We share a husband, live in the same house and have no apologies to make | Lynn Ngugi Show 

Good morning team Lynn Ngugi Network, What are your views on today's story? Do you support polygamy and do you believe one person can love two people at the same time? You can check out the Abrahams RU-vid channel here ru-vid.com/show-UCzs3YK69EtLbLLi9cwUFJLAfeatured To share your story with us, send an email to lynnngugi4@gmail.com for consideration. Thank you so much for watching:) See you on our next video

We can normalize sin, sugarcoat it but it still remains sin. No woman has ever been comfortable with another woman in her life.

Please let's empower our girls to never accept infidelity and betrayal just because they don't have options. Let no woman lie to you that they would be ok in such a situation like this. No one

Abraham loves Sarah for her neatness and Maureen for her office efficiency. He just loves himself so much!!!

Cerah your facial expressions show that you are still healing deep inside I pray that you May find happiness❤

Following their story, Serah doesn't look like she had a choice but to agree with her husbands way of taking a woman who's from his class & line of work... We shouldn't Glorify immorality

I have watched this story over and over my heart goes out to Sera

Wow the conditions he gave after Cerah confronted him;..Wow like WOW. He clearly stated his boundaries and Cerah had no boundaries so she had to accept else their relationship ends. It's so good to always know your worth,values and what you deserve. I HAVE ALOT OF WORK TO DO WITH MY DAUGHTER.Hugs to Cerah

lynn please do the same interview with this family 5 years later and it will shock you, remember demethew two wifes?

Who else is sending love & hugs to Serah? I feel she has stomached a lot. I lost Serah when she said she was very much ok. You don't need to prove if you are. May happiness find you again Serah.

As much as Maureen try to sanitise her mistakes, she remains to be a home breaker.The emotions of Serah are so evident that she is not truly happy.

The man is dangerously a smooth talker. Surprising that a young educated man can be going through this crisis at this stage if his life😭

Imagine, he is not even ashamed to publicly say he posted a picture of a daughter on his whatsapp status and quickly took it down because he did not want the side chick to know he has a family...bull

Cera is soooo heartbroken. The face tells it all

Even before I listen to them, I must say... God's standards on marriage will never change to suit our desires or changing norms in our society. #TeamOneWifeOneHusband🙌🙌

Cerah wants a life with peace. She is not too emotional. She is like a ricehalm. She bows when the storm rages and when it is over she straightens her back as a fierce woman.

May this kind of love never locate me, you can't be okay living with your co-wife, this is so wrong. Serah sorry for everything that you're going through and dealing with all that but one day you will overcome it

Sera is honestly hurt,but afraid of starting again.The pain is so visible in her eyes and i truly feel sorry for her.

I feel like Abraham didn't tell Maureen he had a family because he didn't want to loose her but was quick to tell Sara the truth because he didn't care if she got angry and left

This isn’t for everyone. My Dad tried this, He did it after 20 years of marriage to my mum, naively believing it would be this nice. I was abroad, he wrote a letter to me, painted me a fake pink picture. Later on: chaos! Our “ Maureen” had to pack and go... drama never stopped until my mum divorced 20 years of tears and pain later. Not for me . Not for me . Not for me.

I wonder how some people have normalized the abnormal. I will constantly pray for my son so that he is not this confused.

If one day Sarah decides to walk out. We need to support her. I feel like she has no option and she also has kids to raise.

This is just a case of two Narcissists preying on an Empath. I hope Serah finds herself and gets the strength to leave.Women should learn to chose themselves.

