I can agree with you about your mood being off, I can’t explain it, it’s like an explained heaviness. I’ve deactivated my socials and kinda exiled myself from family and friends until I’m in a better space!! I hope you begin feeling better soon lovie🥺💜🥰
Hi Shelly- I love you for speaking up on how you're feeling and how you have bad days sometimes. I do too and just this past weekend I was really going through it for no reason at all. It started with my 3 day weekend off from both of my jobs. I wanted to relax and just be home. Well " relaxing" turned into 3 days in bed. Depressive state setting in. I knew it was happening but yet I couldn't bring myself to leave the house. But here it is Monday and I magically shook it off ..got cute and ran all kinds of errands and had a little bounce in my step. I'm a trip. I say it's the curses spoken of in the Bible. We're already not in our office...I said it...to be at peace. ❤️
Completely relate to having mental health issues and even the funk you're feeling right now. I'm doing the same as you exercising, eating healthy but something just doesn't feel right. You're not alone either. Sending compassion to you. Enjoy that self gaze night-you're gorgeous inside and out. X
Hey Shell! I totally understand you about feeling just like blah. I go through it also like my mental well being I have been feeling down. It seems like every since we loss my sister and my niece things for me hasn’t been right! But by the grace of GOD I’m pulling it through. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
I’m with you sis.. it seems nothing is getting me in a great headspace. Self care is a great idea. I also need to get back into therapy as well. Thanks for your transparency. Realness comes few and far between lately.
Seasonal Depression is real - even a few days of rainy gray sky’s can get me. Getting out of the house, walks, planning things to look forward to and Wellbutrin has been such a game changer 💜
Thank you for posting so I won’t die of boredom at work and what about a pampas plant (I hope that’s what it is) it’s would be slimmer for the corner. Also, I hope you do feel better. Life be life-ing
I’m annoyed I can’t finish the vlog before lunch is over, but let me say I thoroughly enjoy spending time with you. I’m also trying to get my life together and get my workouts in. You are just motivating me even more
Thank you for always blessing us with good content I(we) appreciate your consistency ❤️💖it can't always be easy but always remember we appreciate your effort You are amazingggg Shelly
My daughter is going to get us a coffee machine to make hot and cold drinks. I can't wait. For you corner get a corner shelving. This way you can add decorative items, When you get another dinning set get a roundtable it will balance out the squareness of the rooms.. I think if you had Covid it contributes to your mental health especially if you already struggle with mental issues.
A shelf is a good idea! I didn’t think of that, thank you! I did have Covid and was hospitalized for about a month. That is when my mental struggles worsened which is why I started therapy.
@@iamshellyy I did too and this is why I could relate to what you was expressing. If you do some research you will find others tha are struggling with their mental health due to Covid. They don't really talk about this in the media at all.
I just watched, & I feel you Shelly on being in a mental slump. I am pregnant, & my pregnancy is HORRIBLE at times. It’s been effecting my mental health. Thankfully I have a therapist, & I’m actively working to keep myself positive. It’s ok to NOT be ok, but there is a light at the end of your tunnel, & there is help out there! Take advantage of it! Stay positive us Seashells🌞🐚
I would get the Nespresso only if your into espresso. The machine can do coffee as well. Another thing is you would be getting your espresso directly from Nespresso. You also can find them at Target. Your favorite grocery shopping store.
Hi Shelly! I love the Nespresso Vertuo machine and frother. Nespresso makes really good coffee. They offer several styles and I think you'll like it, too.
How about getting like a corner bench, or two benches which you put in the corner then move the table to the corner. Kinda like a cafe set up instead of the table being in the centre..
