WEDDING WAS WORSE THAN I EXPECTED 💀🤦🏻‍♀️🤡 DISASTER  

Well yes, because that's theft

And some of that stuff was rentals anyway.

Not even technically, it’s a theft

lol. Don’t even need to tell them. It’s theft in any case.

It is

I’m Mexican and it’s customary to take the center piece but not clear the table that’s stealing those people are not following a tradition. I actually never take a centerpiece unless the couple or the quinceañera tells me to take it

Honestly, just sounds like an excuse to steal.

I think they went the extra mile in retaliation for being told they couldn't take a decoration. Insanely disrespectful of cultures other than their own, and their own family members who have to pay for the things they STOLE.

No one does this. They just did it to show them a big ole middle finger like children.

I know, right! I mean, taking the fresh flowers is one thing. Taking the plates?!

It is a tradition though, but it's not the whole table, it's just supposed to be one small thing that represents the party and its usually quite obvious which decorations are the ones you're allowed to take. However in this case they were specifically told NOT to take anything, so they're assholes for still taking stuff and making a scene

Fr I was thinking like flower arrangements and snacks or some shit, but the plates?? Girl bye

It's supposed to be only the central decoration but that was Disrespectful AND selfish, they knew the couldn't and they didn't stop

​​@@DumBistachio isn't that just a regular thing at weddings like a wedding favour? It's like a trinket the bride/groom will give as a thank you for coming - some sweets in a cute box, a little miniature statue, an embroidered hand towel - little things?

@@whimsy-chan1188 some people try to take everything that there's in the table. I mean, it was like "the thing to do" in the 90s...I though that shit ended with my generation.

How dare you tell me what to do at your wedding? What do you think this is your wedding or something? 😂🫠

"How DARE you tell me what I can't or can take JUST BECAUSE YOU PAID FOR IT! How rude!" Yeah, those family members are not going to be invited to anything else. Ever.

That was the stress not a curse. Despicable family! The groom was probably embarrassed the hell out!

@anna-yn9es You're right, it's not a Mexican tradition. It's a greedy people tradition. I went to a Caribbean wedding and that happened 2. The bride's family took all the decoration and all the mini snacks that were on the tables, and they hid the liquor to take with them when they're going away. She was so embarrassed.

Fr✨ the only time there's plates is for BIG 3 day to 5 day weddings we're there is tradition to give meat to the Brides family and her family is supposed to give dishes

And only if the party host lets you, if they say no, it's no

@@iami5124 word!!!

And aren't center pieces usually something like flowers? So it's not a rental item, but something the bride and groom bought knowing they would be taken home or just given out?

They even took the plates 😭

i think it’s because they thought they could take them and the part about “how dare you disrespect me” is because in a lot of cultures we look up to elders. ik in south korea the elders can be very rude and entitled but most are nice.

It's steal* and how old are you?

@@stealthboy5767it was probably autocorrect dont make a big deal out of it

@@anna-yn9es okay, is "For the matter fact" also autocorrect?

@@stealthboy5767 does it really bother you so much that someone typed something wrong? Why are you so fixated on other people’s mistakes?

Or... you know... people can learn to not be obnoxious, behave and follow rules?

It is tradition, and it's just center pieces like a flower vase.

@@5phany5 it’s not tradition, it’s just something that people do without even asking sometimes, that’s why the people who throw the party make these centerpieces or decorations knowing that some people just take them. Personally I think it’s tacky to have decoration from other people’s parties, especially if they’re not closely related to me.

​@@5phany5I think these people took everything on the table because they were mad they were told not to take the centerpieces. They were just mad and entitled.

@@5phany5how ridiculous, i can only imagine Their houses must be filled with vases on all Walls like wth 🤣🤣🤣

Not in the US.

@@WinstonSmithGPT👆🏼this. My sisters wedding we had made the center pieces. Some family took it home (we didn’t have enough room) but like we set aside one for each parent and sibling, then we left them. It’s not a tradition here, at all (USA), it just depends where you go. I’m assuming majority of people’s centerpieces here aren’t handmade like her’s so if you take it, you owe money.

Lucky, it sounds adorable

I made my stuff too lol. That way I didn't have to worry about people stealing them lol.

I've been at planned events where they would take stuff but that's different family members it wasn't my call to tell them not to take it not my event i was only invited and those people they had el diablo on they shoulder they did witch craft and stuff I sat by one of them ohh my gosh I can't make this up it felt like cold air was coming from him and my ear was ringing like alarms i could hear it breathing it was attached to him and he was ready to unlease it had someone objected to him I swear accidentally bumped into him i swear i felt whatever was attached to him it was hard like a statue it gave me goosebumps and made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up I'm not making this up

@Zena_Rose you know right

I see no one mentioning race. Just you. Mexican isn’t a race. It’s a country of origin.

What would be funny is if they invited them to a ceremony of some sort and there weren't any decorations for them to try to take. Then if they complain they could be told that they still owe the rental company for the ones that got stolen last time.

It sounds like the bio went to them