“With experience comes clarity, and with clarity comes a good relationship.”🙄 Hmm- I got married at 21 & we are celebrating 13 years this year. Best decision ever.
😩 A.M. every now and then take your man to the ballgame and treat him to hot dogs and beer or what he likes and watch how different he looks at you 😳 wow my wife is my buddy 👍🏽😉
My single parent mother tried to teach me to be fiercely independent. Ambitious and aggressive. Her lessons didn’t really stick though as I am a nurturer at heart. She would get so mad at me for having what she called “Florence nightingale syndrome.” But I’ve been married to my wonderful husband for 30 years and she’s alone. She recently told me she’s jealous of my marriage and having such a great husband. Feminism is a lie designed to destroy marriage and family and emasculate our men.
Fitness is sooooo important. Also exercise helps tremendously with mental fitness. Ladies I promise it is soo worth it. It builds confidence, you get high off your own supply (endorphins), and your overall mood will be so pleasant. Stay consistent. You don't have to be perfect just dedicate yourself to the lifestyle! Everything in your life will change for the better!! :)
Just because they exercise doesn't mean they will be suitable for a man. So many if these IG models are I'm great shape but Toxic. Fitness is only one part. Most of these women need therapy. A pretty face and body is nothing if her mindset is trash and is emotionally unstable like most modern women are.
@@noinfoherebro definitely not arguing against that at all. Mr. Samuels broke that down really well. I only pointed out fitness because of lot of women resist that part and that’s a major issue especially in the Black community. Nutrition and exercise is good for health which help combat mental health issues to a degree. If a person starts there it “could” help with the other issues. Emphasis on “could” 🙂
Thats nothing but the truth. I got much more confident in my own body in every possible way, since I started going to the gym and lifting heavy. Your spatial avarness and mobility improves, not to mention you look nicer. I also noticed Im much more calm than before, less anxious. And seeing those stunning women that are regulars there, really inspired me to up my own beaty and fitness routine.
Every caller: 1. Says she's high value 2. Doesn't answer directly, KS checks her 3. Says, "she feels like" 4. Believes she "deserves" more 5. Call spirals to 100% delusion The End....smh
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Salute to you Kevin for educating Young Black Women to think about marriage in their 20s instead of what social media is showing women in their 20s to go after an Athlete or Rapper!
U r clueless…..Women r not attracted by the men occupations…they’re more attracted to his bank account….currently athletes and rappers r one of the most wealthy folks out there ….
They should be thinking actively about marriage in their teens, preparing themselves and learning the necessary skills. Their fathers should be identifying potential husbands at this age.
You really can't blame these women. I was at a family gathering last weekend and overheard my 50-year old aunties spitting that "do you girl" "discover yourself first" "dont commit early" "focus on yourself first" to my 20-year old female cousins. This advice is coming from people they deeply respect and look up to.
I believe your aunties are RIGHT. Ironically... many of the people I know who married in their 20s.... are now divorcing in their 30s... which sucks! From what I'm seeing... marrying in your 30s may be a great idea if you want a marriage that's gonna last FOREVER till super senior age. lol The average age of marriage in the US as of 2021 is now 34! So Kevin's narrative is incorrect in THIS day and age. The man is damn near 60 so back in HIS day... EVERYBODY married young mainly for financial reasons....NOT for love so he needs to get with the times which are changing very quickly! 😄
Aunties not wrong… at-least until 24… then they can look for marriage. It’s nothing wrong with doing it straight out of highschool if that’s what they want to do but I wouldn’t recommend it.
He perfectly described the Asian woman I’m dating. Truly feminine, accommodating, and affectionate, she cries when watching sad parts in movies, she is a girly girl. He’s definitely right about the morning sex thing (she will bring her butt closer to me - there’s not even a conversation of her being tired or that she wants more sleep). Haven’t even entertained the thought of leaving her. And taking her out is not bothersome because she brings so much value and I’m truly happy when she comes over, even if I’m still working, her presence is not interruptive. Feminine women know how to lock men in for real. It’s funny women like her are probably laughing at other women who find it difficult to keep a man. Men are very simple with the things we want and that bring us peace.
