What do Japanese guys Think of Western girls ? 

@@shizukagozen777 it depends on what the person wants.

@@shizukagozen777 i mean if they date foreigners because it's an opportunity for them to learn new cultures and language as well, then I don't see that as a bad answer, as long as they're happy with that decision. Anyways, I respect your opinion.

@@shizukagozen777 i interpreted it as a more fall in love first, and learn about the other person's culture as a bonus (it's always cool to learn more about other cultures) rather than date this person solely to get an in to a culture. and yeesh, you dont have to generalize japanese people like that

@@shizukagozen777 I never knew that thinking an entire freaking race worth of people didn't behave the same way counted as "idealizing"... Dude, I'm not an expert at Japanese culture but I'm pretty sure that, on the other side of the spectrum, a Japanese person would avoid dating a westerner no matter what cuz they're (the jp person) racist. Stop generalizing please. And who are you to assume how Japanese people think? Were you born and raised in japan? Even if you were, it's easy to get skewed opinions of your surroundings based on personal experiences so really you don't have any credibility no matter what you say for as long as you're trying to convince someone that all Japanese people are incapable of loving foreigners for their personality rather than physical traits.

@@Yuuki-jp4ob I agree with you I honestly don't know what he was on about

That's just out of date view point, chivalry is dead. :)

TBH most people I meet are very polite. I only really remember someone if they're rude to me.

@@genma986 More like self-preservation as the #Metoo movement made male-female interactions more awkward, which is why security cameras need to be installed everywhere.

@@franciscoaguiar2120 Not really lol, the woman just have a different taste in men now 😂 in the US for example the woman don’t like Hispanic, Asian or even some whites. You gotta be a specific person for them to want you oh and also the money. Don’t take it personal and look elsewhere but don’t be desperate man

@@mikloridden8276 Lol, where did I looked desperate? Was just stating redpill facts. Read some redpill books, maybe you'll understand

Yes, but also a lot who hate past/modern Japan to this day due to World War II. Can’t really blame them (victims?) but its just sad.

@@user-bf9dk4xb1j What western person does this? Only the people from commie twt and war veterans or POW's. But yeah,i can say that i've seen this happen many times before,lol.

@V most of that hate doesn't come from the west, most is centered in Korea, China and surrounding placed because they were brutalized many times and never got an apology. The west had 1 incident with them ever

@@dflaming1371 there wasn’t just a single incident, Don’t be so US centric.

Some older people here still dislike japan for what they did in the war. They were more brutal than the SS, atleast Japan has changed a lot since then.

You should try to visited indonesia

Yes

Exactly. No idea where he got that from.

Hardworking, don't know when to quit, admirable for the diligence, but super fucking stupid for not taking care of your own body, also, having just a little bit more time=better quality of work.

I think it’s something that comes from within. I can only speak for myself and ppl around me but we Japanese have low self-esteem so that may have contributed to the idea that ppl are looking down on us. 😂

emasculating stereotypes against asian men. A lot of white men will say japanese dicks are small. A lot of women still believe that to this day and look down on japanese men.

I agree 👍 I love asian men I wouldn't look down on them .. never heard of anyone that does either .. I'm picking he's either young and had no experiance or he's only met one or 2 western girls that might have been the snobby rich girl attitude ones def not a representative of most western.women ..

I think some women want shy, nice guys to use and boss them ☹️ That's what a lot of japanese guys think

@@tromboner6061 nah shy and kind men are husband material fr

I'd say Germans are direct but formal.

@@dickthebirthdayboy2132 Not where I live 😅

@@larissa21190 F

日本人男性は世界一侮辱されています

I'm sorry, but a shy man will never ask someone out due to fear of being rejected. You have to be the one who makes the first move

Yeah, I agree a lot of them are like that but I also see a lot of shallow men in these interviews or limited POVs, as they mainly think of white people when they think of westerners or foreigners. So I think they’re very…sheltered? Or maybe ignorant of the other kind of people in the word. It’s also frustrating that they seem to be intimidated by normal girls or have this idea that foreign women are aggressive or intimidating, which makes them less likely to approach them. Tho I mostly blame Hollywood for their perception lol

@@SusanaCanales1 yeah same. I blame Hollywood too. Lol

@@femme_fatalist I am sorry to hear it didn't work out. But you are absolutely right. I am not sure if I would be able to be with anybody else . And as a woman I wish you to find "that" person , which will stand by you and support you, always 🧡

You and your husband are cute.

