we didn't break up. we never started. [+6.5k] 

That's me 📬😭

Life rewards kind hearts with second chances. It's not necessary to be miserable for loyalties sake. Nevertheless, those kind hearts often end up being miserably and loyal. 20 yr veteran.

Yeah Exactly

@@TCnParadise THIS

@ianthe' / Tay It is. thanks for reminding us to look for a brighter side

@A thats deep🤐

Closure? You don't get anything, but your memory....and even that changes everytime you look back

Heard this saying some weeks ago first, gave me some good direction for another perspective on a past i cannot change, but a future i wanna embrace with open eyes

Lovely quote ❤️

Goosebumps ♥️♥️♥️♥️

a guy I know stepped in the same river twice. the river was me.

@@Abby-yj9zh he wasn’t the same guy 2nd time! Physically/mentally/ emotionally he changed definately 😉

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You're not the only one. I'm gulit of this as well

Indeed, same here brutally honest, years ago and I still remember..

Feel the same way 😔

Ditto 💔

Agreed.

holy shit... holy... this is me. I'm the hurt/broken one right now and so afraid to give my heart out to this lovely woman I know.

@@TheSoundofTanay Please give your heart. I'm in this situation right now where he needs to heal and be perfect and whole for me. Bullshit- I'd take his broken perfect self any moment rather than this crap break up.

@@charliekgorden4390 yep, im giving my heart. No matter what I tell myself, even in my broken times I keep going back to her and I give my best - whatever it is. I know we’ll make it work somehow.

@@TheSoundofTanay yes yes yess

@@TheSoundofTanay I’m glad you did I did not and I think it was so much pain for both of us

Same.

What film was this?

No Strings Attached.

do it before is too late

DO IT !!!! Did you do it yet? Go now, right this moment. Don't waste time missing out on life.

Did you do it? 💪🏻

i believe in you. you have nothing to lose, do it!

Do it. But not if your self respect comes in between. You may get her back, but you might feel something missing!

I feel you sis, I'm going through the exact same thing.

Aw, thank you so much, my dear ❤️

To some people it always is... This stuff hurts... Like really bad

Same story here💖 sending you tons of love✨

wow, i completely understand how this feels more than you'll know. thank you for you comment.

Happened to me one year ago, still loving her, although she is so far away. Now I am on the other side, I met a girl and she really likes me. She is beautiful way more than the one before, she is nicer and she really cares about me. But I somehow dont feel enough. When I am together with her, i always have to think about this woman I fell in love with on year ago.

Please let go. If you can't give this girl your all, then don't lead her on

@@Sebastian-yn9qg please let her go. Don’t be with her if u don’t love her properly, don’t play with her feelings. It‘s so painful to know that ur bf feeling’s towards u is fake

Right there with you. You’re never alone😭

The annihilation seems complete and real. It isn't. When she said she was going, I disnt argue. I didn't fight. I just let her go. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. All I wanted to do was fight, beg, plead, make it work. But, the caged nightingale never sings. If I loved her, she had to be free to fly. To sing. So, I threw open the cage and let her go. The last day I saw her, I told her how I felt, that we would never be friends because my feelings are too great to settle for anything less than what we had. The silence, the emptiness in what was our home was dreadful. My heart had been obliterated. Or, so I thought. She is gone, but I am not. I built this home, she came later. I survived before, I will be ever more successful. My heart is healing and wont be hard, but ever greater and love with a depth that is far greater than before. Keep the faith. You are beautiful. You will survive and you will love again. All the best to you.

@@dampnickers Your words are soothing. Thank you Nick. Hope you find someone who is as much thoughtful.

I needed this message more than the video

Thank you for this comment...I needed to read something like this.

Glad it could help ♡

Hate the fact; that love is not given back... and hate the fact that why did u meet them after all !!! Don’t want to learn any lessons....and fuck universe who does what it wants !!!

@@sahilbhateja3058 yeah i know it sucks, but everything that doesn't work out turns into a lesson. It only clears your vision and makes you realize what's not meant for you. It does hurt intially but once you're past that phase, you're just gonna be grateful for it

I feel your pain. Currently going through it myself, it's been 2 months since I've seen her

Nobody can ruin you if you don't let them. You basically handed him/her the power to do it. Nevermind, it will get better with time 🌻.

