Akinyi my sister, I'm a kisii lady living in Texas USA. I'm 37 years old, and I've been looking for a baby for 16 yrs now! 2 IVF failed! I have seen different fertility doctors in this America and Europe. I have used herbal medicine, but my time was not right. I stopped asking God to bless me with a child/ren rather I started praising God for giving me healthy children, healthy pregnancy and I told God that I know my God,when the time is right,(,your time God), you'll make it happen. Isaiah 60:22! Guess what, I'm 16 weeks pregnant with twins! I prayed, I believed, I trusted the process! God's going to do it for you, my sister. People will judge you. They'll call you names,but God's knows you better, mami. I even stopped going to baby showers,I stopped going to the baby section in the stores! I cried,but finally, God has done it to me! Just trust the process. It's going to be well, my sister. Shalom 🙏🙏🙏🙏
With our God all things are possible! Congratulations!!! We thank God for you Manasseh blessing, enjoy your double portion. May you and your camp enjoy your Isaac moments- laughter in your camp.
You made me cry watching you go through the struggles and people being so mean I wish you had the ability to help you . The Lord is with you he know love you both
So touching😭😭😭 i struggled to get pregnant for 4years. But God answered my prayer my baby is 6months old now. God Bless you Akinyi and Benjamin. Next year by this time you will have your baby 😊
My sister got married in the year 1990. I was just a kid then, I grew up, got married and had child in the year 2011. Guess what the Lord did, my sister who got married in the year 1990 got pregnant in the year 2014 after 24 years of marriage and gave birth to a handsome boy. Exactly a year later she became pregnant with twins, 8 months after having the twins she got pregnant again with another set of twins. My sister now has 5 children after 24 years of marriage. Please let this be your motivation, inspiration that the good Lord will do same for you Aameen
MY KIDS JUST PRAYED FOR YOU NOW, COS THEY ASK ME WHY ARE YOU CRYING, I TOLD THEM AND THEY STRETCH OUT THEIR HAND AND PRAYED THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU A BABY, TOGETHER WE SAID AMEN AND AMEN
My daughter was told from the age of 18 she would not be able to have children. At 26 she got married. I believe in the power of prayer, and God told me my daughter will be the mother of children. It took ten yrs before she saw her first child, a daughter. God is Faithful. Five yrs later she had her son and just when she thought this was it, the Lord told me he wasn’t finished. Eight yrs later she had another daughter. We can’t fathom life without these children. Don’t lose hope. Our God is Faithful.
Hallelujah To The Goodness and Grace and Faithfulness Of The Most High God. Akili and Benjamin will have that same Blessing In Jesus Christ All Powerful Name Amen 🙏
As Christians we must know when we are being challenged and I feel this your challenge and you will get through this,God will bless you with children on his time be patient and stay in faith
Sometimes, you have to keep your business off social media. This is causing you unnecessary stress and sadness. While you're trying to explain all this, you could be on your knees praying!!!! I pray you get your prayers answered. 🙏
Am sorry akinyi one thing I know for sure is that in his time God will make all things beautiful,I know how it feels coz I've been there always remember that it's not over yet until God says so.
Stay still, stay silent, God 's time is not our time. Block all the noise, the negativity. You can not be stressed when trying to get pregnant . I got pregnant naturally at 40, lost my baby boy at 6 months. Got pregnant again naturally at 46, and I lost the pregnancy early while at work. I took no chance and tried IVF twice. I got pregnant in October at 49, gave birth at 50 to twins boy, and girl. The twins are turning 7 years old next month.they were my Thanksgiving, Christmas, Valentines, Easter, and my birthday, which was in June gifts. God is in control and has faith. All I have to say is congratulations! God bless your family!
Thanks sister for giving me hope I have one kid and this year I was sick and the doctor say I will not get pregnant because i have fibroids i no God will bless me again will more kids 🙏
I'm really sorry for what you're going through my dear. God's time is the best. Just stop stressing and just go with the flow. Stress and anxiety can sometimes make it hard to conceive. All the best my luv❤️.