Moreen has been married for 1.5 years which is a very short time to judge whether this marriage will servive

Great job in conducting this interview Lynn❤

I watched this interview in shock. So number 1. This guy was still having coffee dates with Maureen when the wife was pregnant. 2. When the baby was born he even deleted the photo of the baby because shit Maureen had seen the photo and he didn't want to lose her. 3. So coffee dates with Serah, which was how their relationship started turned out to coffee dates with Maureen almost immediately after she moved in. 4. Serah talked about how Abraham never used to come home because of ooh it was raining too much and all and she even had to move closer to Nairobi for him to come home. This man took advantage of how much she loved him. She only said that , that period was very difficult and didn't want to delve deeper so as not to make her friends uncomfortable. 5. Serah said aki mapenzi wewe three times - and it is evident from that statement this is not what she wanted and signed up for but to still have the man she loves has to endure. 6. Serah said she often has to tell Abraham that amemtupa sana. Maureen said nothing,, meaning this two people who work together are often soo caught up in themselves and sometimes Abraham even forgets about her. For me this is just a deep story about betrayal. Both Abraham and Maureen have deeply hurt and betrayed Serah . I hope one day she loves herself to realize that she deserves better

The way sin is being exalted nowadays,it's shocking!!

My heart is going out to Sera! The pain in her eyes cuts deep and she covers it with the smile. Oh Sera how i pray that one day you will have the courage to choose you and never be afraid to start over.

Sara is still young and cute

Ladies did you hear? You can be supportive, submissive and respectful yet a man that wants to go outside his marriage will still go. Woman, invest in yourself.

I just wanna say that this man would not be sitting there smiling and acting like he is okay if the situation was the other way around. Women, lets value ourselves.

Lyn, I like the way you did this interview! you asked very pertinent questions.

In this interview, the man has mentioned the name Maureen soo many times. It is clear where his heart is. I need therapy to overcome this😰

Cerah so beautiful and calm.. I hope she can one day love herself more and know her worth.That man isn't worth it.

SARA is really heart broken 💔.. She's just faking the smile and laughter but deep inside she's crying 😭..oh God give Sarah a peaceful mind

Well done..👏👏this is the natural order of things!

Following from USA 🇺🇸. Nini Maureen ako nayo Cera hana? Shame on you Abraham!

I come from a polygamous family and sincerely speaking, l don't support polygamy. Before getting into such like relationships, think of the consequences on the children. Can't condone, won't condone.

All I can say the guy took advantage of Sarah's weekness/calmness.

Am here today watching this beautiful 🥰 episode ❤❤❤❤ Cerah is 💯💯💯❤❤❤

Really I feel so happy for u guys especially who can manage those two ladies. May u shine always

Abraham loves Maureen truly. The one he truly connects with. Cerah was just a good cleaner. Quiet and easy to walk over. I hope she finds herself and moves out of this toxic relationship.

After following up with the whole story, there's nothing to be proud of in this whole story. No matter how Serah will try to convince us that she's ok, she is not and I repeat it "She's Not" This Serah gal is still hurting

My heart is beating just watching this ......May God never let me go through this 🙏

Wow I love this, both are beautiful thank u serah for the good heart, may God blessings be upon both of u.

Laughter can conceal a heavy heart, but when the laughter ends, the grief remains.

Who else is seeing beauty in serah💕💕💕💕

Sarah is an Angel in human nature

Wow.What a happy unique family.Zera a woman of integrity congrats.The man of house ur worthwhile. The moderator ur fantastic mature quiz n opinions.I have enjoyed ur show😅😅

Not sure if it's just me who's noticed a couple of red flags. Every time Cerah thinks back to that time, you can see the pain but she brushes it off by saying, it's the grace of God. And she's maintained this statement in so many interviews. It's a way for her to block and shield herself and say God is with me. She still is hurting. Two, Abraham using reverse psychology on Cerah because she saw the photo on the phone. And even the verbal aggression that follows when he says 'We have rules in this house concerning the phone. Three, Maureen. She says she always asked how Cerah was doing. They sound as though they were doing her a favour or it'd be less hurtful if they care for Cerah. Four, Abraham and Maureen have a very deep connection. Even the way they talk about each other. There's a certain glow. But when addressing Cerah, it feels like she gets no love or less love. Lastly, when he says Cerah cried after he told the truth, there's no remorse or hurt in his face. Like when you hurt someone you love, you feel remorse. You show remorse. But there's none. They all need to go for therapy. Cerah must have gone through so much in order to accept this situation. I hope Cerah gets better.

