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Bingo

These comment needs alot more likes so truth

That’s the truth

Tell that to all the women who have been betrayed by men. It certainly doesn't feel like unconditional love. If a man is a good father his children will love and respect him.

@@Mmmmkaaay the amount of betrayed women in comparison to the amount of men loved on that condition is inconsequential. The amount of betrayed women is a low percentage of the female population. The amount of men loved conditionally is the vast majority of the male population.

Mine was older and more worldly. She told me I should head to the hospital and check myself in, then she ghosted me.

Hope your still here

@@savagesalvage9449 probably more to that story then you told

but its ok to be weak, we all need help to be strong

@@WorldKeepsSpinnin What a goofy thing to say. You mind showing your work so the rest of the class can follow along?

we literally cannot win either way we’re screwed

@@ctg5679 thanks to modern radicals.

@@asificam1 women say kill all men, at this rate that my happen, anyone who opens up about suicide is stronger than they were before, men go through so much, just as well as women, everyone should be treated equally in an emotional level, because this isn't the 50s, we can all grow and become better, its not to late to change and grow, and you need to open up because later on you will realize that you made a great decision and you realize that you are worth something and you are stronger, as i found out.

I've use to be suicidal. I never did it for attention, I kept it a secret and once I tried to open up about my suicidal feelings, I was told I was a little b*tch. After awhile I stopped giving a sh*t if people seen me having suicidal signs. Now that after all those situations I've been through, I value everyone's problems no matter how small it was.

Hey stop right there, you can't have it both ways. Gosh men are so selfish

Bro this is the realest comment I’ve seen. Really hits hard..

Oh i thought he intentionally went somewhere remote to commit suicide, so that he wouldn't bother anyone. That's what I would do. I didn't think he did it in his bedroom and no one visited him. Since he worked as a doctor, the hospital must have notified someone that he hadn't been going to work.

Been struggling with schizoaffective disorder for 6 years. I want my ending to be either the ultimate victory over my disease or the greatest tragedy ever. I'm confused about what option should I choose, as if I'm in a video game

@@arnoldronald3044 accept yourself even if no one else does. Remember no1 really has the easy road maybe just the illusion of it. Remember that you have a gift to offer the world & become more of a human being than a human doing. It’s a huge problem in delusional societies that our worth is evaluated by what we achieve etc… this is more lies to keep society a certain way & keep people lined up like sheep. Be yourself speak up it’s going to get better for you.

RIDICULOUS. You DIDN'T know him

This needs to be top comment.

That's deep

*O o f*

Whoa heavy

He was alone...

Yo I’m vibing here, and am in fact female

That's why i clicked on it.

David Smith Same thing.

Congratulations, you are correct

nah just binging tedtalks

That is simply not true.

Woman like destroyin men

@Bleed The Machines Those men don't take any responsibility for their own lives and actions. Instead they blame everything on government and women.

@@nickidaisyreddwoodd5837 ya'll are dense judging dudes off of a pretty funny Bill Burr joke.

Notsonorm Exactly!

No. Sometimes you go to work, you have a chat with your coworkers, you have a good job - but at the end... you are alone. Truly alone at the end. And nobody care about your mental issues if you are a man. Nobody. And that is... painfull to see and experience. I can only repeat what I have written before, sorry to repeat myself: "What working for multiple organizations/corporations have shown me... is that nobody cares about it. Not at the workplace, even when talking to your co-workers during day to day, or coffee chats in the kitchen, or even in any official way (via yearly compulsory tests, such as you sometimes have to do on year to year basis). None of that covers any mental issues. None. And I've worked with a lot of them. And that is not even opening a box of how socifty, or official organizations are treating that. Good luck with getting a proper mental care, or approach... without money. Really good luck with it, as it simply wont happen. Nobody cares. At the end of the day, the system is not designed to care as such. Never has been. You want care? You have to pay. And it is as simple as that."

The real joke is that you think its about men's issue, when its clearly just a virtue signal

Oof

that is the best comment I’ve read

I've had worse.

@@விஷ்ணு_கார்த்திக் pretty sure mens suicide rate is a mens issue...

@Itima Ramon You dont know what their intentions are tho, they have a right to act like you're a crazo. You could be a stalker for one

i like that quote

@Itima Ramon Just please dont try to be philosophical and 'woke', it's cringy

@Itima Ramon Keep searching bois, we gotta find out who asked

@@schematic2684 You are probably one of the reasons that people commit suicide.

I am a 22 male in a small town in Iowa. I do not have a gf and every time I interact with a female roughly my age. I get the feeling whenever I interact with anyone like that, they think I am trying to date them and get into a relationship and with that they treat me cold and don't give me basic respect. Makes one really depressed.

@@TeddyABear u gotta get jacked and good looking. Then they will thank u

Georgian Wolf Or get rich 🤷‍♂️ them gold diggers wild

´"Men can´t understand beauty, so women have to restrain from showing their beauty, thus men will not be abble to cope with it, and it is womens responsability", wich they do not clearly own.

Kohl ツ Women also don’t understand how little human contact single men have on a constant basis. Been single the last two years, most I’ve gotten is a handshake. Physical contact is essential for mental and physical health.

cap

agreed, everyone wants us to open up but then we're ridiculed for being sensitive and weak.

