I go for a week without a single text or a call, it feels lonely always trying to fit in and to please people, never had a best friend,i have felt rejection even from family, i feel you Mercy, it's okay to cry, it's okay to vent i know the pain, just know you have us who don't miss your videos, we love you❤
Im glad I met you here. I see myself in you girl. I must admit that you challenged me to work on my driving skills. My DL haven't been used for a long time. The truth about life is that people will always see you as a threat..even family members. My wish for you is to let Jesus fill the gap you are feeling in your heart. May He give you the peace that passes all understanding ❤
I'm turning 35 in a month. I love my own space, i love being alone and i am the most creative in my being alone. Nothing is wrong with you. You just feel to much and it's okay. Your feelings are valid and it's never been about you. The right people will walk into your life. Work on yourself.
I am 34 in Sept and that's my life. I have been super depressed and people say I am very fragile/sensitive. I love my own company although tbh, it also gets a bit lonely
Baby girl. The best gift you can give your self is focusing on yourself, your growth qnd your own happiness. Don't expect too much from people. Don't be mad when people leave because real friends will stick to you no matter what. Stop blaming yourself for things that you cant control. You have the most important people by your side people who truly care about you. Focus on building your self, your relationship with God and have positive energy around you and trust me you will attract the right people in your life. You are sush a beautiful and down to earth person and honestly its their loss to leave such an amazing person as you.
You never have to feel guilty of the separations in whatever relationship capacity..if they don't want to stay let them miss out on you.. besides they'll never find you in someone else...dry your tears and move ... You have God, you have everything ❤
😭😭woishe…..I think we all go through such episodes where you feel alone and stuff…… You are a good person people just have expectations! You will find the right people 🙏❤️🫶
It could be spirit of rejection being the root problem. Pray and break it Always love you self first. You are the most special person in your life, Don't live to please and make people understand you. Do You Some separations are important so God can bless you. Until Abraham separated with Lot God showed him the promised land Don't be afraid to be alone. Embrace being alone
Just stumbled your page on Instagram and i found myself here.😅 I can tell you have a big heart and how sweet of a person you are through your content. You have really inspired me girl!!! I love love your content. Keep being you❤❤
@@mercygitauI encourage you with my story,I was ophaned at age 16 , without two yrs I saved enough as houshelper went back and cleared my highschool. I lost friends such duration coz those who ware my agemates had cleared school earlier and earned. I became breadwinner where I remained broke throughout till lastborn cleared highschool,no boyfriend could carry family burden so relationship couldn't work,I focused with law of my dad if something ain't sinful neither crime shouldn't affect your mental state,I got used to rejection and after lastborn cleared school I went back to studies, family members wondered why not married like your agemates, why educate others when not educated,I couldn't associate with people at collage coz they had money and boyfriend's which I lacked,my dad had trained us sex is for married and I retained such ,it keeps men away too they think sex before marriage is achievement,age 30 I made it without regrets,I celebrated myself and love located me age 31,33 I got married and rest is history he knew I was virgin at honeymoon, peer pressure should never put you down to lower your dignity and never compare yourself with others, friends shall come outomatic due time worry less infact I got friends after wedding of which none is my best or closest my kids and husband became my top support. You have family support, you are so young and u have God being a loner makes you love God more,good luck
Mercy your not alone.......same here I don't have friends yaani I get you well......For me having a relationship with GOD has kept me alive...I wish it was possible we form a group for encouraging each other.....Be encouraged gal.......
Me too I have no friends, no besties, no friends with cousins, no friends with school mate's, no relative's, not talking to my siblings.. no one! only my daughter and mom ..I don't have a relationship with my own Dad, and I accepted The way thing's are..if you need a good friend am here.. been in your situation and I made peace with my Life..am also looking for genuine friends.. sending you lots of love and hugs❤❤❤❤
As a 21 year old, being an only child and an orphan. I feel the loneliness part from you. I've come to accept that IMPRESSION is a KILLER. I'm happy to learn this as early as I can. Those moments come you console yourself, try to involve God as much as possible. All will be well. Try go out and do different activities even if it's by yourself.
I get you dear. Sometimes, people don't understand that you also have your own struggles, especially if you're on social media and they watch your life so they think you're living it big yet you're also struggling. Sending you hugs and love dear 💗💗. It shall be well 💗
Hey mercy,, I came across your channel just a few weeks ago and your content is just so amazing. About the topics you've spoken about in the video, I honestly feel for you a lot because nowadays we live in a world where people want to see what you can offer for them to accept you in their lives. In video, you asked whether you're the problem, and darling you're not the problem, you're an amazing soul and a beautiful person in and out even if I don't know you that much, your vlogs reflect it. Just pray to God that he can help you welcome intentional and purposeful people in your life bcz nowadays it's really tough to welcome someone in your life and be sure about them, bt then through prayers you can always know whether the person is even meant to be in your life first. You've got this and sometimes being alone is not a bad thing as long as you prioritize your happiness and take care of yourself ❤❤.
