Sex in relationships 3:13 Mindset for losing weight 7:43 Botox fillers and surgery 10:53 Pressure to have children 14:12 Being confident in yourself 18:05 Period. Love this chat Demi xx
I really feel like I needed to hear this. I always felt ashamed for not wanting children and felt like I had to have one because people EXPECT it from a woman. We need more Demi sit down chats because you’ve really made me feel so much better! 💜🌼
Period. Wow! How articulate are you? Nothing wrong with your speech! I’m so impressed at what you say ! So wise for a young woman. Everything you have said is true and you said it - not off a script- from the heart and mind. You should have your own programme and column . So natural, honest, true, current, you are wasted . Very talented . Enjoyed part one very much and looking forward to part 2 . Loved the fire in the background - felt comforting and homely which was right for the conversation.Thank you x
I absolutely love this type of video! It suits you as well Demi, you're so open and honest and talkative and you're discussing really important problems/subjects that a lot of us are dealing with. Sending love from the north east!! Period 💗
Absolutely agreed with everything you said in the video! I'm 26 and feel like I'm getting old and also being pressured into thinking about having kids, not just family asking but just general society xx 💓
Having children is the most fulfilling and beautiful thing in life. You will never feel love like it. Passing on your genes, continuing your family line is so important. Material things mean nothing and you see the true meaning of life when you look in your child’s eyes and realise nothing else matters apart from their future.
I’m 24 as well and I feel like I literally agree with everything you say. We’ve got a 5 year old with my husband but the questions “when’s the next one on its way” is so annoying. Just as having no children at all, it is fine to only have one. People need to stop asking “when will you have kids” as lots of people struggle with infertility too. Loved the video Demi!!! xxx
I never wanted children all the way through my twenties, but at 30 it was like a switch had been flipped, I had my son at 30 and my daughter at 32. I agree that we need to stop asking people. Whilst I have children, I totally understand why some people don't want children and respect it. On the weight issue I sound exactly like you Demi, the same issues,.food is the way I neglect myself and sabotage myself totally I am so chaotic around it.
Yes Demi!! Love the fire back ground setting and this whole girl chat vibe!!! I love your free spirit and positivity, switching channels has done you the world of good!! Xx
Hey just got to say I love your channel. You make me smile when I need to. I’m 41 have 5 children and would love another. There’s no right age to have a bubba just you know when your ready. But to share the experience with the person you love is the best feeling I the world. You’ve got soooo much to look forward to xxxxx
I’ve never wanted kids, and have always been pressured to. I’m told time and time again that I will change my mind, but I know in my heart that I won’t and I’m 100% fine with that. My life, my choices. Thank you for speaking about this. ❤️👌
hey demi, i have been overweight literally since i left the womb and over the past 6 years or so i’ve tried to diet so many times but i am a closet binge eater due to emotions or anxiety - i feel your pain! i finally cut the sh*t in january and TRIED and since i’ve lost 10kg, but i still do binge from time to time. the mindset is 100% the only way to do it, i’m with you and i’m sure so many others are! don’t beat yourself up i’m sure you’ll smash it x
I am currently doing slimming world. I have tried and failed so many times and alcohol became a real problem. I have been doing slimming world for 7 weeks now and am down one and a half stone so far. Really focused this time and doing it for the right reasons. Im more eating the right foods rather than stopping all the bad food. I have things I want in moderation and am exercising a bit more. This week I have stopped alcohol and have noticed a big difference in my mental health and general mood. xxx
Love this girl since I was born I've had anorexia as a baby I even refused food elbowing it away and was hospitalised at fifteen ten years on I still have negative thoughts everyday but I'm nowhere as bad as I was truly hear you on doing what makes you happy as in my teens that was my lowest point I never want to go back to 👏💖
Love this. Big thanks for bringing to attention that it aint no one's business if and when you have kids no one knows what other people are going through and if you don't them that's your choice and isn't affecting anyone else x
I'm coming 28 in June and I honestly I am in no rush to have children, me and my partner have been together for 8 years and we are enjoying "us time" to be honest. Last year I found myself questioning how I felt about waiting to have kids because of how other people said I should feel and found myself crying about it. But it's you, when or if you are ready for kids only you will know, nothing to do with anyone else, my partner made me realise this. ❤️
Loved this video Demi, the baby thing gets right on my nerves, my husband and I lost our first baby last summer after 4 years of trying (still no luck conceiving again yet either) and it was about a month later, someone my dad knows asked when we were going to have a baby and I said, if you don't know me well enough to know I recently miscarried then you definitely don't know me well enough to ask me those sort of questions. It soon shuts people up (eventhough I did spend about an hour after that crying 🙈😂) people really need to learn boundaries. Period. 💗💗
Feel this in my soul I’ve never liked kids or wanted to spend my money on them and people always say I’ll give in why can’t we just respect each other’s wishes 😂🙃
I lost over 6 stone a year ago - gained a few pounds over Christmas and can I loose them ? Hell no 😂😂 the mindset thing is so true !!! Even though I lost lots of weight 99.9% of all my diets have flopped 😂😂 you defo have to be in the right mindset !!
