What Ally Kostial Didn’t Know | Full Episode

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A college student's troubling text messages lead investigators to her killer. "CBS Saturday Morning" co-host Michelle Miller reports for "48 Hours." Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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@48hours 7 месяцев назад

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@theoryofpersonality1420 7 месяцев назад

Nice way to smear the victim. I hope the family sues you.

@truecrimereaction 7 месяцев назад

I hope the Kostial family sues for defamation, I’ll be reacting and following this case on this video production. The defense lawyer invents her thoughts which is so inappropriate and you are using a forensic psychologist to back your one sided views without having Ally there to tell you what her thoughts were. This is the worst story I’ve ever seen.

@HeSsO19 7 месяцев назад

What are you two on about with suing? ☠️ Y'all can't be serious, right? 🫣

@truecrimereaction 7 месяцев назад

@@HeSsO19 I’m super serious, the edit is disgusting. Never seen such a defamation of character of a dead victim before. Use some critical thinking and go back and listen to every word. It’s all speculation. They’ve made her parents look stupid by the way they’ve edited it together. The defense attorney even puts himself in the killers shoes by using terms like ‘we’.

@HeSsO19 7 месяцев назад

@@truecrimereaction again, you can't be serious, right? 🤣 how many other shows do the same thing? Most cases ARE speculation. Also, her OWN friends and family talked about things she did wrong. Texts prove she did some crazy sht. She SAID herself what she was doing whether she did it or not. What exactly would you like them to say? I'd love to see your story telling in this story.

@littlemisschatterbox_ 7 месяцев назад

When someone shows you they’re not really interested in you, believe them and walk away.

@rebeccalavoy6655 7 месяцев назад

Best advice!

@jackiethalman8241 7 месяцев назад

Yes! Young people need to be taught this! Let go and move on!

@Remss777 7 месяцев назад

I don’t think people realize how pathetically sad they look chasing after someone that doesn’t want them. Like shoot your shot but if you miss, time to move on. Unlimited number of hoops out there.

@MVN9 7 месяцев назад

Well Said!

@shaimakakar1650 7 месяцев назад

No experience, RIP 🎉😢💔

@tracyalbright5468 7 месяцев назад

Kills me how they say “Having a baby will ruin my life,” like murdering the mother and going to prison for life won’t do the same. 🤦🏻‍♀️ So sad.

@hillaryh.5197 7 месяцев назад

Their narcissism convinces them they’ll get away with it.

@ingevonschneider5100 7 месяцев назад

I have no sympathy for him. But she somehow stalked him and didnt accept his no. A baby doesnt ruin your life, but many women think so and chose abortion. In this regard I can understand his fear.

@sabregunner1 7 месяцев назад

unfortunately thats ususally how that decision goes. its about the immediate issue, not thinking of any consequences otherwise

@dickfitswell3437 7 месяцев назад

ABORTION IS NOT BIRTH CONTROL. IDK why kids these days think abortion is the same as a condom. It sickens me

@ingevonschneider5100 7 месяцев назад

Me too. @@dickfitswell3437

@gailainsley6939 5 месяцев назад

The thing is. He didn’t even pretend to hide his disdain for her. So sad she was too young to not see this and see that he was only using her.

@bettyaltman3576 25 дней назад

Very sad, but true.

@RichardWagner-hi4zn 11 дней назад

What were her friends for? This knowledge should be available and understood from age 15 on.

@gailainsley6939 10 дней назад

@@RichardWagner-hi4zn Absolutely not. The frontal lobe isn’t developed until after 25. In fact. I believe that Women shouldn’t do anything in relations to these matters until after 28 (Almost 30) is when statistically, women make much better decisions in these matters. For you to expect her 15 year old friends to be fully equipped to even dissect these things when it’s the most hormonal and confusing stage is comical. Would you say that about a group of 15 year old boys? These kids don’t even listen to their parents who have waaay more wisdom. What are her friends going to actually say?

@loveyboo 7 дней назад

As beautiful and sweet as she was it's just strange she didn't have a real boyfriend in high school nor a date for the prom. I don't get that at all. Was there something about her they didn't say?

@gailainsley6939 7 дней назад

@@loveyboo Men are not THAT picky. Plenty of beautiful women are mostly single whilst the wives are average. Not being partnered doesn’t mean anything. It’s called ‘settling’ for a reason. Maybe she didn’t like the rest of the guys? Maybe she just wanted him? Lol. 😂😴

@wrighty553 Месяц назад

1) Children don’t tell their parents “everything”. 2) Parents educate your sons and daughters on how to build and nurture self-esteem and how to behave and what to expect in a healthy relationship.

@burntblonde2925 21 день назад

If only parents did do this

@Lisa-kz7vw 16 дней назад

Very true unfortunately parenting styles today are worse than ever everyone's so self absorbed trying to their childs best friend the cool parent😢

@isabelc2131 15 дней назад

For that to happen 'parents' needed to be something other than naive little brats conditioned into magical thinking & socially accepted behavior themselves who are bringing their kids up with the same nonsense society has tried to spoon-feed people for centuries. It would require critical thinking. If you have a kid 'being bubbly & getting along with everyone' that's a red flag. Either your kids don't have ANY personality or they're covering something up that they don't want you to see.

@BigPoppieSeed 6 дней назад

My mother yelled, screamed, hit, punished, berated, and beat me, just about every single day, along with days and sometimes weeks of solitary confinement. That was back in the 70's so I think there has always been bad parenting... and good. My kids both turned out great and I never laid a hand on them and always keept the comunications open and easy. My son's an army ranger and my daughter is a veterinarian...both doin great in their thirty's. They had a great mom too!

@fishhuntadventure 6 дней назад

@@BigPoppieSeedDon’t forget that child abuse (your situation) and bad parenting are two different things.

@futuremelina 7 месяцев назад

Poor girl, she was chasing after the wrong thing in college. Chase after your education ladies, not these clowns.

@jamesplymire5342 7 месяцев назад

Same for guys too. Too many young people are worried about the wrong things.

@aruglaempire2518 7 месяцев назад

But it was HER CHOICE! Women love CHOICE!!!! She probably slept with him immediately. But that's what modern women do to their own emotional detriment.

@Mansikkacake 7 месяцев назад

Kids should learn standard ethics and how to see through psychopath classes for real.

@lauriefaithprescott 7 месяцев назад

I absolutely agree with u. To me they aren't worth it.

@3010MrMughal 7 месяцев назад

They all do

@Razorfendown 7 месяцев назад

The message here is "if someone does not want you, leave them alone" You can never coerce someone into loving you.

@antzabingle8593 7 месяцев назад

It is not so easy, if they do not just tell you. You always try for that live

@ladychelseatheundead 7 месяцев назад

Most people learn those lessons IN college/their 20's, due to experience, but they don't die for it.

@semigoth299 7 месяцев назад

True

@crystalglopez91623 6 месяцев назад

I just don’t understand why this girl, who had a father in her home, was so desperate for love ??

@janet5846 6 месяцев назад

@@crystalglopez91623I know a lot of people who have a dad in the home that are really needy for love... I don't understand the meaning of this statement... not having a go, genuinely puzzled by this

@linedanzer4302 4 месяца назад

I was 25 years old when I lost my 24 year old best friend - who had been honorabley discharged from the Air Force and was on track to become an air traffic controller - to a jealous, crazed ex-boyfriend. He did unspeakable things to her and then choked her to death. His parents had money so he received a 5 year sentence. No justice at all. *It's good that this young man got a life sentence and her family got some level of justice.*

@CobraR1993 3 месяца назад

Same here. My high school female friend was murdered by her x boyfriend just as she graduated nursing school.

