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Were The 1950s An Easier Time Than Today? You Decide! 

David Hoffman
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I grew up in the 1940s and 1950s. I became a documentary filmmaker when I was just 22 years old so by the time I got a grant from PBS to make a television series on the 1960s titled Making Sense of the Sixties (1990), I had been doing documentary interviews for a very long time. This is a clip from an episode of that series.
When people say that the 1950s were easier than today, the 1950s may have been easier for certain groups of people. For example the economy was strong, unemployment was low, and the middle class was expanding. Also the post-World War II era brought about a sense of stability and prosperity for many Americans.
Economic prosperity: The 1950s were a time of economic growth and stability in the United States. The post-World War II boom led to low unemployment rates, a rising middle class and a sense of financial security for many Americans.
Simpler lifestyle: Compared to today the 1950s were a simpler time in terms of technology and media. People didn't have smartphones, social media or constant access to news and information. This may have made it easier to disconnect and focus on family, friends and leisure activities.
Social norms: In the 1950s there were more clearly defined gender roles and expectations for behavior. This may have provided a sense of structure and stability for some people.
The 1950s have been described by some of my commentators and by my team in this clip as a socially uptight time period due to the strict social norms and expectations that existed during that era. Here are a few examples:
Gender roles: The 1950s were characterized by rigid gender roles with men expected to be breadwinners and women expected to be homemakers. Women who pursued careers or wanted more independence were often stigmatized and marginalized.
Conformity: The post-World War II era brought about a desire for conformity and a rejection of anything seen as "un-American." This led to a culture of uniformity and homogeneity, with little room for individual expression or diversity.
Sexual repression: The 1950s were a time of sexual conservatism, with premarital sex, homosexuality, and other non-heteronormative behaviors stigmatized and often criminalized. This led to a culture of sexual repression and secrecy, which could be suffocating for many people.
Racism and discrimination: Despite the economic prosperity of the 1950s, many people of color faced discrimination and prejudice on a daily basis. Segregation was still in place in many parts of the country, and the civil rights movement was just beginning to gain traction.
In many ways Americans have more freedom today than they did in the 1950s.
Civil rights: In the 1950s segregation and discrimination were still prevalent, particularly for people of color. Since then, significant progress has been made in advancing civil rights and ensuring equal treatment under the law.
Women's rights: Women in the 1950s were expected to conform to strict gender roles and had limited opportunities for education and career advancement. Today, women have greater access to education, career opportunities, and reproductive rights.
The 1950s were a time of intense stigma and discrimination against gays with homosexuality often criminalized and stigmatized.
Freedom of expression: While the 1950s were characterized by conformity and a rejection of anything seen as "un-American," today's society is generally more accepting of diverse opinions, beliefs, and lifestyles. Social media and the internet have provided greater platforms for free expression and the sharing of ideas.
Prior to my series, there had been a series on PBS called Eyes On The Prize that looked at the civil rights movement during that time. My challenge was to make a series that helped the teenage and early 20s children of those who grew up during these times, the so-called silent generation and the baby boomers, to understand what their parents had gone through. I decided to interview for the most part ordinary Americans and historians - experts - who had spent their time studying this era. The style of my interviews was to let people tell the stories of their lives their ways.
One of the main ways that the "rules" from the 1950s were communicated to kids and teenagers was at school and through educational films like the ones presented. It was here that I found rules stated in obvious and subtle ways that matched what most of the people I interviewed remembered from that time.
Based on what I heard from the interviews and from the historians, my team and I concluded that it was largely the experiences that kids had in the 1950s that created many of the social and some of the political events that took place in the 1960s. Other segments from the series are on my RU-vid channel. I do hope you enjoy this and find it thought-provoking.

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Комментарии : 6 тыс.   
@seamusoreilly804
@seamusoreilly804 5 месяцев назад
I was a rural kid in the 50's and 60's. I can remember thinking it was stifling, boring, aggravating. I wanted to break out, be free. I thought I'd die in that place. I hated the farm and the way everybody lived. I tried to hitchhike to Woodstock and failed that attempt miserably. Rules, expectations, dress codes, hair codes, church and all the other things you were supposed to believe. So what did I do? I joined the military and remained there for 10 years. Then I joined a police department and retired from there after 30 years. And the funny thing now is when I think back during my retired years, I remember the smell of pine trees and wood smoke, endless rows of corn, the sound of rain on our barn's tin roof and the sweet smell of magnolias. It's funny how time changes our perspectives.
@nathanallen1703
@nathanallen1703 Месяц назад
What cool time to be alive.
@wendyherrera4861
@wendyherrera4861 Месяц назад
That was a beautiful description at the end. It sounds like you’ve made peace with it or at least can find the silver linings in it.
@KnockOut242
@KnockOut242 Месяц назад
I hope you were a good cop. Back in those day we had great cops who weren’t so eager to ruin our lives with petty infractions. We were always gathering at the “power lines” for keg parties and the most they would do was break it up. I miss those days…
@contentedspirit9022
@contentedspirit9022 Месяц назад
I was born in '59 and lived in a small town in the Midwest. My grandparents had a farm, and I was there every weekend and during the week many times during summer break. I, too, remember thinking it was boring. Now I would love to be back there in the quiet surroundings (other than the sound of cows and ponies and coyotes and owls at night. Rows of corn to run through like a maze, and picking watermelons, strawberry, and turnips fresh from the garden. Riding in the back of the pickup truck and drive-in movies on weekends were THE best. It's too bad the kids today will never understand those simpler times (minus the control system and lack of nurturing in some families due to "cultural norms". The changes from the early 60s into the 70s and 80s was a confusing time for kids and, especially, teens and early adulthood. Looking back on those times with great fondness, especially because, as kids, we could leave home in the morning and return later in the day once dad came home from work and it was time for supper. Summertime, we could go back out to play with all the neighbor kids (playing football, baseball, tag, etc) and knew to go home at dusk. Lots of freedom and little crime, so we could ride our bikes endlessly and all over town. I spent all day on my bicycle, going to read at the library, riding around the town square, or riding the ten miles to my grandparents farm and back. Good times, mixed with some bad, but mostly good.
@nanaberry4120
@nanaberry4120 Месяц назад
A lot of the young men who were tired of being told what to do and what to wear joined them military to get away from home… and that is all the military is, rules and uniforms. Young women tired of chores at home and not being able to hang out with friends got married, guess what happened?🤷‍♀️
@embr4065
@embr4065 4 года назад
Not everyone in the 1960s rebelled and "did their own thing." In fact only a small portion of the population were hippies and most everyone else were conformists despite how that decade is portrayed.
@KoolT
@KoolT 2 года назад
I hung out with musicians. Lol.
@montymole7519
@montymole7519 2 года назад
The silent majority weren’t loud enough
@Primusux
@Primusux 2 года назад
@@montymole7519 Amen to that! Now we have the loud minority in power like Pelosi and Schumer. And look how far we’ve fallen.
@kenonerboy
@kenonerboy 2 года назад
Probably why they didn't end up on tv
@boulderman1357
@boulderman1357 2 года назад
@@KoolT damn yall old
@godallowsuturns679
@godallowsuturns679 2 года назад
Politeness, kindness and respect should never go out of style, what does is the way we teach them.
@Instramark
@Instramark Год назад
Love the God allows U-turns name. Please explain your point of view to Trump's lack of manners and respect.
@Seasidecc95437
@Seasidecc95437 Месяц назад
Yup.
@ssf1389
@ssf1389 Месяц назад
Exactly
@bunmonk1903
@bunmonk1903 Месяц назад
That's true but there are better methods for shaping your children to be polite, respectful adults. Children should not be ignored when they ask questions. Everyday is a learning opportunity and refusing to explain the reasoning behind a demand doesn't help a child grow cognitively, emotionally, or spiritually.
@michelleheadley2911
@michelleheadley2911 19 дней назад
You can thank Dr. Spock for ruining future generations. My mom thought he was nuts and still does. Needless to say my sister and i were raised very differently than anyone who listened to that guy
@rustynails8756
@rustynails8756 4 года назад
Anyone who is old enough to know about "the rules" of the 50s can also see our current society has just as many if not more societal rules. The rules are just different now.
@Araconox
@Araconox 4 года назад
More. Just look at this pandemic crisis.
@mishasmith2450
@mishasmith2450 3 года назад
Yes more societal rules to allow in all evil and not judge it. There’s no more modesty or strong sense of morals anymore.
@mishasmith2450
@mishasmith2450 3 года назад
Yes more societal rules to allow in all evil and not judge it. There’s no more modesty or strong sense of morals anymore.
@boxing9763
@boxing9763 3 года назад
Rusty Nails Yeah political correctness rules, which we all now are never ending
@keithwilson6060
@keithwilson6060 3 года назад
The rules of today’s political correctness are the most onerous and tyrannous of any era.
@Keplerb-od1lr
@Keplerb-od1lr 5 лет назад
It’s easy to scorn this video and it’s message but people today need to understand America had gone straight from the Great Depression to World War II. The 1950s were the first chance at some peace and normalcy in a long time.
@stefannotchev7209
@stefannotchev7209 5 лет назад
True. People were just happy there was no war anymore
@LordNextDoor
@LordNextDoor 5 лет назад
True
@betz999
@betz999 5 лет назад
Korea?
@stefannotchev7209
@stefannotchev7209 5 лет назад
Brandon G the war in korea is called the “forgotten war” for a reason. I didn’t mention that because the media didn’t report on it very much back then and not many knew about it. Plus, it was a far cry from world war 2 and was pretty insignificant compared to ww2. Now I’m not saying it didn’t exist. As someone interested in History I think those soldiers aren’t recognized enough and should be praised more for their service. However, not many knew a lot about it and it wasn’t on the same scale, so people were still happy that there was no major war.
@RinHanyouChan
@RinHanyouChan 5 лет назад
Worse, from WWI, to the swing age, to the Great Depression, to WWII. They probably blamed the swing/speakeasy culture for the second war. WWI was a brutal war that left many believing it really was the war to end all wars, then a second war comes in, same enemy, you can't help but want a sense of control. We want to believe humans can be programmed and refuse to accept that we're just much more complex creatures.
@lowbridge7070
@lowbridge7070 4 года назад
In the early 1980s I was in high school. One day while sitting in class, out of the blue, for reasons i cant recall, the school 16mm movie projector was rolled into the classroom. And they played for us several of these old, antiquated 1950s instructional films on how to date, how to be polite, how to behave, etc. My classmates laughed through them. The wooden acting, the cheap production values, the heavy handed preaching, the over politeness, the squeaky clean activities (a picnic, a carnival, a weenie roast, bike riding, a day at the park, dinner at home with the family, etc), the innocent slang of the time (gee, golly, swell, etc). I on the other hand, wasn't laughing. To the contrary. As someone who was being raised in a severely abusive, dysfunctional home, i found these films to be quite charming. A sort of a time capsule of a more innocent era. DON'T get me wrong. I had no illusions. I was well aware that the 1950s wasnt so perfect and innocent (no decade is). That there were negative things going on in the 1950s, such as child abuse, divorce, segregation, poverty, crime, corruption in government and private business, for examples. But still, it seems to me that there were SOME things in the 1950s they were doing so right back then that we were doing so horribly wrong in the early 1980s as well as today.
@TheInfinitySystem
@TheInfinitySystem 4 года назад
Man I am glad I wasn't the only one ACTUALLY paying attention- and for exactly the same reasons. /another kid in the back of the room
@pagethreemodel
@pagethreemodel 4 года назад
@@edgregory1 *blue haired lol
@dmm6341
@dmm6341 4 года назад
Nailed it.
