Adrian, make comment trolling, please! I miss for it.... I have a good idea. go to a girl, and say her you look Like a famous character, and when she replies " wich character " say : the donkey from shrek (sorry for not well English if I had a mistake )
@@bushmaster101 Well, in relationships, ladies expect a man to take the initiative. If a guy wants something to happen, it's in his best interest to make a move quickly. As for only using the phrase when they want something, I don't agree, some people are just nice. If they are nice for ulterior motives, that's their buisness
The moral of the story : Shy guys think much before doing something , they always have a fear to lose what they have. But the interesting fact is shy guys are the most talkative to people whom they think their own.
She couldn't make it more obvious she is one of the stupidest girls I've ever seen, even if it's just on video 🤦🏻♂️ She's the perfect example of that saying: Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt. Ps. I don't know why but I kind of expected similar response even before she started to speak
@@Chris-zi4mo Somehow she understood the question enough to answer it. I'm also not a native English speaker and I've learned it myself. As far as I know it was in Sweden and everyone in her age can speak English there. The quote I've cited in my previous comment remains valid. Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all the doubt. Maybe I am the one who is stupid and maybe you are just a thirsty SIMP trying to present yourself as a white knight in a hope she will read your comment, notice you and fall I love with you?
Advice from an old guy, I'm a boomer. The biggest mistake that many girls make when dating is not giving a shy guy the benefit of the doubt. Many shy guys, when they're in confidence, with their friends or classmates, are not shy at all. They can be very funny, smart, engaging, etc. But around an attractive girl, they get nervous and shy. Give them the benefit of the doubt, let them get into confidence with you, and you may be pleasantly surprized. By the way, many of those women that say they don't like shy men, because they lack confidence, are not "alphas", or because they're "stupid", with the pass of time are complaining that there are no "good men", or that they are "jerk magnets", or that they simply have had "bad luck" with men. Bottom line, they have BAD TASTE in men. Stop interviewing them!
@Mr. D. Yeah right, "young man". And all those young ladies that set those high expectations for the guys they "want" to date, end up dating the most incredible losers that you can imagine. I know, because I attend young teenagers and twenty-some year olds in my profession (I'm an orthodontist) and I see the things girls go out with. The "hottest" girls date very "average" men, and the best looking guys are with very "average" girls. But that's for reasons that you wouldn't understand.
Good to see there are guys that understand it. Some might wish more, usually young women, would get it too, but I don't really care. Let them ride the carousel when they're young and beautiful and enjoy watching them later on, when they hit the wall and end up with a bunch of cats trying to hit those introverts they rejected years before. Others are single mothers or wives to a cave men who cheat them on every occasion
If parents be very strict and dont allow you to build up self confidence and others outside bully you and you never feel alright, then you can end up growing as a shy guy and women take their distance. Shy guys are often shy for some reasons.
@@ericfreeman5795 can you please explain the last statement about hottest guys date average girls and vice versa, i'm kind of intrigued and would like to learn a little more.
This reminds me of the time I was still in college. There was this girl I was in the same class with who always glanced my way when I wasn't looking. She was pretty. One day, she sat at my table in the library and I could see that she wanted to talk. The problem was that I didn't know what to talk about because I didn't know what she wanted to talk about. The result was us sitting side by side, looking at each other while my head raced, desperately searching for something to say and the surrounding noise grew into a cacophony of voices, slamming books, moving chairs, and the ominous creaking of the library door, and growing progressively louder with every heartbeat until reaching decibels of a freight train derailing and slamming into an underpass. Then, all of a sudden, everything went quiet as a question floated in a veritable thought vacuum in my mind. "What do you think about the theory of evolution?". That turned out to be a dealbreaker.
Im from sweden and she said in swedish ”i dont even know how to talk english” i think she just wanted to be funny in front of her friends and she didnt really understand him.
Personally I think being shy is attractive ..they are the best observer and a deep thinker .. extrovert isn't my type . And by the way , being shy doesn't mean that they can't hold the conversation , you just need to be patient with them and to enjoy the silence what they prefer .
