Hey friends, thanks for hanging out with me today 🫶🏼 I appreciate you more than you know for realll. I also just wanted to clarify a bit from my story time since I already got a few comments about this! I didn’t pursue the man forwardly with my question of “are you good in bed?” It was a counter to him asking to be friends with benefits and asking for my address to come over several times. I understand playing the advocate and trying to be nuanced like, “maybe he wanted a deeper connection and you were making it all s*xual” but no he was the one initiating the more intimate convo, I was still trying to get a feel for his vibe even though I was Open to the potential of that happening. A man only wanting to be my friend would be my best case scenario. I was not forcing myself onto him, but was feeding off of his energy and exact words. Also asked if he was in a relationship right when he called me and he said no, but he’s looking to be in a “friends with benefits” one with me if I wanted. So yea 🙈 I don’t think I’ll share any of these kinds of stories again because it seems like a sensitive topic. And I wasn’t trying to put him down. Totally fine if he wasn’t interested in me, but just confusing to switch the script up the moment I’m feeding into it Ah sorry for the essay but I just like to keep everything crystal clear with ya’ll❤️ and I decided to edit that story out of the video so it won’t be there in a few hours xoxoxo!
Glad I caught the story time..but understand some may get defensive. It brought you some clarity..that is what matters most. Much love from an older Auntie who watches. ❤❤
I just love when man just act straight up like the worst version of themselves so you can't have any second guess about them, and you're just like, «nope, ofcourse nope, next»
ALSO, THE VIDEO WITH YOUR DAD WAS SO SWEEET AND AUTHENTIC, IT MADE ME TEAR SO MUCH. HIS VOICE IS PERFECT FOR DOCUMENTARIES, I HOPE YOU IMPLIMENT THAT MORE
I think eating things just because you enjoy them is also a reason to eat something too! Even if there’s not much “nutritional value”. Obviously food it fuel and we should be nourishing our bodies, and I also think food can fuel our overall wellbeing by eating things bc they taste good and bring us happiness :) Just another perspective (that nobody asked for) that feels more liberating and holistic to me
Good to keep in mind the cruelty of the dairy/animal industry. I personally can only enjoy foods (healthy or not) fully if I know nobody has been hurt in the making of them. It's not just us and our fleeting pleasures we need to consider.
omg i loved your love life update/story time it literally felt like we were on ft w eachother. i was literally like nodding and responding to you lmao😭 love you hitomi and your vids so much!! you’re truly such an inspiring and talented girl😗🫶
I would love to see an in depth video on your gut health recovery. So many of us are struggling with the same thing... Amazing content, as always... Thanks for sharing ❤
Aweee I love watching your videos because I feel connected with your energy, it inspired me to continue to be vulnerable and honest and share my truth and spirituality too! Your videos are so warm and creative, and they really touch me to want to create more too! And omg I have been crying so much recently too but I am so grateful to feel this deeply because I remember when I couldn’t cry at all. When you mentioned being a nun that surprised me! It reminded me of when I was little and I told everyone I wanted to be a nun because I wanted to be close with God. It makes my inner child feel so safe and happy to know that I’m working towards embodying the love I know is true. I love you and thank you for being such a kind and honest reflection 🫶 your vulnerability makes my heart feel safe and I hope I can inspire that within others too ❤️
Hey Hitomi. So sorry to hear about your experience with that dude. I highly doubt he actually forgot you (unless he was just super drunk or something)… he was probably trying to neg you. Sounds like a horrible experience. You’re very brave to share and talk about this kind of stuff, and I’m sure unfortunately a lot of people can relate.
