We have entire generations now of men being raised by single mothers and female teachers (women make up 76% of all K-12 teachers), and yet outcomes are getting worse and worse for young men, especially black men. What do fem-in-ists blame for this phenomenon? *Toxic Masculinity* Unbelievable.
@@persona-non-grata What does female teachers have to do with it? Schools can’t control the fact that black men are not racing to become teachers. I know plenty of people in education. They are always looking for black male teachers but none are applying. They actually have lots of programs that will help pay for education because so many schools want black male teachers. The numbers are just not there. I barely had black teachers growing up period...so it makes me happy when I see black teachers in general. Also, the charter school situation needs to be addressed. We do have a charter school in my city that is just for K-8 black boys with black male teachers and it’s awesome to see the difference in how the black boys perform compared to the other schools.
2:17 "... I get into relationships with men that I don't wanna submit to". I hope that as more ladies watch this content, they start to realize that there's no "Want to submit". You're either a submissive woman, or you're not. You ladies would not accept a similar rhetoric coming from a man. Imagine if a man said "I'm generally a passive follower but once I meet the right woman, I'm gonna turn on my masculinity and become a leader". It sounds absolutely absurd because it is. A man doesn't just wake up one day and goes "You know what? Today I'll be a leader". A man becomes a leader through training... either by a good father who teaches him how to be a man from a young age, or by mentors who shape and mold him. A leader naturally leads with every woman he dates, whether she deserves it or not, because that's just how he is. It's his role as a man and he plays that role without even thinking. Same goes for a submissive woman. A submissive woman is submissive in EVERY relationship. She can't help it. It's who she is, it's how she was raised, it's her whole existence. Y'all got a lot of work to do.
Indeed he’s really trying so he needed her to see it from another mans perspective They won’t last long because he already sees the writing on the wall
Kevin a real one for this one. If anyone tries to disparage him, all they need is to watch this one. He’s the only person I see in the world rn who is fighting for our young black boys and the future of black men.
The Israelite teachers are the only ones fighting completely and fully. But this is def better than the steady diet of 100% bs most of our people are fed. Even then, the things that he gets right are the things that all come from the bible.
@@J-Hue jewish leaders are fighting for young black men? Jewish leaders generally push liberalism onto black communities not conservative or religious values
I'm a guy in my late 20's. I have 2 older sisters and 7 female cousins around my age. They all came from households where the women are clearly in charge. Thinking back this was not always the case. The guys used to be more assertive but over time they have been beaten down with constant arguments and little comments. Now all my female sisters and cousins have obvious issues sustaining a relationship any more than a few months, a couple have eating disorders/anorexia, a couple have multiple cats and they are all still heavily reliant on their parents for support on anything you might deem an "adult activity" such as car maintenance, managing finances, managing legal disputes and finding somewhere to live. As the only guy of all the people under 30 in my family I am so glad that I had some sense and noticed this trend in my mid-teens. I am in control of my life, earning good money and haven't fallen for the many traps out there in the dating world. I have been dating in the hopes of finding someone with a real long term mindset but it really is difficult to find a realistic lady. I will not surrender my freedom and authority for the sake of a relationship.
Yep, the irony in these girls is just plain miserable. You mean to tell that you'll get knocked up, but then decide that you should have standards all of a sudden.🤷🤦
Kevin's channel is about to explode in 2021 as more women come to his channel. When they start to see he's right, it's a wrap. Even the hater content creators will have to listen.
I agree...I’m one of those women who came here because I thought he was rude. However instead of judging I watched more of his videos. I realized that he’s right about a lot of things and he’s out here holding women accountable for their actions. I’ve learned so much from him and I know I’ll be a better woman for it.
So true. I listen to Tom Leykis and every single woman that calls in has the I.Q. of a goldfish. Not one can string two intelligent sentences together. It is always "I feel like..." After a while they resort to lie and insults when they have been outwitted.
@@lolaajayi9449I agree it’s both men and women. I disagree that’s it’s the educational system. Your parents are supposed to be your first teachers. There are a lot of people that haven’t been doing their jobs.
I agree man, and the cringe weird snarky laughs they give when Kevin catches them slipping. These ladies have kids that are almost adults and they’re acting like kids
One of my friends had a mother like this and he turned out to be weak AF when times got hard. Women who complain about men the most make the men they complain about the most.
Because women know they’re out of line because betas (like the child’s father) allow her to get away with things because of a pretty face. She knows she’s outta line & wants to be put on her place by an alpha.
