What Are Blatantly Sexist Things That Are So Normalized in Society?👀 TikTok Compilation |Part 1| 

When I was small, and even as a teenager, I was always told to 'Watch out', 'The boys definitely love you', etc. Why are we 'protecting' girls, but not teaching boys??

When I was 7, I was being bullied by this boy in my class. He would punch, kick, and spit on me. However, I was told to be polite, so I didn’t do anything about it. One day, I was sitting in front of him during an assembly and he punched the back of my head and when I turned around he spat in my eyes. I, at this point, was super sick of him, so I cried and went to the principal. The principal told me that the kid probably liked me and that I should give him benefit of the doubt since boys mature slower than girls. Like - dude??? What the fuck??? The secondary principal (I forget what it’s called) called bs on that though and she said that if he touched me again I was allowed to punch him in the nose :)

Women being pressured to be “perfect” when men are applauded for doing the bare minimum

A few months ago I realized that there’s only changing tables in public’s women’s bathroom, but not in the men’s. What if a father needs to change his child? How is he gonna do that?

I never changed my last name when I was married. It Is What flows through my veins and who I am. I also get my beautiful daughter my last name not her father's. I like to be unconventional I like to do what I want, and I don't care what others think.

If a man is career driven, works so much that he doesn’t have much time for his kids, he’s a “busy father” If a woman does the same she’s an “irresponsible mother”.

Spoke to the guy who comes into my work to clean the carpets. He just had his third grandchild and asked me if I had kids. I said I didn't but my fiance and I had talked about adoption. "Oh, you can't have kids?" "No, I just don't like the idea of pregnancy." "It's so worth it, though." (Says the man who will never be pregnant or give birth -.- ) "You should have your own after you adopt. It's totally different." "The kid we adopt WILL be ours." "Yeah, but it's different." And he was fighting to keep a smile on his face the whole time. He was clearly bothered by the idea that this random woman he isn't even on a first-name basis with wasn’t thrilled with the idea of pregnancy. That's besides the fact that he views adopted children as an "other." My little cousin is adopted. He's not an other. He's my cousin.

Good news for anyone who might date my son… He was taught how to take care of himself and a house and how to work for a living. And most importantly that he was not above a woman in any way. I was big on the term partnership. besides, when you treat boys as if they are all automatically going to get married and have a wife to take care of them, it’s BS. They need to know how to cook and clean and take care of stuff for the purpose of their own survival. I was the same way when it came to cooking. I never once told my girls that they needed to learn how to cook for their future husband. I told them they need to learn how to cook so that they don’t die from starvation.

Being pressured? Asking when are you getting married and have kids. I’ve notice the difference growing up and most men really don’t care about marriage nor want to become a parent. If men refuse it’s fine but, when women out there says the same thing?It’s shocking, something is wrong with her, she has social anxiety, she’ll be miserable and alone…..It was said that “ getting married is every women dream” . I find that hilarious and stupid. How can you tell women, what they should be dreaming about?It’s ridiculously false and weird. Also, for women out there who doesn’t want to be mothers are doing the world a great favor and not afraid to say they’re not mother material. For some reason, most men find it concerning for women out there,who don’t want to get married nor want to be mothers. I don’t understand why men out there CARE. If they don’t want be on the same page,Why be so quick to assume and jump into conclusions? So,women are not allowed to have their own dreams? On top of that, not only parents pressure their kids to get married and settle down,no women sure have to hear that question from men too. If he’s not serious about that, he shouldn’t even mention marriage or children in a conversation at all. Besides, we don’t hear women threatening their lives as much men are when it comes being single for a long time.

I had to do that interview with my doctor to get my tubes tied. I’ve never had doctors actually listen to me and I suck for advocating for myself but you best believe I got those things fried.

Paying women LESS for doing the same type of work, knowing women probably do it better.

I am so glad that the men noticed the sexist things as well

I’m never changing my last name for anyone whenever I get married. Mainly because I love my last name and it’s not a last name that you hear everyday. Also, when I have children, they will have my last name in there (I’m also the only woman on my side of the family with my last name so I want to pass down my name too). Whenever I tell people that, they always ask, “You don’t want to consider hyphenating your last name?” No. It’s my name and I’ve identified with it for 28 years. It’s mind blowing that in 2022, it’s still considered taboo for women to keep their maiden name after marriage and pass their last name to their children.

What is sexist is that people can touch a pregnant woman's belly and say "congratulations" but, people don't rub a man's balls and say, "good job".

Women always remember: You can do everything a man can do... while bleeding.

I think it’s so sexist when random men approach women and tell them to “smile” so they can be more approachable, attractive and like-able to men. So gross and sexist

Also the Ms. and Mrs. thing like why do women have to state if they're married or not but men don't, like why do you need to know if I'm married???

whenever me and my bf cried, we were told that "dont cry because you're a woman and women need to stay strong' or 'be a man' not only that, but we needed to be or act a certain way because of our gender. I cant even act tired or bored or sit laid back without being told to stop acting like that because im a female :/ like what?? how does emotions have anything to do with gender? we're all fucking human and we have real valid human emotions no matter of age or gender. I swear if i have a daughter and or a son, they're going to learn gender equal stuff and be taught that crying is a normalized thing no matter if they're a girl or a boy. Its so dumb honestly.

