We Needed A Break! * Another Bad Week...* 

Whoever is saying Des isn’t doing enough is hella weird… She’s an amazing mom & wife… I’ve seen other youtubers partying all the time & going on crazy vacations without their kids & nobody gives them crap about it although parents do deserve time to themselves… Des is an amazing wife & she’s honestly the best mom… What’s wrong with you people who are talking all that mess?? And on top of that making Des cry she really doesn’t deserve to be treated bad she’s the most down to earth sweetest human being… Wipe your tears, take a deep breath & fix your crown Queen because you’re the best mom, wife & my favorite social media influencer… You have a lot of women who look up to you. Stay strong mawmas 💐❤️😇

Lol seeing them just chill at home/ painting was so relaxing and therapeutic for me to watch.. it was real life and literally just calmed my anxiety down. not everything has to be some crazy, creative, over the top video/moment. also how cruel can some of yall be to sit behind a screen and tell a MOTHER that she's not doing enough?! it's 2022, & yall still cyber bullying??? weird. simply existing is a A LOT and more than enough, let alone taking care of your partner/ baby/ urself. stay strong and just remember, people's comments are just a reflection of their own upbringing, misery, and bitterness -it has nothing to do with you or your heart. love u des!! ♥

Des, your story on IG literally made me cry because I could absolutely sense how hurt you were at that moment. Your feelings are valid and I want you to know that you are amazing woman with all the work you do.

Des, I just saw your IG story and it made me so sad. I hate that people are so rude and presumptuous on here. I hope you know that the people who make rude comments like that are not your real supporters. Your real supporters know how hard you work on your career as well as your personal life. Please give yourself more grace and don’t listen to these people. Don’t let them get to you. You are doing a great job and your real supporters know that. We love you. 🤍

Des babe we love you so much and I know it’s impossible to ignore the ignorant because it’s so frustrating, but you have a beautiful family and you have a fan base that loves you guys and supports you whether you take a week a month or a year off. Real ones will always be here. We love you Des🤍 please don’t cry 🥺

Des, is there anything ur not good at? U are literally so good at everything U do. Hope U guys feel better very soon. God bless ya'll.

Whoever be making des cry needs their ass kicked, don’t be fucking mean to literally the sweetest girl on earth. Y’all got nothing but the audacity smh. Des we love you those people saying vile things are projecting it ain’t even about you. Stay sweet boo❤

Love how authentic you are des!!! Being so transparent about real life is so refreshing and relatable I also feel like you guys talk about real life things not just hide behind the happy pictures bc it’s not always like that in real life Im only half way through the video and had to stop and had to give props bc I love watching your videos they make my day feel lighter and happier ❤️🫶 thank you for always creating content !!!

I saw her insta story and felt so 😭 sad. Des is gorgeous and honestly i just love how she takes care of her family, everytime she's cooking am just like 😲.

People need to mind there business.. We only see what they allow us to see.. We do not know what they are going through so be mindful. Stop comparing people. Everyone is different and goes through things. Keep doing you and I enjoy your videos and seeing koa. Hope you all feel better soon. Sending prayers and love to you and your family.

You GOT THIS MAMA . It gets better with time ! Ignore the negativity they don’t know you or your life . They are probably sitting at home miserable with their own lives .

As a parent to parent you guys are doing great ❤️ your the most amazing parents & Koa is happy that’s all that matters . We’re still here no matter what us real ones will stick with you through it all no matter what & no matter what you post , what content it is & no matter how many days you miss ! Your both human & only can do so much. People think it’s so easy to become parents, I’m lucky to have a shower for more than 10 mins i don’t sleep more than 4 hours a night I’m lucky to eat 2 times a day my kids are my priority . Like seriously I praise you guys for even still doing YT .. love you guys ❤️ I can’t believe Koa will be one soon 🥹

Y’all deserve a break sometimes, being parents is a whole other vibe! 🧡 I hope you all feel better.

DES, don't listen to these stupid comments that put you down , No one understands MENTALLY what us women go through She may be sick mentally inside drowning No one deserves to put a women down especially a new mama, des u are a powerful women don't let negativity and rude people comment on your video calling you lazy .