Akinyi, you can only control yourself not the public! They are insensitive people out there and only they control themselves! Since you went through all the tests and everything is good, just keeping praying and kind of forget it. That will take the pressure off of you. Remember, you're beautiful, smart and you have a very sportive husband who is also a believer. Please don't give up on motherhood don't give in to those insensitive comments, don't give up on your faith and you will get your heart's desire🙏 I have one child now and have had 6 miscarriages after and I know and understand how it feels to keep getting those negative results. But only God has helped me go through that strongly! I will say a prayer for you and Benjamin I am for sure it is hard on him also to some extent. Our God is able and Mighty and faithful. He will bring it to pass for you and your family. Much love from Canada❤❤❤❤❤
@@fefezmehche6914that is very true and good advice. It happened to my friends who were married for only 6 months, but had put pressure on themselves because they wanted a child so bad and couldn't happen until they relaxed and soon after that they conceived and now have 3 boys🙌🙌
I remember my infertility journey , 3years too ,of crying and begging God to give Me a chance , people talking , It was a lot . but am now 4months pregnant and I still can't believe it , so don't ever give up , God has ur time .
You’re not ALONE!! I have been married for 9years now and still waiting for miracle! 💔😢 Only if you go through infertility you know how hard it is. Please stay strong. ❤ P.S anyone reading this, please pray for me! I believe that someone out there prayer will be answered. Thank you!❤
I was told i can't give birth bt the time i was very young i visted hospitals bt they said the same thing one day my dady gave me some herbs when i took i got pregnant the same month i wish i could help you 🥺 🥺 its not easy
I am absolutely disgusted. Where do strangers get the audacity to talk to a woman this way? Am so sorry, Akinyi. I'm praying you find joy despite all these challenges. God bless you. And thank God for your wonderful husband.
Honey this a 67yrs old woman talking to you. Don't worry about what people say, talk is cheap. God has not forgotten you, stop for a while with the tests and just enjoy each other. This to shall past ,because God is in control💞✝🙏
Yeah, just stop trying so hard. Find smg you're passionate about doing for God and let it become a habit. Before You know it you're desiring God more than a child who can never replace God. Nothing stressful just blocking everything out and placing God first . Then I can assure you He will reward you. It's easier said than done. Isn't He the One who gives the spirit for a soul to be born 😊. He knows what you need. Dont worry about any comment ,anyone trust God.❤❤🎉
I hear you saying on your way to the ultra sound ' here goes nothing' . Honey speak only positive. Start thanking God for the children. Buy baby prayers and practice reading them for your baby. Start fixing a small space for the child, pray often there. Tell God you are asking Him to give you a child who will want to pray there and love Him. Do these kinda stuff that put God " first" and He will bless you. I pray your strength. 🙏 It's super hard to trust God in the waiting. I know it's hard what you're going. through. Continue to have a positive conversation with God. He will come through ❤❤❤😢❤❤🎉🎉
I got pregnant after 4 years of trying and now am here with my 9 months old daughter May God locate all women trying to get pregnant and may God open your wombs
This is why I mind my business. You never know what people are going through. Plus if they wanted me to know they would tell me without asking or mentioning it.
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I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
@@MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Am turning 41 this November, i have been trying for the longest time, but i do have faith, and i believe that when the time is right God will do it for me, faith is what am holding on
Let me give you an honest advice Akinyi Please don't beat yourself up because you're still young the baby is a gift from God He will bless your womb when time is right . Please stop stressing too much because it's gonna be hard for you to concieve if you're under a lot of stress. God bless you and your husband
So true dear God blesses us with children when it's your season God will let it happen keep strong and believe that at the right time you'll have your bundle of joy be strong.
