WEEKLY VLOG | MAINTENANCE: HAIR + NAILS + DEALING w/ Anxiety + INFLUENCER EVENTS 

God did not give you a spirit of fear/anxiety but of love, power and a sound mind.

You’re not alone for sure. I’m shy, introverted and definitely have social anxieties, I’m working on it too. I just force myself to be in an uncomfortable position or setting to get out of my comfort zone. You got this 😉

I am totally like you when it comes to social anxiety. I cannot fake it. I want new friends but I get so drained from a lot of talking as well, but I’m very nice. I wish I could improve this part of me. Praying it gets better for both of us

i just wanted to let you know you’re YOU are my comfort youtuber

soon as i got the notification, i had to click. it’s been so longgggg

Fatima stop! you're not boring...whatever content you do we enjoy watching them because we love 'YOU' and 'Your Content' that's why we subscribed. I can't speak for everyone but regardless of whatever you post I'm happy to watch bc i love seeing you do stuff, speak, travel etc, you're like a virtual friend. any how sorry for venting and i hope you get the motivation to keep posting what 'YOU' love to do. will always have my support xoxo

Gurll you are never boring ❤

I completely understand being socially anxious! Working in sports I am often times around coaches, athletes, owners, etc and I would and can still feel the need to present myself in a more polished way that isn’t exactly me. Which would often times lead to awkward breaks within the conversations or even worse I would just start talking about random things and I could feel the tension from me trying to force a conversation. My biggest advice to you is PRAYER… I took sometime to grow spiritually and I can say that it has been extremely beneficial for me in many ways. God is the God of love so therefore any thoughts of fear, confusion, anxiety, etc are not of him. Once I started changing my mindset about those situations I started to become more comfortable putting myself in social situations. Granted there are times where I’m still nervous, but I have so much peace with myself that even when I do find myself in an awkward situation I am no longer anxious. Typically what I try to do now is just renew my mind to think comforting thoughts before entering those spaces. Another tip is to practice including more open ended questions in your conversations. These are questions that do not require a simple yes or no answer. Most times when getting to know new people conversations can become awkward if there are a ton of pauses or breaks in the conversation. So open ended questions allow the person to elaborate a bit in their response which will give you the opportunity to piggyback off something that they may mention in their response. I know this is a bit of a long comment but I do believe that you are capable of overcoming this challenge! Love your content ❤

Regarding anxiety,I can totally relate. It just gets exhausting not being able to interact when you want to. For some reasons,when I go out, I just feel like I'm boring but I'm originally not,it's weird.

I feel the same way! I don’t have friends at all and constantly try to encourage myself that it’s ok to be my own best friend just so I won’t let it get to me.

I definitely can relate to having social anxiety but God doesn’t give us a spirit of anxiety or fear. You just have to continually pray for God to remove it and continually step out of your comfort zone. I know it’s more easily said than done but I can 100% relate to you. Thank you for sharing your struggle with anxiety.

I know you may feel like your content is “repetitive” and “boring” but please know that you’ve built a community strong enough to the point where you could literally post yourself staring at the screen, and we would be very much entertained❤

omgg , you 're not boring and we love weeklyy vlogg do it moree n moreeeee

Welcome back🎉 I think one way you could put yourself out there, while holding yourself accountable; is go places alone, while making a goal of at least ONE connection. With a follow up. Annnnnnd bring us along 😊

First of all your content is absolutely not boring!! I look forward to watching your videos all the time! Just the fact that you are able to make your channel feel like a safe space by being so transparent is GOLDEN. And I am sure there many many girls like me that feel the same way. You could literally just turn the camera on and say nothing and I'd still be watching. For an hour long yes.

you’re my comfort youtuber❤️ you’re videos are perfect the way they are i love the vlogs with hauls included too

Keep doing what u love ❤️ cuz we shall be with u the whole way😊

I love how transparent you were in this video🩷 Watching you never gets old!

I love your content; its so relaxing and therapeutic to watch honestly

I definitely understand about social anxiety. Sometimes it just takes time, and you will start to feel comfortable and not care.

Definitely relate to you with the anxiety and people feeling I'm being standoffish like no babe I feel a panic attack coming lol I haven't found any tips either I just try not to isolate myself too much

I wish you knew how calming your vlogs are, appreciate you xx

Hey Fatima We love your content...keep posting girl, consistency is key. Would like to see you reach the 1 million subs mark. Q and A Lovely to see your family join in too on the channel

love your selfcare,morning routines, nightime routines, if you're bored you can try adding new things to those routines but don't stoppp

A day in my life Sunday reset or Monthly reset What would Fatima do Q&A

God puts you into situations to answer your prayers. You want to have less social anxiety therefore God puts you in those situations for you to overcome and prevail! You got this and God got you!!!

Girl we love watching you just live your life ❤

Your my inspiration your the reason why I started a RU-vid channel.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Missed you. Glad to see you back, hope your okay. Kept pushing. ❤

IM ACTUALLY SCREAMMMIIIIINGGGGG

You are sooo not alone… I deal with this also.. three minutes into the conversation, I wanna be on my way…. It’s really hard to make new friends even if I need friends..

