I need to watch this again it was so helpful, especially the end to not be so rigid that the joy is lost. Thank you!! My oldest just started AO year 1 and I have a 5 yo, 2 yo and 5 month old twins.
You have a busy household! Yes, my biggest advice for the years you are in now is not to lose that joy. Help your eldest become more independent but don't be too structured with you day :)