Please relax Akinyi. Don't rush my sister. We adopted a beautiful girl. She is my world 10 months after the adoption, my wife was pregnant and we had another girl. From South Africa
How I wish people were so kind and stop asking about this sensitive question. 🥺 Akinyi just has Benjamin said it will happen when the right time comes. Keep the faith and hope alive. 🙏
I know all this beautiful comments are making Akinyi cry and encouraging another woman out here. Hugs to all women trusting God for children🫂🫂It will be well😊
I waited years and gave up but God had different plans. I gave birth to my son 20 days before my 44th birthday😊 It shall be so, all your desires...SHALL BE SO👏🏽
Hi Sis. I'm saying sis because you are my sister in Christ and I'm typing this msg. all the way from South Africa. I cannot say I understand what you are both going through, especially you Akinyi, pain is pain no matter the source and I understand pain. Your faith in God, your grace in the midst of everything is a slap on the Enemy's face and a punch in his gut. You are in your waiting season while you are rooted and planted in your faith, you are giving me a lesson or two over here. I know this isn't about me but really it does show me faith in action. I can't wait for the day where you see what you want to see on that pregnancy test, and IT'S SOONER THAN YOU THINK. Whether you record it or not, it sure will be the happiest day. As for the haters, they are clueless at knowing that the hate & the hard times they show you, is the more they are pushing you to your Creator's arms so He can comfort you. He'll replace the tears of sorrow & sadness with the tears of joy. Continue to be imbokodo (strong rock) that your are, and concerning the social media & everything, do what you feel it's best for your sanity... I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers❤❤
The stress of trying to conceive messes up with your hormones too. So maybe take a break from actively trying (but don’t try to prevent getting pregnant in that period that you take a break) that way you can regulate your stress levels and perhaps in that period your miracle will happen, or after the break. It baffles me that strangers bully people like this on the internet. I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
This is a VERY good advice. I know a couple who took a break and went on a cruise, weeks later she found out she was pregnant. He told me because they just stopped trying and mentally reset their mindset, they became pregnant. You will rejoice over your miracle because God doesn't lie.
Was trying to get pregnant at my early thirties but in God's time I got pregnant at 38yrs my daughter will turn 7yrs this June..... Keep trusting and praying God will do it for you..... He is a Faithful God...
I was once in your situation Akinyi, 9 years of childlessness not that I had any medical issue but because it wasn't God's time then. When I had given up all hopes, He decided to make me smile. Just keep believing in Him. Sending you and Benjamin hugs.💕
This vlog got me thinking. I wanted to cry, but I held back my tears. Akinyi, my husband and I have been trying to have a baby for many, many years. I can not even say how many. You crossed my mind many times, and a thought even crossed my mind, but I don't ask such questions because it's painful. I have had two failed ivfs. You have so much faith, and I must say I am happy that you do because, to be honest, for me, I even stopped praying about this. I don't know, maybe I gave up. After watching this video, I told God that if you can not give me a child, at least give Akinyi a child because she still has faith.That was my sincere prayer. I am not sure if you watch Gabe and Babe. Now, when Gabe and Babe were trying for a second child, I was also trying for a child, so it's been that long. One day, I emailed Gabe and told her that she was going to have a baby girl. She responded with so much joy. So today I want you to know that you shall be with child very soon.❤
Thank you for comforting her she will have a baby soon and you too you will have a baby may God open the doors for you and bless you with a fruit of womb
My sister Akinyi, it really breaks my heart to see you crying like this. Please if possible take a break from the social media and focus on relaxing yourself. All is going to be well with you.
Don't give up the fight. I was in your position 20 years ago but God never forget his children. I almost lost my marriage and the in laws were not kind at all. Now l have a son he will be 20years in July.
Akinyi si ukuje Kenya utafutiwe kienyeji mama,usilie you will conceive when you least expect it. Lower your expectations Imagine utashika bol,as long as uko sawa. You'll celebrate before the end of this year. More love from your sisy here in Kenya❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Let this be a reminder that we see ppl everyday and we don't know what they are going thru. Please be kind. A kind word or gesture goes a long way.Keep the faith Hun...💕
As a woman i am very sorry for all the haters i thank God that you have an identity with Jesus look at all the women in the Bible who had a problem with having children they were carring children of destiny Hold on your season of laughter is coming.