The dna of sons can be found in mom's brain but for some reason dad gets all of the glory while teaching son to hate mom.

The problem with the last name example is that most women have been given their fathers last name so even if I gave my child my last name it's still a man's last name. Women should start changing their last names at 18 the giving that last name to their kids.

Her: "I get it, having parents with two different last names is harder for the kids..." My mom kept her last name and me and my siblings took our dad's last name. I don't know how they chose that, but I think they just rolled dice or something fair or discussed because they are 101% against sexism, both of them. But that is a terrible reason for changing YOUR LAST NAME. It isn't hard. It's fine. If there was an emergency and my mom was around when I was little, and adult might've asked, "What's your last name? What parents are here?" If I responded , "-----, and my mom is here." They would say "MRS. -----" and get my mom's attention. But she would know what it was. TLDR: That's not a reasonable reason.

Here’s a scenario. Say you’re sitting in a coffee shop, and you see a couple arguing. They start to physically fight. If the girl is hitting the guy, then nobody says anything. However, if the guy starts hitting the girl, then people will rush over to help her. I don’t understand why people think it’s ok for girls to abuse guys, but it’s not at all ok for guys to abuse girls. I don’t think that anyone of any gender, race, age, etc should be abusing someone else. Also when girls in school either can’t show their shoulders, or wear ripped jeans because it might “distract the boys”. Why aren’t we teaching boys how to control themselves rather than hiding girls away?

3:17 They say that they are "protecting girls" that's not true, if they really, truly, sincerely, actually wanted to protect the girls then they would have teached the boys a long LONG time ago. Those who claim they "protect the girls" and not teach boys know EXACTLY what they are doing. They want to put all the burden on the girls so if anything bad happens "its her fault" and the guys doesn't take accountability for anything. It's obviously a scam.

The thing that sucks is that on average, even if a woman keeps her “maiden” name, it’s still her father’s last name.

The first one is too true, I plan to get my tubes tied and tried to get on birthcontrol now through my mom's gynecologist, and they said not until I'm sexually active or 21???

You know growing up because I developed pretty early, I use to hear the term "she's a fast one" or "better watch out for them boys"or even "she going to be a hot one" like I was a preteen why you saying this. now I'm a lightskin black girl and I had this happen numerous, my sister on the other hand never really had this said to her and luckily but it's actually really annoying

I'm gonna start telling parents of little boys "watch out

When I was about 11 it was the 4th of July and I had a bikini on and I was crouching so my top went deep. My Nina noticed and she said “You’re gonna get a HoT bOyFrEiNd” it made me feel so uncomfortable. Bitch, I’m a lesbian

I regret getting my tubes tied. My periods have been so much more painful and heavier. I definitely regret it!

About names, i carry both of my parents names but my mom’s first and my mom choos my first name, because and i quote “i am the one that gave birth your dad has no say in any of your names” and he didn’t , one of my aunts just said “i don’t like my husband family name and i don’t like my as well so we just choosed a new name” but in my father family in general we change family names almost every other generation for around a century already and the mom always has the lest say in the child name department , about boys being bullies - i was a bully myself. i am a girl. but i was a bully of bullies which mean the weaker kids would vibe around me as it was the safest place, my reaction of someone being in my way was beating the shit out of them so lets say boys never dared to be assholes around me and they where the most polite beings there,some kids didn’t get how they where so nice with me and i’m just “they are afraid” which means that if i will ever have a kid i will teach them how to take down someone 3 times their size from a young age like i was, also when to stop, also only go after the biggest

Haha try interviewing as software dev in a gaming company. As a woman or young dude ,they'll show surprise 🙄. Like why?

When I got a vasectomy, my wife divorced me and I had to pay child support for a child that is not mine.

To the Selective Service argument: not required to register was the very reason given to deny passage of ERA. Women are now allowed to serve in combat roles, but almost 1/2 the states legislated we don't have bodily autonomy. So, women are expected to cover the home front, earn income, birth the next generations AND serve in combat. Why do we need Xyz?

~5:43 That’s not Christianity, that’s American evangelicals and catholics. Hey guys, methodists and lutherans exist.

What's sexist about the guy complaining about the draft? 🙄 Is it sexist that the army won't think Women want to be in the army? (cuz their wrong, I've meet plenty of girls who struggle to get into the service because it's such a boys club.. women have to work and train twice as hard to get accepted) While men only have to fill out a card.? Like should we just get rid of the draft system or start including everyone 🤔

The dude that said Christianity was misogynistic is like seriously wrong, because I remember Mother Mary being one of the MOST important roles in the birth of Jesus - she changed History 🙏

6:12 Because I feel I can’t fill the husband role, I don’t date.😢

I didn't change my last name when I married my current husband ten years ago.....I kept my ex husbands last name

My mom was married to my father now separated and we don't have our father last name. I love my mother's last name (Alexander). My father last name is great too (Moses) but I prefer my Mom's.