Totally agree man...what's your nationality? It didn't take me long to understand these concepts. Most black women are just determined to do it there way...and I say, ok do it! LOL!
If you don't understand how peace can be brought, you can't have it. What Kevin mostly said brings peace to a degree. Peace is a large word. Don't just throw it and think you understand everything.
Time stamps 0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Current Mood by Gregory David 🎵 3:04 🎵 Vapour By Osoku 🎵 5:40 🎵 Homeless Soul By Fleurs Douces 🎵 8:45 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 11:40 🎬 Show Starts, Monologue, The Most Wanted Women, Candle of the evening Diptyque Baies, Fragrance Of The Day Maison Francis Kurkdjian Petit Matin Perfume, Fragrance of the evening Baccarat Rouge 540 Parfum Maison Francis Kurkdjian 20:01 Qualities Of A High Demand Woman 54:40 1st Caller Amber age 25 , 2nd Caller Elyse age 23 1:33:01 3rd Caller Shay age 22, 4th Caller Sarah age 23, 5th Caller Idil age 32, 6th Caller Audryana age 27, 7th Caller age 27 2:13:35 Outro
I moved from WDC/DMV to El Paso Texas to find a traditional wife, I dated with intent and the first date was always an interview/ coffee date. After wading through a sea of candidates, I found the woman I wanted. I proposed marriage after 3 weeks, and we have been married since April, 2017. We are both very well off and we have an executive marriage meaning we help each other out. There are allot of good women out there, but I believe you must have a through screening process, and intent. Great show as always KS...
Being from El Paso myself you will find some of the loyalist woman out here. Being a Bordertown some of the women here just appreciate everything that comes their way.
@@bfr74vz80 here is the thing about most 6-figure dudes I know. Their wives all got with them when they were broke just starting out. When they were sub $75K so making average money. Then they built it with them. Also men become high earners in late 30s at the earliest. So do they want a 40 or 50 year old dude cause those are the guys who consistently make that money?
Kevin has the most patience I've ever seen. He needs to be the war negotiator with Russia and Ukraine currently. The break down of the 27yr old nurse was priceless.
I loved this Kevin. I love the biblical principles to these as well. The foundation of a lot of what you say is just that. I really enjoyed this. Thank you
It's amazing how almost EVERY divorced woman that calls into this show was the one that filed. I mean like 99.999% paternity test level accuracy.. Wow!! KS knows what he's talking about and the numbers back him up..
Maybe but I'm more interested in hearing their reasons behind filing not just that they filed. If a man is a cheater and abuser then should a woman stay? If it's "not working" then idk those should be worked out and worked on
@@shoca3427 finally someone said it! Because this narrative that women just need to stay with the man but not taking in the fact men can be cheaters, abusers etc
@@RioTheHitman exactly! Show me the text messages of the guy cheating or police reports for abuse. I knew one chick who was trying to cheat on her husband with me or leave him for me. I'm not sure which. Either way, I wasn't having any of it. Why would I trust a woman who was willing to cheat on her husband or leave him to be with another man? In any case, she started claiming that he was abusing her. Well, that could change the circumstances but she could just be a liar and cheater. So I asked for evidence. Did she have bruises or cuts? Exactly what was he doing? Etc, etc, etc. The *only* thing she could come up with when I pushed the issue was that he smacked her butt on the way out the door when leaving for work. By the way, she was a housewife who didn't need to work because of him. I told her "I like butts too so I would do the same thing. If he really is smacking it too hard or you don't like it, you should talk to him about it. Did you?" "No." I tried to let that guy know what was going on but he didn't want to hear any of it. In his eyes, his sweet innocent little wife would never do anything like that so I must have been the one trying to steal her from him.
Just because a woman files does not mean the marriage failed because of her. It can mean she filed to GET AWAY from a horrible situation caused by the man.