@katierojas8066 2 месяца назад

I’m so sorry. Sending you hugs.

@celticwarrior777 Месяц назад

@@CobraR1993so sorry 😢

@user-ex3mx7hk4l 2 дня назад

I’m sorry for your loss. 💕

@user-ex3mx7hk4l 2 дня назад

@@CobraR1993I’m so sorry for your loss. 💕

@haji818721 6 месяцев назад

If she thinks she is pregnant, why the hell is she drinking so much. This girl had serious issues that I don't think her friends and parents wanted to admit.

@brandonlong7690 3 месяца назад

She was a child and didn't want to be pregnant, so drinking was her way of ensuring the baby wasn't going to live while feeling like she didn't abort the baby. That's my guess anyways.

@justin9744 3 месяца назад

Right? She was no Angel.

@ViktorVonGhoulie 3 месяца назад

Unfortunately there are many such cases

@kenbrb6261 3 месяца назад

But she doesn't deserve to be killed. It doesn't matter what she did or didn't do. The only blame lies in the hands of who killed her. This is victim blaming.

@afenismama 3 месяца назад

@@justin9744nobody said she was🤷🏽‍♀️

@ashleybaby808 6 месяцев назад

if they don’t show interest in meeting your family or friends, let alone just being with you….that’s the biggest sign for you to run.

@nicekitty6988 Месяц назад

Run? She didn't even turn around. He was clearly not interested.

@isabelc2131 15 дней назад

People need to learn that being with someone doesn't mean being in a relationship with their family. It's about one person with another person. Not a community project.

@RichardWagner-hi4zn 11 дней назад

@@isabelc2131 Ok ok, we can see what you are. lol

@rosem5361 7 месяцев назад

That girl unfortunately had no self esteem. The young brain sometimes doesnt realize the potential it has and what the future holds. What a sad ordeal for the parents.

@shawandabonner9681 7 месяцев назад

It seems like her mom raised her to go to college to find a husband. She was very bubbly as she described thst mindset of her daughter. It's a weird flex to have catching a husband in college on your mind in 2016, unless you were raised to think it's your focus.

@pokerqAK47 7 месяцев назад

Yep. No self esteem at all plus pretty superficial. Should have concentrated on college instead of drinking and begging a guy to be with her. I’m just really mad she wasted her life like that. It’s like she was pushing pushing pushing and then he snapped. It all could have been avoided.

@Marlaina 7 месяцев назад

@shawandabonner9681 I didn't see any indication that her mother raised her that way. Some women have the family mindset and want to settle down and there's no shame in that. What is a shame is that she chased after someone who didn't deserve her attention.

@Chad_Max 7 месяцев назад

The future potential realization only happens when there's a frame involved. A frame of discipline, putting in the work, and delaying gratification. Saying there's a "future potential" without specifying the goals, frame, and steps to get there is just childish, naive thinking...

@anabelleigh5745 7 месяцев назад

@rosem, A lot of girls are like that, even today. Ole Miss and many other Southern schools are notorious for having sorority girls who focus more on sorority life than education. Not saying I agree with it, but it's the reality for many women.

@tamtamz8733 4 месяца назад

He thinks a baby would ruin his life, but he’s doing cocaine?

@richardblanchard8643 18 дней назад

He would lose is freedom of doing Coke

@ajzephyros7454 3 дня назад

Coke doesn't have an 18 year minimum commitment

@bethpeters3187 2 месяца назад

Unfortunately, she didnt want to accept that he wasn't interested. If they say it, act it, you need to believe it.

@crystalallen9340 7 месяцев назад

Poor girl was delusional but should not be killed for it. She had so much people who love her it’s a pity there was no intervention.

@darklorddisco 7 месяцев назад

That's the part that gets me. Both of them could've EASILY moved on with their young lives.

@jrambo7495 7 месяцев назад

She just annoyed Brandon to death!

@TNT-km2eg 7 месяцев назад

Poor girl didn't give a duck what her boozing will do to her baby

@rebeccapauk4707 7 месяцев назад

I don’t know if it were delusion, or moreso young and inexperienced

@rebeccapauk4707 7 месяцев назад

@@TNT-km2egbc she wasn’t pregnant at the time?

@wastingtime6417 7 месяцев назад

Ladies, do not ever let a man treat you this way. You are better than that. You don't need to chase him, lie to him or let him use you. You are valuable.

@Janevelyn 7 месяцев назад

I feel like I was Ally about 15 years ago. Then I was broken after the ‘relationship’. Now I’m too old to have a baby. 😭

@Dhruv_Dogra 7 месяцев назад

@@Janevelynplenty of middle aged women have babies nowadays

@LifeisANovel 7 месяцев назад

This will go on long after the dust from your bones is gone.

@rebeccapauk4707 7 месяцев назад

@@Janevelyntry in-vitro? There’s always a chance if you want a baby.. never give up. But yes us Pesky women can waste years on the wrong man

@whodat84 7 месяцев назад

glad you said LIE TO HIM cause she was lying she was pregnant. This whole thing was avoidable

@victorfrankenstein50202 4 месяца назад

How can so many young women think so little of themselves to allow these boys to use them the way they do? Girls, women, you will always have the power, and you are the most important thing to yourself, not a fledgling love.

@anikajoy5739 4 месяца назад

This girl was insanely immature and delusional and obsessed. All the pregnancy stuff, pics of stomach and tests.. sad really

@bobbib3836 7 месяцев назад

You can’t force someone to be with you. Pay attention to their actions, they speak louder then their words. 💔

@Kimnguyen969 7 месяцев назад

Very true! Never keep a man that doesn’t love you and never love any man more than yourself.

@anonymouzxx 7 месяцев назад

True. But there are this kind of girls who like to drag after someone who disrespects them and not going out with a 'nice guy' They WANT this emotional rollercoaster. After getting some life experience some women overcome this and settle down. Not everybody, unfortunately.

@ailleananaithnid2566 7 месяцев назад

Sadly, she was playing with fire. She had no idea that she was harassing a killer.

@ailleananaithnid2566 7 месяцев назад

@@anonymouzxx There are women who are attracted to “bad boys”! That’s the theory behind the women who are attracted to people like Ted Bundy. Guys like Bundy receive sacks of fan mail. They also receive multiple marriage proposals. There’s no single explanation for this, other than a theory that some women are attracted to alpha males because their genes are more geared toward survival.

@ivydickson7596 7 месяцев назад

Yeah, keep blaming the woman. Coercive control.

@thomaspeterson1739 7 месяцев назад

A baby will not ruin your life near as much as life in prison.

@lisadiconti 7 месяцев назад

That's for sure.

@wwe412 7 месяцев назад

You probably thought really hard and long about this statement

@hoped6676 7 месяцев назад

Exactly 💯

@ironmaven1760 7 месяцев назад

@@wwe412YOU prolly thought long and hard about that there " reply" 😂

@ValleyoftheRogue 7 месяцев назад

There was no "baby" or pregnancy. It was a manipulation tactic by this woman to trap him into marriage.

@BinArelcort 4 месяца назад

I feel so sorry for Ally. Not all of us young women are able to navigate the dating world from a self loving and self respecting place and we do immature things

@truth1844 4 месяца назад

That's why close your legs until marriage which is the only safe way to know who really cares about you!

@alexquintana1031 4 месяца назад

@@truth1844 that's not all that true. People's hormones and chemicals change as we age. I knew a gal that was married with a child. She said once she had a kid that she lost her attraction for her husband and didn't even like his touch anymore....only guy she was with and married him by the way.

