What every MAN and WOMAN needs to know about BEING SINGLE 

I rather be single then end up losing my life to one of these crazy men

I would rather remain single than to enter into a toxic situation with a man who refuses to accept and appreciate my value. As a God-fearing woman, I can no longer invest in a man who doesn't share similar faith or beliefs. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

As a 25 year old single man I absolutely love your content! You speak the biblical truth and it’s very helpful. I’m focused on embracing my singleness and becoming the godly man my future wife looks and prays for. I’m working on my walk with God as well as my physical body (eating healthy and exercising) and I’m also embracing who I am. I’m no longer afraid to admit I’m still a virgin and I’ve learned that it’s good to have money and other materialistic things but character, morals and values is what makes a man. Keep up the great work!💯

Being single is necessary bcuz it allows for a chance to develop and grow.

Single = safe for a woman

I’ve been single by choice since 2012, and while it’s been tough, the current headspace of people encourages me to be patient. I’ve turn down women who were interested in me not because I wasn’t ready but because their character, values and beliefs don’t align.

I'm too old for theses games. I'm staying single.

We need more men of God like you on the internet 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Wonderful. Amen! Happily married for 20 years with 3 daughters, praying for their husbands, after choosing God, the single most important decision in their life! Amen! Lord bless this channel

How old is this man? He seems so young yet so wise.

Being single is our only option these days. 😢

Single and no sex is better, don’t have sex with no man if you’re single

When guys say they r single, it means they're looking around, dating around or sleeping around without commitment with multiple girls.

Respect to this brother ✊🏾 I always tell people the reason why dating is so bad because they don’t put god first and everybody so quick to scroll through social media than picking up a bible.

I was single for two years almost 3 and coming out the world i was healed, then i got super lonely decided to go on a dating site, and i was so blinded by the loneliness that i ignored all the red flags!!

Men will waste their own time on women they don’t respect

I really needed this video. As a 30 year old woman who wants marriage this was the message that I needed. My parents are now starting to turn up the pressure for marriage and I have no prospects in sight. I just don’t want just choose any old thing that would be more harm than good. I want a god fearing provider husband who has an excellent character. I’m working on myself in the meantime and remaining abstinent

Absolutely right! The world today is upside down and depleted of good values.

I'm so proud of you young brother. You get it completely. I'm single and working on my trauma. No more drama in my life if you got beef your problem not mine 😆😆 not about dealing with other people issues no more Narcs I'm out peace ✌️

I felt like I was in church sitting in the amen corner waving my fan. Preach His Word! 🙌

I really appreciate using the scriptures! I jot them down so I can go back and read them over

It is better to wait on God for the right healthy relationship than to jump into bad relationships for fear of being alone. (Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you. Matthew 6:33)

He is not lying about his theory! That has been my experience...

You’ve been going in brother! 💯💯 Love the scripture reference to back up your message.. I totally agree with your theory & it really has helped me put this single season into perspective! One of the fruits of the spirit is patience!

I know men who are 40-50, who still would risk having autistic children due to their unhealthy sperm. They’re told that they have all the time in the world whereas women lack time. Therefore he will waste your time. Don’t take him seriously unless a wedding ring is involved.

The truth is a lot of ppl are single because they need to do the internal work. Someone who is healed or vibrating on a higher level will not connect with someone on a lower caliber so ppl end up coming across trash individuals. You have to mirror what you want. You cannot want someone who is something you are not 1st to yourself. I say this as an engaged woman. Work on yourselves first and you’ll start attracting higher quality potentials. Also, a lot of ppl project a lot based on past hurt and that is a TURN OFF to any woman/man who has worked on themselves. No one wants to tear down a wall they did not participate in building and that’s what I saw a lot of when I was single.

We need this Godly guidance and reminders. Thank you. Great video!

You really ate with the clothes analogy!!! 😂

Great video, bro. This is something that a lot of young men and women need to hear.

Hey Schumake.. I've been subscribed for a year now and I'm so happy I found your content and videos. Thank you so much for bringing up the men (and women) that do "nice/kind" things for others hoping to gain something from it. Men do that to me A LOT to the point where now I refuse to accept anything from any man. It's always the deception they have when they do things for me (usually unasked for) and then want to use that ish to blackmail shmex out of me. I currently live under my landlord who attempted this shit with me last year in July.. and have felt uncomfortable ever since plus when I rejected him which at first I had done so in the nicest most mindful way possible.. he still got mad anyways and has been playing them mind games ever since. After he started neglecting my rights as a tenant AFTER I rejected him.. that's when I became rude about it.. cussing him out and straight up letting him know that his personality is unattractive and his physical traits don't help. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Wouldn't have said that if he had emotional control and consideration especially since he is a landlord and sexual interactions WERE NOT apart of the rental agreement. Can you make a video talking about these types of men? Why are they so aggressively entitled to younger women (my landlord is 40+ closer in age to 50 and I'm 28) especially middle aged, Mr.Potato Head looking men who think because they spent THEIR whole youth working on their materialism that they deserve this 10/10 woman.. it's like great you have a house, you have a car, you have a pool, a good paying job/career and while it's clear to see you worked on your materialism but what have you ever done for your mentality? What are you doing for your physical health as well? Because a lot of 40+ men may have great jobs and materialistic things but a good portion of them are overweight and don't put effort into things like grooming an unkept beard.. or fixing to lost weight.. so in those senses you haven't fully worked on yourself as a whole.. you worked on your surface level shit only. I don't want that either.