Crazy how KS is literally raising me at 27 🤦🏾♀️I agree with a lot of things he says, life definitely has taken me off the path of womanhood. But I can feel myself becoming better. 🙏🏾
The cat analogy was excellent. Fit, Feminine, Naturally nurturing, mindset, Discipline, Discerning......cooperative.....agreeable . This was another fantastically phenomenal show Mr. Samuels 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏🔥👍👍🙌
I hope the 2nd caller got his points that he made because since watching KS, I have loss 30 lbs and my husband said he didn’t care about my weight but now, I can’t keep his hands 🙌 off me. 😂 ❤️
@@nightfalltavion9936 Exactly. They likely still had sex and he desired her when she was heavier. But now she's even more physically attractive to him. Thus more desire to smash.
One of the best KS sessions I've watched. QUESTION: So, is it true that black women think black man will except less from them than non black men? The first black female video guest on this show said so. She basically said black male standards are lower than non black men so she does not have to try hard, can give less and get the same results and get the same high caliber of black man for little effort. ANSWER: Black men do not give black women like this your TIME! Give your TIME (and love) only to black women who can spell the word RESPECT. And who can demonstrate it every single day to you.
they know a brother will hit it regardless, I see a brother down the street with a 250lb white woman, brother thinks he just hit the lottery or struck gold because he's got a white girl.
@@johnames6430 sometimes men will take the first woman who is feminine, cooperative and supportive. They will go down in beauty and race to avoid the headaches. That 250lb lady may be the most peaceful woman he ever met lol. Too many of our sisters are 250 themselves and think that thats actually normal weight, they are "thick" or "big boned" and think they're the same as a woman 100lbs less.
@@theblackmarvel The Godfather gave me the best follow up. “I’ve never seen a big boned skeleton.” Because women will ramble ramble ramble when they use the “big bones”.
After watching these videos it’s safe to say that Kevin is actually being NICE ! Most of the girls he called average aren’t even average, they are below average !
Absolutely one of the best shows I've seen in ages. He is methodical, calm and very educational towards the ladies in this show. He really is trying to make them see sense and really get them to think about what it is they want and how they should get it. Kevin gets a lot of flack for being unkind, I think this is unfair when you have ladies not prepared to do some homework or listen to what he's actually trying to do... Help them!
"I'm being sought after, but I don't know where to find them". If you are really being sought after, they'll find you. That's in the very nature of being sought after. If you can't find them (HVM), then how do you know they are looking for you? You can only know this if they find you and tell you that you are what they've been looking for. Otherwise, it's all just in your imagination.
Polar bears do not eat penguins because they never meet. HVM are in paces she is not. There’s also a strong possibility that HVM will avoid visually low quality women (weave, fake lashes, raptor claws, tattoos, giant hoop earrings, etc).
Kevin added a few qualifiers.. now she must be book smart and street smarts.. and the book smart has to match your book smarts.. basically men don’t know what they want because only a delusional man thinks he’s getting more than 2 qualifiers at a time
@@creolelady182 They only want him to look good because they wanna post BS pics on Facebook to pretend they're fake happy in front of their friends Crazy thing I was saying this since high school and college and people said I was wrong for having a type A modern woman ain't finna stick around if her man/ATM machine gets sick
I’m so happy that I found KS channel! His concepts are very simple if you take the time out to listen and truly want to better yourself as a woman. I’m learning more about myself everyday.
"You can't ride on just being black." This is exactly what many black women don't understand. You aren't going to be first in line for ANY man if you are not fit, smart, agreeable, disciplined, feminine, cooperative, nurturing and slightly sophisticated. Black women will come at us with whatever sort of attitude and relaxed manner they choose as though there is no need to impress us. I see this even in the work place. Go to a restaurant or a store and interact with black women and you'll notice you don't even get eye contact. They'll talk at you, not to you. Just from that slight interaction you can tell a lot. Women of other races will smile at you while making eye contact. This is happening all over the place where men and women interact. Black women please work on your approach to black men. When we're getting smiles from other races of women but not from you, it makes it hard to ignore all other women and pick you instead.