Checklist for the people you care about: 1. Do you feel like you could put a piece of your heart in their hands, and they will keep it safe and cherish it... but will then look you in the eye and give it back, because your heart needs to stay whole and yours and you shouldn't lose it to anyone (doesn't matter how much you care about the person and how much you love them, your heart is yours or you'll forget yourself in the relationship. 2. Do they have your back, can you count on them, no matter what? But without them taking over everything, they are there, present, supporting, just in case, but only if you need it. 3. Do they support you evolving, you growing, you becoming more and more you, more interdependant, more strong, more fierce more confident more gentle, as the shaping of the diamond you are. And they'll stand at your side, supporting you without holding you back. But also warn you for danger, but without then locking you up, warn and then let you do your own life. 4. Are you are great team together? Is it fluid, is it fun, can you do something together whether it's fun, or chores, or building, or complicated, and it still works between you? And then, you have point 5: Do you feel like your trying your best to be all those 4 points to them too? And want to be all that for them? And the 6 point: what kind of attraction do you feel? Because that'll determine if you'll want this person to be a friend or a lover or a future partner.

Mine was 4.5 years of me being in love with him. After all.thst time of dancing around each other he finally gave me a shot. I was so in love. Unconditional. I fell in love with his soul before ever touching his skin. I wish i was making this up. He wss finally ready. Best day of my life. We dated for 3 months and January 3rd he ripped my heart out of my chest. Worst time of my life. My good god i loved that man. I would have done anything for him. It's heartbreaking when someone cant receive your love and look for ways to destroy it. 3 months later and no contact. Im.doing better. But I know we are soul mates. Love at first sight on both ends. We recognized each others soul. It was a feeling i can't describe. It didn't work in this life but im praying we meet again in the next life and can make it work

You don’t ruin people you love. Which means, he is not right for you.

That's exactly how I feel

Yeah but maybe you did wait.. for weeks, months and years. Some people do. You can't expect us to wait forever. We deserve to be happy too.

I was looking through rose colored lenses. He confused me and then he said he didn't want a relationship. Plus when I finally put everything together I realized he was leading me on. I told him that I fall for him it was in a text prob not a good idea. I said don't even text back if u didn't feel the same and that I would get over him, but he texted back? And said thanks for telling me. At that point I thought he felt the same way, but he never told me. Later on he said we can be friends and see where it goes. So I finally started acting like friends and he was still confusing. So at one point he said I'll introduce to some of his friends. I think I called his bluff when I was planning and reserving a spot to virtually skydive. I asked him if he knew anyone that would want to go get back to me. Then the only thing he talked about was he already went skydiving? I wasn't asking him to go because he has no time to do anything or that's what he told me. Puzzled. I don't even see him and I know he's not making an effort to text back anything. So I'm figuring he deleted me out. Of his contexts and I'm moving on??????

@@candacehearn1771 Please let it go.. you are setting yourself up for more pain, confusion and second guessing his actions. I couldn't stay friends with someone I care about like that, chances are you can't either. He's either coming back around or you are free.

@@hgzmatt thanks ur right I'm cutting him loose Thanks for ur help

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OMG, thanks!

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I'm still not over them 💔

Thank you!

Diana Nekrasova i made a video quite similar to this years ago actually (similar in theme) if you wanted to see it?:) ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-enXUzUZqaNc.html

You've no idea how much it means to me! Thank you a lot ❤

@@sassyxmolassy maybe ❣️ yes maybe ❣️ no

I'm so glad to read this! Finishing this edit was one hell of a task. Thank you a lot for your kind words and for your support in general, I really appreciate it ❤️

same us bro us

Thank you a lot ❤️

Me too... Sent me straight to church

Thanks a lot!

Same. You aren't alone.

yes but walk away..for your own sake.

Same. You're not alone

Thank you for watching it!

Thanks a lot ❤ Yeah, I totally get that. I can't help but pull away every time things get too serious because I'm too scared. Like, I'm so fucking tired of being alone but I just can't. The fear is too strong.

just a little remark: english is my fourth language so i’m apologising if you get triggered by grammar mistakes or something

Thanks!

Haha, thank you a lot ❤

Thank you so much ❤

Very true. That's why I said it right when she broke up. Better to let her know just in case than to wonder what if.. The ball is in her court.

He was in love with me when I wasnt and now when I am ... he isnt ..

@@martaolivia5213 I am sorry! Tell him, confess to him. Maybe he is still in love with you, who knows? Are you sure? And if he isn't in love with you anymore you can move on. You will get closure either way. No regrets.

@@mariangelamariangela4199 thank you very much . Oh yes I did , I told him how I'm feeling .. he said to me that he is really sorry, he also said that he still fancy me and thinks I'm amazing, but he wants to be by himself as for now .. I dont know what does that mean .. he also said that if its meant to be , then it will be ... but .. it just hurts , as I see that he doesnt want me anymore :(

I wish I never confessed. It was a mistake

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Thanks!

Like exceptionally! Makes me feel human again.