If I was serah I would have married another business man too with more money 😂😂 since we are 'looking beyond love'.

First wife is very uncomfortable. She loved her husband and didn't want to let go. She should never agree with this relationship. The man is a selfish man. Typically telling lies and not coming in daily based on what was said. He prefers the 2nd wife.

Hi Lynn, I’m a Zimbabwean who followed you from the time you were with Tuko. I’m touched or say burdened with this story. Serah was told that “what I am about to tell you will either break us or we continue. And I feel she had no choice since she wanted her kids to grow with their father. God said two are one and not three. I’m sorry to say this but I pray the other wife should get her own man. She will get someone with the same situation. I’m not God so I conclude by praying for God’s will 🙏

And one day Serah when you finally gather the courage to leave this sad unimaginable situation, call us for a party. It shall be well Serah.

I think the first wife is loyal,if it was second wife I don't think she could have allowed the other woman to come in,my view though 🤔

Wacerra, you are a gorgeous woman! Keep your head up, girl!

The husband talks about loving maureen so much. even the way cerah looks at abraham, there is so much pain and she feel being cheated on.

The first wife doesn't look happy at all. She just didn't have a choice to make and the second wife is a home wrecker. And women, can we stay woke? Do not demean yourself this much. There's someone out there for everyone I am sorry but this is nonsense on all levels

My heart goes to Cera, the facial expression and the the deep breaths she's taking indicates she is yet to recover.

....may God give you the wisdom to take care of your family. Its all about Wisdom and understanding.

Interesting story, wow. Only grace can do this.

The second position in marriage is never for a virtuous woman. A woman of self respect wont dare to entre another woman's life. No matter how hard you try sugar coat it, in one way or another your kids will feel lost. You'll model a bad character to your daughters and bring confusion to your sons. The moment Maureen realized Abraham was married she should drawn the line there and then, by diluting her feelings towards him and blocking him from her life. She shouldn't have waited to the extent of having a baby with him knowing he's a family man. Despite the fact that Abraham compelled Maureen to be with him, it was her place to show him and make it clear to him that you don't always get what you want. I believe a virtuous woman will always want to live a life they can defend before God, which is not Maureen's case. I feel like Maureen and Abraham took advantage of Serah's calmness and selflessness. I mean Serah is a full package and that's what any man would kill to have.

Nikamwingiza kwa chama, I programmed chama yake ikue Saturday, so that before we go out, akue amelipa chama. We started investing and here we are 😭😭😭cera oh beautiful cera 😭😭😭. Cera build this man and when money started coming in, he started seeing the beauty in other women 😢. May God bless cera with a faithful man who will treat her like a queen she is

Thanks and thumbs up to you guys....may God bless u all..

Without being judgment, Abraham is a man with unique gifts and wisdom. I say this from the way I see how carful he answers questions in the presence of both his wives

I hate it when adults drag their children into their foolishness.My mother pretended to be accepting and understanding like Sera but we were traumatised as kids,down the road there was alot of clashing in the house,our friends made fun of us,our understanding of marriage was affected,we were literally dragged into a situation that we didn't sign up for.Down the road mom goes into a depression, we were kicked out and she died regretting why she had allowed her daughters into this Compromising situation.Alot of this talk is about the adults but what of the psychological effects the children have to go through?? It doesn't matter how these people want to spin it,they are not wiser than God who intended Marriage to be a sacred convenant between two people and 3 is a crowd.It may seem to work for sometime but anything born out of lies and pain will end the same way.A seed will always reproduce after its own kind and you may try to convince the world it is working but from experience it ends with alot of pain and resentment. I hope these women can do right by the children and show their daughters you don't need to be defined by this foolishness!!!

I think the reaction would have been different if Maureen was the first wife. She wouldn't accepted it. Let's not glorify infidelity in the name of love. Cerah is hurting from inside

This man actually looks wicked, proud and take advantange of women interest.

