replacing “self-judgment” with “self-kindness” can greatly reduce anxiety. If you approach yourself more positively, you’ll feel better, think more clearly, and escape the thought traps. I have to remind me everyday❤
We will never figure things out fully and there’s so much beauty in that, we will never reach a point to say everything is fixed and the more we release to the Universal forces and release control we will feel lighter and happier 🦋
Omg yes - people who see you as a victim and a failure cos about 10years ago you were a bit like that and they still see you as that even though you have succeeded and are out of that now!!! You’re right 💕💕
THIS is gold! Thank you sooo so much for sharing your thoughts, you have no idea how much needed this was (for me at least). I am in a similar situation since last year and I really can take so much from this… the excuses I didn't notice, the fear of failing, the gratefulness! This is eye opening - Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💓💓💓💓💓💓
I’m only 9mins in and I need to pause to say, everything you just said is what I literally told my sister just a few weeks ago, I’m so terrified of success but more so the giving all and failing. You worded this so well Xenia! Thank you for being so open with us, it is empowering to hear someone else say what I’m too feeling. Anyway I’ll watch the rest now 😂 Your vids are honestly my favourite thing on YT, thank youuuuu, you are amazing! xxx
Truly from the bottom of my ♥️ Thank you for uploading this and sharing your thoughts. You have no idea how much this resonates with me. Cant thank you enough, these words have made me think deeper about my life / things im going through and my next steps to take. So weird feeling like I know you without knowing you. Lots of love 🩵🦋🩵🦋🩵
so here for this talk, thank you for sharing!! I went through/am going through something so similar - being so rigid in your positions and then realizing that the world is not black and white. please continue to post more of these chats ❤✨
Ich muss wirklich sagen, dass ich froh bin dich auf RU-vid entdeckt zu haben, die Designerwelt ist nicht unbedingt mein Steckenpferd 😂 Du bist unglaublich erfrischend, hast grenzgeniale Zugänge, bist klüger als es dir gut tut, Style, NY & Bücherliebe runden es dann schön ab. Danke für die Bereicherung im Alltag, dein vernetztes Denken und gutes Herz. Du nutzt dein Potential, alleine dadurch, das du andere zum Nachdenken bringst und ich bin davon überzeugt, dass dein 🧗🏼 unaufhaltsam ist, auch wenn ich dir wünsche die Bodenhaftung nicht zu verlieren 😊
The need to please and be accepted is usually occur because of that "essence of life" - connection, we can be so desperate to connect with others sometimes, to a point where we lose who we truly are in the process! It is a very fine line that requires discernment. The most profound video from you Xenia, sending love 💫
I love this convo!! I think it is in the air, I was just doing a training on this with my mastermind!!! The theme of fear of success / failure and we're dismantling it to find our deepest truth and alignment!! eeeeeeeee so cool you are going through this too!!!
I love this kind of content! I looove the way you’re evolving, you can see the obvious impact of the therapy on you! Not everyone evolves through therapy, but I think that you’re thriving. Took me much longer time to get where you are, I know this road. Also an Aquarius. Such a pleasure listening to you 👌🫶👏
Alles was du sagst und beschreibst ist so deep. Ich finde wahnsinn wie du deine Gedanken fühlen und gleichzeitig aussprechen kannst. Für mich der schönste Begriff ist „quiet confidence“. Das beschreibt zu 100% wie ich sein und was ich für mich selbst erreichen möchte. Und während ich dir zugehört und alles aufgesaugt habe, habe ich gemerkt wie sehr ich deine früheren Blogs vermisst habe und wie schön ich es finde, dass du jetzt wieder bloggst und ich dich und deine facial expression sehen kann. So toll :)
This was such a beautiful video! Literally what I needed and so real, genuine, and honest. Thank you for sharing your journey with us - it's an incredible universe that we live in and so many wonderful gifts we receive each and every day. Continue to live your best life - we are joining you and loving every minute 🥰💖
I love how mature you've become ❤ for the record, your jobs go beyond creativity: - Real Talk Vlogs 💪🏼 Strengthening us - Book Club Vlogs 📖📚🤯 Inspiring us - Travel Vlogs 🛩️🪐 Connect us Those are a few that come to my mind, sharing your life and experiences is just enough. Thank you for taking us along with you ❤ Just being yourself, you know that we love you ✨
It is exactly what i m thinking now !! I m in shock i just attracted you in my life !! It is mean we are matching ! Such a pleaser,, become you are beautiful like a treasure))❤ Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!! I learn how to think in positive way, how to accept, appreciate and letting go!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience!!! It is a gift 🎁 ❤
Dearest Xenia I fucking love this conversation This will he considered totally weitd but i mean this from the bottom of my heart ❤️ Everything you said i resonate with every cell in my body. Fuxkin love you 😘 If you ever want to come to the UK ans spend time in nature i would actually let you stay in my home 💞
@@Mky890So I’m tattling because I voiced my opinion? I actually used to watch Tamara a lot and she’s changed. So maybe I shouldn’t have said I can’t believe they were besties, because I liked their friendship before Tamara turned soulless. It’s like everything she used to stand for is gone and replaced with vanity. Maybe it’s the struggle to stay thin in the fickle fashion industry?? I don’t know but I’m sad I can’t watch them anymore
@@carlyh6913 there is organized insane hstered on tattle life against tamara and your digital footprint matches tattle life user data. I am just letting you know that “forum” is about to end. ;) Xenia never mentioned Tamara. It’s the sick to the brain users of that forum that are spreading lies.
@@carlyh6913 you edited your comment lol. but you and the rest of tattle life gang should know that your digital footprint is exposed. bullying and obsession with tamara and many many many other victims will soon be exposed. insane hate and toxic sick bullying is about to cost owners and users of that twisted site is over.
Just recently discovered your channel and who you are. Such good energy - I get what you’re saying here. Just out of curiosity - do you know of the Meyers’s-Briggs test is and what is your result? Xoxo
Love you love this content. Side note the frog in the boiling water thing is myth that's been busted to be not true 🙈. In Adam Grants Think Again book. Which I think you would enjoy.
Xenia!!!! This is an incredible video. Love when you share your thoughts and feelings (and your iPhone noted a few days ago). Your energy and vibration is sooo high thanks for sharing it with the world! 🫶🏽