That says so much about where society has failed.

@@artdirector500 I believe him, my experience is the same when it comes to discussing negative feelings. Take your cap back and eat it.

@@_Meriwetherbecause you don’t have good friends. There are people who care. The people you’re talking to now aren’t your friends

Yep

Bitches do that!! Never let them in!!

I consider very carefully everything I say to a woman.

Happened to me, too. That woman was my then wife.

@@Slynsmiley Damn. Even marriages.

You know you're suicidal when you're starting looking for reasons to live

Ironicly enough, sometimes this mentality may lead to great achievements and self revelation, not always but sometimes great things come out of dropping your ego.

Which are plenty.

@@nomad8166 yea at first I was gonna kill myself but now I think I'm gonna murder someone instead

triledink my husband committed suicide on March 25th 2019. I found him dead in our bed.(he overdosed on antipsychotic meds) It was a selfish act to not even think about myself or the kids. I’m so angry because there is so much help for people today yet he chose to kill himself🤦🏿‍♀️😢

Publius Velocitor I hate how this is true😔

I'm really worried about what type of people you're surrounded by

Correct, they would not listen to him. The feminists in the room only care when high value men (who create wealth such that women can consume it) commit suicide. Otherwise, its crickets. They just don't care. And they would rather the low value men commit suicide because that is less money the feminists must pay (in taxes) to support these low value men the instant they no longer want-to/can provide resources.

@@MrAsyo1 society?

@@eachdaybetterthanthenext5567 People around me actually think

Sometimes that won’t even help you, I’ve got all those and I still feel this way, idk the answer but it’s not those

What is your IQ?

​@@Null4eva -10000

I envy those north sentalise people

Men would trade almost everything for that, women are literally living a mans fantasy and women STILL find time to complain and get annoyed when we say they have things easier, they genuinly dont understand though, they assume all guys are good with women , because, think about it, the only guys who get women ARE good with women else they wouldnt get them, so women think all guys dont have any problems seducing women. They just dont understand that the majority of males are not good at pick up and get rejected by women all the time.

@Heartslove 3 satan is already here why should we wait.

@Heartslove 3 i just want you to know that i did not read your comment Your efforts are pathetic and in vain chaos is coming, hail to the fallen angel

Lmfao wtf is this reply section but I agree with op

Yeah, because women hate men.

@Heartslove 3 hail to the fallen angel

I'm glad you are no longer talking to her! your feelings are valid and I hope you'll get the help you deserve.

There are people who listen and who care, just wanted you to know that

wow that hit close to home, thank you

Very common with women in Finland.

Same bro that’s why I’m here

Probably think they should be dead when the girl blames them for her problems.

Men need to unite and fight this stereotype

Men are expendable. If we want to be valued, we must do something that causes other people to value us. That isn't a bad thing. In fact, it's a powerful driver of success and innovation. See it as a challenge, not as an indictment of your worth. Comparing men to women in this way is like comparing apples to oranges. Men can't give birth, so they have to provide value in other ways.

@@paulkerrigan9857 dont u understand? You're the exact reason society is like this.

@@grossly820 you never know... your prayers might be answered.

I know that feeling, desperately Need and want someone to talk to or just sit with but everybody is so busy with whatever , and maybe even then telling you how and where to look for making new friends... Anyways, know that I feel you and you are not alone with being left alone, maybe in that we can gain strength?

Damn

That is something!!

I would hug you strong ❤

I called my mother about me getting her car. I didnt like the way she communicated about IT with my father and stood Up for myself. I told her that I feel Like they are talking over my head. She acted like I was being ungrateful I guess she wasnt even hearing me. Then I told her me being miserable and that No one hears what I am saying ever, Like the past 32 years of my life. This was about a Week ago. I havnt Heard anything from her since. Am I just being childish or is it okay to be hurt?

I am 68yo today Oct 16th BTW. In that time I have heard of what real men are from every woman I have ever dated at one time or another. They were all wrong. I am now MGTOW and have learned what real men are. I have also learned what real woman are like. There is no more confusion about women. They are easy to understand. Yet, I don't hate women, I understand them.

Sorry dude. You deserve better anyways.

Gregory Wilkinson Never be afraid to be yourself, your insecurities make you interesting

You didn't deserve that, and being hurt by that is okay. The general concepts of "men" and "women" have lead us all astray. Truly, most people are broken in our current world. We have too many old expectations and rules, and so few genuinely good examples. Never lose your ability to be yourself, because the more you do it, the more you let go of expectations for others on how they see you, and expectations of the outcomes of your genuine expression, then you can grow. You owe yourself that much. To grow you inner self and find more genuine people to connect with. There's no instant gratification to this, but it's the only way true way to fill up that hole in our souls. One shovel of progress at a time.

I think you misunderstand what most women want when they ask you to be open, talk about your problems and show your emotions. You can do these things but you have to remain in control. You have to have control over your emotions and you have to make it clear that you are not overwhelmed or broken by your problems and ideally are working on solving them. If she perceives that you've lost control or have broken under the pressure she will lose interest. You can be vulnerable but you must always be strong and in control. That is practically and by the signals that you send her. She never wants to see you as weak or incompetent because she will not respect such a man.

You can't catch everything when it comes to suicide.