Keep the faith. My parents tried for 7 years and were ready to adopt and then my Mom got pregnant. This was 65 years ago when there were no home pregnancy tests. I am praying for you and Benjamin 🙏🏻
I agree with you , continued testing makes you nervous and it might even interfer with your body hormones...just relax and everything will happen unknowingly
So true,the day you focus on other things n completely shelf the whole baby thing...that's when it's gonna happen swithrt bcz nothing is wrong with you swithrt, you're ok. You gonna have your babies🙏🙏
Ooh Akini, I wish God blesses u with a beautiful baby. I was smiling when the doctor was counting your eggs 😊❤. My dear there's nothing wrong with you, just wait for God's time.Only God knows . Please block those nasty heartless people. Yes its heartbreaking but be strong. We love you..I feel so sad looking at your sad face but oneday God will do it for u... 🤗😍🥰
I read some of the cruel messages but the one that said ‘you can’t do it with any Africa man…’ I want to say, this is not a matter of any man from any country or continent but the man that sincerely love you will stay with you in whatever situations. My husband is from Africa, for 13yrs we had no baby and he stood by me until God put a smile on our faces with our little angel🙂. I just don’t want you to dwell on the negativity. Try every possible medical treatment and trust in God. Cry when you can, think about it when you can but DO NOT LET IT WEIGH YOU DOWN… keep trusting in God. 🙏
feel your pain ,am going through it too , been married 6.8 years, waiting on God,I get those breakdowns too ,every month seems like a year, you are not alone,God is able to answer our heart desires.
Listen my lovely Akinyi. God's plans always are best for you guys... I am 63.8 now and I never got any baby of my own. 3 divorces from 3 different men. The last man I decided to adopt a 2 months old baby girl. When she was 11 months old my husband divorced me and left me with a baby. I was almost 40 yrs old so I decided not get married again. Unfortunately after up and down and lots of tough time as a single mom, my daughter graduated from the university and guess what😩... In 2018 when she was 24 yrs old, She left me and tell me you are not my real mother so I have to have my own life. I didn't know where she was till in 2020 I heard that she is staying about 25 km from where I am living but I don't know where exactly. She left me with zero penny and was crying as if my daughter is dead. For 5 yrs I hv been crying daily. Why I tell you this Akinyi, is that God's plans are always best bcz he knows very well what is going to happen to us, so when we insist on something, He gives us, but then we don't know what is going to happen to us! Try all your best but never be sad as you don't know God's plans!
Don't mind about what people say, don't concetrate on negative comments, your husband is very supportive and he loves you, God will bless you with babies,I am praying for you here in Uganda
Pls just fast and pray ...pray for your daughter ... Always give your love to those who appreciatez an elderly person, a homeless person a dog a cat ..
Ooooh nooo....what a sad day for me.I hate it when a woman is trolled for not having a child😢😢😢.Is not easy for her,kindly lets give her time and peace and space because shes battling alot.Akinyi ,l give you Gods peace and love during this difficult moment.May God bless your womb my sister for Hes preparing a testimony for you.And you will come back with a new song, congratulations you have done it for me.Keep the journey nyamin.Much hug and love.❤❤❤I feel your pain osiepa.
I see no reason why some strangers who think they know you will just type trash and bring a fellow woman down. No one deserves to see u this broken Akinnyi, so do not give anyone that chance. Be happy, live life, have fun, take your mind off it and watch what God will do. Be strong darling and pls live your life, it is yours so enjoy it. ❤& 💡
I’ve done so many videos asking people to stop asking me why I’m not giving my son a sibling because he’s getting older. After years of going to the doctor even doing a laparoscopic surgery to check if I have no endometriosis and getting the same report. There’s nothing wrong with you. Which is frustrating, i found myself even wanting to be diagnosed with something because atleast then I would know what wrong. But I found that I had to also do my own research and start advocating for myself. I’ve been advised on IVF too but there’s so many other steps before that I had to ask for. Two cycles ago I had a chemical pregnancy after taking Letrozole 2.5mg, it was sad but my doctor said my body is ready to carry a child. She gave me a cycle off with the promise to go back on Letrozole higher dose with trigger shots. I’ve been praying to God for twins and manifesting for twins, a week ago after the treatment my body responded by releasing two big eggs on each ovary. When I saw those eggs on the sonar, I knew God doesn’t make mistakes. I’ve been young and now I’m old but I’ve never seen the righteous forsake nor their children begging for bread. So I’m watching the trigger leave my body and believing God that the line is going to come back darker. My children are coming. This is my faith talk. Continue to talk yours until you hold your children in your hands mama.