@WitchKing-Of-Angmar
@WitchKing-Of-Angmar 4 года назад
Exactly, Though I never had many hardships in my time..I still believe that this was the start of what would only drop from the 1950s and beyond to tommorow...revolting how we never got flying 1960s Cadillacs and Chevrolets in the era of tommorow and instead received bland and basic, uninteresting, subtle toned no good shapeless bodies of metal and plastic fit for luxury instead of appeal... Gee was a better time in the right time, not to mention someone getting overtly offended by any topic that crossed there manipulative minds now in days
@andrewbragg5555
@andrewbragg5555 4 года назад
This is so good to hear. People laugh at what they have until they don’t have it. I was luck to be raised in a loving family, but my best friend two doors down was with a single dad who was abusive. It blows my mind how immature people can be when viewing the benefits to aspiring for something better. It is not to deny that difficult situations arise in life, or be naive, rather, holding yourself and family to a higher standard and striving to make the best of life and be prepared in the event of hardship. Also, differentiating between hardship that is out of our control vs hardship brought on by our own poor choices. I wish these type of videos and PSA’s were the norm in our society instead of celebrating dis function.
@connordunham4790
@connordunham4790 4 года назад
Me and my grandad watched this video, he said he recognized the clip of the boy getting ready but nothing else. He said that the people giving commentary were very ignorant to the way things were. They added yellow journalism to the video (which means an exaggeration of the real story) an example he gave was that women were not “ment to be seen but not heard” he could remember his father asking his mother about financial decisions, or would ask for advice on what to do about something going on at work, they were very involved just in different ways. Women had there role in the household and Men had there role in the household as well as the children. Everyone played a part
@googiegress7459
@googiegress7459 3 года назад
It's also possible your grandfather had a good dad.
@maggiemmoore
@maggiemmoore 3 года назад
It was children who were to be seen and not heard. Not wives for sure. Lots of disinformation floating around. One blanket can't cover all. Generalizations always fail. 50s were the best for many.
@maggiemmoore
@maggiemmoore 3 года назад
@@googiegress7459 That grandfather was no exception. He was the norm.
@thegeeg1751
@thegeeg1751 2 года назад
Women were NOt quiet! Both my grandmothers (born circa 1900) were the decision makers in the home, chose the house, the budget and reared the children. Same with my mom's generation. This is propaganda! Feminists ruined civilization.
@Catlily5
@Catlily5 2 года назад
@@thegeeg1751 In your opinion.
@oliviacasino8888
@oliviacasino8888 3 года назад
I grew up in the 50’s and it was fun; fun for us and fun for our parent’s who didn’t need to hover over us constantly. The reason...we were expected to behave within the ‘rules’ if you will, guidelines set down by our adult family members and those ‘in authority.’ Our parents expected not absolute conformity, for example we wore crinolines under our ‘poodle’ skirts and buck shoes and all the ‘latest’ fads/fashions but also knew that a certain modesty was required within our lifestyles. We had standards of behaviors that we accepted because we knew we shared space in this world with others and those standards didn’t keep us from laughing at lot, fooling around with friends and studying for up coming exams. My mother trusted me and I treasured her trust in return. In the summer my mother’s over seeing my day went like this, “Have fun and be home before dark.” Period. It was a great childhood. I was a very lucky kid. Go figure.
@roshb911
@roshb911 8 месяцев назад
old ah jit
@MezzoMamma1
@MezzoMamma1 7 месяцев назад
Yes. You’re right.
@rayeiswriting4372
@rayeiswriting4372 Месяц назад
I sort of grew up like this (millennial). And this could be fine, as long as your parents have unconditional love for you. And it sounds like your parents had that for you. What turns into a problem is when the rules become the condition of love, or even decency. My aunts and uncles grew up with rules they didn’t mind, but when they tested the boundaries, they didn’t get a loving but firm hand. They got beaten and bruised, and thrown into life situations they didn’t want. It’s when it stops becoming about the rules, and more about the “rulers”. Fun story, according to legend, my great grandmother would throw small animals that caused her problems in the dryer. Not a very fun story, but just shows what kind of situations some kids were in…
@llIlIlllII
@llIlIlllII 22 дня назад
That's not a product of the '50s. That continues to this day, behind closed doors. What HAS changed are the rules themselves.
@gnerdeek5362
@gnerdeek5362 5 лет назад
"This boy and girl, coming home from school, look quite content with life." So much has changed already 6 seconds into the video...
@ssj-rose4572
@ssj-rose4572 5 лет назад
@@HA-gu1qk neoliberalism didnt happen for certain people until 1964
@yogidevendrabiriyani1777
@yogidevendrabiriyani1777 5 лет назад
lol theyll have to go to school for another hmmm 8 years just to be able to POSSIBLY get a minimum wage job where theyll compete with hundreds of other applicants.
@angelsenpaiproductions
@angelsenpaiproductions 5 лет назад
A H we already live in a society where everything is wrong even as as watching a bee collecting pollen from a flower, and from an emotional standpoint all we believe is betrayal and treasonable situations, so one track minded and socially the ones who take apart of a progressive movement like music are the ones who becomes successful fuck being like a movie you feel me live life like a movie I’m glad I’m young in this generation
@angelsenpaiproductions
@angelsenpaiproductions 5 лет назад
A H I’m just being open minded my g
@unprocessed_life
@unprocessed_life 5 лет назад
Life is SO much better now
@davidwelty9763
@davidwelty9763 5 лет назад
My parents grew up in the 50’s and they look back on their childhoods as stable and pleasant.
@nibsvkh
@nibsvkh Год назад
Anecdotal…ask a black or a woman that wanted to work for equal pay.
@ocpersonofinterest
@ocpersonofinterest Год назад
@@nibsvkh My mother worked. Because she wanted to. And she made more money than my father.
@LARRYCAL
@LARRYCAL Год назад
Mine too
@-xnnybimb-9398
@-xnnybimb-9398 Год назад
@@nibsvkhwell my Black grandmother enjoyed her life in her Black community
@btb554
@btb554 Год назад
​@@ocpersonofinterest but weren't women fired from their jobs when they got pregnant?
@joking7520
@joking7520 3 года назад
One thing people are missing from these rules is that, these rules help you to be a structured individual. Being chaperoned and not having sex before marriage allows you to focus on the beauty of your girlfriend/boyfriend. And that beauty is both internal and external. Getting to know and really love them for who they are and not their body is extremely important.
@kp2855
@kp2855 3 года назад
*AMEN* VERY WELL SAID! Fornication is a killer. *JESUS IS LORD*
@xorgbeep
@xorgbeep 3 года назад
@Ophius Macone shut up nerd
@Aveofficialtone
@Aveofficialtone 3 года назад
@@kp2855 hail Satan. Don’t need Jesus to know sex before marriage isn’t ideal for your future and development of personal relationships.
@yequalsemexplusbee4322
@yequalsemexplusbee4322 2 года назад
@@kp2855 There are rabbits having sex in my yard as I speak, pretty sure they aren't married.
@jonhakon00
@jonhakon00 Год назад
Most importantly to avoid unwanted pregnancies.
@truthseeker9688
@truthseeker9688 4 года назад
Not so true. I was born early 50’s. We were taught to be good, decent and hardworking people and our parents were our examples. But, I don’t agree that we we taught to not think critically. We were taught to follow the laws but people absolutely talked about the issues of our times and to be active in our communities, elections...and not afraid to confront unfairness or tyranny.
@edwardheaney3641
@edwardheaney3641 2 года назад
Honestly, I'm surprised that they're accusing the generation that protested nationwide about Vietnam of not thinking critically. We never saw such protests about the Iraq and other Middle Eastern Wars.
@niconava870
@niconava870 2 года назад
did you guys learn about the bible?
@erenjeager9442
@erenjeager9442 Год назад
Back when Men were Men and Women were Women. Nowadays are messed up.
@deborahdean8867
@deborahdean8867 2 месяца назад
There was a hell of alot more critical thinking taught them than today.
@KatieDeGo
@KatieDeGo 2 месяца назад
And don't forget the racism
@juliepurpleskater1736
@juliepurpleskater1736 5 лет назад
Haha... my mom told us to always "wait until Dad has finished his evening Martini before telling him you got an F in math." ;^)
@SuperJMichael
@SuperJMichael 4 года назад
Better make that 2 double martinis 🍸 for an F.
@765respect
@765respect 4 года назад
@@timjones7547 My father would get upset about a bad grade but would do absolutely nothing to help me get a better one. Dislike that man deeply to this day. Born in 59
@robertallen6710
@robertallen6710 4 года назад
@@765respect Born in '52...brought home a report card that had all B's on it...no congratulations, nothing even remotely like that...he said...maybe you can do better next time.....
@765respect
@765respect 4 года назад
@@robertallen6710 Ugh, I feel ya!
@henrymartin8997
@henrymartin8997 4 года назад
My dad bought for me a new 1965 Mustang,then checked my mileage...but I never complained. We didn't do that.We obeyed our parents, the rewards were great. It was Love. *Elaine *
@sinjin6219
@sinjin6219 4 года назад
7:16 This is just extremely good advice for any situation when your emotions start to get out of hand: Slow down--breathe and don't say or do anything. Pause. Calm down--breathe and still don't say or do anything. Pause. THINK---with your MIND: What are the consequences of my actions? This is called "self-control." Something that a lot of people today don't have.
@lealippard1045
@lealippard1045 4 года назад
Very true! And how people expect you to tolerate or even "respect" their way of acting, although a little self-control alone would work wonders in commuication and socializing.
@theeggtimertictic1136
@theeggtimertictic1136 3 года назад
Yes I need to do this when I open the fridge ... but I don't 😄
@carltrotter7622
@carltrotter7622 3 года назад
Sometimes my fuse blows and it’s quite short. This is some good advice for people like me with a short fuse. Hopefully I can slowly diffuse it!
@dingfeldersmurfalot4560
@dingfeldersmurfalot4560 3 года назад
Yup.. This is something the great traditions have taught us for millennia. The Golden Rule in the West, the Golden Mean in China. It's hard to be a better person and not treat others in a way you would never want to be treated unless you're trying to be calm, rational, and think of the other person's point of view and feelings. If you think it's your "right" or somehow soulful or authentic to just blurt out your anger and emotions, well, you are setting the bar very low as to your behavior and ideas of what it means to be a good person, a good friend, a good family member, or at all kind or understanding to anyone.
@ShunyamNiketana
@ShunyamNiketana 3 года назад
In a way, it's what meditation teachers advise now: feeling the emotion; let it pass; don't be attached to it, and don't shun it.
@dlee3710
@dlee3710 2 года назад
One thing this film misses is the recessions after the war and the feeling of uncertainty rural families felt in a world where only the big cities had everything. Farm familis struggled well into the seventies to achieve the kind of comfort enjoyed by urban people.
@momkatmax
@momkatmax 4 года назад
I lived back then and these films are way over the top. Or maybe our area of the midwest wasn't as crazy. We had rules as kids, but I would have NEVER heard my Dad say "pick out the most popular kids and do like they do" pertaining to clothing or anything. My parents said to be the person you are and not mimic others to be popular. That really popped out at me!
@RambunctiousVids
@RambunctiousVids 5 лет назад
Watching in 2018 as a 17 year old blows my mind.
