No need to tell everyone youre fat. You recognise that you have a problem then you need to deal with it Start going for walks more often, go swimming, eat a balanced diet. If you have a problem with binge eating then visit a doctor and get some advice. Too many people use obesity to cover up their lazyness.@Momtralife
@@reformbritain233 I can do whatever I please. No shame in being fat. I’m on Contrave with minimal results. Unless you have personally experienced this mind your own. This is meant to be educational. I know some overweight people are lazy, but I am not. I want to do things & eat right. It’s not something I can explain unless you experience it.
I found myself at my most miserable when I was at my biggest. When I lost weight and took care of myself and paid attention to what I put in my body, I felt worlds better. Started doing my makeup, dressing up, and wearing clothes that weren't baggy. This isn't self love, this is just eating yourself to death
I had this mentality during COVID when I gained like 60lb. It was coping, I wasn’t actually happy and had an addiction towards high calorie foods and was too weak to stop it. As a former fat person, I find it ridiculous that lots of media and modern ethics promote a high calorie/heavy lifestyle because it’s literally JUST an addiction. It’s like smoking ads where everyone knows its shitty to smoke but people do it anyways. I believe everyone should be accepted no matter the weight, but I also believe that posts like these are deluded and the creators should take an honest look into themselves.
People can do w/e they want. as long as they"re not a danger to others (like drug addict who can be violent ). As long as they"re harming only themselves who cares really ? And if young people are taking bad influence from these kind of videos, its their parents job to prevent them from watching youtube in the first place
As a fat person I told myself… You have two options, you can try to lose weight, or you will be like THESE people. Losing weight is not fun, but it’s better than this.
There is nothing we cannot achieve with high determination to work. If you care about your health, it is never too late. For a while, I was eating constantly and when I grew up, I realized that this was a bad thing. Please stay away from those disgusting foods and be kind to your body.
I'm still a bit jealous ngl, I lost a lot of weight and I'm skinny but still ugly...i miss the joy of eating anything with no guilt, that's why i envy these people, they might not have health but i don't think by relationship with food isn't very healthy either. I'm always either starving or binging cause i have no time to cook good meals or buy actual fresh healthy food, everything either tastes poorly or is very highly processed and calorie packed so I can't even feel full without exceeding the calorie limit lol life's just like this we can never win, all that's left for us is to pick our struggles
Fat people who are like this just prevents criticizm or just doesnt listen to criticisms at least. Body positivity is just ass and it ruins everyones perception of what a healthy person is.
Girl accepting ur fat and not doing anything about is really dangerous. Being fat isn’t just “ being big or large” it’s ABOUT HOW UNHEALTHY YOUR BODY IS! You can die from being overweight! You might lose the ability to give birth, have periods, walking, running, sitting, standing, stuff people NEED. If your eating habits continue it could mean it’s a disorder and you should get that checked out. NEVER give up because you accept you’re too lazy to do things. PLEASE get the help you need!
bro a skinny girl could eat the exact same things and y’all wouldn’t be going after her! she’s fine with how she looks and is promoting body positivity chill
Nothing positive about health problems associated with being overweight. These are the same people going into hospitals and doctors offices complaining about heart problems, back pain and knee pain.
I find it crazy that when we see a person with alcohol or drug addiction its all about quitting. we never say to them 'hey just love yourself if it makes you happy you do you' but the moment we see fat people with food addictions we are encouraging them to carry on with their addictions.
Bc food is a necessity to stay alive and we instinctively want to eat more of it. Food sex money it’s all addictive but also a necessity and very different from real drugs
If I were you I would : * Add lettuce, tomato to my sandwich. * Add tomato, spinach to my pizza. * Eat noodle with cabbage, carrot, spring onion, tomato. Vegetables and fruits are good for your health.
I was fat for decades. It catches up to you eventually. Aching knees and high blood sugar. Staring diabetes in the face I lost 50 pounds. It's not easy to keep it off but occasional treat meals snd eating out are making it doable.
so y’all get off to the fact that you found your path before others, “wait until she gets… haha” sounds pretty sadistic to me😂 who cares, of course you cared for your health but ngl even if you were fat and unhealthy i wouldn’t give a shit
@@medina4926 it's facts though. I don't come from a priveleged background where i can afford medication for the tons of health problems i would get due to being overweight. I also have my family to support. I know someone who has the same mindset as the lady in the video. The worst part is he has family and now he's suffering from major health problems and insurance isn't enough. And the children have to take whatever job they can find to gather up money for their dad. The lady in the video doesn't have a family other than her husband so i guess it doesn't matter. but if she's planning to expand the family she has to think very hard about her choices.