@Sandra-bx6yy 3 месяца назад

@@truth1844a marriage contract is not a guarantee of physical, emotional and spiritual safety, unfortunately. Many women in particular, are trapped in abusive or neglectful marriages.

@katiemccarty7050 3 месяца назад

@@truth1844 that's a wild statement considering how many women are murdered by their HUSBANDS

@truth1844 3 месяца назад

@@katiemccarty7050 ... "Annual rates of male-on-female spousal homicide ranged from 0.95 to 8.76 per 100,000 couples; for female-on-male spousal homicide, this range was 0.13 to 2.29" In other words, this is a rare occurrence. Yet, my point has nothing to do with this, I pointed out that a wise woman who wants commitment would value herself enough to not give away what a man values most in a woman (purity) for nothing. For many, what doesn't cost anything, probably is not worth anything.

@forreal245 2 месяца назад

Whenever a man says, " you are better than me" &-or "NO babies", you BEST LISTEN!

@stansmiley9737 2 месяца назад

When will they learn

@jgunn03 Месяц назад

Yeah, victim-blaming!

@Lemana28021989 29 дней назад

@@jgunn03many comments really are victim blaming, this is not one of them.

@jgunn03 29 дней назад

@@Lemana28021989 YES DEAR, it is. "you best listen." Clearly victim-blaming.

@BlmnotinAfri.-_- 5 дней назад

She was used to getting whatever she wanted. As stated she was the most beautiful esteem filled cutie. She was going to get her way, even if it wasn't with this killer

@LaiLai.. 7 месяцев назад

So sad. I immediately said “ she was pregnant “ when they mentioned he didn’t have any history of violence. Idk if she was really pregnant at one point or not . However, I’ve learned from these crime shows that it’s best to leave men alone once they make it clear that they want nothing to do with you or the baby. You just never know how far someone is willing to go to make you and that baby disappear.

@ailleananaithnid2566 7 месяцев назад

That’s right. The state will pursue him for child support. Let them worry about that.

@pizzaearthpancakesandother2549 7 месяцев назад

He dint wanna be no babydaddy !

@whodat84 7 месяцев назад

She wasnt. A clear lie to get him closer to her. may she RIP

@Erin-rg3dw 7 месяцев назад

Same. The desperation, her longer messages, all of it - she was pregnant, scared, and he was withdrawing. He never really cared about her and backed away when she needed him most.

@andalistark5416 7 месяцев назад

Think about it all- she was NOT pregnant at autopsy. & if she was EVER pregnant, her bestest besties would have known. &/Or if they truly believed she was, they would NOT have answered with that whole diplomatic “we never can know- the tests were inconclusive and…” BS. They would’ve backed her up. She lied.

@LaMostraVia 7 месяцев назад

This is one of the most depressing stories I’ve ever seen. This episode should be shown to every senior in high school btw.

@chantallvardas0730 7 месяцев назад

Very Clever Insight… This Episode Needs To Be Seen By As Many Teenagers As Possible…

@ValleyoftheRogue 7 месяцев назад

The vast majority of teens are not like these two. They are living in the twenty-first century, not the 1950s like Ally was trying to do. They are focusing on studies, girls especially, and extracurriculars, not on relationships that lead to marriage.

@marissavallejo2987 7 месяцев назад

@@ValleyoftheRoguethat’s what I thought too…like that was her reason for going to college - to find a husband. Who says that these days? Very sad story.

@Michelle-ng9db 7 месяцев назад

Every 8th grader.

@primrosesbahle5975 6 месяцев назад

Depressing indeed😢

@kimdawcatgirl 6 месяцев назад

Two toxic people coming together can never end well. She had a toxic view on relationships, and he had a very dark toxicity.

@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij 2 месяца назад

So true

@celticwarrior777 Месяц назад

No she was a young girl just trying to learn relationships

@Ibimpjexoxo Месяц назад

@@celticwarrior777no she was obsessive

@Lila-do6md 6 дней назад

@@celticwarrior777She tried to trap him when he obviously didn’t want to be in a relationship with her, it doesn’t justify what happened to her but she was clearly obsessed and very manipulative, coercing someone into loving you is not only pathetic but also very dangerous. Men and women both need to just take no for an answer.

@BlmnotinAfri.-_- 5 дней назад

@@celticwarrior777correct. He was 45 yrs old. He knew better than the young girl

@EpicWinz 2 месяца назад

It wasn’t a relationship, it was a 1 sided ‘situationship’

@darklorddisco 7 месяцев назад

39:38 It's refreshing to hear an *actually* sympathetic and meaningful statement from the parent of the murderer. We've seen the opposite far too many times!

@zsoltszabo6482 7 месяцев назад

I was thinking the same thing. I think this is the first time ever, I've seen a meaningful response from the perps family. It shows that sometimes you can lay a bad egg.

@TheDriftwoodlover 7 месяцев назад

Too few and far between are statements like this.

@tammyburke9453 7 месяцев назад

Rlly? ...." we will always pray for tge famiky and friends of Ally Costial" wow Huge Sentiments of Apology and Regret and Acknowlegement for all THEIR LOSS! Nope, letter misses the mark on Empathy for victim and sympathy for noth vic and her fam/friends! He Planned that 😢

@almohvn33 7 месяцев назад

AND FATHER WAS ??? WHERE???????

@winkieblink7625 7 месяцев назад

Yes. Upstanding parents.

@GoriBeringeifan332 7 месяцев назад

Best advice I ever got: whoever treats you like you're not good enough to be with them, take it as they're not good enough to be with you.

@hollydaugherty2620 7 месяцев назад

She was no prize either. She was obsessive, manipulative and creepy.

@NunyaBizness2.0 3 месяца назад

Yeah no. This is probably some of the worst and most inaccurate advice I’ve ever heard. Sometimes you’re not good enough for the one you want. It’s OK to have standards. No one is everyone’s type or on their level. You should just go get your “live laugh love” wall decor and cats now…

@mpacino1224 2 месяца назад

@@NunyaBizness2.0 We are all good enough for anyone lol. Seriously? She may not be his type. But he isn't better than her. Clearly he is a murderer. So hello...

@BuddhismHotlineTV 2 месяца назад

@@NunyaBizness2.0FACTS I THOUGHT SAME THING

@walterhartman 2 месяца назад

we tend to want what rejects us.

@BK-qp8zp 5 месяцев назад

When someone shows you their true colors, believe them the first time.

@celeste7301 4 месяца назад

Girls: It is NOT your sole purpose in life to get married and have children. Never settle for someone who's emotionally stunted and incapable of giving you what you need.

@Consequence 16 дней назад

It is also okay and natural to make marriage and children your sole purpose.

@rebeccawebb2298 7 месяцев назад

What a shame that neither party reached out to a parent, counselor, pastor, doctor, or anyone like that for help.

@NyanyiC 7 месяцев назад

Are kids even going to churches these days?! .. Youth groups can have a positive impact and teach good values and you can meet people with similar values

@emmalee9747 7 месяцев назад

@@NyanyiCnot like in the past. Unfortunately.

@julknowl 7 месяцев назад

⁠⁠⁠@@NyanyiCa youth group leader at a church in my hometown outed LGBT kids to their abusive, unaccepting parents and my youth group leader coerced me into telling my abusive, authoritarian parents that I kissed my boyfriend when I was 16. He went to the same youth group and didn’t have to tell his parents though, because boys will be boys, I guess? This was in the 2000s, but all I learned at youth group was that adults shouldn’t be confided in because they’ll just run and make your home life infinitely worse.

