Her marriage to Ben won't last ,she has a big problem when it comes to marriage, it's like she's in love with love ,she just likes getting married, like zsa zsa gabor!
Whatever people like you say, Ben was and is her one true love. she wrote a book, did songs about her life with him (even Jenny From the Block is about how media is creeping around their relationship), plus she admitted he was her biggest heartbreak. And out of all the marriages, in this one she took HIS name. So I know she is IN LOVE with him and she never got over him. Ben knew he screwed up the first time, he couldn't take the media frenzy at the time (one reason for their breakup - further confirmed by Matt Damon, Ben's BFF) and his parents didn't like him marrying a Latina. He also wanted to stay in his "bachelor" status for as long as possible. Jennifer married another man months after the breakup. Ben married too. Later Ben became an alcoholic, was depressed, his marriage fell apart and as I've read, he did try to get Jennifer back even then. Now that they both are older and mature and experienced, they have a good chance of making this work. Their kids also seem to like each other a lot. And I hope "Bennifer" makes it work. They deserve to be happy, they were apart for 18 YEARS.
I always look at the comments to get a good laugh. The people worried about her life someone they’ve never ever met in theirs should probably take a better look at their own lives. Most people who like to sit back judging others have the most issues
I divoced my ex i been single for over a year i date once in a while i will never get married again im happy being alone men are not my proroity in life
how come you don't say that about their father who's got way more relationships after their divorce? oh yeah I forgot he's a man, we only just the woman in this kind of situations
That's the problem with people: "She SEEMS so shallow." It's what people say when they don't know enough about a person. She's actually known to be very sweet. She says it hurts when people are mean but she can't control that so she tries to ignore it.
Lmao 🤣 you don’t even know these people. I’ll tell you what I would much rather be her child vs yours. I am so glad that I was taught to never judge others as they have nothing to do with me. You don’t know how her children feel. And not for nothing but her children have been spoken to multiple times just about life and they seem like very happy kids to me. Get a life
@@Materialgirl_3 Agree. And Max and Emme are nice kids. Very close to their mom. I can't understand the hatred and judgment they have for people they DON'T know. That's why Jealousy can be the only reason.
I honestly don't think this marriage is going to last, she's been with a lot of men already so only JLo knows how many more men does she need in her lifetime. She's got the money! Just like underwear, need to change every single day...right ladies? It's JLo's lifestyle!
See that's what I'm talking about! She's actually a nice person - not a diva. Never talks smack about others. She just knows there's a lot of hateful people out there thanks to the slimy media so, (and, sadly, jealous people) she tries to avoid them. I mean seriously - they (the slimy media) are already making up shytte just to get B&J's reactions! I'd look down too whenever they are around.
I don't believe they're going to last very long because JLo treats Ben like a child. He ALWAYS looks depressed & confused while she's all smiles. She's a control freak & it's either her way or the highway. I wish Ben could see the relationship from an onlookers point of view, I can almost guarantee he'd reevaluate the marriage.
Affleck is simply sexually obsessed with her, other than that those two are from different Worlds, let’s be real, this marriage will last as long as Ben can keep it up, the moment he looses interest, she’ll move on to the😘a new younger swinging D 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣
She works vigorously to promote herself. I credit her with being a very hard worker, committed to her career. She is constantly making movies, touring, performing, she works hard searching for love and she works hard promoting her JLo Beauty. She is also a mother.
I think Diddy still holds a torch for JLo. Maybe she was the one that got away. Rumors were that her publicity team wanted her to distance herself from Diddy after the Club shooting. It wasn't a good look for her. She is definitely gorgeous but she is like Jennifer Anniston. She can never be without a man. It just shows that even beautiful women with everything can still be insecure about themselves.
Most women and men don't want to be alone but we have exceptions for both gender. Some say that they can be without someone in their life and can survive alone, which I think is a lie because man was made to be social from creation. I think lots of people wished they were in the position of being able to always have someone in their lives. JLo has said her insecurities stem from as earlier in her youth, as a poor girl from the Bronx with absolutely no connections to powerful people. She was considered not good enough for anything, hence, why she worked and continues to work hard to prove her detractors wrong and maintain her career. I hope that she and Ben can make their marriage last forever and she is at rest in her love life.
@@elsietamburelli8780 miss I’m saying what I said because that’s what I feel you’ve got yours and I’ve got mine’s and I didn’t say anything that the whole world doesn’t know so please you the only one with a reply and negative at that GBY too
Ben Affleck is only a decoration in her life, Package deal kind of thing. She loves her career, more than anything, Maybe Ben is no. 4 or no. 5 in her list,
She is not frmo DR the br0thel of the Caribbean and queen of food stamps and welfare in the USA. There the sex business make them have more men in one night than Jlo in her whole life.
For sure she has ad less than you in your life, especially if you are from DR the br0thel of the Caribbean where they have more men in one night tthan her in her whole life.