@@Orbt_ ❤️

Yes very attractive!

Mood my man is from Japan too ❤️ and our relationship is based so much on respect ❤️ I'm learning the language too so it make the communication easier ❤️

Aww you're so lucky 😍

Very nice 😊

@@Dailyfandom Ngl it was difficult in the beginning but now I find his shyness kinda quirky so I don't really mind. He's a really great guy 😊

This sounds a little similar to me to the way I find that seem more human rather than manly ironically more manly? The more you seem like just some neutral human being with human thoughts and human emotions the more I'm like woah look at that male~ I mean honestly guys you already have a male body and male face. Just be human, however you feel like it. You'll naturally have some manly traits because of that, because that's just the chemical makeup of your brain you know. But just be yourself, let those things naturally emerge. Actively try to be a good human being, the manly stuff will come on their own. And read my comment but swap the genders and just tell me my comment isn't true for many guys... I know many guys feel the exact same way about women as I feel about men, and I'm by far not the only woman who feels this way.

Avoiding eye contact is the norm in Japan, he wasn’t that shy just not used to eye contact LOL

Hello will you do one with Black people too please reply Takashi🙏🏼..

Ask them what they think of black guys and girls

@@ishmaelmiles2216 Bro I am from Asia and tbh,east Asian people in general dont prefer black people but dont worry,i hope you will find the right person if yoire a nice guy👍

@@michaelsailo2037 i see, I've heard otherwise but thanks man

@@ishmaelmiles2216 that's an easy answer im afraid, but it depends on the person ofc

*America as in only the US

@@animacionesamericanas272 Obviously

@@animacionesamericanas272 How else do you describe a person from the US as efficiently as people from other countries? The commenter didn't say, "In America...." They said, "As an American...." Citizens of the People's Republic of China are called Chinese, and citizens of the United States of America are called American in English. It really isn't that different.

@@persephonehades7547 you missed the point, it isn't about efficiency or what's easier, its about whats wrong and absurd, how most latin american countries have an American (or americano) identity already and historically, with all the rigth since no matter how the US is called, theyre allways referencing the American continent. Just because a country put 0 creativity in their name doesn't mean the other dozen countries should accept a country that put its name after a continent just like that

@@animacionesamericanas272 @animaciones americanas so you all don't identify with your countries of origin first and just identify with "latin American" or "American?" Fine, but the world as a whole will not recognize that. We identify people by their country of origin to the best of our ability, and Americans from the US can't help it they established their country and took the name "American" for their citizens officially before any other country was found on either continent. We can't go by Unitedstatison because that as a word came out in English long after the country's conception, and it is still not the world-recognized citizen identifier of the US. And it won't be, because it's a mouthful and unnecessary. It's also worth noting that, to my knowledge, every language besides Spanish and Portuguese also refers to Americans as some derivative of American and not Unitedstatison. On the world stage, *you* are the ones in the wrong for chastising Americans for using their nation identifies as recognized by literally *everyone else.*

I get the feeling that Japanese people think that every westerners speaks perfect English when that couldn't be further from the truth. French people butcher English like there is no tomorrow, the Italian accent became a stereotype and a joke, same goes for the German one, ... and that's for the people that talk it but have an accent because there are a lot of people who don't talk English or don't talk it very well. In that regard, we're all in the same basket here.

Exactly! I think it’s the same for most foreigners studying in a different country; it feels much safer and easier to stick with people who share your language and culture out of fear of rejection or not being understood. But anyone feeling like this should try to branch out and engage more, I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at how welcoming and friendly people can be, even if you can’t communicate perfectly!

That shit wouldn’t fly in America. We’re aggressively friendly. Like will approach you to talk or invite you out places. Don’t speak the same language? No problem, we got phones and wild hand gestures.

@@magnarcreed3801 😂😂 this comment reminds me of my Japanese exchange students, they started off very quiet and shy but by the end of their stay they had already made friends and shared their email addresses so they could still keep in touch when they got home. I wish all foreign exchange was like this ❤️

​@@paocut9018 This is so true and a really great perspective. Even though I'm a native English speaker I have never been upset or bothered by someone's accent or mistakes. I have a french friend who always apologizes for his "bad english" but I'm really just grateful he learned it at all and we can communicate. Sometimes I don't understand his pronunciation or the grammar is wrong, but like 99% of the time we figure it out and he can use pictures or a translator. Learning a new language is really hard and I only have respect for those who do try.