Do not give up Akini , I remember my fertility journey 5 years of waiting,miscarriages ,lost my mom a But I kept on praying. Today I have 5 year twins boy and girl. Last year I fell pregnant with a baby boy he is 6 months today, bear in mind I’m 41 yrs. stay in God and trust him with all of your heart. Soon those tear will be for joy. I want to hug you.
Watching this video made me so emotional, I am battling with the same issues for 20 years its hard very difficult, In 2022 i found out i was pregnant i was n shocked, very happy my husband and i was , but it last just for a hour because it was a ectopic pregnancy i was rushed for emergency surgery lost my right tube and now two years after we are still waiting on another pregnancy positive test. What i want to tell you God is good and he hear each and every one of our prayers and he will answer them in the right season, God bless. You have an amazing husband God bless him too
Sending you❤my sister.its hard what you are going through. God will bless you with a child at his own time,it will come. For now may be you focus on something else..Bay will come.❤
Yes he will answer their prayers I also had an ectopic preg 1 year ago I'm still trying to have a babe now we should not give up God will make it happen at the right time
Stay strong in your faith. You are a lovely couple and are blessed that you are both each other's support and unfortunately people can be jealous of that. Pay them no mind whatsoever. God bless you both.
Akinyi, just know that God is preparing you for the task ahead. I've been there before and I know how it is. I gave birth to triplet after 9 years of waiting due to Unexplained Infertility. I got to a point I started thanking God each time I see my monthly period because its an assurance that there is still hope. I tried for 1 baby and I got 3. I even carried them with multiple fibroid. So please, be positive. People will definitely talk, just focus on yourself.
This may sound crazy but you need to start decorating your baby’s room. Get one of those baby milestone books, write down his/her name, birth month etc, and thank God in advance for your beautiful, healthy baby. There is power in our thoughts. We truly can have the future we want if we claim and trust God that it has already happened 💕💕💕
My dear, you don't owe your viewers a baby. That journey is never easy and sometimes the people who are bashing you either have no children or are stressed and overwhelmed by the ones they have so it comes off as transfered aggression. Please remain positive. It will happen. I am sure so many women can give u their testimonies. You are okay.
Infertility is a difficult journey and the fact that you choose to share yours shows just how strong you are. When the time is right I know the Almighty will make it happen for you. Sending hugs to every woman/man out there going through infertility
Be encouraged Akinyi. I have a friend who waited 10 years before she got pregnant. She was angry with God. He has since Blessed her with a son. God's timing is the best it will happen. God Bless you.❤
Stay strong. I was also told I’d never be able to have kids. Now I’m a mom of 3. God knows your heart & your desires. It will happen in due season. Praying for you both.
Those people who goes online and start throwing words at people without knowing what they are going through shame on them,no one is entitled to judge someone just because you have subscribed to their channel doesn't give yiu any right to tell them what or not what to do,,,May God see you through Akinyi it's not too late and God's time is the best never forget that hugs hugs❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel u gal, fertility journey has became a major challenge to many women. I have gone through it too,I used to be supper stressed,don't loose your trust in God,there is one thing one servant of God told me & this made a huge turn in my life."if you want the spirit of God to work don't stress yourself,let Him come and find a peaceful heart and u will receive your miracle",from that day I stopped crying and thinking about babies. I thank God because am now 4months. Never doubt God. Utalea watoto my dear.
Maybe you should go home(Kenya) your parents might find a way to help you dear. Somethings are spiritual. Don’t worry you have your husband who loves you. Nothing is impossible with God remember Sarah.