@algimante2097 7 месяцев назад

@@NyanyiC depends on the church and the community. Some of them are extremely judgemental, so young people don't want to engage in those communities. You need to feel that your community is safe space in order to open up and get help.

@waypay1 7 месяцев назад

Well she couldn't if she was trying to trap him with a fake pregnancy. He should have talked to someone though.

@YowzaBowzaWowza 7 месяцев назад

She seemed to be delusional about and obsessed with a guy that never wanted anything more than a friend with benefits. Killing her made no sense. He knew he couldn't get away with it. Obviously a mental case.

@timnorris6287 7 месяцев назад

Why having casual sex not very smart.

@user-zd9vy4nw1e 7 месяцев назад

So many lives destroyed for nothing, it's sad. If only people would learn to talk and communicate, instead of trying to force, hide, lie, etc... Accepting life and others, not trying to change them and respect them for who they are, it is a valuable lesson. Keep your eyes open and stay away from danger, not the other way around.

@random-dm5md 7 месяцев назад

@@timnorris6287Most women will be murdered to a man they've been with for years. A husband. The father of their children. What's the solution for that?

@ivydickson7596 7 месяцев назад

True, he shouldn't have casual sex with someone he didn't honour.

@sgayle6689 7 месяцев назад

I remember my father commenting many times about 'girls who take seriously something that was poked at her in fun'. I'm so thankful I had a father who taught me this.

@dylanthepickle6428 6 месяцев назад

It was a red flag to me when I heard that one of her big reasons for going to college was to meet someone and “get married and have kids.” I don’t know why that’s so odd to me. Maybe it’s because when I went to college it definitely wasn’t to meet a man. It was to get an education so I didn’t need to rely on a man. So that I could be successful on my own. Yes, I wanted to get married someday, but way after college. Hearing that, I wasn’t surprised she became so obsessive about the first guy she met. He clearly was t interested but she manipulated him, harassed him and lied to him. She pushed him to his limit and he snapped in an alcohol, cocaine induced rage. Did she deserve it? Absolutely not. But he isn’t some psychopath. This is tragic story all around. I have no idea how her parents aren’t mortified. No wonder they don’t want to read all the texts. I bet her behavior is way worse than they just showed here.

@grasstastesbad 4 месяца назад

alcohol and cocaine don’t make a killer out of someone. like he said himself in that letter, he already had dark thoughts. those substances just lower your inhibitions

@danielegarotti7884 3 месяца назад

She wasnt forcing him to be with her! He made se X because He wanted

@paulatobler8354 2 месяца назад

He blocked her before, so he knew how to keep her from bugging him without having to shoot her. We like to believe our society is more evolved than this, but there are still plenty of women being pressured to get married and being told that a huge point to going to college is to have a big selection of men to choose from to increase the odds of a good marriage. I don’t agree with that thinking, but they don’t deserve the death penalty for it. He knew she wanted that from him and instead of blocking her after telling her to go find someone who wanted that, he had sex with her and shot her when he thought she might be pregnant or that she was too demanding. He was interested in her, just not for anything other than sex. He knew she wanted more from him and he definitely could get casual sex at his age in our current culture, so it’s all on him that he didn’t leave her blocked and alone, never mind not loading up a gun and taking her to a remote place and shoot her.

@dylanthepickle6428 2 месяца назад

@@paulatobler8354 if she was pregnant, blocking her from his phone isn’t gonna get him off the hooliganism from being held financially responsible for a child he made. So actually, he did think he needed a gun to take care of the situation. Rather than be a man.

@suehelenxo 6 месяцев назад

The ending was very painful. The killers mothers words are so real. My heart goes out to all the parents. Ally makes me wish I could have just hugged her. ❤

@dspencer5211 7 месяцев назад

She was never pregnant. She was obsessed with him. Unfortunately she didn’t realize she was obsessed with the devil

@katodan0611 7 месяцев назад

First time I’ve ever liked the defense attorney. He was well spoken and seemed respectful of the victim. My prayers go out to both sets of parents.

@huskyjerk 7 месяцев назад

Huh? Can't you respect authority and not preach hate?

@kln58cub 7 месяцев назад

@@huskyjerk Not liking an attorney is not hate. That cliche is so over used.

@krisquigley4497 7 месяцев назад

@@huskyjerk Huh?

@richardheinz 7 месяцев назад

@@huskyjerk Huh?

@numbernine3436 7 месяцев назад

Unfortunately dad hired the wrong Forese. There is an entire family of Forese attorneys. I've not heard of Tony. However look into Steve Forese, you'll see some killers caught standing over the body, killers w/the body in the trunk, killers on the run. He has gotten them off everytime.

@Bones.x 20 дней назад

I used to be like Ally. I never had a example of a healthy relationship with a narcissistic father who just insulted me and my mother. I took every crumb of affection from boys/men as love and was in very depressing dynamics like this story. Eventually I met a very special person who was somehow able to show me I was worthy of being treated better and I got in a healthy relationship after that.

@goochmcduck4285 3 месяца назад

Wow , she didn’t deserve to die but it’s unbelievable this ppl will not admit that she was extremely messed up herself. She played games, lied , manipulated, down right harassed and just pushed and pushed . A man who already doesn’t want you, lie and tell him you’re pregnant. I’m sorry for what happened, but these two were really messed up

@susantaulli6580 6 месяцев назад

The immaturity of both these young people is astounding. Neither one possessed any coping skills.

@loveconquersall419 2 месяца назад

Could it be because their brain is still in the developmental stage? 🤔 Most adults don't even have good coping skills...so why would some kids? 😂

@BlmnotinAfri.-_- 2 месяца назад

@@loveconquersall419yes absolutely. The brain fully develops at btwn 70-72years according to the latest studies/research

@mmb1572 2 месяца назад

The south is never the brightest

@beckyhendon40 Месяц назад

@@mmb1572weird how their reading and math scores outperform those of many northern states. Pretty sure 8th graders up there are on a 4th grade level. It has zero to do with geographic, but everything to do with maturity! Young people think with their hearts and croches, instead of their brains. It’s human nature after all.

@xxmvvi 25 дней назад

Well, they are YOUNG people… If they were 40 making these same decisions it’d be a whole different conversation. I’m a junior in college… 99% of us have done the deed, and 50% of our parents are still bamboozled into thinking they’re that 1% that hasn’t…

@meredithmucha4644 7 месяцев назад

Two things never to do: tell your husband he’ll never see the kids again when you want a divorce, and telling a guy you’re pregnant when you aren’t.

@favored6007 7 месяцев назад

Neither one of things deserves death

@micahsmom1332 7 месяцев назад

Amen

@ValleyoftheRogue 7 месяцев назад

You literally risk getting killed for either thing.

@lizzyyork 6 месяцев назад

@@favored6007 No but it often leads to it.

@haji818721 6 месяцев назад

@@favored6007 Of course not, but it multiplies your chances exponentially.

@Bigboro 6 месяцев назад

People learn things in life with time . Unfortunately some people don’t have enough time to learn. God bless her and her family and friends.

@typical_snowflake 5 месяцев назад

You learn through death. You keep that memory in you in the afterlife then you come back to do better. So she is dead because of unfortunate decisions in that life but she will do better in the next one.

@TNT-km2eg 3 месяца назад

If wishes were horses , beggars would ride

@celticwarrior777 Месяц назад

Yes

@patricias5122 20 дней назад

One of the kindest comments I've read about this sad case. She was young. Didn't have enough time to grow up.

