K-sd5so 14 дней назад
@@fairywingsonrosesthe future isn’t all doom and gloom. I have three and have zero issues supporting them on my income only. I can pay for college too but they still have to earn it. Kids can join the military and get a head start on life. There are so many options out there
@asthecrowflies737
@asthecrowflies737 Год назад
Never in a million billion years would I want to be in a house, day in and day out, with EIGHTEEN CHILDREN....
@blacklyfe5543
@blacklyfe5543 Год назад
Lmaooo
@caitlinsoliman1658
@caitlinsoliman1658 5 месяцев назад
So you don't have to...
@mar145gh7
@mar145gh7 5 месяцев назад
That is your choice
@AccessoriesAddict5528
@AccessoriesAddict5528 3 месяца назад
You and me both!!!
@smiljapregel8315
@smiljapregel8315 Месяц назад
​@@AccessoriesAddict5528, maybe you both get together in a perfectly accessorized house.
@vee3133
@vee3133 Год назад
so since they both came in with kids of their own, I wonder where the other moms and dads are
@makailamontgomery4362
@makailamontgomery4362 Год назад
My bio dad is in prison, same with my little brother andrews dad, and Malikis dad idk where he is and then we have my step dad
@vee3133
@vee3133 Год назад
@@makailamontgomery4362 damn that sucks but it's good you have your step dad
@skylarmiller4636
@skylarmiller4636 Год назад
How come there’s 6 girls in one room but in another room there’s 3 boys and all get their own beds? I’d be pissed if I was the teenage girl! So wrong to make her share a bed with to two toddlers
@Honeypepper.
@Honeypepper. Год назад
Sir really??! You already had 8 ON YOUR OWN!!!! You go and you find a woman with 3 of HER OWN and you mean to say 11 was enough??? You didn't even make 1 more you made 7 more!!! Not to mention in this CRAZY world we live in??! WHY!!
@genevieveaugustine3552
@genevieveaugustine3552 3 месяца назад
I agree..... the husband bred his first wife and now bred his second wife..... there's definitely some mental issues here.....
@TheeDivineDay
@TheeDivineDay Год назад
You can see how truly in love they are and the kids look so well put together Good job to mom and dad 👍🏽
@notmyrealname4978
@notmyrealname4978 Год назад
They’re bad parents for making the teens share a bed with toddlers
@Grace-wq8uo
@Grace-wq8uo Год назад
@@notmyrealname4978 don't hate on them just because their children have a stable enough relationship to share a room together.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
@@notmyrealname4978 it’s not “teens”… it’s A teen, and she has a KING size bed with the kids who are under 2… if you watched the whole thing, I stated this year we have 2 older boys moving out after graduation AND it frees up a room, which splits up the younger girls and they will each have their bunk… we already pay over $3k/mo and at the time of crazy housing market and moving to Texas we were able to win on our offer and get this house with 5 bedrooms… meant to sacrifice and we made up in a KING size bed which makes PLENTY of room!
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
God bless you indeed! We do love our life!
@reginalemmon1042
@reginalemmon1042 Год назад
​@@perfectlyblendedfamilyi think it's wonderful how y'all all have so much Love for one another, don't worry about what others have to say, they're just jealous of y'all, keep doing what y'all are doing, great job Mom n Dad, 💯 💗
@lucyziegler
@lucyziegler Год назад
It's messed up that you didnt let the kids meet their future siblings until the day yall got married
@snuff2023
@snuff2023 Год назад
The kids all seem kind and well spoken! Beautiful family
@TroyMANator2
@TroyMANator2 Год назад
It’s your choice, you’re lives. Be more YOU everyday.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Hey thank you!!! We happen to love our little craziness!!! Lol
@yourmomishot7547
@yourmomishot7547 Год назад
That had to hurt
@jelly4076
@jelly4076 Год назад
My biggest nightmare.
@jelly4076
@jelly4076 Год назад
i dont want no 18 kids
@hendiprush65
@hendiprush65 Год назад
Big respect to this family. Wish u all the best.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you so much!!! We appreciate all the love and support and prayers!!!
@rzella8022
@rzella8022 9 месяцев назад
Wonderful family and I'm so happy you have so many too. All contributing world changers, with parents setting such a loving responsible example and guidance. All the best to you!
@Yooperskepticz
@Yooperskepticz Год назад
When I saw the headline, I hoped that some of the kids were adopted, but no. They don't say if they're homeschooling quiverfull fundamentalists, but that seems to be the usual motivation for families this large. Sigh...
