For some reason I felt like you didn't like your job. I don't mean to assume or generalize I just remember when I quit my last job 2 years ago I was uncomfortable, I was so over it, and I felt disrespected. I ended up getting a job that was better than what I manifested lol so it's all in the timing. Please celebrate this moment to walk away. Quarantine is making people realize what's important. Quitting for the sake of your sanity is brave. Put all the Ads that you want to on your vlogs, we'll watch all the way through lol.
Octavia B I’m going through the same thing at my job.. it’s too stressful I’m currently looking for something else.. but hard to find a work at home 😩 I love how relatable you are! I haven’t even watched the whole video but went to the comments lol .. still watching
You’ve got this Octavia! I left my previous job at the beginning of March literally when everything happened, it was a horrible place to work. Then businesses started closing, I had money saved, but I knew that I still needed to find another job eventually,2 weeks later I had a job offer and I’ve been at that job since then. We are not normalizing being mistreated by jobs PERIODT🖤♥️
Octavia I definitely feel you on securing your mental. You did the right thing. I'll leave my favourite scripture with you, Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you says the lord, "plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future".
Literally me!!! This resonated with me so much! I just quit my stressful ass career and I start a new job tomorrow that requires wayyy less of me for more money. I felt every word. I’m praying for you and your new path! 🤍
I admire your move, leaving a work that you're not content with, take guts. I am 20yo quit my last job because I worked so hard and was underpaid, and treated unfairly. It was humiliating me and what I stand for. To be getting up every morning to go work, was a bother. I even fell into depression. That work was never for me. I have friends that are scared to leave their jobs because they fear ending up unemployed and broke. Work has been a challenge for me in jamaica. Been like a year and some months since my last job. I won't complain, I am eating everyday and in good health. I am grateful, and I will not rush getting a job. I'll take my time and do my research. I believe God has something better out there for me.
I support you on your decision to leave a job that you were unhappy at, too many of us are sadly stuck in that cycle. I know that there are more great things coming your way!
I love hearing that. Someone just prayed for me telling me that I'm gonna be victorious I just need to develop the mindset and declare positive things over my life.
The key point, 'normalise'. I've never normalised, struggle and I don't allow myself to stay down for too long because just like you, I don't like it down there. We as women, especially black women were not created to fail. I quit my job back in July. Just as you stated I had a fire burning inside of me and I wasn't happy even though I was working remotely. I found another job a month later and I left because the 'manager' was a fraud and perv. Currently trying to figure some things out and trying to enjoy being lazy, I don't do that well. I like being busy and dare I say it I am a workaholic. I have a few interviews in the pipeline this week and I'm going to be positive, believe and pray that the right job will come to me. What's meant for me or us all will not miss us, unless we allow it. Well done for following your heart Octavia and trusting in your journey, it takes courage. You're going to be just fine and do way better than you thought. Sending you a big virtual hug 🤗
I have to share this with you. 6 years ago I did exactly the same thing. I was managing a high end clothing store. All people saw was the nice clothes and heels and how I looked nice everyday; but I was dying from stress. The stress was not worth it, plus I was extremely underpaid. When I quit everybody thought I was crazy. I went back and got a second degree. Now I’m in a flexible career where I can work as little or as much as I want to. Plus creating content on the side is the best outlet ever. Don’t feel bad and don’t ever regret. With your drive you will go very far. 💕💕 Ps: I was also a single mother of 1 when I quit. Now I’m remarried 😉
I think we can agree that we saw how stressed you were at times and I’m so glad you chose to put yourself and overall health first. Being stressed out should not be a normal thing it has a negative impact on the brain and body. I’m happy for you 👏🏿❤️
Girl I was so stressed I really did my best to hide it on camera but sometimes it’s hard to fake it you know. Even days where I’m not vlogging and I tell you guys I was busy... nope ! Just having a panic attack
I am glad that you shared that. I left my job a while back for my mental health and it was the best decision ever. And remember where God guides he provides!!!! And we do have to stop normalizing struggle.
You got this. And it's ok even if you have moments of not feeling ok. Sometimes you need a break and you have to get out your own way and head to do it. So congrats on choosing you. I am in the same boat making my plans to leave a field I have only ever known and worked in.
Hey Octavia, I was at a (well paying) job for 1,5 years and it wrecked havoc on my mental and physical health. People around me couldn’t understand why on earth I would resign but I knew deep in my heart that I had to do it. I’m now in an even better job with great career development opportunities and I’m thriving. Stay focused and keep praying ✨🙏🏾 things will work out for the best
About that Zara package- leave it to Karma if someone really stole it and believe in ur heart that God will bless u with way more than what you've lost..... keep it pushing girl. ❤
I wholeheartedly felt you at the end. I saved money and created other streams of income in order to leave my toxic job that was originally my dream job. I'm glad you're okay and just know God has better for you, we all deserve to be happy and passionate about what you do. Wishing you the best and that was so sweet of you to give a subscriber clothes.
