Quick clarification: This video is only in relation to Amber's recent content, it is by no means meant to be a deep dive or a summary of her activity online in the past notorious years. I spoke about her a few years ago as mentioned, and I recently checked back in to see what was what. I am aware not everyone is filled in on Amber's past, regarding allegations she's made as well as behavior that's been described as abusive, and claims that she's a narcissist. As I was only covering the recent updates, I did not delve into these past significant issues and events. This video was specifically made to discuss why viewers are upset with her *now* .
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I like the clarification. (And I know you made a video previously) But you cannot talk abt Amber without taking in her past behaviors. People don’t talk abt her bcuz she fails diets and is morbidly obese. Yes, people are angry/upset about that. But we talk abt her bcuz of her animal neglect, her abuse, her narcissistic behaviors, her false rape accusation, deadnaming her ex REPEATEDLY, transphobia, sexual comments about then minor Billie eilish, hypocrisy, lying about being bed bound, and many more appalling things. People who poke fun of AL are not fatphobic. It is not about her being morbidly obese and not sticking to her words. It is abt the above mentions. If you are new to the amberverse “hater nation” and want to get a glimpse of the real AL, watch her break up videos with Becky. Then, watch reaction channels. Instead of giving her views, you can just watch compilations of her lying to, manipulating, and belittling everyone around her. She is not a good person.
The horror of having your ex talk about you this way without your consent to their audience of hundreds of thousands of people. Online creators who do this have lost all sense of empathy and their morals have been heavily compromised by whatever level of success they have. The lengths they go to for views, without caring about the real people they hurt is mind-boggling.
@@Ninja-ty4lw Why do I find that an overwhelming majority of self proclaimed "empaths" are just egotists that actually lack empathy, yet want the label attached to themselves anyway because of the positive connotations?
She's an empath...and telling her Anything contrary to what she wants to do...is "Taking away from her experience"-- it's literally groundhogs day Lynn
People are tired of being lectured by her... shifting blame to the audience and other people in general is becoming ridiculous. She's been absolutely cruel to Becky publicly for far too long, too.
I can’t believe the size, shape and color of the ring box bothered her so much. Like what the hell does she want? A mansion? Diamonds? If my person just knelt with a ring and asked that special question I’d be so happy.
Yep and she’s proving it. If we believe what she says about her losing the weight she has (last time I saw it was like 485lbs) then all she is doing is absolutely proving the fact the smaller she gets, the nastier she gets. Shading and spiting on Becky, constantly focusing on the haters and negative comments, blaming everyone but her etc.
She uses her weight as an excuse to do and say problematic things. She will get caught in a lie, and the person who caught her is fat phobic in her eyes.
It needs to be mentioned that a content creator "LifeByJen" has recently passed away due to her weight. She and Amberlynn were peers in this community and her passing should be a wakeup call
It should also be a wake up call to the people creating videos about these women. Their issues are so serious that they’re detrimental to their life. Do people seriously think that constant cruel comments and making judgemental content about them is going to help? Jen is clear proof that it didn’t.
Don't forget that she also recently said that she doesn't believe Stevie wonder is really blind which is egregious considering how angry she is when people speculate about her cancer. She is a hypocrite. Its not right in either situation.
Becky had previously said that they both agreed not to discuss each other, and that she’s struggling quite a bit currently and wishes nothing more than to move on from that part of her life. That’s why it felt so cruel to me. Additionally, Amber has a current girlfriend who does not appear on the channel because she wants to protect her wishes…..so she can afford her girlfriend respect but not Becky.
@@READYTOGLARE I believe Becky also stated similar in a reply to a comment. They already had to make two videos countering a couple of lies Amber told. Yet Amber thought, yes let me tell the supposed engagement story I originally didn't want to talk about.
I think the true downward spiral between amber and the audience really kicked off when she describes Twinkie as shaking in pain and whimpering….and so she went out to Chili’s with friends.
Then Michael B Petty (a reaction channel) searched up a vet near that Chili’s AND it was only 1km or so away from the Chili’s 💀 honestly when I found this out I was livid since I own a dog
The sad part about Becky proposing, is how she was clearly always in competition throughout the relationship with Destiny. She probably thought that she wanted to “fix” Ambers pain by proposing on a day that was clearly very significant for her. Becky clearly cared and loved Amber, even after Amber admitted to loving someone else for the first almost 2 years. For Amber to humiliate Becky by “exposing” the way she proposed is gross. It’s not tea, it’s not just a story-time. It was vindictive, cruel and borderline bullying.