You’re doing awesome! Being a mom is a Job itself! People don’t understand that you aren’t complaining but rather than expressing how you feel. It can definitely be overwhelming The moms who are saying “suck it up” shame on you. Y’all know you have been in the same situation. Smh Love the painting snippet!! 🫶🏽

2 weeks ago me and my 3 Littles all got a bad cold/flu.. I feel like since you guys noticed us asking for more you have stepped up a bit.. Des gave us her little cooking snippet, you took us to target, little stuff like that. That's really all we want to see as supporters, the regular everyday things you think are nothing and will bore us, is actually what we like. Des take us grocery shopping/do a haul, girly hygeine shopping/haul, fall decor shopping/decorating. Koa is soooo cute too omg he's such a solid chunky little butt I love it. And he likes his grub 💪 he is such a daddy's baby too

I don’t understand how people forget how RU-vidrs, celebrities and influencer etc;, are human! Somehow people have ignored the fact that people have a life outside of those 5 hours edited blogs. Des you can take ALL the time in the world we gon’ be right here baby💞

i love y’all so much !! do what y’all gotta do to keep yourselves happy and healthy , you deserve it❤️❤️❤️

Des- you are amazing. You are doing great as a wife and a mother and we all see this! We love and support you JuJu and Koa!!! You never know who and how much you inspire so many women including myself. Please don’t be hard on yourself! You are doing your absolute best and your husband and son love you!! And That’s everything 💗

Just saw your IG story 🥺 It breaks my heart to see you cry! I hope all the positive comments over power the miserable people who thinks it’s okay to say negative things.

I don’t understand the hate Destiny gets. She seems like one of the sweetest people on Earth. I imagine she’s someone who stays at home, spends quality time with her loved ones and minds her own business. We love you Destiny, feel better 💛

Des is a great momma, If you are a parent you'll know that she is!. If you are not, mind your own business because being a wife, and a mom is so draining that we tend to put our needs before others. Even the slightest minute of getting some time to ourselves is like gold to us. Leave Des alone! geezz.

Misery loves company..... Des, you are doing MORE than enough!!! You are worthy and are just fine with how you are and how you do things in your life! You are beyond bless! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Thank you for posting even though you guys weren’t feeling good. You guys are much appreciated 💗 (Koa is going to be walking so soon!! Omg 😳)

I just came back from watching Des story on IG & I’m sooo damn hurt for her!! People are so quick to judge without KNOWING the full story! & even if she was chillin more because her boys are sick, who tf cares!? Let her love her life!! Yahll forget that Des goes through modes of depression & yahll don’t understand how one bad comment could affect her whole entire day & control her emotions. Yahll need to learn how to have a bigger, understanding heart for people because you don’t know what will trigger them. Like Des said, she’s only human!! Give her a fkn break because she’s putting herself & the most sacred thing to her out there which is her family & more than half of yahll know that ain’t easy or else everybody will literally be doing this whole RU-vid/Social Media thing. I seen that comment that Des was talking about & it pissed me off more than anything. Especially being a mom myself. That in itself is a hard job & you get no days off!! I give you all the props Des & I promise you that RU-vid will never be the same without yahll so please keep pushing to put your vids out..I promise you, the real supporters will watch anything from yahll even if you think the vid is ass..Yahll never miss for me..The only thing is for me is that I don’t want yahlls vids to end most of the time!! Love you Des!! You’re freakin AMAZING!!!!👑👑👑

I love these home vlogs 💛 The way Koa gripped Destiny’s hand for the food was so adorable!!

Getting too comfortable doing nothing?? You're CONSTANTLY adjusting to parent life as your little one grows. Ya there's a cozy period but they should be enjoying that when it comes! They also have their youtube channel to look after and I love the family vibes that they are displaying cuz thats where they are at right now. Let them be them. No one needs to bring anybody down for living THEIR lives. 🖤

This vlog was so relaxing, absolutely loved it. Des is so multifaceted ❤️

Omg I LOVEEE 60 Days In!!! I been watching the new season every week so far since it came out a three weeks ago! Hoping Julius and Koa are feeling better now!! Y'all have been doing SO AMAZING with the content lately!!! We appreciate it, honestly! Des- your painting looks awesome and you should definitely open a restaurant because your food always looks so dang good!!!