I don’t want kids (never had and now 28) but when I was younger I’d always be told ‘you’re young yet, you’ll change your mind’ Or once you’re married you’ll change your mind. I’m now married (2019) & people are still you’ll change your mind give it time! Or when you having children now you’re married. Like piss off. It’s the same bloody people mostly who say these things so just accept the answer!! rant over 🙈😂
I feel exactly the same with regards to children, when I was growing up I was never around children or babies, until I met my partner he has lots of nephews and nieces he has a big family were as I was an only child, but the pressure is overwhelming I am constantly being asked about when am I having a baby and I hate it when people bring it up, I just wish people would stop pressuring me.
😆 same on children !! I'm 36, absolutely no passion for children. I think anyone asking this question is hella nosey, doesnt add any value to the person asking
I had my baby a year ago and I felt so not confident in my own body but you make me feel amazing again and you make me smile everytime I see your name and a new video, thank you for being you. Period ❤️
I wish we could be best friends! You are so inspiring! I love the fact you don’t care and so comfortable in your own skin. I am trying to be more like you 💕 period.
Love this love how open you are with everything I’m sick of people asking about babies I have never wanted kids but I can’t now and it’s something that’s said a lot it’s so annoying also when you getting married is another one as we’ve had a long engagement too xxxx
You are motherly Demi, look how you are with your beautiful pups. It doesn't mean you want to have children though. That is your choice entirely. Having said that, I think you and Sean would make great parents xx
Always been open about sex too, with my kids, family, partner anyone. Im not ashamed to say my fiance and I havnt had sex for about a year and a half. Im bipolar with anxiety and depression and he has depression which really effects our sex life. Neither of us can be bothered. Kisses and cuddles and each others company mean so much more to us. We are totally faithful and open about it. We just have no sex drive but it may come back some day. Have been together for just over 9 years and are soul mates. xxx
I haven’t caught up with your videos in ages ! And you look so lovely Demi, your skin looks amazing and glowing ! Hope you have both settled into your lovely new home and you are happy. Will watch the video now, thank you huni buns 🥰🥰
*just had a peek at your collaboration with IWOOT and wow I love it, love the pink cherub cushion and coasters, I am going to treat myself and get them on payday ! Thank you 😊 xx
I get you about the motherly thing. With me I did want children. I have one now and want another one but I'm just not overly motherly. It doesn't make sense to me tbh that I'm not motherly but want them. I just get overly broody. I'm not a massive children person which is weird because I've worked in primary schools and have done a really good job. It's weird and I can't explain it lol!!
Hey Demi you are beautiful girl woman life is to short to have lots worries You are such an inspiration Keep being you ! Deep conversation is a positive thing. Love you bits xx
I had a miscarriage after my fiance died. When me and my now husband got together I was mid thirties we tried and couldn't have children. We have r fur babies and people still keep saying to us we would be perfect parents because we spoil the fur babies and i was a 1st year teacher for 10 years i love kids. And yes its painful when everyone keeps asking why didnt you have children you should have kids. Uuurrr
Demi do you mind if i throw a general question out there to who ever wants to answer? Basically the question is 'Do you believe in long term partnership really last? ' long term being 20 plus years, is it really possible to maintain that level of interest in someone or is it a case of the better the devil you know? People often get together maybe in their 20s or 30s, is it possible to still be in that zone with the same person all those years later?
Hi Demi Glad you brought up the when are you having children question / topic even tho I have a son ( had him at 27 ) i always get asked if I’m going to have another one from people that don’t know my situation and also get why when I tell them that I won’t be having more due to operations xx
Love videos like this, love your honesty a lot of people my age are having kids, at 22/24 i cannot see kids in my life till at least 30 or even 33🤷🏽♀️😂
Omg the children topic! I know people don't mean any harm by asking and for them it's just normal chatter but you shouldn't ask! Sick to death of it. It happens all the time when you're in a long term relationship. It makes me feel like there's something wrong with me for not wanting any kids right now when actually I don't have to want kids because i'm a woman. If a man said he didn't want kids nobody would bat an eyelid.