What I can't stand the most about her is her relentless bullying of Becky. She came out with this story after dragging her on ig and blaming her for not getting treatment for her cancer fast enough by saying "my current gf would have forced me to go to the dr". (Nvm the fact that her gf tried to make her go to the dentist recently and she wouldn't go until she wanted to go). But Becky gave up time with her dying mom to take care of Amber in every way after her diagnosis. So her trying to embarass Becky like this is after blaming her for her cancer is cruel and mean and abusive.
ALR claiming people wouldn’t support her if she lost weight is ridiculous. Literally, the reason she has most of her viewers is because they *wanted* to see her successfully lose weight.
She has also said “when I lose weight, I get positive support. When I suddenly binge, I get negative feedback. But when other RU-vidrs binge...” like she was THIS CLOSE to realizing that her audience actually cares for her even when she’s shit to them but she decides to look into the whole “woe is me, i am not supported like other RU-vidrs that make honest mistakes and have normal setback unlike me, who lives in a vicious cycle created by me”
Let’s be real, her most viewed videos are the ones when she’s at her worst- people love drama, yes they want her to lose weight but when she starts doing so and starts being not problematic then no one is going to care anymore
@@oncefighting She also compares herself to Mukbangers and how they’re allowed to eat a lot of food but she isn’t, but they usually aren’t 500 pounds and on a weight loss journey. They eat like that 1x every few weeks, and if they’re consistently eating like that they become nikacado. It’s like she forgets she’s on a weight loss journey and is mad when people point that out. 🙃
No it isn't. People watch her because they want to see the cycle she starts to diet doesn't finish it rinse and repeat. It's not too far off to say that if she actually got on track she would lose views. Y'all love to pretend that everyone is so supportive of her, and this isn't to defend her, but be real most people hate her not only for her attitude which is valid but because of her weight most people are just being gross to her because she's big.
@@blueismylove3128 it’s obvious you’re not very familiar with me and the comments I leave about ALR. That being said, nowhere did I say “everyone supports her”. I have, however, been a member of the Amberverse long enough to know that the majority of people that watch *her* videos (not reaction channels or compilation videos), at the very least, started because they wanted to see her succeed in weight loss. Even now, it’s safe to say a large portion of “haydur nation” would be thrilled if she managed to lose a lot of weight and keep it off.
In her most recent "So Raw" video she names three conspiracy theories she believes to be true and the last one is that she doesn't believe that Stevie Wonder is "acshually blind." Literally, my mouth fell open... I didn't think she could become anymore of a terrible person, but here she is doubting someone's disability when she harped on and on about being "literally disabled," when she twisted her ankle.
Are we gonna forget about how she said she has to recover from it (and I quote, 6-8 weeks minimum recovery time) but when she didn’t get the sympathy she wanted she miraculously can stand up and try out clothes after 2-3 weeks? 🤯🤯🤯 She really amped it up and made it sound like she broke her entire leg (“it was dangling” “the sound my ankle made”) when it was probably just a sprain
She’s becoming insufferable I definitely think she’s mirroring her new girl friends personality. It’s not a stretch considering she mirrored her partners in past relationships. After the break up Becky got support and she was salty about it and has been dragging her ever since.
Think maybe mirroring her gf. Her voice is deep now she talks in a different tone every video. She is pretty different in tht sense. Her attitude and more attack mode and her voice is changed.
@@mamamoonxo5081 I agree. Like you don’t go to that after speaking with a southern accent for years while living in the same place. It’s either that or maybe she’s being herself and showing her true colors finally
@@SpacecowboiKilu her true colors are literally just her in livestream era. honestly her mirroring her gf and nothing else is sad af, she doesn’t have any friends or family so she just adapts her gf’s personality and becomes co-dependent with her. Case and point, Krystal, Destiny, and Becky.
She's been despicable and vile lately. I'm so tired. She's blamed her ex-gf for not taking her to see the doctor before she got diagnosed with cancer even though she's said no one can force her to do anything. She's apologized to Nader Elshamy (another RU-vid, abuser of Foodie Beauty) for calling him a narcissist just to get attention, and Foodie's called her out. She's been false striking reaction channels. Now she's getting into reaction channel's DMs to keep her narrative going. And the latest is her accusing Stevie Wonder of faking his blindness and, in the same breath, blaming her audience for "dehumanizing" her, yet she dehumanised SW.
I’ve been in the community since 2016 and this is truly her at her very worst. It’s almost like she (or Jade) is determined to kill off her channel for good. Tbh I think she’s got it coming. The gravy train for Ms Reid is coming to an end.
