WEEK IN MY LIFE JAPAN | Crazy neighbors, Full skincare routine, Getting back on track 

Best passive aggressive phrase when I’m done with someone is “have the day you deserve”

4:50 if she's saying "it's a little tight" you could say "your house gets a little loud some times" "I was woken up by some loud sounds from your house the other night" 😂💕

My passive aggressive phrase is: instead of wishing someone “the best” who has wronged you, I say, “I wish you God’s Justice“!😂

I don’t do all this for mr.Tanaka HELP 😂like girl bye he is YOURS you are safe😂.

Not Sundai calling out the neighbors, then giving good sis a tip about her husband... all while serving body (which is what triggered the encounter in the first place) during storytime. Love it! 😂🩵

All that marriage/relationship crazy story stuff is the constant reminder why im just staying single until im dead 😂

thank you for representing black women in japan so well! you are gorgeous, beautiful, smart, and a hard working business owner. I’m glad I found this channel around 4 years ago and have been inspired by you every time I see your videos

The next door neighbor drama lol! "...is it down at the bingo center?" lmaooooo!!

I swear that Japan reminds me of the southern US so much with the passive aggressive subtext and surface politeness. People can be very nice, but also very passive aggressive.

Girl! I dealt with the same thing in Korea. I was fresh out of college and was so slow to catching on until one of the teachers at the school I worked at gave me the stank face because her husband was "too nice to me".... and she invited me to have dinner with her family.... Once I caught on, I made myself scarce, then she would try to start stuff at work during lunch. Thankfully, my contract was almost over and I was busy with a dance group I joined, but it was crazy! I was tempted to tell her off, but being the foreigner, I knew I'd lose that one.

Sundai on a Sunday 🫶🏻 omg not Mr. Tanaka 😂

😂😂That Southern passive get-a-hint phrase means the same as this ‘Direct’ phrase we use in Chicago: ‘You don’t have to go home, but you got to get the hell up outta here!’ Chicagoans are very direct and that phrase can even get more direct: A friend is in your living room watching TV and you walk over and stretch your hand out for them to grab your hand… you pulled them up… and say, ‘Bounce, call me later.’ 😂😂😂 You can never misunderstand what a Chicagoan is telling you.

Sweden is also passive aggressive. If there's a post-it in the laundry room, on the entrance door, or in the trash room, you know it's about to become a show. There was a comedian that made a whole book on Swedish post-it wars and called it "The person who does not remove the lint shall die!" (context: the lint removal (or lack there of) from the laundry room might be the most common reason for post-it wars in Sweden). Anyting but direct confrontation in this country.

When a chocolate starfish is being passive aggressive, match them with bluntness or fake obliviousness. Make them uncomfortable with your "American", straight to the point, response or make them have to fully spell out what they're trying to say. In my experience, most passive aggressive chocolat starfish are typically not willing to say what they're thinking/feeling so straight forward and risk showing their true starfishness to someone elss. If you don't give in to their b.s. they tend to get so annoyed with having to dance around the subject for an extended amount of time that they'll give up and walk away, taking their messy behavior with them.

For dehydrating mint: Place the leaves on a cookie sheet in a single layer. Warm them in the oven at 180 F or 80 C for two hours, then check them to see if they've dried out completely. If so, they're done. You can do this to other herbs if your house is too humid .

thank you for calling out the passive aggression, theres nothing polite about it😂😢. i love direct communication even if i get my feelings hurt, at least i know where i stand with you. you+your hair = GORGEOUS ❤ screaming @ MITSUBISHI!!

my most used passive aggressive phrases when i wouldnt be caught dead doing what youre doing are "if you like it i love it" and "they better than me"

damn "the driest place in here is my ankles" hit me way too hard LMAO

Girl, the body is BODYINGGGGG! Yuh look good!

Lol ur so funny “mommy is doing white ppl things”😂❤ love Duchi’s new laptop🎉

Hangover Tips: Hydration is key drink plenty water(the day of and before), Liquid IV or some electrolyte drink before you start drinking and when you wake up, don't drink sugary drinks, don't mix liquors Let me know when you figure out the energy part. I'm 23 turning 40 lol

Your better than me as soon as she said something about my clothes I would have been like “yup it’s such a lovely quiet non-argumentative day to wear them right” 👁️👄👁️

My stepmom used to grow peppermint and she would clean them and put them in jars with water and a slice of lemon and sit it outside for a day or so. It was so good. The best mint tea

That passive aggressive shyttt. Thats what im dealing with in Portland Oregon. I moved here last year for law school but gurl these people are so interesting. The nice nasty isn’t my thing, im DIRECT!

@Sundai Love….. LMAO.....this cheating rant when all we see are your abs. OMG......I'm in tears laughing. Beyond good!!! I just love your RU-vid channel. It just makes my Sundays.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤

Sundai is so gorge yet humble! i mean WOW!