I think this shows how loyal men can be, if only western women had an ounce of the same qualities, but alas they don't this is why our country is failing in marriage and child bearing, majority of western women hold LITTLE TO NO WIFE qualities.

@@15751Chris Loyal men are abused by insecure woman and vice versa. Insecure men abuse woman. Its very difficult to find loyal people these days, seems like everyone is trying to get one up from the partner they already have and can never be content or they always think they are such a catch and deserve more than what they are worth lol

@@Killswitch1411 Yeah everyone thinks they're entitled to more than they're worth that's the main problem. I think that's the case for women at least, always looking for a better man, a lot of men don't even really care how good looking the girl is. That said, I think men have more commitment issues.

Yea you love the vulnerable ones. Says a lot about you.

@@15751Chris You are generalising, your country does not equal the rest of the West. Some Westerners are quite loyal and respectable people, not foolish. The only truth to your comment would have to be child births becoming fewer but East Asia is also facing similar problems, with the greyer population growing stronger since there are more deaths than live births. As for divorce, it is better for people to divorce than remain unhappy. Children born to unhappy couples may suffer from mindless parents that only stick to one another based on some idiotic decisions that pulled them together in the first place, despite the clear lack in compatibility. You do know that it is far more common for Japanese people to remain single in their 30s, right? Japanese women are not as eager to get married anymore, women in East Asia are changing and becoming more career oriented. If you want to be married, have several children and a female at your service without divorcing you, marry a conservative religious person; Christian or Muslim, preferably.

Me too especially because I’m really introverted, don’t say what’s on my mind , and super shy, so I get where they are coming from cause I’m the same way.

I would have let you be the strong woman you are.. You got this lol.. I'm kidding.

@POLY STUDY alot of them do look very feminine.

@@Killswitch1411 oh we have aLpha mAle here.

@@sallyenki4440 you dont have to be a ALPHA to be just a man.. These boys walking around wanna look like their sister or dress and look better than their girl friends its quite odd. God forbid they ever had to fight a war.. you going to put these men in the front line?? Imagine all the men in Ukraine looked like the men in Japan.. They be doomed.

@POLY STUDY that's just toxic masculinity

It’s beautifully said : I think people can be shy or assertive when the situation impose it, even if each person has a “main” personalities which dominates, because even a shy person can become suddenly assertive and determined when it’s to protect the partner in a dangerous situation, for example. And the same the other way around : in private, men as much as women can become shy even though they normally tend to be strong and confident.

This is so true

I don't think you really get what "protecting" or the feeling of doing so means, which kinda illustrates why they think the way they do about western women

@@_Lumiere_ Could you elaborate a little?

​@@rigierish3807 It's a gender role thing, a masculinity vs femininity thing. It's not a nebulous concept of affection for each other. Sure, both partners care for each other and show each other affection. That's largely gender neutral. But being a man in a relationship with a woman means that you provide her with safety, both emotional and physical, but most directly the physical kind. You can go places together that would otherwise feel unsafe for the woman if she was alone and you can be steadfast in the face of emotional turmoil, allowing her to feel vulnerable with the feeling that she can rely on the man to stay grounded. A woman doesnt bring a sense of physical or even necessarily emotional safety to a man and men dont seek it. What men seek is softness and a nurturing kind of care and even more concretely, they seek women for whom it would be appropriate to play the role of protector. The feeling of being relied on in that way and seeing a woman put her trust in you and seek protection from you, even with small gestures like clinging to your arm as you walk through the city at night is very special. The nurturing kind of emotional care that you get from women is different from the kind you get from men, it's more about relaxing and feeling loved, but also needed. Seeing a woman show that nurturing care to children and even small animals elicits the same kind of affection and feeling of wanting to protect her. There is also some overlap between the genders when it comes to these concepts, but generally speaking, these are the differences. Men like to feel like men and provide safety and women like to feel like women and be provided with safety. Generally speaking. The west has largely moved away from gender roles and people act like these feelings dont or shouldnt exist, but they arent exactly going to disappear. In east asia, even in countries were men and women are equal and both have careers, like in Japan, these traditions still exist and people arent afraid to expect them because the culture expects this of both men and women. Women there are no less vocal about wanting men who provide this. To them, this is normal and common sense.