Sending you guys so much love and positive vibes 🤍 I’m so sorry Des, your story on ig broke my heart please don’t listen to these awful people. People reflect their insecurities on others. You are an inspiration and beautiful amazing mother/wife/woman. You got this! 🤎

You are doing so well Des.Being a mum and wife is a full time job.Its not as easy as we all think, having to balance off creating content and taking care of your family must really be hard.Dont listen to all those negative comments I know it hurts but just ignore them. LOVE Y'ALL ❤❤❤🇿🇼

Stay strong Destiny don’t consume your head in to the comments it’ll only get you down just remember those negative comments are irrelevant!! People who know you know how you strive through day in and night out!!! Your carrying a load! Keep doing you gorgeous!!!

Destiny really be teaching us little cooking hacks in almost every video 💕💕

Same. I have a 3 year old son. Single mom. I feel the same. I’ve been testing everyday just a bad cold going around but glad you’re good. Love watching y’all!!!! Makes my days brighter. Especially when I’m sick and tired and with a kid. I feel you. Glad I can watch people to relate too!!!!

Des be low key an artist, chef, singer, model... she's a freakin super woman!! Koa is getting so big!!! Omg I swear he was born 3 months ago lol time be moving too fast! It'll definitely hit hard when he goes to school. My first child is a 1st grader and I'm still in disbelief ! 😵‍💫

Hurt people hurt people!!! Destiny you are the MOST beautiful person inside & out!! Please don’t forget how much you motivate people on a daily basis. We LOVE YOU & HAVE YOU BACK x1000000!!!!🧡🧡🧡

I’m not saying this just cause…. But seriously Destiny is a damn catch! That woman is a triple frickn threat! She just has such a pure heart and personality. It’s just so refreshing!

Des has a beautiful genuine energy to her, and one thing I've noticed about beautiful people is they get hated on for no reason. Demons don't like the light. So always shine Des. They want you to be in darkness, don't let them win.

Take all the time you guys need, people are so cruel on the internet and it's bc they're miserable, I'm so sorry you guys are having a hard time rn, I'm having a hard time too so I completely understand the feeling.

Des you’re an amazing women inside & out ! You are truly an inspiration. I love how soft hearted you are because that’s exactly how I am and sometimes people want to tear women like that down bc they envy how happy we seem but don’t know how much weight we carry in our heart. Never change Des! Sending love your way 🤍

Y’all doing the family thing so we’ll. And Koa is gonna be ridiculously funny the more he grows. 😂

You did so good on the painting Des!!! This was Therapeutic watching you paint ✨ more of you painting & cooking please !!!

At the end of the day you are doing the best you possibly can and that’s all that matters! ♥️ I know it’s hard to ignore the negativity sometimes but be proud of yourself. I can only imagine what it’s like to be a mom, I don’t have kids of my own but everyone’s different and if you need a little extra time to yourself that’s okay. Don’t let others make you feel less than because you want to take some time off. Mental health and your family/wellbeing will always come first. We will all be here for you guys when you’re ready! ♥️🥺

I love ur painting des! U r an awesome mom, wife, painter, cook, cleaner, etc keep ur head up cause we all love you!! Feel better koa and daddy🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

Love you Juju and Des and Koa. I fully support you and I appreciate your efforts. Blessings to you guys💕🙌

I know Destiny cooks and make Koa his cute lil meals and she honestly goes all out for her baby boy!! Being a mom is already so much and she’s doing the best she can to be a good wife and mom. The last thing I’d be worried about is doing RU-vid if I were them. Family is first and self care too!!! Best of wishes to Destiny and Julius and baby boy Koa 💙😭✨

Just seen your IG story Des... OMG!! Please, please don't cry! Why are some people so rude! We really don't know 100% of what goes on in their lives... How can ANYONE think they have the audacity to tell someone they don't know that they don't do nothing... Like what the actual F... 😑😒 I hope she calls that person out, because she should! 🥺🤍 We got you Destiny!

Des you should have your own cooking/art show. You are very talented!

watching you paint was honestly therapeutic you guys should do it together and make it a lil series

Sending y'all love hope you all feel better, and Des don't let these miserable ppl in the comments get to you they aren't worth your time ❤❤❤

Disney World would be a great family trip. Blessings to Juju, Des, Koko & everyone connected🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Des is Wonder Woman! She can cook, clean, be a good mommy to Koa, drive in LA now, make good coffee & now paint 🎨🥰🥰🥰☺️☺️❤️❤️❤️ okaaayyy you go girl !