Out of all the 4(excluding Ben since he’s her husband), Diddy was absolutely a great lover to her, same with of course Mark Anthony. I believe that looking back at their relationship, Mark Anthony was probably one of her almost-true-loves, like they were meant to be. After her split with Diddy, she should’ve stayed single for long that way maybe she would’ve avoided having or getting another failed marriage(relationship with Judd). From there, she meets and then get engaged with Ben without getting way too much scrutiny around their relationship.
@@gregthomas2448 I guess so. I really liked them together like I thought he was really the one for her, until he cheated on her. He was too good to be true
I like Ben and jen together but I don't think it will last sadly. I think jlo likes the idea of marriage but when she's in it its not what she really wants
ben and jen may be in heaven right now but eventually it will be back to reality...ben will be back being alcoholic/gambler and jen will be on her manhunt self...it'll be hell for both! ben will regret marrying j lo, who's been with several different men and i don't think one can call her "trophy wife"! could it be his 'greatest regret than divorcing j. garner? ben's behavior is the worst to show his children...i cannot call him the best father there is!
the average American woman is not what you would call a trophy wife but lots manage to still get married and become successful. The culture is such, from grade school to college, women change sexual partners so many times that they lost count. Let's not forget about all the debauchery that happens at Coachella, burning man, astro-world and spring break, on campus and house parties, to name a few. While we are at it, what about all them swingers and high-class call girls/escorts. Yes, I am American but my parents never allowed us to live on campus or out of state for that very reason lol. Don't know what's all the big hoopla about JLo's different partners. Guess, she is a superstar, who is getting all this attention but the average woman in this country, ain't no different, we just don't hear about it......okurrr.
@@Evalauj02 high value men seem to like women who have been around the block, because they marry them all the time. From models, bunnies from the playboy mansion, high class escorts (polite way to say call-girls), actors, actresses and musicians just to name a few. There are lots and lots of women like JLo, so except if you are living under a rock, then you are out of touch.
She’s a chronic self centered, probably very controlling woman, she doesn’t have husbands she has Personal Assistants, it’s her way or the high way, the information in this Video seems very controlled.
Marc Anthony still the luckiest one out of all her exes because he the one still manged to get 2 kids out of her and that marriage was terrible... infidelities, fighting etc
Sadly for Jlo time marches on. 🥴. Only so many tricks, makeup hacks, touches of plastic surgery here and there, how big can those eyelashes GET! Yes, there comes a time when the law of gravity comes a knockin'.
@@kellywade8275 That doesn't even make any sense! Then why would they marry other people if they were going to want to be together anyway? That's just hater talk - like a lot of this shit. 😆
In both Ben and Jennifer interview with magazine they both said as they know people are going be all in their relationship. They discuss before getting back together because of their kids and they both said they would not have got back together if they thoughts they were going break up. As the whole world will be watching their relationship and they would not want to hurt their kids. So please all those that are being negative and judging Jennifer for how she loved back off. She had to go though some lessons of loved to find the one and now she got the loved of her life back Ben.
What u wrote sounds great if it were true …she’s been married 4 times in other relationships and works often tell me when she has time to care about her kids …her kids have seen a million men come and go in her life and that effects children they’ve had a lot of losses of men coming and going …. She’s about herself and can be alone so once again they will end up divorced u don’t have to be a physiologist to figure it out ..just follow her patern
I mean, P Diddy that they were two ships passing through the night. She wanted to marry him, but P Diddy is the kind of guy that doesn’t want to get married
She can't be alone, at all!!!! She is so insecure, alway's has her men on a leash.... Right when she get's a man, she trie's to change every single one of them!!!! She need's constant attention!!!! I'm surprised she doesn't have a tracker, on all his vehicle's!!!!!
She is a smart woman, an actress, singer, composer, producer, director, business woman. Glad that she got rid of her body guard, Alex and now is with the love of her life.
She is not frmo DR queen of food stamps and welfare in the USA and a prostitution hotspot in the Caribbean. She has had less men than you in one night.
She is pretty and great dancer! She can forgive husband that she didn't like his personality to stay with husband for kids and have happy family, men and women made mistakes, we are human not the Saint, forgiveness is the key for happiness.
Until he find a younger one when she will.get old . Man love for her look. She us so vunrable it behound rediculous.. ben cheat wt the nany . It disgusting a cheater.stay a cheater
I agreed. Ben is too nice for her. She is too wild.and its me me me. Not him him him. She was poseing nude. Doesnt she know that she is married to ben. That is dispectfu to ben
In an interview with Wendy Williams Jlo stated she can't be alone, so she going to do what she has to do to have that attention on her. Sometimes being beautiful don't mean you will have a wonderful life it takes more then beauty. Jlo been with so many men in Hollywood each men she in love with. There was a rumor that some men in Hollywood would not to be with Jlo. Jlo drag her kids anywhere where the men she involved with changing the kids schools just to be with a man. She fail to realize she getting older age is starting to catch up with her. Her daughter Emma is changing in front of her. Ben always Ben attractive to younger beautiful women it funny Jlo and Ben could not find a house to live in then so now they all live in Jlo house she once share with Rob so not the house is going to be remodel. What Jlo going to do when she gets older and it start to show.