@puppylove422
@puppylove422 5 лет назад
why. you'll be old one day
@trxpn3rd
@trxpn3rd 5 лет назад
Same here
@clieding
@clieding 5 лет назад
I am over sixty and this gives me the „willies“- Public service films such as this were a creepy, insidious, institutional form of „sugar coated“ mind control. My mother, a talented and intelligent woman, told be how bored and frustrated she was in the role she felt was forced upon her by society. She said that as a young girl she thought it was really unfair that „Boys could be anything but girls could only be housewives, secretaries, school teachers or nurses.“ The adults did a lot of drinking and smoking then; probably to ease their panicked existential dread. There was also a lot of spousal abuse and child abuse, unheeded behind closed doors. I won‘t even touch on the obscenity of racial suppression. There was for the first time, and disgustingly still now, a nuclear arsenal capable of incinerating the entire world. I am sometimes nostalgic about these seemingly „simpler and gentler“ times but this is a dream and not the reality; after all, I was just a kid. The reality is that women, non-whites, non-christians, non-heterosexuals were repressed, disrespected, denigrated, ostracized and brutalized. Young men were raised to be „good“, to „make your bed and brush your teeth“, to „do your homework“, to never „chew gun in class“, to say: „How do you do?“, to bow and courtesy [O.K. So not the boys.], and to not „talk back to your elders“ and then, before they were even adults, they were sent off, against their will, by an authoritative government to die and kill in a horrible war. Is it any wonder that their parents and the established society had lost all credibility. The adults of the time were trained to love obedience, conformity and authority more than their own children. I think that under all the sweet pastel colored everything was brewing deep fear, frustration and rage. The children of the 60‘s burned the cage down. We are still groping with what should have replaced it. Civilization is a great experiment in how we can all happily live together without killing each other.
@petercushingsexcrementnigh7250
francesco lops pewdiepie sucks. Let’s be real.
@goaway6080
@goaway6080 5 лет назад
@@puppylove422 all he said was he watching it in 2018 as 17 we're all going to be old one day bozo .
@tellatubbies5918
@tellatubbies5918 5 лет назад
"dinner with the family" ME "Wtf is that?"
@NateRiver-ph9co
@NateRiver-ph9co 5 лет назад
I have dinner with my family (not asian tho, lol)
@girlzwithguns
@girlzwithguns 5 лет назад
Nate River im Asian and I still don’t eat dinner with my family
@sketchymari1966
@sketchymari1966 5 лет назад
Nate River same. It’s nice 👍
@NateRiver-ph9co
@NateRiver-ph9co 5 лет назад
@@girlzwithguns That is impossible
@anthonyvillenas3212
@anthonyvillenas3212 5 лет назад
Im glad that's normal! Lol
@stischer47
@stischer47 4 года назад
Wow, completely different from my upbringing in the 1950s. I was encouraged to think, have an opinion and express it, question things. Through all that I was considered a "good" kid. I obeyed the rules (but only if they could be explained logically to me), felt safe everywhere (no matter where I went, adults were looking out for you), and enjoying life.
@bucnner
@bucnner Год назад
I like this balanced approach. Appreciate the rules/traditions, but always know WHY you appreciate and keep them! 👍
@jordanphilipperris
@jordanphilipperris Год назад
"I obeyed the rules (but only if they could be explained logically to me)" I sooooooooo feel that :)
@ediesaffron3593
@ediesaffron3593 Месяц назад
Obey authority was essentially just subconscious training to not question the government or mainstream narrative 🤔
@darlenegattus8190
@darlenegattus8190 21 день назад
Yes
@texastea5686
@texastea5686 4 года назад
I bet the school foods of the 50s - 60s were homemade and cooked fresh daily and tasted much better than today. *edit* Thank you all for sharing your stories... The good and the bad!
@tankster5826
@tankster5826 4 года назад
Heck yeah it was. I’ve been looking all over for that strange deep dish pizza thing they made with yellow cheese and ground beef with crust in the bottom. They called it pizza but it looked more like beef casserole. Was awesome! Apple crisp with cinnamon apples, crust crumbles and a slice of american cheese good, too! Now the kids get fake chicken nuggets. bleh!
@boardst8086
@boardst8086 4 года назад
My mom states that the school lunches back then were very good (home made)
@boostergold20
@boostergold20 4 года назад
@@tankster5826 Wish my grandparents could, but they were black
@kingtut7213
@kingtut7213 4 года назад
Yeah because women were barely in the workplace lol - majority of women were pressured into being housewives
@tankster5826
@tankster5826 4 года назад
My Grandparents didn’t have school lunches either and they didn’t have shoes. I have a picture of my grandmothers one room school house. All the grades were together and none of the kids had on shoes or socks. It must have been cook weather because they all had long sleeves and some had coats. They were white but lived in the country and were poor by today’s standards. They grew what food they ate. They took a lunch to school from home in a used syrup bucket. The school program happened after world war two in the 1950’s. Perhaps black schools, equal but separate they would say (although most were not really equal) may not have been given funds for the school lunch program. Just like many people don’t get things they need today. Seems like someone always getting left out and it isn’t always about color. But today we have coronavirus so I’m not worried about all these type things today. I’m just trying to stay safe and hope you and your family is too.
@Paola-jf2qf
@Paola-jf2qf 5 лет назад
It is great to have family dinners. It is great to have respect for parents. In every decade teens will rebel a little.
@ohiosfinest5889
@ohiosfinest5889 5 лет назад
Paola Valtierra this is control though. A caste system
@genewhite9408
@genewhite9408 5 лет назад
@@ohiosfinest5889 "this is control though. A caste system" How so? This is definitely one of the dumbest comments I've read in weeks. Congrats, moron.
@genewhite9408
@genewhite9408 5 лет назад
@almightyinferno What? One weird outcast individual makes an asinine claim about a caste system and now I have you telling me that kids that are taught to say ma'am and sir is wrong. I'm really happy that I don't have to deal with you awkward types in my life.
@Astrothunder_
@Astrothunder_ 5 лет назад
almightyinferno How is it wrong to teach kids to address you and other adults as ma’am or sir? I still say that to anyone I can see is older then me because I was taught to be respectful. But I suppose my dictator parents are to blame for that
@maxjasmine
@maxjasmine 5 лет назад
And now we have fun loving Antifa and aoc.
@abigailsara
@abigailsara Месяц назад
It wasn't easier it was just different. Every time and generation has their own struggles. Things like respecting authority, knowing your neighbors names and being active in your community, taking pride in your appearance and being a hard worker should always be valued and the norm.
@Array8
@Array8 Месяц назад
As a fatherless young man I watch those 50's videos and see the true wisdom in them. I am thankful somebody put the time in to make them.
@lynnwinter1784
@lynnwinter1784 5 лет назад
I was born in 1946, so I was a child of the 50's. I loved my childhood! We were such a happy family. There was so much love, laughter, and respect. Yes, my parents had high expectations of our getting good grades and being good kids, but we had no doubts that we were cherished. We weren't monetarily rich by any stretch of the imagination, but for some reason we felt rich. We had what we needed. We were encouraged to be outside playing and having fun. However, unlike today's children who seem to control the family with everything revolving around their wants and desires, our parents were the ones running the show. We were just "the kids"....and we were quite happy to be the kids. Yes, there were rules of behavior....make your bed everyday, do the dishes after dinner, be polite and never rude, do your very best in everything you do, be a good person, come when you are called, pick up after yourself. And, yes, we had dinner together as a family every evening at 6:00. After the dishes, we all gathered together in the living room and listened to the radio shows. I remember my Mom and Dad listening and dancing to Big Band music. We took rides in the car and sang songs and stopped and got ice cream cones. What a foundation for lives well lived. My own 3 kids were born between 1969 and 1975 and were raised in a very similar fashion. Yes, it was a very different era......but a simpler and very happy time. My grandchildren live very different lives.....they don't go "out to play" . It's too dangerous. They have scheduled play dates. They play sports and take piano, violin, and dance lessons. They have drills about what to do in the case of a school shooter. Homeless people are living in tents downtown and under bridges, or just sleeping on the streets. Syringes and excrement lay strewn on the sidewalks. Life is a rather complicated schedule around which the whole family must revolve. However different it may be, they are happy good kids.
@natebarker6464
@natebarker6464 5 лет назад
"Syringes and excrement lay strewn on the sidewalks". You must live in Southern California 😆
@itsjack1218
@itsjack1218 5 лет назад
not if you weren’t white
@lorimav
@lorimav 5 лет назад
@@itsjack1218 Give me a break! Although economics were harder for non-whites back then family life was much better than today.
@lorimav
@lorimav 5 лет назад
I grew up slightly later than you. There is no way I would have wanted to grow up any later than I did.
@midnightshade32
@midnightshade32 5 лет назад
time to move out of San Fransisco. The first part inspiring, the last frightening.
@potionpolice
@potionpolice 6 лет назад
Man no wonder all our grandparents are or were alcoholics
@jonmacdonald5345
@jonmacdonald5345 5 лет назад
potion police Too Alcohol!🍺🍺🍺🍻The Cause and Solution to all of life's problems!!
@ghoulinthegraveyard399
@ghoulinthegraveyard399 5 лет назад
Man look at this country now, full of commies.
@Blood0cean
@Blood0cean 5 лет назад
My grandparent and father never touched alcohol. Speak for ur self next time.......
@johnathant6735
@johnathant6735 5 лет назад
Masterffc Having alcohol everyday makes you an alcoholic...
@Blood0cean
@Blood0cean 5 лет назад
I've come back wondering. U say it like everyone was rampaging on alcohol due to the strict conformity on societal values. But now we have the exact opposite as there are no values to conform to and of those ppl now drink alcohol like it's water do drugs like it's on wholesale are more depressed than ever with suicidal tenancies at an all time high....... So again what are u comparing their alcohol consumption to? Oh and to the other guy...... drinking everyday makes u an alcoholic. Thats not moderation it's an addiction. There is no respective hard worker that "has a couple of whiskys everyday" nvm that u didn't even specify after work hours meaning ur just drunk at least tipsy all the time. Guess who u have that in common with? A bum...
@mopbrothers
@mopbrothers 4 года назад
Something about the 1950s that I don't like. It's the conformity and fear of being different. The 30s and 40s must have been so rough and traumatizing, that people became fearful of being different. I think people today act radical, but I don't think strict conformity is good either. The 80s seemed like a balanced decade.
@donh5794
@donh5794 3 года назад
Yeah for the '80s, it was fun too.
@paintballbot
@paintballbot 3 года назад
because lack of rules and conformity is working so well today? the parents of the 50s grew up in the great depression and two world wars. this kind of living was a dream come true for them. then in the 60s the next generation did a complete 180. you learn a lot when your starving. you try to make a better life for your kids. your kids rebel because they never had to live with it. then they make their own mistake. its been the story for every generation. and mine is really screwing up.
@bevcrusher4177
@bevcrusher4177 3 года назад
Conformity is the key to a harmonious and decent society. Look what happened to society when we decided we didn't need to please anyone but ourselves.
@snippletrap
@snippletrap 3 года назад
You don't know what the 1950s were really like unless you lived through them.
@richardwahl1902
@richardwahl1902 3 года назад
Sorry buddy, but I have to respectfully disagree with you!! It was a GREAT era to grow up in. This is propaganda, of the worst kind.
@smithg6128
@smithg6128 Месяц назад
I have been watching your content for over 10 years now. I am so grateful for what you’ve documented.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker Месяц назад
Thank you. Are you a subscriber? David Hoffman filmmaker
@mariat3276
@mariat3276 4 года назад
I was raised with love, structure, discipline, morals and decency. Family always had dinner together. I was genuinely glad to see Dad when he walked in the door. Raised my children the same. They are both grown decent, independent, productive adults.
@cheeseontoast9418
@cheeseontoast9418 6 лет назад
what happens when all your parents were traumatized by repetetive wars, had mandatory military service as teens and were children in the depression
@bschuler6216
@bschuler6216 5 лет назад
You "sleep" with a gun under your pilllow, adhere to a schedule and either pray for or prey upon the weak.