Loneliness is a good thing though, for some people like me. It's peaceful

@@johnnguyen553 you are equating a powerful emotion to a state of being. they aren't the same thing. you may feel peace when alone, others feel isolation and depression.

@@chrismofer Some people yearn for belonging, friendships and social interactions. While those things are nice, most people don't understand the true nature of human beings. The underlying motives, and other thoughts, it can really be a either good or bad. But most of the time, its generally a fact that most social relationships are formed with conditions. I realised that not having to care, owe and live up to anyone's approval made me a much stronger person. A person whose belief system is formed with their own and not through the opinions of others. It gave me a back bone and made me self confident. Sure I embrace loneliness because one day, say if I make a lot of fame or friends and suddenly lose it all, I can still be content with life. :)

Other ne/sd

@@rb1278 By average he meant, not always

Then she isn't the right one man

@@rb1278 you weren’t married....big difference

Ya if the woman get depressed get them a Psych if the guy gets depressed he gets a Cuff up the side of the head and he is told "clue in".

@@rb1278 That’s wrong. I’m sorry he did that to you. Too many men run away from emotions thanks to being raised by a hyper-masculine society. We are raised to not be emotionally available, or ever lean on someone else, and the men who are were raised exactly how they should’ve been.

Who is your lord grave first question

India don't burn dead body not allowed

@Analoguedialog India don't burn dead body not allowed

That girl is a fuckin treasure my friend, damnn

She’s your guardian angel. Protect that golden friendship at any cost ❤

Nah you never walk alone... Familie and friends will be there.. and if they aren't the state will care for you (at least in civilised countries ( not in the USA=D )).. and after all If u believe in God you will never be forgotten... cheers..

well im all alone have no friends expect like 1 or 2 and my family brly even looks at me and im sure there are a lot of people experiencing the same thing as me

Even though that sounds kinda corny,it really is true.

@@J-IFWBR Atheists with no friends and an abusive family: Are we a joke to you?

@@korkkork7505 you show him :)

Oof

true

So true on so many levels

The man: Guess I'll die then

@gabriel p shut up

Viridian: Not sure that no one cares: however very few know how to respond so they shy away from your demons and perhaps their own. There is a reason to call groups like "The Samaritans" in that they do know something about how to respond.

I'm with you on this one bro

Suicide is ok.

I care about you brother, stay healthy. Here is a comment I wrote to someone else, I hope it will help you :D : What I mean by there are good things inside the bad : for example when « friends » gave up on me or betrayed and left me alone I was glad because these confrontations/separations actually helped me see their real faces. I prefer loyalty over fake company. I noticed that my life was better after because I got away of the negativity they bring and I discovered that loneliness was not a bad thing but a good one because it brings more peace than being with people, I can do things I want without adapting myself to someone’s needs, it also helps me to learn to know myslef, to think better, to rest better. Good things in a bad one. Everytime I feel pain because of a problem in life I become more resistant to it and mentally stronger after. The more the life goes on the more I gain experience and mental strength that allow me to resolve the next problems more easily than I would have if I had not been through the previous ones. After thinking about my life when I am alone I realize that these bad events in life actually bring me good things for the future, this made me think that bad events are actually benedictions in disguise. Also I realised that positive thinking helps to go through anything. There is a quote that marked me « When you think positively you see solutions everywhere, when you think negatively you see problems everywhere ». And it is true that when I think positively I tend to do more efforts and think faster and better and find more solutions than I would have negatively. Sorry for taking this much time to respond to you brother. I was going through harsh things these weeks, I was mentally exhausted but remained positive because my chances to overcome everything is better this way. Take care brother, live positively, I love you

Viridian yet another dent in my morale, I am used to it. I did man up, but now I’m stoic and no longer feel emotional about anything, I haven’t loved anyone since 3rd grade.

I am sorry I hope you are alright bro please keep going on you worth every happiness in life

when I become like that I go buy an ice cream and go to a park and look at ants

Maybe because it triggered her ..

@@harmez7 best remedy

Glad she’s an ex.

me to psych- don't call me brother, i don't pay you to patronize me, you are suppose to be a professional...

@@garystarkey726 Can't believe I paid 5c for this.

For real

@@thewanderingmistnull2451 lol

best comment .

it s not that you conditioned not to show emotions, the reason is your government and society in general, west is a dangerous place for men

@@learnnottogiveaf8747 How is the West a dangerous place for men, is it because women are standing up for themselves and refusing to be kept in the home popping out babies? smh

I think it's pretty natural for men to not show as much emotion.

Stoicism has nothing to do with suicide. The west is best place for men to actually show emotion. If the cause of the male suicide epidemic is not being able to share their emotions and "keep their loneliness inside", the west should have a lower suicide rate than any other place in the world as being open is way more frownd upon in for example the middle east. I'm not claiming I have the solution, but I know for a fact that men being stoic is not the cause.

I don't think he thought at all about his comment and just babbled in ineptitude and hyperbole for "likes". "The West" is the absolute safest point in time and space that humankind has EVER had the priviledged of experiencing. We today live better than the highest Kings and queens of all time. Is it still "dangerous"... Sure.. all nature is by definition. But I agree his comment was incomplete at best.

Literally the cause of male suicide. Being loved as long as you have a price to pay for it. Toxic love.