@phillipwalker8827
@phillipwalker8827 Год назад
Hi,how're you.?
@DanielleKelly-ui9yk
@DanielleKelly-ui9yk 11 месяцев назад
This family is truly amazing and doing the best as a family and parents are doing the best for the kids.
@vikaziza1506
@vikaziza1506 Год назад
"We are judged for having 18 kids." Go to tv so more people could judge them. I think they do this partly for the shock value. In my country you get financial support when you have three child if you are a single parent or without a job. And if you decide to have more, the support level won't get higher. You have to work to support your kids. Your kids = your responsibility.
@Magazinelady
@Magazinelady Месяц назад
It is not for the shock value. They love having a big family.
@kanatapaw
@kanatapaw Год назад
I don't need to have kids. there's enough people on the planet.
@popstarprincess123
@popstarprincess123 Год назад
If they don’t have the house alone to themselves How do they make time to have more
@vee3133
@vee3133 Год назад
I be thinking the same thing🤣🤣🤣🤣
@emilyheyokaevans
@emilyheyokaevans Год назад
Well gee that's what the older kids are for. Taking care of the rest of the kids.
@Ryhillchibulls
@Ryhillchibulls Год назад
Shower
@vee3133
@vee3133 Год назад
@@Ryhillchibulls Right!🤣🤣🤣
@elylioney6390
@elylioney6390 7 месяцев назад
Most seem to be in school
@JMarta
@JMarta Год назад
To raise children that is going to be adults that are safe and a aset to this world, is a huge gift, to all of us.
@irisscott9488
@irisscott9488 Год назад
I am the oldest of my mom's 11 kids and my dad's 6! Childhood was awful! They divorced when I was a baby cuz by the time I was 2 she was with hubby #2 (of3) and I had a baby sister! I felt like a miserable slave most of the time cuz all I ever heard was YOU'RE THE OLDEST, DO THIS! DON'T LET YOUR BROTHER SPLASH WATER ALL OVER THE FLOOR AT BATHTIME, ETC! ETC! EVEN THOUGH I WAS ONLY 2 years older than him! No matter whose house I was at, it was watch the little ones, don't let them do this or that! At 5 years old, I had babies propped up on pillows on me as my mom did chores and on and on! Washed dishes STANDING on a milk crate! I felt like a slave! It was chaotic and noisy but clean! We were poor but content, always fed but few gifts or presents! To sum up, I'D JUST RATHER BE DEAD, PERIOD! IN THESE TIMES, NO WAY! BUT GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS! OH, forgot to mention kidney punches from my grampa! So many of us that we lived in 2 houses! Oldest 4 or so lived with grandparents on same lot! Gramps would come up out of the blue, imo, and snatch me up and punch/slap the pee out of me! NEVER EVER knew what I did, to THIS day, to deserve this! The pain and shock was indescribable and I would spasm and piss like a dog or something! No one ever spoke up against this! Just go wash yourself and put dry clothes on! Yeah, fun times! Blessings! 😥😯🤤😫😮☠️😥😮☠️☠️🙏🙏
@lazylizzy3045
@lazylizzy3045 Год назад
Omg! That must have been awful. I really do hope that you have a better life now.
@irisscott9488
@irisscott9488 Год назад
@@lazylizzy3045 Yeah! Thanks! I do somewhat! Have been homeless living with relatives since Ida tore up the Gulf Coast last year! They sick of me, I'm sick of them! Playing games with FEMA, etc! Trying to get repairs to the house! I pray and cry and cry and pray! What else can you do these days! If you believe in Prayer, add me to your list! Thanks 🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏😍♥️🤩
@lazylizzy3045
@lazylizzy3045 Год назад
@@irisscott9488 I do not believe in God but I send you my empathy, love and lots of confidence.
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
Thank you for speaking up Iris. This is the problem with large families. The older children basically raise the younger ones. Some families are worse than others, of course, but the older children do the work and the parents reap the praise as' wonderful parents'. I am so sorry for you. You missed out your childhood.
@irisscott9488
@irisscott9488 Год назад
@@lazylizzy3045 ♥️🤩🤗💃🧚🧜👌👍👍💅💋💛💚thanks, I accept!💝
@CB-jv6cj
@CB-jv6cj Год назад
I could never, but they look like they manage well. The kids look happy, they can afford it so why not. It seems like a lovely family!