You're not rejected my dia ..uko very smart ..wanakuonea wivu.. about relationships.. you're still young wait God timing..na usiwai tafuta watu.tena wachana na watu kabisa huwezi furahisa watu..
I feel you and resonate with it and you know the good part is with time you realize it was not even a big deal, Am currently 31 no partner coz I still have not met a man who is honest,I left employment due to its toxicity and this year it has just been me indoors living and worrying less, I even stopped worrying about my rent and guess what the universe settled this year's rent all in full,I blocked everyone whom I felt sucks up my energy those friends who call to only know if you got married or have kids am the queen of blocking now,my mum and bro see me as a burden coz am jobless so am slowly stopping being in contact with them,I feel at peace now,I really don't know what next but am trusting the universe to be able to build rentals and start a business, in all I have learnt to enjoy my own company and always put my vibration high,so gal you are not alone and also imagine relationships drain Simone and you stop focusing on yourself, Currently gal make investments and everything else will fall into place❤❤ sending you Love and am glad I bumped to this channel this week,You are real never change ❤❤🎉
Hi,i just came across your channel and I love your content.That part about rejection and feeling Alone,I can relate to that more than anything.But what i can tell you is everytime you feel rejected and abandoned,Just talk to God,even if its a simple prayer and you will realise with time, those negative feelings and thoughts start fading away slowly.And with time God will bring the right people at your doorstep and you wont need to do anything to impress them.I know that was a long comment but Be Blessed.God will always fight for His people.
I get you, when it comes to Nivea Fresh Cherry. I also started itching and then it leaves a mark after application. Right now I'm using Nivea, Black & White invisible clear. It's magical ❤
This is my first time watching, i stumbled upon your vlog today, what i will say is people will stick around when its beneficial to them, also when people do things like walk away, take that as their choice, dont blame yourself for peoples choices count it as dodging a bullet rejection is redirection!!
😢am just 20 but what have faced through people its so hard ... personally i was Rejected by someone who i called a friend because i was broke and the words i was told " you cant be my friend utaniambukiza umaskini " Since that day i learnt to rely on God being the provider regardless of what we come through and my parents...and most of all to do what i can do best of my life 😊❤ And here you are my peacemaker ❤your videos are the best ❤😊
Gal I am a new subscriber. You are an amazing person you are going far my dear friend. I am so inspired by your vlogs. I am also a people pleaser and have suffered coz of this. I have prayed to God to help me stop to be a people pleaser. We share the same story though of pleasing pple who don’t appreciate the effort.
Mercy, Mercy, Mercy, How many times have I called you? As a person who is almost in my mid 30s,Kindly adjust your crown and focus on your growth, have a very strong relationship with yourself, enjoy your own company authentically, explore who you are and find the real you, Once you find her you will attract networks and friendships that will be authentic and real. 20s are for Exploring and discovering FULLY, allow the friendships to fall off, it only reveals they are no longer serving you.. Either way THRIVE fully, God has your back always.
May God comfort you and never doubt about yourself you are blessed and be still, fearless thank God you have parents whom I don't have but have to fight on my own through God strength.
Woi pole😭 feeling alone is also a part of me, and I can relate to this particular vlog. Alafu seeing encouraging comments here, I feel like I am not alone, and in good timing I'll get my own tribe of ladies.
Hugs namesy, I guess a majority of us if not all go through that phase. It can be tough but I'll encourage you to ask God what his trying to teach you in this season. I pray you get through it and come out even more stronger. We love you and we appreciate what you do. I personally get inspired by you and I wish one day I get an opportunity do to a video with you, as a beginner content creator I could really use some tip.