@user-jd4uc4xm2k 3 месяца назад

The parents are in denial if they think their kid isn't off to college, going out, drinking, and having sex.

@deeprollingriver52 7 месяцев назад

“She told me everything in life”. It’s amazing how parents are so clueless. Kids never tell their parents anything

@Wareaglegirl9960 7 месяцев назад

BS! There’s some things I’m sure my daughter keeps too herself but she talks to me about anything and everything

@lady56725 7 месяцев назад

@@Wareaglegirl9960don't be sure of that.

@christinakinne9790 7 месяцев назад

That's not true my kids are now late 30's early 40's we talk about everything, but I also don't have kids that are unethical they don't do drugs, meds, and only have a drink on special occasions, or vacation. They are hard working, honest and ethical people. I also don't need to know certain details about their lives. We only had a few incidents their entire lives they were reluctant to tell me as they were ,ore worried about me than themselves and even that was easily addressed.

@HLJRMAI1 7 месяцев назад

@christinakinne9790 that's what my parents thought about my sister.

@leigh_carmichael 7 месяцев назад

@@Wareaglegirl9960so she talks to you about everything except the things she keeps to herself?

@BarnabyBaltimoron 7 месяцев назад

Playing mind games with a mentally disturbed person is never going to end well.

@pammers5588 6 месяцев назад

With anyone, especially someone who is mentally vulnerable

@RainsWorldVegasSlots 6 месяцев назад

Who’s mentally disturbed? Her? I agree

@SandraAnnEvans 6 месяцев назад

I think she had her own mental health issues . . . But DID NOT DESERVE DEATH for what she did. She is not innocent in her behaviors.

@janpierzchala2004 6 месяцев назад

I do not like how she starts every unsolicited text with Like

@MEL2theJ 5 месяцев назад

And it wasn't brought up at all how incredibly messed up it is to pretend like you're pregnant and be binge drinking like she was doing. None of which excuses taking her life but should have been mentioned.

@mannlaura 3 месяца назад

It was coke and alcohol?!? Not the fact that he went the week before all the way to TX to pick up his gun?!?

@helensimmons1869 2 месяца назад

She thinks shes pregnant but is drinking! What does college teach these kids?

@minini5571 7 месяцев назад

I’m wondering if Ally had ever been in a serious relationship before…? She goes so hard for someone who clearly doesn’t give a crap about her.

@jbnks1995 7 месяцев назад

it seems like ally had unmanaged mental health issues that played a role here. she had inappropriate and bizarre reactions and seemingly no self awareness. poor girl :/

@pockypockpock 7 месяцев назад

I don't believe she had a serious relationship before this guy. Her mom said she didn't really date anyone serious in high school, and she met this guy in freshman year and was obsessed with him thereafter.

@johnsmith-ug5tp 7 месяцев назад

Sadly, the fact a boy didn't ask her to the prom and her sweet best friend did, I say its a fair bet, she never had an actual relationship. Personally, if I meet someone online and after chatting with them, we click and decide to meet, but upon meeting her, there is no physical chemistry, It's hard, really hard, I tell the woman. I have had women breakdown crying and it's brutal. But its better than using them for sex and then blowing them off the next day. I have had some women after being up front with them, say, Hey, we went to the trouble of meeting, what the hell, we can still fool around if you like. I am old enough, that I remember what it was like dating prior to the internet and I miss it.

@user-rk2ln9eb6q 7 месяцев назад

true! RIP!

@Packer-Girl.. 7 месяцев назад

Oh, Please! She was a liar and a manipulator. She obviously knew she wasn't pregnant or she would not be drinking 24/7. Disgusting~

@billmcg1676 7 месяцев назад

Gotta love the 48 hours cases. Well presented and compelling to watch.

@samonrol9011 7 месяцев назад

often too emotional, i wanna have facts and science

@TNT-km2eg 7 месяцев назад

For bored housewives and couch potatoes

@JKyall 7 месяцев назад

@@samonrol9011I enjoy facts and straightforward stories too, however, I also want to know more about the human side of the case.

@coreydempsey4660 7 месяцев назад

Its the music for me

@molliwilson5639 7 месяцев назад

@@TNT-km2eg Yet, here YOU are right in the mix. LOL

@reneegott133 5 месяцев назад

I am so sorry for your loss I also lost a child in 2016 he was 24, seven years later I still feel he out serving in the army it feels like yesterday that I saw him last yet at the same time it feels like an eternity. May God help all of us parents who have lost a child. God bless

@MM-Iconoclast 4 месяца назад

I am so sorry for your loss.

@katierojas8066 2 месяца назад

I’m so sorry. Sending you hugs

@celticwarrior777 Месяц назад

So sorry 😢❤

@user-ex3mx7hk4l 2 дня назад

I’m sorry for your loss. God bless you & your family. 💕💕💕

@whatevergoesforme5129 3 месяца назад

The problem was she went to college with the wrong motive so she got fixated with that goal when she met a tall and handsome young man who was from a well-to-do family who was willing to date her even though just casually. She felt that she finally found the man of her dreams and wanted to trap him into marriage. Hence, she refused to admit that the boy was not interested in her.

@mattghostly5261 7 месяцев назад

She played a dangerous game with him that went real bad. Don’t play with people, you never know how unstable they really are.

@Jenufir 7 месяцев назад

I was coming to comment the same thing. Can't force anyone to want or even like you. But, playing a dangerous game like this one leads to shows like this one.

@User3.3.3 7 месяцев назад

"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes".... the girl in this case was relying on her stupidity to believe that she could Gaslight and manipulate him into becoming a father ( by sending him allegedly fake pregnancy pictures and texts ), or rather just commit to a more serious relationship with her....but he had different plans.

@cielomcmeekin7296 7 месяцев назад

@@GuestInMyOwnCountry"getting accidentally pregnant should be illegal" TF lol! So what, your going to arrest the mom and dad bc they didn't mean to get pregnant? What's that going to solve? And it would be a logistical nightmare as condoms aren't 100% either

@DivaFondaXXX 7 месяцев назад

@@GuestInMyOwnCountry Illegal to get pregnant??? Half of us wouldn’t be here if that was the case! Wow women really have no body autonomy, damned if they do and damned if they don’t!

@yoriichilvr 7 месяцев назад

@@GuestInMyOwnCountrycringe

@landonmiller5522 7 месяцев назад

If he won’t be seen with you in public then you don’t need to see him in private. Regardless, of what the other parties excuse is. Such a tragic story!!!

@froufrou4you 6 месяцев назад

i feel like Ally’s home life contributed to how attached she was to him. usually people in households with emotional unavailability cause attachment issues later in life. not only that, if this was her first “relationship”, she obviously wouldn’t have known how to act or how to take it, and since she was new to things like this, she would immediately assume they were serious. i personally believe that her environment and upbringing played a major factor in how she perceived the relationship to be, and also may be mentally unwell, considering the amount of times he told ally that it wasn’t a serious relationship. i’m not defending him at all, however these are just things to keep in mind.

@obsidiansea 5 месяцев назад

I think she was immature and may have outgrown that kind of behavior in a few years (like sending a picture of her belly to try to convince him she was pregnant when she knew he did not want to become a father).

@alexandra2536 4 месяца назад

I thought so too when I saw her father and mother together. He seemed like an emotionally unavailable father.

@peezypeeze9140 3 месяца назад

I just feel like it’s a stretch to try to assign her home life and/or parents are the cause of her behavior. The only thing I think is the reason is the heavy drinking that she allegedly did.

@genomic_ 2 месяца назад

They wouldn’t have been here on tv if they didn’t care about their kid.