@@Osunshoney409 you see, no intellectual rebuttal towards anything the brother just said but rather “pick what makes you happy”. Black men it’s time we really woke up and isn’t it ironic they show us more reasons to leave than not when in reality we just want them to cooperate with us. We as black men need to value ourselves way way more and the more we do the less we have to deal with these type of women within our community. Men of other races aren’t rushing to put rings on you but you’ll still be willing to give them things you’d never give us lol, it’ll only get worse for y’all.
@@mightyrsa9772 really? Well I’m already picked sorry… but as for these 2022 females 😂😂😂… they not trying to hear none of that! You better have a bag bigger than the one they can get themselves or it’s game over…
Kevin, you are spot on with all the points that you have laid out, particularly on uncondional feminity, affectionate in public and in private, and warm eyes,as eyes don't lie!
i used to argue with my sister that "her carrier does not define who she is" but after watching Kevin for 1 year i've understood why she is 31 and single
It reminded me to be colder. I used to have a soft spot for these broads but they are judging men extremely harshly by some arbitrary standards that don't ultimately matter.
I married young and am currently going through my spiritual awakening. At first I thought women should wait to find themselves, but after watching these, I realize that it is okay to do that with your spouse. Also, it is imperative for me to help my daughters find themselves while they are young, so they are not entering college with emotional baggage and/or lost. There is nothing wrong with getting an education, as long as they stay open, ready, and looking for a mate at the same time. Keep on teaching Kevin! I am learning a lot👌🏾
I'm blessed to have grown up with 3 grandmas, they taught me most of what Kevin says in his videos. Of course worded differently :) (One abuela from Nicaragua w/ Indigenous roots, Nana from NC w/Cherokee roots and another Nana from rural VA w/Baptist roots). I followed their lessons after they passed, cooking styles, cleaning, and treating everyone with a warm welcome, don't be indebted to a man (pay for your dates). I intentionally didn't date in my 20s to help provide for my family, working 3 jobs, schooling, and chronic illness. I'm glad I waited like my nana's warned, no way I would understand their lessons in my 20s in survivor mode.
Mr. Samuels, Your Q&A skills are phenomenal. Your ability to get the callers to cut the B.S and be honest is unlike nothing I've ever witnessed. What an eye opener your platform is. I really hope young people gravitate to your material before embarking on life's journey.
I'm a HENRY white guy making 145k a year... I got me a Hatian wife that understands family and an actual struggle, and she truly appreciates what I can offer. American black ladies... you aren't even in contention with each other... you aren't the only black women on the planet. And others truly appreciate their husband. Love my baby. ❤
This show is highly appreciated as I know that my Wife of 19yrs is a High Demand Woman…. She is my world and inspiration! Ladies, you better listen, change, and enact all that KS stated to end the madness you are currently living. Fellas, listen with your EYES when vetting a Wife… these are all characteristics that cannot be faked overtime…. HDW are scarce!!
The disconnect between middle aged or older women is, trying to negotiate with men that have the option of more youthful women. Men look for Beauty, Brains, and Compatibility. Which is what most women want. Women tend to look for Wealth, Ambition, and Protection.🤔
With regards to the girl that identified as East African, I said it in the live chat, but this is exactly what the western world or more specifically that 3rd wave wyte feminism will do to non-western black women without a solid understanding of how they ended up in the West or without a proper respect for their parents' struggle to get them where they are. All of a sudden, they forgot about what their parents had to overcome so that they now have the opportunities they have. It happens with the younger generation of men as well but the difference is young men will sooner or later get the reality check of problems with law enforcement etc. if they are not careful. With these type of women? Not so. They escaped accountability because as it is, society at large gives them a 'free pass'. I'm really trying not to generalise too much, but she is probably second generation (even third) born in Canada. Traditional women are just built with a different disposition. Sure, they might and do talk sh*t too, but their disposition is entirely different.
100% I've dealt with quite a few of them here in Dubai (they're actually my favourite) and real Horn Africans are super traditional women who value marriage and family. They are so pleasant to deal with. This one has been properly brainwashed with that Western independant woman crap
I spent quite a bit of time in West Africa and noticed the same thing. Once those women come to America/the west, they're basically spoiled for marriage.