Its been a while😭,Finally Fatima posted❤🎉

i have social anxiety too and a lotttt of the time I wish I didn’t. enjoyed watching this vloggg💕

you’re videos are so relaxing please keep doing them no one is board😭😭

Fatima I’m in my late 30’s watching your videos and love them wholeheartedly.. Not only you’re a positive influence for Black women young or older but you’ve this radiance this beautiful aura about you.. Please don’t change that and working on yourself for the anxiety is fine we are not perfect but you’ve your fan base built on you being authentic 😏

Finallllyy.. I’ve missed u

Was literally just rewatching your old videos yesterdayyyyy! Glad you are back☺️

Girl I missed you so much 💓 😢 thank you for the weekly vlog❤

Being a supporter for some years now I love your videos it’s never boring it’s very uplifting and exciting ❤

I know the vedio will be amazing before I even watch it!!

I definitely understand with seeming as standoffish when you’re just anxious! I try to remember that everyone else that struggles with anxiety might be thinking the same thing when I’m in the room with them!

Your hair looks amazing from the length to texture 😍🔥

i’ve missed you so much!! I hope all is well🩵

Missed you on the tube! I love these type of videos! Please don’t stop!!

I find ur videos very entertaining and calming….loved the vlog

Girl are you maddd !!! I love your vlogs and your wig installation ❤️💅🏽😭

The hair really looked good when you curled it again❤ It suits you

I would love to see Reset routines Night routine Shower routine Vlogs- shopping / skincare / maken bed doing dishes 🥰🥰

girl i missed youuuu💓

Welcome back Fatima I have missed you so much

I love your content so much! You inspire me to keep on pushing my self and do what I love ❤️ thank you!!

My favorite 😍

I have missed you Fatima finally 🎉

missed you girl. you are not boring🥺

Aww talking about your social anxiety & low social battery, I can so relate, I'm like that too, I'm intentionally working on it and I just try not to over think things. And oh yh, you're someone that if perhaps we're in the same country/city, I'll love to be friends with you 🙈☺

I was checking for a video yesterday! Glad you posted😊

i’ve missed your content!!🌷

I missed you so muchhhhh goodness girl I been checking your ig n stuff and I just wanna say thx for giving looks and slaying everydayyyy😂😂❤🫶🏾🫵🏾👍🏾

Your natural hair is so beautiful ❤

You most definitely aren't alone! I'm also one person who struggles with social anxiety and that is something I've only come to acknowledge very recently! Like you, it takes me a REALLY long time to get used to someone & I am usually (not aaaalways) extremely awkward and shy, when meeting new people (though I think I'm pretty good at faking it, sometimes). But, being an ambivert and all, I thrive in groups. Single me out, with an individual I'm not accustomed to, though, and I'm just a ball of nervous energy! What I've found to help is to somewhat "forcefully" put myself out there. That is literally the ONLY WAY you'll get better. You're not alone, gurl! We've got this!💪🏾🫶🏾

I've been missing your content💗💗 i like the sweatpants nice color 👌

Oh my god you’re in the clouds!! Goals fr ❤

I am sorry you have anxiety. I deal with depression myself, it is never easy. But I press on and push forward. You are doing an awesome job. Great content. Keep it coming!

I love your videos I love to let them pile up then binge

I've been missing the content girl💜😭

Missed you fatima ❤

Your content is just so calming honestly , truly wish we got more vlogs though 🥺 I think the bundles are not good to keep on for close to a month but probably a week or two and that’s so disappointing, I hope you plug us with a good brand with bundles that will serve us for our sew ins 🙏🏽 FabFitFun box items are so cute 👏🏽 You’re so thique and I’m more obsessed 🫦 def so beautiful ! Love the dress so much!!! Beautiful nails for sure 🔥 Thank you for being vulnerable 🤍 More vlogs , GRWM , Reset just everything pls !

Missed you so muchhhhh

Girl we love you and I also suffer with social anxiety

girlllllll we missed you!!!

Gurlllll I missed you 😢

Welcome back mama 💖💗 A whole movie 🍿🍷

the nails are soo cutee

Nice vlog Fatima your vlogs always helps me to relax

I was actually hoping you go with the dress 🤩

Your hair looks sooooooo good omg 💕💐

Yes let’s get back into creative nails 😍😍

I know you mentioned the dislikes of the bundles but the extensions matches perfect with your hair. Barely can tell it's a sew-in.

Can totally relate to everything you said about social anxiety.

I missed your videos😩.

the hair eatttts!

I totally relate to the social anxiety part…especially the part about coming off as rude😭 hopefully we’ll improve somehow

Hey Fatima ❤love your content. Please do a video on your current favorites 🫶

My fave..hey gorgeous girl! Notification gang we up!! 🥳🥺🥰

I missed you ❤❤

Just wanna see more Fatima. That's it! ❤

4:31 you are my comfort youtuber❤

Thank you!!!

i love the music on your videos

my comfort youtuber❤️

Hiii Fatima Happy Wednesday Loved today's weekly vlog 😊 and the hair and nails were so pretty 🥰😍 🫶🏾♥️

That view is gorgeous.

Please don’t stop vlogging 🥲

I love your content, it is not boring. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I enjoyed the full video. 😁

That's so me too i can relate.. social anxiety is so real no matter how much I try to interact with people it's just not that easy eey n i so want to meet new people make friends bt at the day i just end up staying indoors 😑 working on it tho as hard as it is

Your thumbnail is always amazing 😍

yayyy now I got something to watch 🥰

The stylist did a good job on her sew in.

You are so pretty when do weekly vlogs 📷 like this. 💓😘