@paxnorth7304
@paxnorth7304 5 лет назад
"I lived through the Depression. My dream was indoor plumbing." - Don Draper - "Mad Men"
@refractedcurvature3567
@refractedcurvature3567 5 лет назад
or maybe before people bought into madeup terms pushed by propaganda. read propagnada by bernays, and combine with the fact "sibling rivalry", "teenager", and the way teens were so rebellious were MADE UP, as in these terms didn't exist and isn't really discussed: then BAM, these terms are introduced and suddenly "OMG its a epidemic!" The 60s and the hippie movement were also contrived and pushed by the CIA and others as a way to deaden the peoples spirit. Yeah, the 60s generation got high and rebelled, just like younger people protest and go on now--yet somehow people back in the 1800s and before, who had barely any access to current news, no access to instant communication were able to organize, show up, and WIN! Look at the battle of blair mtn during the labor movement,.....think any hippies or protestors would actually fight and suffer in the same way? Life is suffering, so it makes sense those who could suffer so much (war, the depression) and still succeed would be able to build something so great there had to be made-up problems like sibling rivalry
@jeremydavis5661
@jeremydavis5661 5 лет назад
father of a stolen child nah
@quentin48394
@quentin48394 5 лет назад
@@refractedcurvature3567 Except those societies aren't naturel. It means your point isn't absolute. Modern societies are a surreaction on most social point coming from those old times.
@daniel1571
@daniel1571 4 года назад
I wish their was some middle ground between the rules of the 50s and the wildness of the 60's. I think the 60's went to far in the other direction.
@mtntime1
@mtntime1 4 года назад
It all changed with JFKs assassination. The end of innocence. Then Vietnam, and battle lines were drawn. In a span of just a few years, we went from: Leave it to Beaver, to Beatles, to Woodstock, to Kent State. Amazing how quickly things changed. The hippie thing kind of fizzled out though, because, at some point, you've got to be sober and responsible enough to support yourself. So, I think that middle ground happened in the late 70s, more relaxed than the 50s, but back down to earth from the 60s (but I just HATED disco!) I just couldn't stand it.
@lemsip207
@lemsip207 3 года назад
@@mtntime1 I grew up in the 70's. There was a damned if you do and damned if you don't attitude in the suburb I lived in. Your skirt had to be the exact length dictated by fashion otherwise if it was just an inch shorter you were called a slut or tart and if it was an inch longer you were seen as a prude or square. You had to lie about your age to get into pubs but you weren't allowed to get drunk or even a bit tipsy.
@e.m.p.3394
@e.m.p.3394 3 года назад
I agree. Now me as a teenager it's weird that I have two parents. Its "weird" that I believe in values at all.
@redwingfan9393
@redwingfan9393 3 года назад
The 50's were never as wonderful and carefree as conservatives claim and they weren't as formalistic and dreadful as the left claims. These videos are depicting an idealized view of life, which everyone knew accept apparently the former hippies that were interviewed. While the media likes to focus on hippies and antiwar protesters from the baby boomers, the reality is that on campus the best selling books were focused on the stock market and conservative politics. These matters are never as simplistic as the media claims.
@redwingfan9393
@redwingfan9393 2 года назад
@D&B yes, I can believe it. There are any number of women who would much rather stay at home with their children and care for them and their husband.
@dlee3710
@dlee3710 2 года назад
One thing that is glossed over in every film were the prolonged recession following the war. Lots of families that I talked to, especially farm families lagged far behind.
@redwingfan9393
@redwingfan9393 2 года назад
@@dlee3710 for manufacturing there was a 2ish year recession following the war followed by a boom caused by a return of a normalized economy coupled with American businesses rebuilding Europe and Asia as well as lack of competition from abroad due to the war. Farming in the 50s continued its transformation from small family farms to big agriculture firms. I have no doubt those families continued to hurt and it's one reason why rural people from the south, midwest and plains continued to move to cities in the 50's.
@psychedelicprawncrumpets9479
@psychedelicprawncrumpets9479 2 года назад
What do they read on campus nowadays? They all seem like loony tunes to me
@sleazybtd
@sleazybtd 2 года назад
The 50's were wonderful and carefree, but only for white men. Sucked for everyone else.
@cyan1616
@cyan1616 5 лет назад
Wow, this sounds like the office culture where I work. All these rules are the same. Obey management, don't question orders, show no emotion, don't bring up unpleasant subjects, all of it. Just replace the word "Normal" with "Professional", "Popular" with "Successful", and this film describes modern work place rules.
@nabranestwistypuzzler7019
@nabranestwistypuzzler7019 5 лет назад
Shiba Lover How were workplaces in the 1950s?
@heidisanderson7768
@heidisanderson7768 5 лет назад
Your brilliant and it is just as you say!
@stefannotchev7209
@stefannotchev7209 5 лет назад
That’s so true it’s scary
@ptoedits5644
@ptoedits5644 5 лет назад
That’s how it SHOULD be. Chain of command is so important
@AP-hv9ll
@AP-hv9ll 5 лет назад
Maybe where you work. My company appreciates intellectual honesty. We have disagreements; a little too heated at times, and some aren't all perfectly altruistic (some people love sparing themselves or their department at times rather than upholding what is best for the entire firm. But the good outweighs the bad.) I can tell you from living on both sides of the fence, plenty of good management out there begs for front-line feedback from their subordinates, and get little to nothing. Questioning orders is also a great way to understand the intent of the orders. Front-line people sometimes need to make decisions, and the better they understand why things are the way they are, the better decisions they are in a position to make. Maybe my perspective is different because my industry can't afford to suffer do-nothings or morons at the ground level (unlike my wife's.)
@braemtes23
@braemtes23 4 года назад
Teenagers (especially girls) in the 50s had more freedom than any prior period in history. Girls in earlier times were never allowed to go anywhere with boys unchaperoned, let alone in a car. Dating was a product of the twentieth century and was common in the fifties. Hence the need for the videos. Young children in the fifties (years of my childhood) had so much more freedom than kids do today. When I was in elementary school, my siblings and I would pack a lunch, leave the house around 9:30 am, walk about a mile to the beach, swim all morning, have lunch at the park across the street, play on the swings and monkey bars, go back to the beach for more swimming and be home in time for dinner. No adults, no cell phone to check-in, no supervision at all. Can you imagine that today? The parents would be arrested. We actually spent much more time independent of our parents. We were expected to be obedient and show respect for them, but we were much more free.
@braemtes23
@braemtes23 4 года назад
@Dela Flowers It is a much more dangerous world and I did not allow my children the same amount of freedom I had. My comment was in response to the commentators who remarked about how controlled and how little freedom kids had back then.
@Rangernewb5550
@Rangernewb5550 4 года назад
I could only go as far as my walkie talkie could transmit to my parents (Around 2003-2007).
@trippybruh1592
@trippybruh1592 4 года назад
You can still do exactly that even during this pandemic. The only difference is you need permits and shit to carry your firearm with you.
@braemtes23
@braemtes23 4 года назад
@Dark Abyss Very true. I was not criticizing parenting that came after the fifties; I was responding to comments below that criticized the parenting and lifestyles of the fifties.
@endigosun
@endigosun 4 года назад
That's because the parents of the 50's and 60's actually behaved like they "believed" in our capabilities. They demanded our respect and that we establish boundaries and follow the rules. Once they had that established, we had the freedom to explore and have fun! Parents of today can't "believe" in their children's capabilities because they don't demand respect, establish boundaries, or teach their children to follow the rules. That's why they live in fear and are so dysfunctional... then they project all of THEIR INADEQUACIES on the past... when they're the ones who are actually inadequate.
@lindickison3055
@lindickison3055 14 дней назад
Another thing about the 50's - we were so very grateful to have our fathers (and mothers) safe at home after the terrible war years - And tried to help and support those who lost family during that time get back on their feet.
@roflmows
@roflmows 3 года назад
"these boys greet their dad AS THOUGH they are genuinely glad to see him" :D :D :D omfg, dead xD
@brad349miller
@brad349miller 5 лет назад
i don’t care, having grown up in the 90s and beginning of the 21st century, i would kill to have had some stability and sense of pride this virtue is exemplifying. Life is a tumultuous hurricane for us today. Everyone picks a path of rebellion against everyone else and expects a nation to prosper. Impossible.
@zachanikwano
@zachanikwano 5 лет назад
It’s growing pains. Society changes all the time, and you have good (civil rights) and bad (increasing greed) changes. People from all walks of life are either going for or against such changes, good or bad, and the result is what you get now. The world was never perfect or great, no matter how much we want to pretend it was. Be great full for what you get and work towards the future you want for yourself and the generations to come.
@bperez8656
@bperez8656 4 года назад
It all started in the 50s, what this video doesn’t show you is that after the 1929 crash, the strong socialist and worker union movement in this country said ENOUGH is ENOUGH and demanded that the rich start paying their fair share of taxes. FDR said that his greatest accomplishment in his 4 TERMS as president was saving capitalism from itself by obliging to the workers. You see, The 1940s were a time of hope and rebuilding and FDR gave us 4 terms of normalcy and consistency and progress. But by the time he passed, the elites were tired of all the progress and the growing middle class and the taxes being paid by them (the rich) in order to sustain the mass poverty that the depression had left behind so they opened the house of un American activities and began firing radio hosts, teachers, professors, elected officials who they deemed “not right wing enough” or “communist” and began censoring families and neighbors in order to institute societal control and prevent the kind of rebellions that led to the FDR era of progressiveness in the first place.
@sebastiancizmarov1273
@sebastiancizmarov1273 4 года назад
@@elgee1976 ok antifa
@my2beagles535
@my2beagles535 4 года назад
Agreed.....follow your path
@tde1873
@tde1873 4 года назад
B Perez socialism kills people and doesn’t allow them to thrive. Looks at every single country that has dabbled in communism. Capitalism gave these boomers a rich life.
@bxdanny
@bxdanny 5 лет назад
Yes, too many rules in the 1950s caused rejection of rules in the 1960s. No question about that. But there was another factor: fear of possible nuclear destruction brought about an attitude of "Live for today, because there may not be a tomorrow."
@tolfan4438
@tolfan4438 5 лет назад
It's true, in Philadelphia we didn't even worry about surviving or what it would be like after we were at Ground Zero no survivors
@younghove01
@younghove01 5 лет назад
And it's getting worse.
@101Volts
@101Volts 4 года назад
If the "Don't question authority" idea existed in America as commonly as this upload seems to imply, I may see part of why rebellion popped up. Surely the 50s can't be so dumb to not understand that a kid seeking to understand why a rule exists is not necessarily a bad thing... Can the 50s be so dumb as a whole?
@rswindol
@rswindol Год назад
I wonder if the counter culture movement was even organic.
@insidetheredzone
@insidetheredzone 4 года назад
My parents told me: Back then men would pull the chair out for a woman to sit down, open the door for her to walk in/out, and kids were disciplined.
@Lazdinger
@Lazdinger Год назад
Some of the kindest, accepting, moral, temperate, wisest people I’ve ever met are from this era.
@cranberryjuice1589
@cranberryjuice1589 Месяц назад
Most of them call me slurs
@Lazdinger
@Lazdinger Месяц назад
​@@cranberryjuice1589 That is terrible my friend, sorry to hear. How do you respond?
@cranberryjuice1589
@cranberryjuice1589 Месяц назад
@@Lazdinger just with awkward smiles…I’m not brave enough to confront people 😅😅
@thatguy3382
@thatguy3382 5 лет назад
3:04 CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS This one needs a comeback
@Sugarblizz08
@Sugarblizz08 5 лет назад
If there were more controlled emotions, there would be fewer regretted words to have to take back, violence in the heat of passion tamed a little.
@poopycarrot
@poopycarrot 5 лет назад
nah, that’s how you get high suicide rates.