@celticwarrior777 Месяц назад

She wasnt mentally unwell. stop victim blaming

@DvLnDsGyZ 6 месяцев назад

Can we all just agree that not everyone deserves to own a gun?

@jarrodbarker5050 3 месяца назад

Especially Lebron James.

@Ais-eb9bk 2 месяца назад

Especially hunters

@eraldadevole 7 месяцев назад

The words of his mother are so true. As a parent myself that is my goal for my 3 yr old. Make him understand there’s nothing he can’t talk with us.

@NyanyiC 7 месяцев назад

Wish you all the best in your parenting journey 🤗

@eraldadevole 7 месяцев назад

@@NyanyiC Thank you 💐

@gena4638 7 месяцев назад

Absolutely! Those words from his mother really hit home for me. I encourage every parent to say that exact thing to their children, to let them know that they can come to you anytime with any problem or worry. Kids/young adults have a way of feeling alone, even when they do have a support system and family.

@sbnl1214 7 месяцев назад

Oh boy…keep that going because when he’s 13…

@eraldadevole 7 месяцев назад

@@sbnl1214 I have hope, my hb was very close with his parents and still to this day… very best friends type of thing, also grew up a good honest men. Communication is very important to us so I hope we will have a good one with our little man too as he grows up. We all have been young, it all seems so dramatic and like its the end of the world for everything and frankly some parents do “help” with that too, like my mom… I love her to death but she has a way to make everything worse when something happens so all three of us(dad, brother, me) tend to tell her as little as possible and focus on the problem rather than also worry how she will feel about it.. if she will panic, die of a heart attack or whatever..

@sharklos 7 месяцев назад

I have a hard time believing she was actually pregnant given her farfetched claims of drinking a full bottle of tequila, 7 beers, wine, etc. Regardless, such a sad case and a waste of lives.

@Useryofcsdnx 7 месяцев назад

You don’t mess around with trying to trap a man by saying youre pregnant. That doesn’t justify him murdering her though.

@Kari.F. 7 месяцев назад

If she believed that she was pregnant, I doubt she would have been drinking since she she wanted to keep the baby. I think she said that to get his attention. She was desperate to have a real, healthy and normal relationship with the guy. That was never going to happen. Not with him.

@Ze_Moose 7 месяцев назад

She deceived with pregnancy, he deceived her that night. Am I missing something?

@Daysleeper1000 7 месяцев назад

@@Ze_Moosehe murdered her.

@Nikki-B03 7 месяцев назад

@@Ze_Mooseya! A lot! He murdered her... Even worse, he killed this young lady because of a lie?!? Like wtf yeah ya missed quite a lot

@user-oj1be7zg1c 4 месяца назад

Seriously depressed and suicidal at the moment but the narrators voice on the pocast makes me feel warm and safe especially after a drink, thank you for giving me hope and keeping me alive

@7Remnant4Jesus 3 месяца назад

Call on Jesus and he’ll set you free!

@henryvenuta3980 2 месяца назад

I hope you are doing well op. Life is never as bad as your mind will tell you. Here for you.

@ShimmerSisi 2 месяца назад

Life is already short, please do not be in hurry and try to smell a nice flower or open a calming music and trash negative thoughts, you are not alone.

@mattyboy999 2 месяца назад

You dead yet?

@aliciakraynik7674 2 месяца назад

@@mattyboy999shame on you.

@grundged 5 месяцев назад

Glad I'm ugly. Don't have to worry about anyone killing me.😂

@katierojas8066 2 месяца назад

Well thinking you are ugly is subjective. We all find different things beautiful. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

@Vlad-dc2jz 2 месяца назад

You are funny! I am sure you look fine. :-)

@amrelgohary1441 Месяц назад

Many times good looks only brings you trouble. Seen that play many times in life

@snahg2356 Месяц назад

As long as your happy on the inside out doesn't matter if you feel ugly. Some of the most beautiful people I know are not visibly beautiful and are quite fluffy, but their joy in life shows in their demeanor, and that is what makes them beautiful.

@user-ex3mx7hk4l 2 дня назад

She was beautiful, but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful for the way she thought. She was beautiful for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful for her ability to make other people smile even when she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful deep down to her soul. She was beautiful. - F Scott Fitzgerald P.S. This is TRUE beauty that time will NEVER steal - it’s eternal beauty. 💕

@msknucb1762 7 месяцев назад

Sounds like this poor girl had low self esteem, desperate for love and was quite immature. So sad, it cost her her life.😢

@birdlynn417 7 месяцев назад

The old story of "Smart women choosing bad men", has been going on for years, and so many books about it.

@elizabethmcleod246 7 месяцев назад

@@birdlynn417Possibly due to verbal emotional abuse by their Fathers.

@Ceerads 7 месяцев назад

Many of us women are or were like her when young. It’s partly luck if we don’t get involved with men or women like him. Or, if we do, we extricate ourselves before something terrible happens.

@janvan113 7 месяцев назад

No, her "low self esteem", "desperation" and being "immature" (all of which you are guessing at) is not what cost her her life. A twisted young man who always had "terrible thoughts" (his own words) is what cost her her life.

@peternolan4107 7 месяцев назад

@@janvan113 Thank you for remembering his very revealing words.

@danjohnson887 7 месяцев назад

I'm truly sorry for the victim and especially her parents. However, it also needs to be said that Ally was manipulative, dishonest, reckless, and I think it's fair to say obsessive. She did NOT deserve what happened, but she did assemble all the pieces to an evil machine that turned on her and destroyed her. For goodness sake, just walk away!

@TheBeliever1204 7 месяцев назад

Why didn't she just break up with him. Why didn't he just break up with her? He clearly wasn't that interested.

@rev3737 7 месяцев назад

Agree. I said this before and got jumped on! She.lied about being pregnant, wouldn't leave him alone. It doesn't justify his actions but sadly she contributed to her death.

@danjohnson887 7 месяцев назад

@@TheBeliever1204 Totally agree! I can only assume she was struggling with some sort of mental illness such as an unhealthy obsession of some sort (and an obvious very low self esteem). I honestly think for his part, he was just interested in easy sex and when it became more- he obviously couldn't handle it. Sadly, I think had she never lied: he would not have felt so trapped and probably wouldn't have reacted like he did. I'm not blaming the victim, but she did set all this in motion perhaps not realizing how serious he was with not having a child. So, to answer your question: obsession on her part, selfishness on his.

@danjohnson887 7 месяцев назад

@@rev3737 Oh I'm sure you did get jumped on!! I was expecting it myself and I'm sure it will still happen, but it's true! She contributed to this horrible situation whether she realized the full danger and potential or not. However, telling the truth is always the best policy and knowing you can't make someone love you is a pretty basic understanding for most people. I'm guessing she was struggling with mental illness much more than anyone realized, and found a toxic and deadly combination with her killer boyfriend.

@vmkgf74 7 месяцев назад

@@danjohnson887 i get it but like, manipulative person and murderer are way too different the way yall acting like she was as in the wrong as him

@gingerlilyjena7078 2 месяца назад

Girl had some issues and no one should use pregnancy as a tool, that being said none of that is grounds to k*ll someone. Two kids with not nearly enough life experience

@m.s.8774 3 месяца назад

So heartbreaking to see this young girl’s life taken! I hope her family heals and find peace

@NiNitosix 7 месяцев назад

He wasn’t ready for a kid but was ready for prison.?!?

@jennifernabrahamable 7 месяцев назад

he's definitely going to be "taking it" for a long time....