@hideyable
@hideyable Год назад
I have 6 siblings- Dad had 3 children in a prior marriage & they have 4 children between them. My parents could afford to have us; there was only 1 shared bedroom during part of our childhood & we've all been productive members of society in adulthood. Despite all that, I don't think having handfuls of children is something people should aim for.
@a.y.greyson9264
@a.y.greyson9264 Год назад
These people are so happy, it’s nice to see.
@porshasimmons120
@porshasimmons120 Год назад
Wow I have a big family as well 6 of my own and 7 step children pat your self on your back your doing an awesome job!
@baditavila9395
@baditavila9395 Год назад
Both of you are so blessed. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full. You will blend in well with Papua New Guinean families. Having lots of children is a blessing
@juliestevenson9151
@juliestevenson9151 Год назад
Lovely family good luck to them hopefully they will reach all the goals they need to stay happy and healthy
@livylu6287
@livylu6287 Год назад
As long as you canfinancially and emotionally support and take care of your family… screw what anyone else thinks.❤
@selahroseofsharon
@selahroseofsharon Год назад
ALL children are a blessing, and I also think that if you want a large family and can handle it then GO FOR IT!!! This family looks as it has lots of love and has it all under control. If anyone has anything negative to say, then they have an issue with children OR they are upset because they could not even raise one or two effectively. If I could have had more children, I sure would have. I was an only child for almost nine years growing up and I ALWAYS wanted a big family! I guess it's big compared to many but nothing like this, but to me the more babies and children the better. God bless them!
@jabulilephungwayo890
@jabulilephungwayo890 Год назад
Well said 💖
@somethingkindawonderful3034
What a good looking momma and daddy . Yah for the paper plates .. that and a nap sounds like a vacation for me. Momma looks so well rested ! Super cute family
@nancyayotte2297
@nancyayotte2297 3 месяца назад
I have two kids. This family has it all over me. That said at my age 59 i now know that all that does not come with ease. Dedication to each other is where it begins. I say bravo and God bless them all. ❤
@lisamedlyn3818
@lisamedlyn3818 Год назад
What a beautiful happy blended family. I grew up in a blended family of 6 and love that I always have a sibling to reach out to now as an adult.
@phillipwalker8827
@phillipwalker8827 Год назад
Hi,how're you.?
@raquelnogueira8254
@raquelnogueira8254 Год назад
What a beautiful family. Love it!❤❤
@proudmilitarybrat76
@proudmilitarybrat76 Год назад
I'm not going to judge you for choosing to have that many kids, but I am going to judge you for using paper plates. That's absolutely ridiculous. That's AT LEAST 60 plates a day put in the landfills.
@cxwboy2143
@cxwboy2143 Год назад
My dad is the oldest of 14 children I loved growing up with a big family !!!
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
You may have loved it, but how does your dad feel about it? As the oldest, how much of the burden was shifted to him?
@reneeturcottecicigoi9435
@reneeturcottecicigoi9435 Год назад
My dad was one of 13 kids. He was kind of in the middle but he loved his childhood and all his siblings. As for me, I loved having all those aunts and uncles and cousins around when I was growing up
@malikimontgomery1773
@malikimontgomery1773 Год назад
@@sjrpfr get a life, as my moms oldest, there's no burden or raising, irs all training for real life when we have a family
@sjrpfr
@sjrpfr Год назад
@@malikimontgomery1773 Your father said "I think everybody in our family knows what their part and their role and their position is and they know how to move when they are called on it". What do you think this means?
@malikimontgomery1773
@malikimontgomery1773 Год назад
@@sjrpfr yeah, simple chore's to do? my parents dont need to do anything extra for me that they do, they choose to and all they ask is to help clean. they didnt have to give me a ride to work when i had no car, pay for my drivers ed, my phone bill, money randomly for new clothes, gift me a car, buy me gifts. they do more then what the screen shows and all they ask is simple nowhere near strenuous tasks to be complete
@dollsNcats
@dollsNcats Год назад
As a parent who has horrible PPD I can’t mentally imagine this . Like HOW how do you become ok with no sleep for years , how do you have time to have quite time , how do you deal with years and years and years of tantrums . Oyyy and that teen having to share with babies ! This seems like the worst thing ever .. for me . Like how ! How do you give them attention, the same love ! Have conversations with each one .