He ain’t got no choice they have a child. And the next man has to worry about if he’s still taping that in the car as they conjoin in regards to their son 😂. Single mothers is a whole mess.
When he said women that moved like her raise weak men, that hit home my mother moved like her and I became a weak man and I had to go through a lot to develop back bone towards women.
Two big problems in today's society: 1) Too many women become mothers before they get married. 2) Too many women want to be married but do not want to be wives.
Biggest problem: Too many men without standards who deal with women on those terms instead of being upright leaders who push the messages that women need to hear to be more wife material.
We were born alone. So technically we all die alone. Couples don't die together and single women unmarried without children are not only happier then women married with children but live longer happier free lives on their own terms.
Both comments above me make no sense, 1. "die alone" means you live a lonely life of regret up to your death and 2. as far as I've seen single childless women are not happier than other women living in different circumstances.
@@mimi11011 statistically they are happier. I suggest you research first instead of just responding. This is why millennials are not getting married nor having children. Toys R Us went out of business remember? Why do you think they went out of business? Millennials have higher intelligence which is why they are living happier lives.
@@goddessinfinity1 toys r us went out of business because of amazon. I wonder how much education you have by the nonsense you're talking, this is someone with a 5 year education asking you this. Millennials like myself are not choosing to have less children than any other generation, we are having them later in age.
Your "Goat" won't go toe to toe with an intelligent women,PhD lady was a worthy challenge but he cut her off continuously.Dont be a sheep,call him out.
The unmitigated gall she had to say in front of her ex, "I want to have my cake and eat it too." The universal womyn's nuclear meltdown if the roles were reversed would be a sight to behold.
I honestly feel like she called in delusionally thinking that she would "show him", and kevin would take her side... she called him her "fiance" and he added in "ex fiance"
Ms Kir Cor, you are right he is,the same way Mrs Ali was doing. If you have not already take a look at this RU-vid video entitled, (Shahrazad Ali) on How Feminism Destroyed The US Black Family.
Honestly think this was one of Kevin's best conversations. He cut through the bullshit and called out this woman for prioritising her cake over her boy. Master at work.
She’s in the car with the same type of man that she doesn’t respect. Procreated with him yet honestly believes that she (alone) somehow is NOT raising their son to be exactly like him. He’s chuckling in the background like a schoolgirl. She’s taking the entire exchange as a joke. Enjoy your cake miss.
She will enjoy her cat and watching Oprah reruns to remind her that she a strong masculine women who deserves to empower herself and thus the reward is she lives unhappy and alone after her toxic personality scares everyone away
The guy in the car told her to refer to him as her EX fiance. Probably told her some version of what Kevin is telling her now for years. Listen, he's clapping and laughing because kevin is preaching to the choir. Do y'all come on this channel to gain insight or just trash people? I really with the discussions in the comments weren't so... idk woman - hatey.
@@bronjesamuel1054 Exactly! He clearly doesn't care because he probably already knew how the call was going to go. I bet he had her make the call so Kevin could lay her out.
Don’t think about it. Just do it. It’s already engrained in you. Just keep you head up high, walk with a positive attitude, and allow your femininity to show. Don’t forget to smile and enjoy yourself as you move. I am currently reading “The purpose of Woman” by Myles Munroe and lawd… it’s gonna break barriers. I think you will enjoy it. Just know it’s gonna challenge your ideology because it’s Kingdom faith based. Get ready. Your journey continues. I’m rooting for you in everything sis.
Had that with my ex. But hey she had 1 divorce under her belt and her mother is on her 5th husband. No fuckin way I was marrying her. Non legal, prenump life partners. She didn't buy it. Back on the carousel for her.
Her: "I'm with my son's father" Her Ex: "Say ex-fiancé" 🤦🏾♂️ Damn, i just started the video and she already tried to throw him under the bus...glad he checked her.
Whether it’s fair or not, him being a baby daddy probably doesn’t hurt his relationship prospects (especially since he seems to not be a deadbeat). Meanwhile baby mamas are competing on legendary difficulty in the relationship game. He’s probably enjoying this more than we can imagine
Shaun Hensley yeah I still know baby daddies who seem to get women, no problem. Women probably wouldn’t even care if they were deadbeats, except for the existential fear that they’d do it to them, too. Hence why deadbeat dads get a big downgrade in their eyes. But any negative things that can come from a man being a baby daddy is balanced out by the fact that women are naturally drawn to men whom other women have already decided are fit for reproducing with.