You’re a hardworking, inspiring, beautiful, talented woman! When I’m feeling “down” I watch your videos past and present. Always uplifts me.💕

Tatamae- the Japanese Public Face. Learned it when tutoring English to Japanese Adult Students. 😂

5:46 yessss……. that part about him cheating is why I am very sure I will not be getting married. I think there are only 2 options to mating: Option1, Very high standards for the men that want to marry and mess up your body for kids. Because low key I prefer option 2. Also open communication with intimacy because I need to know when they become curious to others so the relationship can turn into, they on that side of the house and me on the other. Option 2, Fun Boyfriend experience twice a year. We do not have to communicate until the next bae cation. Before the meet up we have rigorous testing. People might think it is unusual but the older you get there are just some people you might contact twice a year and that will be that person. I think this is very possible in 30s. Because I do gang abstinence for peace of mind, not to save anything for a person.😂 I dropped a much deserved like!!!

HEY SUNDAI Gurl you’re not getting old Watch out for cooking your food and aluminum or Teflon pots. Those particles can get into your joints and your muscles and tighten them up faster than they need to be.

My best no hangover tip as a 30 year old mom is "Golden milk". Use any type of milk, one teaspoon kurkuma powder, honey to taste, black pepper and ginger powder just a dash. Heat it up, drink it before drinking and the morning after! Your welcome 😊❤

Girllll I’m so glad someone else has the same problem with water. I go all day realizing that I haven’t even had a sip of water. Like how?!?! I don’t even hate the taste, I just literally don’t gravitate towards it. I drink iced tea most days and I swear that’s the only reason my body has not failed yet. I’ve tried to use flavor powders, I’ve tried to mix collagen & protein powders with water, I’ve tried flavored sparkling water, it doesn’t matter what I do, I will not drink it

Omg 2 things: ‘Quiet! Mommy doing white people things.’ I’m still laughing, and so needed a good laugh. And 2: I was a single Mom in a suburb and could not believe the ridiculous vibes sent way too many times, by men and women. As if I would want anyone’s husband. Just yuck. Wtf. People need to get happy. You are such a gem. Wishing you every blessing and great health.

Your body is giving everything miss ma’am!! Love your videos, they always give me hope and just overall make me feel better❤❤

I love hearing your neighbor drama. It helps understanding passive aggressive communication. I heard japanese don't understand sarcasm.

You are funny as hell 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i love your editing skills top tier

8:59 might as well wave to your neighbor’s husband while the window’s open 👋🏽😘😂 I love visiting Japan, but I know my blunt ass could never live there!

I make mint lemonade, I squeeze the lemons and then steam the mint leaves! Add them together, with a little ice. And it’s perfect for the summer time!!!

I live in a culture/location where the passive-aggressiveness is off the chain, too. It's WILD for those of us who are, appreciate, or NEED more direct communication; whew. Keep learning, living, and HYDRATING, e-Niece!

“The driest place in this house is my ankles” 💀💀💀💀💀💀 stop the madness 😂

Zero cleansing balm is by Banilla Co. the cleansing oil is Beauty of Joseon

4:41-5:15 had me 😂😂 this is why I love you ❤. Maybe it’s the Scorpio ♏️ Energy. “I think she’s Face timing her friends abroad”😂😂 then glance at the photos on the screen. You give me LYFE ❤️✨❤️

Hi Sundai! Always love spending Sunday mornings watching your content! Best passive aggressive phrase is “ Bless your little heart”!❤️ 😂😂

Queen, water with a hint of lemon and a boatload of ice !!! Slaps!!! Also when I get bored with that, I will add tea bags, preferably white tea:peach, strawberry hibiscus, etc

This is supposed to say something about you, not about the other model, but: that blue dress looks sooo much better on you than in the advertisment! And yes - I saw the thumbnail and thought dang, those abs, too 😄

Every Sunday I feel like a crackhead until I get my Sundai video fix 😂 Happy Sunday everyone!!

A good way to dink more water is to make a sugar free lemonade. Or use flavored electrolytes pack. It gives the water some flavor without the calories or sugar. Just fill a 32 is water bottle.

Southern girl here 👋🏽 "Bless your heart" = "That's ridiculous!"

Hello everyone! I see we’re all back for our weekly dose of Sundai Love. And after a week I’ve had, and still dealing with…head colds and asthma 🤧😷😫😊, this is EXACTLY the medicine I need. I’m here, Dr. Love. Masked up and all. 😷😷

as someone who struggled with acne all her life, I SWEAR by Panoxyl. I use that and Tretinoin at night and then Panoxyl and the Cera Ve daily moisturizer in the morning. my skin has never looked better.

When Sundai recommends a product that I've used before (Pan-Oxyl), I feel like I've accomplished something big, lol

NAWT AT THE BINGO CENTERRR 😂😂😂😂

yeah that "so what you got going on for the rest of the day"😂😂

Girl, where is Puff??😢

YESS!!! I love how descriptive you were about the skin care products and how to use please post more because all this I need :) As always love your videos Sundai!