@@runako08. Spiritual or not God is more powerful than all that. God will give her children in His time the testimonies are all over the internet women who waited for 11yrs and got 5 kids in one pregnancy , healthy pregnancy healthy babies . Long are days for such moves it means you don't trust God
AKINYI PLEASE 🙏 WIPE YOUR TEARS CRY NO MORE.YOUR WOMB IS ALREADY BLESSED IN JESUS NAME.JUST SAID A PRAYER FOR YOU AND BENJAMIN.AND I KNOW GOD HAS HEARD AND HE WILL ANSWER.❤❤❤.THIS IS YOUR YEAR TO CONCEIVE 🙏 .GOD BLESS YOU ALL
Dear Akinyi... You are a beautiful young woman with an adoring husband. Pay no mind to rude, angry, unkind people; they are jealous of you. My son and daughter in law have been in your situation for seven years. They too have very bad low days. Sometimes it's difficult to wait on "God's timing." But I promise you, whether you have a child naturally, through IVF, foster care, adoption. No matter how, you both are emotionally empowered by this time of waiting and will be the best parents EVER. Don't lose faith, don't listen to the jealous people, try to focus on each other, and I'm pretty sure you're not Catholic but, a Hail Mary prayer to the Holy Mother couldn't hurt. If nothing else, it will help you realize that even the Blessed Mother suffered unimaginable grief when she lost her son. Stay blessed both of you and remain a unified force❤❤
U are going to have a beautiful daughter, with beautiful eyes like yours. Am sorry for all that went through, God is faithful and he will do it. In Jesus name!!! Remember Hana, the mother of Samuel ❤
My dear Akinyi God got you, don't give up. I didn’t get pregnant until after 8 years in my marriage,and i lost that baby. I got pregnant again two later and i lost that baby again. After losing both babies i gave on having a child but God said no. I gave up but God did not. So when I least expect it after 12 years of marriage i got pregnant again. This year my beautiful princess will be 15 years old. I give God all the praise. Your day is coming. God got you and your dear husband 🙏. I will be praying for you both. Also i took alot of test too, so i know how you are feeling. God is in control 🙏
Yu are a strong gal Nyathiwa , remember hannah was blessed with a son at the rite time ...the bible says at his rite time God will make everything beautiful
The bible says "in his time" i battled unknown infertility from 2018 to 2021. I stopped going to the hospital and miraculously God did it. Am a mother of two boys now. Relax your miracles are on the way. God bless you. From Nigeria ❤
Dear sister i wish i could talk to you face to face ,it took me 19 years to conceive at 42 years,and if i have to tell you my journey it will take years,I just want to spiritually encourage make the prayer of Hannah your daily song,remain firm in the Lord i have been its not easy the bullying,the name calling etc,God will intervene in your situation your job is to trust and wait upon the Lord,may God renew your strength,praying for God's intervention upon your marriage.
Akinyi never loose hope am 42 no kids but i still say lord am waiting like any other woman. You are blessed and you will have kids as many as you wish my love
Akinyi the Lord will glorify Himself through you my love ♥️ I have 3 girls and let me tell you in 2005, the Doctor told me after a long struggle of wanting kids that I wont be able to get pregnant, again. I ddnt give up nor took that to my head coz I knew the one who created me is above it, I prayed to Him, trusted Him, Waited with so much Hope and in 2006 I got pregnant. Remember the Lord created us and gave us spouses to multiply, You must Stand on meditating the promises of God. 🙏 Don't be pressured by the people, the Lord will do it, At the Right Time I The Lord will do it. His Love is immeasurable, He cannot give u a marriage n doesn't bless u with a family neh that's not the kind of God we serve. Our only challenge is we are not patient to wait upon the Lord. Loads of Love 🇧🇼🇧🇼
My sister please use this time you are crying to praise and worship if God promise you he will do it forget about busy bodies God's is working in his own time he will make all things beautiful
This has touched me. I was married in 2011 and my husband and I tried for 8 years, had 7 miscarriages and 1 still birth. Then we went to do IVF (@age 44) when it came time to harvest my eggs, we found out that we were pregnant. We had our healthy daughter in 2019 (@age 45) . So hold on, God would see you through. I had to let go and let God because we were doing the constant testing, and the positive tests were scary too because we would lose our children during 10 th- 14th week of pregnancy. God really held my mind during all those years and all that loss. Hang on my sister. God is love ❤️ and you will be OK.