Well, my problem is that I’m not shy to talk to girls but sometimes I just don’t know what to talk about with them. I’m an introvert but I wouldn’t say I lack confidence to talk to girls. I’m just not talkative. It feels like guys are always the ones who have to try to entertain the girls and win their hearts while the girls are just sitting there and waiting to be entertained.
@DogSayingWoosh same lmao i can be hilarious around ppl who are pretty close to me, but once you include someone I'm meeting for the first time that's an automatic silent mode for me
I LOVE SHY GUYS! They are cute, mostly sensitive, interesting & not easily misguided. They tend to be more truthful & deep than outgoing guys. I am outgoing myself so, i guess opposites attract. Shy doesn’t mean insecure nor introvert per say. They are just perhaps more selective, analytical & neutral. Thumbs up to shy guys 👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏽
I think I'm some of those, but can't really decide if it's more shy or introverted behavior. To me seems like a grey area for me 🤔 I often question whether someone introverted or extroverted would be right fit, I find myself drawn to both, since they both have characteristics I admire. However, one could feel more contagious in their uplifting and energetic ways, but the thought of always being pulled out of hiding can feel exhausting mentally. Idk why but when im in groups a lot, i often suffer mental fatigue. It's like I need to recharge often before I can do it again, often even making up excuses. "Oh sorry, something came up i cant make it, maybe next time" when in actuality there was just plans with myself and a movie that I felt more comfortable doing. I think my brain just works over time, trying to process everyones feelings and attempting to give everyone equal amounts of attention while also mentally asking myself questions in my head and answering them about topics while finding my opinion on the topic to contribute. Then you have the thought of feeling guilty of not being able to give the extrovert, extrovert attention every time they need it and instead feeling selective with when you do. And whether the extrovert can provide those one on one conversations without the need for more and without feeling fatigue, because i bet just as I get mental fatigue in groups, they probably have some sort of negative experience with always being cooped up. 🤔
These women have no idea on what they are talking about. Shy guys mostly are very empathetic, independent, good listeners, have emotional stability and intuitive that most extroverts do not have. I can say that because i am an introvert.
@@sgtpepper1456 You are an absolute introvert.. That's why you are feeling that way. I'm a girl and I'm very introverted, too. I always feel drained around big groups of people.. And I really prefer being at home. That's typical of us. Plus, I'm super shy and unconfident, so I get really nervous around people.. And especially around boys. So.. I just don't feel right around people. I overthink most of the time.. And ask myself a lot of questions until I find my opinion on every topic. I'm sensitive and get easily hurt. I love my home and my solitude. Do you know what it is like? 😬🙃
@@jerome6833 I'm a girl and I can say you're absolutely right. Shy people are deep, intelligent, innocent and interesting. I would always prefer a silent shy guy over a confident and talkative one. To be honest, I haven't watched the video because I'm scared to hear what these girls are saying.. But if it's something offensive, don't listen to them. You don't have to change. Someone will appreciate you for who you truly are. ♥️♥️♥️
You are absolutely 100 % right , a people who talks more who is thinking little but who is talking less who thinks more and very knowledgeable from inside .
But I like shy guys. They're cute. Especially when they stare at you, you look at them and then they look away in like 0.2 seconds😂 Just be a little more understanding, patient towards them and don't give up on them either. Chances are you're both overthinking
Ok here's the thing... I am an extroverted girl + social butterfly, and I am more attracted towards shy guys...maybe it's because they are complete opposite to me that I am so attracted to them, I would happily make the first move and try to spend more time with them...oh god give me one in the future 💙💙
I’m a shy guy, and my experience with women has been what you describe. Extroverted and talkative women have always pursued me and that’s mostly who I have been in relationships with. But the guy can’t be weak, he still needs to be like a man in other areas.