100% agree with you on traditional women being built with an entirely different disposition. Traditional women are apologetic and it does not bring them joy to see a man in distress. These females on the other hand love rubbing everything in the man’s face and letting him know exactly how they feel but guys still be thinking it’s because they’re acting “hard-to-get” 🤣
Kevin, thanks to you I started learning how to cook & tonight I got the courage to approach a man for the first time. I NEVER approach men! Listening to you has helped me so much. Thank you. 🙌
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Another eye-opening show for ladies, you can be desired but not wanted off the pertinent stuff that Kevin broke down such as mindset, fitness, intelligence, femininity, cooperation, etc. I’m also a guy like Kevin who loves smart women too, folk call it a sapiosexual.
K. S. Notes 📝 What Is a High Demand Woman? -Demand -Desirable -Must Be Wanted -Are You a Most Wanted Woman? -Mindset (Above Anything Else) - Cooperative - Smart - Agreeable -Men are Inspired By a Womans Intellect. - It’s How She Chooses to Show that Intellect - Must Be Palatable to a Man’s Ego! - Physically & Mentally Fit - Discipline (Routine) - Dedication (Discipline, Mindset, Man, Family= Loyal / Accountability) - Discernment (Does Not Have to Be Told/ She Knows) -Her Femininity is Constant - Affectionate ( Publicly & Privately ) - Looks at Her Man w/ Soft Eyes, a Warm Heart & a Slight Smile. - Greet Him w/ Feminine Affection - Accommodating = Okay, Okay ( Your Request are Not Burdens to Her. ) - Subtle Sophistication = Humble -Naturally Nurturing = Carefree, Loving, Easygoing Nature = Lightness - She Takes Pleasure & Pride in Being a Mother. -Mothers Day is Mothers Day -Fathers Day is Fathers Day -Abundance Mindset -She looks at something that needs to be fixed or Repaired, & Asks the question, “ Should I ? “ Ready to Make a Life! They provide a lot of value to their men, so the men are happy to see their women. Do You Want to be a Woman that’s High Demand, Sought After & Men will Look to Lock Down Quickly? - You are either High Demand or Not. -The only way to lose in life is to stop evolving. - You’re supposed to evolve every five years. ( Ladies Between 18-35 yrs to get it together. ) -A Woman that is Serious. -If a Woman Talks Abt Her Education or Career, Leave! - The Older the Woman, the Less Agreeable. Got It 🗒️✍🏽✅
A traditional valuable woman has the qualities of an executive assistant, nutritionist, personal trainer, event planner and nanny all in one. And she enjoys the ways she can help others.
Lmao why not just hire help? Like if he makes so damn much. If he doesn’t then she can work too bc working and hiring help is cheaper then doing it yourself.
@@prihaps No thanks. I don’t want to spend money to have some random woman in my space doing things I’m perfectly capable of. My husband makes more than enough but I view hiring someone as a complete waste of time. Excercising, meal planning, taking care of the children Etc are not difficult things and I don’t see the point of having children if you’re going to have to have someone other than you care for them. Hard pass.
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My wife has a friend that is pretty good looking, educated, has a good job..and in her 30s and can't find a man because she was taught to spend her prime years not thinking about relationships but going to school and her career. It's sad to see.
Many don’t seem to understand that every man needs a different wife (even if it’s the same woman) and vice versa. Past experiences with male individuals do not provide you with what is needed for future unknown individuals. Most times, we end up bleeding on people that haven’t cut us. A man (male individual with a purpose/vision), who is brand new in a woman’s life, has no time and energy to sort through and work with the collected data, trauma, experiences, and defense strategies because her past decisions and relationships with other individuals.
That does make sense. It seems to me either your first few loves is all it takes to built something with. However, anything more excessive than that destroys the oxytocin hormone in your brain and your ability to trust others.
@@calleocho2107 very true and it impacts the bond aspect as well. For this reason I believe women should be celibate or just wait until she has properly vetted correctly.