It would be great if you could do a video on Foodie Beauty and all the awful stuff with Nader Elshamy. People are finally starting to notice and he needs to face some sort of consequences
If she took a salt grains worth of responsibility for herself maybe people would take her seriously, the tiniest bit of accountability would help so much, but here she is again, talking about being Dehumanized because people don't agree with her, because people treat her like the troll she is self proclaimed to be...idk how anyone could take her seriously.
In one video she spends time talking about how she is "dehumanized" and then goes on to allege a black disabled man is lying about his disability. She's a terrible person. Has nothing to do with her weight. She humiliated her Ex who sacrificed a lot to help Amber. The list can go on and on.
She lost viewers because she HASNT lost weight. She hasn’t taken any serious steps to heal. The majority of the “haters”, are people who empathized with her struggles. But they fought their way to get help and begin healing. These are people who do not have the privilege to make two BEYOND subpar videos a week, and make tens of thousands of dollars a month. People met their breaking point on caring. And we all know that people learn not to share/waste their energy on things that do not uplift, educate, or truly entertain them. Her audience is healing without her, and outgrowing her. Amber will never heal, because she refuses to accept a single twinge of reality. The reality is, NOBODY CARES ANYMORE LOL. People rubberneck every now and then, but it’s solely to see if she’s still here, and despite their wishes for a change, they quickly concede that NOTHING has actually happened in the last ten years.
She has lost views cause everyone watches reaction channels out of spite. They get more views than Amber herself. Amber still very much has viewers and people that are way too invested in her life.
I agree with you but she has recently lost over 100lbs and good for her. With that said, most people dislike her because she a very hypocritical entitled person. She will cry fowl if someone questions her health (which is understandable) but in the same breath just recently said she believes Stevie Wonder isn’t blind. Is it dumb? Yes. But it’s a small example of how rules for thee not for me is Amber’s moto. Not to mention the whole “dehumanizing” bit she’s going on about lately. While there are folks that are still waiting for access to clean water, AmberLynn Reid is being dehumanized by TikTok because she doesn’t appear on their search engine but Eugenia Cooney does. She’s awful
It’s not even because she hasn’t lost weight. It’s her attitude. She’s mean to her viewers and insults them, mean to her exes, mean to medical professionals, mean to anyone who disagrees with her. She knows better than train a professionals and it’s better than her audience. Spends money on useless stuff then complains she can’t afford medical treatments. Refuses to go to therapy and fix her issues and even makes fun of those who do. Wants to be seen as a guru when she has no idea what she stalking about. There are entire compilations about her lies, gaslighting, and poor behavior. She’s also become even more boring, she never goes anywhere or does anything or have hobbies that she shares (unless you count already put together legos) THIS is why she’s loosing her audience
And Amber lies and manipulates information to make herself the victim so much, just in the last episode of “So Raw” she said TikTok is putting a warning when you search it on the VIDEO tab (a name that she shares with a 18+ movie star), and them says they didn’t censor other people by searching in the NAME tab, like of course you’re getting different results about having a warning when you search in different tabs
You know what the best part of that is? She got a cease and desit letter FROM that actress like three years ago now! It's why she changed her name on RU-vid
Her account is hard to find because she went viral for saying a racial slur. Bob The Drag Queen posted a reaction to it and she was mass reported for her racism. She is, however, convinced that it's fatphobia 🙄
Zachary Michaels just did a video and proved that you CAN search her name on TikTok....she purposely spelled her name wrong to manipulate her audience yet again. She searched 'AMBER LYNN REID' instead of 'AMBERLYNN REID' to get the screenshot she needed to maintain her victim status. What a bitch.
Ugh, thank you so much for covering this. People don't judge Amber for her weight, they judge her for trolling with her weight. She treats the people in her life so poorly and views herself as a perpetual victim.
I used to support Amber but for the last little while she's been so smug about everything. I don't know if it's her mirroring the new gf or the fact she's losing weight on Ozempic, but between that, the pitying herself for views and the Becky battering I'm completely done with her.
She's fighting the affects of Ozempic by eating through the nausea. She's definitely dropped that psychologist she loved so much and doing nothing about her eating habits. Keeps snacks on deck in the house, buying them in general.