The problem is not if being big or not, is beautiful or not. The problem is, unfortunately, it is not healthy. Believe me struggling with weight most of my life and the older I get...well, I think you know the ending.
the older you get your weight should be stabilizing and actually declining… why are you talking out of your ass! it’s actually more healthy to maintain weight than to go thru fluctuations
@@jup1t3rsorbit You can be of course unhealthy either way. That is not the issue though here, clearly.Overweight is a massive problem of the modern society and you can twist and turn it and say what you like, it is just simply unhealthy, unfortunately. If not we would not have any health issues at all, right? And yes, of course, if you are underweight or have any other food addictions or unhealthy body types, it is not healthy either.
I was severly obesxe and pretty much in denial 110kg 165cm tall. Then I ended up in hospital with an heart attack at 33 years old. After that it took me months to recover and wasn't able to do much because I was diagnosed with extra stuff that I wasnt aware of...I was too busy defending myself saying it doesnt mean you are fat you are not healthy, I am healthy because...he he inside my body was breaking down. It is normal camon imagine carrying all day long a 60kgs bag with no breaks...if you geet winded in minutes lifting up imagine years, decades. Still I was in denial even after the heart attack, I was too scared to exercise and go on a diet...6 months after the heart attack I gained another 15 kg bringing me to 125kgs. Got rushed to hospital again with a second suspected heart attack, spent 2 weeks in hospital in bed and several weeks at home in bed. Couldn't even wipe my butt that I used to get out of breath. anyway, eventually this mentality will catch up to you. Stop watching fat influencers online, they keep you stuck where you are. Watch videos of people who released the weight and their testimonials. Obese people are not happy, please stop be in denial just to get validation so that you wont make that change. TO LOVE YOURSELF MEANS TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF REQUIRES DISCIPLINE. It is a hard work not just physical but mental, but I guarantee you when your body is going to get light your mind will also get light, those dark days, those thoughts, those tears that you shed looking in the mirror...it will be easier. THe sleep apnea, the backache, the knne pain, the varicose veins, the heart palpitations, the high blood pressure...everything gone...it doesnt matter how you got to that stage yes trauma has a lot to do with it, but it is time to let go and move on. I never write on videos like this, but what triggered me is the "I dont care..." a life wasted...if you dont care about your life yourself who will...I am here to tell you that it is possible you canrelease the weight and release that pain but do it for yourself not for others, not for the comments, not for the people, not for validation, not for family, not for love....do it for yourself, for the love you have for yourself. There is no way you want better for you. I wish you well! I wrote this as one that was like you and went through the aftermath and now I leartn to love myself from 125kgs to 60kgs
The argument here is you’re not healthy being overweight. There is no fat girl that’s healthy. Fat literally increases the risks of so many health conditions. I promise you her cholesterol levels are higher than normal for her age.
@@KGG2 then they would both deserve better.She deserves to be with someone who wants her to be healthy and have a longer life with no health complications.
@@myname-gf7ltit’s just dough w/ tomato sauce, protein, & veggies. It’s a good meal. Only way to make it unhealthy is if you slather it in saturated oils/fats.
just because he is with someone who’s bigger doesn’t mean he’s a feeder. why do people say this every single time a bigger person has a slim partner?? her husband can clearly see past her weight im so sick and tired of people calling someone a feeder just because they're with someone bigger. yall really think someone is incapable of actually loving a bigger person? just say you hate fat people instead of doing the whole "they're a feeder!!" thing.
@@ellyhaerim her husband is probably a feeder considering how small he is and how her mindset is. I’m not calling her obese but being fat and having someone support you not taking care of yourself probably means they’re a bad person. Aka he is obviously feeding her or feeding into her mindset that eating abunch and not caring is okay.
😂😂😂 --- Dude Im traumatized by how fat people eat. I have a friend who WONT STOP EATING and Im researching how fat people eat wondering if maybe its a mental disorder. My friend says hes not fat and maybe thats the problem. HE IS FAT ASF. When hes eating I try to tell him to slow down take smaller bites. He swallows food. Then he uses any excuse in the book besides admitting he has a eating problem. Today I noticed all his cookies were gone his excuse was .. If he doesnt eat them they will expire 😂💀 Then I asked him why does he stuff his mouth when eating he said its not his fault his mouth is BIG 😮😮😮😮 He also said that the burrito was TOO SMALL 😭😭😭😭😭😭 I started to try and copy how he eats but I had to stop I couldnt force food down my mouth. 😲😲😲😲🤣
It’s so dumb to me when people choose poor physical and mental health. They are oblivious to the damage that occurs over time. That’s why in US, I see people in wheelchairs at the age of 50 ridden with obesity and in my country, that’s just unheard of.