Shellyyy, I love your vlogs! Thank you for the transparency about how you've been feeling - can definitely relate! Alsooo, is your hair in clip ins or a u-part?? Love it😍
Just saw this video in my recommendation,I clicked on it ,a few seconds in I already know ima like you so I subbed 👍🏽 idk about anyone else but as soon as I start watching a new person’s vlog I immediately know if it’s a yes or pass🤦🏽♀️😂😂😂🥰
Hey Shelly, just a suggestion. For the palm plant maybe you should move it into your bedroom (if you don't have greenery there) or put it in a dark space to live up the space. To replace the Plant maybe you can add a small bar cart, (I have seen some pretty ones on wayfair that would be perfect for that space) . You can add a small console table under the mirror as well and and a table lamp. ( Not sure if you have enough space for that) You may also place the snake plant there and buy a gold planter with a stand in that corner. And add an accent rug under the dining table. Girl i can go on and on. Lol I Hope this helps. ☺♥
Just came across your channel and you’re such a vibe 🥰🥰🥰🥰 new subbie As for your mental struggle, try meditation. I had 3 therapist and neither did it for me until I found meditation. Find a park and take your shoes off and walk through the grass… connection with nature helps a lot
I have experienced that if you burn lemon or orange essential oil it wakes up the right side of the brain. It’s something my therapist told me about. Also, surround yourself with colors. Put on a bright outfit, go somewhere where there are bright colors like museum or something exciting (not a nightclub). Sometimes those challenges are spiritual battles that we have to carve out & let GOD minister to us. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
You should add a bar cart on the corner where the plant is . You can also put candy or chocolate glass containers on display whenever you get a sweet tooth. 🤭💕
Me in a funk, clicking on this video because you’re videos bring me peace. We are definitely going to get through this 😫. Idk what’s wrong with me but my energy is so low it’s exhausting me🤦♀️
I love this, we see a lot of RU-vidrs showing the glam and of course we need that but some days I don’t feel my best an it’s good to see that too - new subscriber for sure 🥰
Awww, sorry you aren't have a great day. I definitely have my moments too. Sometimes I feel alone because I relocated and have a husband I still feel alone. NY can be a lonely place because it's so big and over saturated with people that have a hard time trusting. That's why it's so important to continue to love on ourselves.
hey. new sub, thnx for your transparency being able to relate helps a lot of people, cause when I feel that way it's as if im the only one. I keep saying why are feeling this way your life is good. So far since the latter part of the week I have been feeling better. Glory to God I'm taking it day by day. Sending peace n blessings to you.
I think you could put Pompous in the corner also you could change your rubber to lighter one like a Khaki color !! It would look beautiful ! I’m a new subbie ❤️❤️ you’re so pretty !
Hi shelly idk how u feel about online shopping for furniture but wayfair has amazing dining room furniture and shipping wont be a problem! If im not mistaken you can schedule your shipping. But for sure their shipping is pretty consistent
#SeaShell forever ♥ #Notification gang 💃💃 Great way to start the week with a vlog from the beautiful shelly ❤🤞...how i also want to get back to the gym just been so lazy 😏...
Peace Shelly! Love the Sharkfit look! I’ve been eyeing a few tops from Halara and Boo Tee, I’ll add SF to my list too. Definitely look at getting a slim nook piece, maybe with some closed shelving on the bottom and then shelves on top? Sending you lots of positivity. Peace
Hey girl, this is random BUT have you tried the makeup by Mario lip pluming serum lipstick? 🔥🔥 I know you love a glossy lip and they have beautiful shades. Let me know if you try it out
Girl.. I thought I was the only one.. we all have them .. just can’t get the mental together my mind has been all over the place.. so I can’t pinpoint 1 thing😩😩😩
Umm ms.mamas lol I’m not going to lie I’m like okay what happened to the vlog 😭😂 but any who, hey girl 🤎 eating a late breakfast while enjoying todays Vlog 🥰🥰
I refuse to allow myself to get in a bad mental state unless it's situational. But even then I'll get to a point where I'm like "girl snap out of it and let's resolve this". I have been thru hell and back so I'm super aware and mindful of when I get that little inkling of depression.
I struggle with this too. My therapist tells me feel whatever the discomfort is, talk through it, through the triggers/my feelings, but don’t remain there. Sending you love and light ✨
@@anithompson4296 my therapist tells me the same. As well as pay attention to what I’m doing, who I’m around etc when I’m feeling this way. My love to you 🤍
Thanks for sharing and being so transparent boo! I love watching your videos in the morning as I get prepared for my day. So positive and motivating! I'm proud of you and Stella Rosa is my favorite lol
Thanks a Million....I have been feeling crummy ...and abandoned and the summer is my time as well.. I think God is doing something this season...moving people ,things...but its draining cause we truly have not gotten any clarity...I see your thumb nails are looking snatched...keep it up..your losing alot....from one Shell 🐚 to another Let's start a Community girl! !!
I just watched your video & the reason why you’re mental has been in shamble’s is because, when you are in the midst of your breakthroughs & promises of God, the enemy attacks. So, thrive, share your light, & know you are in the will of the Great Spirit. 🖤 You will overcome.
You have to learn to give your self grace. But also feed your mind positivity seek out new music read new books discover new positive things. It helps greatly.. I've struggled with mental health and it was especially a downer in the summer months.. but try those things New music recommendation Alice Coltrane new book recommendations Queen Afua scared women