There are many warning signs in school shootings. Most of them are completely ignored, then they say "We missed the signs".

NSA I am an 18 year old male who is thinking about suicide. I want to do die because of my deformed arms. I do not have ten fingers like everyone else and therefore I want to die because I am not a strong man. I am considered “disabled” which means my life is meaningless.

@@keanucooper2103 Hey. I just want to tell you that having a birth defect is nothing you should be so ashamed of. I know my words dont really mean much, because you probably heard this kind of stuff 1000000 times. You just need to know that someday your life will become better. It does not have to be overnight and it can be a tough fight, but as long as you dont give up and believe in yourself, there will be a time, when life becomes easier. Please know that there are people who care abou and love you! I know how it feels to be hopeless and I'm fighting as well but start doing something like exercising or going on a jog every now and then. Try to find something you like and persue that hobby. Hope you will stay strong

MyNameIsB0by Thank you

Men could get rid of the demon that caused them trouble in the first place. Why do demons get to live comfortably? There's more than enough suffering to share..

I'm one of those men that tell other men to toughen up but not like you'd think. I speak as a man coming from the exact same place as you. But I turn the pain into righteous indignation and fight back that way. I get peace knowing at least I defended my honor and all the good that was instilled in me from childhood. I found that letting people get away with degrading me is the part that haunts me not because of what they think but because that's what gives them the confidence to take from you. I've not once lost once I decided to correct people and draw hard lines. On the contrary many times I can pick their pockets if I felt like it even. We do need to get intouch with the warrior in us and use it more. Or become part of a collective of like-minded men that represent the regime and tap in that way. Every molecule in everything on earth responds to a man who knows his strength whether as a leader or member of an army.

@Joe H wtf

@Joe H we are allowed tf

@@JustAlive21 Yes we are allowed by judged and humiliated for it so it is better not to.

Joe H the strong silent type. That’s the ideal goal. You can go drown your sorrows with a bottle on the weekends. That or smoke compulsively. Or both, like I do.

nearly 54k views now.

@@r93-x6j after how many months?

@@r93-x6jyou completely missed the point

But if you think about it, buzz feed is a popular channel.

You tubes guiding people to the wrong direction

Probably you're choosing the wrong women? Probably try and choose them not by how they look, but by how they make you feel?

Look up marx's theory of alienation and kimberle crenshaw's theory of intersectionality. If you truly believe its women who are making you feel this way then you need a awaking.

@@maximilianomadrigal6661 Actually, its obvious to see that many women do demean men. I've worked in customer service for a good chunk of my life. I saw, on a regular basis, how wives or girlfriends treated their men. Hen-pecking, talking down to them, etc. The age old saying 'Happy wife, happy life' is the quintessential example of how women have ingrained their desires over men's in a relationship. If THEY aren't happy, no one is. That is BS and utterly defies the concept that a relationship is an equal affair. So yes, Brad's feelings are quite accurate. Women are often the cause of men's worst feelings.

@@DarkAshenfall nope, listen to the lyrics of whatta man by salt n pepper, they talk about a man that yeah looks good but also makes them laugh, spend times with thier kids, respectful, compassionate, caring, interesting but also makes them feel safe. So thats what women want in a relationship and you're saying thats given president over what men want in a relationship, so tell me what do men want in a relationship? If you need dating advice I know great sources for that, though they won't help you with hook ups but more with long term relationships. I know what it's like to be lonely and denigrated, but trust me that's coming from a different source then what you're thinking of.

Joschi Step I think he is talking about women in general, basically man with no value according to them, are invisible.

Keep her close

That’s not a girlfriend, that’s a woman bro, a real woman. Keep her close.

wait until she throws it in your face one day during a fight. Guaranteed to happen, dont be surprised.

Danm you should have done that now she will cheat

I hope your ok

this is why i am a stoic solipsist

Ong there's something wrong with society smh

@@ivanrodriguez8027 not really it's just a power game. When men have power many abuse it when society flips the women abuse it. This is true for any type of system

I Nemisis l lmao, he may sound like a troll. but it is the truth. this is what men have sowed from the past. us men would always think why we are usually ignored. but dont you think it is only logical that the minority of the past (women, gays and blacks) are having the attention they deserved? I say, blame our patriarchal society built by the men of past

I Nemisis l lmao, he may sound like a troll. but it is the truth. this is what men have sowed from the past. us men would always think why we are usually ignored. but dont you think it is only logical that the minority of the past (women, gays and blacks) are having the attention they deserved? I say, blame our patriarchal society built by the men of past

"Quiet desperation is the English way" - Floyd 1973

@marty mcfly You know about changing over to another road? Get off the big broad highway and get on the narrow path to Jesus before it's too late man. He can help you out, and I'll pray for you that you can overcome the difficulties you've been facing. God Bless you!

"A woman wrote my quotes, but women don't quite count yet in our society." Thoreau. 1854

@pancake with jam ja man 😁

I care

Of course we care.

We can say the same about the men, but I'm not going to, cause I don't think there's a poin in it. I don't want to consider the aspect of suicides dividing it into male and female.

I do. I care about males even more.

Yes bro 🙏🏻 so true ❤️

@@dyroxau India don't burn dead body not allowed

I feel that why is it only women can be sad?