Very happy for you. People dont understand how much more important your mental is vs the money. I did the same and people were so judgmental but it was the most freeing thing I've ever done! Best of luck to you!!!
You are seriously the sweetest and most genuine vlogger ! I love your mindframe and how grateful you are for everything. God is good and he has you girl you have no worries ! Ill say a prayer for you to find your dream job soon!
Thank you for the encouragement and peaceful vibes at the beginning of this video 😊🌿✨ Why did I get emotional at the end of the video? I wish you the best on your future endeavors. You are going places Octavia! Thank you for sharing and being an inspiration to me ❤️❤️
I am so happy for you leaving your job, especially for your mental health! I love it! Take all of the time you need! I did that last year and it was the best decision that I ever made, I love my new job.
In regards to the job situation, I am definitely there with you. I cant wait to find a new job, but I dont feel comfortable quitting beforehand.I almost feel traumatized especially during my 7 months of wfh. Best of luck to you Octavia!! You shouldn't have to settle and be miserable anywhere!
Happy Sunday! Just want you to know I appreciate you being so genuine. I am just like you, I like things to go a certain way and I am who I am 😅 I’ve definitely been more intentional with purchases and adapting more of a minimal lifestyle. Thanks for being you ❤️
Octavia 😭😭 my Cancer ass is crying because this morning I woke up saying Friday I’m gonna quit my job. I’m in such a bad space mentally, I cry almost every morning when I have to log in to work. You’re brave mama 🙌🏾 keep your head up! ❤️❤️❤️
@@nosiization oh woau, that sounds extreme.. if you have to cry every morning because of a job..you need to do something..try and search already for another job I would say :( good luck :(
Omg Octavia, I absolutely adore you and I’m happy for you that you made the decision to leave your job in order to protect your mental health and energy. I’m currently so stressed from my job, but no option to quit because of the immigrant struggle (literally only reason I’m even in America is my job 😭). I’m happy for you, you made the right decision and you are paving the way for something spectacular to come your way!! No job is worth your well being and we are wayy too young to be this stressed. Hopefully my channel blows up and I can buy my way out of my job. Excited for the next phase of your life and thanks for sharing as always 🌞
The spirit with which you talk about lifting yourself up into the place you belong and not settling for that cycle of “hard work no joy” is very inspiring. I get that coming from a Jamaican background. Once God is for you and this vision it will come into fruition.
Honey, don't stress! God is in control and will definitely place you where you need to be! Just breathe and keep your head up. Sending you lots of love hun. ❤️
I made the same decision almost 2 years ago. The money was amazing but my mental health was in the gutter and against everyone's advice, I chose my mental health, and it was the hardest but best decision that I have made. There were times when I missed the money, but recently God reminded me of how utterly miserable I was during my time there, and the panic attacks I got every evening at the thought of having to go in to work the next day, and there's no amount of money that is worth any of that misery. You've got this Octavia, and looking at how far you've come with youtube leaves no doubt in my mind that whatever you decide to pursue will be more than successful. Love you!
The sit down chit chat at the end was everything. I'm all the way here for women feeling empowered and emboldened to make decisions for themselves!! Get it hun! AND LOL to the cancer comment. One thing about us "we gone cry" lmao. wishing you all the best bby!
I understand you completely when you say that you only want to have the things you need and that you are happy with what you have. Inner peace and happiness is far more important than having a lot. I have what I need and like nothing extra. I don't like clutter it suffocates me. Even having a lot of people in my house , it disturbs my inner peace and takes me days to adjust to my surroundings afterwards. So trust me i know.... just be u and do what makes you happy💕
Congratulations on making the move that would be better for you. God has something better down the road! I am so excited I get to catch your videos 3 times a week. We love you Octavia keep being the person you are!!!!💕💕💕💕
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Congrats to you on making that decision and making that move. That’s so courageous! You’re going to be good. Having peace in your life surpasses everything else.