@@TheAlex9405 celibacy is a tricky topic. Although marriages where the woman is a virgin has a 70% success rate (while woman with more than 4 partners has a 35% chance of divorce), it still doesn’t guarantee sexual satisfaction. For instance, some woman can only break their hymens with a penis that’s 7 inches, which means some women can only feel full complete pleasure with a penis that size after the painful breakage, where as there’s women who can’t even take 6 inches. I agree with the vetted process a lot more… hell I would’ve dated a woman at my job had she been more feminine, cooperative, and didn’t hook up with one of my coworkers before she started showing interest to me.
@@hellosunshinek6883 I honestly believe it should but it’s so hard to find. Like a needle in a haystack. Guys are never really satisfied like women because of random hook ups. I personally have only been with 1 person and have been celibate since then. It would be nice.
This was a good one... made me think a lot about my husband and mine's relationship and how I should work harder to make it better... We've been married 12 yrs and have been together 14 yrs. We met when I was 22 and he was 21, both down on our luck. I had two kids with two different baby daddies... he had a step dad who was there for him and influenced him TREMENDOUSLY. Never wanted any kids of his own. Then he met me. We met working at a local fast food restaurant. Long story short (lots of other stuff inbetween) we REALLY hit it off and we both were exactly what we were looking for in each other... Thing is we were both damaged... He had been previously damaged by women and I had previously damaged men along with getting damaged myself by men and my family did a number on me as well, along with his fam doing damage on him...it's a long long story (14 yrs usually is) but we went from public housing to losing buying a first home and losing EVERYTHING because of our choices AND both our mothers being control freaks to FINALLY building things back up TOGETHER and being where we are today... you don't need a "high value man/woman" to be happy... And I can tell ya that kids can DEFINITELY COMPLICATE EVERYTHING!!! Knowing what I know now I wish I we both had been smart enough to wait... but if we hadn't we probably wouldn't be together today.... And he's my best friend... and I'm his.... I'm now 36 years old... we have an almost 11 yr old together along with my other two. Don't have a fancy house, nor a fancy car... but we do have 14 acres and a 4 bedroom brand new modular along with a 2016 jeep cherokee with only 50,000 miles on it (and trust me, in Maine you need 4 wheel drive... especially this time of year), our kids are doing good, not great, but good☺️ I love my husband more than I even know... You are so right about "damage" causing issues... women need to realize that we are built for raising/carrying/nurturing our young as a species... I used to have more "feminist/liberal/leftist" views growing up but it's only because that's what I was raised with... always had a distaste for government and once I had kids I started to see how unfairly men were treated when it comes to society and the law...
A feminine woman will speak one sentence and you'll know the presence of whom you are in regardless of hvm or average. Trust me even if you're burdened or frustrated, it tales just one sentence of even gesture. You'll know.
One thing I can always 100% agree with KS on is our weight! Going to vacation Sunday and planned to eat what ever I wanted at the Resort , but after this broadcast, I better stay in the hotel gym and stick to my diet.😂 Good show!🍓🥑🍆🌱🥔🥗🥦🥒🍒🍌🍎🍊🍍
Mr. Samuels......you said something here today!!! Feminine/Agreeableness/Suddle Sophistication/Unconditional Femininity. Sooo many do not understand the message that you have served us right here! Thanks for the work brother🙏🏿🎯
Hi Kevin and everyone else, I live in NYC and one thing that I can attest to is that high value men(high earners, ivy educated and from wealthy background) here do look at a woman’s qualification and family background. Being a feminine, beautiful and wifey material alone is not enough. At least in my social circle of friends and acquaintances. One of my gf experienced higher amount of interest after she graduated from an ivy college and found a high paying job. Another friend would only select girls from very wealthy background to ‘match’ him. Let me know if you guys think this is not the norm if you also live in NYC? I was extremely lucky to be able to find my husband at 30. He was very different from his friends and accepted me for who I am (adjustable 6, stable home based job salary 130k annually with no projected progression as I need to focus on taking care of him and the home). He’s 1 year older and was making 200k annually when we met and has now shot up to 500k after a few years. I would not say I am super feminine or inspirational. But I cook well and take care of everything he needs at home and support him with everything I can. Good luck to all the FBI ladies out there. You will find your man!