@ayuanabradford3206
@ayuanabradford3206 Год назад
It more of selfish ways of kids will take care of us as we age
@abby-a
@abby-a Год назад
They should be on TLC 🤩🤩
@makailamontgomery4362
@makailamontgomery4362 Год назад
Ong email them and tell them
@momof2momof2
@momof2momof2 19 дней назад
I'm a widowed Mom of 2. We live comfortably because my late husband made sure to provide for us. If you can financially take care of this extra large family on one income, with no taxpayer money then you do you. BUT if you can't, then no one should have a family this large. My husband passed away unexpectedly, and the same can happen to you.
@karenmbbaxter
@karenmbbaxter Год назад
I don't mind what people do as long as they don't make their older kids ( in particular the girls) get the job o being mom to the younger kids because mom has no time.......If you have lot's of kids you need to raise them......The Duggars often required their elder daughters to always take care of the younger kids......Not their job.
@angelinacarraway3576
@angelinacarraway3576 Год назад
with a family that size i think i would have a farm grow my own fruits, veggies n livestock for eggs, milk n meat!!!! especially in this world today being so unsure of what’s to come. store shelves so bare n as a family u need so much so yep i would def hav a functioning farm
@phillipwalker8827
@phillipwalker8827 Год назад
Hi,how're you doing.?
@palesasefurutshe6832
@palesasefurutshe6832 Год назад
True! It would be so nice!
@TheDeathmail
@TheDeathmail Год назад
I love how happy all of them look together.... they are their own healthy little community....
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰 we love our little tribe!
@55giantsfan22
@55giantsfan22 Год назад
Too many things going on, no quiet time
@Allannah_Of_Rome
@Allannah_Of_Rome Год назад
I grew in a fam of 12 sibs and and my bestie grew up in a house of 15. It was the best upbringing we ever had!!
@minimalist2406
@minimalist2406 Год назад
They look quite young as for having just 18 children. I think nobody gets bored there ever.
@valariewillis6000
@valariewillis6000 Год назад
They Never have the house alone, for themselves....how has she gotten knocked up 7 times?!!!
@vee3133
@vee3133 Год назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 idk how people have the time
@nakialawrence7340
@nakialawrence7340 Год назад
With all those kids they don't look hurt for money they have a nice house they look happy God bless them 👏🏿
@minienterprises4031
@minienterprises4031 2 месяца назад
having kids and staying within the family is a sign of healthy relationship.
@nicholeknight1893
@nicholeknight1893 Год назад
I love this for them. They're taking care of them, and everyone looks happy. ❤
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you!!
@missa9030
@missa9030 Год назад
I have one kid and it sucks like I can’t even imagine this nightmare
@toronto75x37
@toronto75x37 Год назад
That doesn’t make you any better; some people regard it as a blessing. Looking to the stars is a symbol of your future posterity.
@kaylaball6482
@kaylaball6482 Год назад
That's sad you think it sucks. But I oddly enough i get it. Haha.
@stn7172
@stn7172 Год назад
Single mom?
@snowflakemelter7171
@snowflakemelter7171 Год назад
Imagine complaining about having the biggest gift imaginable & saying it sucks. How ungrateful.
@Selene666
@Selene666 Год назад
@@snowflakemelter7171 you can't assume it's a gift to everyone, or that everyone wanted to become a parent
@chocolate_covered_cherry
@chocolate_covered_cherry 8 месяцев назад
Awww it's so cute! The real life version of Yours, Mine, And Ours
@zareena1197
@zareena1197 Месяц назад
exactly!! We are raising good humans!!
@cameronsallas4841
@cameronsallas4841 Год назад
I love this family ❤️
@JNB520
@JNB520 Год назад
Me sitting over here stressing over my family.......btw I have one kid 😂
@candilease938
@candilease938 Месяц назад
Look at the huge smiles on all their faces though!! They are all SO happy!!
@meazabariay2298
@meazabariay2298 Год назад
Amazing parents! Proud of you both! Specially Mam!
@April10th1998
@April10th1998 Год назад
“We’re not planning on having anymore children” yet she’s obviously pregnant.🙃🤦🏻‍♀️
@mariewallace2660
@mariewallace2660 Год назад
Such an amazing family ❤ The teenage girl is wonderful and an real example to her younger siblings. 😊
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you for your kind words! You are a blessing!
@Moving_Forward247
@Moving_Forward247 9 дней назад
Beautiful family! Admire you mom. Don’t worry about the haters. It was normal for people to have big families back in the day and kids learned responsibility and how to get along. These kids will never be bored at home!
@yvonnemascoll356
@yvonnemascoll356 Год назад
Beautiful family 💞
@Chuloon
@Chuloon Год назад
There is absolutely no way these parents can give the proper love & attention to this many children. & why on earth is a one year old sleeping with her sisters.... just so much wrong here.