Octavia, I’m so happy for you. Something perfectly crafted for you is coming. God bless you for having the courage and setting yourself up to do so. The generation of Jamaicans before us beat the idea of overworking and familial support at a young age into us- but we have the opportunity to tap into the other side of life. I’m already preparing for your video of alll the good news you will receive 🙏🏾
My job is definitely draining I’m at the point of leaving . Love the people I work with but it’s become to much for my mentally health ! I would love to receive the clothes as well if you haven’t chosen someone 💕
I'm forever inspired eveytime I come thru to watch. Will be uploading content soon and I have learned a lot from you in terms of mental health and how to make sure your good first. It really effects the content one puts out. I love how real you are. We don't just see the glitz and glam. We can so relate to a lot of what you go thru. Keep up with the great content!💗💃🏾🙏
Congrats on making such a big decision with confidence. I have no doubt you'll do well! I completely understand your POV, because it's my current situation as well. You are your greatest priority!
I love watching your vlogs and I have to say this one touched me the most. I love that although you quit, your still motivated to do better and get better because you know you deserve it. I’ve been down and sometimes I don’t know how to get myself back up. Your affirmations spoke to me. Keep doing what your doing, I too believe you will get to where you want to be ❤️
I quit my case management job 3 weeks ago! My mental health is way more important! Glad I did it🙏🏾 I'm definitely going to take some time before my next job move. God's got us!
You took the right decision for yourself and that's all that matters! I am 36 and made that decision 10 years ago and never regretted it! Good luck and have fun with your new life girl 👍🏾
Congrats on seeking your new journey 🙂 you will be fine & you'll do great at whatever your next adventure will be.... good luck with everything girl, you got this🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏽
You will do well Octavia! You have drive and the work ethic! You’re going to be successful! I’m sort of in the same boat, unhappy with my job and wanting more and better for myself! I can totally relate! You inspire me as usual. We’re gonna make it! ❤️
Thank you for being super transparent, with your audience and letting us know the real life issues. You are not in this alone, and God will guide you in your next steps Queen, just be obedient and faithful. By the way tour skin and organisation skills are top notch 👌🏾
I love watching your videos you remind me of my younger self. I wish you all the best in all of your future dreams and endeavours, I can just be getting on with my day and have your videos playing in the background, such positive and chilled energy.. and you’re beautiful 🥰🥰
I just love the honesty. #real_one. I can definitely relate to the eagerness to be great as a immigrant. We go through so much going above and beyond at work just to be sh*+ on in the end, people taking our kindness for weakness, not being appreciated in any aspect but at the end of the day it’s good, better, best sis. Keep pushing and never settle. 💪🏿🖤
TRUELY enjoy your channel Tavia! God has a plan for you and quitting your job was just the beginning of your blessing. We appreciate ALL that you share and look forward to more! ❤️😉
Sis, wow this video came at the PERFECT time as I too am debating about leaving a stressful work place. I applaud you for standing up for yourself and doing what’s best for you! I’m motivated, as always. Wish you the best of luck on your new journey.
Totally relate to having a stressful job & that immigrant mindset, good for you for looking out for your mental health. Wishing you all the best and love your positive outlook❤️
At least you gave 2 weeks' notice. I remember one day I woke up and said I can't do this anymore and if I don't go now, I will never go. It was the highest paying job I had and I was afraid, but I knew I would make it. I finished up my day at work and left for good. I look back now and leaving was the best choice I ever made. I make twice what I made and work for and with people that look like me. And in this current environment, I'm glad to have my team because they just understand the hard emotional days.
Yes It’s always important to me to leave a job on good terms as I never want to burn bridges . Life is a funny thing and I would never just leave despite the issues I faced .
I swear your vlogs are so therapeutic for me 🥰. Your nails are lowkey your current/ fall colour pallet (before you added the new Zara stuff) 😅. About your mini life update: you’re at a powerful place right now, being able to take that step and know you’re going to be okay!!! Power! ❤️❤️❤️
Take time for you. It’s okay. I too always go through trials and tribulations before my blessing comes. Everything you’re going through is making you stronger. I’m in the same space and my job is very stressful and the workload is insane. I want to quit but I’m unable to. This really motivated me. Thank you and we appreciate transparent videos like this. You aren’t alone. Keep pushing and take time to look for a new opportunity. Sending you positivity and love from nyc♥️
Very happy for you. Prioritizing yourself is so important. Especially as black women we tend to simply accept struggle as an inevitable aspect of our lives when it doesn't have to be. This too shall pass... you will most definitely come out on top. I also don't know if the clothing giveaway is over but I would love to have those items.
Great video. I really enjoyed seeing a different side of you. I appreciate your honesty and feelings about your life situation, plans and goals. Love all your clothes, makeup! 😊❤️
My old job paid very well but I would actually get nauseous and depressed everytime I had to go in...it was awful. So happy for you! Also I'm loving how we're seeing more and more of your personality!