Beautiful cera sending ❤️❤️

This guy wasn't scared of losing serah, otherwise he wouldn't have done this

If maureen said NO to abraham, and insisted on NO every now and then. Serah would still have her husband . This is so painful to watch. I was in such a situation and i chose to leave and i loved the guy and he was toxic. Excuses here amd there. I said NO to the ex and here i am. I thank God. I am never going to be in such a situation ever again my entire life. My children are not going to be in such situations. And my next generation. In Jesus Mighty Name. Amen. Pole Serah

I real love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤ si wako fity aki sera ni mhumble aki saaana unaeza pata wengine kukukiwa moto

Ilove the fact that they speak fluent eng.focussed.minding there business and love of the family.

Sarah,blink twice if you’re being held hostage😔 I wish Sarah all the healing she deserves because clearly,she’s hurt… For Abraham,see a therapist,you have deep sitted issues that will not be adressed by having several women. For the second wife,May the universe give you back what you’ve dished out!!

Infidelity sugarcoated. The audacity in this man, aaaargh. And this Maureen girl 💔 I just pray Serah finds herself and a way out of this ...ship. Abraham you really betrayed Serah and you should be ashamed of yourself.

What an interview/conversation!!! The discussions give a re-definition to love.

Wow wow this is beautiful couple and an amazing family I ever seen in this new world. Am new fan in this You Tube channel and I love this story so much, may God keep blessing your family for ever.🙏🙏🙏

So when Abraham was cutting sukuma wiki, why was he not thinking of loving two people? Would Maureen love him then?? The point is, Abraham betrayed Sera

“How is Cera , go home” … she is saying it like she was doing Cera a favour by telling abraham to go home … the fact that you are even having coffee dates with a married person is insane , it screams home wrecker . I really feel for Cera

cera your humility can do many things God be with you cera

These ladies are so lovely, education and intelligent why fight for someone that want to share himself. Great job guys and hated your leave them along

I feel like crying....I was dating someone's hubby but nimeacha waaah this hits so deep,, serah pole kamum ,,,you deserve much better 😔😔

Serah is unhappy...... Maureen is guilty...... Abraham is enjoying all this situationship!!!!!

Very interesting and insightful interview 🎉❤🎉

A beautiful story Please 🙏 keep the Love❤

Lynn Ngugi, you're the Queen of interviews. The way you were careful to ask sensitive questions and kept all three involved...excellent!

But why does Cera look younger and more beautiful, hugs to you Cera 🥰

Waaah...big up to serah❤

Why should we pretend??No one can dream of this life no matter what.We only force ourselves once a situation exist.

OMG! I am perplexed ...Sarah is among of those good and too nice women that people tend to use and abuse at the same. May your innocence gets you out of this

The pain that Serah is masking through this whole interview is just alot. God grant you grace.

What a calm lady Cerah is.girl you are strong .personally i wont be able to tolerate such

Ibrahim, keep it up. God bless you 🙏. Am in the same mix bro let me try my best.

Without judging Abraham was ready to loose Cera for Maureen, bt Cera was not ready to give up on her family. Congrats Cera u have a big heart that can accommodate any sheet

God save us all from such men! Nobody deserves this...atleast deep down we women know what we feel at the end of it all. Knowing you were not enough and was never what he wanted leaves you heart broken. I seriously cant even watch this to the end am overwhelmed and a single lady am scared! marriage whatever it is , has become a battle field or stadium for people to play games. I see men are adopting new trends but the question remains ....have men ever thought that women too have choices out and can also add on the numbers?? And have the men ever thought why women dont do what they do publically even with the endless temptations they encounter outside their marraiges?? Anyway as a teacher i wonder at what we've become! May God armor us with strength and growth in this harsh world. To the genuinely good men and women out there God bless🙏 you!

Lynn you rock, l like the way you asked those genuine questions, Maureen well l feel God had a man for you but our impatient can run us up. Abraham is just using these two ladies.

This man is blind.what beauty was he looking for outside there yet Sera has everything including beauty of the heart!!!!😢

Love was created for two souls and only two hearts. It can't be shared. It can never be equal. Period.

Am not yet married but I won't make any persons daughter pass through this... Help me God

Serah you are a great woman. Very few can torelate this situation. May God bless you dear