I believe in God, but I don’t really believe in the Bible... It was written by man. It’s a giant “ lesson” book. Not all Christians are bad. Just FYI lol.

The guy talking about Christianity is having contact with the wrong ppl, caz I've met alot of Christians that aren't like that and that are, now all of us christians are stupid and chose to make God's word our own, we actually ask him to tells us what it means, but I can see where he is coming from

Well 2 years later women are able to get drafted too

When I was having my 2nd c section (which I was very awake at all times for) a doctor asked MY HUSBAND if they should tie my tubes....my husband. Yet he went and got a vasectomy without even telling me.

4:29 facts what I said before applies to this

6:47 But the last name is the wimans decision like if you hate the idea of getting yr husbands kast bane its your decision when you get married

Almost all of these are bashing guys when people are sexist to them too my brother was told that man don’t cry so much that he’s actually afraid that he won’t be able to cry when friends or family members dies

my mother put her last name as my second middle name

I actually plan on changing my name to just my first name and mom's last name. I hope that's possible/legal 😅

5:32 Actually, no. 5:56 Have you read Proverbs 31? 6:17 Where does it imply that?

4:18 when was the last time you checked ma'am?

To my Latinx people: regarding names, is it true that the children take the mother's last name?

When I say grow a pair I’m referring to ovaries

00: 07 never a man choice womens 😢choice disregarded double standards no accountability for me 00:35 bare minimum nothing expected from men should never be tolerated put a stop to expressed fully in every way against

With the Christian one, it’s not exactly the wife must follow every command given. Or at least not the way my church teaches. Husband and wife are equal on most grounds, but they have different roles in the family and in the church. Say their is a married couple, the husband would technically be the “leader” but his wife should always have a day and he’ll give counsel and advice to decisions made. They make decisions together. Saying the wife should be submissive to her husband just means that she shouldn’t be mega bossy and rule over the household. Kinda like a Karen. I’m proverbs 31 it talks about a wife and how yes she takes care of her family, but also goes on her own endeavors to better them with her own ideas and projects. Some churches turn this into sexism by taking away all of the woman’s rights, but that isn’t what the Bible says. A woman is free to her own choices, but in a marriage the husband is a leader rather than a tyrant. This is coming from a woman, I do believe this is what the Bible means and I don’t want people to get the wrong idea of what the Bible means

The answer, to the man that wonders why women are not included in the military draft: men have never wanted women in the military, for starters.

Vasectomies are reversible whereas hysterectomies are not so, of course, the doctors are going to go the extra mile in ensuring you're making the right decision.

Girl in the third clip had her wedding ring on the wrong hand. It goes on the ring finger of the left-hand! get it together everybody!

The thing with selective service, if you know about government, that its an amendment. And yes, we can change it, however that sexist law is still in place, because its too hard to change it. Like we dońt needddd to change it, and its not worth the time and effort, and very long process. So yeah thats why

The way he interpreted this image is completely wrong. All people are equal in God's eyes (though they do have different roles to play and different roles that go with their nature.) This is an image of umbrellas which do not represent any type of value level at all. What it does represent is that Christ protects the husband, the wife and the Children. The husband protects the wife and children and the wife protects the children. I hope that clears up what this image actually represents. I would go into more of what he said but he was pretty vague so if anyone has more specific examples of 'sexism' in the I'd gladly talk about them.

You can't be sexist to men

4:22 and if u punch a girl in the uterus she probably won’t even flinch because fvcking period cramps suck so hard that it doesn’t hurt that much anymore (imo because my cramps suck)

Never stop making this series,i get educated so much, i feel so bad for the mother

i was raised with only a father and he tried his hardest to raise 3 kids all by him self with a low paying job, he tried multiple times to get us a step mom although every time he did they would put their own kids in front of his, and treat me and my siblings horribly or they wouldnt be loyal and cheat on him. it got to the point where whenever he thought he found a girl and got with her she would break our hearts. So i get that some men can be like that and not take care of their kids but we need to stop stereotyping because woman do it to.

The first one is so true it's also been said to me countless of times. I have said that I'm asexual and having s3x is literally a worst fear of mine and that I do not desire it and I go to see the gynecologist to try and sort out my period problems because my period cramps are so bad I can't work when I have them and since I'm working as farmer I have to work every day and it's just going to cripple me so I've told them if nothing else works just remove my uterus because I'm not going to use it. And their face just transforms into disappointment and they just start talking about kids Why!? this conversation isn't about kids or getting pregnant it's about the best course of action for ME to have a better work experience and way of life and if I wasn't asexual I'll still prefer to adopt if I wanted kids my bff was foster care and she hated it kids need homes already no need to make more kids.

I'm glad that guy pointed out Christianity. I'd send a carbon copy to religion in general.

The draft thing is so annoying! Yes it’s a difference and I disagree with it but, sir, how has that affected you, held you back, destroyed your sense of self, conditioned you to be victimized??? No one’s been drafted for more than 2 of your lifetimes.

But it's ALWAYS the father's last name. Women have not had a last name since time began. Think about that.