I used to be 300 lbs (now 185), and I promise you that there will be a time when you will be faced with the consequences of your choices like I was (it could be diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure, infertility etc.). The people who are criticizing your food choices are the ones that are actually concerned for you, and not the ones that are ‘yaaass kween’ing you on. Find the strength to accept that you need to make a positive change for yourself as well as your loved ones.
She’ll cry “why me” in no time. I’m working on my health as well and seeing people like this woman glorifying killing themselves is just sick. I wish you all the best!
As an ex-overweight person, I 100% agree. For me it was the immune system that went down first, I just kept getting colds and flus and yeast infections. Then I felt changes in my heart performance, just a little more exercise or a hot weather outside and my heart would start skipping beats, it was scary. Then it started taking a toll on my mental health. Countless health checks did not find what was wrong with me except that I was outside a healthy BMI range. That range is called healthy for a reason. Everyone saying otherwise is just fooling themselves, being fat is bad for you just like smoking cigarettes or drinking alcohol in excessive amounts. I lost 17 kgs, got into a BMI of 22, and those health issues disappeared.
So I'm technically obese for my height (we're the same weight), I'm almost 40, and I'm in just as good of health as I was when I weighed more, but I maxed out at 230. I hardly ever get sick, my blood pressure and blood sugar are fine and have never been abnormal. Sometimes it doesn't really affect people like you think it does.
i ran a 5k today, and yesterday i played a whole soccer game, and now i’m in my way to a volleyball game for 3 hours. i care about my health and i want to live a great life and be healthy. if you’re reading this, this is your sign to start your healthy journey.
Our bodies are so important that the Lord calls them temples of God (see 1 Corinthians 3:16-17; 6:19-20). Our bodies are holy. Because our bodies are important, our Father in Heaven wants us to take good care of them.
I feel like losing weight just to lose weight is very different from losing weight to be healthy, you shouldn't lose weight to make someone else happy or anything but at the end of the day it's your health that matters which should be your main priority.
She doesnt care about her weight, eats fast food all day. Husband: cooks vegetables in futile attempt to get her to care about her health. Dude should dump for someone less selfish and less stupid
Bro you lose weight so you don’t end up in the grave 40 years early by overworking the internals of the body 😂. You ever see fat people live long? Always having health problems… bc it IS a health problem to be fat. 😂😂😂😂
@@OctopusH2O maybe to get like obese but if you dont excersize or dont have a physical job then gaining weight can happen regardless. Also some people(minority) have conditions that do make it hard to lose weight
If you eat mainly carbs then its easy to gain weight, thats why we should eat an animal based diet without using any seed/vegetable oil because thAts what causes the cholesterol to be bad, cholesterol itself is vital for the human body
@@OctopusH2O Im sorry to tell you this, but you are wrong, i dont care of you are the most active person ever, if you eat more calories than your body will use, then you WILL gain fat. It is a law of thermodynamics and cannot be argued. It is called a calories surplus, if it is excess calories that your body will not use for hat day, it will then be stored as fat. Even the highest active, fit person wont burn more than 4000 calories in one day. So if they eat 6000 calories everyday they will become fat and eventually obese if they continue to increase calories
Body positivity is one thing and ignoring unhealthy weight is another. Don’t mix the two. I hate that you say that you don’t care about loosing weight. P.S. you don’t need to leave your favourite food for loosing weight. I never went on any kind of diet and neither did I reduce my portions, just ate like I always did but I consistently worked out and ended up having an amazing body in 1 year. Everybody compliments me for loosing weight and I have never felt better.
she doesn't need validation from other people to feel better about herself lol as long as she's eating well (and it seems that she is) there's nothing wrong with how she's built. if you're trying to lose weight or change your body proportions just to receive compliments from other people you can't advise others to do the same lmao
@@nochoice994 I think it was you that missed the point? Fat people on the internet are seemingly the only people who are subjected to unsolicited medical advice. Unless you are HER doctor, its actually fully possible for you to keep your (likely uneducated) opinions to yourself.
That’s the part that got me as well. What she’s eating is actually not that bad tbf. She’s got a lot of stuff in there for a good balanced diet and even the snacks, she has a healthier way to eat them. And it looks super tasty! The thing that bothered me was the “doesn’t care about loosing weight”. It just kind of sucks sometimes seeing people not caring about things that can have a big impact on their life especially since other people will see it and might follow that “don’t care” mindset.