@eyeluvverbutterdogsheds4941
@eyeluvverbutterdogsheds4941 5 лет назад
Judy Beasley-Tapp Your thought process is extremely skewed.
@andrewpresley908
@andrewpresley908 5 лет назад
@@poopycarrot Not really. That's suppressing emotions. Controlling emotions is understanding how and why you feel the way you do and having an appropriate response. We live in an age of emotional incontinence, and its very, very bad. With the rise of single motherhood, and them imparting hyper-emotionality in young boys, you get violence, homicides, and mass shooters.
@poopycarrot
@poopycarrot 5 лет назад
Andrew Presley in the 50’s there was no difference between controlling and suppressing your emotions though. no one was trying to understand why they were feeling the way they did, they were only trying to keep the status quo. the hippie movement was literally a reaction to that. showing emotion isn’t a bad thing lmfao. obviously there are times when you need to be more mindful of how you act but i certainly wouldn’t say that today’s kids are LESS emotionally intelligent than kids in he 50’s who were told they were out of line because of normal human emotions.
@TuanBule
@TuanBule 4 года назад
One of the young guys was the actor from Bewitched. You got to remember that these folks in the film would not have reflected as it really was as a whole. People now put down the 50s but you could sleep with the window open and walk around at night by yourself without feeling fearful.
@bradbyington6662
@bradbyington6662 2 года назад
Dick York! I thought I recognized him.
@jeffduncan9140
@jeffduncan9140 Год назад
Or Dick Sargent. They almost looked alike.
@michaelcallummayaka
@michaelcallummayaka Месяц назад
4:23 It's Dick York.
@michaelcallummayaka
@michaelcallummayaka Месяц назад
@@jeffduncan9140 No they didn't look alike.
@sohum9501
@sohum9501 Месяц назад
I still do.
@terminaldisfunction5306
@terminaldisfunction5306 2 месяца назад
Genuinely one of the most interesting and underrated channels out there
@lancelot1953
@lancelot1953 3 года назад
Hi David, I experienced that era, my "American Graffiti" years, my college education, and my war experience. Looking back though, thinking about my family, some of which lived/suffered/fought World War I, the Great Depression, World War II, the Korean War, the "good" years, etc..., I must say that my teenage years were relatively "safe" aside the fact that I served in combat. My community (Northeast dairyland) did provide me with some guidance, boundaries and "limits" that were to be observed compared to a "free-for-all" or "do-what-you-feel-like" today. Was it perfect? No, but it did provide me with some societal framework to build my life upon. I made me feel proud to be an American even though, when I lost my father, we (family) found ourselves in poverty but our community helped us, helped me, provided me with some education and values that I cherish to this day. No, America is not perfect and by all means, some injustices were made in those days - but I have seen war, I have lived overseas, I have witnessed other countries' problems... and guess what... America is beautiful. I love this country of ours and the people that live in it; I am proud of being an American. May Peace be with you, Ciao, L (Veteran)
@cvdevol
@cvdevol 5 лет назад
I was born in 1953. Nobody I knew during my childhood ever paid these stilted "educational films" any attention. My parents weren't rule-making robots, neither were my friends' parents.
@rabbitfishtv
@rabbitfishtv 5 лет назад
Chris Devol so, you were a teen in the 60s, not the 50s as depicted here.
@W7DSY
@W7DSY 5 лет назад
Good point, Chris Devol. This is just another attempt at making the '50's look like they were dreadful--and they weren't. Sure there were 'rules', but we have rules today, and I would not say culture is better now. In fact, since so many don't follow rules, things in many ways are worse.
@W7DSY
@W7DSY 5 лет назад
@@rabbitfishtv , the film doesn't say you had to be a teen in the '50's.
@SteveCarras
@SteveCarras 5 лет назад
I was born seven years later, 1960.
@jayluis189
@jayluis189 5 лет назад
@@W7DSY But almost all the Main people in the film were teenagers.. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Idk if you got the hint.
@luminee420
@luminee420 5 лет назад
The tone almost implies that the values of the 50s were bad. But we're still stuck in the hangover of the 60s. People talk about sexual freedom like it's undeniably a good thing as though they've never heard of STDs. That's the thing about downward spirals, people enjoy the slide down
@User-fi9rb
@User-fi9rb 4 года назад
@@justathought973 Actually the repression of certain natural sexual behaviours leads to safer, less violent societies. Look into research done on polygamous societies as opposed to societies with culturally enforced monogamy if you're willing to have your mind changed.
@viking-astronaut
@viking-astronaut 4 года назад
except that those kinda poly relationships were also culturally enforced, just by a different culture. why cant you just leave people be and let them do what makes them the happiest?
@AlexKomnenos
@AlexKomnenos 4 года назад
JustAThought maybe the hyper openness you preach has led to all of the problems we now face
@lon8486
@lon8486 4 года назад
Broski Kovalski. Very well said. Thank you!
@765respect
@765respect 4 года назад
Was a happily active teen back in the 70's. The only STD I got was after 2 yrs of marriage from my husband. I believe the sexual freedom I was able to enjoy and experience made me into the happy, content granny that my husband, children, their SOs, grandchildren, dog and cats love to be around. Always have been a requested addition to the work environment and all parties. (2 full retirements and a portfolio to make me not worry about money ever.) Still married to my STD giving husband, 40 yrs later! Gotta forgive and forget.
@kristenlabarbera1630
@kristenlabarbera1630 3 года назад
This video makes me sad with how far away we haven’t gotten from values, morals, and rules. I wish I could have lived in the 50’s
@depressedasfan9452
@depressedasfan9452 3 года назад
Nah
@DrStench13
@DrStench13 2 года назад
@@sophieruby9135 You mean what's going on today more than ever
@thisulwickramarachchi2380
@thisulwickramarachchi2380 2 года назад
@@sophieruby9135 it's more sexist & racist now than the 50s
@belmum1689
@belmum1689 2 года назад
@@thisulwickramarachchi2380 'It's more sexist & racist now than the 50s' get your head out of the sand and stop with the BS
@SearsCool
@SearsCool 2 года назад
@@belmum1689 cough cough segregation
@sensiblesentimental
@sensiblesentimental Месяц назад
With all the problems we have today, I'm infinitely grateful I didn't grow up in this era. The ethics in psychology were practically nonexistent. I would have been lobotomized.
@cynthiaburrus3901
@cynthiaburrus3901 4 года назад
The TRUTH was different from this. This is my generation. Not born until the mid 1950's I realize now I was sandwiched between two worlds. I was unusual in that my parents never asked me to behave in a manner that wasn't what was modeled to me. We were taught the same values and rules that came before them. We were absolutely able talk about things and I was never seen but not heard! Far from it. But my dad never came home wanting to talk to me either. He worked his backside off as a building contractor and needed time to unwind at dinner and afterward with a newspaper. My parents were unusual in that they had a very good marriage and I remember them talking for an hour or so around dinner. It was the first generation though, in which most parents were making a lot more money than their parents and the were anxious to give these things to kids. That started the problems in some ways for some families. Things do not replace time spent as a family. We were lucky in that way and we did a lot together. We also were expected to help the adults with chores. We still had a lot of kids in the neighborhood to play with. Some were my cousins. I wouldn't trade those times with anyone. As it turns out, it was the only truly secure time of my life. .
@frdjr2529
@frdjr2529 4 года назад
Born '52. Every family in the 50s wasn't perfect. Women stayed in bad marriages because there were few if any options. You still had alcoholism, infidelity and domestic violence. We just didn't talk about it in the 50s. Every family wasn't like what we saw on TV.
@re8618
@re8618 4 года назад
That sounds so nice. Everything fell apart after that. Now it’s so draining and cold. Technology was our downfall.
@itsme-rt7nz
@itsme-rt7nz 4 года назад
I agree. This was not my experience at all. I never felt like less of a person. I was allowed to become my own person (although social norms were pretty restrictive for girls). I was taught to obey my parents, and I respected them as my authorities. But I always felt that they respected me as well, even when I was very young.
@bryanmartinez6600
@bryanmartinez6600 3 года назад
Welcome to the present, now we put off everything to work even more.
@DirtyDan1
@DirtyDan1 3 года назад
this was the truth for a lot of people. the united states is a big country, of course many people will have different experiences.
@beckweth
@beckweth 4 года назад
Looks like the same filmmaker of Refer Madness. This is an extreme stereotype of the times. I grew up in the 50's and 60's and my grandparents were never this rigid.
@iamcleaver6854
@iamcleaver6854 4 года назад
@@nossasenhoradoo871 family traditions...
@iamcleaver6854
@iamcleaver6854 4 года назад
@@nossasenhoradoo871 That was a joke...but in the long run, that rebellion brought an end to stable families and opened the door to total societal anarchy.
@iamcleaver6854
@iamcleaver6854 4 года назад
@@nossasenhoradoo871 The virus is real, although I would not take it as seriously as many might. By anarchy I meant feminism and the unwillingness of women (and some men) to settle down.
@iamcleaver6854
@iamcleaver6854 4 года назад
@@nossasenhoradoo871 ok. You are either insane or a troll. In either case, I see no point in continuing
@richardwahl1902
@richardwahl1902 3 года назад
I hear ya, pal. What they hear is someone else's opinion, or through a book, or the internet, but.....they didn't experience it, they didn't live through it, so......they don't know!!! We didn't live through the '20's either, but it's over, and as we moved along in life, things changed, people changed, and society as a whole, changed. Our lives were better simply because we worked hard and made it, others were not so 'lucky', but that's life, and life is NEVER perfect, and neither is it today, it's only different.
@monicapyle
@monicapyle 2 года назад
My dad was a war baby but he was teenager in the 50's and he has all kinds of wonderful memories from that decade. I was a child of the 80's and loved it but it would be nice to step back in time and see his teenage years.
@LisaGiesler
@LisaGiesler 22 дня назад
Watching some of the comments about people thinking it was boring and stifling, but you know what I miss politeness, kindness, and helpfulness. Not to mention learning how to take care of a home and cook plus having a work ethic
@MichelleB2b
@MichelleB2b 8 лет назад
My parents held on to those old beliefs, "Children should be seen and not heard", damage held onto for many years. I wanted to know what my children had to say, treated them as the individuals they are, with their own opinions.
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 8 лет назад
Thank you Michelle. David Hoffman - filmmaker
@drpsionic
@drpsionic 6 лет назад
There are a lot of old folks alone in nursing homes dying wondering why their children left them and never spoke to them again.
@pelosuelto70
@pelosuelto70 6 лет назад
Charles Cosimano I can confirm this. I used to work in an assistant living facility and the elderly would just wait for their families. It could be months, or years. It drives the elderly crazy.
@princessthyemis
@princessthyemis 5 лет назад
hear hear!
@MegaMagicdog
@MegaMagicdog 5 лет назад
Michelle B: My Dad was the same way. He and my mom came of age in the 50s and in my Dad's case, when his family sat down to dinner, there was total silence expected during the meal. That was how my Grandpa wanted it (presumably because it was similar to his own upbringing which was quite harsh). My Dad wanted to make sure we talked to one another at the table (or any time) and know what was going on and to know one another. I'm grateful for that. My Grandparents, for the record, were wonderful people but were products of their era, which was tougher than what subsequent generations would ever know.
@bugsfunny200
@bugsfunny200 5 лет назад
“The idea of normal is kind of a vegetative state where nothing happens.”
@ElsjeD
@ElsjeD 5 лет назад
Like life today. Nothing happens except in your stupid phone.
@momotheelder7124
@momotheelder7124 5 лет назад
it is delusional to think that there isn't a lot of that now, maybe not in the same way, but conformity definitely exists in various subtle ways.
@X-Cactus
@X-Cactus 5 лет назад
Elisabeth_D Just because some use their phones too much doesn’t mean there’s some correlation. Technology is not bad, and people are not somehow worse for using it.