I feel like some men are on the more sensitive side... seeing how he saw a woman crying and asked her deep questions and connected in-person like that. Then went on to talk more deeply on the phone, maybe he was caught off guard by the sudden switch to something like a ONS and didn't know how to react. I know many girls have had the same reaction to guys doing that, they feel a bit tricked and shut it down. I wouldn't say it was anything against you, just coming from different places. But I suppose one never knows the whole story. Also these meals are so inspiring thanks for sharing😊
I completely understand what you mean and can imagine that for some people that would be to straightforward. Buuut his reaction like "you're not my type anyway" and also not recognizing her and telling her that she is forgettable shows that he wanted her to feel insecure because he is. This exchange checks all the boxes of a "nice guy" who is a huge red flag
He asked to be friends with benefits within the first few minutes on the phone and I only asked if he was good in bed after he asked to spend the night and for me to send my address 😭 I fullly know men are sensitive on the inside and would not project that energy into a situation out of left field. I think I have to edit this story out of my video since so many people are taking it the wrong way. I guess I should have said he asked to come over several times in our 15 minute convo and I didn’t feed into it at all until the end and that’s when the convo ended ❤️❤️❤️ I understand where you’re coming from in trying to inform on the male experience and appreciate this convo because it doesn’t happen enough. And men feel even more shame to open up when they feel invaded in anyway 🥲🙏🏽 in this case he was forward with wanting to spend the night with me but then changed his vibe when I started acting into it
@@HitomiMochizuki222 I was imagining this wouldn't have come out of left field, especially having watched your videos for so long- I should've phrased my comment with the "we don't know the whole story" in the beginning of it, as it's the most important. I mainly wanted to send a comforting thought that maybe he was just hurting rather than those things he said having any real authority over how you feel, because his words seemed to indicate an inner conflict. Don't love that you were vulnerable back to his openness and he shut you down in that way. 😔 Thank you for being a good example to women trying to figure out life❤
Also I love your thoughts about love being more that romantic love, I know it can feel lonely and hard sometimes, specially when that's all we've been feed all our lives (the "relationship" bs) but just want to drop the support to all of you an d to you specially sis, cause its so inspiring to see other examples of loving more freely, with care in our own energy, and really feeling happy with the time we spend with ourselves.
I love seeing you a little bit more yourself with us like you talked about in a previous video! You are just getting cuter 🥰 Also, he DID not deserve you, I'm happy that he revealed his true self to you before you two met up. Men 🙄
Thank you for receiving me!!! Lol I know the fullest version of myself including the quirkiness, sarcasm, and characters might be off putting for some people heh understandable but it feels so good to share all my dimensions
i just wanted to say I really loved the cinematography of the video with your dad, it was just really beautiful and I could tell how much love and effort you put into your time with him and the video to share with us. you've always had an eye for videography but it just really shined in that video with the editing and I hope to see more of that if it's bringing you joy!!!
Loved catching a glimpse into your adventures here in my home country. These past few videos had such an intriguing mixture of vibes to them - adventurous yet calm. 💫
Are you crazy?! I love what you’re eating! My mouth is watering for your very dish. That’s the best food ever! I always enjoy your beautiful videos. Your do darn talented.
I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THE WORLD BUT LATELY EVERY MEN INTERACTION HAS BEEN SUCH SHIITTY,, ESPECIALLY ON SOCIAL MEDIA.. THEYRE TRULY BECOMING SUCH WOMEN HATERS.. SORRY BOUT THE CAPS, NOT SCREAMIN., BUT FUCKKK HIM.. GOOD RIDDANCE,,ALSO HAHAHHA BOUT THAT NUN LIFE, SAME GIRL, SAME!!! SO READY SINGLE LIFE IS THE LIFE FOR ME
oh my gosh girl i have had the worst time this summer with casualships just because of their lack of communication and mutual respect for my sexual reproductive health. And that man was very odd but alot of the men out here are nowadays. Protect yourself always!
I am feeling so emotional watching your video (maybe it's because I'm on my period and it hurts a lot 🥲) ❤ They are always so comforting and a safe place ❤ P.s : You mean so much to us too 🧚♀️❤
i really love the ways youve been filming lately, i feel like it adds to the atmosphere of your videos. i cant wait to see all the other projects and videos you have upcoming!!
One who eat one meal a day - YOGHI (meditator) One who eat two meals a day - BHOGI (food enjoyer) One who eat three meals a day - ROGI (sick person) Which of the following are you?
Tbh honest when I was single I would enjoy the flirting more than the action itself so maybe it was his case as well. Or he just wasn’t really that good in bed 😂
Sometimes while you think it was a vibe, other people may see an opportunity and not in a good way. Be careful, not everyone wears their true colors on the outside.💋💋💋
Over the years so many people have called me “woo woo” along with a bunch of other things because I open certain types of conversations, so I was picking fun at that 😂🫶🏼
Hi Hitomi, I would love to learn more about your gut health journey and how you incorporated small amounts of animal products into your life to help your gut. After ten years whole food plant based I have been having gut and skin issues and I would appreciate any advice from you lovely 🥰
Hi bestie! Since you mentioned awareness of brands etc just wanted to flag that there's a typo in the title- an accidental "s" on the end of make. Not that it matters just thought i would mention it since i get so annoyed when I miss my own typos on stuff! Sending all the love!