You don't care about loosing weight but you mention it in literally every video? Seems like you made this your personality? "I am a fat girl who doesn't care about loosing weight" FYI to all the people in comments, I am myself overweight, and on a journey to loose because I Couldn't do anything, pain in muscles, sugar levels high, diabetes, cholesterol anyway so I had to take charge but even when I wasn't doing anything to loose weight I didn't open my door and say "I am a fat person who doesn't wanna loose weight" Like okay I get it but this seems weird to me, my comment is exactly that, mine so whatever y'all had to say, y'all can bark anywhere else. I didn't hate on her, I just made a comment but people will always complain if the comment isn't slayy queen
I did approve of this mindset. You need to loose weight . It’s not healthy for u and ur spouse . Imagine if you faint or get injured or sick he will have a hard time taking care of you and carrying you ! This is a fact I have worked in rehab and healthcare before it’s not easy taking care of FAT people !! It will break ur back ! And takes time compared to taking care of skinny patient!
@@SureYoureRight he didn't. We just giving a comment. She came up to the internet with that, well people gonna give a comment, I guess.. that's why comment section exists
My brother-in-law's best friend just died 3 days ago from a heart attack due to his weight, he was 28. I am not here to give unwanted advice but I will say, I hope you see the Dr, your body is a temple, it does not need to be skinny, but instead worshiped and taken care of. Losing a young person so soon is absolutely heartbreaking and terrifying, and I hope she is taking vitamins and eating clean at least most of the time.
What the actual fuck? Do you even have any empathy for people, or you’re just a sociopath? Like, you know that if you’re genuinely concerned about her health, there are more polite and nice ways to say it, don’t need to be commenting on her videos like that. But I mean, if you wanna be a rude mf, whose happiness comes from tearing others down, by pretending to care about them, to overcompensate for you lack of self love, you do you babes!!!
I’m fat myself and whenever someone calls me fat I can’t do anything 🤷♀️ I was working out everyday and going on diets and everything was going well until I broke my foot😭 Now I’m on crutches and can’t work out but I’ll cut out food and make my diet healthier so I can still keep going on my weight loss journey :)
@@ajahneely3876 shes not a regular person, shes probsbly already taken off 5 years off her life and slowly destroying heir joints heart and blood vessles, could go blind sooner and every single health problem will be amplified. She needs help from professionals, im not a doctor yet so im not sure but I know there is people that can help her have a more enjoyable life and a longer one with less pain ...
@@Kairogue13 so she would be regular if she was skinny💀 I understand ur point but I are saying it in the wrong way + let's be honest here that comment was kinda mean don't come after me ik you have a point but again it's being sent the wrong way
Those are 2 completely different things alcohol makes a person dangerous being fat or heavier weight doesn't. The fact that you have nothing better to do but to comment on someone else's body is sad. Please seek help 🙏
@@uuui-956 You do know some people have legitimate health problems that make them gain weight or prevent them from losing it? I have been dealing with so many health problems that derived from genetics and one of them is my body makes me turn carbohydrates into fat instead of energy (I could have a nutritious salad, go for a long walk, and still gain weight from it). She may have an underlying health problem she is not comfortable with sharing online, don't accuse people over what they eat or what they don't online.
@@uuui-956 Yeah, but she doesn't eat only salad and I gain weight in different amounts depending on what I have eaten. Also some people had problems with their weight before they made videos and transition to eating better food.
@Q awrong, there are some conditions but most of the time it is because you are eating too much or (uncommonly) you are drinking to much liquids, so no she needs to stop eating like a cow, eat healthy less fatty food, and workout. She does neither and makes it clear she wants to stay morbidly obese.
@Q a she could still decrease the portions of food that she eats lmao. She could start exercising as well. I also highly doubt that she has an actual medical condition (other than being morbidly obese of course) because she's glorifying it on RU-vid shorts. Also, I work in the medical field. You wanted a doctor, and here I am
I went from 90+ kgs to 63kg this year (175cm) and I can guarantee that being fat(let alone obese) sucks! Now everything feels so light and nice, there's literally no better feeling than seeing your body improving day after day, not only physically but also in terms of health. We shouldnt bodyshame or discriminate fat and obese, but we shouldn't normalize fat and obese either. We'll all make it brahs 💪🔥🤫
@@verygenericusername8429 thanks man, just ask yourself, do you want to be fat for the rest of your lives? Are you content and happy with being fat? Do you want to die a fatso? Don't you want to try and see what your body looks like when its in prime and fit shape (spoiler: you'll look badass and feel super!) And don't you want to prove to those who have bodyshamed you that they are wrong? At least these are the things that motivated me and kept me going man, never give up bro!