@BoRickersonMcFoosters
@BoRickersonMcFoosters 5 лет назад
Seems like my household when i lived with my siblings and parents
@taliakellegg5978
@taliakellegg5978 5 лет назад
@@ElsjeD bitch nah
@RenJB
@RenJB 3 года назад
I was born in the 80's. I was raised this way by parents who were also raised this way and expected this sort of behavior. This is the first time that I've heard people who thought similar things like I did... feeling bottled in or from another planet. I'm glad I watched this video.
@tj921able
@tj921able Год назад
It seems like the fifties were a more decent time. Rules weren't created to spoil everyone's fun, but to set boundaries & keep people safe so that all could enjoy life. There was more respect in that time period than there is today.
@JoshuaWilliams-qd8iq
@JoshuaWilliams-qd8iq 6 лет назад
In the 50s there were To many rules but now it's like people have no rules
@donald_the_savage1234
@donald_the_savage1234 5 лет назад
Joey Shabadoo swinging back where?
@kimjong-un1136
@kimjong-un1136 5 лет назад
People often mistake rules with that of government rules, but family rules... you are correct. There are none brother.
@kelleymariejones6388
@kelleymariejones6388 5 лет назад
Joshua Williams don’t you wish you had those rules back? I loved the 50s. Even though I was born and raised in the 60s & 70s. I bet they mock the president like they do now! I don’t agree with the every move he makes, but won’t bash him.
@crazyshit8
@crazyshit8 5 лет назад
Joey Shabadoo What does liberals have to do with any of this? Your just sounding like a grumpy jabroni
@ryantheroman4331
@ryantheroman4331 5 лет назад
mohammad amin I mean, there was the red scare, and Arabs and Pakistanis were viewed the same as blacks and Latinos (darker skinned Latinos). They weren’t specifically targeted.
@floridagal9542
@floridagal9542 4 года назад
At 4:40 the “Fit In With The Group” kid was the first Darren on “Bewitched !“ You’ve got to be an oldee like me to remember that!
@toddmiller5656
@toddmiller5656 4 года назад
Dick York. 1950s: Gee. I can be like the other fellas. 1960s: SAMANTHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
@creativeplanetjanet
@creativeplanetjanet 4 года назад
Thank you!
@ojyochan
@ojyochan 3 года назад
I know this as a millennial. Are we old now? Lol with the events of 2020 I sure feel old.
@christinawheeler3123
@christinawheeler3123 3 года назад
He looked so cute I recognized him right away and I am a baby boomer and proud of it. All the rules my mom had for me kept me from harming myself or someone taking advantage of me at a young age mother's knows what will happen to us if we don't have rules. So many of baby boomers I knew growing up are dead. I will be 64 lord willing Sept 14
@darcybrummett7004
@darcybrummett7004 3 года назад
Florida Gal Looking more closely at his face I can see it!
@georgschmidt4670
@georgschmidt4670 3 года назад
Young people were taught respect for their parents and teachers in school. You went to church on sunday and most of us turned fine. The kids of the 50s were far more better than today.
@jager896
@jager896 2 года назад
Train up a boy Girl In the way he should go even when he grows old it will not depart from him Eileen peace to you
@byuftbl
@byuftbl Месяц назад
What’s your definition of “better”? Kids these days have a lot of ways to learn and grow and find out who they really are, rather than simply confirming and falling in line with everyone else and working in a job maybe they hate because they didnt dare to take a different path. You can still be a good, contributing member of society and not follow the norm.
@byuftbl
@byuftbl Месяц назад
Further, boys and girls are taught about consent, and bodily atonomy so they know they can tell uncle or priest who is touching them inappropriately “NO! I don’t like what you’re doing” rather than “well he’s an authority figure to me, maybe I just have to do what he says”.
@privatecitizen9341
@privatecitizen9341 4 года назад
If more kids were taught to obey, respect authority, and control their emotions, there would be fewer behavior issues in the classroom, including school shootings and bullying. If parents gave kids serious consequences for actions, instead of pampering them and making accuses for their actions.
@romanramirez7847
@romanramirez7847 4 года назад
Private Citizen I do agree that the U.S did have a good discipline system at the time and I loved how kids really did respect their parents. The problem was that almost everyone had to follow a certain “Code”. You had to do what society wanted you to do, and you usually could not follow your dreams to do what your heart truly desired. Add on the racism and homophobia at the time and it was not a good time to live in. While kids still need to respect their parents nowadays, I am truly grateful to be living in a time where my dreams are encouraged and where others who are of different skin (as well as homosexuals) are accepted. This is not a hate comment on you though. I’m just sharing my perspective. I respect your opinion.
@majidaljaburi7870
@majidaljaburi7870 3 года назад
In the West if someone even tries to teach children how to do that then the media or other people or the left would think you’ve gone mad or mental or your evil
@skflwphgaawfas7402
@skflwphgaawfas7402 3 года назад
If more kids were taught to obey, respect authority, and control their emotions, they would live a dull life, hating every single second they are living, leading them to self killing or (haha!) school shootings and bullying. Explaining consequences of actions to children is essential to their ability to understand the surroundings and the world. But instructing them to obey rules just gives them the way to behave without explaining anything. It's like believing in science and a god. I believe in science (hopefully this explains my pov)
@joejoonhoyang
@joejoonhoyang 3 года назад
You definitely know nothing about psychiatry
@jager896
@jager896 2 года назад
I agree 💯 the Bible book of Proverbs c 22 v 6 Train up a boy Girl In the way he she should go even when he grows old it will not depart from him peace to you Eileen
@carmelitagood3392
@carmelitagood3392 4 года назад
Rules are necessary to keep society from hurting themselves.
@davidodonnell5355
@davidodonnell5355 Год назад
I agree!
@drift318
@drift318 Год назад
I think we should, on occasion, allow society to hurt itself…NyQuil chicken for example…if your dumb enough to try it…maybe we should let you
@thundark3736
@thundark3736 Год назад
@@drift318 Except nobody is actually doing that so-called "trend". You were successfully duped into giving attention to Tiktok clout chasers while the algorithm benefited them with millions of views and follows.
@drift318
@drift318 Год назад
@@thundark3736 yeah, and nobody did the tide-pod challenge either...
@inversedopposite6913
@inversedopposite6913 Год назад
@@thundark3736 I eat NyQuil chicken every Friday
@mistreme8341
@mistreme8341 5 лет назад
I was a 70's child born to 50's style parents. My home life was pretty good, but my connection to society sucked because what I was taught at home didn't match what was being taught out in the world. A very confusing time to grow up in. Oddly enough, the 80s more closely reflected the 50s in a lot of ways so I did better as I entered my teen years.
@realmichaud
@realmichaud 5 лет назад
I hear ya. When I was a kid my mother was so strict I wasn't allowed to watch Sesame Street for fear that I might believe in monsters. Yep the Cookie Monster was persona non grata in my home at that time. I was sheltered way to much.
@robbyritter4245
@robbyritter4245 5 лет назад
Same here.
@LARRYCAL
@LARRYCAL Год назад
@@realmichaud yeah if you were Biden from Sesame Street you’re way too sheltered
@rs3007
@rs3007 Год назад
​​@@realmichaud born in 1980s. Sometime in the 90s my mom got into a radical religious stuff(lasted a decade).. I couldn't have toy unicorns, unless she cut their horns off and turned them into ponies. 😅couldn't have tolls would probably be burned... But my mom loved sesame street 😅 I could have Elmo lol. Remember when I was finally allowed to trick or treat. My mom now tho is like the total opposite now. Super tolerant idk. It's weird actually.
@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName
@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName 4 года назад
This video was posted on the month of my birthday! Much love!
@satts1949
@satts1949 3 года назад
Whenever I pissed pop off at the dinner table, he'd make me sit next to him so he wouldn't have to reach across the table to smack me😜
@Aveofficialtone
@Aveofficialtone 3 года назад
Sounds terrible. I’m sorry for the abuse you’ve endured.
@maggiemmoore
@maggiemmoore 3 года назад
Fewer brats and hoodlums in those days. It was not considered abuse to control your children's actions and bad habits. Every spanking was meant to curb bad behavior. It worked.
@kelle0285
@kelle0285 3 года назад
You shouldn't be pissing pop at the dinner table. 😁
@satts1949
@satts1949 3 года назад
@@kelle0285 ...Tell me about it! It made it hard to sneak the greens into my pocket for flushing later😁
@di7209
@di7209 2 года назад
@@maggiemmoore If you want to discipline your kid do so by telling them what they did wrong and explaining why they can’t do it. Hitting kids just teaches them that misbehaving leads to violence and they won’t stop they’ll just get sneakier
@RK831
@RK831 5 лет назад
So here are the rules: 1. Obey authority 2. Control your emotions 3. Fit in with the group 4. Don't even think about sex.
@Steve_305
@Steve_305 5 лет назад
They were having sex left to right that's why its called baby boomer
@101Volts
@101Volts 4 года назад
4 isn't "Don't think about sex," it's CONTROL YOURSELF and don't do it "just because it feels good." Plenty of overindulgence in sugar "feels good" until you're fat and unhealthy if not dying from obesity. It's sad that some of those 50s kids didn't listen to the "Control yourself" message, they wouldn't have died to AIDS in the 80s and 90s.
@ygoldberg1287
@ygoldberg1287 4 года назад
@@Steve_305 No , husbands were returning from wwII. And nearly all had children the next year! Read your history!
@ygoldberg1287
@ygoldberg1287 4 года назад
@Féline-Odré Mercier if you are waiting for marriage you wont marry a loose woman , and virgins don't really look for loose men.
@henrymartin8997
@henrymartin8997 4 года назад
Yes, the rules. That's how it was!!! It was really not a problem. We didnt learn bad words till TV, AND you knew not to say them. *Elaine *
@curlyyasmin181
@curlyyasmin181 5 лет назад
“These boys greet their dad as if they had really missed him” because they needed to put on a show? Rule number 1 : lying is good
@manu3733
@manu3733 5 лет назад
Nah dude, it's because to keep up good relationships you have to make an effort even when you don't really feel like it. For example, if you turn down your friends' invitations every time you feel a bit too tired or lazy to want to go, they'll stop inviting you pretty fast. Sometimes people go their entire lives without really getting to know their parents because whenever they have a chance to talk to them they're too tired or wanna do something else more. Then the years fly by and the parent passes on. The point of the advice there is that you should give time to your family even if you sometimes don't feel like it. It's important practice for later in life. If you ignore your spouse whenever you're too tired or lazy to deal with them you won't be married very long.
@jameswells9403
@jameswells9403 5 лет назад
It's not a lie. It's a fiction which is enacted. We don't always feel like behaving, so we fake it. And sometimes it becomes real.
@monkeyman123321
@monkeyman123321 5 лет назад
It's not lieing back in that day dads were men with kids, now dads are guys with kids. A lot of these dads fought in the war earned respect and came back to start a family. The work was harder back then less machines and no computer to aid in their work. They wanted to make a perfect world for their family by setting the ground rules. Now children are lucky enough to know their dads let a lone know enough to have a opinion about them.
@kmeccat
@kmeccat 5 лет назад
At least fathers were there, tho--usually. Some did abuse wife/kids or run off. And fathers had rules to follow to be considered a good dad. Spend time with the kids, talk to them, raise them up to be good neighbors and citizens. Your children and their behavior and how they turned out, was a reflection on you as parents. Most tried hard to raise good kids with manners, who did well in school.