When I was younger, I had hope for our community. As I grow older I realize that everyone cannot be saved. Not because they lack the ability to do better but because they don’t want to do better. It’s at the point where I feel those of us that want better can’t care more than those we want to help. Salute to Kevin for trying his best. That’s all you can do.
The words of wisdom by this guy, are incredible. I’m a 28-year-old single white male, everything he says basically doesn’t pertain to anything in my life. Because he’s always giving advice to mostly black female callers who wants to talk to him about their problems. Yet, I am able to understand so much of what he says about life because he’s not only able to articulate what he says very well, but the things he says hold a lot of weight because of how true and accurate they are.
"Accidental" children become a burden to the community, by no fault of their own.. If you aren't "ready" for marriage, how can you be ready to raise a child?!
In the US its not possible to have an accident. If she wanted to she could abort therefore it's not an accident but a conscious choice on the womans part.
You are so correct. In my 62 years, I've always wondered why its easier to find a woman for sex than it is to find someone who is serious about being in a relationship.
They are conditioned to believe the only thing they have to provide is wet box. So they don't work on anything else. They have traded their femininity for sexuality. Then they wonder why they stay on that carousel 🎠
Dude I is a Fe-man! He though Kevin was going to be on some "well you better get back with you're Finance, that's your best chance" Instead he sat there and looked like a super Fe-man! She said out her mouth "I want my cake and to eat it too". He on call still driving around and ish, for a peace of gushy every now and then SMH! She let's Tyrone's smash and she kept it 100%, dude a fool for even wanting to hit still let alone rock-wit-her!
This generation will not change. It's too ingrained in them. Most of these women call in to challenge this man, not learn from him. You see it in their smile/smirk. They are lost. This is for the next generation of boys growing into men. We have to help Kevin by raising our sons to get better. Our generation will have a few victories here and there, but its for our sons and grandchildren to save the community.
@@Will-qq1ij learn what from him, and I'm not trying to be funny, I'm asking a serious question...collectively black men are the only group of men who are second to their female counterparts in terms of education, gainful employment, entrepreneurship and earnings, marriage has not been beneficial to black women who are married to black men, I was just reading a study today that shows that black single women are more financially stable than when they are married, meaning black men don't add value to their women, they bring their financial status down, so again, I'm not trying to be a smart ass or be condescending, but what is it that, collectively do black women stand to learn from any black man
@@marimarielove What I find disappointing is that you can't or won't see the design in the study you read. One reason for what you read being true is to destroy the black family is to destroy its masculinity. Ours is the only culture where the family is the lowest not only to other cultures but to its own female counterpart. So no, there is nothing to learn from us.
@@ElPresidenteKhan LOL I had to google what both 304s and Cheshire cats are, I'm dead. And facts, that type of smile is usually a passive-aggressive defense mechanism
"I don't wanna submit to those guys! A guy has to be worthy of my submission." THEN IT'S NOT SUBMISSION! Lady, learn the definition of submission: to yield, to be obedient when u don't want to, when don't like what's asked of u, when u don't know why. ANYONE can be obedient when they WANT to, when they LIKE what's asked of them or when they know WHY! But to be a person who's learnt to be submissive: That's special, even rare. (p.s. even men have to learn submission because we all have bosses, authorities, elders and God to answer to)
Sure. She wants a beta male she can punk around and use as a mobile ATM. Submission requires responsibility. And a woman that carries before she marries clearly has trouble making the right choices.
She has contempt for Men in general but she will knowingly choose one who she knows she has no future with and then be on social media complaining trying to round up the “I Hate Men Brigade.”
Better then a lot on this show, but I also thinking, you're simpin' man... ;) But I get it - she's hot. One of her problems, though, to control "the flesh"...
@@andreasrademacher5715 bro what are you talking about? Simpin? I don't think you even know the definition of simpin but to each is own. I'll respectfully agree to disagree agree with your comments.
Kevin you read these women. That is experience talking. You are right. I avoided women like her all through college. My wife was smart she saw my value and immediately submitted to me. Think of all the women that thought I was too masculine and chauvinistic. My wife now lamps at home homeschooling with savings accounts and investment portfplios because she doesn't spend her own money. She uses her MBA to serve me and her family.