I think she did Arod wrong man cause I have her Instyle may 2021 magazine and in that magazine she said her most importantly or her most personal album was This is me and I was like, "Damn this relationship gonna end soon"
Hahahahaha 💓 sooo funny. I've heard and read so many things about Jlo being a phony. "Lotsa Lies" nondisclosure documents, so why? What's she got to hide in her Real life. How bad can it be? Or is it just utter control. Sorry, never a fan, never will be 🤫 hahahahaha 😆 😜
Jennifer you 2 close your ears to everyone that wanna put you 2 under and remember love is a strong strong tower he can't stand if you keep it in front of you and don't let it get behind you
Alex Handsome my ass he was a player and gave Jennifer no attention once he pop the questions and she said yes. Alex had two side to him the worse part of him was that he was always on his dame phone every time him and Jennifer attended events. He would say he talking about football for work. He was not he was texting other females I seen people been cheated on by men that are always on their phones that a red flag of your guy cheating on you. Second of all in one picture I saw Jennifer was at a event with Alex and her mum. Jennifer wanted to take a selfie of her and Alex and he blank her pay no attention and was to busy on his phone messaging other females. Yes Alex supportive her at the super bowl and her 2019 tour but he loved women to much and Jennifer was not enough for him and he wanted other females on the side. He also wanted Jennifer name and her celebrity status to big up his business. Sorry I am having a rant as I don’t know who heck things Alex handsome he looks like a dame ball dog.
I'm not going to continue with this video either. It's going to be the usual Media b.s. I have a JLo & Ben video recommendation for you though that you might enjoy! Type in the search part of RU-vid: Jennifer Lopez (July 18, 2003) Ben & Jen: A Dateline Special.
@@sparkle11231 that is a very good interview with NBC. Half-time is also a very informative documentary. Who the heck cares what an EX says about any person, except haters. That's why they are called EX or HAS BEEN. All of them need to take several seats back.
I am just happy for her .. she doesn’t settle for less and doesn’t give shit what other thinks…. And goes for her happiness!.. doesn’t talk trash abt others .. and it’s just abt her!… classy women… ❤️❤️❤️ Ben is really lucky to hav her!
Absolutely correct on all. I hate that, between the lying press always haunting her, and now her with her husband, it's stressing the hell out of Ben already. He doesn't take the stalking well. That pressure is what killed their relationship the first time.
Amen on Ben is lucky to have her, also she's lucky she has him also. She is classy, she's a good mother & she is not a cheater!! This maybe her 4th marriage,but so what? She's still a good woman! Judge ye not! 🙏💚💯🎶
Jennifer and Marc were great couple like the fact that they had bumped into each other more than twice, I feel like they were meant to be, just wasn’t the right time to be together. Aside from him, I really really liked her with Sean Combs. J-Lo and Sean were a pretty awwing and interesting couple. Much as I really like Ben and I once shipped J-Rod, I think Marc was really her true love, just she didn’t let herself fully 1000% heal from the heartache of her relationship with Ben.
I think she's a sad person, until she manages to stop "needing" men to make her feel loved, she's going to continue to fail. Ben is a prick and I don't give them more than a year
She is true to herself. She is beautiful, hard working. I would only go with a man I fancy and like too why shouldn’t lovely J.Lo. Do likewise. I am 75 and I like young, sexy, good looking men. I do not think I would partner with a man that I did not fancy the pants off of him. Yo go J.Lo. God’s blessings, the Angel’s protection and always a sexy man to love you.
She’s not true to herself she needs a man to appreciate her and get attn. She don’t know what she wants in a man it’s why she moves from marrying one to the next. She doesn’t understand nobody is perfect. I wish she would love herself more than all these men she brings into her broken life. The more messed up relationship she gets into the more baggage she will carry.
@@Evalauj02 There are those who would say she does love herself more than any of the many men who have passed through her life. Otherwise she might still be with one of them
In her cover picture for this video, her false eyebrows look overly thick and totally fake. She should opt for false eyelashes that look much more natural.
She is not a good influence but many are fanatic. She has a bad reputation, she keeps on changing men. She is a singer and a good dancer but cannot compete the voice of Celine Dion and other veteran singers. She should stop changing men. She should stay with Ben and treat him like a human being even if she was just a rebound. She accepted him and she said she love him, therefore this should be her last. Even if they will get divorce, she should stop looking for a man. She should stick as a mother to her children.
@@m1sst-g9c She IS a very nice person. And I just saw a tiktok video where she and Ben were going into a building but they turned around and walked over to fans calling them, and signed autographs. The fans were super happy.
I love Jennifer Lopez. She's a hard worker, like her ,music, dance & movies. She hasn't been praised about her success like she should be!!. Love you, JLO AFFLECK!! To ,BEN also💚
Oh please...her marriage to Chris Judd didn't work because compared to her she likely started to think HE was a dud. As for Casper Smart, I think she needed a bedroom buddy quite frankly.
Jennifer the worst person to had dated was puffy daddy with a hugh messy background this why jennifer was told end it with puffy daddy he was bad publicity & after that men rush to date jennifer for publicity thinking it would hold the men upgraded tokens! These men didn't really respect Jennifer due to she had dated puffy daddy