Shyness cure: Fake it until you make it. I used to be extremely shy then one day I decided to walk around my city asking people directions every 50 metres. After 8 hours and hundreds of interactions it becomes so easy. I did the same in shops asking staff questions etc. Now I can approach any girl in a bar and chat away naturally. It’s difficult but put the hours in making random chat and you’ll get over it.
Nothing bad about being alone, many people can actually be happy without a girlfriend, the ones that should actually worry about themself and seek some help are those who have serious problems being alone, those who have kind of an obsession to have a girl/boy friend.
@@gamerforever2126 Someday you will find the one. No rush. Once you find the adequate (without that obsession feeling to catch any random girl you find) you will feel much more better.
Shy people are normal people too 🤷♀️ they come with a variety of different personalities and talents. They oftentimes are some of most interesting people. Shy people aren’t always cowardly or weak. They can turn out to be the bravest, coolest and strongest humans . It’s just that the wall of shyness is stopping them from discovering or showing their true selves. People being so judgemental about shyness only makes shy people more insecure 😒 and of course it exists in a spectrum. Shy doesn’t automatically mean you are not good with people or are anti-social. That would be more of social anxiety.
Good point. I was shy from an early age, and people constantly bugging you about being quiet just makes you think there’s something wrong with you which makes your shyness worse. People think they’re helping, but it causes a downward spiral. Criticism doesn’t lift a shy person up. It doesn’t lift anybody up really.
"I never really met a shy guy. I think they are rare". That ladies and gentleman is a prime example for a paradox or maybe even confirmation bias. Of course you don't meet shy guys, since shy people are shy
I'm not shy, I'm just introverted. Most of my conversations are free flowing but with an awful lot of silence because I simply dont like to talk much, it's a waste of energy to actually try to make conversation happen instead of just letting it happen naturally. If a girl automatically thinks I'm shy because I just dont talk that much, that says a lot more about her than it does about me. My eye contact is strong, I stand tall when I walk, my voice isn't shaky, fast or nervous. So putting someone in the shy category simply just off the fact that they dont talk that much, is mad stupid.
Being shy doesn't mean that we don't talk to anybody it's just that we are not comfortable with everyone..once you get to know us and you will experience a completely different version of us...
I'm a shy guy and idc about what others think about me because I've got into a lot of shit from girls judging me, ignoring me and talking me behind my back with mean comments. Just because we dont open up doesn't mean that we are introverted or we are afraid of rejection...... It only means that we are not comfortable around everyone. Once you get to know us, you cannot resist us. But the truth is that people dont have patience to make us comfortable and know us. You will also never see anyone loyal and honest like us in this whole f world.
To whoever who needs to hear this, The girls who don't like shy guys probably don't deserve us. They are not the girl for you. Trust me :) Be proud of who you are. There is always a unique girl out there somewhere waiting for you :) #Introvers_rock_the_world❤️
To all the people reading this a shy person will be the most nicest person to have as a friend. That's because they speak less and listen more. Well it's my personal experience.
as a shy guy i find this very helpful but at the same i kinda choose being shy or introvert i found so many bland and bad friends its ok to be shy keep working on yourself and holding conversation is very important cause there will be time when you will find a amazing girl worth chasing after and putting time and effort and social skills talents will definately help
ikr. it takes a lot of courage for shy guys to approach you. if a shy guy came up to me, i would def feel special and would appreciate his effort a lot xoxo
In your mind you would, but your heart, biology and chemistry would say otherwise. In the end you'd want him as a friend. Biology always pervails. Especially in girls. Sorry for speaking facts.
Extrovert people speaks more, while introvert people think more. I guess many woman prefer talkative person than a thinker person. Little do they know, once an introvert start sharing things to someone, that someone must be good to be with or that someone must be special.
When girls say a 'tall guy', they mean tall AND good looking. Most tall men like average and short men .....are average to under average looking. So their pool of dating is even smaller.
Actually shy guys are only shy to people they do not know or they just met but when you actually get to know them you will not imagine him being shy anymore.