@limehouseblues 7 месяцев назад

sending a guy who does not want a kid, taunting photos of your belly is literally the dumbest most dangerous thing you can do. still horrible she was murdered.

@goochmcduck4285 3 месяца назад

Idk what more the guy could of done or said he made it so clear and she just pushed and pushed and lied and manipulated and harassed

@missyann7588 2 месяца назад

@@goochmcduck4285 And she was doing her best to make the baby be born with fetal alcohol syndrome…my God the way she drank! No way was that kid going to be born healthy. Some people are upset that he suggested an abortion, but look at what she was doing. It seems to me she just wanted to be pregnant to antagonize him…because if she REALLY wanted a kid, she wouldn’t have doomed it at birth by drinking 24/7.

@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij 2 месяца назад

@missyann7588 I actually hope for her own sake and any baby’s that she was indeed lying from the start and didn’t drink with a baby inside her. She was clearly desperate for him to see her and tried to ‘trap’ him with a fake pregnancy so he’d stay !!!! Imo there wasn’t a pregnancy esp since she claimed to still be pregnant sending belly pics in august the night before her death, And we know a day later after she was found dead was NOT pregnant !!

@missyann7588 2 месяца назад

@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij So it’s official? She was NOT pregnant. I read one article that said she was 17 weeks…and it sounds like she drank every single day. That baby was definitely going to be born with fetal alcohol syndrome. And not trying to be ugly, but it would have been a burden on everyone. And if she wasn’t pregnant, then she was wrong to keep making him think she was. Anyway, thanks for clearing that up. I actually googled “was she actually pregnant”…never could get a direct answer.

@ALWAYSTONED303 13 дней назад

Bro got taken out by a crazy B so sad for everyone

@cdeeb002 4 месяца назад

Young ladies focus on you, your education and your future career. The right guy will come around if that’s in the cards and you wont have to beg or chase. He will want to be in your life.

@doughooks7411 5 месяцев назад

Ladies, NEVER play this dangerous manipulative game if you are not pregnant. It can (and does) ruin lives.

@GoldSkye 7 месяцев назад

She seems to have gotten obsessive about him. He should have maturely stated that he wasn’t interested and blocked her instead of participating in this toxic push and pull.

@indiabilly 7 месяцев назад

He most likely was responsible for the push and pull, it’s standard operating procedure for narcissistic and borderline relationships, it gets the person they are targeting upside down, it’s a massive red flag but we don’t get taught it in school

@sammyb1651 7 месяцев назад

@@indiabilly She was wholly complicit in the "push and pull". Any other interpretation is ludicrous to the point of dishonesty.

@DiddlyD-xx2ih 7 месяцев назад

@@indiabillyI think that's a bit of a stretch. He was a healthy young man in his twenties who was getting free and easy sex. That's pretty hard to say no to. There's no real evidence he was a narcissist or any kind of psychopathy. He got freaked out by the pregnancy and killed her. No excusing that. But not every killer is in the DSM4.

@charminglliang839 7 месяцев назад

Same thoughts here.

@GoldSkye 7 месяцев назад

He admitted to always having terrible thoughts. He might have struggles of some sort from childhood. Who knows how far it went. She seems like she was lonely and locked on to him as her fantasy dream man even though he treated her crazy. They both needed mental help sounds like.

@zxy78267 7 месяцев назад

I think it was fully premeditated. He avoided her completely until he got the gun, then took her to a remote location. He drank until he had the courage to get the firearm and then he shot her. The number of times he shot her shows the rage he had against her. RIP, Ally, you didn't deserve this. My heart breaks for her family and friends.

@GriBlanco 5 месяцев назад

She probably thought a pregnancy would finally bind him to her since she kept trying so hard to make him “love” her. When someone has demonstrated to you that they’re not interested, leave them alone! And don’t ever think that a baby will lure them into your arms. If anything they’ll want less to do with you! What a tragic story 😢

@connorsworks 2 месяца назад

They both seem to have been very unstable. The perfect storm for disaster.

@TheDriftwoodlover 7 месяцев назад

Tragic case. I’m sorry she didn’t realize earlier in the relationship he wasn’t worthy of her and had moved on. His license plate summed up his attitude perfectly.

@HappyHarryHardon 7 месяцев назад

“Take it!” - Jordan Chase

@jNeal-gj9iu 7 месяцев назад

He should have just got a restraining order and changed his phone number.

@plzsaydabailey 7 месяцев назад

He told her he wasn't good enough for her but she wasn't tryna hear it and she had to learn the hard way

@dragorn3212 7 месяцев назад

He wasn't worthy of her? ok and what exactly did either of them have to offer other than being a psycho?

@SomerDawn13 7 месяцев назад

@@dragorn3212 he wasn't worthy of her sweet and loving kindness she had to give. He didn't even want it for real. Just sad😢...

@IraRochaa 7 месяцев назад

She really played a dangerous game, clearly she was not pregnant and the fact that she probably lost her life over a lie 🤦🏾‍♀️ rest in peace, I’m sorry for her family’s loss…

@cambry12346 7 месяцев назад

right. she had a goal of finding a husband in college and that goal consumed her and she went about it the wrong way.

@passedtense436 6 месяцев назад

fafo

@IraRochaa 6 месяцев назад

@@cambry12346 exactly, so sad 💔

@lindaallebach4285 6 месяцев назад

I totally agree ❤️‍🩹

@blueflameSM 6 месяцев назад

She wasn't pregnant, and she tried to trap him into a relationship that was dead from the beginning. She did not deserve to die for trying to love someone, she didn't deserve any of this. She loved the wrong person, and that's incredibly sad.

@jasedent7231 2 месяца назад

It’s almost like she stalked him to death…. Sad

@truthwithes6690 4 дня назад

Yes, she was obsessed

@Rick.Alan.6622 2 месяца назад

Parents should learn... Your kids won't tell you everything.

@margochanning6868 7 месяцев назад

Moral of the story: When you are stalking someone relentlessly, you may become the prey instead of the predator - especially if you are stalking a psychopath. Both of them had serious destructive mental issues.

@ailleananaithnid2566 7 месяцев назад

She sounds like she was suffering from BPD. He sounds like a psychopath. Can you imagine two people less appropriate to be parents? Genetically, any kids they’d have would have multiple mental illnesses.

@hollydaugherty2620 7 месяцев назад

Exactly.

@5thdimension954 6 месяцев назад

@@ailleananaithnid2566I agree. She LIKELY had BPD and he is a psychopath. They find each other as their destructive features pair up with others with similar fractures. Happens daily unfortunately

@Luna14dejulio 6 месяцев назад

Yes

@Gobble_de_Goop 6 месяцев назад

@@ailleananaithnid2566What gave you the impression she had BPD? Not discounting it. Just wondering as I'd never heard anything myself that pinged as Borderline.

@jenniferwellman5311 7 месяцев назад

The lesson here, ladies. If a guy tells you he’s not good enough for you,he isn’t.

@justin9744 3 месяца назад

Definitely not the actual takeaway but yea sure. Whatever you say, lady.

@TNT-km2eg 3 месяца назад

Guy trying to be kind is all

@forreal245 2 месяца назад

Right!

@joyasparacino9747 4 месяца назад

She harassed him She thought by telling him she was pregnant (even though she wasn’t and knew she wasn’t) was going to make him want her and keep him around She had mental problems as well as immaturity She lied to him to get a reaction from him good or bad She wasn’t drinking that much alcohol but she was drinking because she knew she wasn’t pregnant He didn’t want nothing to do with her only what a young college guy wants To hook up with no connections Poor girl was nutty He just wanted her to leave him alone and she wouldn’t Now she’s dead and he’s in prison for the rest of his life How horrible and sad for all involved They were both so young

@andilandia_1979 3 месяца назад

All responsibility goes to this murderer but if I may say can we teach our daughters to let go of these aholes that use them and mistreat them.