Take the time off RU-vid if y’all need too we understand we love you guys & god bless w less bad days 🙏❤️

DES you do SO MUCH!!! I wanna be like you. I used to love to paint before I had my daughter and you’ve inspired me to pull out my supplies when she goes to bed. You’re amazing and your family is so lucky to have you.

Love the content ! Hope y’all feel better and maybe y’all should do a whole canvas painting video and maybe put a sesh together ifykyk 🙌🏼🥵

Des, we love you!! People only comment negative when they are jealous. You are such a great mom, wife, friend, etc. You do so much and please remember you’re always appreciated 🥰😘

Julius, I am glad you still post in spite of being sick. Prince Koa is such a blessing. I can see Koa keep you guys busy. Koa has his own personality.

Being sick is no joke especially if most of the family members are infected. I myself am 8 pregnant and have been sick for the past 2 weeks including my toddler and my husband. And let me tell you it's taking a toll on my mental health. I haven't slept in 2 weeks, my body is sore from coughing and I can't breathe through my nose..anyway my point is never judge parents especially first time parents. Sometimes you don't know what you're doing and that's OK..heck Im sure there'll be times with my second one too that I won't know everything. You guys take a break as long as you need to. Your fam is always here for you ❤😘🙏

Congrats on the baby boy it was a tuff game back in highschool Lincoln vs Wilson 2015 we walked off with the w but glad to see Tacoma stars shine 🤝🏾

Honestly she’s doing an amazing job being a mother and wife she’s taking care of her family which is more then a video they can’t always have time for uploading they have a life as well everyone goes through something now they have a son they are not always gunna have time as much as before but that’s okay cuz family always comes first

Des you are beautiful in every way. No one else's opinion about you as a mother matters when Koa knows he has the best mommy ever. As long as your family is happy that's all that matters. Don't let these negative comments get to you because at the end of the day they're here WATCHING YOU not vice versa. I think you guys should take a little family vacay. I strongly recommend Sea World San Diego you guys aren't too far. 🤍 Take a little family trip, get some drinks, and stay in a hotel for the weekend away from home and stress life and chores, etc. Then come home to a scheduled massage and just have a family movie night 💕 it's okay to take time off and enjoy each other every once in a while. Every job is stressful regardless of what it is and there will always be someone saying something so don't let them see that they got to you. Continue to rise and grow and be strong for baby koa. They sense when their parents are upset 🤍

So happy to see all the amazing sweet comments lifting Des up! We ALLLL love you and you're honestly super relatable to me personally and i'm sure a lot of others too!!!

Des, I hope you see how many people love and support you! There will always be haters, and im sorry you have to read through them, but know that you are AMAZING and loved and supported and looked up to! I hope you feel that love too ♥️

Positive energy only. ✨️ no negativity here please. Help them out not to bring them down. We all have struggles in life & need to bring one another closer. Hugs & Salut to both of you for working so hard💯🙏🏻🌃💫

The painting though!!🔥🔥

Des you’re literally a perfect mother. To whoever left you that ignorant comment, they’re bitter and jealous that can’t do half the things you do 🤷🏻‍♀️ they’re projecting their insecurities on a beautiful woman who does so much for their family. They could never. Keep your chin up babe 💗

Thanks, Juju and Destiny for the loving warm felt video. It was so good. The painting was good. That was good you were doing something you like.

Des can throw down in the kitchen looks so good koa getting so big I can’t believe he’s almost one years old hope you guys feel better ❤️‍🩹 soon

Destiny is an amazing mother and wife. She does so much and has so much patience. Shes an inspiration for me. We love you !

Des's Voice Is Soooo Soothing I Love It I Could Listen To Her The Whole Day ❤

Me looking for that heartless comments someone left and made Des upset! 😤😠 that person must have no kids of their own and is miserable af! Misery loves company! Stay up Des🙏🏼

We love y’all hope you guys get better ❤️😘

I love to see Des using reusable straws.. even for Starbucks.. the earth thanks you🌎

Des I had to come back again after last night. Seeing those mean comments about you really is not sitting right with my spirit. I just prayed to God that he shows you the truth about yourself. You are a FANTASTIC WIFE and the BEST MOTHER Koa could ever ever ask for. You WORK HARD! You are juju and koas everything just like they are your everything. Please don't cry. I'm not on social media but I see the comments saying you were crying and upset broke my heart. Des I really don't be on family RU-vid channels but you JuJu and now Koa are such great people I follow yall. I know I've commented a few times now on this vlog but like I said it really doesn't sit right with me that people are tying to break your spirits. We love you Des!