You are absolutely right… there’s no debate about it. However, if we equate all top earners + high value men to a separate 100%, less than one third of them consider these facts you have mentioned… interestingly the one-third are seen mostly among whites. To conclude this: The concept of GENERATIONAL WEALTH is mildly influenced by choices of these high income earners or high value men…. Hence being feminine, being educated and from a wealthy background is a huge factor!
totally agree! live in NYC, make 350 and went to an Ivy and definitely think it makes me seem more worthy of marriage. pretty and fit arent enough. you need to be able to understand and fit into his life.
I’ve been watching and following for about two years now and have always gained something watching your videos. I enjoyed my brief time on your show and I appreciate your feed back on what I said. Maybe next time I can ask my question to you on the subject. Many many thanks from over here!
It’s so telling that ALL these women believe that they are positioned to have more value than they truly have. These women seem to have never been challenged by anyone let alone a man and they have not accepted the true reflection of who they really are. They seem to struggle between what they want to be, who they actually are and the desire for other peoples outcomes-without knowing or understanding the origins of other peoples outcomes.
Nail on the head, because they don’t even understand themselves, they can’t understand the wants and desires of the other people they wish to interact with, which creates this weird space where they think they are entitled to things they are not, and then look at the people who questioned them as if they are out of pocket.
1st caller says she wants to know where to find the right men but says she is still in a 2 year relationship and wants to build a legacy with her man?!!. She is a wife, discerning, disciplined and mentally fit?!! Like, what!!
Such an astute assessment of people. He left us with gems. I’m happy to hear this description. It’s validating of moving through the world in femininity and it being valued.
I wish I knew him at 21. However, I'm 26 engaged to be married in May to a white guy so I managed by myself to a point but listening to him has definitely opened my eyes on how to become the best wife I possibly can. He should definitely create a wife boot camp I'd pay money for that!
The surrendered wife by Laura Doyle is a great book that aligns with a lot of these beliefs. Its a book I often read and it helped my marriage. Also, Fascinating Womanhood, they have a book, RU-vid channel and FB group you can join. Best of luck 💗
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🙌🏿👏🏾some of your best work I’ve heard...Very educationally, thorough, descriptive, and well defined... makes me want to go purchase your book thou I’m very conscious and in tuned....Hopefully the (black) world is listening and taking notes. Natural nurture = the proverbial virtuous woman aka most wanted even the 👹is look for her. “HD” woman all the way😘😍🌹🏡🚘💰💍👑she Brings peace /balance/and sanity to the table.
Damn you summed up the woman i want K.S. all the moderns at her job probably hate her at this point, she is traditionally hispanic, i make way more, my life is super easy. 38 really starting to make real money, she just gives off everything i want and I am about to make her life super easy. She works hard, works at a shopping plaza as a janitor, she makes me want to hold her down. I work for a big company and she makes me feel so valued.
Good but 1-stop feeling, instead think. 2-look way ahead. Talk to a divorce attorney, marriage counselor etc. Why? Proper preparation. Same way you prepared for your DL, or career. Good luck
@@jbb8261 men initiate 99.9% of marriages, women end 80% of them, 90% if they are college educated, on irreconcilable differences. Really code for she is no longer "feels" happy in marriage. Consequently, divorce court is not a "negativity" nor a "scarcity" for men. It's a fact, 90% of all alimony is borne by men. Now you can go ahead and have the last word, I know how much you must like to SIGN.
If a man shows positive* masculine energy and NOT toxic masculine energy, 100% these things are easy to do. The "problem" with women today (coming from a woman) is that a lot of men are confused about being a good man and a controlling man. We don't want to be controlled, we want to be cared for. If we are cared for with genuine intent, we will do anything for that man. However, if a man does things out of a controlling nature, it will push us into our masculine energy and ultimately butt heads. Be gentle towards your woman and she will give you the world.