@johnWilliams-nn2iv
@johnWilliams-nn2iv Год назад
I can imagine them going Christmas shopping
@kimiisland9802
@kimiisland9802 5 месяцев назад
Oh gosh,...5 people in 1 room and 2 beds. That is horrible. You cant tell me that any teenager wants to live like that. I have 2 younger siblings and they are already way too much...it would be my biggest horror to share a room with them. People, also teens and kids, need some privacy.
@Quila1125
@Quila1125 5 месяцев назад
ya really doesn't seem fair to the oldest girl. I can tell she loves her siblings but she needs her own room. just to have her own space to have some alone time. lil ones its fine for them to share they tend to love it. but eventually they really need more space. Feels like they need to try for a bigger house if possible.
@Stacey171189
@Stacey171189 Год назад
You guys look happy and i wish you lots of love and patience with all your kids. God bless your Family ❤
@ThickkBeautyy
@ThickkBeautyy Год назад
Yikes. This looks like a nightmare to me 😂 but more power to em! It’s their life, they gotta deal w em, so it’s no one’s business but theirs.
@AIBot929
@AIBot929 Год назад
There's just so many little ones. 😱Like how do ya'll really go anywhere together, ya'll need a bus 🚌, and what do ya'll do for work? And ya'll can only shop at Costco or Sam's Club... like this a whole sports team.
@susantaylor8507
@susantaylor8507 2 месяца назад
My friend that has 21kids she is also a grandmother now she has 19 children still living at home when I first meet her we went to pick up my pet pig and I just feel in love with them and 8 years later we are still friends she live 5 hours away from me
@nickturner904
@nickturner904 Год назад
Many blessings to both of you and your family
@snuff2023
@snuff2023 Год назад
Wow i couldnt imagine how crowded things get with all the kids sharing rooms like that. It was me and my 3 sons in a 2 bedroom. My son was a teen when the 2 younger ones came one after another. My oldest had his own room. I had 2 cribs and my bed in my room. Thankfully we got a 3 bedroom nearly a year ago!
@adreamyday3587
@adreamyday3587 Год назад
Wow,not judging as long you guys are happy why not! Amazed at how they do get along!
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
Thank you!!! We are too!!! But doesn’t mean we don’t have our normal family and sibling moments!!!
@hellobot67
@hellobot67 Год назад
I'm pretty sure in foster care you LEGALLY have to give a kid a bed. So this would be seen as unfit. They can't share a bed with another child. They are crammed into a bed room. That's not normal. A teenager should have their own space. I feel bad for her.
@dontaskdonttell_
@dontaskdonttell_ 11 месяцев назад
It’s different in regards to biological children
@hellobot67
@hellobot67 11 месяцев назад
@pawstofreedom617 I find that it's the SAME thing. A teenager shouldn't share a bed with a small child. Idc how that Is or looks. I've seen families broken apart because they live in a homeless shelter or a hotel
@pamelaolmstead7518
@pamelaolmstead7518 6 месяцев назад
I have a big family. I just can see so much love with this family and it makes me so happy
@alonzorodriguez8878
@alonzorodriguez8878 Год назад
Beautiful 🤩 family
@thefuzzfactor2989
@thefuzzfactor2989 Год назад
What a beautiful, healthy family! Sharing rooms is very healthy I believe and leads to more adjusted individuals later on.
@Happysoul_3
@Happysoul_3 9 месяцев назад
One thing is for sure these people can never get lonely. Their sibling can be their best friend
@maddiemaccheese8170
@maddiemaccheese8170 16 часов назад
Genuinely praying SO hard for the teen daughter. Sharing a room with 4 toddlers is not right, she basically has to parent them all through the night. The eldest daughter in families like these all face the most parentification, so I'm truly hoping she is being treated right otherwise.
@cookiecook-jackson9297
@cookiecook-jackson9297 Год назад
Looks like you guys got it handled. Keep up the good work!!! Everyone seems to get along great and really care for one another.
@perfectlyblendedfamily
@perfectlyblendedfamily Год назад
And thank you!!
@BigOlBatman
@BigOlBatman Год назад
Kinda feel bad for the kids. Especially the older ones
@kitterns042002
@kitterns042002 9 месяцев назад
that's what being married is all about having 18 kids. that's a blessing.
@katherinevaipo3141
@katherinevaipo3141 Год назад
Your family are the most beautiful, happy blended 👪 ever. You are both blessed. Dont listen to haters.
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