I can confirm that

I like sensitive people more..or people with mental illnesses. Because i understand how it feels like going through it.

dear men...i am a female... but i NEVER judge any men if they cry...my love to u all men... :) !!!

M2

More like 'man down'

it's considered unmasculine for a man to talk about his feelings. time to change that. toxic masculinity is a major problem.

@@fernandoherrera2256 toxic masculinity is non existent

@@daniyil4843 if u really believe that then so be it. ur not really helping the poor men killing themselves though

@@fernandoherrera2256 How does believing in this concept help men from killing themselves?

ikr . if men spoke about themselves apparently they are complaining or "anti woman" you aren't anti woman unless you do something offensive. you guys have your own problems and i respect that and we can solve them

I would very much have to disagree with her belief that it's an issue relating to stereotype, however. She's basically calling masculinity and a social construct. No, we're wired; biologically programmed a certain way.

*About society

@@TwinklesTheChinchilla so your saying all guys are the same? wait what i don't get this "biologically programmed the same"

@@TwinklesTheChinchilla No every brain is different. You can just make up some bs about being wired a certain way, you have control over your actions.

💔💔💔

no, not anymore

Why?

Nah... the scaries thing in my life was working for various corporations, in the middle of so called developed country, capital city. As a contractor. What working for multiple organizations/corporations have shown me... is that nobody cares about it. Not at the workplace, even when talking to your co-workers during day to day, or coffee chats in the kitchen, or even in any official way (via yearly compulsory tests, such as you sometimes have to do on year to year basis). None of that covers any mental issues. None. And I've worked with a lot of them. And that is not even opening a box of how society, or official organizations are treating that. Good luck with getting a proper mental care, or approach... without money. Really good luck with it, as it simply wont happen, if you are a man. Nobody cares. At the end of the day, the system is not designed to care as such. Never has been. You want care? You have to pay. And it is as simple as that.

Hey how are you doing right now? I hope ur doing well !

I can relate to this. Try to be completely alone, with no Internet and no distractions. Then, you'll understand how it feels to be a desperate person

If u control ur thoughts when ur alone then there is nothing that can scare u

@Bunsen Yeah, I can relate to this. You couldn't named it better

​@@gopalakrishnasriram1896 You are one of the worst people I've ever come across on the internet, congratulations. Depression is a severe illness that deprives you of your ability to control your thoughts and, albeit indirectly, deprives you of utter control over yourself in time.

@@johannes8637 I don't even want to imagine being even without internet or any sort of distraction... I might've already killed myself if that'd happened to me...

If this ain’t the truth I don’t know what is!

I feel that

I feel that

@@KarateWrestler205 MOST? What women are you hanging around?

@@KarateWrestler205 qft.

Hits deep

That's incorrect, That quote was made by stalin, "if a man die, it's a tragedy, if a hundred men die, it's a statistic"

It's the difference between dying in the war and dying on the home front.

Artyom It’s similar to Stalin’s quote that I’m going to paraphrase: “When 1 man dies, it’s a tragedy. When 1,000,000 men die, it’s a statistic” Edit: “A single death is a tragedy; a million deaths is a statistic”

So true

Don't do it again. I don't know you, but you have one person rooting for you. And judging by the comments under this video....thousands that are rooting for you. Just because we are strangers doesn't mean we aren't out there. We exist. And we care.

Surround yourself with new people if those people have truly given up on you, and have that sort of despicable opinion. They are not good people it is never justified to talk to you the way they have.

Man, I really wish I could see people’s pasts. How could a family could react like that to their own sons / brothers attempted suicide.

Damn your family is worthless stay safe man

i support u fam

I like your username

Relatable

same here, buddy.

Can’t relate to anything more. I look back on me even just a few years ago. Far out I was awesome. So dam optimistic and positive about the future. Now, only 2 years later I’m still trying to be a good person but I disconnect from people a lot. I hide more of my emotions and I am becoming more angry agitated.

I'm not afraid to cry in public about something genuinely upsetting Anyone who calls me a baby are probably just secretly bottling their feelings

True. I been lonely for 6 years now and no one cares, especially not women.

@@johnD1998 well, i know where you're coming from. But think about whether you reached out to someone else who is as lonely as you.

@@Uncle_Glock yea i wish i could reach out to another lonely person but i have no idea were to find one. But no one else knows how it much it hurts, that's probably why no one else cares.

@@johnD1998 if you, a lonely person don't know how to find one, then you can't expect others to find and notice you, amiright?;/

@@Uncle_Glock Well i guess I'm screwed then. 😥 are you saying i should start telling everyone that I'm lonely and have suicidal thoughts to meet other lonely and depressed people??

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​@@chelseashamim9148 what's there to be confused about?

With all due respect, this woman doesn't care AT ALL. She's only up here to make herself look good. Another narcissist. Women DO NOT CARE. We are fooled if we believe the fallacy of unconditional matriarchal love and care. Only EVER believe a women when her lying mouth is SHUT.

What is “concern trolling”?

@@JLBxFTW Acting like you are concerned only to use the information to make fun of them or insult them later.

I’m here buddy just someone scrolling down the comments but I’m here

Long time

I too have been suicidal for the past 16 years or so. Sometimes the only thing that keeps me here is my two nieces, my mother, my brother, and my sister-in-law. if they weren't in my life . . . i don't know

hang in there, find something you're passionate about and work it into your everyday life, give yourself something to be happy about, something to continue living and prospering, your life is worth too much to toss it aay.