I got you, they think everyone is Nigerian and that they work in the Adult Entertainment and pimp Japanese girls.

@@mikloridden8276 lmfaoooooooooooooo

For real... they mostly just think the continent is poor. There's very little interest unless they're a business man, interested in surfing or a world traveler.

I don’t think it will be bad opinion but ifnyou ask Chinese people they are racist to Africans. I went on Chinese twitter by switching location and they were calling black people dogs and ugly and stuff.

I'm not Asian but I'll give an answer from myself, (an Irish person.) I personally think that you guys are really pretty, I'd want to learn more about different African culture and possibly visit somewhere in Africa. Most Irish people only think of them as hard working and great for jobs like in companies and stuff, though (that or they're racist idiots)

So I guess I am not from that "most" you are talking about. Personally I disgaree with what you just said.

@@Nope991 You said it yourself. I said "most" not "all".

@@frogpaste Yes but as I said I disagree with your statment. I don't think the most part is true in the first place.

@@Nope991 Well, I could be wrong. But in my 33 years of being an American, I can honestly say most people *I've* met would rather date someone who speaks English than learn another language in order to date someone.

@@frogpaste Oh ok if that is what you meant then I will agree with you. I thought that you meant if an American dates a foreigner he/she is likely not to speak that foreign language even though the American decided to become a partner with a foreign. I am sorry I understood you wrongly.

The reason they used communication instead of the native Japanese word might be because English is trendy over there and they're probably just trying to fit in by using loan words :)

Bruh, Eastern Europe is not part of the West. It's literally in the name.

@@TomorrowWeLive For Asians it is wtf? eastern europe is still Europe, and by "western" they usually refer towhite people.

@@TomorrowWeLive Most of Europe is considered Western. There are a few countries in that group referred to as "Eastern Europe" although they're technically "Western," like Poland, Latvia, Lithuania, and Slovakia.

@@TomorrowWeLive The West is referred to be North America and Europe aka "first world countries" from the west.

I agree, I wonder where he got that perception from. I think they also think about Spain, Russia and France when mentioning Europe. Even my mom, she doesn't know Japanese culture at all but she was assured and more relaxed when I was living with a Japanese person as an exchange student.

ur intp?

@@333DOT. Yup. (: Are you?

Commend you to see beyond the media narratives of the Russia -Ukraine- US crisis.

@@intpleb4206 yes

yes, since Putin has invaded Ukraine the media is trying to make us all hate and disgust every russian, wanting us to see them the same as we see Putin.

It's not about intimidation, it's about fulfilling gender roles in the relationship, which actually feels good. A feminine woman in need of protection is simply more attractive, that's all there is to it.

@@_Lumiere_ I 'll keep my opinion about gender roles to myself. Once you start liking /loving someone many things disappear from your mind and lose the importance you thought they had. P. S. Having a man around, be it as a friend or a BF, does make a woman feel safer though. Most creeps give up when they see there's a boy with you, so yeah that part of the "gender roles" I agree with.

@@dis4497 They never leave your subconscious and that becomes more apparent over time. The west has a tendency to deny gender differences in how we feel attraction as well as how we are in relationships, choosing rather think that we are more or less the same. Japanese culture, while being quite modern and progressive in the sense that they have a dating culture and women have careers, still sees gender roles as common sense and both men and women seek their equivalent counterpart in this regard. These roles arent just social constructs, they are literally how people feel innately. That's why you can never change the fact that men will generally be more attracted to feminine women in need of protection and no amount of chalking it up to "intimidation" will make men become naturally more attracted to "tough and strong" women instead.

So I see you a lot in the comments repeating the same things.I’d say it’s a waste of time on your behalf.a lot of the things you say are strictly societal implications and preceptions of gender that have been created by humans to oppress other humans.they are not biological in any way let’s just say it at that.if so then “masculine” women wouldn’t exist.Japan is a patriarchal society they don’t treat their women with an ounce of respect in fact they’re considered 2nd class citizens so I wouldn’t be surprise that Japanese men meet women who have been raised in a non gender conforming way and are able to be their own person and develop their own traits and call them intimidating I mean they say the same thing about Japanese women who are blood type A. men like women who are self sufficient and that is a traditionally a masculine trait yes men do like “masculine women” even tho I don’t think being a a self sufficient women makes you a completely masculine bei just like how being nurturing is a feminine trait both sexes need those traits to be functions productive healthy humans .the idea of feminine and masculine are broad terms that’s can encompass alot of things then just how you’re thinking of them and how you apply it.