Very wise young man..

Man you are wise beyond your years like Solomon. This was a heavy topic. And I'm going through this process.

Another great convo! Thanks Shumake!

This was good!

Great video, beginning to end 👏🏽👏🏽

Yes! Knowing what stage people are in is CRITICAL! Excellent video Shumake

Preach Shumake! Thank you for that word!

Wow!! You nailed it!!!

Excellent advice. I was 👂👂

Damn, I needed to hear that, wise words were said, great advices given on this one. 👌

Amen thank you for your word today, i needed that. Yes I want a God fearing relationship with men who love God first. God bless you

Great video thank you

Thx for the advice king

didn’t know i needed this until i did 🙏🏼 Thank you

This is sooooo goood!

Wow, what a word. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!

Helped me truly realize.. I'm not as ready as I thought for marriage.. I'm not content with where I'm at in life... Still focused on big goals

Thank you for this message!!! This was very informative!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Very well said and explained

Peace is my first priority!!🙏

This was some realness

EXCELLENT commentary, Sir! 💖✨💖✨💖

Be quick to fire is golden advice ☝🏽!!! I have been saved from much chaos in my life by that method- I don’t play, and will let you go while it’s going good 😅!

HalleluYAH, great episode. 📖

Fantastic video!

this is an amazing video ! keep doing what you doing

This is so encouraging getting to hear such content from a man.

Alot of marriage minded people are not attracted to marriage minded people. They dont want that conversation though

Amen

Thank you sooo much for this. God bless you & your family. And what I love about your approach no matter what the topic is… 1 it’s always ground in Godly principles. 2 when I type “red pill” in the search engine, your channel is one of the 1st to come up. This is a good way to bring people lost in that world back to God & His way. Thank you 🙏🏽

This man made this video for me.

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Thank you for making this video Shumake, I particularly love your ability to connect practical life and the Word of God, it makes it so much easier to follow, and understand what exactly needs be done! God's word really is our manual for a fruitful life indeed!! I pray we all read and meditate more in it, and allow God to lead us to the people that are best for us and we are best for. When you were talking about your male friend... it brought to mind someone dear to me, who wants to improve and change his life, but does not seem to see that having sex with other women itself, is A) hindering his progress, keeping him stuck in a vicious cycle to nowhere better, and B) he is also destroying all the women he has sex with AND ... people don't want to admit to this, but for every person one has sex with, one is also being poured on stuff from each one of those women... SO, making it incredibly worse for everyone. Sex is not free, is not an entertainment.... there is more than just the physical in the act itself... you don't even know what you are getting into nor what is being poured into you! Looking forward to your next video Shumake, until then, may God guide us, protect us and shine His light through us so that many more may be lead to the truth, to Him who created us and knows what we need and when! The one who loves us unconditionally!!

Exactly, but it’s likely more like 9 out of 10.

Hey Shumake can you PLEASE address spiritual strongholds??! Everyone always has one sin they struggle the most with. Give advice if you can on overcoming strongholds

The more I hear about males, the less I like them.😌🍷🤷🏾‍♀️

Slow to hire, quick to fire! ❤

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She finds 😮

And he sure was

As much as I might have cared for someone I was always mindful of am I truly ready for a child, is he really safe, if anything happens to me would he step up as a father. These few men were my boyfriends at the time and even the one I was ready to commit to I still had some doubts

Some people are never ready because they never do the work on everything that needs work on. Not easy but possible. I don’t judge people but I can tell that many people don’t see themselves becoming disciples and marrying a disciple. That’s the best possible odds of a value oriented relationship. It takes discipline on every level , EVERY LEVEL. It just takes one loose nut and it all crumbles. It’s never too late, go to work! 👍

What age do you advice an individual in this society to start dating. Is 20 too young? I see many people saying to start at 25 and to focus on building your finances, mind, and other valuable relationships until then. Is this realistic?

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Women should not "find" men. Also, on both sides. When a person shows you that they are not interested in you, leave them alone. People are not playing hard to get. They're just not interested. And they're just "tolerating" you. Or using you as a placeholder.

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You make the best videos, a true Man of God. I’m starting to want to force myself to not be such a righteous woman of God with morals. It’s so hard for us in this world. We always finish last. I am a women of God, but it seems like it doesn’t get you anywhere in this world, especially with the opposite sex.

It seems just doing right by people or just in general is so foreign to sooo many. I'm not saying I'm the poster child for Christianity; but I still try to live my life with integrity, morals, common good. This seems to be so uncommon I'm wondering am I crazy. And this is during a big age of late 30s!

Thank. You. My. Brother. You. Are. What. Young. Bm. Need. After. All. All. The. Foolery. That. Has. Been. Pushed. Keep. Pushing. God's. Word. These. Words Will. Certainly. Change. Young. Bm. Way. Of. Thinking About. Bw. Along. With. The. Disrespect. As. Well. Thank. You. For.. Common. Sense. Logic.

Read John 3 about Jesus saying we must be born again spiritually by the Holy Spirit. That happens after we call upon the Name of the Lord Jesus to forgive us of our sins and save us. GOD draws us to to Jesus. The fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22,23) grows in us as we are nourished by and submit to (through obedience to) the Word of GOD. Our flesh cannot cause the fruit of the Spirit to operate in or through our lives. GOD bless you! Keep serving the LORD!