Hey, I'm here if you need me man, I don't think I'm good support but I'll listen. I can give you my discord tag if you want to chat.

Self destructive behavior, yes, good point.

I sadly was one of them with 20 years old.

It's iterestingly that you bring that up because I've talked to countless illicit drug addicts who have said their life was saved from not only suicide yet also alcohol toxicity because many of those illicit drugs, such as amphetamines & opioids, are a *lot* less damaging than alcohol long term. Just check out CDC & DEA stats; EtOH (Drinking Alcohol) is more lethal than all illegal, recreational drugs combined annually. Don't even try comparing tabacco.

I know women who eat themselves to death, though women seem very resistant to death by morbid obesity so they don't actually die.

Wow yeah you are right. All the drug related self inflicted harm. Damn

Stay strong brother 💙

That quote fits me so well.. if it wasn't for the parents..

Feel that on a deep level

I hope you're still going, and can find a reason to love life for yourself. Or make one.

Can't stress how true that feels dude, I would love to just not be here, but then everyone else would get all sad

Don’t think about it

God bless you bro

Leave!!Sad but true😢

there are different women you know

@aviators remix 😂😂🤣🤣 wow this is epic man

strawman much

@@sundaw ooh "Im different and cool" attitude? Stop lying

@@sundaw 1% maybe

It's messed up man

Nope, it translates to "men never".

its because men dying for no reason ( even when they can be saved) is considered manly and honourable. people need to let them live

It comes from the viewpoint of women being as helpless as children, so idk about that example.

Translates to “ cash in the insurance policy”

True...Very comforting.

I dont know how it is at your country but at mine thats how exactly and actually it is 50% men 50% women

@TheHellogoo she's like an early adopter showcasing how updating our operating system better improves our day to day lives

Why is she speaking to me it feels like

how sad; "*let's* us open up'?

Sam Hopper I hope you’re doing okay now man

Sounds like she shouldn't be on any council's and is out of touch with the world around her. I'd be happy to tell her that for you. Until then I will pray every night that wakes up with diarhea.

I hope you're doing okay now, brother.

@@generalvanman8270 Jesus that is so tragic. My thoghts go out to you bruv.

@@generalvanman8270 This broke my heart bro. That's pretty damn high. Please live a long life.

purpleblunt Everyone has a breaking point indeed and most people after that either: -Kill themselves -Go insane

Comic books can be so real...damn

@Snickeres 557 thats the problem, telling people to just "man up"

In my experience that's due to impulsivity, a lack of calmness and patience, struggle with this myself

I want some of ur purple haze 😍

Nailed it. I'm fighting a debilitating depression and anxiety apparently brought on by childhood trauma. My therapist doesn't think it's my fault. Everyone else I know does (without knowing anything beyond that I'm not working, that is). I allowed myself to believe it was ok to ask for help. Big mistake. Tell me again to just snap out of it, man up, or stop thinking negatively. Because that works... if you want another suicide.

coda creator I’m so sorry bud. It’s a rough time, and don’t think there’s ever been more nuance, I know I’m a stranger to you, but hearing what you had to say struck a cord. My best friend killed himself about 5 months ago and my world imploded. Hope it helps that some online stranger is really hoping you’re able to make it out of some dark times.

​@@Mrmuffinscoop I can't even imagine what that's like. I really wish you the best. It's not something you can or got to get over, but I hope you won't get down too much. Cheers to your bud, too. I'm not religious at all, but I think there's a place within us, call it our heart or simply our memory, where a tiny part of the people we love will always be. Remember him as you know him and cherish the good memories you shared. Lots of love

@@codacreator6162 Coda I know I am a stranger, but am a man dealing with alot of the same issues you vaguely mention here, as a fellow man. Been told all the same lines too.All I can say is try to stay strong, I know it's a struggle,believe me I know. But it can get better.

@@codacreator6162 hang in there. I have had suicidal depression and severe anxiety. After 3 years getting help I am doing okay now. Still hits me sometimes, but for less time and not as bad. I found people who did understand, online and joined a men's group who really helped me out. I found telling people I have an illness helped. Lots of us have been there, or are there. When I walk down the street one in 8 I pass by have some kind of mental illness. Its everywhere, and hardly anyone knows what to do. Hang in there. Recovery is possible.

Yep...hard to grasp but needs to be.

Please do not prey for the hopeless people with your religious message in here. There's a time and place for everything but this is certainly not it.

Probably because many people ironically label suicide as a "gravely selfish" act, but often those that committed suicide were the complete opposite and very selfless.

IRONIC! he could save others from death, but not himself.

@@celticnoble5650 Just because the act itself is selfish, doesn't mean the actor is.

if a woman says it gets all kind of help if man says it is gonna be destroyed

It's true

I believe this is what toxic masculinity means, not doing "guy stuff" but the expectation that men don't cry, they either bottle it up or react with anger...

Same....honestly...im here for some kind of help...

@@RpgCrow You mean someone to talk to?

people dont want you to commit suicide because they want you to suffer and they want to continue to flex their superiority over you, which is why they take those final shots at you after you end it.