Shy doesn’t mean not confident. I usually run from the spot lights, especially when there’s a lot of show off and compliments. But definitely have my moments where I raise my voice. I never was a doormat and always voice my opinions, which are usually against the crowd.
I love how none of them actually think about the person itself but only their superficial traits. I have a shy cousin and she's just AMAZING, she's like the sweetest girl I've ever met and yes, it was kinda hard to interact with her at the beginning but eventually she got more comfortable with me and now we can have pretty normal conversations. It's kinda hard to become friends with a shy person but man, it's absolutely worth it since they tend to be pretty nice people.
I probably dated 30 women at least before finding my fiancee. Of those 25 were just first dates. Had 4 other girlfriends (besides my fiancee of course), and of those, only one stuck around longer than 3 months. So it can be trial and error. If you aren't like Independence Day era Will Smith, odds are if you get out there, the majority of the women will be just one date. But at least one (or more) would want to see you again
Even if you're tall, handsome, smart, and well educated with a good job, being shy will kill your dating prospects. But that's okay, a lot of the women you might otherwise meet aren't people you'd want to get stuck with anyway. Enjoy the freedom of being single!
I am in office and I had to really press hard on my mouth to stop the LOL from falling out....hahaha she in deed has 10 IQ written over her face... lmao
@@user-bh9wk5yg6l She's speaking swedish at a native level, therefor she is stupid for not knowing english. If you're her age and have grown up in sweden and don't understand such basic english you're not a very bright one
Don't know why I got this recommended. But man, this reminds me how happy I am that I am in a relationship already, and have been for a long time. I hated dating. So many women just expect to get entertained. As a guy it's really difficult to find a woman who is willing to put in effort as well. I am a shy guy myself. When I was dating I would try my absolute hardest to be forward. Wasn't the best thing ever, but I tried, and it was tough. And so many times it just felt like I was talking to a brick wall. I am not entitled to anything ofcourse, but it is a problem when I have to be the one to keep the conversation going all the time on like 90% of dates I went on. Just no sign that the woman is also even trying at least.
I don't know whether i'm introvert or not. I don't talk to strangers until needed. But when people talk to me first i can still talk to them like they're my best friends
Shy guy are interesting: we know when to be shy and not talk even when people are talking non-stop. Edit: Everybody can't. Researchers are taking sample to study us 😁😂
Those girls got me pissed for saying they didn’t like shy guys in my opinion I like shy guys cause it makes them adorable and dorky but in a good way but most importantly there loyal and yes I have feel head over heels for a shy guy but I never told him 💀✋🏻
m 25 never approach a girl in my entire life still single the reason is m shy now i believe i'll die single note : 100%straight and not ugly looking guy 🤣🤣
Ikr? But it takes courage for you to talk to them, like me. And somehow instead of I should make a first move to talk to my crush she just instead sat near me and she said "Hi🥰" with that face and idk what to say lmao but good thing she do that first lmao.
@@debanikgoswami4834 That's way even better, crazy it's been 2 years since I replied here. I confessed to my crush and she friend zoned me lmfao 💀 she understood what I felt about her and she instead appreciated my feelings about her. It's a long story, but in the end we still remained friends and finally got over with her. You should be glad that both of you were flirty to one another, I envy you but I guess there's more things I have to discover sooner in life. So good luck to both of you.
IMO there is a difference between a shy person and an introvert, and most people don't understand that. You can be an introvert but still be a confident person.
I actually don't care about girls, but the problem is whenever a girl talks to me, I ask who is she even though she is in my class. And they get surprised that I don't know them and I get surprised that they know me. So now, I have no frnds 👁️👄👁️
Dear person reading this,Don't worry. You will find love soon. You will find success. You will find happiness. And you will find peace. Be patient , whatever you do Don't run back to what broke you. Love from a unknown RU-vidr.
Funny thing is, I'm naturally shy. However, I played the role of an arrogant extrovert so well people are finding it incredibly hard to believe that I was once shy lol