Des im lowkey in tears seeing your ig Story. I am praying for you love, for God to continue to give u the strength to battle these demons out there. Try to stay close to God and always remind yourself that you are blessed and that you DO do MORE THAN ENOUGH. People will say all types of things to try to steal your joy or hurt your feelings, & yes it does hurt, but try to brush it off. I’m not surprised that people try to hate on u because look at u: you are SO BEAUTIFUL inside and out, you are a GREAT mom to an adorable baby, you are a GREAT wife to your handsome husband, u have a loving family that supports you, you are living a life that most people only dream of, you are super pretty, etc. laugh at these haters and then come cry to me about it so I can go whoop they a$$ lol .. love u Des! Keep your head up *hugs* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Your painting is gorgeous!!! It matches the colors in my living room!! Lol Caffeine withdrawal is so real!! I went without it for 3 days and my mood was crazy, my head was throbbing, my energy was extremely low... I drank one cup and I was back lol

I'm so glad Des got Julius cause she needs spirits like his to keep her up but don't allow these ignorant, non-understanding, selfish mfs bring you down. You all are a beautiful beautiful family and we will always be here to love and support you all! ❤️😩 Realest Chillest little family I know. Beside Gold Juice. Lol love y'all sm🫶🏼😩

We love you Des and I appreciate the videos and the effort y’all put into each and every one of them ❤️

Destiny you're so beautiful ✨ The best mom and wife you can be. Both you and Julius are trying really hard and y'all are doing an amazing job raising koa and grooming one another 🥺 the most down to earth person I know 🧸 you're so sweet and smart . Please don't take what them haters say about you to heart. That don't matter ❤️🤞 I love you girl 💫

Yoooo this new season of 60days in is crazy already!! They dropping like flies ! Y’all start watching inmate to roommate??? Watch it !!

Omg koa is so adorable!! His little hair like his daddy's 😍😍

We love you don't let the bitter people get you down. ❤️❤️❤️

DES I LOVE YOU! YOU ARE AMAZING. DO NOT LET ANYBODY BRING YOU DOWN!!!!! JUST A QUICK BLOCK AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!❤️

Not y’all making my girl cry. Send me the addy, I just wanna talk. Y’all really outta pocket. Fucking rude. At the end of the day she’s a human, treat her as such.

I love your guys content so much!! never stop making these little vlogs because they are very wholesome

des I just seen your Instagram story I feel you girl! We see you mama your an amazing mama and wife 💕💕💕 don’t listen to them they have nothing better to do.

ima be with yall if yall post once a year 😂 its all good. idk what these comment talkin about tho

We love y’all 🥺 hope you guys get better

7:11 is hilarious. Destiny is literally so funny 😂

simply loved this video!🥰

Guys you don’t even know how is it when you had an emergency c-section, it’s traumatizing. Your body when through so much and it’s hard to snatch back and it’s frustrating but worth it all because off when you swing you little one smile. And at this time you stress a lot. I went through the same thing as Destiny and I’m telling you I understand. It’s not easy mentally and physically. I lose confident on myself. I’m depressed worried every single day, I’m tired for no reason even though I’m not doing anything but I’m tired. So please stop the hate on her. And there’s more that she probably going through and can’t share it yet so please stop.

Koa’s baby grunts are so cute!! He is so funny! 😍🙌🏽🤍

You are cooking, painting, being a mama and wife. Some people are just crazy haters don’t listen to the hating crazies. Feel it out Des and let it go when you’re ready, you’re to sweet of a soul I felt for you seeing you down. We all love you and your cute fam 💜🧁

you guys need to get the paint and sip sets but do a bake and paint session

des is taking good care of her family I love that quick recovering to Julius and kca may God bless you all🙏💝💝

I hope u both feel better soon des your painting was beautiful and can’t wait to see lil koa walking he adorable and I think you guys should go on a trip to medives from what I seen it’s beautiful there❤️❤️❤️

What a beautiful painting! And now I want to paint too! Lol 😆

I love seeing y'all's videos when I come to dyalisis itifts up my spirits!

Des you are body goals !!!!!!

Shout out your 🎨 art skills Destiny I'd put it in a art museum so everyone could have a chance to admire you're artistry 🎨