Yes, this thing need to end.

I hope you don’t. Because their will be people shielding you from those remarks. Their will be people loving and supporting you.

“we”?

dont believe to negative people just ignore them they dont know what have youe been through pls dont give up i hate people who is ridiculing men who are called weak because they cry😡 just stay away from them dont entertain anymore

It really has

And nobody cares about it.... Nobody. And this is also what working for multiple organizations/corporations have shown me... is that nobody cares about it. Not at the workplace, even when talking to your co-workers during day to day, or coffee chats in the kitchen, or even in any official way (via yearly compulsory tests, such as you sometimes have to do on year to year basis). None of that covers any mental issues. None. And I've worked with a lot of them. And that is not even opening a box of how society, or official organizations are treating that. Good luck with getting a proper mental care, or approach... without money. Really good luck with it, as it simply wont happen. Nobody cares. Sad but true.

Damn bro. Think for ypurself then.

if you need help go talk to your Friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.

People are nice to you only when you are influential or they need you.

@@rock6394 Then, they´re NOT good friends

I've been saying that for years

True.

It is refreshing to see that someone is actually woke. She can actually understand what the fucks REALLY going on

If a woman being a half decent human being is a new thing to you then maybe its already too late to help Men.

Most women are like her

JUAN 12345 I wish they where.

it just meam train and untrain for speech...

I don't take it seriously when a woman tries to internalize male problems.

damn right brother, welcome to *s-s-s-s-societyy*

Oh please. Have a little self respect.

@@MarkRai-ko1sk Lmao what?

@@Canadian789119 Ok Jessie 😐

fullsendsonly 398 because if something bad happens everybody just forgets it 5 min later, no wonder so many men just stop caring

fullsendsonly 398 yup for you i guess and everyone who liked your comment

Yes 'she' does. She does.

Only reason I haven't blown my brains is cause of my mom. I'll probably do it the day after her funeral, idk maybe I'll be in a better state of mind when she goes. Who knows

My mother and all my 2 friends. If not for them, i wouldnt be writing this comment right now.

@@mrhappy8803 I tend to feel the same way. but I have to wait for my sister. once she is gone, and she is 11 years older and in poor health, I'm done. I won't go out of my way to kill myself, but I am not going to stop it either.

Just so u know a dog can change ur life

It's somewhat satisfactory to think that people will miss you after you die because It tells you that you have some value but the sad truth is that no one cares about the average men , you can just look at the male suicide rate and what is done in counterpart to solve the problem (almost nothing) , at the most your closest relatives will miss you for sometime and that's all.

@@laurentwithoutamustache all men need is love

RIDICULOUS

@@BAKER22-l4u Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

@@AgniFirePunch Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

I’m sorry you had to go through that I am a depressed girl so I can’t say i know what you’re feeling but I sure do know that everything about depression sucks- hope U get better

@@Hacks536 lovely woman

Thats why is good to have true male friends

@@Hacks536❤

@@alventuradelacruz522 don't die as a disbelievers

Timon from lion king

@@witoldskrzydlewski6827 thank you I low-key wanted to scream at them

Damn...I felt that.

That's MGTOW defined.

@@Dosbomber ???what

@GODWIN VINCENT GEVICE Moe A lot of things. I dunno, maybe I'll make some art out of it one day.

@GODWIN VINCENT GEVICE Moe I hear the solidarity, and comradery. And I'm grateful.

@Chandler Burse Never.

Stay strong my guy, it’s been tough but things will start looking up soon

I'm sorry. This is one of my biggest fears in life, so I'm just sorry that happened to you.

This is so true. Whenever I get a compliment I genuinely get shocked and question if they’re talking about me.

i get compliments more than 10,15 times every month and im female

nazmi nazmi Women get them even doing nothing.

@nazmi nazmi I haven't blamed women, I just stated that there is a disparity in the receiving of compliments. Obviously there are several reason for this, but it is quite unfair that a man has to do something to get them.

@nazmi nazmi An argument like this takes responsability away from women: there is both of us in society and women with their choises, actions and saying can fuel a mentality like that, both of us has to fix that.

That was what made me watch this video.

No she's not.

Simp

Do you even know what simp means?

@Cricket Good One.

That s what happened to me.

Man up /this is a joke so don’t get all pissy

@uwu no i am still alive but it s really sad that you try to open yourself to family members and no one deeply understand you. That sucks

Key and peele skit

Stay strong brother ❤️🙏

U don’t have kids if they are taken away . So how would you hurt them . And most likely this mother will ingrain these kids that you are deadbeat and they will side their mom and you’ll be hated

@@gabrieljr3089 That’s the worst message you could possibly send.

@@gabrieljr3089 when he means by"hurting his kids" he means by making them depressed by suicide

@@gabrieljr3089 Don't be a c**t

😑😑👍👍

it has to be a girl... men that advocate for mens rights are labeled as aggressive reactors towars feminism

@@brunolopes2205 xD

They are wallets, ATM's and personal slaves

bruno lopes men’s rights tackles legal and social issues. Feminists go at only social issues. - therefore men’s rights are more important. Prove me wrong

@@randomcat7246 MRA's are a bunch of rapists, misogynysts and homophobes

seems curious. Maybe it's the sheer mystique of 'what is he really feeling?" and that dissipates once the man spills his guts. I also have read that women are most likely to have strong romantic feelings for a man if they are unsure of how he really feels about them.