It's very telling that January 13th was still a big deal for her. If I was completely in love, enough so that I'd be willing to get married, I wouldn't care about the day my previous partner broke up with me
Amber - wants to put her health first and not the money Also Amber - continues to not even try to lose weight because she’s scared of losing followers. Make it make sense
Yep And she wants to be treated well, encouraged, like a queen. But she bullies harass and drags anyone and everyone. She doesn’t want to get bullied for being fat but bullying blind people ( Stevie wonder) and other larger people.
She's just a flat out nasty person, and completely unaware, which makes her unbearable. Edit to add, Becky has asked Amber many times to stop talking about her, blaming her for questioning her sexuality, and saying that Becky didn't care that she was sick. THAT is why this particular video got the reaction it did. ALR's response to Becky's request for privacy was to tell the engagement story.
Yes, Amberlynn, caring about your partner and trying to change a date that's hard for you, is soooo weird😑😑 I feel so bad for Becky. She deserves so much better.
12:09 it was without Becky's consent. She's bad mouthed Becky a lot without telling her she was going to talk about her. They had an actual agreement. "You don't talk about me and I won't talk about you" deal. But Amberlynn broke it constantly. That's why a lot of her viewers are turning on her.
the steve wonder stuff was my last straw with her. not the pity parties, not the lying, not the gaining. how dare she even insinuate that someone isn’t disable for shit and giggles
Honestly, I'm just sick of her behavior and continuous lying. Amber needs to realize that the "haters" are 90% just people that are fed up with her attitude and lies. Some of these people are even old supporters.
Well another reason ppl are pissed about the proposal story is that at the time it happened, she went on and on about how cute it was, how much she loved it, and that she was keeping it private bc it was such a special moment to her
I’m a ALR reactor and I can honestly say that the main thing right now for her is she feels she is being dehumanized by her audience and most importantly, reaction channels. She has been dehumanizing herself for years and now she’s bemoaning her past actions that have led her to this point. Then there is the fact that she has constantly been shading her EX Becky when Becky just wants to be left alone.
It's wild to me that she claims she is being dehumanized because her audience is telling her what they want/don't want her to talk about. I had to laugh when she got mad at us because no one wanted to hear her talk about politics. Like gorl, We are living in the most politically divisive time in American history. You are the LAST person, I want to hear from. She couldn't even find Russia on a map.
I knew she was full of it every time she quit a diet after only a few hours. Not to mention she’s trying to lose weight but CONSTANTLY doing mukbangs and candy tasting. She’s trolling, she knows what she’s doing But it went to a whole new level when her dog woke up one morning and couldn’t walk or move. Instead of taking the dog to the vet she went shopping and out to dinner. She claimed there was NO emergency vet in her area. There were TWO 24/7 emergency vets in her area. One of which was up the street from the Chili’s where she had dinner. Also she drove 2 hours to go to the Cheesecake Factory. There was NO REASON that dog didn’t get medical attention
I understand that some people are legitimately not able to get in a car and take their pets to emergency care due to low funds and the like, but someone who makes a steady income and has a car really does not have an excuse. I would drive for any length of time if my pet was in need of any urgent vet visit. She clearly does not care about anyone other than herself.
No one wants to hear someone complain all the time and then make no effort to solve the problems they're complaining about. I guess we are all guilty to some degree, but at least some of us can see that about ourselves and stop ourselves from taking it too far.
Oh julia, my deepest condolences. Know that your life has a purpose and life is beautiful through everything it shows you. Love is powerful and exists in many different forms. We love you.
You can't get empathy, kindness, patience and consideration if you yourself posess none of those qualities... she receives the energy that she puts out there and has many times shown how much of a heartless malevolent person she was. I think her feeling entitled to good treatment no matter her actions, and choices is the biggest showcase of her narcissism so far. (Edit): There also were outlets out of youtube for people to share their frustration and they all were shut down coincidentally after Amber went on a strike spree. This is the main reason why the views are down but she will never give credit to the majority of her audience (people that are rightfully critical of her) and the reaction channels for her income and her survival in relevancy.
I love when my worlds collide. As a certified member of Gorl World, it is refreshing to hear an outside perspective, or the view of someone who isn't active in livestreams. There is a lot of drama within the reaction channels, so I enjoy hearing a summary regarding only her current content. Edit: Though by no means am I invalidating Gorl fans who don't participate in the chat ❤ I know I've seen Giulia in a livestream before and I love that the interests in true crime and mukbangers interacts.