Ati marafiki ..my dia hakuna true friend in this world..uko sawa my dia forcuse with you self and you parents ..and God timing will come and you will have your own family you're still young. Mimi sina rafiki its only my family .uko sawa kabisa
I really loved this episode. Rememebr to just keep shining, do what you love, operate from a place of love and joy. That is all that matters. And it does get better with time. 😊
Hallo Mercy you are a beautiful girl.❤ You remind me of my daughter. Much love baby girl 😘❤️ I also used to do so much for people and get nothing in return. This days i trust God and spend alot of time in prayer. I still help people but i don't expect anything in return, Just Gods blessing. Im now very happy . Keep trusting God ❤️💕
You are enough gurl, and you're not an issue, you are just trying to figure things out like the rest of us..... God loves you and he will always provide for you directly or indirectly, Open yourself up to find friends with similar interests, there's a Bestie out there waiting for you to find them 🙃🙃🙃 .... And we love your content remember that! Financial Breakthrough, Relationship Breakthrough is coming for you keep going
This got me crying 😢😢am in the same situation as you but mercy focus on yourself girl friends will come an better friends and most importantly pray for yourself and for a good friend
You are not the problem darling, I have known you since tukiwa highschool and you were so nice, just take your time when welcoming this kind of friends, learn if they are there for what you have or for you. Xo😊❤
Hi Doll, I really like your content keep up the good work ❤🎉. Regarding Friendship and Relationships Take you time. The Right people will Come. I know how you feel because I used to be a people pleaser as well until people I thought were my friends started cutting me off. 😮💨😮💨 i was stressed but I turned to God and My siblings have always been there to help when I can't. So Just take your Time love. God is weeding out the weeds that Drain your Light❤❤❤ virtual hugs
I have been lonely for so long but so far i just love my presence with the Lord - I try to fast twice a week and speak to my maker I talk to him endlessly like a friend. Am not where he wants me to be but i think this is gonna be my life until the end - Just me and My Living God a Ride and Die relationship - I love God my maker - when am lonely i mediate on his words and promise on me. Also i dont expect anything from anyone I just help and wait on My lord. All my expectation are from him. He never fails!
New sub your story is so emotional fear fake friends always be your self three years ago i got into depression but iam good live aprivate life apart from content love yourself and you will have peace
Mercy you can make a very good motivational speaker to high schoolers. Finding worthwhile endeavours like that, going to orphanages, encouraging others. Do you go to church? Church bible studies really help. Healing comes in staying in The Word of God. May He heal you and Gen zs, give you your purpose and many income generation opportunities
Hey gal, i think with God and your parents..... those are the best friends ever. These two will never abandon you no matter what situation you're in. I know you as a strong lady sweetie. Don't you give up on anything thst you want in this life. With God everything is possible. Hugs mamaa ❤❤❤
hey hun🥰🥰first and foremost i loved the video , secondly when it comes to frieds ,let your expectations be low , not everyone is your friend 🥰🥰 some of them will serve you breakfast while hot and you will end up 💔💔 instead contine to fix your eyes on jesus , allow him be your best friend and everything else will fall into place . i love you sana keep the content coming here to support you ou all the way
Sometimes rejection is protection! One day, you'll look back and thank God these people left your life.....years from now while you're reflecting, you'll remember my comment. Good and evil cannot co exist. Maybe you are a Saint, after all. Seek God, and He'll fill your space with the right people. Sis, you'll be okay....this test will soon be a testimony 🙌
All will be well,continue praying since you’re a Christian,remember Jeremiah 29:11-our creator has great plans for us,you can try therapy and I find as a Christian joining a church community can be really helpful in such situations because you strengthen your faith and meet other people so you’re not alone,because as humans we aren’t ment to be loners.You’re in my prayers 🙏🏿
Hello there just came across your video and am sorry for what your going through but may GOD see you through for he knows us if you need a shoulder to cry on I can be your friend why only strangers help strangers all you need is hugs and an ear to listen to trust me ❤and good job
Wambui lemme tell you...I hosted a friend for 4 months,after she moved out and she wanted me to host her again i wasn't in a position you to host her again..you won't imagn what she did to me...av never recovered,mind you this was someone i always saw as a sister...am currently enjoying my space as a 28 year old with no friends..i just stay in my house 24/7....
Heeey Mercy ❤️ You are so sweet,,,can you be my best friend? We love you loads Mama ❤️ Live your life and focus on it...thats what should matter to you loves..Hugss mama love xoxo!!❤❤❤❤
I am 29 yrs very oky workout friends going to work I come home I don't want friends please you are young I wish I was your age..make Money grow I wish I was able to create content..and since you can create content make money grow gal grow
Dont worry gal,not everyone will be happy with your success,some friends will be jealous because you are doing better than them ,thus exceeding their expectations from you,,hugs you will find a genuine friend 🫂....
Just catching up with your vlogs and this one got to me. I relate with you Soo much but let me assure you it’s not you. Some people in our lives don’t deserve our loyalty. Am glad you know christ, because only christ can be our real friend. 🫂🫂🫂