@jasminevaliente96
@jasminevaliente96 5 лет назад
@@manu3733 if you dont feel like it you already have a trash relationship smh being fake isnt putting effort into anything but stress
@corbynkubalek9708
@corbynkubalek9708 3 года назад
Watching this makes me so grateful that I live now, no matter how crazy things are. People weren't free to be themselves. The whole society was based on judging others and trying to be perfect rather than accept your imperfections.
@shrimpflea
@shrimpflea Год назад
And now everyone is fatter today. It's a major health risk.
@mintz9782
@mintz9782 Год назад
Same shit is happening today except it’s the opposite, a lot of people are made to be a certain way, it’s called cancel culture and it does exist.
@rswindol
@rswindol Год назад
Watching this makes me angry that previous generations willingly flushed a great country down the toilet. But hey, to each their own.
@cindyweckter6274
@cindyweckter6274 Месяц назад
We were born in the early 50s. We were told children are to seen, not heard. When we went to parents friends house or grandmas house we were to sit still with our hands folded in our lap. If someone asked if we wanted something to eat or drink we were scared to answer because we never knew if we would get in trouble for saying yes so I would say I don't know. My maternal grama would say well if you don't know know then you don't get anything. It was scary and dangerous when I was a kid.
@finnp1676
@finnp1676 5 лет назад
Excuse me is no one going to talk about the “Former Hippie” line under the last woman’s name
@Shasta31487
@Shasta31487 5 лет назад
Right! I was cracking up with that.
@Shasta31487
@Shasta31487 5 лет назад
@Untrepid One You don't think, "Former Hippie" is a funny occupation? I'm sorry you didn't get joy from it like others did. I also don't understand if you are defending hippies or slamming them?
@robinchesterfield42
@robinchesterfield42 5 лет назад
First thing I noticed was that her last name is "Rasberry". I mean, I GUESS that can be a legit last name? But I immediately thought of like, Strawberry Shortcake characters or something. :P
@isthatsonotsofast9604
@isthatsonotsofast9604 4 года назад
She looks like a troubled soul. Her letting it all hang out didn't help her none.
@pheresy1367
@pheresy1367 4 года назад
@@robinchesterfield42 There were no strawberry shortcake dolls until the 80's. They were for the children of the "hippies". My daughter got one.
@SkySkrapinEnt
@SkySkrapinEnt 5 лет назад
love how being polite and having things in order is looked at as wrong by so many. congrats on the unruly world you created.
@hairdryermanson6955
@hairdryermanson6955 4 года назад
breaking the status quo was just not allowed back then, there's a difference between bring forced to conform and act neat and polite and being encouraged to act neat and polite
@simplymarvelousliving
@simplymarvelousliving 4 года назад
It's not looked upon as wrong to have things in order, it's looked upon as wrong to force your ideas on what "order" looks like onto other people. Nobody is being penalized for having organization, but at least now people have the option not to be.
@user-by4wk9qs1i
@user-by4wk9qs1i 2 года назад
I felt love from this video. Older people in the 1950s probably entrusted their love to young people in this video. And the young people at that time achieved growth that exceeded the expectations of the elderly at that time.
@Dingdongwitchisdead
@Dingdongwitchisdead 4 года назад
When people cast off all restraints they become enslaved by their own desires. When people have self disciple there is much more freedom to explore that which truly matters.
@drpsionic
@drpsionic 3 года назад
Only thing is the only that truly matters is your own desires. The rest is a load of bull.
@Dingdongwitchisdead
@Dingdongwitchisdead 3 года назад
@@drpsionic to each his own opinions, however, Socrates would highly disagree. Since the time of the Epicureans Hedonism has always been attacked throughout history as an ill means of living a good life. It can further be argued that hedonism will lead to nihilism to which the implications will be devastating if followed to their conclusions in a few generations.
@darlenegattus8190
@darlenegattus8190 3 года назад
Needs to be a balance, either way too much is a disaster.
@101Volts
@101Volts 3 года назад
@@drpsionic That's not _entirely_ true. I'm sure there have been pedophiles who were tempted to rape a kid, *but* they actually refused to do it, because they know it's terrible. Self discipline has its merits, and do you hear of the ones who didn't do it at all, then got away to no longer be that way?
@Erin-oe7ie
@Erin-oe7ie 5 лет назад
If my spouse was always putting on a mask and supressing their true feelings, I would hate it. I would want them to be emotionally open with me in a healthy way rather than pretend they're okay.
@EdgeOfEntropy17
@EdgeOfEntropy17 4 года назад
Sounds like you have been brainwashed, using words like "supressing their true feelings" and "emotionally open." You even think it is unhealthy. Have you ever wondered where you got those ideas from? I bet it isn't through your own experiences. It came from the bogus psycology crap they are feeding you these days.
@soulscanner66
@soulscanner66 4 года назад
@@EdgeOfEntropy17 You sound very negative and angry.
@EdgeOfEntropy17
@EdgeOfEntropy17 4 года назад
@@soulscanner66 No, just educated.
@soulscanner66
@soulscanner66 4 года назад
@@EdgeOfEntropy17 Nope. You are disparaging without offering rational discourse.
@101Volts
@101Volts 4 года назад
That's *not* the point of the original film, or at least, it should not be. It seems it was _specifically_ saying, *"Control* your emotions so you don't express your feelings in some violent way that angers who you're trying to talk with." Considering I've angered my Dad when I could have avoided it, suppressing the attitude of being a mad bull *would* have helped.
@originnone
@originnone 4 года назад
The commentary mischaracterizes the relational dynamics that were present in the 1950s vs. today. Parents taught core values of respect, appreciation for how good things were, and having a path to success. The absence or standards such as those has clearly reduced the societal health of 21st century America. It was never about conformity but about doing the things that could bring success.
@s_h136
@s_h136 4 года назад
originnone These „core values“ like obeying authority are actually very unamerican and harmful. Kids should raised to be independent thinkers who are able to go their own path as individuals and are critical towards any authority. Teaching them to strictly follow what they were told produces moral cowards and makes them feel more attracted to authoritarian political ideologies.
@simplymarvelousliving
@simplymarvelousliving 4 года назад
Back then, conformity brought about success. But, society changes. It makes perfect sense that a generation who were taught to obey authority without question would give birth to children who questioned authority before obeying.
@Miniver765
@Miniver765 4 года назад
@@s_h136 These "core values" you scorn also taught people to think of others and their community first. I would heartily disagree that contemporary rampant narcissism and self-indulgence is a marked improvement.
@roychefets6961
@roychefets6961 4 года назад
Full of shit.
@bevcrusher4177
@bevcrusher4177 3 года назад
Well said. Thank you!
@ladymarjorie3777
@ladymarjorie3777 3 года назад
I grew up during that era. It was the best time to be young, and I would never trade it for what goes on today. I was so lucky.
@melindasmith3713
@melindasmith3713 20 дней назад
Everybody enjoyed being a child .
@sharondrury5676
@sharondrury5676 2 года назад
Thank you, Mr Hoffman. I found this again.
@JD43232
@JD43232 5 лет назад
Imagine cleaning yourself up for dinner. When i come home i put on dirty comfy shorts and a t-shirt with holes in it
@stalstonestacy4316
@stalstonestacy4316 5 лет назад
We always clean up for supper. Nobody wants to eat their food next to a dirty, smelly sweat hog covered in the grime of a work day. Most of these rules were about making others feel valued and respected if not loved. Only a broken down society like the one we currently have would think that being considerate to others is something laughable or shameful. I greet my husband at the door or even the back gate every evening. He works very hard to support our home and deserves a wife who looks nice and happy to see him, a home that's clean and comfortable, a hot supper on the table and willing help in making our future better. In return we are well provided for, loved, cherished and respected, protected from the ugliness and evil out in the world. Every single day when its time to be finished with the things that don't matter we have a place to go that is a good place to be. That's the point of these old vodeos. Everything is backwards now. These days its every person for themselves at any cost and it's only "me&you" until one of us changes our minds. All because common courtesy isn't hip. 😢 its actually really sad
@JD43232
@JD43232 5 лет назад
@@stalstonestacy4316 Hmmm just not really my kind of lifestyle tho
@pistachiobaklava1216
@pistachiobaklava1216 5 лет назад
Ew, you pig!
@pistachiobaklava1216
@pistachiobaklava1216 5 лет назад
@@stalstonestacy4316 well said!
@stalstonestacy4316
@stalstonestacy4316 5 лет назад
@@frigglebiscuit7484 my husband is a coal miner who comes home filthy every night from doing real work. Judgemental? Look in the mirror.
@albaproductions9602
@albaproductions9602 9 лет назад
In Britain now dating rules are buy her two Bacardi breezers and she will ride you like seabiscuit.
@roberthaworth9097
@roberthaworth9097 5 лет назад
Ahh, a representative of our Mother Country weighs in. Thank you so much for bringing clarity and class to the discussion.
@josiahjrich
@josiahjrich 5 лет назад
69 likes... nice
@TheSergio1021
@TheSergio1021 5 лет назад
Thank God we fought for independence
@jig7810
@jig7810 5 лет назад
💀💀💀
@MrJinxmaster1
@MrJinxmaster1 5 лет назад
@@TheSergio1021 you forsake god far more than we
@plateshutoverlock
@plateshutoverlock Год назад
Notice how in the 50s film they use a lot of technical words to describe behavior? I can see why the 60s kids rebelled, and that momentum only picked up from there.
@lw97nilslinuswhitewaterweb24
And nowadays you count as a rebel when you’re not woke
@swellybibbsenterprises5185
@swellybibbsenterprises5185 4 года назад
I've been watching educational films from the 1940s. Imagine all this without the comfort of rock 'n' roll music or late night television to fall back on.
@MondoBeno
@MondoBeno 4 года назад
After the deprivation of the Depression and WW2's posponement of domestic life, people were glad to have a decade of peace. My grandfather wasn't an authoritarian or discipinarian (my grandma was, but that's another story) but there was no room for time-wasting. You wore what your parents gave you, and parents didn't give their kids piles of money to spend.
@brendakempf2869
@brendakempf2869 4 года назад
Men were men, and women were women. The 50s were the absolute best. What I wouldn't give to go back. People were sane back then.
@honkhonk8009
@honkhonk8009 4 года назад
Mind you this was a select sample size of what the 20% at best would act. Similar to our society. Human behaviour doesn't change and culture is just a skin of it.
@ilanamillion8942
@ilanamillion8942 Год назад
I actually love the old Coronet films and a lot of us on RU-vid watch them all. Some things never change and it's amazing how relevent the lessons are even in 2023.
@kenyattafrazier
@kenyattafrazier Год назад
I honestly think we need those informational videos they had back then in today’s world
@galanoftaa6439
@galanoftaa6439 5 лет назад
We seem to have a problem with balance in this country. We go from one extreme to another. We often throw the baby out with the bath water when we want to change something. I hope one day we look at things with nuance and realize few things are all good or all bad. It would have been nice if we could have just thrown out racism, and sexism, and kept all the great stuff like family values, respect, and basic decency.
@chodeshadar18
@chodeshadar18 5 лет назад
18 minutes in, and I'm already gonna say, Amen brother, you've hit the nail on the head!
@blasphimus
@blasphimus 5 лет назад
Thrown out the hate of LGBT too. But that's where things come into conflict. If women have freedom to have sex freely then your 60's concepts of decency come into question. Is women kissing women not acceptable? Is casual sex not acceptable? White people today do respect black americans or poor people or mexican americans. We never had the respect back then and it's not much better now. Traditional values go against modern ideals of freedom and acceptance. You can't have traditional "family values" and the liberation of men and women to do as they please. To be a traditionalists is to inherently be sexist, racists, homophobic, anti sex, and pro greedy capitalism.