@@hagonistheman7880 i quite frankly don’t care.if you lose breath and die that’s your problem.

I agree with u it is chemistry that works best between couples. I’m from America never get a chance to really hear anyone from Greece. Ty

Yes. Japanese CULTURE is popular in the west. But the vast majority of western women wouldn’t even consider dating an Asian man due to stereotypes, beauty standards, etc. Not only that, Asians in Europe face heavy overt discrimination. Especially since COVID

@@stompstompstomp9394 well,if most of the western women wouldn't even consider dating Asian men, that's great news for the rest of us who find them gorgeous and want to date them! As for the discrimination issue, to me it's very clear that those who judge people according to their colour or race even in the century we live in,should have their psychological issues checked as soon as possible!!!

@@shizukagozen777 I agree with the first part but the main reason why most western women refuse to date Asian men is mainly due to stereotypes such as Asian men having small pps, being shorter than other races, smaller in stature, physically inferior, feminine, studious n nerdy, etc. Yes, things like kpop definitely did sort of change the image of Asian men, but for the most part a lot of western women have this negative image of them. And sometimes, kpop reinforces the stereotype of Asian men being feminine. Hell, even a lot of westernized Asian WOMEN refuse to date Asian men. Asian men are also statistically considered to be the LEAST desirable for most women, while white men are the most desirable. You can look it up for yourself. Although I appreciate your optimism, this is just the reality.

@@stompstompstomp9394 What are you talking about? K-pop singers and Japanese Drama actors are quite popular in Occidental countries and considered attractive by a lot of women.

I would also like to know if Japanese people believe in reincarnation?

@@cosmicoraclestarot yes they believe if you live a good life, you have a great second life

@@Joshuu333 amazing! I think that’s a totally fair way to think of life!

i've learn from my japanese teacher that the shameless relative to sex activities like love hotel or other comes from the fact, that japan didn't grown up in christian value like chastity or others.

@@etistyle96 I grew up in a Christian home but I am not a Christian. I found that Christian’s have a very judgemental outlook towards others which really made me not want to be a Christian….every religion has something within it that you might call shameless, at the end of the day, we are all human. And we all make choices.

I get what you mean, as an Aussie guy with Indian parents, and having attended a Greek Orthodox school, both cultures are very hands-on The positive side of that is that its rare to feel left out or unwanted

Just not to you, maybe.

@@Nonviableaccount mad incel

Agreed, I have seen many such relationships and I'm actually the result of one (Russian and Bengali). The universal predictor for success seems to be at least one party basically investing a lot and assimilating into their partner's culture.

Agreed, it does take a lot of work mostly in the form of learning to make concessions. My partner and I are from two different cultures. It took a lot of us learning to understand why different cultures approach the same thing differently and not just go the easy route of making fun or refusing to try it. My partner used to be extremely stubborn and would out of fear of trying my culture, put it down. It wasn't until he got older that he realised what he was missing out on. For me, it was learning more about his culture, being with the family, etc. that I gained an understanding. This came in handy when I had to explain or set rules with my in-laws of what I couldn't do as they might expect. Since I understood their culture, I knew how to explain it in an understanding way. It's been over a decade and only one family member of his still doesn't wish to understand my culture, but I've learned to just go around them. The rest do and include me, so I'm good with that.

@@TheKa89 interesting, may I ask what your two cultures are?

@@_Lumiere_ no worries, his is African American (Louisiana, U.S.) and mine is Métis (Alberta/Ontario, CA). There is a great amount of presumption by other u.s. citizens that African Americans don't have a distinct culture, but there definitely is once you spend enough time to learn about it. It typically is downplayed or looked down upon, similar to mine. Ironically though, I speak and use more French than he does.

Very well said.

Exactly. I used to be bullied for being shy and always trying to help people. It stopped when I became colder and more egoistic. (,:

A LOTS of filipinas/filipinos (who are from the SEA) are married to the japanese in the 80s so yes, this will be an interesting topic