@aishagordon9693 your story resonances with mine . Am married 6 years and 10 years together. 3 miscarriages and 1 still birth at 26 weeks pregnant. No live children life is hard without a child in my life. I have hope God will bless me with children one day. Am 37years old. Sending u a big hug
@Growanywhere87 keep the faith and believe God. Let me tell you, I got discussed and had the nerve to tell God a few years into our journey that if I don't have a baby by 46, I am hanging it up. Then my husband and I stopped testing and tracking my ovulation because it was causing both of us to be so anxious and turning our sexlife into a chore. Then, we realized that God is a comedian. When we decided to spend $30G for ivf and we ended up getting pregnant naturally and having our healthy daughter 4 months and 6 days b4 my 46th birthday. So be encouraged and stay the course, pray and ask Him what His will is for your family. If not a child from ur womb, maybe a precious soul is in need of ur families' love and care that their biological can not provide. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
One of my Pastors got married and tried for years to have a baby, God being great as He is, they got pregnant after 10 years , blessed with a son and a daughter followed 3 years later, praying for you guys, love you so much ❤️🙏🏻
That the hardest journey ever, I'm telling you guys.I't took me 7 years to that battle.Thank God now he gift me with a boy,now he's 7 year old .He will bless you with babies.Stop taking pregnancy test,soo stressful.
Akinyi God will do it for you. He did it for me. Keep trusting Him and praising Him. He will do it when you least expect it. You are in my prayers and we love you
Akinyi Jaber and Benjamin! The season of children is coming! Just be still and know that he is God! He will do it for you! Don't cry and don't be stressed!
Dear Akinyi you are so strong to do this, documenting this journey without knowing the outcome or how long it will take is only for the brave hearts . My journey was for 8yrs and while it lasted I knew I am going to be a mom but I don't know the time cos God told me so. And as he told you you will be a mother YOU will definitely be one, be strong, stay strong and if you can, cut down on social media and focus more on your happiness. I am sending a prayer to you and Benjamin, baby dust ❤
Hi Akinyi. I hope you read this message. I am just Sharing an experience of what my friend has/is passed through. She's equally passing through infertility and I can't imagine how tough it is. In this case let us refer to her as Tracy. For luck of better words, when you try to sympathize for with Tracy, she will have this to say casually with a smile, " Irene I don't make children, I am not solely responsible. I have done my part, I do play sex, I have gone for all sorts of fertility checks, I have tried herbs, I have prayed and I have fasted, so if it is not happening there's nothing more I can do. That doesn't mean I will stop, I will continue doing what I can, what is within my means but at the end of the day, it's not entirely up to us to make it happen." As we speak the man has not been patient enough but rather went ahead to have a child with another woman, very horrible honestly. I don't know how she has managed to be resilient, live in the present but also have a smile regardless. My dear, I can't imagine how tough it is but I truly pray you become a mother soon. God's timing is not ours but I believe He will make everything beautiful for you and your family at the right time. Warm hugs to you Akinyi❤
Her husband had that child with his previous wife before he met Her not after meeting her . when she got married to him he already had that boy .So he didn't cheat on her and he has been through this with her, therefore he is so patient and trust God
@@myrnaanguili1883 eeeh my dear, I am thinking you didn't just get my message well otherwise I didn't insinuate that Akinyi's husband cheated, nothing like that. I was sharing a different fact.
@@myrnaanguili1883 my sister I didn't insinuate anywhere that Akinyi's husband cheated, not at all. I think you just didn't understand my sharing well.