@thebobsagetguy
@thebobsagetguy 5 лет назад
@@blasphimus absolutely moronic you can have the choice to be sex freely but not be brainwashed into thinking there are no adverse effects from that type of behavior
@realmichaud
@realmichaud 5 лет назад
I think there was balance in the 80s and 90s. But that was thrown out the window.
@miss.brun0
@miss.brun0 5 лет назад
@Nate Day Definition of tradition: the transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation, or the fact of being passed on in this way. You accuse blasphimus of "conflating religious dogma with tradition" because you feel he has "bias" and a "woefully inaccurate view of traditional values". Okay, fair enough. But not really, actually. You can't say that the tradition was "common decency and a sense of duty" ALONE. You may have EXPERIENCED it that way, or if you didn't live back then, then you may PERCEIVE it that way. However, you cannot ignore the asterisk that comes after making a statement like that. Tradition is the transmission of customs or *BELIEFS*, and for the majority of the population in the early 1900's, the belief was that racism and homosexuality were generally socially acceptable. Now, of course, those traditions were not ALWAYS institutionalized like other countries, like when Brunei recently put into action a law that would punish those who take part in homosexual intercourse and adultery to death by stoning. Still, the rose-colored glasses version of the tradition IS what you say it is. Matter of fact....this video is exactly that. Or rather, it tries to make the times LOOK like that. But it wasn't that simple. It never is.
@rorytennes8576
@rorytennes8576 5 лет назад
" anger is a violent behavior" ?? No. Anger is an emotion. Emotion is not behaviors. Anger is a valid, normal and often needed emotion. It is often a reaction to a wrong that has been done.
@deee7314
@deee7314 5 лет назад
He said "anger is a violent emotion" not "violent behaviour"
@realmichaud
@realmichaud 5 лет назад
I agree, weren't most of the guys sent off to Normandy pretty angry. Angry at Hitler and wanted to personally kill him, or angry at the government for getting them involved. Either way I can bet there was plenty of anger to go around. Hypocritical of the narrator and those who produced the video.
@dontcallmejon
@dontcallmejon 5 лет назад
The point is to control your anger, yeah thats great that anger is a normal emotion but it also gets people killed, especially when we arent taught how to control our emotions and are instead taught to let it all out.
@rorytennes8576
@rorytennes8576 5 лет назад
deee Thanks. Didn't catch that. it seemed to imply that anger was violence and bad.
@rorytennes8576
@rorytennes8576 5 лет назад
Christopher Michaud Yep . I am starting to question the institution of armys being controlled and sent to war by one leader or by a government. Probably necessary but there is a whole lot of room for abuse, oppression and needles war and death when the leaders head is not on the line for his / her decision to send men off to kill and be killed
@karenlavelle2975
@karenlavelle2975 3 года назад
I grew up in the 50s and it was the best time ever ...a lot better than it is today
@redpill1977
@redpill1977 4 месяца назад
People say when JFK got assassinated that was the REAL end of the 1950s!!!
@bobbyrickard7750
@bobbyrickard7750 4 года назад
I truly enjoy this video i’m loving everything this is amazing
@kaylee8130
@kaylee8130 5 лет назад
I’m 17 and I watch those educational videos all the time I’ve seen almost all of them showed in here.. I don’t see what’s wrong with them they are actually very helpful a lot of that good common sense and life skills don’t get taught anymore
@OpusTheLeftie
@OpusTheLeftie 4 года назад
Kissass lol
@momsspaghetti7888
@momsspaghetti7888 4 года назад
@@OpusTheLeftie sometimes I'll watch these old videos, and while some of the advice is outdated or poor advice in general, there are some bits and pieces that are still useful to Today's Youth™
@toddlehman928
@toddlehman928 4 года назад
You Have to be the most fun kid in school!!
@firewizzard86
@firewizzard86 4 года назад
@@momsspaghetti7888 Do these morals age or are they timeless?
@momsspaghetti7888
@momsspaghetti7888 4 года назад
@@firewizzard86 some are pretty timeless (budget time/money, treat others with respect, eat healthy, etc) but some aged like milk (wash hair twice/month, antiquated ways to introduce someone, the idea that jello/aspic belongs in food etc)
@Leroyjr33
@Leroyjr33 5 лет назад
"Pick out the most popular people in school... Try to figure out why people like them.. not that you'll ever be like anyone of them 😁🤣 welp see you at dinner."
@LordNextDoor
@LordNextDoor 5 лет назад
Lmao baby boomers are fucking dinks
@darrendaulton
@darrendaulton 5 лет назад
That was a young Dick York from way before his Bewitched Days. Wow !
@exoticcar5482
@exoticcar5482 5 лет назад
And later he goes to school and sees all the "most popular people" being all cocky and rowdy and calling each other hoes and sluts and stuff
@igloo614
@igloo614 5 лет назад
10/10 parenting lmao
@JJFrostMusic
@JJFrostMusic 5 лет назад
I think he meant like you can't exactly be like another person so if you want to conform, then be yourself while doing it
@charlesbrewer6552
@charlesbrewer6552 3 года назад
I was born in Australia in 1952. My enduring memory of my Grand Mother (father's side) who was born in 1890 was "Little people should be seen but not heard". Later abrieviated to "Little people.....!" She was a wonderful, loving Grand Mother, who cared for me greatly, but that was the attitude of her time. When I was twelve, my dad showed me how to pour his Scotch, Ice and Water just right, when I heard his car arrive in the drive. A different time, different attitudes.
@joestephens7105
@joestephens7105 3 года назад
That little 6 year old so could have been me! I remember this so well. It was oppressive, and I really rebelled in the 1960's and 70's.
@matteowatteo1296
@matteowatteo1296 5 лет назад
"Nonconformity is fine, as long as we all do it together". Frank Burns
@altudy
@altudy 5 лет назад
I grew up in the 1950's and remember it well, and was a teenager during the changes of the early 60's. I understand the comments that the 1950's were conventional and conformist but I really am at a loss to understand how the brutalistic hell of a society we live in now is somehow an enlightened improvement. It's different, yes, but it's certainly not better. The patronising commentary of this video, which sneers at the mores of the past, really annoys me.
@toxicturtle9077
@toxicturtle9077 5 лет назад
Exactly so, Al Tudy. If you ignore the unhelpful rhetoric trying to persuade you in the video and actually listen to what the videos from the 1950s are saying, it becomes quite apparent that these are agreeable facets of society that help us function: don't make rash decisions, be courteous and loving even when you don't feel like it because the world doesn't revolve around you, balance social confidence with self-discipline, respect the sacrifices your parents make, don't be promiscuous. Maybe the way they presented it is outdated, but that's only through our retrospective lens. It is ridiculous how a handful of people who just had bad experiences with their families are trying to brand their entire era as antiquated and oppressive, and are documenting it as fact.
@101Volts
@101Volts 4 года назад
"Never think of sex, ever" is NOT what the video says. I'm saying that as an ex sexophobe whose parents were kids in the 50s. The video says don't jump in just because you think it feels good. That's solid advice. Similarly, Drug Casualties agree; "We are dead!"
@DestinyAwaits19
@DestinyAwaits19 2 года назад
Our society is in tatters. But at least we have spiritual freedom, something lacking in Uncle Sam's 1950s America.
@sunkintree
@sunkintree Год назад
Well I grew up in the Today's and everything you say about today is wrong. So what?
@Instramark
@Instramark Год назад
I was born in 1955. My parents gave us everything we needed including what we needed most, being Vietnam. Thanks The Fifties, yes, easier but its own farce. Today? Not so easy but still it's own farce.
@ImprovingAbility
@ImprovingAbility 2 года назад
Child-Rearing and Poisonous Pedagogy are fascinating topics! So are the stories of the very few who could recover from it, or who died trying to defend their dignity
@RosiePosey5150
@RosiePosey5150 24 дня назад
I love all of David's work.This man is amazing and has so much engaging stuff to watch
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker 23 дня назад
Thank you so much Rosie. David Hoffman filmmaker
@RosiePosey5150
@RosiePosey5150 23 дня назад
@DavidHoffmanFilmmaker You always reply to comments and I find that refreshing.You don't have to reply to this one.But I just wanted to say that's very refreshing to read
@lightgiver7311
@lightgiver7311 4 года назад
This was the way I was raised and I have always kept the values my father taught me. I was lucky because we were allowed to be in moods. Dad would say go write it down and explain your feelings - then let it go. I don't drink.
@clieding
@clieding 5 лет назад
I am over sixty and this gives me the „willies“- Public service films such as this were a creepy, insidious, institutional form of „sugar coated“ mind control. My mother, a talented and intelligent woman, told be how bored and frustrated she was in the role she felt was forced upon her by society. She said that as a young girl she thought it was really unfair that „Boys could be anything but girls could only be housewives, secretaries, school teachers or nurses.“ The adults did a lot of drinking and smoking then; probably to ease their panicked existential dread. There was also a lot of spousal abuse and child abuse, unheeded behind closed doors. I won‘t even touch on the obscenity of racial suppression. There was for the first time, and disgustingly still now, a nuclear arsenal capable of incinerating the entire world. I am sometimes nostalgic about these seemingly „simpler and gentler“ times but this is a dream and not the reality; after all, I was just a kid. The reality is that women, non-whites, non-christians, non-heterosexuals were repressed, disrespected, denigrated, ostracized and brutalized. Young men were raised to be „good“, to „make your bed and brush your teeth“, to „do your homework“, to never „chew gum in class“, to say: „How do you do?“, to bow and courtesy [O.K. So not the boys.], and to not „talk back to your elders“ and then, before they were even adults, they were sent off, against their will, by an authoritative government to die and kill in a horrible war. Is it any wonder that their parents and the established society had lost all credibility. The adults of the time were trained to love obedience, conformity and authority more than their own children. I think that under all the sweet pastel colored everything was brewing deep fear, frustration and rage. The children of the 60‘s burned the cage down. We are still groping with what should have replaced it. Civilization is a great experiment in how we can all happily live together without killing each other.
@giovanna722
@giovanna722 5 лет назад
Chris Lieding Wow, well said! I'm in my seventies and the years have shown me that there's good, bad, and indifferent in every era.
@jameswells9403
@jameswells9403 5 лет назад
It feels like all these people came back from the war and brought with them a militaristic mind set: Don't question authority; fit into the group; don't let emotion infect yourself and others. All of the rules apply in the military.
@clieding
@clieding 5 лет назад
James Wells , Well said James.
@HistoricLife
@HistoricLife 5 лет назад
@@jgrif3856 Irony. The republicans screwed the middle class with trickle down and the way they got it was duping the authoritarian republicans that bought into the propaganda of the 50s that blacks were lazy welfare users when whites have always been the main users. You poor dumb bastards shot yourselves in the foot and fucked everything up for your kids and grandkids. Luckily the boomers are starting to decline and will lose power soon enough and we can fix their economic mess.
@HistoricLife
@HistoricLife 5 лет назад
@@gubbil4852 You act like America is not better now than in the 1950s. Socially it is in a much better place. The middle class is messed up but that has to do with racist voting for the GOP and hurting their themselves by allowing trickle down policies to screw their pay.
@yellowbird5411
@yellowbird5411 4 года назад
It is true that children of the 50's were "seen and not heard," for the most part. Communication from parents consisted of orders. "Clean up your room. Wash your hands. Get dressed. Do your homework." At least in my life, there was never a "talk" with mom or dad about sex, popularity, bullying, feelings, etc. Parents did not seem comfortable with it, and brushed it aside with some unhelpful remark. "You shouldn't even be thinking about this. You should be focusing on your school work." The most frequent thing I remember hearing was, "Go outside and play."
@Shasta31487
@Shasta31487 5 лет назад
I adore these vintage videos. I watch them frequently and share them with my kids. I think a balance between understand how to behave properly and growing as an individual is a great way to grow up well.
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