This is the type of woman YOU wanted. I am a wife that doesn't want to stay home. I hate the word submissive. I like the word respect. I respect a man that respects me. I will support his desires in life. However, I except that does the SAME for me. I am not less of a human. Just saying....
@@rhondazubas7589. Nobody said you were less than a human and you are right I did marry the type of woman who was good for me. I deliberately chose my wife and not someone else.
I am noticing more women are sending me messages about my responses. I dont know you women I comment on the topics. You can believe what you want. I always had strong views on what I wanted in a woman and I got it. I would not waste my time with a woman who did not understand my take on these things.
@@rhondazubas7589 some people enjoy acts of service. It doesn’t make them less than and that lady sounds like she’s well Loved and cared for. We should all be so lucky
He's the man with the plan. He chose the best team member who would fit into his plan, not to subjugate her, but because he knew what it takes to win as a family and husband and wife. Leave this man alone. And BTW, every team has one captain. Every institution has one lead. Any other narrative leads to chaos and the eventual dissolution of the said institution. Secondly, men don't enjoy working harder than they have to so that they can support their families, but we do it and submit our resources to our families. So yes, the submission must occur on both ends.
@Anthony Simmons, why are you troll spamming that in almost every other comment? The *context* at hand is specifically about a woman who explicitly admitted that she's for these streets because, quote, "the flesh is weak" ?
@@oxossindamanso6854 haha, I can hear it already. "What does your husband think about that?" Her "Well, yeah but a real man would..." *slap and salute*
“I will submit to someone worth submitting to” Imagine if men said “I will provide for someone worth providing for” “I will protect someone worth protecting” Rather than just doing that for whoever his woman is bc that’s a man’s job
@@Solitaire427 I think for the same reason she isn't submitting until he is worth submitting too. He already answered your question in his comment above, "because it's the right thing to do." Now try and apply that to the woman in the video, what is the difference between her answer "I will when he deserves it" vs "because it is the right thing to do". Where does each mind set start at and end with?
Brae, I don't see anything wrong with any of those statements. Everybody isn't worth submitting to. Everybody doesn't deserve to be provided for by you, etc
This lady’s whole demeanor aggravated me. She deserved a much needed reality check. She somehow didn’t realize that she’s a grownup now with a whole child she’s responsible for taking care of🤦🏿♂️
"I could never raise a weak man" That's the mistake alot of ppl make...and ppl don't realize that strong ppl get the least amount of check ups... It's better to understand that your child has the potential to be weak....so that way you put time and effort to arm them to be as strong as possible...
The whole “I’ll submit to whoever I deem worthy” shit is such a feminist response because in this situation they deem whose worthy at the drop of a hat and constantly can move the goal post when they feel like it. This is why women hate concrete stats and facts and love the realm of wishy washy things that can’t be nailed down. Facts are yes or no. There’s no area of confusion with that which is why women hate facts and stats. There’s no area to deceive and be wishy washy with a yes or no straight up n down answer.
What MSM outlet would give Kevin (or any other male) his own TV Show, to promote Men’s Issues? Ain’t gonna happen, an entire nation of Women would be Triggered out of their tiny minds.
Exactly! 💥 It stems from many modern women not being disciplined enough to *own* responsibility/accountability, or 𝘢𝘥𝘮𝘪𝘵 when they’re at fault. It’s much easier to *pretend* you don’t want what you don’t *qualify* for…
Truth Bomb Drop!!! You are focused on you and your cake, not your child. If that does not echo through women for eternity. I don't know what will. This is why I love Kevin. He can see the truth in seconds and dive right to the heart of it.
If a man embraces his Ex or his lady talking to another man in front of him, he is REALLY done with that chick, it’s so bad that her talking to another man in front him doesn’t even bother him, in fact he’s happy about it...This chick most likely put him through so much stress and strife, he’s happy she’s talking to anybody but him lol
Lying about having an "ex-fiance." You can hear "my son's father" in the background saying, "Say ex-fiance." That doesn't increase her status. She's still a baby's mama!
@@summerbreeze553 is sex in relationships based on “who agrees” to eat or actually a flowing concept that is part of the relationship? 🤦♀️ men need to stop thinking that sex is some sort of prize of the relationship or outside . If you think Like that don’t be surprised if you can’t develop a healthy relationship and become bitter towards women who just doesn’t want to be with you.
@@ShadyShard interesting. There is a lot of men who use the silent treatment , manipulative , even abusive. I still don’t think every men like this. You need to choose better the women you associate with also actually learn about her and understand her