I'm astonished by the quantity of nasty comments about your mental and physical health, as if being skinny was directly linked to health, and completely ignoring the joy you bring in this video. As a skinny person who has difficulties feeding themself because of executive dysfonction, it was really soothing to see you bring such positivity. Thank you for what you're doing ❤️
I've lost 72lbs and your video encourages me to workout. I feel way better after losing 72lbs. So any obese person that tells me they are happy being fat is 100% a lie because I've been there and experienced that.
Congrats on the weight loss, although I don’t think it’s anyones business to comment on the poster’s health. It is their decisions what they do with their life.
@@du131 actually is medically accurate, symptoms may be mild but eventually obese person will experience some of these: Obesity causes: hypertension, diabetes, heart failure, the inability to bend down, joint pain, fatigue, OSA, certain cancers, and more. If you want to find out more just read any medical book...and not the opinions of other, there are years of science that prove the consequences of obesity.
@@du131 lies. Understand that people want to hear what they like to hear but reality is that our bodies can only handle so much before it starts overworking and not functioning the way it’s meant to, whether too skinny or too big. But ofc ✨ body positivity ✨😵💫
She immediately said that she's a fat girl who knows she's fat and is not trying to lose weight. So I think she knows she's overweight I think that she provided that disclaimer. I simply enjoy watching the food she creates or eats and the fact that she seems really bubbly and happy and.
It is absolutely someone's choice what shape they're in im not disputing that. But to suggest that being overweight is fine because she knows she is is a bad message
@@killak9868 Less than her for medical reasons or you do you. No one is a hater people need to stop falling back on that. Some people agree some people won't that's just a debate, imagine a judge sentencing a criminal and the lawyer says "you're just a hater" it sounds moronic.
@@jordanw7110 u can’t compare the government system to a regular woman living HER life minding HER business . get out of here with that come back when you have some sense
Theres lots of people over the age of 50 who live long and are over 300 pounds, you stressin over 5 years of your life being cut for being over 300 pounds ?
I don't know why they try to justify their obesity and disease. Me being overweight and working to take care of myself so as not to have diabetes or comorbidities in a few years, I never justified myself with "society oppresses me". People, nothing prevents you from being healthy, and I'm not talking about being skinny, I'm talking about having good habits and an annual check-up.
Im surprised to see comments with common sense. Ive seen dumb comments like, the food looks healthy. Just like avocados and other fruits, if you eat more calories than you burn, you will gain weight. Some people don't burn the same amount of calories as other people. Metabolism does play a huge role but its not 100% everything. I dislike victim mentality.
Girl. You don’t want to be fat be fr. You just don’t want to stop eating y’all kill me with this. I’m overweight now after my baby and I’m fasting and working my ass off. You can too!
Sis it's not about losing weight, it's about taking care of your body and health! Try eating better PLEASE! I swear I'm not trying to be rude but I really care for your health. I used to be like this and ended up losing a lot of weight. By changing my eating habits I feel just as happy except my size is different.
Ppl are unbelievably rude...you all seriously need to get lives & leave her alone. None of you care about health you care about conventional standards of beauty, such entitled and judgemental ppl. Live your life girl, you don't need their validation ❤️
if people really didn’t care then they would tell her to keep going. people care because they’ve been through it and they know the damage it can do you your physical and mental health. if you are telling her she should keep doing this then you are encouraging her to hurt herself. this isn’t body positivity.
This comment section is so negative it makes me so sad as a fat person it takes a lot of courage to love yourself and accept yourself you always have family members on your back taunting you ... Personally I have been a little overweight for almost my life and I got to the point that i would not go on any vacation or even my cousins house Why can't people let others be happy and be content in their life If a person is skinny ..why are you so skinny eat some food .. and if they are fat why do you eat that much And who ever is commenting negativity plz mind your own business
Yesssss thank you. Even being an average to below average weight person I am so insecure about and bothered by people commenting about everyone else’s bodies bc it makes me think that when people see me in public the first thing that they will think about me is like “go eat a burger” or something.
Atleast some people are not spreading Hate they are just telling that its already being big size just be healthy body positive doesn't mean you neglect your health
"what I eat in a day as a fat person who doesn't appreciate her god given body and would rather live in gluttony while my appendages slowly rot away and my heart strains itself to maintain my unhealthy weight because it's easier to fake confidence than to actually sweat and put in the work"
Bitch let her live, she is gorgeous and flourishing in self acceptance and love. Some people don't wanna work out, and that is not yours to judge. You're just fuckin jealous you don't accept yourself, stop being insecure and hating on happy people.