Akinyi, you are an incredible woman, seeing these comments is heartbreaking, people often don't understand what others are going through, Am keeping you in my prayers Sweetheart, God's timing is the best. Much Love ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰
Yes Akinyi, God is doing something. I have been on this journey for 8 years and now I am a blessed mom to 2 wonderful boys. There will be this one day you and Benjamin are going to sing a joyful song. Sending prayers 🙏🏾
❤❤It is on this same channel that we will come and say congratulations Akinyi and Benjamin, when my God will finally do it...Every trial or test that we face especially as children of God is never in vain and the outcome is more beautiful than you can ever imagine.. It is hard to hear but wait patiently (I'm waiting with you) God is in the kitchen cooking something amazing.❤❤❤❤
Akinyi while you are struggling to get a baby some of us are struggling to get men to settle so please live things to the Lord Allah 😢😢😢 he has the best time
Akinyi you tell the meaners, haters and all the negative people out there to go 'jump in the lake'. We are all human and everyone has their season or is dealing with something. A real child of God knows that life is about being on the mountain, the valley, the hills etc. Yours just happened to come under this particular area. Furthermore, they can't handle their own lives but have the audacity to want to dictate to you ( criticizing, being mean etc ). I was glad at the end of the video when you started sharing God's word more and promises. Also, told them to shut up if they can't say anything positive. You hit it right on the nail when you said pray for you or simply just say nothing. Everything happens at the right time. You are going to be alright. God is going to put the devil to shame. He's working behind the scenes. Just keep trusting God and keep the faith.🙏❤️🩹
Shhh....This is not about u & finding your man. Learn to pray for others when they share their challenges & God will answer yours. This is Akinyi's story & not putting yours in the mix 😢
Do not mind those cruel words and negative people. God's grace and favor is with you. When the time is ripe songs of prayer will fill your mouth my dear! Just hang on there, it will happen!!!!❤❤❤
Be strong sweetheart …I have been there and I have seen God so a miracle when I least expected it. My baby girl is now one year en two months old …God is too faithful to disappoint…Your womb is blessed en will be fruitful
All I can say is that this is the realest TTC video have ever seen my heart goes for you my namesake also going through the same thing and I see myself through you .. literally me every month... fingers crossed for all of us woman who asked when our time will be😢 praying for you
Akinyi, don't give a platform to haters... for it is impossible to please everyone. Trust in God for he did it 2000 years ago, and he will do it again. Love you
I waited for 6 years and on the 7th year, God blessed me with a beautiful daughter. My darling Akinyi, I know it’s not easy when you go through these kinda phase in life, but one thing I will tell you is just try and make your self happy, don’t stress, don’t listen to what people say cos they must surely talk, learn to ignore, do all the necessary things you feel will help you out through this journey and leave the rest to God,I tell you at Gods time, it will happen, am a living testimony. Sending you hugs, if you need someone to talk to, am in phoenix as well, hit me up.❤
Sending you many many hugs..been there...married for 20yrs...blessed with only 1 child...it's been hard but I finally surrendered to God's will and wisdom..only He knows what's best for all of us.
Perhaps taking a social media break would help to reduce the stress coming from the nasty comments? I’m so sorry you’re going through such a tough time and for how long it’s lasting. Sitting in prayer with you to receive the blessing you have been praying for. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing this with us. I love how Benjamin has been so loving and reassuring throughout this journey. You’ve got a great partner in him Akinyi.
No one knows or understands infertility until you go through it personally. Judge not less he be judge. It can happen to anyone. Just keep praying 🙏🏾. GOD IS REAL, HE KNOWS, HE LISTENS, HE UNDERSTANDS AND HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH ❤❤❤
Relax my sister I was once in your shoes. although my was secondly infertility. But now am a mother of children. God will make it happen in his time. Don't loose hope it is settled.
Akinyi! Relax and don’t be too anxious! You just relax my sister! In His own time He makes things beautiful! He is too Faithful to fail you! And the bible continues to say He will never re - hold good things from those who walk upright 🙏🏽! Love ❤️