“Be quiet, mummy’s doing white people things” 😂😂😂 I bursted out laughing so hard at that 🤣

Your videos are a vibe!! Very relaxing and just good energy- perfect for Sundays, Ms Sundai LOL Have a wonderful week!

Love your videos as always, you’re soo witty 😂😂 I get soo many ideas from you , gotta look into the kitty laptop 🫶🏾

You actually don’t even need to dry the mint. Maybe to preserve it, yes, but you can make tea with the fresh leaves. That’s my favorite way to have mint tea!

Would you ever do a "Favorites" video, Sundai style? I so enjoy a great monthly favorites vid.

You look as gorgeous as ever 🥹 and that outfit was immaculate 🩵🩵

Sundai and her hair in that blue fit with that Bawdy? PERFECTION ❤

It's always a good time on your channel. I just feel like I'm chilling with a friend and catching up.

Give us the tea about Mr. Tanaka girl 😂😂😂

I'm just here for the japanese neighbor drama lets be fr lmao. But no I don't like water. I'll drink tea all day tho.

The IM GOING reverb. I felt that...Im not doing that...but I felt that.

Yes ma'am, the abs are ab'ing! I'd already noticed that you've been losing weight but when I saw the thumbnail, I was like wait, what did I miss? You look fantastic!❤ And now I'm rolling over laughing because in the time it's taken me to get my phone out and type this, your abs are still talking to us on the video 😂

Adding mint to water along with cucumbers is so refreshing!

I’ve had success with liquid IV. It’s important to be mindful of the salt content, but I keep one in my purse to add to my water when I need hydration.

Get yourself a dehydrator that will help dry the herbs out as well

An Australian one is "Diddums", can be used almost exactly like the US Southern "Bless your heart." It can be an endearment, or it can mean you're a freaking idiot, and anything in between. It all depends on the context and tone. I'm an Aussie and my American husband LOVES it. He changed his contact in my phone to Diddums.

Moving to Tokyo ❤Can't wait to see Sundai Love in person one day 😅

If you wash those mint leaves and then put them in a mug with hot water... delicious!

Girl your hair on the beginning of your video is straight fire!!!!!

10:05 mint can be put in soup like pho and also if you boil rose Mary with olive oil and mint great for your hair growth and less itchy skin and scalp. Good luck 🍀🤞🏽🙏🏽💜

Ahhh, Miss Sunday🤭🤭…you kinda hittin us with some zingers over here😂😂😂” was he cheating while he was at the pharmacy?!?!🤣🤣🤣” Mr. Tanaka out here living his best erectile dysfunction medication life with these young suga babies🤣🤣

My best tip is having a glass of water with every drink

I used to work in skincare ages ago, and I have never seen a content creator actually get all the tips and knowledge right, but you nailed it! Thanks for the product recs Sundai ❤

My granddad asked my dad one time. "Son you don't plan on coming back do you?" My dad says yes sir I do. Granddad says no you aren't leaving anytime soon.😅

I really like the slice of life & travel content! 💖

Videos just keep getting better and better 🥹

OMG Yay!! Happy Sunday, Sundai 😊

I drink water like a fish! I love water. I think I make waiters mad at restaurants. Cause when they don't bring me a cup of water as well as my drink I ask for it. Then when I slurp it up and they refuse to come back and fill it I drink everyone else's water. (if they let me.) 😂😂😂😂 So yeah...Love water

Truly fun video! Thank you, precious!

YESSS THE QUEEN HAS POSTED❤️

Best hangover prevention for me is taking a B12 before festivities and then two glasses of water after between cocktails. I think that LaRosche discontinued the sunscreen/primer. I love it and am milking the last of it from the tube while I try to find some. I can’t find it on their website. 🥺 happens every time I get addicted or find a product that is awesome😭

Okay body!!! 🫰🏽🫶🏽🧡

girl you are top tier goals!

I swear I get so excited every time I see you post a video ❤🙌🏾

Absssss💪💪 you can check that off your list 🎉 Go Sundai!!

Have a great summer!

Hey Sundaiii- happy Sunday❤️❤️❤️! I’ve not watched a vid in a minuteeee! Happy to be back’

"Honey, let's go to bed because these people want to go home" (when you are at home and your visit has overstayed their welcome....) This is my fav one 😂 Always a joke amongst my circle of friends.

Yep I've totally heard about the passive aggresion culture there before

HAPPY SUNDAY❤

your skin is amazing!!!! thanks for sharing your products! xoxo

Hello Sundai, Your videos are inspiring. Thanks for making them. I love your cats as well. Was wondering if I missed a video about puff your younger cat. Is he gone, I don’t see him anymore.

just had to say this again, but sundai you are the fing best queenie 💕💕

For the Love of Sundai ❤ Excellent channel

Alright Sundai Love uploaded another video!❤❤