@JBeezyJesusFreak 7 месяцев назад

She was completely naive and it's utterly devastating. I really feel for both parents. You feel so helpless in a situation like that.

@rocioaguilera3555 7 месяцев назад

Ally had a very low self esteem. If someone doesn't want to have anything to do with you, just go away and continue living your life in the best way you can. Rest in peace, Ally. My condolences to all of your loved ones.

@johnsmith-ug5tp 7 месяцев назад

I would say it had more to do with loneliness and becoming fixated on this one guy after she had sex with him. Most young people go through this at least once in their lives. Sadly, she met a nut job. If not, she would have eventually moved on and made better choices with the next guy she met.

@empath2005 6 месяцев назад

This is beyond heartbreaking because two families technically lossed both young kids. She was killed and the murderer is in prison for the rest of his life.

@belbagay514 5 месяцев назад

Anytime a man tells you not to share anything... run for your life.

@sharik467 7 месяцев назад

This young man used this young woman for as long as it was convenient and when he no longer wanted anything to do with her, out of desperation she used the pregnancy scam to try to keep him in her life. The saddest part is, he never really was in her life … he never was even interested in meeting her friends. What a horrible loss of two young lives and the tremendous loss that both of their families will feel forever.

@roch202020 7 месяцев назад

Everything the letter from the guy's family says... so so so very well written.

@joclark3119 Месяц назад

So sick and sad ... she wasn't even pregnant. He killed her for nothing.

@AnonymousPerson270 26 дней назад

She really should not have lied. She would still be alive.

@texan76 5 месяцев назад

i get that she shouldn't have tried to force him into being a family, but why couldn't he just block her?

@molly_jean 7 месяцев назад

Ally was lonely and desperate which clouded her judgement. Brandon knew she was vulnerable, used her and then felt cornered. So sad for all involved.

@onelove2438 7 месяцев назад

No so sad for Ally !!

@admirallily 7 месяцев назад

Lonely? She had all kinds of friends. Poor girl didn’t deserve this but I don’t think anything here indicates loneliness. I think sadly she was unhealthily infatuated with him and this is a lesson for all, much as it may hurt, don’t chase a person who doesn’t want what you want. True Crime has taught me anyone is disgustingly capable of what this boy did except for the choices we make. My prayers for her family and friends and all affected by this tragedy.

@hildsme4802 7 месяцев назад

@@admirallilyexactly

@birdlynn417 7 месяцев назад

These young women really need to protect themselves better, and not let themselves become feeling so desperate or needy for love and affection. Your safety is always number one and should be respected above all else.

@rion-cd8kg 7 месяцев назад

Being lonely and desperate should not have been a part of this equation. She went to college to study...bottom line.

@Hiway.to.Heaven 7 месяцев назад

Wow...she really held him hostage using the threat of pregnancy as a weapon. Apparently, she couldn't accept that he was just not that in to her. Very sad for the families.

@vutomi9874 7 месяцев назад

Why he started a relationship with her?? He wanted use her as his time pass?

@vutomi9874 7 месяцев назад

If he was not into her than he had enough time to break up and don’t waste her time.

@Fakegrape7777 7 месяцев назад

Used the threat of pregnancy as a weapon? Thats a bit extreme--the only person using a weapon in this situation was Brandon. She wanted to be with him seriously and he just wanted to hookup with her. Once things got complicated, he thought this was the only way out because he’s a coward.

@vutomi9874 7 месяцев назад

@@Fakegrape7777 exactly!

@futureclean 7 месяцев назад

@@vutomi9874 yes

@jameshayes1024 Месяц назад

A bad night ALWAYS starts with a bar.

@dberd9149 24 дня назад

This is exactly why you don’t force a relationship.

@jessiefrye3045 7 месяцев назад

Kids, don't get hooked on anyone, when you are that young. Have fun. Date. ENJOY YOUR LIFE. Make memories with your family and friends. When you find the one, you will know it. You won't have to force them to invest in you or the relationship . They will be there. When its Real Love, it will be reciprocated. They'll give you as much as you give them. In GENUINE care, emotions and actions.

@ConstellationLady 7 месяцев назад

True indeed. Youth is truly wasted on the young.

@differenttakethanmost 7 месяцев назад

Add: Study… Increase your intelligence

@davidb2206 7 месяцев назад

Add: AND use birth control. Use the 90-day implant.

@Ais-eb9bk 2 месяца назад

Tell that to Ally. She was obsessed to the point of ruining a boy's life with lies.

@jessiefrye3045 5 дней назад

@@differenttakethanmost Yes!!!

@ashleypearson3846 7 месяцев назад

If a man starts threatening you to cease a pregnancy, do not meet with him alone. Period! No matter how much he sweet talks you. Remember 3 hours ago or yesterday he didn't want that baby. 👀

@daughterofolaf 4 месяца назад

What’s so frustrating about this case is if EITHER of these kids had told their parents about the situation, it’s almost certain they could have resolved it all. Particularly Brandon’s mother. If her letter is any indication of who she is as a human being, even just telling her about it could have led to a much different ending.

@shelbyeverett3096 Месяц назад

Whether or not you believe they had a toxic relationship or that she behaved in a certain way, the bottom line is she did not deserve to be murdered. Period. If you think that is a legitimate solution to your problems you are a messed up individual.

@sirmadam8183 7 месяцев назад

Self-worth is not defined around a man or whether there is a man in your life. March on and forward and don't look back.

@bethanyboothe4817 7 месяцев назад

I have 2 young daughters. They will not go off to college simply because they graduate high school and are 18. This girl needed more guidance and protection and time to mature before being sent off on her own. The college/party way of life is so overrated and treated as a rite of passage instead of the dangerous lifestyle it often is…especially for women. This is a cautionary tale.

@pazza4555 7 месяцев назад

Girls mature earlier than boys. It's a shame you've made a decision on their behalf. That might not be what they need. You're risking your relationship with them. And not everybody in college drinks.

@user-zm3ny8tw4x 7 месяцев назад

@@pazza4555 Extremely immature behaviour on both sides that ended in tragedy.

@davidb2206 7 месяцев назад

A quality marriage is WAY more important in life than going to college. I would encourage them to work on that and learn a trade, such as seamstress.

@ValleyoftheRogue 7 месяцев назад

Baloney. They don't "mature earlier than boys." Why does this LIE continue to be perpetrated? The brains of both sexes are not fully developed until at least age 25. Women do not "mature" mentally earlier than men, understand?

@ValleyoftheRogue 7 месяцев назад

Marriage isn't that important, and you know it. The notion that it is is what led to this tragedy. You believe women aren't good for anything else.

@bonnieanderson1029 5 месяцев назад

BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. SO SORRY FOR YOUR TRAGIC LOSS😢

@user-ki1gz9sf6w 2 месяца назад

May Ally's beautiful soul forever rest in peace, may God give comfort to her parents and friends

@grizzlyg4008 7 месяцев назад

So sad. My heart goes out to Ally's family and friends. Young people in college live your best single life! Don't be in such a rush for these serious relationships.

@monicawylie3985 7 месяцев назад

You can’t make someone want you, love you, or want to have a life with you.

@yenh1144 2 месяца назад

Don’t ever let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once! There are millions of men & she was so young and beautiful, truly tragic. She really needed closer friends and therapy.