Amber has gotten outrageous lately. Totally toxic, doesn't want to take responsibility for herself or her actions. Throwing Becky under the bus during the first "So Raw episode" really exposed her true colors more than usual. All Amber cares about is Amber.
becky can talk about her experience with amber while not embarrassing her or even saying personal stuff yet make the picture clear yet amber has to once again try to make fun of becky. it’s possible to talk about past partners in human way
In her recent video, she said she didn't believe Stevie Wonder is blind. If we're going to talk about making others feel dehumanized and belittled, I think she should start within. Additionally, the way she treats her partners and pets I cannot condone. She is abusive and manipulative and the way she talks about her current ex angers me. Becky is not a perfect person, but they really cared for Amberlynn and wanted to move on with their life. Becky lost their mother and couldn't even grieve properly while being in a relationship for Amberlynn. If someone told me that they could not grieve properly because of me, that would make me look for ways to be a better person. What does Amberlynn do? She blames Becky and pulls the victim card where SHE is the victim. Let's not forget the fact that Becky tried to break up with her in 2019 and Amberlynn REFUSED and said Becky's brain "wasn't working right." She is more worried about viewership than her own health. RU-vid careers rarely last. She has had ten years to save money, find new passions and potentially find another career. Instead, she's in the same spot she was when she started, maybe worse considering she cannot for the life of her take accountability for her own life. If you want to be treated a certain way, your actions must reflect what it is you deserve. She doesn't want to put in the work and talks frequently about being a troll and trolling her audience. What does she expect? Her audience is a reflection of her content.
I could careless about her size. It's her attitude that just burns my biscuits. She doesn't want people to be harsh with her but she's just hateful to others.
omg I literally started watching Oh Lordy It’s Jordy and Zachary Michael in the last MONTH, they both cover Amberlynn in detail and now YOU come out with a vid!! this is faith, or if DESTINY if you will (; sry lmao
Most of her videos: Amber: (every video) Lets talk about just Me..me ..me , Becky, me, me, me, Becky, me me, also me ...me? Also Amber: Its not my fault - I don't know why everyone hates me - I've never done anything wrong.
I wonder if Becky felt belittled or dehumanized when amber shared a vulnerable and private moment with hundreds of thousands of people online in a very negative light
In her newest video she also talks “fun” conspiracy theories she believes in. Then says she believes Stevie Wonder is faking being blind cause he tried to grab a falling mic. So she is proving to be ableist. Most people who react to her comment on her personality. Her weight is irrelevent.
She’s back in my recommended after a year! Autumn is definitely the ALR season. Her videos were a massive part of my October/November/December last year so it’s so weird to see her again after not watching her for so long!
She recently blamed Becky for her cancer diagnosis. She didn't state that fully, but it was very much implied. I believe the best thing for her is for no one to talk about her anymore. Amber doesn't deserve money(from yt) and a platform.
@@clioalexandra6485 I only watch her through reaction channels as well, but I'm beginning to feel like even that is giving her too much attention and insensitive to continue making content.
@@MrsMars5 I get you. There's been a lot of talk about that. I think it's only a matter of time before the ALR community falls off and people stop watching her all together
It Amber's attitude that turns people against her, I supported her years ago but the self pity and victim mentality just made me not like her. I have an ED (bulimia) I grew up in care system from the age of 5, yet I never act like a victim I never blame my behaviour on my childhood or trauma, so watching ber is infuriating for me. And I get people handle trauma differently but it obvious ALR just wants to avoid responsibility.
Omg I have never been so early to any video.I got the ready to glare video notification. I said work who? Is she I don’t know her, I gotta get on RU-vid
Having an engagement fall through especially since we lived together was extremely painful and felt very much like a divorce. Thanks for acknowledging that an engagement falling through is very painful and hard.
Thank you for covering this. been out of the loop for a while,and yes that engagement video CROSSED the line, sort of gave me the ick. Anyway, glad to see your putting content out again. Hope you’re doing okay ❤
Becky would not have consented to the proposal story being told. As a matter of fact, Amber and Becky agreed MONTHS ago to a "you don't talk about me, I won't talk about you" deal. When Amber posted this video basically all of her viewers were screaming at her to just stop talking about Becky, because Becky had made it very clear that they didn't want Amber to talk about them.
I just can't with her. I used to damn near be her size and im in a Medium or Small now. Life changes need to made and her sittin' around not getting serious, trying on plus sized clothing and doing junior high school activites in every facet of her life isn't relatable to anybody. She has like no target audience outside trolls. She needs a complete overhaul. In everything.
i really don’t understand why she still thinks people would leave if she would become skinny bc her character would stay toxic and she would only be getting standing ovations after years of chaos. there is no lose in winning your health