Women think they know themselves and what they want but many couldn't be further away from the truth. Men have been giving women what soothes them for far too long. These women should be single but they will always find another guy because they can't be alone. This whole 'selfreassured' thing is one of the biggest illusions. It used to be 'selfconfident' but that didn't sound real enough as it still implied uncertainty.

It’s biology. They DESPISE the obligation of feeling any empathy or sympathy toward us. Studies have also shown women are more attracted to men who’s feelings are unclear

@@albertodeulofeu5277 probably because showing emotion makes the man appear weaker compared to a man who’s always stoic

@@teamatfort444 yup

try years

Try decades

try a lifetime.....

Maybe he didn't want to be found.

@@thepowerman8952 he was literally in his apartment.... bruh

Your wife needs to grow up

@@natestansbie3954 she has no idea what it's like. I'm glad she will never have to go through this.

What makes you think that?

@@nutellajunkie8848 sadness

@@il_gangster2274 I don't think it's true, I for my part felt very compelled to reach out to people I know after watching this. And I did I should maybe add.

Someone is elevated through his own everyday actions... It will be like a habit, it will be part of who you are. That's when you realize it's part of your character. Starting is just difficult, but after that it will be much easier.

@@CHaoS.GaminG agreed

This video pretty much WAS about women.. or a woman precisely... She knew what she was doing when she took 30 mins to paint on those pedal pimpers... To a male oriented audience no less... Lol. I enjoy Ted talks. Always well thought and prepared, but this one was a bit lacking.

Because men don't care about men, when women care about women.

No. At the end... nobody will. At that is the end result of it. People will simply move on with their own lives, and nobody will care about it. All they will say at the end: "my god, I wish we could have see that comming, he was such a nice guy... ", or "nobody could have predicted it", or "I wish he could have talked about it"... The issue is: he probably did. Just nobody was listening.

They can if they choose to. Lots of people are willing to speak about it.

funny but true

At least women can talk about male suicide without facing ridicule.

@@silver4831 and why do they choose not to?

@@orome9793 Only time I see men facing ridicule is from other men.

ClemensAlive I wish I could say you’re wrong.

Hätte nicht gedacht, dich hier zu finden. Finde ich sau stark von dir. Ich kenne dich schon seit du damals bei den Space Frogs warst und schau immer mal wieder rein. Du bist ein super sympatischer Mensch, lass dich nicht von den anderen Kaputten auf dieser Welt kaputt machen. Pass auf dich auf :)

@@spiritualeco-syndicalisthe207 true, hat mich mies überrascht ihn hier zu finden

@@jonathanb.7481 me 2

Habe dein Video vor ein paar Tagen gesehen und jetzt durch Zufall diesen Kommentar. Super stark was du in deinem Video erzählt hast, hoffe du musst nie wieder durch sowas gehen

Oh yes....and he would be "cancelled" by twitter blue check marks

That's not what an incel is you idiots. Why y'all so obsessed with "cancel culture" anyway

@@thewindshecriesmary because cancel culture is still around and can severely ruin a persons reputation for no reason?

Incels are VERY DIFFERENT. I think what makes this lady’s point so valid is her strong argument and understandable explanation. She is great

@@sabrewulf3634 idk about no reason tho. There’s still a reason, whether it being a bad one or not is up to you to decide ig

Maybe you should start opening up about your emotions and kick out of your life women that don't respect that? There are many women out there who don't fall for this stereotypical masculine guy.. I know cause I'm one of them.. Good luck :)

​@@rigoauebreturns Then you're left with nothing in the end either way because of how this whole thing works. Masculinity is a key element to being liked by women. That's why the athlete types in high school are most successful with women and the skinny nerd types are the least successful. Men don't usually discriminate in the same fashion.

​@@siim605 True they discriminate on body size only :) At the end of the day, it's all about the women you choose, it's unreasonable to think that we are all still having the 'high-school' way of thinking!

​@@rigoauebreturns High school is one of the easiest examples one can go to, because it's like a test tube for seeing how human behavior fundamentally works. You made a comment about "body size" - obviously this is something that is equally problematic for men, if not more. Men are much more concerned about going to the gym and being in shape to get the attention of women.

siim605 Women are also expected to be thin, young and hot throughout their lifetime. These are just unreasonable expectations for both genders. It’s your choice to not let them affect your self-confidence.

Stay confident bro

Balboa Baggins cut your loses and move on. Believe me, once the woman is out of the equation, you can concentrate on other things. They aren’t worth the hassle if it doesn’t occur naturally. You’ll just be burning both extensive time and probably a lot of money.

Why? Is it the looks or smth else?

@@TraceLight money not necessary. If I want girls pay for me. However I feel empathy so I actually spent a lot on one girl. If it's just random dating she may pay for you. If not find other.

I have been single most of my life and autistic too like her uncle. This video is personal to me

I don't wanna fight in the comment section. But I will always be here

@@queenu606 worst comment ever

@@queenu606 What a slimy comment, name checks out lol

@@Lianna_Is_Me yeah... we'd rather get help from men.

@@Lianna_Is_Me Stop posturing.

Lol